The Deep End

SIMPLE don't always mean SPECIAL...

Looks are deceiving yes, but for me it means both attractive/simple looks can be deceiving. From the last post of my fav Men's pics, I sensed that some people label all good-looking people as SHALLOW/FAKE. I don't get it. Just cos someone is born good-looking or is popular for certain skills/looks whatever they may be, it does not suggest that person's character/depth/genuinity, does it? How do you do it? I mean are all simple-looking people GREAT people? And are all good-looking people HORRIBLE people? I don't think so. What works for you, may not work for them. And what works for them, may not work for you. That's about it. Just cos some of us prefer to look and dress simple, that doesn't mean that that's the best way to live. Neither does that mean that people who don't look or dress like us are awful people. That's a hugely prejudiced and biased opinion. Bottomline is we are all different, our looks and behaviors have been shaped by our families, culture, exposure and preferences. And I'd like to respect that in each indvidual, as long as it doesn't 'bother' me. Does it bother you?


Beauty is to be admired...
Whether we like it or not, this world is also about Looks, looking good and being attractive. If not, we'll all be trying hard to look ugly! Now by wanting to look good I didn't mean being overly crazy about one's looks and going overboard with Narcissicm. It's about being presentable and feeling good about yourself. And I see nothing wrong in doing that...do you? Both metrosexual men and women don't bother me unless they shove their looks on my face, which most don't do anyways. As much as I appreciate inner beauty, I appreciate outer beauty too. And I look at beautiful things. We are programmed to look at beautiful things and get attracted to such things. If not, we cant be human. And by being attracted to beautiful things, that doesn't mean I'm shallow too. That only means I'm being human. And that also don't mean I sleep around with every hot hunk on Earth! It just means I appreciate good-looking men. And if later on I get to know them and they turn out to be bad men, ofcourse that's a different story. My point is, no one can just look at someone and say 'he/she is shallow' just cos he/she looks good or just cos he/she lives a flashy life or just cos of the way he/she is dressed? If they have the beauty and if certain styles suit them, then why not flaunt it? Celebrities and good-looking people are also human...and they are capable of being good humans just as much as the simple/average person is. And some simple people are capable of being horrible humans just as much as some celebrities are. And to be honest, some of these celebrities are really nice people in real life...they are good partners, great parents and good Charity-workers. Just cos of few bad celebrities, we cannot brand every celebrity as shallow idiots. We have a whole lot of bad people who are non-celebrities...so does that mean all of us are bad? I think not!

I'm not here to please the world...
Worse, some people classify an outgoing, outspoken, hot-men appreciating, night-clubbing, fashionable, photo-taking, extremely friendly girl who lives in a 'White' land as a 'bad' girl. They think such girls are easy, cheap, dirty, unfit for marriage, mentally ill, narcissistic, not someone their mothers would like *rolling eyes, do I care momma's boy? NO!*, highly promiscuous etc etc. To be honest, I don't care what people think about me or my life. I am who I am...if you like what you see here, come in. If not go back to your cave and Baboon life. *FYI we are in the 21st century...note that down in your Tarzan undies on your way back*

This hottie is especially for you Jane!
And no, not all good-looking blokes are shallow...infact they are doing us women a great favor...they've got the Looks and they are flaunting it to people who appreciate it, and I don't see anything wrong with that. And if some men here are jealous about it, sorry I can't help that. I just figured out that women are not the real jealous kind, it's men! I mean me being a woman can genuinely appreciate another good-looking woman and say she's beautiful without going all green and spazzy about it. But it seems most men can't appreciate another good-looking bloke without throwing shit on his face just so that they can feel good about themselves. It's really sad you know. C'mon guys learn to admire a fellow good-looker without throwing hissy fits about it...it's childish and makes you look insecure btw.

Dive in deeper to find the treasures...

Looks are deceiving, yes...so don't judge a book by it's cover. I say it's true the other way too...if the cover is simple, who knows, the contents can be simple too. And if the cover is beautiful, who knows, the contents can be beautiful too. And vice versa too. Just don't judge a book by it's cover. Whatever it is, whoever it is, scratch the surface a little to find out the deep end of a character, before labelling them as shallow/deep purely based on their outer appearance. I say if we label people based on looks, we are the ones who are constantly swimming in the shallow end, not them.

And don't forget, Ted Bundy the serial rapist/killer was a very simple, non-celebrity, Church-going man. Go figure!

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