Thank You for taking part in my last 'rather lengthy' post! It was not only a test about Keshi's love-life, it was also a test on Patience from your side. Those who took part, took time out to read and answer ALL the qns, I really do appreciate that. It only goes to show that you really care. Blogging is not just about commenting, it's also about making one another feel appreciated and understood. I had a need to be fulfilled through that post. And that is to conclude my Romance factor...to realise where I stand. Now here are the scores in comment-order. Above 80% is pretty good I think. That means you know me too well OMG congrattz! All of you who took part were good. Welldone all of ya and thanks for making me laugh with your comments! :)Jack - 75%
Dave - 15%
CN - 80% *you know me too well boy!*
Preeti - 40%
Suresh - 65%
Thousif - 60%
Jeevan - 65%
Devil - 40%
Amit - 65%
Rat - 75%
Ria - 90% *I had a premonition about this!*
Devika - 85% *We are so alike indeed!*
Cess - 80% *A French ME over here!*
Joyce - 75%
Ammu - 70%
Anuz - 5% *lol*
Anits - 75%
Conclusion: It's official. My love-life is in extinction. *if you spot a White Rhino, do let me know!*. I'm an introvert when it comes to approaching potential partners, not because I was born one, I was made to be one. I became a nerd when it comes to romance, cos I had to. *cut the sweet crap, get on with it! I get bored very easily*. While I'd be a good lover, I don't make any effort to find that person I could be a lover to. HAHA! Why? I seem to be floating in clouds of memories and not moving on from the past *I just don't want to be bothered, I'd rather have a shower!*. I still do enjoy flirting, sexual tension, casual conversations etc, but I draw the line just there, and I say Good Night. I'm not scared of being in a relationship, neither am I scared of being alone. No it's not that I don't want a partner either. Then WTF is it Keshi? I think I'm just bored with it all and I'm plain lazy. Relationships are hard work...too many sacrifices...too many expectations...too much of distraction...too many 'must-do's than 'just-be's *no offense to anyone in a relationship*. I'm being honest here rather than being politically correct. Relationships just take too much time and energy...sometimes, they drive you away from what you really are...it's all routine, boxed and mundane for someone like me. They waste my emotions, time and energy. In the end I'm so exhausted by it all, I'd rather be alone. I don't want to be a part of a circus just to please others. If I'm happy, I'll be there. If not, I'm not gonna do it. In comparison to my past relationship experiences, being single *my current phase* is the happiest and freest of my life. Currently I think I'm right where I belong. Perhaps, if I'm meant to share my life with someone, it will happen in future. But I'm not gonna sweat about that now. It if it happens, it will, if not, I'll still be ok. I'm happy and I'm cruising just the way I am right now. But that doesn't mean it should be the same for everyone. This is just my opinion based on my life. To each his own. Now can God create something NEW for me to venture into and explore other than a relationship? *bored, rolling eyes, zzzzzz, zaps!* BUT if John Abraham comes around, I might reconsider what I just stated above! *a thousand apologies* ;-). Guys approach me...alot of them. I just can't be bothered anymore. You think I'm in love? That I'm sent from above? I'm not that innocent.
Current Music: Oops I Did It Again! by Britney Spears
oh my my, another post. WOW, thanks for it. I shall come back when my ASS is on less fire and read this. TC:))
ReplyDeleteActually i ended up reading it.I think you have this new thing called "love gloom-flirtation syndrome", coined by one famous doc called Dr. Zillion, which clearly states such conditions. All you need is 3 cold water showers( one before Breakfast and then after lunch and dinner), 10 minutes of meditation( first thing after you wake up) and then just before zzzzzz.
ReplyDeleteHandsome men are a plenty but what is meant for you, would come to you, walking on his own.Kesgi deserves the BEST and the best deserves only Keshi. TC NICE POST:))
Hmmmmmmmmm...a good large and long explanation..
ReplyDeleteI guess if anyone else is apporaching u the next side,make sure he reads this as a pre-requisite.. :P
Everything in life has a TIME for it.and if its destined to happen,it shall,else it wont.. :) and am really glad u aren rushing on with it.. :)
Hats off to you..!!
Take care kesh.. :)
Nikhil
Oh Yes, I knew it could be above a 75% grade :)
ReplyDelete"It if it happens, it will, if not, I'll still be ok."
thats the best attitude, :)
wishes,
devika
watch the next corner gal... you never know who is gonna bump into ya...
ReplyDeleteand it neednt be a stranger :P
Wow!!tht was awesome. And dint i tell u tht we r twins. :)
ReplyDeleteI know u r very secured as a woman and thats something that every woman should have in her. I can tell u abt so many woman who jump into inconclusive relationshipd jus bcoz of their insecurity!! Stay the way u r gurl, and like u said if things hav to happen they will...no point sweating abt it. :)
Materialistic world And love is lost somewhere but I am sure love exist.
ReplyDeleteI am back, Free Woman.
ReplyDeleteStay single. The possibilities are just endless, I say.
How have you been? Glad to be back here again. Yep.
*smilez*
i lost one more competition, yet again, buhuhuhuhuhu......
ReplyDeleteanyway, i guess, i would rather post on the previous blog, this one is too bad... considering my p00r results.
Hey Keshi...
ReplyDeleteHow are ya doing..?
:)
I seemed to have missed out on some interesting bits! But I'm back catching up!
ReplyDeletegood take on relationships :):) esp the must do and just be thought. got me thinking with my err.. rather pea sized brains :) HUGS dearie :)
ReplyDeleteSecond lowest. Wow, so many high school flashbacks... this must give me an EQ of ten :(
ReplyDeleteOh well.
Relationships are certainly hard work, but I guess in the end, they're worth it - that giant spectrum of emotions you experience when you're in one does not quite have an equal.
Keshi,
ReplyDeleteIt is so bold of you to be honest about everything. Relationship is not a burden, if both partners understand each other well and avoid getting into the skin of each other. And you will not be given any forewarning by Cupid when he shoots arrow onto you. I wish and pray it happens soon.
Take care
me missed ur previous post :(
ReplyDeleteanyways,being single is cool (at least for ppl like me).
john abraham,eh? **winks**
hahahahaha...
ReplyDeleteit was good one dear... :D
Ha well I didn't do the poll , coz I was trying to find John's no and ask him to call you ;)
ReplyDeleteTsk-Keshi,I shouldn't have answered those 'deliberately wrong' answers..hehe!!Anyways,great to get a fuller insight into the 'Keshi enigma', the boredom part being the most amusing.:)
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'I don't want to be part of a circus just to please others'-amen to that!!We think alike...and, believe it or not, today only, someone was telling me at work' you need to be more diplomatic and sometimes political out here'..and, I just stared blankly...what for, I wanted to ask?So that I could be as pseudo as some of the others at work?
Sigh. How much can I miss? =(
ReplyDeleteKeshi...i did not participate in your last post coz i wanted other people to win......i would have come out 100%..with all the answers correct. ;)
ReplyDeleteerr...ahem......can we go for a coffee sometime?? :P
talldarkman
lol!!!!!! i loved your posts! this and the previous one!!!
ReplyDeletei agree with you.. its like a burden off your shoulder. something people worry about that which they dont have to worry about now!! we can worry about it when the time comes. right?
:P
75% just 75.. thats a very bad EXam score :( boohoo..
ReplyDeleteand har har har.. i knew u wud throw all d rules to the wind if it is JA.. :P
am visiting u for the first time, n one thing i understood very clearly i.e. u too love ur blog just like me! using blog as a tool to expression... thats wat i do, juts like u. as far as relationships r concern, am quite naive.. so guess shouldnt comment much but i quite liked ur attitude to b frank n not politically correct, quite liked that line :)
ReplyDeleteAh, isn't it weird that those who are single keep saying how awesome it is and yet most people end up in a relationship?
ReplyDeleteWell, I do believe that relationships take a lot of effort to maintain. More times than not, we end up feeling like we wasted most of that effort.
I am glad you're enjoying your single-time so much. Once you get into a long-term relation (I am sure you will), you are going to miss these days.
All the best for the future :)
Im glad your happy where you are now.. but from personal experience let me tell you, that when the right one comes along, it happens so quick.. that you wont know what hit you :)!
ReplyDeleteRelationships are hard work...too many sacrifices...too many expectations...too much of distraction...too many 'must-do's than 'just-be's...
ReplyDeleteAMEN! I have watched the dynamic of many relationships, including my own, and that is just the problem with the majority of them. One person in the relationship almost always views the other person in it as a possession to be remade or even recreated as the other wants. No wonder the divorce rate is so high.
The relationships not like that have both members of it accepting their significant other as a real person with their own strengths and weaknesses, and loving them for both.
Personally I believe nothing is going to get better in these relationship wars until we do less of teh former and work more with teh latter.
Yeah but most of the guys who approach you are probably losers or players. You don't want guys like that. You want someone who is real and not a jerk or loser. Nothing wrong with being picky or not particularly interested in anyone for a while.
ReplyDeletewuhooo...i gt 75% no joke :P
ReplyDeleteSo Mr John could change keshi's current assumptions abt her love life ???;)
Come soon John...:P:P I hope bipasha won't mind ;)
tc
Would you agree that relationship just happen and then one feels why they didnt step up to the plate for a while.
ReplyDelete:'( :'(
ReplyDeletei read ur previous post and wanted to comment on it answering all..
due to lack of time i thought of coming back again and i was stuck with so many things that i cudnt answer.. :'(
now i'm feeling so bad about this.. :'( it wud hav been so much fun writing for those answers.. :( i missed it..
and haila, Ria and U are definitely twins! guessing most of it right! :)
cheers
don't worry sumwhere there is a nice boy waiting for ya...
ReplyDeletegood luck for the search though.... :P
OOOhhhhh!!! What a romantic post or should I say a 'from the heart' post...
ReplyDeleteLoved your confession and your request!!! The explanation of the entire logic bowled me over..:)
Okkie, let's keep John aside but what if a similar soul approached you?
Your shining knight in armour need not be handsome but someone who knew and understood you inside out!
And about relationships, just so true.. am married!; but I know the boundaries of a relationship!
A'ways I can't turn back time but hoping that you take the right cheque..;)
yeay i scored 80% I guess i know a tiny bit of Keshi :P I would have answer pretty much the same if it was mine :)
ReplyDeleteC.
PS: i ll be off for a week... have to go to France, might not comment on ur next posts be i ll probably read them
tc
hey Zillion!
ReplyDelete**love gloom-flirtation syndrome
I guess I hv it too...cos I seem to be showering alot..maybe to cure it? LOL!
;-)
Keshi.
ty Nikhil!
ReplyDelete**pre-requisite..
Im not sure any guy u'stands that lol!
*TIME
I agree. And sometimes that TIME never comes. And it's still ok.
Keshi.
aww ty Devika :) u did well!
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
Arv I hv been bumping into jerks...rem Im a jerk-magnet!
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
aww ty Ria *HUGZ*
ReplyDelete** can tell u abt so many woman who jump into inconclusive relationshipd jus bcoz of their insecurity!!
Spot on! Thats exactly what I meant.
I can just go out with anyone, just to hv a BF. But why must I do that? Im not gonna just SETTLE.
Keshi.
Hobo Im sure Love exists too...but I dun need a BF to know that :)
ReplyDeleteI see lovers walking by...I hv seen Marriages so real. That means there's LOVE out there. Just cos I dun hv a BF, that doesnt mean there isnt LOVE out there :)
Keshi.
WB Soul my space missed ur presence! :)
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
LOL LOL LOL! @Anuz
ReplyDeleteits ok...its good to fail than to cheat and pass? :)
Keshi.
Im good Vinu ty and urself? :)
ReplyDeleteHows everything? Been a long time ay..
Keshi.
Hey thats ok Rakesh :)
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
Preetz tnxx hun!
ReplyDeleteIts not always the case. I think when ur with the one who's meant for ya, everything else will fall in place :)
Keshi.
lol tnxx for trying Dave!
ReplyDelete**Relationships are certainly hard work, but I guess in the end, they're worth it - that giant spectrum of emotions you experience when you're in one does not quite have an equal
I agree. I guess for ya to feel that way, u should meet the ONE.
Keshi.
aww ty Jack!
ReplyDeleteI hv no qualms abt being honest :) for whats the point lying to myself hehe.
**Relationship is not a burden, if both partners understand each other well and avoid getting into the skin of each other
I agree. Its never a burden if u found the ONE.
Keshi.
And for ppl like ME Anwesa ;-)
ReplyDeletebut wait til John arrives!
Keshi.
lol ty Chakoli!
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
yeah right Vish lol!
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
hey Amit ty lol!
ReplyDelete** someone was telling me at work' you need to be more diplomatic and sometimes political out here'..and, I just stared blankly...what for, I wanted to ask?So that I could be as pseudo as some of the others at work?
I agree..what for? who r we trying to please?
Instead I please MYSELF :)
Keshi.
Crystal now start writing again in ur blog wont ya? :(
ReplyDelete*HUGZ* miss ur posts!
Keshi.
LOL TDM yeah right!
ReplyDeleteWhy dun u really do the test and let me see if u score a 100% :)
Coffee? u mean an e-coffee? LOL!
Keshi.
ur right Harini. I hv single friends who r so 'worried' abt not hvn a BF. *rolling eyes*
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
Rat 75% is not bad at all! :)
ReplyDeleteand yes ofcourse, John is excluded from all my mental illnesses. lol!
Keshi.
hey Shruti WC and ty so much! :)
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
hey ty Sandy!
ReplyDeleteI think most ppl 'look' to be in a r'ship than really 'being' in it :)
**Well, I do believe that relationships take a lot of effort to maintain. More times than not, we end up feeling like we wasted most of that effort.
yep...and thats cos u hvnt found ur perfect match. The problem with me is I dun wanna just settle. Im not choosy but I will never do something just for the sake of it.
Keshi.
ty Anu!
ReplyDelete**that when the right one comes along, it happens so quick
I'd imagine so :) But it happened with the wrong ones too hehe...
Keshi.
ty BB!
ReplyDelete** One person in the relationship almost always views the other person in it as a possession to be remade or even recreated as the other wants. No wonder the divorce rate is so high.
ur spot on. I hv many friends like that. For them finding someone was so imp and worse, they wanted that person to be JUST LIKE THEM.
**The relationships not like that have both members of it accepting their significant other as a real person with their own strengths and weaknesses, and loving them for both.
Well-said!
Often ppl looking for a partner seems to be looking for their twin...:) I want someone to show me new things abt life...someone to discover me...someone to teach me things I've never known. SOMEONE DIFFERENT TO WHO I AM.
Keshi.
aww ty Jay!
ReplyDelete**Nothing wrong with being picky or not particularly interested in anyone for a while.
I agree. Nothing wrong there at all. ppl ask me how come ur single. Im like 'so what'. lol!
Keshi.
Joyce I know...John so can make me un-single. haha!
ReplyDeleteu did well in the test ;-)
Keshi.
hey Tarun!
ReplyDelete**Would you agree that relationship just happen and then one feels why they didnt step up to the plate for a while.
Im not in a position to agree with that statement...not yet Tarun. lol!
Keshi.
hey Swetha thats ok hun. ty! :)
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
hey Bro tnxx!
ReplyDelete**don't worry sumwhere there is a nice boy waiting for ya...
and WHERE is that SOMEWHERE? :)
Keshi.
hey Fid ty sweetie!
ReplyDelete**let's keep John aside but what if a similar soul approached you?
LOL I'd fall at his feet. Just kidding ;-)
I dunno...I think I hvnt come across someone who didnt tell me something that I already knew. I want someone to define new standards that will bowl me over. That will be the one :)
Keshi.
hey Cess u did well hun! :)
ReplyDeleteFrance? take me too!!!
Au Revoir!
Keshi.
btw, on serious note, i could have answered most of them correctly. but i tend to go bonkers and write some weird stuff, nerdy us u see. but atleast we had some laugh.
ReplyDeleteAnuz I knew u were just hvn good fun and I loved it lol! That was good, seriously :)
ReplyDeleteKeshi.
the song says it all, lol and (*applaudes*) thats me applauding myself :D, cause i scored 65% lol i dint score that much in my degree xams you know ;)
ReplyDeleteanyways for 1st timer i think i did pretty good dont you think....
but on a more serious note, i still belive being ina relationship is better than being single cause there is always someone to care abt, there is always someone to ask you where were yoy this late???, why are you not being yourself today?
yeah i know sometimes it irritates, but still the love and care from the person is genuine rgt, and abt the sacrifices life is all abt it, i think you know it better than me telling you, na
i know being single i cool, but still 'a companion' makes it a whole lot better
take care and keep writing......
ty Thousif :) u did well!
ReplyDelete**i still belive being ina relationship is better than being single cause there is always someone to care abt, there is always someone to ask you where were yoy this late???, why are you not being yourself today?
I agree but I hv a r'ship with myself...lol so Im happy!
;-)
Keshi.
relationship with yourself, lol that was a nice one :D
ReplyDeletetake care and keep writing.......
ty Thousif :)
ReplyDeleteKeshi.