Tuesday, January 22

In Love Again

Sometimes Love just happens. It doesn't have to last a lifetime or lead to marriage. It just happens, and even if it's just for a second, or for few minutes or few days, it's just beautiful. The feeling you get when you're in Love is magical beyond words. Alot of people fail to see that, cos they think Love should last forever. Not necessarily. Love doesn't come with a warranty period. It doesn't have to. Love is a feeling that just sprouts when you meet that person, and it cannot be chained or told to act in a certain way. It cannot be forced upon another either. It refuses to be controlled. It just happens. And one fine day it can just cease to exist too, like how it just happened. It's a feeling that refuses to be manipulated. And it doesn't come with a given expiry date. Some people put constraints around it and make it something else that don't really exist. Love is a feeling with a mind of it's own. You know when you're in love so it's best to fully feel it than to shun it in the fear of not getting to keep it forever. Just bask in it's glory as it happens...cos nothing lasts forever anyways. When you're really in love nothing else matters, not even how long it's gonna last. It just takes you over and breaks all the rules. When love happens, you know it so well cos your heart beats faster when he (/she) walks by, you look forward to seeing him(/her) everyday, your mind is full of him(/her)-thoughts, you think of him(/her) as the father(/mother) of your children whether it happens or not (that's Keshi-style love btw hehehe), you easily overlook all the little flaws he(/she) may have, he(/she) secretly crawls into your mind and takes up all the space and he(/she) just takes your breath away. And this may only last for a little while - but it still is LOVE, cos I just know ;-). Sometimes Love just happens. And it doesn't have to last a lifetime or lead to marriage.


~~Through the hourglass I saw you, in time you slipped away...
When the mirror crashed I called you, and turned to hear you say
If only for today I am unafraid...


Current Music: Take My Breath Away by Berlin

137 Cranium Signets:

Jim said...

indians work 24x7
we worship Lakshmi

we are stealing their jobs
we work more for less

Jim said...

Sometimes Love just happens. It doesn't have to last a lifetime or lead to marriage. It just happens, and even if it's just for a second, or for few minutes or few days, it's just beautiful.

I agree
man/woman is not monogamous

KAYLEE said...

LOVE IT!!!!!! I am happy that you finally wrote a happy post :) HOW are you? I am doing great :) No crying today :P

krystyna said...

To Jim...
Men /women are dogs?

I'm going to read your post, Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

//Guys guess wut, that cuz of mine isnt talking to me anymore :( Just cos I told her not to complain abt helping him and not to help if she dun wanna...

wut a weird world this is!


Keshi.//

I just read that from your last post! That is awful what is with some people in this world?

Jay said...

Yeah, sometimes love does just happen. Even if you try really hard to stop it.

Jim said...

Oooh oooh take it take it all away
Oooh ooh take my breath away
Oooh ooh yoooo take my breath away

Look into my eyes and youll see
Im the only one
Youve captured my love stolen my heart
Changed my life

Every time you make a move you destroy my mind
And the way you touch
I lose control and shiver deep inside

You take my breath away
You can reduce me to tears with a single sigh
Evry breath that you take
Any sound that you make is a whisper in my ear

I could give up all my life for just one kiss
I would surely die if you dismiss me from your love

You take my breath away
So please dont go
Dont leave me here all by myself
I get ever so lonely from time to time
I will find you anywhere you go

Ill be right behind you
Right until the ends of the earth
Ill get no sleep until I find you
To tell you that you just take my breath away

I will find you anywhere you go
Right until the ends of the earth
Ill get no sleep until I find you
To tell you when Ive found you

I love you
Take my breath
take my breath ... away

Jim said...

Dogs and other animals are God's purest creatures

they go by God given instict Krys

Man lost his animal instinct after civilization happened

Anonymous said...

hey with whom ? and how ? when ? what ?

Sig said...

ahhh isn't that the truth Keshi - it's the most glorious feeling, the one thing that has the power to make things right in this world...

Enjoy it when you get it - hold onto it :)

Anonymous said...

Is what you describe Keshi love or infatuation? I don't think love as you describe can possibly last very long.

krystyna said...

"Sometimes Love just happens. It doesn't have to last a lifetime or lead to marriage. It just happens, and even if it's just for a second, or for few minutes or few days, it's just beautiful".
I agree that sometimes...just happens...but in my opinion it was not real love. I am the one who think that Love should last forever.
A Feeling and Love is not the same.
A Feeling is as a wether, changeable. Love is a feeling too but with responsibility.
Sorry, Keshi, I have a different opinion in this issue. But I'll be thinking about what you mean. I'm little bit tired today.
Thanks for wonderful, provocative to reflection post.

Best to you!

Margie said...

Nothing in the world like Love!
When it happens it's to be cherished!

Lovely post!
Thank you!

luv ya!
HUGGGGGGZ!

Margie

Anonymous said...

Keshi... love it or love it! :$

Jim said...

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/1363813.cms
, ,
snow in delhi
, ,

Keshi said...

Jim tnxx!

Now wut does this post hv to do with India and Goddess Laxmi?


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ty Kaylz!

Im doing great...in love n all ;-)


Abt my cuz..I think she'll come bak to me after a few days. LOL I know she cant be w.o. me.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Krys MWAH!


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true Jay :)




Keshi.

Jim said...

LOVE is a trick nature (God) plays on man and woman

to procreate and multiply

Keshi said...

Hi again Jim!

like the lyrics BUT,

**I would surely die if you dismiss me from your love

dun die cos of one LOVE....thats silly :) Cos u can always fall in love again.



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hey Ashu!


**with whom ?

with a guy ;-) (not that Im bisexual LOL!)


**and how ?

just like that...


**when ?

all of a sudden...


**what ?

LOL wut d u mean wut?



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Silvara tnxx hun!

**the one thing that has the power to make things right in this world...

thats so true!

however I wont try to hold on to it...cos every time I did that, it just slipped from my hands. I'll just enjoy the feeling for now ;-) tnxx n HUGGGGGGGGGZ!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Andrew!


**Is what you describe Keshi love or infatuation?

Im sure its love...or else I'd hv felt this with alot of other ppl too, which I didnt.


**I don't think love as you describe can possibly last very long.

how d u mean?



Keshi.

Jim said...

increase and multiply and fill the earth

- God (old testament)


but man smarter
he invented contraception

Southpaw unplugged said...

Good to see some thoughts changing here...As far as i m concerned i m cerainly not monogamous...

Keshi said...

hey Krys tnxx for being so honest! Its ok, we can hv different opinions and that doesnt have to make u apologise for it, ok? :) HUGGGGGGGGGZ!


**A Feeling and Love is not the same. A Feeling is as a wether, changeable. Love is a feeling too but with responsibility.

but doesnt that 'responsibility' bit get added by us? I know, Love is responsible, but it isnt conditional. I think thats what I meant by this post :)

Abt it lasting forever, I feel that's also a condition we put on Love. I mean take this example..I had a BF...we were together for few years. we were so in love. now we hv broken up (things didnt work out for some reason). But that doesnt mean that Love didnt exist before, right?


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So true Margie, tnxx n HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

Dija get my pressie in the post? :) I dreamt of u last nite, opening it and all hehehehe...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx hun @Zhu! :)



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hey Jim is it the first time it snowed in Delhi? WOW!


**but man smarter
he invented contraception

I agree. Its just like how Man put Committment ard Love. I know that there's a difference between Love n Lust, but love can exist w.o. committment too.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Southy! :)

**...As far as i m concerned i m cerainly not monogamous

tnxx for being so honest! I think alot of us arent monogamous, but certain belief systems in the society, make us all programmed robots, even when it comes to Love.



Keshi.

Margie said...

Oh my goodness!
I think I missed the best part!

Keshi is in LOVE!
I'm so happy for you, hun!

Oh, nothing in the mail yet!
No mail today though...MLK national holiday.
I'll let u know soon as I get it, hun....thank you!

MWAH!
Margie

Southpaw unplugged said...

I know and thats how the mayhem begins...

Margie said...
This comment has been removed by the author.
Keshi said...

hell Im Margie LOL! ;-) but u know, it cud just end in a coupla days cos I get bored easily...Im like that :(


oh ok, let me know if u like it (when u get my pressie). o I cant wait! :)


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Southy thats right...



Keshi.

Margie said...

Keshi
When did you mail it?
Sometimes the mail is soooo slow!
I can't wait, either!!!!
I'm like a little kid in a candy store when it comes to getting pressies!!!

Margie:)

Keshi said...

awww how sweet! Im the kid in a Candy store too...always btw LOL!

I posted uit last Monday...so it's been 6 working days already. I hope u get it tmrw :) but I dunno if u like em...



Keshi.

Margie said...

Hehehe!
You too! just like me...the kid in the candy store! Lol!
Maybe tmrw it will came then.
Now, you got me guessing as to what it is....
** I dunno if u like em **
Whatever it is...I'm just sure I'll luv it....(em)
I'll be guessing all nite now....I'm just like that!LOl!

Well, my hubby wants me to watch TV with him....Bll Mahr is on..he's so funny!

Nitey nite, hun!

Margie

Keshi said...

LOL Margie sleep well...dun overthink abt wut it is..haha ur cute!

**Bill Maher

I know him :) My fav American talk-show host is David Letterman. Love him to bits.

Enjoy watching tellie with ur hubby sweetie. Catch ya tmrw MWAH!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

And Margie, in the meantime, I'll watch tellie in my head with this guy ;-) LOL!


See ya!


Keshi.

Shiv said...

very very true...u stole the words from my heart...btw how have u been??

Margie said...

I watch David Letterman every nite!
Just luv him to bits too!

**And, Margie, in the meantime I'll watch tellie in my head with this guy.** Lol..U r funny!

Now, I really gotta go...my hubby is calling me!

Catch u tmrw then!
MWAH!

Margie

WithinWithout said...

I think you're quite right, but our culture(s) don't want us to believe that love comes and goes.

Well, spill it then about your new love...or has it ended already?

Tanvi said...

Remember me, Kesh? Wow, its been a while eh? How have you been?

Keshi said...

hey Shiv I've been very well ta and urself?


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hehe Margie lolz! Enjoy hun!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

WW thats so true...we dun like to believe it can end.


**Well, spill it then about your new love...or has it ended already?

LOL! U know my last love...rem Mr.Darcy and how it all ended in 7 days. U rem that na :):) thats why u asked that qn LOL!


U neva know WW...my love-life is a sad horror story so u never know when it'll all end haha!


tnxx ;-)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

OMG Tanviiiiiiiiiiiiii! Wut on Earth makes u think I'd forget ya so easily?? HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ! HOW HV YA BEEN? All's well I hope. I MISSED YA hun!

Im still here as u can see :) Im so glad u dropped by...I used to think where u mite be...tell me, wussup with ya these days sweetie?



Keshi.

desperado said...

hope you stay long enough to have babies ;)
stay sweet n smiling dear
hugs

Tanvi said...

Haha,heeey girl. I've been great, keeping myself busy with doing absolutely nothing. I have freaking exams in a couple of days and I remembered you for some reason, lolz. Maybe because my birthday just passed and I remembered your old blog like 2 years ago. It's been so damn long. I totally forgot what my password was, haha. Its good to see you still blogging. =)

WithinWithout said...

Wait, duh...you mean you and him are back together again?

AVIANA said...

aaaawww keshi!

you're in love! wow...i'm jealous...
and happy for you....wow..

oh i wanna see the guy who has taken keshi's mind and heart over...

i want my love to come..i have my eye on him...i pray about him...i know which i want but it's not coming my way...as of yet...

oh i'm happy for you....

now make sure your tetas are always well powdered and perky....


muah!

i'll post tomorrow

Keshi said...

aww ty Dhruv HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!


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Tanvi HAPPY BELATED BDAY wishes for the 18th of Jan! I rem ofcourse :) So wut did u do this time on ur bday?


There was a case abt a Muslim girl who was murdered by her father (Aqza) in ur area. I was thinking abt u then...did u hear abt it too?

d u still keep in touch with all the IT crowd? :)

Good luck with ur exams hun!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

lolllllllz WW u crack me up! nooooooooo I aint with that dumbo again...rem he's the JERK of the Century. :) I was only reminding u how quick it all ended last time I was in love...hehehe...


Keshi.

Tanvi said...

Thanks, very mucho. =) I didn't do much, waiting for exams to freaking leave my life, then the partying gets started.

Haha, I actually went back to January 2006 and read it, so many memories.

PS: I used to talk SO weird.

Romeo Morningwood said...

Word Up Keshiroo.

"We don’t have the time
For psychological romance
No romance
No romance
No romance for me mama
Come on baby tell me what’s the word.
Ah – word up,
Everybody say when you hear the call
You got to get it underway."

Keshi said...

aww Lisa tnxx! but dun be J...cos Im in Love alot of the time LOL! Besides, tho I hv already dreamt of the wedding, the dress and the babies, even he doesnt know it yet I think...LOL! besides I may never show it..thats me.

:)


HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!
Keshi.

Globescoper said...

Hi Keshi

A nice post and a great song!

Love is nice, but we must remember it's a 4-letter word. So is 'fire'.

Fire is like love. It can keep us warm, light up our life, blind us, choke us, burn us, kill us, and like love sometimes we get ourselves caught in a smoke-filled room, not knowing how to escape, but somehow we find a way out, and when we do, that breath of fresh air is the best thing that has ever happened to us.

LOL

I need some sleep.

Bev

Tanvi said...

Oh shoot, missed the last part. Yeah, I heard about her, she actually used to live 10 minutes away from me and a couple of my friends knew her. It was pretty disgusting. And no I've barely talked to anyone from IT in a long time. It's been AGES. Do they still blog?

Keshi said...

hey Tanvi thats so sad...abt that girl. I even blogged abt it.

IT crowd...hmm yeah some ppl still blog :)


**I used to talk SO weird.

lol cmon...u never talked weird...u r always SWEET!


There used to be a time when my life was buried by exams...now Im as free as a bird up in the sky :) It'll come to u too Tanvi.

HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!


Keshi.

WithinWithout said...

OK...now THAT makes sense! But then why did you title your post, "In Love Again?"

Slinks away, muttering more "duh's"

Keshi said...

HE Im clueless...lol I must be blondi boo :(


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Bev u ok? LOL!

yes I agree...but I mite as well be throttled by love instead of work haha!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey WW!

**But then why did you title your post, "In Love Again?"

cos ppl can fall in Love again n again hehe. Makes sense now? :)


Keshi.

Tanvi said...

Yeah, it was pretty malicious. Oh you did? Link me to it, please! Oh yay, tell people I say hi. And I'm going to go now, but I'll keep visiting! Have a great week ahead. <3

Keshi said...

ok Tanvi, tnxx n TC MWAH!

here's the link to that post:

http://keshigirl.blogspot.com/2007/12/its-in-your-deeds.html#comments


see u next time! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ok Tanvi, tnxx n TC MWAH!

here's the link to that post:

http://keshigirl.blogspot.com/2007/12/its-in-your-deeds.html#comments


see u next time! :)

Keshi.

La vida Loca said...

That's right!!
Take my breath away is one of my faves!

maverick said...

lol...well i dont knw how many times i have fallen in love like this..lol....mite be that i may fall in love with u too one fine day :D...ha ha ha..replied to ur comment on my blog :)

Keshi said...

tnxx LaVida!


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LOL Mav ur right...I think it's already over :):) Im serious..cos something just happened. I'll tell u later.

wut...u in luuuurve with me? awwwwwwwwwww...HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ! I love ya too...man Im madly in love with multiple men LOL! Im a serial lover!


Keshi.

radiohead said...

quite true .. sometimes it just happens .. well I don't know forsure if its love or nething .. bt ya at certain moments u do feel like it ..feel like being wid d individual .. thts mostly fr me ..

n its grt yeah .. not tht it does ne harm .. hehe :P
so .. keshi's in love ..grt ..

Keshi said...

Anuj I was in love...


Keshi.

maverick said...

@keshi...lol..abt the serial lover...we all are serial lovers..dont worry :)

Keshi said...

aww tnxx Mav for the link ;-) Will check it out tonite and catch up with ya :)

See ya!

Keshi.

Pri said...

heyy keshi..this post surely got me smiling...
i agree...sometimes love just happens...u all in love and all those criteria u have for ur mr right are just tossed aside while u go right ahead and fall in love :)
its weird...dosent make much sense...but yet we are more in love with the idea of being in love :)

Preeti Shenoy said...

Loved this post!!
Its so true! love lasts forever and ever and ever--only sometimes, the partner changes!

tqmcintl said...

TANVIeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee









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tqmcintl said...

Oh Lord
Keshi is in Love




i failed to note that too


Heyyyyy TANVI
Keshi is in love


she loves Margie
sheeesshhh

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

how nice and true :)

Lena said...

“Eventually you'll meet someone right for you. And whether you share a minute, a month, or a lifetime with them is uncertain. But the fact that you found that person, even if for a moment, means more than the lifespan life allows you to have with them” - thats what i have come across some days ago and it matches your post just perfectly :)

this is so much true!

Sam said...

Love...
well.. should I really be talking about it?? i mean you've been around my bloga lot.. and I guess you already know what I think of it!! :)

Tys on Ice said...

i think love is a lil too overrated in todays world...it has been restricted, suffocated, contained, labeled and sung to death...

love shud be free, spontaneous, passionate, and I guess fleeting...

with u on this :)

AVIANA said...

oh i just read your last post...i wish i read it before...

i have those questions too...

you are brave..being compassionate is very difficult

i won't comment more about it since you moved on...but i loved your post...

Alok said...

I am so happy for u Keshi ... but get over that insecurity ...feel beautiful the way you are feeling now .... never bother abt tom ... who knows whats there in store ... so r u going out tonight :)


Alok

The Phosgene Kid said...

In the words of Tina Tuner, "What's love got to do with it?" Of course Ike was beating the living daylights out of her at the time.

Great post Keshi!!

Sneha P said...

hey....awesome...
happy for u...

and yea...ppl do tend to overlook the beauty of the emotion while it lasts....

FH said...

True!! It doesn't have to end up in marriage always, very few of us realize that. Enjoy the feeling!:)
(I posted that last week and I have been coming here since then to say hi to you except weekends.I am choosing very few blogs to visit, not 60+ everyday anymore!:D)

Vikas ( Vicky) said...

agreed.......

ppl say REAl LOVE, is thr something called as FALSE LOVE.

love is simply love.... why ppl become so rational/classified when it comes to love/relationship. Thr are many notebooks waiting for u to to do long n long calculations..just use yor mind over thr.

Jeevan said...

It was beautiful even telling the word love. Though it not last more and only for few seconds the real love will last forever through some way.

Anonymous said...

As usual you have great insight and great enthusiasm...

Judge Arse said...

The olde Arse is a little more cynical on the whole romantic love subject, having been burned many a time. Often people confuse infatuation with love. The older I get the less I need the infatuating kind of love. The love of family and friends and a best friend who also happens to have become a forever love--for me those kinds of love are the best. The other kind is intoxicating--but we all know that intoxication usually leads to hangovers! ;-)

Shionge said...

And we all want to know when 'it happens' for your Keshi Sweetie :D

All the best..I think soon right ;)

Tarun said...

People blog all sorts of things.
I am contemplating who blogs more consistently, me on cricket or u on love.

I dont want to see heart ached blog post soon ....
Sorry to say that.

puhleaseeeeeeee

toby said...

I was going to comment on the powerful effect of those southern stars down there because there seems a lot of love going round Aussi/NZ blogland.....

.....then you wrote "was in love"!

"WAS"!!! WTF! Now I dunno what the hell to say. He wasn't right for you, chin up, keep smiling, plenty more fish in the sea, men are like buses - you wait ages for one then loads come along..... :)

Jennifer A. said...

Yeah, sometimes love just happens...but we have to still tread with caution. Sometimes, it's really not love. To love someone is to feel like sacrificing everything u have just for that person's needs.

Sometimes its not love but lust/like.

Solitaire said...

I want love to happen to me.
Your post reminds me of "Eleven Minutes". Have you read the book?

Phoenix said...

Love-ly.

Priya said...

U shud start singing Ooo la la... Love can happen anytime to anyone:)

Nachi said...

ok this one is going to be a double comment, for this post and the previous one as well...

first the past...im sorry that you had to cry, but glad the the tears shed carried such weight with them. people think about life and relationships terms of 'give and take'. there has to be a 50/50 ratio between the two. if things are not so then, "sorry mate!" *sigh* that's a sad thought. life is never as such. sometimes all you need to do is give. give unconditionally. give without wanting anything in return. without having any expectations. cause at other times we receive with the same fervor...and for that we never question!

now the current...being in love is the best thing to do. it puts a spring to your step and gives you a reason to wake up in the mornings with hope and a smile. attaining love is not always possible, but then, the best part of love is the hope of love itself. what it can mean to you, just to be with the other person, even if in reality you end up being on the wrong side of the street that day and the day after. there's always tomorrow to look forward to!! :)

MommyHeadache said...

Well said Keshi, one should not expect being in love to lead to commitment and forever.

Also, I have not always found being in love to be so heavenly, often it is up and down, torture a lot of the time, when you are away from him...although maybe that wasn't so much love as obsession?

Cinderella said...

Girl i wish you all the luck in the world and wish your happpiness from the bottom of my heart.

*muuahhh*

And btw girl, my laptop's playin'

"My heart goes sha la la la..."

......he he !!!

gP said...

as you cross into the territory of happiness, joy and passion, dreamy days, sleepless nights, warm snow, cold sunlights and lips of ice, eyes of angles...as you cross the valley of love, you find yourself. :)

lee said...

Ah, love -the sweetest -and yet most painful-thing ever.And the interesting thing about it is that we can actually have that feeling toward a person and they can be none the wiser -it can be our own secret.

keshi - i have written it on my blog, but in case you don't get there for a while my new place is:

www.daggymusic.com

Keshi said...

Pri tnxx hun!

**all those criteria u have for ur mr right are just tossed aside while u go right ahead and fall in love

so true...it's like none of that matters anymore...AND THAT IS REAL LOVE.


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hey PS!


**only sometimes, the partner changes!

yep :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

TQM u ok? LOL!


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aww tnxx Cheesy!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hey Lena :)

**But the fact that you found that person, even if for a moment, means more than the lifespan life allows you to have with them

SPOT ON! that's what I mean. Some ppl wait forever to experience a LOVE that they hv designed. But LOVE just happens and they fail to notice LOVE for LOVE...all cos of their 'expectations' of it.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Sam yes I know ur one hell of a lover ;-)


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hey Tys!


**love shud be free, spontaneous, passionate, and I guess fleeting

so beautifully put! LOVED IT.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Lisa MWAH!


**you are brave..being compassionate is very difficult

its difficult to be compassionate (if it's not in u naturally), I agree. Cos it's so much more easier to be mean.

:)

tnxx hun!


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hey Alok tnxx mate!

No I didnt go out last nite...it's all messed up...will soon tell u the story.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Phos :)

btw I love that song by Tina Turner.


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ty Vitruvian!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

oh ok Asha :) n tnxx!

yes even i cant visit 200+ blogs every day...too much work here too. So now I hv limited my blog-surfing time too.


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hey Vicky WC!


**why ppl become so rational/classified when it comes to love/relationship.

true! And alot of ppl, like u said, put logic ard it..there's no logic when ur in LOVE :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Jeevan!

**for few seconds the real love will last forever through some way.

yes..but the r'ship doesnt hv to. U know wut I mean na :)


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haha Judge I agree! Love is TOXIC oyeah :)



**Often people confuse infatuation with love

true..and there's only a very thin line between the 2...so we must be very careful yes.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Shionge dahlin it happend on n off for me but I dun think Im 'blessed' to hv long-lasting LOVE. Anyways, Im happy it happens somehow :)

HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

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hey Tarun tnxx!


**I am contemplating who blogs more consistently, me on cricket or u on love.

LOL!

**heartbreak post

comin up soon! ;-)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Tobez HUGGGGGGGGZ! So happy to see u here again. I missed ya!


**men are like buses - you wait ages for one then loads come along

hehehe cute one. but my bus seems to hv no tyres. LOL! Cos it NEVER comes...and even when it does come ard, it breaks down even before the ride begins, haha!

U made me think :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Jaycee WC to my World, more to the Jungle :)


**Sometimes its not love but lust/like.

so true!



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Solitaire ur so knowledgable abt books. Nah I havent read it...is it a good one?



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Phoenix ty!


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aww Priya :)

ooo lala LOL!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Nachi tnxx mate!


** give without wanting anything in return. without having any expectations. cause at other times we receive with the same fervor...and for that we never question!


so true! Very well-put.



**attaining love is not always possible, but then, the best part of love is the hope of love itself

I so agree! Wut r ya, some kind of LOVE GURU? ;-)




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Emma tnxx hun!


**often it is up and down, torture a lot of the time, when you are away from him

oyeah that too :)



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aww ty sweetie Cinderella! MWAHHHHHHHHH!


**My heart goes sha la la la

I love that song by the VengaBoys...I dance to it like crazy LOL!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

U put that so beautifully Ghosty WOW!


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G'day Lee!


**it can be our own secret.

so true!



ty for the new blog addy...will drop in soon. MWAH!


Keshi.

Jim said...

I tagged u
do the TAG


or else i tell the hole world
the person u fell in love with is me

Anonymous said...

Oh keshi, dont be a miser, share ur love story rather than share how it happened, may be we ppl wud find a cue :))

honestly temme how did it happen ?

durjoy datta said...

life would have been so much easier if everybody thought like you!!!!!!
love over in an instant!!!
i wish people around me learnt a little from that!!!!!
;)

Keshi said...

Jim go ahead :)

Its a crappy tag, lol I cant do it.


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Ashu darlin, I'll come up with that story soon...stay tuned ;-)




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Durjoy but my LOVEs r generally one-sided :)

Keshi.

maverick said...

hey...got ur reply..jus read it..still half asleep..u think i look good???sarcasm is it???

BUMBLE!!! said...

Here's to the happy future and all that love can bring.

Keshi said...

o cmon Mav I dun lie like that. U r truly GOOD-LOOKING ;-)



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Bumble tnxx mate but there's no future :)



Keshi.

Ashish Soni said...

Very interesting post...

but isn't that "ATTRACTION" follows the same path and there's a thin line between attraction and "Short time love" which people often cross without knowing it ?

No offense to your feelings..i m talking in general...

take care
~Ali

Sam said...

now, keshi you making me kinda shy!!!
I was talking abt my thoughts and nothing else!! :P

oh btw 11 minutes by coelho is an amazing book. do read it!! have u read zahir by the same author?
only love by erich segal?
and the recent one anything for you ma'am by tushar raheja?
soemhow, they all in their own ways seem to be beautiful odes to love!!

Vikas ( Vicky) said...

yor post remind me of Bon Jovi song " Bad Medicine"


First you need
That's what you get for falling in love
Then you bleed
You get a little but it's never enough
On your knees
That's what you get for falling in love
And now this boy's addicted cause your kiss is the drug

Hiren said...

just stumbled upon ur blog ... this post of yours is simply simply awesome & agree that love should be devoid of any obligations ... also reminds me of a nice quote “The only reward for love is the experience of loving...” ...

toby said...

**breaks down even before the ride begins

Nooooo! That's the worst!

Keshigirl, you know the expression "thinking outside the box"? Sometimes, it pays to "look outside the box". It's difficult 'cos we put up subconscious barriers (and enormous conscious ones!) but the sweetest girl I ever met worked in the kitchens at uni. Except she wasn't just a kitchen worker, as I found out later...

btw, "Eleven Minutes" is a book by Paulo Coelho about a South American girl who is lured into prostitution but eventually escapes and finds love in Europe. A story that's been told many times in many ways. Lol! ;)

Anonymous said...

You know I read this post yesterday.. or may be today morning and the whole day I was cooking up stories of such short term love fiascoes.. in which of course I was the "heroine", "the femme fatale"..
I KNOW

I have kind of become addicted to those words..and I read the whole wiki dear's post on femme fatale.. [who knew they were spies and all ;)]

b/w i loved your post..


The need to know the feeling of being needed is something every women desires.
The sweet hunger of the soul never ceases :)
And love definitely can happen for a short time.. you make a long distance call then [err?! did I say your post name or something ;)]

Keshi said...

Ali I know abt LUST. But this aint LUST...atleast from my side.

:)

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Sam hey u know u write very well abt LOVE..and thats what I meant too :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Vicky tnxx!

** your kiss is the drug

I can u'stand that ;-)



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hey Hiren WC n tnxx!


**The only reward for love is the experience of loving

so true!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Tobez yes I know we gotta think 'outside the box'. But it seems Im the only one who's doin it..not the guys I meet :)


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hey Veenz the hottest femme fatale tnxx! ;-)


**The need to know the feeling of being needed is something every women desires

so true! And it seems the men I meet never can give that to me.



Keshi.

Ashish Soni said...

I didn't talk about LUST too...

I was talking about Attraction and attraction doesn't have to be always associated with lust

Sameera Ansari said...

That was beautiful!Love is love,be it for a moment or for eternity!

Hugsssss :)

Keshi said...

k Ali :)


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ty Sameera!



Keshi.

Sam said...

oh dat!!! gee.. thnx!! :)

AmitL said...

Hi,Keshi-yes,love usually 'just happens',without a warranty period,without an expiry date.:)I think God meant it to be so..and,then,to spice things up,he threw in a few complications,which lead to fights,and arguments,then,the making up,and so on,during the life cycle.:)

Keshi said...

:) Sam...


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very true Amit...tnxx!



Keshi.

unicorn said...

I donno whether love just happens, but whatever you are describing is attributed to hormones and a few other chemicals in your brain.

Keshi said...

hey Unicorn WC!

**to hormones and a few other chemicals in your brain.

and that's called LOVE to humanbeings I suppose :)

Keshi.

unicorn said...

Here we go,

When you say- "I loved that movie"; does that mean your brains hormones are working towards that? No.

Whatever you have described in your blog or what you thought that human beings are calling love is, is nothing but mammalian drive to mate or have sex, I am not saying that one wants to end up in having sex whenever one sees someone attractive, but the drive is there caused by dopamine, testestrone, estrogen etc.

Love has several other meanings, sociological, psychological, biological, but definitely what you described in your blog is one of biological importance, you are just letting your brain to play with its chemicals thats all.

:)