tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post8598377906787966099..comments2024-03-06T19:41:23.682+11:00Comments on Viva forever...: Seeking SabbaticalKeshihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comBlogger127125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-67918840841722175262007-06-04T11:44:00.000+10:302007-06-04T11:44:00.000+10:30Rick hey ty!**been over 30 years with my best frie...Rick hey ty!<BR/><BR/>**been over 30 years with my best friend and soulmate, so there is hope my dear Keshi.<BR/><BR/>aww what a beautiful love story. Im so happy for u 2. Love should happen this way.<BR/><BR/><BR/>ty for ur good wishes for me mate. I really appreciate it. **HUGS**<BR/><BR/>-----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>ty Shiva!<BR/><BR/>** If you take the responsibility you can destroy it. Pain has its own pleasure.<BR/><BR/>thats so true. I really like wut u said. I'll keep that in mind.<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-59996638021208787482007-06-03T23:53:00.000+10:302007-06-03T23:53:00.000+10:30We create our own fears and misery and take respon...We create our own fears and misery and take responsibility for it. If you transfer the cause on someone else, it is going to remain forever. If you take the responsibility you can destroy it. Pain has its own pleasure. Just observer it and be a witness. Don't be a part of it. Cheer up Keshi!Shivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05303339117055363095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-90397097449014605962007-06-02T06:06:00.000+10:302007-06-02T06:06:00.000+10:30I think this may be a good thing you feel frozen.W...I think this may be a good thing you feel frozen.<BR/>When I went through my divorce I was depressed and didn't care if I found anyone anymore.<BR/>My wife had just gone through a breakup and had given up on meeting the right person.<BR/>We had both given up and quit looking, that is when we found each other and....it's been over 30 years with my best friend and soulmate, so there is hope my dear Keshi.<BR/>You are a special soul and it may take awhile to get a match because of that.<BR/>In the meantime, have fun, relax and in time Mr Wonderful who's a match for you will show up when you least expect it.<BR/>I know the aching feeling of wanting to share love and be loved.<BR/>hugs<BR/>tcAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-71153329337019803052007-06-01T10:53:00.000+10:302007-06-01T10:53:00.000+10:30Rick hey ty! Big Hugs!**Keshi do you love others f...Rick hey ty! Big Hugs!<BR/><BR/><BR/>**Keshi do you love others for who they are?<BR/><BR/>Ofcourse I do Rick. But if they wanna run away from me, can I stop that? Im someone who let ppl free...let em go if they wanna...cos I believe that if they r meant to be with me, they'll be bak. I do go behind em for a while...and if they still reject me, I just leave em.<BR/><BR/><BR/>**I am not saying you should lower your standards but maybe you are a bit too rigid.<BR/><BR/>I became that. I wasnt b4. But now I am. And I cant seem to be that old trusting person anymore. I really cant Rick. I've become a frozen ice block...I dun seem to want to find anyone anymore. And I dun mean that only for a partner, its the same for friends...<BR/><BR/>But I learnt alot from ur comment...ty so much. I luv having ppl like u in my life for giving me some great advice. I hope to learn from u n change. HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!<BR/><BR/>-----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>HE ur comment as usual was one of the best! ty for that.<BR/><BR/><BR/>**but after the hornymones subside the outcome of the entire relationship is all up to the two people making choices to make it work.<BR/><BR/>I know...alot of ppl fall in LUST and then LOVE is no longer alive...<BR/><BR/>Working hard at it is a 2 way thing. If the other party dun wanna even try, then I cant do much. Unfortunately most of my r'ships were like that.<BR/><BR/>ty HE...I will keep that in mind. <BR/><BR/><BR/>-----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Ghee Im looking everywhere for him..even under my desk.<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>-----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Really Forest? :) gee wow!<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-27572035435188845822007-06-01T01:10:00.000+10:302007-06-01T01:10:00.000+10:30honestly ..i din go thru this blog yest..i found h...honestly ..i din go thru this blog yest..i found hte prev blog more interesting...so i went thru that!! <BR/><BR/>ohh mannn i now call this a co- incidence... and you wont belive... After posting this blog ...while blog hopping i ve seen a couple others who have same topic...i was really amazed!!<BR/><BR/>like minds :PSeePearrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09020949130565616618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-40081784928059695232007-06-01T00:27:00.000+10:302007-06-01T00:27:00.000+10:30awww,the perfectionist Keshi...they dont deserve y...awww,the perfectionist Keshi...<BR/>they dont deserve you,girl!you must put that in your mind :)<BR/><BR/>or maybe someone`s special waiting out there for you and you just dont happen to know when or where...<BR/><BR/>huggggssss!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-26269191871948796772007-05-31T23:23:00.000+10:302007-05-31T23:23:00.000+10:30Hmm.LOVE is a verb.As a species we are completely ...Hmm.<BR/>LOVE is a verb.<BR/>As a species we are completely overwhelmed living in cities. Physiologically we are designed to live in small clans. This modern urban culture is about as natural as living on the moon or under the sea.<BR/><BR/>We are surrounded by strangers and overwhelmed by it. Aside from the fight or flight response we have to process the mating game impulses. We can have hundreds of visual and subliminal chemical impulses throughout the day. How are we overbrained/overdressed apes supposed to manage all of this information?<BR/><BR/>Prey vs. Pray<BR/>Don't wait for it to drop on your lap we make our own luck in this life. You have to make a plan and be aware of how your brain and body work, make a list of acceptable parameters, hunt and gather in areas where your prey will likely be located.<BR/><BR/>You spin the wheel and take your chances... we can't control how other people behave and therein lies the endless heartache that we witness and experience but that is how it works.<BR/><BR/>You play the odds by looking for someone who has positive attributes and the temerity to strive towards an honest relationship. <BR/><BR/>Unfortunately, as you well know, some people (arseholes) are masters of deception and spend their entire lives TAKING instead of giving.<BR/><BR/>With so much overchoice available it takes a great deal of effort to maintain a relationship mentally, physically, and emotionally. <BR/><BR/>Lust is just a Biochemical Reaction to seen and unseen impulses that usually expires within days or months. <BR/><BR/>Love is a decision and a cognitive Action that you and your partner need to agree to work towards every single day. It will start off with the Lust part (99 times out of 100)but after the hornymones subside the outcome of the entire relationship is all up to the two people making choices to make it work.<BR/><BR/>That is why LOVE can last so long. It depends on how much effort the couple put into it. Next time that you look at the Obits and see a couple that were 'happily' married for 50 years you need to understand that those two people made a real effort to stay 'in' Love.<BR/><BR/>Wow what a blowhard I am this morning...sorry.Romeo Morningwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10826410608415260786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-36658315987697687842007-05-31T23:02:00.000+10:302007-05-31T23:02:00.000+10:30You've admitted you are a perfectionist so I think...You've admitted you are a perfectionist so I think you may expect people to behave as you would.<BR/>Everyone is different, you can't expect them to have the same thought process as you do.<BR/>I do think you're a sensitive person but other people who come into our lives may be less sensitive.<BR/>You say you have a few people who love you for who you are, Keshi do you love others for who they are?<BR/>I think you put too high of expectancy on others in your life.<BR/>This is not to say we can't expect people to treat us decently, we generally know what decent and courteous behavior is.<BR/>Expecting too much from others will cause you much pain.<BR/>I think you are as you say open and honest and you are initially free to give your love and heart in relationships.<BR/>Perhaps you need to go a bit slower.<BR/>I hate to see you in such heartache hon. I think you are a beautiful and giving person.<BR/>I am not saying you should lower your standards but maybe you are a bit too rigid.<BR/><BR/>I'm just guessing when I write these things, just throwing things out there for you to look at and perhaps something I've said may resonate for you.<BR/>I only wish the best for you keshi and don't like to see your beautiful heart breaking.<BR/>HUGS HUGS HUGS<BR/>tcAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-89618320618206291202007-05-31T15:37:00.000+10:302007-05-31T15:37:00.000+10:30ty Deepti HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!Keshi.ty Deepti HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-64490527739013760902007-05-31T15:34:00.001+10:302007-05-31T15:34:00.001+10:30Welll, dont really know how to put it but the same...Welll, dont really know how to put it but the same cliche, i guess its still not time to give up...<BR/>Hold on n what u think is a heart break is a lesson to be learnt...<BR/>M sorry abt ur dad...but you r a strong woman n will sail through...<BR/>Taking a break becomes so difficult when u actually need it, i hope u get one.oceanic mirageshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15178553386597269979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-83040975991382208412007-05-31T15:34:00.000+10:302007-05-31T15:34:00.000+10:30Tnxx samy!**he felt everyone was being unfair to h...Tnxx samy!<BR/><BR/><BR/>**he felt everyone was being unfair to him while in fact they were normal and he just expected way too much and was just stubborn that he was being fair with everyone <BR/><BR/><BR/>So how does his situation compare with mine? Was I being stubborn with my ex or with Mr.Darcy or with my friends? I dun get that. I didnt require anything special/extra from them. <BR/><BR/><BR/>ok lets just say I 'expect' things from a r'ship...well I do...the basic requirements of a r'ship is always expected. Is that alot to ask for? If not we'd be like animals isnt it? But nah I didnt expect anything more than that. And some ppl cant even stick to the basic elements of a r'ship such as respect, faith, trust and honesty.<BR/><BR/><BR/>And Samy if u think Im just feeling sorry for myself, Im sad u got that impression. I feel Im too kind, too open, too naive...somewhere deep down I need a change..in that way ur right.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-53454460669821587082007-05-31T15:26:00.000+10:302007-05-31T15:26:00.000+10:30am not trying to pin in down on someone here! ... ...am not trying to pin in down on someone here! ... right/wrong is a point of view keshi :) ... and I was not talking of what/who was morally correct/incorrect ... now in all these instance you mentioned end result - you were hurt, right?<BR/><BR/>if you'd ask me I'd say its you who is hurting you more than those ppl ... coz u let em hurt ya<BR/><BR/>am not asking you to change yourself or anything ... but I think it high time you don't let people affect you a lot<BR/><BR/>whatever it is ur going thru, I'd say they way you look at things could change how much it affects you ... take ur ex for e.g. ... dyu think such a person is worthy of ur love? ... I don't expect you to get over things in a flash ... but its in ur hands to get out of it, *without letting negative vibes get into ya* as in saying - "People are so fake...plastic...frozen...incapable of loving."<BR/><BR/>the reason why I mentioned that it could be something bout you was one of my very close friends had a problem ... he felt everyone was being unfair to him while in fact they were normal and he just expected way too much and was just stubborn that he was being fair with everyoneSamYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06192180629680061157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-38242026474076805622007-05-31T15:02:00.000+10:302007-05-31T15:02:00.000+10:30Mebbe u cant trust my words...mebbe u think that a...Mebbe u cant trust my words...mebbe u think that all the ppl who hurt me has a very good reason to hurt me. Point taken!<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-60813361522914816242007-05-31T15:01:00.000+10:302007-05-31T15:01:00.000+10:30And Samy another qn for u...When Mr.Darcy said tha...And Samy another qn for u...<BR/><BR/>When Mr.Darcy said that Im too old to be his partner, is it my fault?<BR/><BR/><BR/>When my friend G**** just got some other guy to call me one day and hurt me for something I didnt do, was it my fault?<BR/><BR/><BR/>When My cuzn laughed at my efforts 2 months ago to save my uncle was it my fault?<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>When my friend R*** lost it for cancelling dina plans and plans never to talk to me again, is it my fault?<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Tell me..<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-3804606500003657292007-05-31T14:58:00.000+10:302007-05-31T14:58:00.000+10:30Samy hey :)**but if this is happening with just ab...Samy hey :)<BR/><BR/>**but if this is happening with just about everyone u've known then probably there is some problem with you :(<BR/><BR/>no I wont hate u for saying it...but can I ask u this...when my ex said he's going to marry his parents' choice cos he cant say NO to them, is it my fault??<BR/><BR/><BR/>-----------------------------------<BR/><BR/><BR/>Vest heyy!<BR/><BR/>**Substitute, 'I can' for 'We can' maybe it would make more sense<BR/><BR/>awww I got it now....Im sorry :(<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-352626496531671402007-05-31T14:55:00.000+10:302007-05-31T14:55:00.000+10:30Keshi: Bruce worked for me, B was a sex machine an...Keshi: Bruce worked for me, B was a sex machine and had many lovers, women fell in love with Bruce at first sight.<BR/><BR/>Substitute, 'I can' for 'We can' maybe it would make more sense.xVesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15390020901033513032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-42321320122545606762007-05-31T14:50:00.000+10:302007-05-31T14:50:00.000+10:30ur proly gonna hate me for saying this but then I ...ur proly gonna hate me for saying this but then I think I wanna get you thinking, hope you take it on a positive note - if its few ppl who you have a problem with then its probably their fault ... but if this is happening with just about everyone u've known then probably there is some problem with you :(<BR/><BR/><BR/>it easier to change ourselves than to change the world :)<BR/><BR/>** People are so fake...plastic...frozen...incapable of loving.<BR/><BR/>the wierd thing about humans is that we see people the way we want to see them ;)<BR/><BR/>its gud to vent things out keshi ... but don't get judgemental when ur not calm<BR/><BR/>cheers nuttySamYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06192180629680061157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-60741233219365437162007-05-31T14:25:00.000+10:302007-05-31T14:25:00.000+10:30Nadim Im as fast as a bullet ;-)**but its a very s...Nadim Im as fast as a bullet ;-)<BR/><BR/>**but its a very short term solution with severe mid and long term side effects.<BR/><BR/>I agree. Sex is like taking cough lollies when ur actually dying from Tuberulosis hehehe.<BR/><BR/><BR/>I dunno if Im a hopeless romantic or passionate or both. But I sure am hopeless LOL!<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-12465668138792843852007-05-31T14:22:00.000+10:302007-05-31T14:22:00.000+10:30Saby mebbe u should let the youth go thru it and c...Saby mebbe u should let the youth go thru it and come to ur age to find out what it is like...it's easier to advise when u have gone thru it all already.<BR/><BR/><BR/>-----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Thats true Rose...mebbe I should just be. ty n huggggggggggggz!<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>-----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>Anony heyy!<BR/><BR/><BR/>**How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days<BR/><BR/>U sure seem to know how it feels LOL!<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-64807647526068905632007-05-31T14:20:00.000+10:302007-05-31T14:20:00.000+10:30you reply and you reply fast! lol!i thought as the...you reply and you reply fast! lol!<BR/>i thought as there are so many comments, it would be near impossible to reply to each one! But your bloglove totally blew me over!<BR/><BR/>anon has a point. But he doesnt seem to realize that body needs are different than emotional needs. Sex does work fine when it comes to fulfilling some emotional needs but its a very short term solution with severe mid and long term side effects. The major ones being self-devaluation and increased restlessness.<BR/><BR/>so you say the more emotional you are the more are the chances to turn cold? It sounds right. makes sense. sometimes its called 'mental imbalance'. and misunderstood for passion. But I agree, hard times can knock over even the most passionate! When even the most passionate cant survive, guess who stands tall still hoping for fantasies to come true? <BR/>Hopeless romantics! <BR/>I am a bit of both! passionate and a hopeless romantic! <BR/><BR/>You... well, i think i am not sure! but sound more like a hop-rom! i would say 75% hop-rom and 25% passion! am i close? or did it make any sense at all? lol!Nadimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01734207513971181010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-6568085523804623012007-05-31T14:08:00.000+10:302007-05-31T14:08:00.000+10:30How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days : The Universal Don't...How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days : The Universal Don'ts of DatingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-5282582324836479932007-05-31T14:07:00.000+10:302007-05-31T14:07:00.000+10:30How to Turn Your Ex-Boyfriend into a Toad & Other ...How to Turn Your Ex-Boyfriend into a Toad & Other Spells : For Love, Wealth, Beauty and RevengeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-65988410751971985882007-05-31T14:06:00.001+10:302007-05-31T14:06:00.001+10:30The Code : Time-Tested Secrets for Getting What Yo...The Code : Time-Tested Secrets for Getting What You Want from Women Without Marrying Them!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-8554250693622136132007-05-31T14:06:00.000+10:302007-05-31T14:06:00.000+10:30hmmm... keshi, dont know what to say , except hang...hmmm... keshi, dont know what to say , except hang in there, things will get better. I have been there, and no one's life is perfect, in fact the more we try to make ourselves better and seek perfection, the more we struggle. <BR/>but life always goes up after we hit the bottom. this too will pass, my friend.<BR/>and keshi, you have to be extra careful about trusting anyone, esply nowadays. <BR/><BR/>hugs! love. and take care.mystic rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05125795139102746210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476566.post-3430588955232477272007-05-31T14:05:00.000+10:302007-05-31T14:05:00.000+10:302. Babies and Other Hazards of Sex : How to Make a...2. Babies and Other Hazards of Sex : How to Make a Tiny Person in Only 9 Months With Tools You Probably Have Around the Home ~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com