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At 9:30pm March 31st 2003...
In Princess St...
Life changes forever...
In an unchangeable way...
For Keshi...
Cos Destiny just had to unfold...a blossom fell off a tree...
Do you believe everything that happens to us is pre-programmed and will take place no matter what? Just like how trees grow and flowers bloom, and everything begins and ends no matter what? Is life an 'unchained' melody that will be hummed? A haunting melody that cannot be bound? Is it pre-written chapters that cannot be missed even when you'd end up missing(and gaining) other things? Share a time, a place, a memory, a way, a person and a reason with me.
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A time...
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At 9:30pm March 31st 2003...
In Princess St...
Life changes forever...
In an unchangeable way...
For Keshi...
Cos Destiny just had to unfold...a blossom fell off a tree...
Do you believe everything that happens to us is pre-programmed and will take place no matter what? Just like how trees grow and flowers bloom, and everything begins and ends no matter what? Is life an 'unchained' melody that will be hummed? A haunting melody that cannot be bound? Is it pre-written chapters that cannot be missed even when you'd end up missing(and gaining) other things? Share a time, a place, a memory, a way, a person and a reason with me.
Current Music: Who Knew by Pink
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Did you just say Murphy's Law? Or is there something called Keshi's Law too?
Will be back soon.
*smilez*
Synchrodestiny. I had tried this experiment with my friend and it works
Remember the dialogue from Kung fu panda where the turtle says "There is no accidents. Everyhing happens for a reason"
But there is sometimes conflict. Are we trying to find order in a world filled with chaos. Remembering the word serendipity and its interpreatation "Its like looking for a needle in a haystack and finding the farmer's daughter"
A time.....26th November, 1997.
A place.....DAV Public School.
A memory....life was never the same again.
A way......unforgettable for sure.
A person....Ria, that's me.
A reason....coz love has no time and place....it happens when it has to!!
This was the defining moment of my life and i never realised that this wud change my life forever! This was the day when my guy said those three magical words....which still echo in my ears, even thougt its been more than a decade now!! This was the turning point of my life and it was meant to happen....this is what we call destiny. Thats why i m such a firm believer of destiny. :)
I'd not really been a fatalist by nature Keshi but over the years I've changed :). Way too many coincidences, way too many events synchronised by something beyond "human".
So yes - I am of the firm belief that Whatever happens does happen for a reason and secondly yes - I do believe that the broad strokes of our life have already been painted and that we do walk a path that has, to a major extent, been preordained and predestined.
I've had too many occasions when life has taken a dramatic turn! I firmly believe in destiny and fate.
The education I get from such instances has been overwhelming!
Good post!
Well, as of now... Yes.
I do believe, each and everyone of our stories are already been told and we are just characters acting in it. The story has been told and it is not possible to change that.
what happened on that d-day? Keshi fell in love?
:)
i've met people in hte weirdest of circumstances.. and gone on to become the best of friends.. and ofcourse i believe that everything in life happens in a predestined manner..the choices we make at a particular moment..our on the spur decisions and the repurcussions have all be pre-designed...
At 3.30am December 17th 1997, outside a striptease club then(not anymore) in colaba, Mumbai...Whatever i m today was decided that morning!
We don’t know what is assembled; we must ready to face any crises is programmed and seek solution to live.
at 12.30 am oct 30th
in kgh(king gorge hospital )
life gets on earth
for heamnth
cos i was born
omg...i play a big role and its decided ...
i have another moment which i will share soon as i become free :)..and u disappeared like me for 2 days x-(...
please give me some time to come bac and comment more pls :(..
urs..hemu..
hiii keshi
i got to u frm my frnds blog......
nice post yaar... i believe that watever happens in our life is coz'of our attitude and everrything that we do in our daily lives counts......
nice post keshi.....keep blogging
absolutely..we're all destiny's children
n it's good bcos i don think i could have planed my life any better ;)
definitely..
destiny has its own way n we gotta follow tht only n the way u said it 'whatever happens is pre programmed and the way it happens to us is sometimes weird and amusing too'
watever happens, happens for good!!
if everything has been planned than ...why do you guys pray??
...why is these so much chaos??
...why is a child raped ??
...why is death spread through sex?
(some of the many questions i can ask)
in brief: Nothing is planned.Don't take the opportunity of doing something different away from yourself.
MAke your own life..nothing is there that you can't do.Try to njoy every moment and make a good human beings out of yourself.
Respect yourself and your decisions.Take decisions yourself and stop blaming destiny..the power is in your hands.
i live by these words only.
take care
yupp i believe tat life is predestined and we all have just acting to the roles written to it..
hmmm donno i just don't find the reason aspect behind these supernatural things..
A time.....29th May, 1980
A place.....I was in College.
A memory....a phone call from a kind nurse at the hospital
A way.....my life was about to be changed forever
A person....My Daddy had another heart attack and died that evening
A reason...Misfortune and Genetics.
Life can be as unfair as it is unpredictable. Live and Love those who surround you as if there were no tomorrow. Do not let tender words left unsaid.
End every conversation with I Love You
At 9:00am 24 Feb 2002...
At University Auditorium...
I met him for the first time.. &
Life change forever...
In an unchangeable way( later a messy way)...For Shoe girl...
Cos the universe must have conspired to bring us together and then make us part ways six years later... But the memory of that morning and that smile stays...
predestined destiny.. yes i believe in it.. a different thought process cos of my belief in my religion.. it might differ for different people based on their respective beliefs..
At 3.30 pm, at Coffee day on a real hot May 7th afternoon in Chennai. K looked up and said "Im ok with this are you?" and I mutely shook my head to say yes,first time in my life i was speechless (maybe that was because it was the least romantic proposal i had ever heard :D )!!
everything happens for a reason... nothing is unplanned :)
beautiful post keshi :)
Oh, I definitely believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason...
...even if we never know what that reason is.
Sometimes the reason something happens to us is because it's simply part of a long chain of events happening to somebody else.
I think everything is connected in wonderful and mysterious ways.
However, I try not to think about it too much, cos then my mind just gets all convoluted and crazy.
Well, crazier than it already is anyway.
Thanks for stopping by my blog while I was away.
It was nice to see you there.
And what a beautiful image on this post.
xo
:)
ha ya pre-programmed,i wrote the thing,ops but forgot the language :) have to re learn it :D
There is some huge fucking computer managing us....
Whats even more scary is the fact that we might all just be a part of some kindda sick chip game for (I don't know) an actual Life form (called Pro-Humans ...wtf.&%$#@...)
btw I translated my post..... Happy Diwali....
all i could say is that life is a MESS. and wrong things always happens at a wrong time! if everything that happens to us is pre-programmed, I wanna see that programmer. I swear he/she writes real bad codes!
I am reading a book called Many Lives Many Masters...Would tell you what it says when I finish it.
But I believe in a urdu saying-
Khudi ko kar buland itna ki har tadbeer se pehle khuda bhi tujhse pooche ki bata teri raza kya hai-
Translated in english it broadly says that carve your own destiny- or more literally- that make yourself so tough that before making anything happen, even God comes and asks you that, "tell me, what do you want".
I am not much of a believer in destiny keshi. I mean life is a suspense, uncontrolled by anything, it just goes on, revealing surprises everyday, some good, some bad and the cycle goes on :)
Its hard to remember dates for me :)roughly three years back from now, I discovered myself, felt the transition from a gullible and innocent girl to a more mature person, having acquired the capabilitites that not all people in this world are good, not everyone are worthy of my love and care, that there are a few, who can never know the meaning of gratitude and tenderness.
hi keshi life is preprogrmed.
i agree.Its simply uncontrollable:)
today i got a recongination at my company.I have done the same work in other companies.But it went unnoticed.I feel every thing happens with a reason..and is bound by time machine:)
ur blog inspired me to wind up my past,And soon gonna..start something fresh:)
Thank you sweety:)
12noon, April 12th 2007 was the first time i've ever really known pain, excruciating pain of loss. It was the day i heard my fiancee died. I thought i was going to die but thank God he's brought me through a mighty long way. I'm still standing tall. I know what happened then happened for a reason, i didnt get it then, i still don't get it now but i do know this, all things work together for good (both the good and the bad)to them that love the Lord. Keshi, this is a nice post makes you sit and think about the goodness of the Lord.
God bless.
PS: I know the thoughts i think towards you, thoughts of peace and not of evil to give you an expected end. Jere29:11.
ya you know , sometimes I do think like that. as in whatever we do (or don't do) life takes its own beautiful path , however it's upto us to make that path journey-able.
small eg from my life??
I wanted to be in IIT , did't get in even though like the many success stories i had read , i too used to study for almost 11 hrs a day. But then I got into the college that I'm in now, & the first day i set foot there , it was like something of my own :)
R u in love???
hnnnm
A time..... 21st aug 2001
A place.....chennai
A memory....life was never the same again.it is what i am today..
i do believe that everything does happen for a reason.. there are certain instances that leads u to choose.. n those decisions end up making u to be the person who u really are..
its more like a milestones in one's life.. or more precisely the navigator that one is using..
A time.....13th March 2003.
A place.....A Coffee Shop in Bangalore
A memory....life changed forever.
A way......a new direction.
A person....myself.
A reason....Someone came along to fill in the gaps!
I do not know what to believe anymore Keshi - cuz everytime i think its destiny, i discover that it was a human mind at play and everytime i start blaming a fellow human for something not quiet rite... it seems like it wasnt under thr control either...
heres to ur questions
A time... 31st Dec 2006
A place... Delhi
A memory... a fight, a separation
A way... irrepareable
A person... my best friend and the love of my life
A reason... i still don know this one but lifes never been the same from then on... and i know it will never be the same
Hi Keshi
Nice Post.
I view life like a deck of cards; we are dealt the cards, but it’s how we play the game that counts. If played right the worst hand can win.
Look at how many people have been born into poverty and have become success stories, and how many that have been born into riches and have fallen into poverty.
I received word today that a business associate has died. This man was very wealthy’ but, his money is not any good to him now. That sounds cruel, but it's a fact of life.
Bev
A very beautiful post Keshi and i love how the title embraces it.
A time... 1991
A place... Singapore
A memory...My Voice, My heart, My spirit and the simple approach within me during those moments.
A Way... I can't imagine not coming back to.
A person... God
A reason... My dreams came true.
I would like to think that everything that happened to us happens for reason and good purpose. And i also believe that at certain junctions in life we are given the right to make our own decisions and being thought a lesson. All in all, life is never predictable and sometimes almost too shocking to handle.
Cheerios!
U can view the incident...HERE
Success WC n ty! :)
Keshi.
hehe Soul ;-)
Take ur time.
Keshi.
ty Suresh!
I think abt it that way too...
BUT
**Serendipity
How do we know for sure that making fortunate discoveries 'by accident' is really an 'accident' or not?
Keshi.
ty Ria that was a beautiful moment in ur life that u shared with us here!
**A reason....coz love has no time and place....it happens when it has to!!
Lovely! Isnt that wut a TURNING POINT in life is all abt. It makes u turn to a left or a right and the route changes forever :)
Im so happy for ya and I knew that ur a Destiny's child! *HUGZ*
Keshi.
ty Gauri!
yes its the same for me...way too many 'incidents' that I never ever thought/dreamed wud happen in my life!
** I do believe that the broad strokes of our life have already been painted and that we do walk a path that has, to a major extent, been preordained and predestined.
I strongly feel that too. Cos sometimes we try so hard to choose one path for us but we end up being forced to walk another!
Keshi.
ty Rakesh!
**I've had too many occasions when life has taken a dramatic turn
I agree totally. Those TURNS r LIFE's PLANS for us!
Keshi.
ty Aneesh!
**The story has been told and it is not possible to change that.
Somehow the more I live the more I begin to believe that, yes. The story has been told and we r acting in it. Beautifully put Aneesh!
**what happened on that d-day? Keshi fell in love?
I wish...
Keshi.
ty Swayam!
**the choices we make at a particular moment..our on the spur decisions and the repurcussions have all be pre-designed...
thats wut I believe too. ppl think we hv free-will but I feel even that free-will is pre-designed!
cos if it wasnt pre-designed, then why do we all hv different strengths, weaknesses, abilities etc etc!
Keshi.
hey Southy ty!
**At 3.30am December 17th 1997, outside a striptease club then(not anymore) in colaba, Mumbai...Whatever i m today was decided that morning!
WOW almost like a movie! u gave me goosebumps!
Isnt it amazing how certain events can take u down a path u never expected and change ur life forever!
Keshi.
ty Jeevan!
Yes we DONT KNOW..but it feels like SOMEONE KNOWS!
Keshi.
hey Hemz Happt Bday again!!! :)
**at 12.30 am oct 30th
in kgh(king gorge hospital )
life gets on earth
for heamnth
cos i was born
awww wut a wonderful moment!
yes share with me ur other such moments...
Keshi.
btw Hemz I was away from home in the last 2 days or so..still am...
Keshi.
WC Yamini n ty!
**I believe that watever happens in our life is coz'of our attitude and everrything that we do in our daily lives counts......
true...so where d u think our ATTITUDES come from? Why is the Attitude different from person to person?
Keshi.
ty Krithika!
**we're all destiny's children
n it's good bcos i don think i could have planed my life any better
good one girl! :) me neither.
While I was busy planning my life, Life was busy planning it for me too!
Keshi.
ty Richa!
**destiny has its own way n we gotta follow tht only
thats wut I feel too. We may cry, kick the walls and say we dun wanna travel down that path, but we just hv to!
Keshi.
ty Vicky!
First of all no one is BLAMING Destiny :) And yes we r all RESPONSIBLE for our own actions. My qn was are those actions pre-designed too? By asking that qn, I didnt mean to be irresponsible and BLAME it all on destiny. It was just a qn.
**if everything has been planned than ...why do you guys pray??
I dun pray :)
**...why is these so much chaos??
Chaos may hv been encrypted to the world for a reason we may never know. Cos we still dun get it right?
**...why is a child raped ??
No idea.
**...why is death spread through sex?
Its like asking why is a SMILE so infectious.
As much as there is BAD in this world, there's GOOD too. If both dun co-exist how wud we know one from the other? So coming back to my qn, is the Good and Bad pre-designed too?
Everyone in this world is different Vicky. Just like u Im asking WHY SO MUCH EVIL? And the ans is, cos there r EVIL ppl. And then we ask again WHY R THEY EVIL? And the ans to that is a qn - is Evil pre-designed? Cos we cant seem to get rid of it! Can u CHANGE Evil ppl? I dun think so! If something cannot be changed, is it so cos it PRE-DESIGNED? Just a qn :)
**MAke your own life..nothing is there that you can't do.Try to njoy every moment and make a good human beings out of yourself.
I agree. But I dun think we CAN be everything we wanna be! Thats why there arent 10000s of Einsteins or Shakespeares. We can TRY but we can only BE who we ARE already.
keshi.
ty Joyce!
** i believe tat life is predestined and we all have just acting to the roles written to it..
I agree...thats why we can only be who we r already.
Keshi.
Donno HUGGGGGGGGGGZ! I was touched by ur life-changing MOMENT in history.
**A reason...Misfortune and Genetics.
I really wanna know wut Misfortune
is.
True...be happy and make others happy while we r all ALIVE.
I luv ya Donn!
Keshi.
ty Shoe_Girl!
**Cos the universe must have conspired to bring us together and then make us part ways six years later...
Memorable meeting of 2 souls that were MEANT TO BE TOGETHER!
Keshi.
ty Chriz!
** different thought process cos of my belief in my religion.. it might differ for different people based on their respective beliefs
share with us?
Keshi.
ty Anu!
u'll rem Chennai forever ha!
**"Im ok with this are you?"
yes it sounds more like a business deal LOL! But its unique :)
Nostalgic n life-defining moment in Anu's life there!
Keshi.
ty Phoenix!
**everything happens for a reason... nothing is unplanned
Reason it is! but I wonder planned by who....
Keshi.
ty Strumpet!
**Sometimes the reason something happens to us is because it's simply part of a long chain of events happening to somebody else.
**I think everything is connected in wonderful and mysterious ways
beautifully put! Chain reaction? :)
Keshi.
hey Vish!
**ha ya pre-programmed,i wrote the thing,ops but forgot the language :) have to re learn it
u wrote ur Destiny? WOW! Wonder why/how u forgot it then. :)
Keshi.
ty Akshay!
**There is some huge fucking computer managing us....
So humans created a computer that was already there?
**Whats even more scary is the fact that we might all just be a part of some kindda sick chip game...
we may well be a part of someone's/something's GAME yes!
Keshi.
ty Sawan!
**and wrong things always happens at a wrong time!
Is there a RIGHT(/wrong) time for anything?
**if everything that happens to us is pre-programmed, I wanna see that programmer. I swear he/she writes real bad codes!
hehehe :) yes if there's a programmer behind this LIFE SYSTEM, I wanna show em how many BUGS it has!
Keshi.
ty Kiran!
yes do tell me abt the book after u've finished reading it.
**carve your own destiny- or more literally- that make yourself so tough...
but dont strenghts and weaknesses in us also depend on our genetic DESIGN?
Keshi.
ty Preeti!
I was like u in my teens...didnt believe anything abt Destiny. I thought I hv the world in my hands. But things changed for me and for my lil world as I grew up. There r so many things that can happen to us w.o. our control or expectation Preeti. But yeah, u believe wut u believe :)
**I mean life is a suspense, uncontrolled by anything
how do we know that for sure when we r even born with a body and a mind that we cant control!
Keshi.
hey ty Crazyheart!
And congrattz for being recognised by ur company!
**I feel every thing happens with a reason..and is bound by time machine
yes everything seems to hv an apt TIME to be REVEALED. It all unfolds when it should be!
Keshi.
ty Ebun HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!
I rem that day in 2007..I rem reading ur shocking post and I had tonnz of tears for ya. But Im glad ur able to withstand the harsh weather in ur destiny and that ur still standing tall.
Luv ya and stay strong always!
Keshi.
Its never a destiny...
I dont believe so..But again everything is not planned too...So it leaves me in a state of confusion..!!
:(
Very well-said Truthful!
Life gives out a path for each of us and it is upto us to make it journey-able! Beautifully put.
**I wanted to be in IIT , did't get in even though like the many success stories i had read , i too used to study for almost 11 hrs a day. But then I got into the college that I'm in now, & the first day i set foot there , it was like something of my own
Great example of Destiny here! Like I said to someone else here today, we cant all be Shakespeares and Einsteins, no matter how hard we try. But we r all UNIQUE and like how u finally felt ur own SELF-WORTH in College, we can only be who we are ALREADY.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
hey Ankur!
**R u in love???
does it look like it?
Keshi.
So true Ani, u r who u r supposed to be!
**there are certain instances that leads u to choose.. n those decisions end up making u to be the person who u really are..
Beautifully put! Thats exactly wut I meant.
We r already DESIGNED...we hv new sides to us that surface to the top as Life navigates us thru time!
Keshi.
ty Deepz!
**A way......a new direction.
And Life put u on a new path to discover new sides to ya that were hidden til then! LOVELY.
Keshi.
ty Div!
**cuz everytime i think its destiny, i discover that it was a human mind at play
Destiny belongs to a HUMAN...yes thats wut we r talking abt Div :) The mind cannot be controlled...so the human dances to the mind's tunes. Are our minds pre-designed? If not, we should all think alike and be able to control it, right?
Irrepairable damages happen to r'ships for a reason...and sometimes we'll never know wut that reason is. But I believe there's a reason for everything that happens, known or unknown.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
hey ty Bev HUGZ!
**I view life like a deck of cards; we are dealt the cards, but it’s how we play the game that counts. If played right the worst hand can win.
Very well-put!
**Look at how many people have been born into poverty and have become success stories, and how many that have been born into riches and have fallen into poverty.
true...but can it be who they were already? wut I mean is that it doesnt hv anything to with wut ur born into (rich/poor). Its all to do with YOU...YOUR personality that has already been designed?
**I received word today that a business associate has died. This man was very wealthy’ but, his money is not any good to him now. That sounds cruel, but it's a fact of life.
wow so darn true! A wake-up call to all of us.
Keshi.
destiny is an excuse for winners to show off their modesty and for losers to find a scapegoat. Almost always.
WOW Amy I admire ur FAITH in God!
Cos I was like u long time ago...then I slowly started losing faith in God...
That moment in ur life was indeedz dream-like! Im so happy for ya girl.
**And i also believe that at certain junctions in life we are given the right to make our own decisions and being thought a lesson. All in all, life is never predictable and sometimes almost too shocking to handle.
very true! And its that 'unexpectedness' that is LIFE.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
I read it Joyce. HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!
Keshi.
A time..."31st december 05"
A place..."home"
A memory..."celebrating new years in recovery" :)
A way..."just so beautiful with everyone i love around me!"
A person..."someone i dont want to remember yet know i can never forget"
A reason..."love which can never end...
luck which could never stay..." :)
ty Vinu!
**Its never a destiny...
**But again everything is not planned too...
ur confusing me now :) wut exactly d u mean by those 2 lines Vinu?
Keshi.
hey Jitterz!
**destiny is an excuse for winners to show off their modesty and for losers to find a scapegoat
how d u know that for sure?
if thats the case then why dun we all become Einsteins and Shakespears? Why CANT we?
Keshi.
Hi da... hmmm.. One thing stand out when I think on these lines (stealing your lines too)...
On Nov, 1995...
At Home...
Life changes forever...
In an unchangeable way...
For Arv...
Cos a part of my home was lost...
ty Pri!
**A person..."someone i dont want to remember yet know i can never forget"
like I said in my last post, Forgetting isnt a simple task :) HUGS!
**A reason..."love which can never end...
luck which could never stay..." :)
beautifully put Pri WOW!
Love, once felt, stays forever with us...Luck once experienced, leaves shores almost all the time. But it can strike again...it all depends on wuts gonna UNFOLD for ya. Stay tuned! ;-)
Keshi.
hey ty Arv!
I think I know who ur talking abt. HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!
**Cos a part of my home was lost...
And that loss becomes a part of u, I so know that feeling.
Destiny takes just like it gives.
Keshi.
i didnt get you? whats the correlation between my statement and becomign einstein?
My point is, some people, instead of accepting the *real* problem/drawback/failure/bottleneck/whatever, start blaming destiny. While there might be factors that are out of your control but more often than not, people just find 'destiny' as a convenient scapegoat.
Hi,Keshi-that's something I'm a bit confused about,you know-whether our destiny is written in advance,or,whether we can change it with a lot of effort.But then,seeing the lives of some people around me,I feel that it IS written by The Editor himself,so,no editing is allowed. Like,there's this friend,who never stops having troubles-one ends,another begins,sometimes,two begin...and,I feel pretty sad-I mean,everyone should have a happy period of life,sometime or the other,right?
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From my own experiences,well,I'd say'Destiny's written,the opportunities are created for you to catch,and,it depends on how you catch hold of them'. On the flip side, sad periods are also written in advance,and,you can see them coming if you don't turn a blind eye,and,it's again up to one's self to gear up to face them. That's easier said than done,we both know.Sigh!!
ty Jitterz!
** whats the correlation between my statement and becomign einstein?
thats cos u cudnt see the bigger picture in that qn :)
my point was why cant we all be the same? if its all abt Free Will then how come one person isnt as skilled as another? how come some of us cant end up with the one we love? how come one person has more/less capacity than another? how come one who dun smoke gets Lung Cancer and the one who smokes dun? How come u cant be me and I cant be u? :)
**problem/drawback/failure/bottleneck/whatever, start blaming destiny.
no one blamed it here. mebbe some ppl do, but I dun. Read my reply to Vicky.
I personally think blaming Destiny for something u cannot change is much better than blaming people :)
Keshi.
ty Amit!
yes this subject can be a bit blurry...its hard to nail it but with examples u gave it becomes a lil clearer...
**'Destiny's written,the opportunities are created for you to catch,and,it depends on how you catch hold of them'
beautifully put! I like it.
we cant all be happy, we cant all be rich, we cant all be smart, we cant all be strong, we cant all be weak, we cant all be this n that...already-designed sounds very close!
Keshi.
She was ecstatically beautiful and we met in one social networking site..and she just entered my heart with such an ease that even the blood from my veins won't have the easiness to enter...
she lit up my soul and then she went away..so far that today wen I think of her..it pains..she left a big void in my life....and that made me so distrustful towards social networking..but I was there to blame...I was supposed to hold on to her...but I failed...
I dunno keshi :( don ask this pea brains questions :) I am may be yet to see a lot, both success and failure :)
hugs :)
Bro thats harsh on ya...Im sorry.
:(
so d u think that was Destiny?
Keshi.
Preetz ur not a pea-brain! Beliefs hv nothing to do with brains. u hv ur belief and I hv mine. And all's well :)
HUGZ!
Keshi.
hehe :) thanks that made me feel better :)
yes Preetz it has nothing to do with Wisdom...it has more to do with Experience. And all of us hv different experiences in life, hence different beliefs :)
Keshi.
I believe in things will fall in place irrespective of what you do....
Mine was July 9th 2007... I guess you know what.. :)
Hie Kesh.Em so sorry I didn't come here earlier.
A time.....13th March,2004.
A place.....A small city of India
A memory....I was there for my cousin's marriage..I never knew this would happen. I lost my grandmom.
A way......unforgettable for sure.
A person....The sufferer-me.
A reason....without any reason.
I don't think any thing is pre-planned.
The simplest example-your marks aren't planned frm before when you sit for an exam.You might study well and get an 85+,you might not,and get a 55. :D
No moment of life is pre-planned..but I believe there is something mysterious called "destiny"..which has its own clandestine ways to trick us into his game!
Why are small girls raped?'
Why do people do drugs?
Why are so many people treacherously murdered?
Do they all have reasons?..no they don't..and yet like the other side of the coin..destiny plays no role here..no girls was DESTINED to be raped..or no guy was DESTINED to go in drugs..
Nothing is pre-planned..wuts your say on tht?
Ppl who witnessed the incident had lot more than goozebums...:)
if it is possible (practical) to look into past or future and do things accordingly then definitely yes :p ... thats a whole bug topic so lemme spare you from that
* Just like how trees grow and flowers bloom, and everything begins and ends no matter what? Is life an 'unchained' melody that will be hummed? A haunting melody that cannot be bound? Is it pre-written chapters that cannot be missed even when you'd end up missing(and gaining) other things? Share a time, a place, a memory, a way, a person and a reason with me.
that was so poetic ... everybody would have their own interpretation
A Time - Jan 10 2008
A Place - Across the globe
A memory - My undoing
A way - Lost nowhere
A person - Me & me
A reason - My bad
hmm, *gosh* it has left me thinking now
well na i dont remember a particular day or just one incident that changed my life as such. there have always been periods of my life that taught me immensely and obviously trying periods.
in recent time it would be 29th aug 2008. i got a new job after trying for so long and just when i had given up and thought enough is enough and there it came landing on my lap and changed my life. i left everything that had tied me to that life that day as i walked away from a lot of ties and memories.
a lot of people have had a significant impact in my life. cannot pinpoint.
i loved this post howeva brief it was keshi.
When? - Oct 29
Where? - At Keshi's blog
What? - Left a comment saying 'cool words'
How? - With infuriation
Who? - Me
Why? - Because it is the 99th comment!
Cheers,
A time.....13th february '08...19:07
A place.....the planet earth(on the fone actually)
A memory....Life was and is,NEVER THE SAME!!
A way.....Forgettable and its been a successful venture..
A person......Myself
A reason....That wer the last moments with SOMEONE who until then,meant a lot more than most things for ME..
A perfect valentines day gift...?? :)
Sometimes I think so too, but it's quite defeatist to just let the pre-planned stuffs bya higher being just swept us along.
kesh babes u there :(
urs..hemu..
**Do you believe everything that happens to us is pre-programmed and will take place no matter what?**
I think so...nd the suprises in store for us is what excites me..a bad day will definitely followed by a good one..
A time - May 2001
A place - Home
A memory - Train Tickets :D
A way - Proud and life changing
A person - My Dad
A reason - His faith in my abilities..more than my self blv
A time - Deewali 2004
A place - Hostel
A memory - ILLU :D
A way - Satisfying
A person - The Team
A reason - A team-effort when odds were against us..
On 7th July 2006
By the curb at Tyndall and Park Ave.
My phone beeped
And it was the most lovable beep of all
She found me after fifteen long years
She'd left without saying goodbye in 1991.
if u believe in destiny then u do believe that everything that has happened to you,the people u meet,the people you hate,the betrayals,the high moments,the mistakes,everything that u achieved was all pre-planned.
That's what destiny is supposed to mean.
id u don't get it ..than that means there's no plan.
Evil ppl... well believe in destiny then believe in them too.
GOd planned it ok?? hmm now he places some evil beings here so that when they harm you ..you can go back rushing to him/her ..save me save us...what a mastermind lol ..
What if i am not what i want to be already...what if i am not me..i haven't found myself yet..then waht??
I have to try ..i can;t wait for the destiny to make things happen.I have to make them.
seven priests have said i would murder someone..damn..should i believe them.If i started believing them i definitely will murder someone.See,these people are good with words they say what u want to hear.That's called con.
i can't change your mind u can't change mine.Whatever u believe in ..make sure it's has a solid base.
Be logical...
you want to hear me...
hear this...
For me everything ..you,me,others,cars,cycles,towns,ffields,crops,earth all...are variables.
you tinker with one and that variable will affect with many other(it's like the ripple effect)...they all affect many others. This is how life goes.Nothing is planned..Everything is random...
By 2070 due to the gigantic advances in nano-tech.We would be able to monitor our loved ones.We could contact them just my thinking.Sitting in their customized mind virtual room talking to them.AT that time There are going to chips embedded in each and every person.That means everyone is traceable like an IP address.
At that time using Supercomputers we would be able to predict the future too..how?? as now u have an eye on all the variables all the time..that calculation will not be done by humans..as by 2050 AI would be 10 times smarter than a human intelligence.
anyways...i am firm believer in nano-tech and cryonics.
I don't believe in dying.For me death is a disease and it should and would be erased soon.
As i said before..if u don't have dreams you've got nothing.
You want hope..
hope of heaven/hell
or would you chose to walk among your loved ones again???
i would go for the latter always.
nice talking to you dear
as you said i am too passionate.I love the extremes.
take care
sometimes we can all but wonder.. what life would have been.. had we not taken the decision that we took.. and if it would have been for the better or for the worse..
but then thing is life doesn't have any guarantee's.. all we have and see can change with in a blink of an eye.. so finally what it matters is that we shouldn't have any regrets to what we have done..
I beleive in fate destiny and all of that :P
All I can say rgt now...and wait fr the time to come!!!
i wouldn't give a person or an event so much importance, i've learnt that much.
how have you been, keshi?
**Is there a RIGHT(/wrong) time for anything?
i bet there is!
example: i worked in the same team for 2 nd a half year. there arises an opening in another team of my interest. the manager of the new team wants me in. the command centre head supports my movement. but my current manager wont relieve me! reason: there was 3 escalations and issues in the team in last week. the team is highly instable at the moment and he cannot leave critical recourses!
so, right thing: my movement.
wrong thing : the opening lasts till november 24 and my movement is freezed till Jan 1st.
result: i cant change the team now!
its all cos of that one week which went wrong and the opening was announced on the same week. => wrong time!
if the opening was announced one week before I would be working on the transition of the new team now! it would have been the right time :-)
A time………………this moment. As I am alive and happy
A place……………...my mother’s lap
A memory…………..moment I was jumping in joy hearing the birth of my angel
A way……………….It’s too late to think of it now.
A reason……………..Introspecting always, why this life all about?
Everything happens for a reason and everything is pre-programmed. I don’t know if it sound weird or religious, if you believe in birth and rebirth theory…….we arrive in this world carrying a suitcase based on our previous birth. In life every moment is a challenge or opportunity for you( you can say…pre-programmed). According to your actions/thoughts its credited and debited from your account. Every religious/spiritual person is trying to be immortal. When your account becomes Zero, you attain a state of immortal. Recently I was told like this, don’t know how far this is true, but I started to believe in this.
It’s a wonderful post Keshi. Was on holiday for sometime. Have a fantastic weekend.
Great!!!
Beautiful picture, Keshi! Congratulations!!!
Have a nice day.
kept it pretty short girl...
but then good one. guess, sometimes there are moments, sometimes there are periods...
i have a lotta them, but i better keep them private.. :)
Now, that's a suspense..
Come one, tell me, what happened? if it can be told...
:)
At the stroke of midnight
In the darker areas of my mind
Life shows a new path
In the trenches of lust
For 2 innocent souls
Cos desires of the body are stronger than of heart
Beautiful post..
well,i do believe that everything happens for a reason..yes, you can say they are all pre-programmed, just that we are not part of the program.. so, to us, its a surprise/happy/not so happy/shocking instance!!!These instances/decisions make us who we are sweets!!
My answers--
When? -- 4th Dec 05.. around 7pm!!
Where?- somewhere in Gujarat
What? - "we" met for the 1st time
How? - at the airport arrivals arena
Who? - Hmmmm.... ;) [lets just say my special person]
Why?- Cos it was meant to happen[even tho today we are miles apart, it just felt right,going all the way across the country, the excitment, the rush i felt... i still feel it..every day...] :)
Hugss!!!
I started with the Murphy's Law. Then went to Chaos Theory. Moved to find out Butterfly Effect. Just to know if I can have an answer. Got none. No.
Is life pre-programmed? May be it is. Is there is a design behind every little thing? May be there is. Do we all follow a script without knowing what the play is all about, May be we do.
But who cares, Keshi. Do you? Life is in this labyrinth. We look for something, find something else. We search for one way but end up on another. Did I know that I will get to meet you here on this blog someday. No, I did not. But I did. I am glad, I did. That's the story of life. It is about not knowing a lot of things so that one can have the joy of knowing a few. Enjoy while it lasts.
But do tell me - if you can - what happened at 9.30 pm on March 31, 2003 at Princess St.
*smilez*
There is destiny and then there is chance...i believe in both...everyone has a special destiny and chances just come you're way...make the best of it:)
What a nice post! :)
Well, I dun have a particular incident that changed my life. There have been several guiding lessons. But one thing's for sure, that we all are acting out our roles according to some story already written. So many things that happen to you and you really can't out it rationally as to how and why it happened.
yeah the post very much sounds like it... if u r then i m happy for u!! :)
i dont remember anything..........
At 2.20 pm, January 1, 1997
In a restaurant in Chennai
Life changed forever
In an unchangeable way
For Vinesh
Cos he needed to know that death happens even to his loved ones, and not just to other people
No worries, nothing is set in stone. Nature and life give us plenty of opportunity to screw things up.
hey KK yes I know that very special day in ur life. :) beautiful!
**I believe in things will fall in place irrespective of what you do....
I agree...no matter what u do, where u go, things shall be the way its supposed to be.
Keshi.
ty Crystal!
** I lost my grandmom.
HUGGGGGGGGGZ! Im very sorry to hear that girl.
**The simplest example-your marks aren't planned frm before when you sit for an exam.You might study well and get an 85+,you might not,and get a 55.
yes but some ppl study more than anyone else but gets lower marks than some ppl who DONT study much. Why may that be?
**No moment of life is pre-planned..but I believe there is something mysterious called "destiny"..
u say its not pre-planned and there's something called Destiny too? thats a contradictory statement Crystal :)
**Why are small girls raped?'
Why do people do drugs?
Why are so many people treacherously murdered?
They r very valid qns. Vicky asked the same ones and I replied to him. Read my reply to him.
**Do they all have reasons?
Im not saying anyone is DESTINED to be raped or killed or whatever. Neither am I blaming everything on Destiny. All Im trying to figure out is if both evil and good, and everything else is pre-designed. If not, we should all be ABLE to be ANYTHING we want, hv EVERYTHING in life etc etc.
wut say?
Keshi.
Southy wut happened that day? did u beat up some loser into blak n blue? I can imagine :)
Keshi.
hey Samy tnxx!
**A way - Lost nowhere
wut d u mean? u ok? HUGS!
Keshi.
ty Utopia!
**i left everything that had tied me to that life that day as i walked away from a lot of ties and memories.
thats what I mean...sometimes in life u wud hv to do things u wud never hv imagined doing!
Keshi.
haha Salil nice one there!
Keshi.
hey Multimenon tnxx!
**A reason....That wer the last moments with SOMEONE who until then,meant a lot more than most things for ME..
awww :( I can imagine wut happened.
I dun believe in Vals Day anyways so dun worry :) And rem everything happens for a reason.
Keshi.
ty Saffy!
**but it's quite defeatist to just let the pre-planned stuffs bya higher being just swept us along.
noooo its not abt leaving it all to happen. I didnt mean that at all :) but alot of ppl thought thats wut I meant thru this post.
All Im saying is, even our triumphs, trials, successes, defeats etc etc may be pre-designed tho it doesnt seem like that. Do ya get me now Saffy? :)
Keshi.
Hemz too late...I was gone by the time u decided to turn up at ur own party. LOL!
U know Keshi dun WAIT. ;-)
But I know u had a power-cut. bummer!
Keshi.
hey Prakhar ty!
yes..life unfolds both pleasure n pain...we just hv to wait n see wuts in store for us :)
**A reason - His faith in my abilities..more than my self blv
lovely! A great father n son memory.
**A reason - A team-effort when odds were against us..
brilliant!
All those moments DEFINED ur life....and thats wut we need to remember.
Keshi.
ty Trevor!
**She found me after fifteen long years
She'd left without saying goodbye in 1991.
There u go...Destiny brought u 2 together again!
Keshi.
ty Vicky!
I think ur confused :) cos none of wut u said is what I meant thru this post. No its not abt GOD. Neither was it abt the FUTURE.
Can u change NATURE? Can u alter a tree or a flower's life-cycle? U tell me.
**i can;t wait for the destiny to make things happen.I have to make them.
No one asked u to wait. Why did u think I meant that thru this post?
**you tinker with one and that variable will affect with many other(it's like the ripple effect)...they all affect many others. This is how life goes.Nothing is planned.
Isnt 'Ripple Effect' itself a DESIGN that u or I can never change? u tell me.
U may not believe in Dying...but we all do hv to die some day...wuts after that cud also be a DESIGN that u still dunno abt :)
Keshi.
ty Ani!
**had we not taken the decision that we took.. and if it would have been for the better or for the worse..
thats right but wud u hv taken that other road? I dun think so. Cos the road u already took is what u wud hv taken anyways. :)
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
ty Meghna!
yes...everything has a perfect TIME to unfold...
Keshi.
Im good Dharma tnxx! And u? :)
**i wouldn't give a person or an event so much importance, i've learnt that much.
wut d u give importance to then? arent u a PERSON and isnt ur life made of EVENTS?
Keshi.
ty Sawan!
good example.
yes Timing is imp and I hv realised that someTIMES that TIMING is not in our hands no matter how hard we try...
Keshi.
Very true keshi .... I do believe everything happens for a purpose and is surely predestined..In my life , the most pronounced hand of destiny I have witnessed is that I was placed in a MNC in my undergrad and was supposed to join it after passign out. All my friends who were placed recieved their dates except me. While waiting for the date to come , I gave tests to get admitted to masters and then I never joined the company and here I am doing my masters, I believe this was meant to be and all the other events that lead to it kind of conspired to make it happen..
Nice post!!!!
Cheers!!!
hey Maddy WB! :)
yes..sometimes I wonder what this Life is all abt...
**we arrive in this world carrying a suitcase based on our previous birth. In life every moment is a challenge or opportunity for you( you can say…pre-programmed). According to your actions/thoughts its credited and debited from your account.
beautifully put!
I follow Buddhism. I believe in Karma and Rebirth. Law of Cause and Effect applies to all elements of Nature...and we humans are also part of Nature. Therefore I dun think we can avoid it.
Keshi.
ty Dave! ;-)
Keshi.
ty Gypsy!
**guess, sometimes there are moments, sometimes there are periods...
yes...phases that teach us many things abt life - revelations of self and life.
Keshi.
What happened the 31th of October 2003?????
'Share a time, a place, a memory, a way, a person and a reason with me.'
November 1999, the KL, I met him, he came and talk to me because I was smiling. Well, sadly did not get an happy ending, was it pre-programed I have no idea, and i ll never know, don t really believe in many thing, so don t think it was.
Tell me what happened?
Take care
C.
PS: i m back finally, in freakin freezin Doblin.
PSS: that was a very short post btw what happened to Keshi looooooooong post, and i also saw a tiny comment on someone s blog, what happened to Keshi looooooong comment tooo!!!!! ;D
hey Aneesh :)
**tell me, what happened?
I already told u all WHAT happened...u didnt read the post properly ha? :)
Follow the sequence from the top of the post.
What
A Memory
Life changes forever...
Keshi.
hey Mayz WB! I missed ya...where were ya?
**At the stroke of midnight
In the darker areas of my mind
Life shows a new path
In the trenches of lust
For 2 innocent souls
Cos desires of the body are stronger than of heart
Alluring lil snippet...wow!
Keshi.
hey ty Aaarti!
**yes, you can say they are all pre-programmed, just that we are not part of the program.. so, to us, its a surprise/happy/not so happy/shocking instance
I agree...its well-timed story unfloding infront of us, chapter by chapter, much to our surprise :)
That memory u jotted down was too beautiful! U met ur soul-mate...the one u were MEANT TO BE WITH. lovely!
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
hey ty Soul!
but u forgot to check out Keshi Effect? ah I see, u came up with the Soul theory, which btw is THE BEST! ;-)
**Do we all follow a script without knowing what the play is all about...
may be we do...yes...cos some things that hv happened in my life r not things I ever imagined wud happen...
**We look for something, find something else. We search for one way but end up on another.
yes...the path we take and the path we dun take r both part of our destiny - wut we do and wut we dont.
**Did I know that I will get to meet you here on this blog someday. No, I did not. But I did. I am glad, I did.
aww Im glad I met u too Soul. Its been a pleasure knowing someone like u!
**It is about not knowing a lot of things so that one can have the joy of knowing a few.
wow I like how u put it. Few GOOD ones wud do yes.
*HUGZ* ty!
Keshi.
ty Akshaya!
**everyone has a special destiny and chances just come you're way..
wut abt the chances that never come ur way?
Keshi.
ty Sunshine!
** But one thing's for sure, that we all are acting out our roles according to some story already written.
I feel the same way...we r being given our SCENES n ROLES in the PLAY, at due TIMES.
Keshi.
Ankur Im talking abt 2003...did u even read it? :)
Keshi.
Nirmal d u suffer from Dimentia?
Keshi.
ty Vinesh!
**Cos he needed to know that death happens even to his loved ones, and not just to other people
aww HUGGGGGGZ! I know exactly how u feel.
And we always ASSUME that bad things happen to OTHER ppl...but we forget that we r OTHER ppl too, to someone else.
Keshi.
ty Phos!
** nothing is set in stone
Isnt human anatomy set in stone? can we change our births n deaths? I dun think so :)
Keshi.
ty Prashanti!
** I believe this was meant to be and all the other events that lead to it kind of conspired to make it happen..
exactly! There's a strange CONNECTION of events that lead to another one.
Keshi.
Cess MWAHHHHHHHHHHHH! WB babez! I so missed ya!!! Im so glad to see u bak here again. And Im glad u had a great break too. :)
'Doblin' must be frikin cold now ha? 'Sydnayy' is sunny n warm.
**Well, sadly did not get an happy ending
HUGZ! This is what I mean...not every r'ship is DESTINED to hv a happy ending :)
**short posts and short comments
Well Keshi is getting tired of ppl...ppl who take her for granted...
*HUGZ* but Im glad my sweet Cesso is bak!
Keshi.
Hi Keshi!
Information gathering is a research in itself and you are too good at it Keshi..i should say ;-))
now here, on these sharings i will come gain Saturday/Sunday...
but I NEED YOU, at ..the Cerain Kind's 'corridor'...i'm humming a melody there ..please do come when you have time..to join me
After the blosssom fell..you are already in celebrations..carry on..will read you later..:-)
Cheers!
devika
i'm very much that, keshi. only, i'd rather give more importance to what was learnt, than the event itself.
to answer you query - i give importance to spiritual evolution, learning and work - not necessarily always in that order.
* wut d u mean? u ok? HUGS!
aaah, just something that happened to me a long while back :) ... yes I am okie ;)
thanks dear ... HUGS!
hehe exactly..
thats why i say.. one shouldnt have much regrets about what one has chosen.. :)
yes, i did read the date. :)
so as per my experience, ppl only remember it either when they are nostalgic, or they are back in love, for me this sounded like more in love!! :)
Cheers!!
okk... not sure i'm doing this right.. or i'm in the right frame of mind to do this... but here goes:
when: feb 27, 2005. 6.30 p.m.
where: express towers, nariman point, mumbai
a memory: meeting X after 3 years of not speaking to each other coz of a misunderstanding. and ego issues.
a way: a simple line dropped over MSN saying "high time we did this. let's meet." just like that.
a person: me.
a reason: because life wouldn't have it any other way. because some people deserve SO much better. because they need their guardian angels...
I beleive in destiny..but I don't believe to use it as an excuse..I knew sumwhere I was wrong...she just wanted to be swaddled in my arms..but I think..I never understood her importance in my life...until wen she's gone...
i'll tell you wat i tell myself..
if I don like an incident it's simply bcos it's too soon to appreciate it.....
-mighty safe huh? ;)
but of course, easier said than understood!! :(
Why we take 7-9 months to birth ?
A cycle/A pre-written program ?
Why we die and why cant win death.
If that is true everything is true.
Enjoy life !!!
hey Keshi,....
my love, you busy replying to comments here..
fallen flowers are flying...
ccome to my corridor, at the ealiest with your friends whom you choose...
lets celebrate!!
though the stuff may sound a bit serious, never mind....
i am a silly serios kind!! ;-)
love, you so
devika
Devika tnxx!
I'll be there soon :)
Keshi.
hey Dharma!
**i'd rather give more importance to what was learnt, than the event itself.
yes I agree. but w.o. ppl and events, no lesson will come.
Keshi.
Good to know that Samy :)
Always know Im here if u want someone to talk to.
Keshi.
true Ani :)
Keshi.
hehe ok Ankur :)
Keshi.
aww lovely account of a memory there Raysh!
**a memory: meeting X after 3 years of not speaking to each other coz of a misunderstanding. and ego issues.
dun we all do that all the time!
Im glad u made up.
Keshi.
ty Bro!
yes...we sometimes dun realise the value of ppl until they leave..
Keshi.
ty Krithika!
**if I don like an incident it's simply bcos it's too soon to appreciate it
but how do we know wuts too soon? :)
Keshi.
ty Hobo!
**Why we take 7-9 months to birth ?
A cycle/A pre-written program ?
Why we die and why cant win death.
If that is true everything is true.
very well-said! Its a DESIGN..hence we cant change it!
Keshi.
k Devika :)
Keshi.
until something good comes along ;)
:) Krithika...
Keshi.
More than our body, its the mind which we program even in dreams. Everything comes to an end with another birth in many different ways.
Priya thats right...end of one thing is a beginning of another thing...
Keshi.
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