Monday, June 27

Ahhh these men!

Why are men so insensitive? He wants you, needs you, loves you, longs for you but that's only when he wants to cuddle up with you...post-cuddle, you don't exist in his life. Then all he ever does is watch cricket or footy or work on his project, until he feels like cuddling up again...but you can only think of him and nothing else. You are thinking of him 24/7 but he thinks of other things. This always bothered me...men need to be more emotional....they need to work on that. If women have come forth as strong and independant personalities over the years, then why cant men work on the 'emotional' element?

16 Cranium Signets:

Keshi said...

lollz Jan u got me totally wrong honey :) When I said guys need to work on the emotional element, I didnt mean that they should practically turn gay lol! What I mean is that guys need to understand women's need to be loved and thought of too...most guys don't. And when I said that the a girl thinks about him 24/7 I didnt mean they think about any man...lolll! I meant most girls always, I mean 'always' think about their partner...most men think about sex 24/7 but not about their partners as in a caring and loving way...for example ringing up his girl to see how she's going, not forgetting her bday and her mum's bday, making sure she looks after herself, telling her how much he misses her, being there for her when she really needs him and not during bedtime only etc - that's what I meant :)

Jann u have perhaps known only caring men...there r some men who r not this way...they care only when the need arises and that's not healthy for a relationship.

Keshi.

Jim said...

FUCKING SHEET Gomey!

who the fuck is going to make 2 clicks on his mouse to see yr ugly mug ?!

get real man !

Jim said...

.... grandpa adjusts his spectacles on his long nose (i wish my deek was as beeg) and looks again


is dat really Janice ?

the dumbass has metamorphosed into a real smart ass

Stud said...

Babesterness,

Why are you telling our bedroom stories on a international broadcast? You and me will still be together by the end of the day and all these people with comments will appear to be fools again :)

Tanvi said...

lol..im not even gonna say nethin bout that..

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Keshi,

I dunno...u're a lot more experienced ;)..but i wud like to differ!

As far as my experience goes...men definitely have an 'emotional' element, though nt as much as w e gals do...but then tht's wht distinguishes us frm 'em . Tiz jst tht we gals show it...but they keep it hidden...coz o the stupid belief that 'Men dont cry' nd they're supposed 2 be bold n strong at all times, they're alwez taken for granted, arent they? A guy who loves u not only thinks abt u bt feels u next to himself...every day...every hour...every moment!!

I hv come to this conclusion after pondering abt it a lot...nd finally ended up discussing with a few close guy frnds and my 'ahem ahem'!

I jst wrote ma heart out...u myt find it kiddish...but then am free to express ma views...ryt??

So have fun babezz...nd try to think o the positive side as well...if men become emotional...i mean 'more' emotional...u wont hv nething to crib abt in life...:P. loll...nd gals just cant do without it!!loll

Cheers,
Anna

Keshi said...

my my I see rotten tomatoes and eggs coming my way from some boys lollz!

Gomess ok so ur telling me ur an emotional guy who gives his best to the well-deserved gal? So yeah have u found her? :) :) I havent written off any damaged guys lol - in fact most of the guys I dated were real nice, emotional and sweet too...just that I didnt have a choice but to break up for reasons that cannot be publicised :) Keshi's dark dark side lol!

Sure it is Creepster :) But sometimes guys dont express their feelings well-enough and that's not a good thing...they got to do that often, that's what I mean by this post. I am yet to date a guy who says 'I love u' often without me having to ask him 'do u love me' lol!

yep I agree Misty, they do exist. But majority of the guys r not emotional...and I know I cant do much about it lollz!

hahaha stud ok let me keep our escapades to myself :) hugggz!

FM haha! Imagine a bitchy guy...that reminded me of ITCC hmmm :) so yeah there r some guys who r bitchy but not really emotional lol!

thanks Pithaly for the long but interesting sexology lecture :) and thanks for the bday wishes...no I aint getting hitched that easily, Saby is just paranoid lol!

haha Tanvi yep better to keep silent on this one ha :)

Anna thanks that was a well-thought comment. Yep guys dun liek to flaunt it although they can be really sensitive...I had a BF who cried when we broke up, he was holding back his tears but they started rolling down his cheeks...he still tried his best to keep his face unaffected...that was so touching...

Thanks all!
Keshi.

Tanvi said...

keshi..i kinda agree wit u on this one..i mean im sure guyz have the emotional sidez to them..but they dun express it as much..which leaves us girlz feeling that they dun love us..they juz need to open up a bit and let us noe how they feel...
n not only guyz..i admit im like that too..i cant express my feelingz well..and i hate that....i mean..a person could mean the world to me but itz hard for me to express it..lol
newayz!

Keshi said...

Tanvi I think u express well when ur ready to do so. If not ur quiet. Which is good because u dun go over the top like I do lol! And I always end up crying...I think ur emotionally smart wheras Im an emotional fruit cake :)

Guys do need to express better...that's exactly what I meant by this post. Thanks!

Keshi.

Unknown said...

Hahahaha...
Like someone said..Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.

Ar Ar Ar Arrrrr said...

Lady, you know what, get your hands on Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus You will come to understand the mentality of MEN.

If you are en e-book reader, lemme know I will happy to forward a copy to you...so that you stop making comments on MEN.

Greetz!!

Keshi said...

hehe thanks Kripa!

yep seen that book Arz000n but neva read it...tell me abt men then :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Can someone be kind enough to translate Ram's comment above, thanks! :) :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hahaha creepster Ive seen something similar...it was about how a girl and a boy each wrote about how they spent their day...the girl wrote about one page of things she did that day from shopping to cleaning and then cuddling with her boyfriend and then making love passionately..she described every bit of it so beautifully and in full detail. Whereas the guy wrote only one line...he wrote:
~~I had some office work to finish today but then I got to have sex at the end of the day - woohoo!~~

Pithaly can u explain things in a language I can understand...that's English actually. Thanks!

Keshi.

Dewdrop said...

Instead of commenting something on the topic, I rather enjopyed the comic strip going on here..hehe

Keshi said...

hehe dewdy good on ya!

Keshi.