tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post115914668619306724..comments2024-03-06T19:41:23.682+11:00Comments on Viva forever...: Take A Load OffKeshihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comBlogger99125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1160536351788435262006-10-11T13:42:00.000+10:302006-10-11T13:42:00.000+10:30you cannot get hurt unless you want to get hurt. Y...you cannot get hurt unless you want to get hurt. You cannot hurt some one unless they want to get hurt.Known Strangerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03884368594292384630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1160014072200267602006-10-05T12:37:00.000+10:302006-10-05T12:37:00.000+10:30Elaine helloooo!**family are different! it seems t...Elaine helloooo!<BR/><BR/><BR/>**family are different! it seems that you're forced to forgive and they tend to take advantage of you<BR/><BR/>so true. And I hate that.<BR/><BR/><BR/>-----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Shionge WC n tnxxxx!<BR/><BR/><BR/>**ego<BR/><BR/>dun we all carry that huge burden :)<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159502854778817942006-09-29T14:37:00.000+10:302006-09-29T14:37:00.000+10:30Hiya Keshi,Found you through Elaine's blog :DThank...Hiya Keshi,<BR/><BR/>Found you through Elaine's blog :D<BR/><BR/>Thanks for this wonderful post but but.......my significant's half sulk and has a huge ego thattt..........*sigh*.<BR/><BR/>I know what where you are coming from and thanks for this timely reminded:DShiongehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02519286201719224882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159489190142192232006-09-29T10:49:00.000+10:302006-09-29T10:49:00.000+10:30hello keshi how have u been?just hope that the per...hello keshi how have u been?<BR/><BR/>just hope that the person will forgive me. anyways, i'm not too forgiving either...:P <BR/><BR/>family are different! it seems that you're forced to forgive and they tend to take advantage of you.Daliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12994450169102399314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159402250444726022006-09-28T10:40:00.000+10:302006-09-28T10:40:00.000+10:30Ori tnxxx! I know I'd have hurt my mum so much tha...Ori tnxxx! I know I'd have hurt my mum so much that nite...but I realised it and I said Sorry...and she forgave me too...so Im happy now.<BR/><BR/>hell I AM short-temepred. How did u know? :):)<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159346535166517312006-09-27T19:12:00.000+10:302006-09-27T19:12:00.000+10:30Sweet Keshi,If only you could and you called me be...Sweet Keshi,<BR/>If only you could and you called me before going to bed, I would have disturbed you until you apologized to your mother before sleeping, so that you wouldn't go to bed with the heartache and headache of your short temper.<BR/><BR/>I have always suspected that you would have such short tempers. Your posts and looks depict that you are too sensitive and passionate and that's you, heart, spirit and soul.Intoto.<BR/><BR/>Have you ever wondered what your mother has been going through in her heart and soul since your father passed away?<BR/>And last night, you made her miss your father badly.<BR/><BR/>Please, don't ever do that again.<BR/><BR/>Get over it as you advised from your own experience, take the load off your heart.<BR/><BR/>I love you.<BR/><BR/>God will comfort you and your mother always.<BR/><BR/>God bless.EKENYERENGOZI Michael Chimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05034754267261591802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159332532238066052006-09-27T15:18:00.000+10:302006-09-27T15:18:00.000+10:30Saby ur such a BIG flirt. Is that ur job title by ...Saby ur such a BIG flirt. Is that ur job title by any chance?<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Fleiger heyyy! I agree with ya. Ultimatley its all abt 'I'.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159321782504745082006-09-27T12:19:00.000+10:302006-09-27T12:19:00.000+10:30So finally Keshi is back to answering comments ;)*...So finally Keshi is back to answering comments ;)<BR/><BR/>**But usually, we find it harder to forgive than say sorry.<BR/><BR/><I>I think it's cos the person who has to forgive has the most power ... to control the reconciliation.</I><BR/>Yes, true or apperent power... So, while on one hand we might not want to admit we are wrong, on the other, we wouldn't want to look bad/less in front of somebody else, however close they are (family not included)...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159320228330516872006-09-27T11:53:00.000+10:302006-09-27T11:53:00.000+10:30is Saffya man or a woman?sounds so much like Sabyi...is Saffy<BR/>a man or a woman?<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>sounds so much like Saby<BR/>if u r a woman and u r sexy<BR/><BR/>we shud team up<BR/>Sabby and Saffy sounds goodJimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09793792829148051260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159319278910780282006-09-27T11:37:00.000+10:302006-09-27T11:37:00.000+10:30hey Saffy!**it's either a case of too much to talk...hey Saffy!<BR/><BR/>**it's either a case of too much to talk about, or discovering that we have both drifted apart.<BR/><BR/>true. isnt that sad.<BR/><BR/>btw some mum and daughters dun make up at all...even in their whole life. So yeah, not all mums n daughters r so apologetic/forgiving Saffy. I guess u n I r lucky. <BR/><BR/>Hugggggggggggggggz!<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159318681759974112006-09-27T11:28:00.000+10:302006-09-27T11:28:00.000+10:30Chris WB awwwwww MWAHHHHHHHHH! Im so glad ur bakk ...Chris WB awwwwww MWAHHHHHHHHH! Im so glad ur bakk and mostly that u and ur cousin r well. Good on ya girl! I'll visit u soon. TC n lots of LUV.<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>G'day Ken! Nice to have ya here.<BR/><BR/>**You must forgive to be forgiven.<BR/>You should forgive for you may never get another chance.<BR/><BR/>that was well-said. So true. tnxxxxxxxx!<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Maya tnxxx n huggggggggggz!<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159318499146218202006-09-27T11:24:00.000+10:302006-09-27T11:24:00.000+10:30Rach hey beautiful!**Don't be too hard on yourself...Rach hey beautiful!<BR/><BR/>**Don't be too hard on yourself! Forgive yourself too!<BR/><BR/>true. Sometimes it is ourselves thats hardest to forgive.<BR/><BR/>U lucky girl...seen REM so many times! U'd take me backstage? OMG how? U know em?<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Amy mwahhhhhhhhhhh tnxx sweety!<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Gangadhar ty :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Johnny is that true?<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Hi again Kautilya!<BR/><BR/>**they r a part of my life... and no point in lettin some thing to wreck that... <BR/><BR/>indeed...no point letting ur ego spoil a good friendship. well-said!<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>White_Magpie is a 24hr check ha :) good on ya!<BR/><BR/><BR/>**Rather it clears the heart load and strengthens relations.<BR/><BR/>true, very true!<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Has_To_Be_Me thats right...mums r the best in this subject :)<BR/><BR/>**esp the more u love a person, the more the hurt is! <BR/><BR/>true to a certain extent. But sometimes I think ppl who hurt u all the time dun really luv u...what say?<BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Ash the REM concert was fully sick! I mean it rocked SOLID :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Fuzzbox :)<BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Sunil no probs...TC n know that we r here for u always.<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Hazel yes I always speak the truth...dun u? <BR/><BR/>**What do u do with people who walk away without giving you an opportunity to explain the truth .. and give you pain to live with ?? <BR/><BR/>well then its not our problem is it...I mean if they r not willing to u'stand or not willing to give u the time to explain, then what can u do? Just let it be.<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Starry it takes a kind soul to recognise another...I think ur a beautiful person and I luv u too!<BR/><BR/>**I did not want to give in and say I am sorry.<BR/><BR/>well I have done that many times too...there were times when I hurt my mum and never said sorry. When I was much younger. Well I sometimes think abt those days and cry sometimes. Cos that hurt cant be taken away easily. No matter how Sorry I feel. but that realisation has made me a new person. It's given me a new energy. And I know I'd never do that kinda mistake again.<BR/><BR/>Ur mum knows u love her Starry. She's ur mum. Mums never doubt their children. They r older and more experienced than us so they know how kids behave. Now ur a mum...dun u think ur kids love u no matter how they throw tantrums sometimes? Im sure u know they r sorry too after that. Likewise Im sure ur mum knows too Starry. She's smiling at u from heaven. I know she is. <BR/><BR/>TC n hugggggggggggggggz!<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159317584865063952006-09-27T11:09:00.000+10:302006-09-27T11:09:00.000+10:30Sujit I know wut u mean...friends' advice matters ...Sujit I know wut u mean...friends' advice matters too and sometimes it changes us.<BR/><BR/>** if all the fellow people said you did right thing.. then would you might have gone?.. <BR/><BR/>Some of my friends here said I did the right thing. And some others said I was wrong. Although I took everyone's words into consideration, ultimately it was my choice n decision. So I made the decision to go. :) btw that person who hurt me hasnt said Sorry to date. I have forgiven her. Forgotten too...really.<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Reflextion awwwww...huggggggggggggggggggz! <BR/><BR/>:) TC.<BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Lera ur spot on!<BR/><BR/>**how many of us get a clear picture of what is involved in forgiving and forgetting..<BR/><BR/>thats right...we have to realsie that FORGETTING means something different here. While the memory of the hurtful words/deeds remain somewhere in our brain, forgetting here means to paint a fresh paint over the stained wall of ur r'ship. If the apology and the forgiving was genuine, then u can have that kind of 'forgetting' too. U really can.<BR/><BR/>yes we need more ppl who think this way...it sure is a rare.<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>G'day HE!<BR/><BR/>yes mother n daughter r'ship is one of the scared r'ships in the world. U laid the reasons so beautifully.<BR/><BR/><BR/>**A comedian once said that it dumb to carry a grudge because while you are lugging that grudge around and being miserable..the other guy is out dancing<BR/><BR/>LOL thats soooo true!<BR/><BR/><BR/>**Life is not all abt ME<BR/><BR/>damn right. Gotta share...gotta repair :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>**It feels sooo good to dump that sack of crap off of your shoulders..if you actually were wrong.<BR/><BR/>Spot on!<BR/><BR/>tnxxx HE u make so much sense. HUGGGGGGGGZ!<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159317506150440752006-09-27T11:08:00.000+10:302006-09-27T11:08:00.000+10:30Poppy doll-pearl, reflective post huh?Sometimes, w...Poppy doll-pearl, reflective post huh?<BR/>Sometimes, we are so caught up in out own lives that we neglect to keep friends in the loop, then when we do meet up, it's either a case of too much to talk about, or discovering that we have both drifted apart.<BR/>But mommies are different! Because they live in the same house, so there's no way to drift apart, and there's no way not to make up either :)SaffronSarishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05844306478913339427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159316646373389972006-09-27T10:54:00.000+10:302006-09-27T10:54:00.000+10:30Ashes HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ! I soo missed ya mate...Ashes HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ! I soo missed ya mate. Where have u been? I mean I miss those days when u, FM and I used to chat....gone r the good old days...<BR/><BR/>**But i look for a changeless core in things/beings.Your's is beautiful and clean. <BR/><BR/>ty! Thats the highest compliment anyone can ever receive. I feel honored.<BR/><BR/>TC mate.<BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Pallavi indeed, ty!<BR/><BR/><BR/>----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Tiwsted_DNA heyyy tnxxx!<BR/><BR/>**The reason a lot of couples end up distanced from each other is because they don't follow what you mentioned, viz. making up with each other.<BR/><BR/>well I have been in r'ships. I was always the first to say sorry and to forgive. I guess that also lead to being taken for granted. But it's ok. Cos this is me...this is who I am...and if for being who I am I was being taken for granted, then it's really not my fault. Most couples dun wanna work out things together cos they think of themselves as 'separate' entities. When ur a couple u r one. U gotta realise that b4 ur ego takes over.<BR/><BR/>And yes it's impossible to find out how we may be hurting ppl unintentionally. But w ecan do one thing. Always put urself in the other person's shoes b4 saying/doing something in a hurry.<BR/><BR/>tnxxxx and have a good day!<BR/><BR/>----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Suga heyyyy mwahhhhhhhhh! So nice to see u here after a very long time. I hope u've been well.<BR/><BR/>** it was a silent forgiving almost.. <BR/><BR/>thats so nice. It happens. Sometimes u dun even have to say a word and u know that u have nade up with each other. Thats true friendship. LOVELY!<BR/><BR/><BR/>**Lol but what timing eh.<BR/><BR/>hehehe guess my 6th sense told me that Suga needed some Suga ;-)<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>AB heyyy!<BR/><BR/>**When things like this happen, I think it's best to forget about it and move on. <BR/><BR/>thats right. Wish everyone thought like u did.<BR/><BR/>yep...the more u think abt it, the more it eats u! SO WELL-SAID!<BR/><BR/>----------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Priya thats right...kids need to be taught to say Sorry, Thank U etc. I have seen ppl who know no manners at all. Must be the result of an out-of-control chidhood.<BR/><BR/>**Few simple words can make a persons life better..... <BR/><BR/>Spot on! And instead some ppl carry grudges for years, even to their graves. PATHETIC isnt it!<BR/><BR/><BR/>----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Autumn heyyy hows u sweety?<BR/><BR/>yes being hurt and hurting...they both need to be stopped without being carried on and getting wasted as a result of that burden.<BR/><BR/>mwahhhh n tnxxx babez!<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Niki hugggggggggz!<BR/><BR/>**if it were my mom, she wouldnt talk to me for a month.. ^o^;;<BR/>and i wouldnt talk to her for half a year or so<BR/><BR/>WHY?????<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Plus_Ultra WC n tnxxxx!<BR/><BR/>**Forgiveness is very nourishing, it makes you grow as much as it releases you from a prison<BR/><BR/>Indeed. One's well-being should not be dependent on a bottle of pills or a hospital bed. It's right in your heart n soul. <BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>WW hey mate hows u?<BR/><BR/>yes..the bond plays a big role. But what Im trying to say is why cant we not measure who's imp to us etc b4 wanting to say sorry/forgive? I mean put aside the bond-factor and just say how u really feel. Can we really do that or am I just dreaming?<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Kath mwahhhhhhhhhhhhh!<BR/><BR/>**hey i thought ur angry??" and will answer " what do u want to eat kathy?" <BR/><BR/>LOL ur mum is sooooo sweet! My huggggz to her. awwwww...<BR/><BR/>mums r always such darlings ha. I dunno wut I'd do w.o. my mum!<BR/><BR/>Yes even I cant u'stand how some ppl NEVER say sorry when they r sooooo wrong. Trust me Kath I have such ppl in my own life. Im not trying to get sympathy but some ppl have hurt me real bad and I know I dont deserve that...and yet todate they havent said a single SORRY. It's ok. I dun want their sorry cos Im still smiling with them and helping them ard. U wudnt believe what my soul can do to me...she tells me not to brood over ppl's faults. Just forgive n move on...life is a party, not a funeral. :)<BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Saby yes ur right....dun even make a consious effort cos thats when ego comes to play. Just do as u feel.<BR/><BR/>u should have been a mini Jesus na Saby :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Alex heyy hows u? Busy ha. <BR/><BR/>yes its either that they DONT realise their mistakes or that they DONT want to.<BR/><BR/>:) TC n tnxxxxxxx!<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159315358697274562006-09-27T10:32:00.000+10:302006-09-27T10:32:00.000+10:30G'day Tre! Howdy?** I wonder how many I have been ...G'day Tre! Howdy?<BR/><BR/>** I wonder how many I have been carrying that I'm not even aware of.<BR/><BR/>well time to realise and set urself free :)<BR/><BR/>tnxxx n TC mate.<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Mommyof2 thats right.<BR/><BR/>** I think if someone will hug & ask for forgiveness, we can forgive them even before they ask for it:<BR/><BR/>a simple gesture can take u a long way. And I dun u'stand why some ppl refrain from giving hugs n kisses. So sad.<BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Rupali WC n tnxxxxxx!<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Schrodingerzz heyyy!<BR/><BR/>**unless we drop all expectations in a relationship, its not gonna work<BR/><BR/>We never can drop ALL expectations in a r'ship. There has to be some basic expectation or else it wont be a r'ship in the first place. And no u dun have to be 100% expectation-less to say sorry and to forgive. I guess saying sorry and forgiving is also 'expecting' each other to work on the r'ship isnt it? :)<BR/><BR/>True we should stop trying to change ppl. That really helps.<BR/><BR/>tnxxxxxx!<BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Kavi thats true. Pride n ego get in the way. Next time we can just ask the pride and the ego to take a back seat :)<BR/><BR/>Wait is a weight yeah..even I was like WOW after I wrote that LOL!<BR/><BR/>tnxxx sweety!<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Sudeep heyyy hows u? :)<BR/><BR/>No I havent seen that movie yet. hehehe must be a nice one.<BR/><BR/>**i would recommend ur mum to give u a heavy dosage of loud tamil movies <BR/><BR/>omg noooooooooooo! Not that I aint getting any currently anyways ROFL!<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>LaVidaLoca tnxxxxxxxx!<BR/><BR/>:)<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Nikita heyyy hows u?<BR/><BR/>**even when the volcano inside you kicks like hell<BR/><BR/>thats soooo true! Ur mum's words r GOLD.<BR/><BR/>tnxxxx Niki!<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>KK yeah I cant expect the whole world to be my mum na lol! :)<BR/><BR/>**But if the person is not ready to forgive, I just leave it to them.<BR/><BR/>yeah me too. Cant help it anymore can we.<BR/><BR/>tnxxxx!<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159314771002961512006-09-27T10:22:00.000+10:302006-09-27T10:22:00.000+10:30Madhu what's imp is that u REALISE. And I think u...Madhu what's imp is that u REALISE. And I think u have. So pick up the phone and say sorry or send something nice to the one u hurt...doesnt matter even if it was a long time ago. Do something nice. It'll make u and him/her feel good too.<BR/><BR/>**its embarassing accept this publicly but i know that's the truth<BR/><BR/>yes I know. But that very emabarassment will be a great reward for ur soul...cos it'll teach u to be humble and to live life truthfully.<BR/><BR/>TC.<BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Sanjay ty :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Fleiger heyy hows u?<BR/><BR/>**But usually, we find it harder to forgive than say sorry.<BR/><BR/>hmm thats right...and why may that be? I think it's cos the person who has to forgive has the most power. Meaning that he/she is the one who's hurt and beckons an apology. So he/she has the right/power to control the reconciliation. That can be manipulated to her/his own liking. So if he/she is not genuinely ready to forgive, they can drag it forever. The power of hurt can be terminal.<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Mehak yep I slam alot of things too :) I think I'm short-tempered.<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Cuckoo lol u have a cute friend. Thats great that u 2 quickly make up. <BR/><BR/>we say/do things in a hurry w.o. realising the other person gets hurt. We say/do things to satisfy our need of self-righteousness while that may hurt alot of ppl. So it's best to think twice b4 we say/do things. And if we stil can't do that, then atleast if we realise what we did and make up for it, then thats all that matters.<BR/><BR/>TC n tnxxxxxxx!<BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>S0ul heyy mwahhh! I had a good weekend, hope the same with ya babez.<BR/><BR/>**.. i always always always forgive.. but never forget :) <BR/><BR/>Well guess wut sweety...I have been the same. Well as long as Im not suffering from Dimentia, I gotta remember it na lol! But forgetting here means a different 'forgetting'...the memory of the words/deeds will remain with u ofcourse. But the fact that person has genuinely apologised and u have genuinely forgiven him/her should set u free...it should paint a new fresh paint on that stained walls of ur r'ship. It should look brandnew now. Only if it was GENUINE from both sides. I hope u know what I mean.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159313984075580192006-09-27T10:09:00.000+10:302006-09-27T10:09:00.000+10:30Deepa hey u busy girl, hugggggggz!** will never ap...Deepa hey u busy girl, hugggggggz!<BR/><BR/>** will never apologise unless I'm sure I'm wrong ... , and the person means a lot to me <BR/><BR/>well u have a valid point. why wud u wanna apologize if ur not wrong and if the person is not very close to u. it's gotta be a genuine apologetic feeling or else dun say it at all. <BR/><BR/>tc n have a good day Deepz!<BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Itchingtowrite ty :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Dumbdodi dun worry sweety...we all do that kinda thing when we r young and out-of-control. But as long as u realise that, aplogise and make up - thats what matters.<BR/><BR/>Hugggggggggggz!<BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Parag u always say most of the wisest words here..tnxxx!<BR/><BR/>**I think if we all are considerate of how other people may feel due to our actions and if we do not hurt each other.. <BR/><BR/>Spot on! being human we r so quick to say/do things that hurt others. Like u said if we all respect anothers' feelings a lil bit more then there wont be so many heartaches.<BR/><BR/><BR/>**Most "hurt feelings" come out of expectation<BR/><BR/>so true! Thats why I dun expect much these days Parag. ppl have helped me too and hav eexpected SO MUCH in return. It has created so many fights with hurtful words etc. I have always thought that when u help someone u should never expect anything in return. Anyways.<BR/><BR/>tnxxxxxxxx!<BR/><BR/>----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Harry whats the excuse? :)<BR/><BR/>Anyways yeah I know what u mean. It's all to do with the ego. Well now I have realised with family n friends, its not worth trying to preserve ur ego. Life is too short to glorify ur ego. So nowadays I just go ahead and say what I feel...that means when Im really sorry, I say it...and I try hard to forgive those who desreve it. Bakk then I didn't bother at all. Im glad to see Im changing for the better.<BR/><BR/>tnxxx n TC.<BR/><BR/>---------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Jeevan ur a very kind soul I know. Thats so nice of u to be that way.<BR/><BR/>U have a wonderful day!<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159313289388430612006-09-27T09:58:00.000+10:302006-09-27T09:58:00.000+10:30Visithra tnxx sweety!**being forgiven means the bo...Visithra tnxx sweety!<BR/><BR/>**being forgiven means the bond gets stronger <BR/><BR/>very true.<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Silvara it's good that u feel u need to apologise...some ppl dun even feel that way.<BR/><BR/>**That way they don't end up being mistakes - but experience <BR/><BR/>thats so very true. <BR/><BR/>tnxxx sweety!<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Cocaine_Jesus helloo :)<BR/><BR/>**saying sorry is the easy bit. meaning it is much harder. <BR/><BR/>thats true. Thats why I said it has to be GENUINE. If not it's no use.<BR/><BR/>-------------------------------<BR/><BR/>G'day Vishnu long time indeed! I've been well and u?<BR/><BR/>**how many ppl respect/value others feeling?!<BR/><BR/>thats a very good Qn. I dun think alot of ppl respect/value other ppl's feelings. I really dun think. Atleast in my life it's that way.<BR/><BR/><BR/>**to forgive we need lottsa maturity but to say sorry we needn't...<BR/><BR/>I think both needs alot of maturity. Saying sorry is not very easy for alot of ppl. It takes a matured heart to accept his/her faults and say sorry. Forgiving needs the same.<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Contented heyyy!<BR/><BR/>**Even though you want to reconcile, its others who have to give a thought abt it as well. <BR/><BR/>thats true. both parties have to be genuinely interested in working on it.<BR/><BR/><BR/>**I think its not only taking load off but also try not to have such load in first place (which ofcourse not easy sometimes) is important...what ya say?? <BR/><BR/>well it's a tough one. Cos being human alot of ppl say/do things on impulse. But I know what u mean. Being extra-cautious b4 u open ur mouth or do something is a sure safety measure. :) Good one.<BR/><BR/>-------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Adi hows u? :)<BR/><BR/>**but mostly the hurt is within us. we choose to keep it wid us. <BR/><BR/>thats soooo right. It's like we r in love with the hurt or something - we just wanna drag the pain. Best to realise that and let go.<BR/><BR/>no tension mate, just a rant ;-)tnxxxxx!<BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Eclipsed heyy mwahhhhhh! I was missin ya. Hope ur ok.<BR/><BR/>**Regarding frens, i dont bother to make up if its not my fault<BR/><BR/>well Im soooo like u. I have a bit of an ego too. Not that it's bad but u need that to survive. But lately I have been really lose on it...I mean lookin ard me, ppl dying, falling ill etc etc have made me wanna reconcile sooner than ever b4. I cant be angry for too long anymore. I guess Im getting older? :)<BR/><BR/>awww ur Ma is saying sorry to ya lol so sweet! She's like my mum then. Cos last night on my way home I bough my mum a chocolate - her fav Dolce Doro white chocolate. So when I went home I left it on her bed...later on she saw it and was so happy lol! And then when I was getting ready for bed, she suddenly comes ard and says 'I forgot to say thank you for the chocolate - thank you'...lolz that was so sweet.<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159312572810980762006-09-27T09:46:00.000+10:302006-09-27T09:46:00.000+10:30Desperado HELLOOOO! I'm so glad u r in tune with m...Desperado HELLOOOO! I'm so glad u r in tune with my senses now ;-) guessing the correct song etc wow! <BR/><BR/>yeah and the only unconditional love in this world is a parent's love.<BR/><BR/>poor sis...why d u annoy her lol!<BR/><BR/><BR/>--------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Kautilya we all make mistakes...and not everyone has an understanding family. And then we get sad and hurt each other. But given time if we realise that it was all a big mistake and we can go bakk and reconcile, then thats what matters. Cos trust me alot of ppl live years and even die without re-uniting. how sad is that.<BR/><BR/>u havent lost much time...u still have time. So go bakk and re-unite. Im sure u can. With all the love and support and advice u have received from ur friends and ur own heart, u will be bakk with ur family.<BR/><BR/>tc n hugggggggz!<BR/><BR/>-------------------------------<BR/><BR/>m000nie Im glad u SMSd ur friend. That shows u really r sorry and that u wanna make up. So sweet.<BR/><BR/>Jainism sounds very interesting. Nice to have a day to remember who to say sorry to and forgive. Makes ppl realise that and work on it.<BR/><BR/><BR/>** y do we always forget the good part n remember the bad that the person has done to us???<BR/><BR/>So true! I always asked that too. m000nie if I had the ans to that, I wud be a very happy person. Unfortunately I have been the victim of the same thing. My few silly mistakes have been spewed on me while my greater deeds r buried w.o. a trace. But I cant expect ppl I love to always praise me for my good deeds. Only they have to realise that. So I just let it be. As long as I dont act the same way, Im fine.<BR/><BR/>huggggggggz n tc!<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159300378100950332006-09-27T06:22:00.000+10:302006-09-27T06:22:00.000+10:30This is a deep and well thought out and even more ...This is a deep and well thought out and even more well written post.You have written so beautifully and in such simple words that it can help anyone faced with such a situation and believe me everyone goes through thisScoothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08899941712901078084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159291245827387602006-09-27T03:50:00.002+10:302006-09-27T03:50:00.002+10:30Great blog.You must forgive to be forgiven.You sho...Great blog.<BR/><BR/>You must forgive to be forgiven.<BR/><BR/>You should forgive for you may never get another chance.<BR/><BR/><BR/>W&C/kenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159291234417318792006-09-27T03:50:00.001+10:302006-09-27T03:50:00.001+10:30Great blog.You must forgive to be forgiven.You sho...Great blog.<BR/><BR/>You must forgive to be forgiven.<BR/><BR/>You should forgive for you may never get another chance.<BR/><BR/><BR/>W&C/kenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159291221617274652006-09-27T03:50:00.000+10:302006-09-27T03:50:00.000+10:30Great blog.You must forgive to be forgiven.You sho...Great blog.<BR/><BR/>You must forgive to be forgiven.<BR/><BR/>You should forgive for you may never get another chance.<BR/><BR/><BR/>W&C/kenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-1159290343388016442006-09-27T03:35:00.000+10:302006-09-27T03:35:00.000+10:30FUCK Dr JohnFUCK the fucking BIBLE dat made BUSH a...FUCK Dr John<BR/>FUCK the fucking BIBLE dat made BUSH and BLAIR bomb IRAQ<BR/>FUCK Pope Benedict<BR/><BR/><BR/>lissen to the Mahatma<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://imnutsincaps.blogspot.com/2006/09/mohandas-karamchand-gandhi-man-we.html" REL="nofollow">go here</A>Jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09793792829148051260noreply@blogger.com