The Happiness Of The Pursuit

Hey guys...wanna hear the gos from my first date with Mr.Darcy last night? Well you're gonna hear it anyways ;-). Some girls wanted to know what I wore...well nothing fancy - it was just a movie so I wore khaki 3/4 pants, a black lace top and bronze flats. He came around at 6:30pm and picked me up at my gate. He was wearing light-blue denims and a grey t-shirt, quite casual. Girls let me tell ya he looked real gooooood ;-) but I pretended not to notice at all - just didn't want Mr.Darcy's head to explode. So off we went. He insisted it was his shout and that I could pay for the next movie etc etc (next movie? Hello!). He was quite chattery as usual and once we were inside the cinemas, he was still chattery, well is it any surprise? But when the movie started he was so engrossed in it that I think he was in Will Smith's shoes...totally inside the movie! Guys are always like that ha. Well the movie was excellent...absolutely loved it, partly cos it is based on a true story and also because it's got one hell of an inspirational streak to it. Had me in tears through one particular scene...when Will Smith locked himself and his son up in a public toilet just for one night cos they didn't have a place to sleep. That was truly heart-breaking! I hated Will's wife's character in this movie. I think she was a just a weak woman who couldn't stand by her husband - a discouraging and impatient wife to have. Anyways those who didn't get to see it yet, go see it...it definitely got brownie points from me.

The movie ended in a happy note so I was all cheerful once again as lights were turned on. Mr.Darcy and I walked out of the cinemas grinning and agreeing how good the movie was. It was about 10pm then and since the next day is a working day, we decided to go home straight away. As we were walking back, he started yakking again about how nice it was to have my sweet company etc etc. So we reached my place...and then as he dropped me near the gate, he stood there for a while to chat, say for about 10mins. He was being a true gentleman...didn't try to smother me with a kiss like a lust-shot maniac...but he did give me a peck on the cheek just before we said our goodbyes :).

Then he goes home and txts me immediately asking when he could see me again LOL! I said I'm not sure and that I'll let him know. He 'reckons' we should meet again for dinner on Thursday night. hmmmmm...I don't mind cos I really don't have any other plans but I wonder if this is going too fast. But he said he wants to get to know me as he feels some genuine liking and attraction for me - also he said that he's not someone who drags things unnecessarily so he likes to see me as often as possible. He says he has never met anyone like me before and that he feels I'm the ONE although he wants to get to know me more...OMG did he even say that! Well he did duhhh! He's bonkers...we have only known each other for like 3 days cmon now. Anyways, I said to him that we need to be good friends first...and then he said to me that he knows that already and not to be a smart-ass LOL! Alritey then Mr.Darcy let's take it slow and let's see how you feel about me in say 3 months' time. If you read the title of this post, I jumbled the movie title to suit the state of Mr.Darcy's mission. It's the chase...he's thrilled and so happy in this chase but let's see if he remains happy and in this chase over time - the chase should not stop even if he reaches his goal. The chase should continue but in a different manner. Time either weakens or strengthens a bond cos our deepest emotions always compete against time. Time doesn't wait for anything...so either our emotions grow or they die as time flies. So lets see if the happiness of his pursuit makes him realise that true happiness lies in the pursuit itself and not in the destination.

Those of who expected some juicy bits, well I'm sorry nothing like that happened, I swear hehe. oh alright then just one bit haha! Well as we were watching the movie, his hunky arm accidentally brushed mine many times without both of us doing it deliberately...but guess what...he didn't even notice it as he was glued to the screen like a zombie on drugs...in my head I was like 'mann are you on general anaesthesia or what?' :). Well anyways I guess some men pretend not to know anything duhhh, or it may be that he really didn't think any light physical contact was such a big deal. Well you see guys, it's a girl-thing...being touched by a cute guy in some remote way is a big excitement for us girls hehe. Anyways I must say he was quite decent, very friendly and extremely fun to be with. I can confidently say I like being around him...he makes me smile, laugh and just be myself. That's a rare. So I like his company. But nah I aint all over him already. Just like him, I want time to get to know him better too. So right now we are just friends and trust me when I say that ok :) WE ARE JUST FRIENDS hehe. Tomorrow night we are going out for Dinner...to a place near the beach. It will be alot of fun and this time we will get more time to talk cos there are no movies or pop-corn munching movie-maniacs sitting behind us. Hopefully he won't catch a boat and sail across the seas with me! He's that crazy about me, I can tell.

I'm playing a beautiful Hindi song today...it's one of my favs, from the movie JISM. Now I agree the actress (Bipasha Basu) in this video is a bit too liberal with her leg movements LOL, but I just love the song. Enjoy!

Current Music: Jaadu Hai Nasha Hai

Current Music Update: I Won't Leave You Lonely by Shania Twain