Monday, May 28

A Well-Known Stranger

Ok you are not going to believe what I'm about to say. Cos even I can't believe that this really happened...I still can't and I won't be able to for a very long time. My life sure is full of dramas and I think it's worth putting it up on the Guinness Book. OMG I can't even believe I'm writing this today! I can hear you saying 'cut the crap Keshi and get to the point'. Ok let me take a deep breath now!! So I spill em now:

On Saturday, me and my sis had a coffee date planned with 2 other friends. We planned this 2 weeks ago. We were to go to a nearby beach cafe - a 10mins drive from home. So we drove to S's place first at about 2pm and then parked our car there as S said it's best we all go in one car - her car. We had to pick A on the way, so we drove to her place, picked A up and were on our way to the beach. Since S was driving, I was seated in the front passenger seat, and my sis and A were at the back. We were all caught up in girly chatter and suddenly G's wedding topic came up. Both S and A don't know G that well, but have heard about her before and know how close we were. So they both told us it's silly of her not to invite us but it's ok cos we still had each other etc etc. You know just making-us-feel-good talk hehe. And as S was nearing the cafe area, driving down this popular beach road, I saw beautifully dressed people getting out of several cars. Then we all said to each other that it must be a wedding etc. And as I turned my face to the left to get a closer look, I saw a huge Catholic church and a beautiful bride getting out of a silver convertible. Guess who it was???? IT WAS G*****!!! My jaw-dropped to the seat as I said to everyone in the car 'OMG it's G's wedding guys!'. I'm truly surprised I didn't pass out. We were all completely in shock that we drove past the same church that G was having her wedding!! I just can't believe that (I just can't cant' can't can't can't can't ever believe that!). Out of all the roads in Sydney, all the suburbs, all the places, all the churches, we had to go past the place where G was having her wedding?? I swear I didn't even know where her church ceremony or the reception was (come to think of it, I know G loved this area and now it isn't so much of a surprise she chose that area). However I had no idea that we'd be driving down that same street!

We had to park down that street cos that's where our cafe was. I told S that we should go somewhere else cos if someone saw us they'd think we were snooping (which we were not but who's going to believe us when even I cant believe what has just happened??). But S said that she can't find any other parking spot cos it was a busy street etc, so we had to park right there and walk past that same church. So as I walked past it, I saw G now standing at the church door with 3 beautiful bride's maids (all dressed in G's favorite color purple) and with her mum and dad by her side. There were few guests I recognised but as I walked by pretty fast (my heart beating faster from the shock and not wanting to be seen by any other friends), we didn't see much. But I did see G! She didn't see me though. She looked so radiant and so very beautiful in a white sleevless bridal dress. I felt like calling out her name and saying 'G you look gorgeous, I wish you well hun'...but cmon you know I can't and won't do that...cos I'm the uninvited and I don't want her to think I planned this or give her any stress on her big day.

So we finally reached the cafe (in total disbelief and in joy at the same time), had a good 2 hours by the beach sipping coffee and talking about life and it's strange ways...went home and told my mum about what we saw on the way...she nearly fainted LOL! Anyways all's well that ends well. Did the angels drive S's car that day? Can someone give me an explanation to the shocking co-incidence that happened on Saturday? Cos I still can't believe what I saw. It's been a while since I felt that excited about something totally unexpected happening and I was chuckling the whole day at the marvel of it all. I will be sending G a card to wish her well, as well as to let her know I just happened to walk by. That day I was just a stranger down the street but I knew that bride so well. Life sure is strange and the surprises it has for you is totally UNREAL! I believe in angels and miracles. I really do.


Happy Monday folks!


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146 comments:

  1. It happens in everyone's life, moments of unexpectedness.

    Though you were shocked, you were able to see her in the wedding dress.
    Now, cheer up keshi and have your coffee !
    :)

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  2. NO WAY! that has got to be fate or destiny or something!!! That is super freaky. Well in a way - perhaps in both of your heart of hearts - you wanted to be there and she wanted you there...so maybe this was the way how it could happen :)

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  3. What? No pictures? I would have taken pictures. LOL

    Did they have a free bar at the reception. Cause if they did I would have crashed the reception party too. ;-)

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  4. Oh what a drama indeed Keshi and so sweet of you to be sending a card to her.....on a positive note, sometimes wedding couples might have missed out some names or they just might have only a limited budget to work on.

    Yes....a bitter sweet feeling I suppose. Wishing G all the best.

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  5. My gosh! what a small world!!!

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  6. Dont give me dat crap
    u cudnt resist

    u had to see her
    now i get it

    now i no why u were so hurt
    u two were having a les relationship

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  7. hey Keshi

    u dont be in a hurry to get married with a man (or woman)

    u will break a lotta hearts here

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  8. Drama Drama Drama and Mas Drama! Como estas chica?! I have not kept up to date the past week.. Busy and more busy.. yeah probably not a great answer!

    Well everything happens for a reason. ...it is kind of freaky though...have a happy monday!

    Muah!

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  9. hahaha.. atleast you knew only the bride.. and it didnt end up being omg thats my friend who didnt invite me..
    OMFG.. thats the guy i made out with last night.. he's the groom
    hahahahaha
    may be fate took you there anyways eh?

    hahaha.. weird how things happen eh?

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  10. What an insane story Kesh! I think you totally should have crashed that party, and act like you were invited.

    "Oh, thanks so much for inviting us G, this is just a lovely wedding".

    But then that's just me.

    Still, what are the odds?

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  11. I bet G will be very happy you did see her in the end, it was supposed to be this way.
    I had people attend my wedding, more people than at the reception. It is too expensive to invite everyone to a reception.

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  12. Oh,and also Keshi, it did not mean I did not value the freindship of those who just came to the chapel to see the wedding and not to the reception, I love everyone same :)

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  13. yo!

    damp squib! i thot you would say you saw brad pitt standing on the road asking for a lift :D THAT would be classic..

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  14. Wow, Keshi!
    I can't believe too. Your life is really very interesting. I'm sure some day you will write wonderful book( autobiography?).

    Good luck to you!

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  15. Great to know the place u were planned to spend is the same G’s wedding place. Nice at least u could see her on her wedding. The title is perfect to this post!. have a great weekdays.

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  16. haha~ that is really strange!!
    i hate seeing wedding ppl :P
    cheer up, keshi-chan!!

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  17. Hey Keshi

    i wont ask your age
    but u can tell your monthly salary

    i just want to know the pay scales all over the world

    for the consultancy i do here
    i can only get 60 dollars a day

    my counter part in california gets 1000 dollars a day for the same work

    which i can do better

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  18. OMFG.. thats the guy i made out with last night.. he's the groom


    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
    thanks smart and huggable
    Huggsss

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  19. Unexpected events ,that is life

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  20. Hey Keshi, sorry for the unexpected hiatus..Now I am back baby. Check out some sunset pics at http://merifotos.blogpsot.com.

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  21. I needed dat laff
    things are bad here

    not getting much work
    in fact not getting much of anything

    sad sack
    thats me

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  22. i like the look in Gopis eyes
    he looks like a dreamer

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  23. hehe Jac yes...tnxxx!


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    Yes Silvara even I kept saying NO-WAY for hours after that!


    ** perhaps in both of your heart of hearts - you wanted to be there and she wanted you there

    I wanted to be there cos I wanted to wish her well on her special day...she and I have been that close. But Im not sure if she wanted me to be there. If she did, she cud have invited me just for teh church ceremony.


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    Jay I was actually thinking of taking some mobile shots...lol I wasnt soo brave tho.


    **Cause if they did I would have crashed the reception party too

    they wud have had a bar for sure...cos they r Italians.


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    ty Shionge!

    **sometimes wedding couples might have missed out some names or they just might have only a limited budget to work on

    I know sometimes that happens too...but her dad stopped by our place 2 months ago and said that we'd be invited. But I wasnt so sure anyways. :)


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    ty Iceman :)


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    Isnt it Menchie!



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    Anony/Saby

    **u cudnt resist
    u had to see her

    YUKKKKK Im not that kind of person. The kind who snoops in uninvited weddings. plzzzzz u know me better!


    **u two were having a les relationship

    to tell u the truth ur the SICKEST person that I have ever come across in my entire life.


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    Lisa I know...everything happens for a reason. ty sweetie!


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    hehe Choco :)

    Yes I believe it's FATE.


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    AB lol yes its totally insane! And the TIMING omg! I mean she was getting out of the car to go into the church as we passed!!


    **Oh, thanks so much for inviting us G, this is just a lovely wedding".

    LOL I cant do that mate. I wish I cud tho :)


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    Hey Caz!

    **I bet G will be very happy you did see her in the end, it was supposed to be this way.

    I know she will get to know..cos one guy saw me...and he knows both G n me very well. Anyways!


    **It is too expensive to invite everyone to a reception.

    aww Caz I know that. Alot of my friends who got married just invite the closest only for the reception...cos it's damn expensive! And ur right...that doesnt mean u value the chapel-only guests any less than the rest.

    But G didnt even invite me to the chapel and I know that hadnt we had that tiff, I'd be even one of her brides' maids...we were that close.

    ty n HUGGGGGGGGGZ!


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    hey Jit!

    **thot you would say you saw brad pitt standing on the road asking for a lift

    in that case I wudnt be blogging today...I'd be on my way to Hollywood with him. LOL!


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    hehe Krys :) Im not sure if I'd write a book...but this blog has is my life story...some day when Im gone, it's all written over here :)


    huggggggggggz!


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    Fate it is Nora!

    Its freaky tho.

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    ty Jeevan!


    :)


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    Niki I LOVE weddings!



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    Saby lol!


    **i wont ask your age
    but u can tell your monthly salary


    ok I will email ya.

    So this American trip is all abt the money? And not abt ur GF?

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    True Deepak!



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    hey Akshay WB! I missed ya. ok I'll be there soon :)



    Keshi.

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  24. Too much going on in my life. I really dont know how people deal with it all.

    I know, have faith, it will work. I tell myself that over and over.

    I wish life were like a movie, a good romantic comedy.....that way you know how it will end.









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  25. Anony heyy!

    **I wish life were like a movie, a good romantic comedy.....that way you know how it will end.

    if u knew how it ends, will there be any fun at all? I dun wanna know the end...let it unfold as it should.

    Keshi.

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  26. money is important
    dont knock money

    money can buy u happiness
    if u know where to shop

    money can buy u love too
    there is nothing more attractive to a woman than a fat wallet

    never mind if u have a fat belly too
    and your jeans dont bulge in the front

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  27. its Mirandas birth day on Monday

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  28. http://deepinmymind.blogspot.com/
    dats miranda

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  29. Saby nah I dun believe Money can buy TRUE happiness. Money can buy u temporary joy...like how retail therapy helps me chillax. But as soon as the excitement of my new top or shoes wears off, Im back in a black pit.


    Keshi.

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  30. Happiness is a vague concept
    the happiest man in the world is an idiot drooling saliva


    only 2 types of people are truly happy

    the idiot and the saint
    who lives in the hope of paradise

    i want my happiness now

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  31. Co-incidence!!

    But sure the kind that would freak anyone. :)
    Happy Monday :)

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  32. omg keshi.....thts some heck of a coincidence!!!!!
    sometimes life s so funny!!!:)

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  33. Neihal it sure was...cos the timing was perfect too!


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    aha Priyanka...Im still in shock actually.



    Keshi.

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  34. lol!!
    U'll never know what life has for u! :)

    peace & love
    Jeevy

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  35. Much ado about nothing

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  36. Wow at least u got a peek at how beautiful she is..:)

    Its amazing how life sometimes hear ya silent cries i guess. haha..Really something i must say!!

    wowie!!

    ~Jewel

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  37. haha Rejeev yes Life sure has a stock of surprises!


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    Anony how d u mean?


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    Amy hey tnxx sweetie!

    **Its amazing how life sometimes hear ya silent cries i guess

    I know! Isnt it shocking. I mean I didnt want to be there cos I felt hurt...but somehow deep down I wondered what she looked like as a bride etc...and then it seems like someone/something heard that wish. It's just UNBELIEVABLE! Amy u should've seen my face then...LOL!


    Keshi.

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  38. Really amazing.I have had incidents like this too in my life--a friend of mine is a strong believer in destiny and says "In life there are no coincidences" It has happened quite a few times to me--and sometimes I do believe that certain things are destined.No matter what you do certain things just happen for no reason.
    What else can you call it except destiny?

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  39. Life is full of coincidents! How do you meet your future life partner? Is it written somewhere in advance?

    I'm sure you will end up as best freinds one day again... and then this will be an even better story!

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  40. Hi,Keshi..I can imagine your surprise,nee,shock at seeing the wedding scene...guess that's what life is all about..Unreal,sometimes.:)

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  41. wow...
    may it be divine intervention or mere coincidence, it is surely dramatic...

    *** Anyways all's well that ends well.***
    yeps... true enough...

    take care...
    cheers!!!

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  42. Image something happening in front you and you know every dialogue being said and going to transpire including the conclusion!! happened to me many a time, this is amazing LOL!!....
    Take care Keshi, Ash

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  43. isnt life full of strange coincidences!

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  44. Keshi,

    Well if it was me, i would have attended her wedding. :)

    I dont wait for invitations. :)

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  45. Keshi: It is high time you became a beautful bride, you have more than enough qualities and love stored within yourself to achieve a lifetime of shared joy love and happiness.

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  46. Boy ! looks like you had some reasl time connection ! I mean virtual real time connection to guide you there ! A mental GPRS kinds...whooa

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  47. i don't believe in coincidence...it is better for you to search the meaning...maybe it is to say that you have to invite her for ur wedding ;)

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  48. lol OMG OMG OMG .. i wud have seriously fainted!!! out of all places u HAD to go there! A big coincidence!! Maybe someone up there thought that you HAD to give ur best wishes to the couple in some way .. and hence this happened!

    therez no other explanation .. unless S took u there on purpose lol .. which is not true coz u all had pre-planned all that!

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  49. Yes, that is very odd. Clearly you all have quite similar tastes. I'm glad you saw a positive spin on it - I think I'd have floored it in the other direction.

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  50. What a beautiful post :)

    Angels do indeed exist, and miracles happen everyday :D

    As the line on your one picture says: "Only as deep as i look can i see"

    Wonderful :)

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  51. You didn't call her to wish her ,huh? Oh well... at least you saw her as a bride!!Good fir you.Sounds like fate and you were destined to see your ex buddy in her best moment:))
    Enjoy the feeling and have a great day.We still have memorial day holiday today,tomorrow back to routine.

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  52. Hey Keshi, everything happens for a reason, I truly believe that. Weddings are strange, you're entering this new phase of life, and leaving an old behind. Somewhere in your marriage you have to reconcile old hurts and relationships with you new life, but at the onset, you don't see that growth and those steps. Send a card, wishing the best. Life works out in the end.

    **I did read your entire post the other day, I just wasn't sure what to say about the situation**

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  53. Keshi,
    OMG! your life is NEVER dull! Thats incredible.

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  54. Hi Keshi

    It is strange when something like this happens.

    Have you thought about someone you haven't seen in a while, and then suddenly they show up at your doorstep?

    Better yet, you are on vacation in another country when you think of a person, and you board a bus and sit right down beside the person. The odds of this happening has to be 100000000..... to one.

    This happened to me. We were both shocked out of what's left of our brains.

    There may or may not be a new post on my blog today.(Monday our time) It was a very busy weekend, and it will be a busy week.
    I'm leaving on a jet plane (I do know when I'll be back again--screwed that lyric all to hell. LOL)on Saturday.

    Hugs

    Bev

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  55. im sure quite a few ppl here wud have already asked, whether it was a coincidence or ... :P
    so im not going to ask you again! hehehe...

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  56. :) Oh how life treats us at times... its great innit..

    In a way... you were there at her wedding... just like it was meant to be;)

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  57. weird universal consciousness moment, you were focused on your formerish friend thinking about her day, perhaps on a subconcious level you kind of new... thats my way of looking at it. Focus on your goals and you will get them.
    The devil is in the details.

    Now to work out what my goals are.

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  58. PS ty!

    **In life there are no coincidences

    I somehow believe in that too. And after what happened on Sat I HAVE to believe in Destiny :)


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    Peter tnxx mate!


    **How do you meet your future life partner? Is it written somewhere in advance?

    I know...everyone has a different story. I feel it's all pre-written.

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    Amit it sure is!



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    DJ tnxx!


    **may it be divine intervention or mere coincidence, it is surely dramatic...

    haha yes...I still cant believe it happened.


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    Ash hey!


    **you know every dialogue being said and going to transpire including the conclusion

    OMG really?? Tell us abt it.


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    Sure is Ekta!



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    Alex heyy!

    **Well if it was me, i would have attended her wedding

    hehe I wish I cud do that but I really cant mate. Cos her mum doesn't like me for some strange reason...I mean she talks really nice to me and all that...and then she does something really snobbish to hurt me. Not once but many times. So had I walked into that church in my denims and black skivvy, her mum wud have thrown me out..LOL!

    Jokes apart, they left me out for a reason. I want to respect that.




    Keshi.

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  59. oh oh Keshi how dya manage all this ... replyin to so many comments ... blog hopping?? how how how?? tell us the secret :D

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  60. Hey Vesty ty for wishing me well! Thats so sweet of ya.

    However I dun think Im meant to hv a normal life..u know getting married, havin babies, living happily ever after..ah ah...it seems it's not meant for me. But Im ok :)


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    Kavi ty!

    **A mental GPRS kinds

    LOL thats a good one! That sorta sounds freakishly POSSIBLE.


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    Vishesh me too.


    **is better for you to search the meaning

    I think there's a meaning underneath it all...that I was meant to see her wedding even tho she didnt invite me..FATE took me there.

    Cos G and I talked so much abt finding our partners, getting married etc..we use to hang out together at the same beach, have coffee, sing in choirs together, watch movies, hv dinner etc etc. We had a very strong friendship...and it was a family friendship too. So it's kinda wierd that I was not at her wedding...even tho some stupid argument took place 2 yrs ago!

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    Cheesy yeah my head was like spiralling down in shock LOL!


    ** Maybe someone up there thought that you HAD to give ur best wishes to the couple in some way .. and hence this happened!

    mebbe...I'd like to think of it as that.


    **S took u there

    nopes...she doesnt know G at all and it was only in te car that I told abt her wedding. NONE of us had any idea WHERE the wedding was taking place!

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    tnxx Trundz!

    ** I think I'd have floored it in the other direction

    LOL I did feel that way for a second or 2. I wanted to run down the street like I was in a race haha! But both my friends were walking slowly and taking it all in good spirits, so I thought wut the hell, lets just face it. Evn tho Im glad I saw her, I really regret having gone down that same street...cos I one guy saw us...and I know he'll go n tell everyone...and they r NOT gonna believe that it was a mere coincidence. So I get the SNOOPY label.

    But hey who can put a guard on wut ppl think abt u. Let em think anything they want. As long as I know wut really happened, thats all that matters.

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    ty Taqdeer!


    **Only as deep as i look can i see"

    Thats a beautiful quote isnt it.



    Keshi.

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  61. hey Asha I didnt call her yet...I will later on. Or mebbe I'd just send her a card only. That way Im not making em feel guilty or something. Wut say?


    **Sounds like fate and you were destined to see your ex buddy in her best moment:

    I think so too :) U can never avoid ur fate can u. Cos out of all the places, that was the last place I wanted to be at on Sat!

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    aww Helen ty sweetie!


    **Somewhere in your marriage you have to reconcile old hurts and relationships with you new life, but at the onset, you don't see that growth and those steps

    I agree....Im sure she will think of me some day...


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    Rose lol I didnt want my life to be this exciting on Sat! I really wanted to run n hide.


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    aww Bev where r u going to again? Plz come bakk soon!


    **This happened to me. We were both shocked out of what's left of our brains.

    Really? OMG!! Tell me abt it.


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    Hi Nadim!


    **im sure quite a few ppl here wud have already asked, whether it was a coincidence or ... :P
    so im not going to ask you again


    U can think anything u want. I cant put a stop to it can I? After all, u should either know me or not know me at all by now :) So if ur not gonna BELIEVE wut I say, then think anything u want abt me. Not that I have any control of it is it hehe.



    Keshi.

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  62. hey Suga hows u? I missed ya!

    ** you were there at her wedding... just like it was meant to be

    yes thats how I think of it too.

    tnxx hun!


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    It sure is Justine!



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    Aidan thats a very clever analysis of it. ty!


    **you were focused on your formerish friend thinking about her day, perhaps on a subconcious level you kind of new

    Thats freaky but a very interesting theory.

    ty!



    Keshi.

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  63. hey Cheesy MWAHH! :)

    how? lol cos Im Mrs.Jesus. ok ok jokes apart...I leave abt 1hr for blogging...I come very early to work, and then ard 9:30am I reply-comment and blog-hop...and then bakk to work..then in between when I get time, I do some blogging again...it's easy. If ur skilled at time-management, u can do anything.

    :)

    Keshi.

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  64. Lo, life certainly is strange, huh?
    Cheer up!

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  65. Hi Keshi

    To answer your question, we're heading off to England on a working holiday. We are working on location for a new TV show. The first series (season) has six instalments.

    It was in England that I sat beside a chap I worked with for about a year. Neither of us knew the other one would be in England.

    Spooky

    LOL

    Bev

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  66. It sure is Saffy!


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    OMG Bev thats FREAKY!

    England here comes the hottie! ;-)




    Keshi.

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  67. something wonderful happened right now
    i believe in angels and miracles too


    and time management
    and i disallowed annony mouses on my main site IMNUTSINCAPS

    they were getting real nasty
    shame on u ANNONY MOUSES

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  68. i second what
    Vest said...
    Keshi: It is high time you became a beautful bride, you have more than enough qualities and love stored within yourself to achieve a lifetime of shared joy love and happiness


    marry me

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  69. Ah, that's funny. Sometimes in life these things just do happen. Like one day a couple of weeks ago I was very busy doing a lot of jobs down the street and was too busy to go and buy meat and see the butcher -I am on foot and it's out of the way -and I was disappointed. And then as I was getting into the taxi -who did I see drive straight past on his way home from work? -got to have a look , afterall ;).

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  70. Anony heyy!

    **marry me

    and u r? LOL!


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    Lee hey thats a beautiful 'meaty' co-incidence ;-)



    Keshi.

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  71. A close friend of mine was getting married and she did not invite me. I wasn't even aware where she was marrying. That day I landed up in the same venue looking out for another friend of mine. I didn't know how to react initially but I did go and wish here. She was gracious too. Looked such a beauty!

    It was a long time back. Maybe she had her reasons not inviting me.

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  72. WOW Gautami so this didnt only happen to me! That's nice of u to go n wish her well.

    I agree...G too had 'her' reasons not to invite me. I respect that but I still want to wish her...so sent her a card.


    Keshi.

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  73. so u were meant to be at her wedding after all :)

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  74. Well in the end it all evened up.. thats fate I guess.. hope u had a good date after that..

    Btw those pics of celebrites without make up really scared me.. Jeez.. but u look amazing as always..

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  75. Miss.Muffet I can only think of it that way :)

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    Viv tnxx!


    ** but u look amazing as always

    where? I didnt have my pic in that post did I hehehe. tnxx anyways! :)


    Keshi.

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  76. ** Ok you are not going to believe what I'm about to say

    given to how much a drama queen you are I did guess you were either invited for the wedding or something such ... ur becomming like kollywood ;) ... predictable :p

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  77. Samy o nooo dun compare me with Kollywood yuikkz Im not that dumb am I LOL!

    Keshi.

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  78. thats very strange keshi, I have never seen pop-ups on that blog and no one has ever told me about it. Anyways I will look into it, thanks for the info. sending link again, just in case..

    Photoblog

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  79. Hi Babezzzzz
    How are you ? "I dont wanna talk""" krshiiiiiii no nothing like that ...i was off on Monady and just saw ur message now.

    awwww swwets nothing like that been busy on weekend and on MOnday running around doctors.

    I am so sorry!!!!

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  80. ty Akshay!

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    Poo nah u have been quiet for few days now...so I was just wondering if u didnt wanna talk to ur blog-mates. Thats all.

    Hows Prachi? Did u take her to the Sai Hospital?



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  81. Sai Hospital ...yeah No appointment for the next 15 days

    Next week we are admitting prachi to NIMHANS... for 5 days they are going to test take some tissues from her body and test her in and out.

    Even i will be off for next week.

    How are you sweety ????

    been to all the temples (Krishanji bhagwan, Sai baba temple, Hanumna temple, Ganesha temple) and prayed for her.

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  82. Even this week on thursday i will be off may be going to NIMHANS they have called us ....

    Howz work with you

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  83. aww Poo she will be ok...I know. Just have faith in God.

    I hope the new tests wud lead to new therapies and that she'll get cured soon.

    Im ok...just a lil busy at work. hugggggggz tc!



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  84. there was an angel that day...and she was just in time for you to see your frnd in tht beautiful wedding gown and for you to be by her side..even though it was far away...bless you...

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  85. you ok ...you are sounding sad ????

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  86. there was an angel that day...and she was just in time for you to see your frnd in tht beautiful wedding gown and for you to be by her side..even though it was far away...bless you...

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  87. Deepthi I really do believe it was an angel who took us there that day. ty n huggggggggz!


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    Poo Im ok. If u read my last 2 posts u'd know I was a bit upset abt not being invited to my good friend's wedding last Sat.

    Tho I'd like to tell myself that it's ok, deep down Im kind of shocked and hurt. Cos she isnt someone like that...someone who wud hold on to a small argument and not invite her good friend to her wedding. But it happened somehow. I guess we just tend to keep on believing friends will always remain the same...but they dun. They change...times change...ppl move on...and I must too. But being KESHI, I find that the hardest to do :)

    Anyways I just sent her a card...wishing her well. After that I feel alot better. Mebbe that took it off my chest.

    ty dear HUGGGGGGGGZ!

    Keshi.

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  88. awww HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ i was reading ythe post ..... Yesh people change either for good or bad.....But life moves on People come and go in ur life.... Every relation teaches you something.... and we treasure all the moments shared together.

    I am sure when she will see ur card she will call you and everything will be alrite....

    you know something you are missing with something today ??? GUESS what it is ???

    and i I love this song dear very nice :))

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  89. atleast you saw the beautiful bride :)) who was ur close friend.

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  90. ty Poo!

    I must learn to let go of good friends too...cos they dun always remain the same. Im very foolish in many ways.

    I dun think she'll call me. I dun expect it. I just did my part and Im happy abt it. Cos I really wanted to wish her well.


    **you know something you are missing with something today ??? GUESS what it is ???

    huh wut? mmm let me guess...actually I cant think of it. Wut is it? :)


    Keshi.

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  91. you missing with ur SMILE !!!
    common smile dear wanna see that Sweet and SEXY smile :))

    lets hunt together .... ding diding diding di ding di ding di diiiiiiiingggggg ..... SMILE :))))))))))))

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  92. oh ho you still not smiling ok ...lemme think ...hmmmm wil tickle you now!!! just asi do it to Prachi !!!!

    the more you think about it the more it will upset you !!! so just let go for some time....I know things will be alrite dear .....

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  93. I know Poo...but nothing will take away the pain too. Its horrible when something like this happens. If she was a mean person, I wudnt be so upset. She is a lovely person and I cant imagine that someone like her cud live in that one spur experience n forget abt all the good times we had. That leaves me with no hope in friendship.

    Anyways I have u and all these wonderful friends here. I feel truly blessed!


    Keshi.

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  94. **sour

    ty for being here for me Poo...u r lovely.

    Keshi.

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  95. I know Poo...but nothing will take away the pain too......

    I am sure sweety even she will be missing you .... but there is this Invisible line in both of ur relation and it has to be broken.... that will happen one day and things will be alrite.... at this moment she has just got married she has just stepped in the new journey of her life ...when things will settle down ...I am sure she will call you .....

    She is a lovely person and I cant imagine that someone like her cud live in that one spur experience n forget abt all the good times we had......In every relation there are fights sweety ... Just give some space for some time .... you did your part !!!

    That leaves me with no hope in friendship..... Na dont say this !!!! Some sour exp should make you more stronger ...I know you are very strong:))

    Anyways I have u and all these wonderful friends here. I feel truly blessed!.... I feel more blessed to have you in my life :))

    Thanks dear ...you know what some times you must cry when you are feeling bad or sad .... the heavy feeling in ur heart will just vanish away!!! try doing it ...i do it actually v-offen it works sometimes.

    TC sweetie and Smile always :)))

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  96. ty so much Poo!

    I just want to know if Im such a bad person that she left me out. I hope not. But whatever she did, hurt me alot.

    Like u said, mebbe in time she'll think of me too. The way I think of her now.


    tnxx sweetie u really made me feel better.


    Keshi.

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  97. I just want to know if Im such a bad person that she left me out. I hope not. But whatever she did, hurt me alot........ Na dear you are not at all bad ... just that some times situations are like that ....

    There must be something which she dint like about you ...doesn't mean that ur Bad !! dont ever think like that again ...plssss Keshi darlzzzzz is so sweeeeeeeeet :)) I know your hurt.

    No body can really help you, you need to help urself and come out of it. I am here to talk to you to make you feel better and bring that sweet smile smile on your face :))and i will always be there.

    Love ya sweetz tc dear and eat properly.

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  98. Mebbe she doesnt think of me the way I think abt her...after that argument. ty Poo HUGGGGGGGZ!

    Keshi.

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  99. Mebbe she doesnt think of me the way I think abt her...after that argument........

    she will realise her mistake one day or may be she has realised it but she is not having that courage to talk to you
    ......HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ dear everything will alrite

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  100. Poo she said Sorry to me...but after that we never really were the same. I tried...but she was distanced. her mum doesnt like me much...I dunno why..she's always rude to me. Even tho our families were very close.

    Anyways tnxx for hearing me out. MWAH!

    Keshi.

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  101. ""her mum doesnt like me""

    My best friends : 5 of us" always been there for each other. But none of there mums like me (Bcoz i am working) In our community Girls dont work !!!

    thr wr times when there was any function at there home ..i was not invited, Its not that i was not hurt i was hurt but some times you cant really help.

    And now we all hardly talk to each other, everybody is married except me and thats gives one more reason for there mum to hate me.

    Its good that ur letting out.... but you need to Come out of it dear .... or else it will make you feel more worse in the next few days.

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  102. Poo ur right...usually mums of ur friends dun like u either cos ur more independent than em or cos ur more of a challenge to em. I think with me, she didnt like me cos I like fashion etc and she always criticised me for it...I dunno why it should bother her anyways. But I still respect her cos she's the mother of my friend.

    Anyways it cud be her mum who said NO to this...I really dun care anymore. Im just glad Im not like her.

    So ur the only single girl in ur friends circle? I still have many single friends.

    Keshi.

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  103. ""cos ur more independent than em or cos ur more of a challenge to em"""" exactly !!

    yeah i am the only single left :)) and i am happy about it ... I dun care either..... I love being myself.

    But one thing bothers me all the time ...when ever they meet my mom they just ask her one thing ""Will Puja vere marry' Are not finding a match for her blah blah blah ...and it then my mom starts crying ..and i dont like that :(

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  104. Thats really none of their business is it? If I were u, I'd tell em to go bake a cake instead of wasting time.

    Keshi.

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  105. I wish i cud say that !!! But Marwadi community ...Horrible !!!! cant help

    Did you eat something ??

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  106. **Marwadi community

    wuts that?

    but I know Indian/Sri Lankan communities can be so nosy.

    yes I had my lunch. U better go n do some work sweetie. ty for being here!


    Keshi.

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  107. thanks sweetie ....

    Marwadi Community....hmmmm

    "Rajasthan community"

    you 2 have a good day and smile always dear :)))

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  108. Yeh!! Those real jaw-dropping moments have to be survived thru, to be believed...

    Life sure can pull a fast one on us at times, what say??
    :)

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  109. Keshi:There must be a good reason for you to remain single, tell me why please.

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  110. I stumbled across your blog tonight whilst surfing aronud and I would love the chance to interview you for my site www.bloggerview.net

    Would it be ok if I sent you through some questions?

    If you're interested let me know pete@bloggerview.net

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  111. dayumn! HEHEHEH... u were snooping...:p

    Man this is like it always happen you know.,..teh days i go to my uni and pray i dont meet my lecturer and guesss wholl walk into the lift!

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  112. Unexpected coincidence or a connectedness of a different kind?

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  113. Wow -- that was quite freaky!!! Life's little surprises ;) Nonetheless, sounded like you have one helluva weekend :)

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  114. Wandered over from rama's braindump.

    That's quite a coincidence.I know how you must've felt at being snubbed.I've been in the same situation once.It's nice to see you so happy for your friend inspite of it.

    It's something isn't it?Seeing someone so close in their wedding dress?I cried when my best childhood buddy got married too.It was quite dramatic of me but well atleast I learnt what "tears of joy" meant.She looked so beautiful in the gorgeous wedding gown and wreath!!

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  115. Have been reading ur post for the last two hrs and just can't resist to stop. Fantastic narrative style. Am inspired.

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  116. What a nice surprise. Years from now when your friend matures and realises what an ASS she was for not inviting you, you can tell her that you accidentally saw how beautiful and happy she looked anyway.
    That will make her feel even worse for being such a bitch!

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  117. I'm a first time reader so..the way i understand it is that..this G was your friend and she didn't invite you to her wedding but you happen to chance at the main even unexpectedly...

    wow!...Totally intuitive!...And your sweet thought about sending her a card and wishing her well just proves that you're a real friend...anyone would be proud to have.

    I hope more friends come your way..have a nice happy day :>

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  118. It is a twisty turny thing. This thing we call life.

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  119. What a wonderful spontaneous moment for you.
    you rock!
    tc

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  120. I know lots of people say this, but I don't believe in coincidences. You were meant to see her- if even just to wish her your best in you heart, and do the honorable thing by resisting the urge to shout to her- that was noble of you.

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  121. Hey I am unsure if you visited and left a comment on my blog, but I have a feeling someone is up to SOME mischief pretending to be you on my comment box. Maybe you recognise the ISP address? Sorry, I had to say it here - but I dont know how else to get in touch with you. Do let me know because I am unsure whether I should retain or delete those stupid comments. Thanks and I am sorry to have to bother you ~ Ravi

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  122. Life comes in peculiar waves. I am glad you had such an exciting event!

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  123. well i would say that since u so wanted to wish her n see her on her wedding day it happened becuse of that sheer power that wishes have... well i believe in it, u can choose to believe otherwise...
    B/W i have translated the poem for u, u can read it in my comments...
    Happy week ahead...
    Love...take care.

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  124. Good morning Poo, Keshi

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  125. its OK to be single girls
    its not a crime


    dont rush into marriage
    wait for Mr Right

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  126. Calibre is when u dont rush into matrimony just boz u r lonely and all your friends are married


    no marriage is far better than an unhappy marriage

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  127. ty Poo for that txt msg...it made me happy :) MWAHHH!

    I'd love to see u in beautiful Rajasthani wedding gear some day...


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    It sure can Velu!



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    Vest I dun wish to remain single...just that FATE seems to want it that way for me.

    :)


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    hey Pete I'll be to check u out. tnxxx!



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    Ghosty u know I wasnt hehe.


    LOL @lecturer!


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    hey Sanjy hows u? Missed ya mate.


    **Unexpected coincidence or a connectedness of a different kind?

    I really think it's the latter!



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    TY Banter :)




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    Shrew WC n tnxx!

    aww I know those happy tears...I cried em too...for G...just yday.


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    WC Alok n ty!

    :)


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    :) HE tnxx!

    I sent her a beautiful card yday...


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    Lay_Luxie WC n ty!

    yes u interpreted the story spot on! if u read my lats post's 2nd section, on Friday I had just whinged abt not being invited :) and this happened on Sat!

    I have already sent G a beautiful car.

    ty for ur well-wishes for me!


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    It sure is Fuzzy!


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    ty Rick!


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    Lizard_Princess I truly believe in that too...that I was MEANT to be there. It's freaky but it's magical. ty!


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    E heyy so it was u who emailed me as Ravi? :) Now I get it.

    I checked ur comment section...the very first comment was mine. The rest from some jealous junky. I have many impersonators...unbelievably jobless ppl. Just check the IP addy next time.

    And tnxx!


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    ty Mulester! :)



    Keshi.

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  128. Deepthi ty sweetie!

    **it happened becuse of that sheer power that wishes have

    I truly believe in that too.


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    heyy Lisa ;-)



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    Saby Good Morning!


    I know being single is much better than being stuck with the wrong person. :) ty for that!




    Keshi.

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  129. ** I felt like calling out her name and saying 'G you look gorgeous, I wish you well hun' **

    ... aww thats soo touchin' kesh, how sweet of u to still feel the same way even she didnt invite u! ;( was in tears readin' it now... ;(;( see God still made the way to let u see her on her wedding day.... awww! i know time will come and she will realized that... and i hope u two can talk soon! muaahh...

    ... stay blessed and the way u are!! luv ya...

    hugss**

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  130. Kath ty HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

    Im still in tears...happy tears for her. Seriously I dun hv any ill feelings towards her...she's a lovely girl and even tho she didnt invite me for her big day, I still love n care for her...I truly mean it. I dun usually feel this way if someone hurt me like this, but it must be her...she's special. thats why.


    ty sweetie!
    Keshi.

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  131. RE: Hi Pete hows it going? :) ty for dropping by.

    Whats the Interview abt?

    Hey Keshi...basically every week i post an interview with a different blogger....i try to ask questions coming from the angle their site is about.

    You can check out the site at www.bloggerview.net

    If you're interested let me know as i would love to get your take on things.

    pete@bloggerview.net

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  132. aah, i dont think this is a mere coincidence. various experiences of the sort in my life tell me that u and ur friends were meant to pass that way on that way!
    i hope ur friend and u reconcile though...

    take care! :)

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  133. Hey Kashi how are you dear...?

    I know its long time ...i was in an impasse..but hopefully should get out of it soon!

    voww...this was a wonderful co-incidence...

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  134. Pete tnxx matey! Im eagerly waiting for the qns now :)


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    Trinnie I think so too...isnt it lovely!



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    Forest hey wussup? I hope ur ok? Tell me..



    Keshi.

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  135. Keshi,

    hmmm....well, then it is difficult...

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  136. Keshi, You yourself have given the explanation. It is a pure coincidence. Life is full of chances and surprises. The beauty of life is in such surprise. Just wonder with awe.

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  137. keshi, how are you! Some good posts here. I have been keeping away due to some snide remarks by some anons who seem to have gravitated to my blog and even taken & put my picture on their blog. Will return soon. :) Dont mind please. I love reading your blog!

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  138. Alex :)


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    yes Shiva ty!



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    Mona u ok?




    Keshi.

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  139. I am okay Keshi. Its just that some person called Jim posted some very nasty comments about you on my blog. I had to remove them of course. Later I found that he had taken my HNT picture & posted it on one of his numerous blogs. I am writing a comment here because I do not want to provoke anyone into making snide comments about myself[ like mona looks hot in a sari etc.] or you[as it happened on my blog] for the time being.I just want to be away from the scene.

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  140. Mona tnxx! Let me come over n see what happened.

    Keshi.

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