tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post112312435002935677..comments2024-03-06T19:41:23.682+11:00Comments on Viva forever...: I know where you were last night...Keshihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123476138686842532005-08-08T15:12:00.000+10:302005-08-08T15:12:00.000+10:30lolz Jann I'd join ya ;-)Keshi.lolz Jann I'd join ya ;-)<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123472073284093762005-08-08T14:04:00.000+10:302005-08-08T14:04:00.000+10:30hehe okkkai puneet :)Keshi.hehe okkkai puneet :)<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123423715198780872005-08-08T00:38:00.000+10:302005-08-08T00:38:00.000+10:30keshiiiiiiiii...pls dont be so formal by writing t...keshiiiiiiiii...<BR/>pls dont be so formal by writing that thanx n all...<BR/>i atleast dont expect it frm u ...<BR/><BR/>:-)><BR/>cheersPuNeEthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03709220866751774513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123386085403106492005-08-07T14:11:00.000+10:302005-08-07T14:11:00.000+10:30Yep Vinu u have a great understanding of r'ships t...Yep Vinu u have a great understanding of r'ships too...ur one good n sensible soul in this troubled world.<BR/><BR/>Thanks!<BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123386012457894892005-08-07T14:10:00.000+10:302005-08-07T14:10:00.000+10:30lol Pithaly aww ur making fun of me now na?Puneeee...lol Pithaly aww ur making fun of me now na?<BR/><BR/>Puneeeeeeeeeet!<BR/>***U need not require a parallel relationship to cheat… just a one nightstand is enough to take the first step towards that direction***<BR/>Very true...u have nailed it down! Ur such an understanding and sensible dude...someday some girl is going to be damn lukcy to have u as her husband :) And hey thanks for reading my posts amidst ur busy CA schedule ;-) <BR/><BR/>k000kie.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123362252934334022005-08-07T07:34:00.000+10:302005-08-07T07:34:00.000+10:30This was another heavy dose… so I took some time t...This was another heavy dose… so I took some time to read as I was a bit busy with my work and so was my mind ;-)<BR/><BR/>I agree with your thought… cheating is the first crack, which shakes the relationship, although one may not feel the jolt initially but gradually the crack gets bigger and visible and the relationship gets weaker and pitiable…<BR/><BR/>A relationship based on compromise is never gonna give the real happiness…when u cant be urself with the person u r living your whole life… then ur not doing justice to ur life… ur not living ur life…<BR/><BR/>U wrote:<BR/>“Also, remember that the new person will require just as much maintenance.”<BR/><BR/>U need not require a parallel relationship to cheat… just a one nightstand is enough to take the first step towards that direction.<BR/><BR/>Another nice thought provoking post…<BR/>:-)>PuNeEthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03709220866751774513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123238089700982452005-08-05T21:04:00.000+10:302005-08-05T21:04:00.000+10:30And Keshi not only being frank...i think those peo...And Keshi not only being frank...i think those people who are not ready to listen to their partners and thus failing in communication also does cheating....<BR/><BR/>But the funny part is that they get failed everywhere in any relationship...So cheating is never a solution...<BR/><BR/>Be frank and ready to listen...i dont think anyone will then suffer because of cheating...neither by doing or by facing....Vinzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06314890776415376995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123223978432778662005-08-05T17:09:00.001+10:302005-08-05T17:09:00.001+10:30i love dis mangyi love dis mangyGodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11275235295889804189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123223962543235932005-08-05T17:09:00.000+10:302005-08-05T17:09:00.000+10:30HEy Vinu so true yep just being frank is all we ne...HEy Vinu so true yep just being frank is all we need to do! I believe straying when ur partner has done nothing wrong, is the real cheating. Thats when one should be guilty. o.w. I wud say accidents happen n if u can talk abt it n make sure it wont happen again, then another chance can be given...<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123222502788077542005-08-05T16:45:00.000+10:302005-08-05T16:45:00.000+10:30Cheating...I dont know any reallife experiance on ...Cheating...<BR/><BR/>I dont know any reallife experiance on cheating right around me...so hav only knowledge about many rumours that take up rounds and from movies and stories....<BR/><BR/>Now being into many relationships...not only boyfriend-girlfriend one, i can say nobody can stand chaeting...everyone who likes to maintain a relationship urges for undivided attention...<BR/><BR/>One of my friend had once told,'the biggest gift a man can giv a woman is undivided attention towards her'..dnt u think its very true...<BR/><BR/>anyways according to me just be candid to your partner...accept them wit all their short comings...or else dont go for such relationships...<BR/><BR/>Thats itVinzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06314890776415376995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123219079613341582005-08-05T15:47:00.000+10:302005-08-05T15:47:00.000+10:30yupps Icy even I will neva cheat on mah partner - ...yupps Icy even I will neva cheat on mah partner - but that's wut my circumstances suggest right now...I have no idea abt wut my future or wut kinda partner I will get...so yeah u never know...people change according to circumstances they face, that's wut I believe.<BR/><BR/>v000nie now who did u cheat on? lol! I'm kidding. Yep I agree ppl r made of emotions...that's why the psychologists suggest that cheating happens becos of a conflict between the physical n the emotional needs. Sometimes u just cant help it...but repetitive cheating n lying is definitely an illness that need to looked at n taken care of :)<BR/><BR/>Thanks folks!<BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123218850301416482005-08-05T15:44:00.000+10:302005-08-05T15:44:00.000+10:30U r damn right Jann! Whoaa that was one hell of a ...U r damn right Jann! Whoaa that was one hell of a beating on our cute lil butts lol! I agree alot of ppl dun like to confess abt cheating...it's shameful right? so why put shame on urself...hehehe...but like u say, if one can admit it, then that's the biggest win of the day :) Thanks for those very wise words Jann muah!<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123208969326722512005-08-05T12:59:00.000+10:302005-08-05T12:59:00.000+10:301. keshi, everyone has sentiments, emotions. every...1. keshi, everyone has sentiments, emotions. everyone can be carried away at times. One cant blame it 4 dat. And for 1 mistake one can't be jeopardized for life. Shouldnt rather. <BR/>After all we r all humans, we r susceptible and you wont feel ashamed that time, for doing so. And even later. You r an emotional human damn it. <BR/><BR/>2.<BR/>Cheating aint only sexual. Your partner may accept it if he/she really understands you and you r candid @ everything. And then u wont feel ashamed too. <BR/><BR/>Also, <BR/>r we talking @ cheating or adultery?<BR/><BR/>--- v000nieInvinciblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17506567313081186877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123207380740239692005-08-05T12:33:00.000+10:302005-08-05T12:33:00.000+10:30Tell u all a real Cheating story:I had a friend (a...Tell u all a real Cheating story:<BR/><BR/>I had a friend (actually an ex work-colleague)...she was seeing someone at the time n was abt to get married. At the office she got too friendly with this younger guy. At frist we were all thinking that they're good friends, that's all. Later on they started holding hands, feeding each other at lunch etc. That looked really ridiculous n unethical at work on top of being engaged to be married. Anyways she got married - we were all at the wedding too, including the guy (he was cool abt it, no tears). I dunno if her husband sensed anything at all...he seemed happy. But the CEO at where I worked called them both n warned them abt their behavior! She still had a secret aafir with him, it was official! <BR/><BR/>Later on she went off to another country with her husband...the guy went off to some other country too. I reckon her husband never got to know n she had her fun too...n this other guy had his share of fun too! To be honest I thought it was plain ugly!<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123203889896947002005-08-05T11:34:00.000+10:302005-08-05T11:34:00.000+10:30wow alot of smart conversations going on here...al...wow alot of smart conversations going on here...all of ur parents have fed u with alot of cranium-growing food when u were babies :) Very smart bunch!<BR/><BR/>Gomess lol good on ya that u dumped here cos bringing up the past during arguments is just yukkk!<BR/><BR/>Thanks Vivhyd for ur kind compliments...u too have a hip blog :)<BR/><BR/>Amu...<BR/>***it is may not be wrong if ur partner failed in their own responsiblity but u didnt...***<BR/>Exactly! U r so right there. But continueing to cheat n remain in a fake r'ship is stupid - u got to talk abt it n sort things out or break up for good.<BR/><BR/>awww p000nie huggggggggz! Sorry if this post brought bak hurtful memories for ya...guess he was not worth it anyways, for cheating someone so genuine as u r! I see u have moved on n u rock babezzz!<BR/><BR/>Pithaly good point...it's our conscience that has been moulded as we grew up, that leads to what we do when we r adults...u got a very valuable message there, thanks!<BR/><BR/>Manish...having a friend other than ur partner is NOT cheating! It depends on wut level u carry the friendship...if it's just good friends like me n n000nie :) then yeah there's nothing wrong. On the other hand if it's like me n Puneet lol ur GF will dump ya!<BR/><BR/>Dawn...n d000die (Dewdy) <BR/>***I think anything that one tries to hide...or has a guilt in while doing...means he/she is doing something wrong..!!!***<BR/>***If your concious bites you in your doings and there is a feeling of guilt, you know you are cheating***<BR/>That is Cheating fully explained! Thanks for that description I soo struggled to find :) You guys did it for me, couldn't have explained it any better!<BR/><BR/><BR/>v000nie...<BR/>***If someone's far frm their luved one and sumething goes wrong n he finds some solace in someone***<BR/>Nope I dun think that's cheating...but I should know where to draw the line (especially if u have a partner already). Boozing n having a one-night stand with someone u just met n who had a listening ear, doesnt make it right :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>n000nie I 'd rather be honest in what I say to my partner. If I cheated on my partner n he gets to know it, I will tell him EXACTLY why I did it - especially if I had a valid reason to cheat (eg:he wud have been a jerk) - but on the other hand, if he was clean n I cheated becos I was a jerkette :), then ofcourse IT IS ME, not him!<BR/><BR/>Juless wut u talkin abt? lol!<BR/><BR/>k000kie-in-jeans :)Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123198516620625432005-08-05T10:05:00.000+10:302005-08-05T10:05:00.000+10:30Would you rather say something like 'I cheated on ...Would you rather say something like 'I cheated on you because you're boring/narrow-minded/unattractive/sexually-unsatisfying...' and hurt their feelings or just say "its not you, it's me" and still let em feel good bout themselves.Day Dreamerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10841176752009863172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123189385444016232005-08-05T07:33:00.000+10:302005-08-05T07:33:00.000+10:30comment # 40 :u know y ppl booze the whole night o...comment # 40 :<BR/>u know y ppl booze the whole night out sometimes? cos they wanna forget something, often something devastating tht hppnd on that day. They need emotional support but it aint there, so they go n lose their senses. <BR/><BR/>If someone's far frm their luved one and sumething goes wrong n he finds some solace in someone .. who just pays a patient ear 2 him n later they .. .. <BR/><BR/>Wud u call it cheating? The luv between the 2 is still there, the faith, bla bla .. is also unebbed. <BR/><BR/>-- v000nieInvinciblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17506567313081186877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123189117899357312005-08-05T07:28:00.000+10:302005-08-05T07:28:00.000+10:30exactly my thought, Dawn. Like I mentioned in my c...exactly my thought, Dawn. Like I mentioned in my comment on your previous post. If your concious bites you in your doings and there is a feeling of guilt, you know you are cheatingDewdrophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10648438311949135859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123187921025767192005-08-05T07:08:00.000+10:302005-08-05T07:08:00.000+10:30Hmm a thought for the day kind :)...!I think anyth...Hmm a thought for the day kind :)...!<BR/><BR/>I think anything that one tries to hide...or has a guilt in while doing...means he/she is doing something wrong..!!!<BR/><BR/>That's what I call cheating..which could be with partner or with oneself..:)<BR/><BR/>good one ..I will learn a lot from you :)<BR/><BR/>Thanks,Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15924485784546039937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123179641347617632005-08-05T04:50:00.000+10:302005-08-05T04:50:00.000+10:30Is having frenship with other person other than ur...Is having frenship with other person other than ur partner cheating? I don't think so!Manish Kumarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10739848141759842115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123171881978207452005-08-05T02:41:00.000+10:302005-08-05T02:41:00.000+10:30i feel very sad wen i read thiscuz i wuz cheated o...i feel very sad wen i read this<BR/>cuz i wuz cheated on :(<BR/>cool kookz ur spreadin d awareness i juz hope the right ppl read wat u have to say cuz u totally read my mind<BR/>rock on kookz<BR/>p000nieMichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07294667055194830715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123170145189354472005-08-05T02:12:00.000+10:302005-08-05T02:12:00.000+10:30ah keshi..i was just thinking of posting something...ah keshi..i was just thinking of posting something similar in my blog :P<BR/><BR/>in my opinion, if u r cheating on ur partner..u r seeking for a different kind of partner..different kind of support..then..it only means the current r/ship u r on..had failed..either u have no choice but to stick with current partner coz of other commitment like children..or u love them both..<BR/><BR/>i was arguing about extra-marital affair with a friend of mine..and i think it will be wrong if ur partner fullfilling all ur needs n doing his/her best for u but u still stray..it is may not be wrong if ur partner failed in their own responsiblity but u didnt..and i know we all r human..we have our own needs too<BR/><BR/>but...must think of the 3rd person also..what r v going to give to that person? that person whom given up many things having affair with us coz of love (although not all the time)..what r we going to give to that person back? will that person stay as the 3rd person for the rest of his/her life? <BR/>or...are v going to give them the status of 'life partner'?<BR/><BR/>looks like i am the one writing stories in people's blog now :Ptulipspeakshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11674952622484086379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123169257578770442005-08-05T01:57:00.000+10:302005-08-05T01:57:00.000+10:30very thoughful post Keshi... Though me not the rit...very thoughful post Keshi... <BR/><BR/>Though me not the rite person to comment on this as I agree that its really a bad thing to do.. but I do agree that physical and emotional are 2 main factors behind it.. and also some other circumstances which can be possible.. but one has to look deep inside within themselves as u said than blaming the other person.. <BR/><BR/>ur posts are really very niceVivhydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09236479958997161238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123157706003539472005-08-04T22:45:00.000+10:302005-08-04T22:45:00.000+10:30oooo I see God has paid me a visit...I guess Saby...oooo I see God has paid me a visit...I guess Saby in disguise lol...thanks mate!<BR/><BR/>k000kie-with-a-microscopeKeshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1123157634107558432005-08-04T22:43:00.000+10:302005-08-04T22:43:00.000+10:30ok South I'm glad :)m0000nieeeeeeeee mooo mooo moo...ok South I'm glad :)<BR/><BR/>m0000nieeeeeeeee mooo mooo mooo muahhhh! lol it's ok ur not the first here, I still know u'd get here on time :) U r so right, love is something so special to cheat on. Good point :) That means when cheating occrus, Love is already lost...<BR/><BR/>Strawy...<BR/>***just be honest tell u partner that u r bored n cant get along .It will hurt but lesser then cheating ***<BR/>So well-said babezz! That's all one's got to say than lying n doing so much damage. Thanks!<BR/><BR/>n000nie but by saying it's not u, it's me, wudnt u be lying? If its ur partner's fault, why not really say it than get away with it?<BR/><BR/>thanks all!<BR/>k000kie-in-PJs :)Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.com