In an Afterlife. Once upon a lifetime, I used to live in a place called the 'world'. Over there, we could 'say' but most people only 'talked'. We could 'listen' but most people only 'heard'. We could 'see' but most folks just 'looked'. In that world, there were so many avenues for growth...so many signs placed on our roads of life, by God...omens were the the only language God spoke...not English, not Hebrew. It was 'omens'. God's language was the signs and the experiences we encountered along the road of life. But people over there are so buried in their own worlds, in their 'chase', they hardly saw God's signs or the symbols he left along their roads. The experiences, the encounters, the other people they met...they forgot to 'see' them..cos they only 'looked'. When good experiences were met, they were overjoyed, they only thought of the pleasure it gave them. They missed the golden lessons that came with it, that were carefully placed by God, like the delicious bits of nuts and fruit hidden beneath a cake. People only noticed the top layer, like the icing on a cake...like the little sugar figurines that captured their eyes, not the imagination. They forgot to see the bigger picture of it all...that with good things in life we should grow humility, generosity, compassion, understanding and love. Most people there don't seem to know that we may 'succeed' many times in life but we are not a 'success' until we share it with everyone else around us. Joy that's not shared isnt joy at all. And when they encountered bad experiences along the road, people were so miserable..they cursed God...they asked why me. Again, they missed the precious lessons that came with it. They only saw the bottom layer this time, like the pits of a dark dungeon...like the burning sensation of a fire that only captured their immediate senses, but not their souls. They forgot to see the greater outcome of it all...that with bad things that happen to us in life, we should grow patience, hope, positivity and beauty of the heart. Most people there don't seem to know that we may 'fail' many times in life but we don't become a 'failure' until we blame somebody else for it...that accountability should stand tall in all situations.
God places 'items' along the road of life. Those items maybe the people we meet, the experiences we encounter and the ups and downs we go through in life. All of them happen to us for a reason...yes all of it. Even if some people leave us for good or some encounters leave us emotionally crippled..you and I met because we were meant to cross each others' paths to attend to a deep need in each other...to be there for each other at a difficult time...to awaken each others' spirits and unleash our souls. It doesn't matter that we are not together anymore...our purpose has been accomplished, our need has been met. God places 'items' along the road of life. The beautiful rose has thorns..the ugly duckling may possess the prettiest heart..the rocky road can lead to the most beautiful lake..the toothy child brought out the kid in me..the friend who never spoke to me again taught me Destiny..the flowers by the lake showed me character and patience through day and night. May all your future encounters leave you wiser than ever before! In life we look...in death we see, and I did. Life is a symptom...death is a cure.
- Keshi, July 2010, 'Revelations Of An Afterlife'
Written as a heartfelt & most honored tribute to Ria, Mehreen, Margie, Joyce & Shachi. 5 beautiful flowers God had placed along the path of my life..
Current Video: People come into your life for a reason
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Keshi!!! What a surprise to see u again here...I'm also guilty of being away for so long lol.
What a beautiful tribute....where are these people now that you have dedicated this to???
What a comeback post... In this fast-paced life, we fail to notice these things and we miss so many lessons
And what a video too... Yups... I need to show this post to sum1 and give her the tribute...
Hey Keshi girl.... was thinking abt u last nite and u write a post today... wat the??
anyways welcome back *hugzzzz*
and no dear death is not a cure, death is the end...
hello there,
a post after a loooooong time.
it was quite a thought provoking one, reading such heavy stuff in morning is bit difficult( I am always sleepy in morning, ha ha)
but, people do not see deep inside the thigh to find out the best.
lovely analogy keshi...
m not sure if u r back to regular bloggin but it's good to read your words again :)
Hey Keshi,
How you have been? Hey gotta tell you something :)
I am getting married this coming November 7th.
Check out the engagement pics, I have put it up in my blog.
http://the-cognitive-factor.blogspot.com/2010/05/engaged.html
Life is not a symptom, grief and despair are the symptoms.
And definitely death is not a cure for any of them...
Welcome back Keshi girl! It is so good to see you back on blogs and I'm hoping this continues to be!
This is such a wonderful tribute that you've written!
:)
I am so happy to see u back,Keshi:-) and wt an eye opening post! every word u typed there mirrors the real world so well! Thank u so much 4 this thought provoking post sweets. i am going to go slow today and see if i get thorns or flowers in the way to destiny.
True to the core. Every word. Yes indeed. And I'm humbled the way you dedicated it to me out of so many of your friends.
Keshi, you are so you! Love you for that! mwah!
Good to see you back Keshi...Now stay, don't go away :)
Bring back Margie too....I think you owning this world is as important as the world owning you :)
best,
devika
Keshtar
In the autumn of my journey I am much better at learning the lessons and being aware of the serendipitous joy of having someone special cross my path...happenstance or fate, karma or destiny, whatever name you assign to it, if you are not open to the experience, you lose so much of the beauty of knowing another sentient being.
It is wonderful to hear your thoughts again..It appears that you are still making memories and enjoying a period of constructive self examination in the outer world. I am pleased to find you in such a tranquil place..as always, your friend.
Hey, Nice to read your stuff after a long time...
And a gud write up...
Hope millions read this and realize the real meaning of what u said..
Cheers..
I am so glad to see a post from u after such a long time. Ur post was heart touching...i can think of innumerable number of ppl who live this kinda life that u hav talked about here, lost in the rat race.
That's the reason why so many of them feel lost, without a goal in life, without a purpose to live for. They somewhere fail to get the essence of life.
I won't say that i have the essence of life, but i m definitely not lost in the maze of life. And i feel happy about that, i know there are miles to go before i get there...but i am definitely not as vain as others.
I am so touched to know tht there is a mention of my name in this post. Something like this coming from you is extremely heartening, Keshi. Do u know why i keep saying this? Its bcoz u have touched the lives of some people in a way even u don't know! Once again thanks for the post, stay good. :)
Much Love,
Ria
A beautiful,touching post. Truly "revealations of an afterlife".
heyyyy keshi...happy to see u back here :)
hope all's fine with u..
keep in touch and do update yr blog atleast once in a while.
and here is hoping you had a wonderful birthday..
take care
As always your post touched my heart!
It feels great to read you all over again after a long time!
and loved to be a part of this vy touching post :)
*hugs*
Beautiful, because it is everywhere here... a bud that blooms long after... smile and cherish on everyone... in such courteous way is lovable. Hope you continue here keshi dear.
Lovely said and truly said! Falling is just a learning experience of standing... but sometimes rarely we fall in a pit!
I am so so happy to see you Keshi and your coming is very inspiring!
My best greetings and wishes for you!
with love
maria
Hello dear Keshi - your writing sounds terribly deep and sober. I hope you are well. Love Terry
Keshi, what a deep meaningful touching post!
Thank you so much for mentioning me here.
I always found your writing very genuine, and you as a very pure hearted person in this online world.
I kept in touch because I wanted to, because I felt the need to....the desire came from within and there was no reason to deny it :).
Hugzzz and Love....
Shachi
God's language is conscience. :)
I believe we ought to be humble and magnanimous,I believe magnanimity of thoughts and deeds is fast diminishing from our lives.
People now are are making a genuine effort to be BAD. :(
*you and I met because we were meant to cross each others' paths to attend to a deep need in each other...to be there for each other at a difficult time...to awaken each others' spirits and unleash our souls.*
- this is so You.
:D
*we may 'fail' many times in life but we don't become a 'failure' until we blame somebody else for it* - yeah,well said i fail we succeed,that kinda a people I would love friends.
*Life is a symptom...death is a cure.*
Life is a chance to do fruitful things for others, death is tragic truth.
*jumps up and down reading the blog.*
Spread the smiles Keshi.
Belated B'day greetings.
Hi Keshi
how r u? whts up....how is life? still making every1 down under go weak in d knees,I hope:D
dun even hv ur email id 2 keep in touch...I disappeared of course but am trying 2 cum back....would be amazing if v cud reconnect:)
Comfortably Numb
you back Keshi ??
Nice to see you here. :)
Take care
Keshi: I am absolutely and totally inspired to return to full time blogging now you have resurrected your blog.
One of my lifes simple pleasures is to read your beautful posts, which must in turn evolve from a beautiful person with a beautiful mind, L Y. welcome back,xxx.
BTW How are the kids?
HAPPY BELATED B'DAY KESHI!
It felt really nice to see you back, and nicer to read your post.
I had gone through something similar, that made me realize that the moment something bad happens we forget about all the good things that happened, and concentrate all our energies on the negativity of life.
The line where you said " God places experiences as learning milestones in our path" sums it up.
People come and go, and yet we meet them coz it was meant to be. :)
-hope you keep writing more and we get to meet you more :)
Keshi, so good to see writing again even if this is just a one time thing.
To be honest with you I am rather bummed out over the very sentiment you expressed.
They forgot to see the bigger picture of it all...that with good things in life we should grow humility, generosity, compassion, understanding and love.
On both the small and grand scale I see far too many people so wrapped up in their own achivements that they forgot everyone else. Even worse, instead of sharing what the have they become scared of the outsider or "boogeyman" and fear someone is out to take what they have.
And when they encountered bad experiences along the road, people were so miserable..they cursed God...they asked why me.
Same thing here, lots of people want to blame someone else for their bad situation but in reality it all boils down to the choices we make.
Don't get me wrong, I'm no saint, I have my bad days and bad weeks but at least I can still see the forest for the trees most of the time.
Ps:- Forgot to add, a few days back only I was telling someone that blogworld is nothing without the bloggers who started before us, coz they wrote truly from their heart not worrying about others. :)
& Now you're back. feels good :)
What a post ! Back with a bang...Philosophical but practical...Realities of life ,buried in dust but now brought out effectively in simple words..
Donno whats the prompt but touches on most of the things we fail to SEE in day to day life
TC
CU
Hi Keshi so good to see you back.A very thought provoking honest and truthful post about life.Thank you.How have you been,missed you a lot and am glad you are back even if it is for just a while.A big hug to you and welcome home.
Hello again sweet gal. x
Nora
I had left a comment i suppose yesterday...
Well... I don't see it...
Anyway I was welcoming u back...
And I liked the video... Great One...
hey ... nice to read your posts after a long long long time
hope you are all doing well.
you are absolutely right ... we forget to count our blessings, and in turn crib when things go wrong.
take care of yourself ... and follow your passion .. ok ?
yay!!! at last i get to read something good again... :)
Keshi,
Nice to have you back. And with what a thought provoking write up. We do tend to miss out on signs which God wants us to see as we feel those are too trivial. This post also shows that you have undergone some experience which made you feel this way. Do share it, if you feel like.
Take care
gud to read u again keshi....sent me email if possible...will love to be in touch with u..:)
:))))
Good to see u back sweetie :))
U knw just 2-3 days back I was thinking abt u :)
and so happy to see u :))
long..... awaited post this is!!!
Keshi gal,rocking post:)
Long time!and I am very glad to see a post from you.
Please keep posting frequently.
We con't wait for soooo long.
Keshiiiii gal...Glad to read ur post after a longggggggggggg time..
plz do keep writing gal :)
we con't wait for soooo long.
Hey Kesh!
Thanks for the visit, made me happy to see your comment pop up in my Inbox.
You write with such amazing clarity and intensity, I hope you never stop. Clearly writing is your passion (or one of your passions :) ), blog or not not withstanding. Great to hear from you and wishing you all the happiness.
Dear sweet friend, Keshi
I've been meaning to come by earlier and leave a comment but it's been not such a good week!
I am truly touched and honored that you included me amomg those that you paid tribute to .... thanx so very much!
This is such a beautiful post, I so loved it!
Full of wisdom and so very true!
I send you much love!
Margie XOXO
first of all its great to see you back.... its always the same keshi... people tend to see only the good things, while they fail to see that the bad things which we think are bad... are the real lessons that help us to live a nicer life.. a life filled with knowing who are the real persons who care about us... who would tend to your care when we are down .... such people are rare to find... you have found them and iam really happy for that...
you know i tallk o my frenz sometimes abt you... you were the girl who taught me at one time... to live in the moment and enojy life... be what it may happiness or sad... and i'lll always remember that fact...
just have one wish... to seethat old keshi... the happy the crazy... the sexy ;) keshi... back.... :)
hope to see here real soon...
take care and keep writing..........
That felt so good and soothing to read.. :)
"In life we look...in death we see, and I did. Life is a symptom...death is a cure."
Those are powerful lines, I say..
Great to hear from u aft a long time:)
beautiful tribute to awesome friends :)...nice to see your post :)..
and yeah it was a surprise :)..have a gr8 sunday enjoy..
urs..hemu..
Hope you're back for good. Missed your sweet smile...
Came by to leave belated bday wishes as I was out of town earlier. A new post on an abandoned blog is a nice sign :)
Hope things are good with you and you had a nice birthday as well. Have a fantastic year ahead..
lots of love
Life is a symptom...death is a cure.
GBU
Arti
this is sooooo beautifully written Keshi.. and God! AM I GLAD TO HAVE U BACK. pls stay this time.. even if it is for updates from the afterlife.. just stay, ok?
Was glad to see that you posted sweetie.. I just opened my blog back up a couple weeks ago!!
Hope you are doing well, and this post was awesome!! as always I get a revelation out of all of your writings!!
Love ya!
Ne!
There you are!
SO you like totally revelated yet???
keshigirl!!!! i missed reading your posts. Hope everything's alright with you.
WOW! Good to see you here gal! But let me tell you keep coming in my thoughts every time and I say - God Bless Her :)!
I am sure you must be doing fine and touching people's life one or the other way :)
I loved the tribute - I am also a believer that people come in our life for a reason...it's for sure :)
Be in touch girl... my gmail id: fizadawn@gmail.com
Do write to me.
With love and hugs
Cheers
So beautiful.. I haven't been around for a while and remember our friendly posts.. I'm so glad you are posting again.
JD ;)
U R Awesome. I love your posts. I wish you'd post more often. I miss our blogs (from years ago).. probably don't remember me.
JD ;)
very long time, keshi!
good to see you back here.
hope all's well and that you had a fab b'day! :)
Look at ya...still posting!!! LOL
You need to read about "Abiku" or "Ogbanje" ion Yoruba and Igbo belief systems.
I see that you are still flowering radiantly in the garden of your enchanted life.
must still be relevating the revelations of the relevant...
HI KESHI!
BEV HERE!
NICE TO SEE YOU BACK!
I just got back after being away on a project and saw you post.
It's nice reading a great writer which you are.
I'm not writing any blogs; however, we still have some entertainment and information blogs.
My blog has departed blogville and is now in blogville heaven. LOL
Bev
What a beautiful thought! your friends are lucky to have you! been here after long and i'm so happy at what i found! my day suddenly feels brighter :)
keshi, am so overwhelmed to see you back here. this post shows why you r one my all-time fav bloggers.
anyways, may god bless Ria, Mehreen, Margie, Joyce & Shachi and youself with his choicest blessings
hi keshi...how r uuuuu???missing u so much....hope u r fine ...tcare yah! n stay hot babe....
Hi Keshi
Beautiful post as always...it felt as though u have poured out my heart there....i too miss my friend...but even i think my role that god intended in his life is over...so i need to carry on now...anyways take care....
hey keshi, its been a while since i have blogged, but im trying to come back to blogging for sure, either way, read ure post and i always believe people enter and leave ure life for a reason and everyone good or bad was a guardian -- guiding away from bad or steering u into bad situation for a good lesson that probably needed to be learned.
anyways, my new blog is
http://chocolteluva.blogspot.com/
Hi dear..how are you doing?
I hope you are in good spirits of health and having a good time!
I just came here to say you are in my thoughts and prayers.
take care with lots of luv n hugs
Cheers
Dear Keshi
Thanx for the sweet birthday wishes on my blog (I hardly ever go there any longer but it made me smile to see Sweet YOU there!)
Also thanx for the sweet card!
Talk soon!
Lots of love to you, Keshi.
Margie XOXO
hiiii
I'd like to tell you that I think about you
and I'd like to send you
my best wishes!
Be happy dear Keshi!
A lovely thought provoking post.
Nice to see you here ... it takes time to return. It is good to see you Keshi.
I feel so guilty for not being here ... some good friends gone.
New ones to be made.
hugs for you
hey, whats with you?
I worry abt people with too much god in them...becos then theres very little of them there..
how u been? u sound damn sad in ur posts..kind of weary...
my question is, wheres keshi? or has this god person consumed her completely?
hey, its great to see u back...in whatever incarnation.
Just dropped by to say hello.have been thinking of you lately.Hope all is going well.Take care and here's a big warm hug from across the miles.
Ooh ooh aah aah sexy eyes
I'm gonna take you to paradise
Hey hey my my look at me
You got me feeling free
Sexy eyes
Ooh ooh aah aah sexy eyes
I'm gonna take you to paradise
Hey hey my my can't you see
You were born to dance with me
Ooh ooh aah aah sexy eyes
You know I'm never gonna tell you lies
Good to see you back Keshi...Now stay, don't go away :)
Bring back Margie too....I think you owning this world is as important as the world owning you :)
and Yes I have the hottz for devika too
hi keshi..its always a great feeling coming to meet you dear..nicely said..take care.
Thinking of you my friend!
Love
Margie xo
Hey really gud one..
And the music in ur page too ;)
Tc..
Cheers,
Ravi.
(http://j-ravi.blogspot.com)
My best of the best wishes to you
dear Keshi!
Take care!
Hey Keshi! Am at work now, just thought of dropping by to say a hi. Thought of letting you know that i still miss ur posts which were so full of life & wisdom. There's nobody else other than u who can write such posts.
Miss u!
Love,
Ria
How many people do you see in a day----not too many---you might see a face, a smile, eyes, a figure, but do you see the person.
You will get surprised by people you have known for a long time--there are things that you don't know about them---some they don't want you to know---some you wish you didn't know
i came bak to blog, n ya arent here, cmon gurl, gimme company!!!!!
heyy Keshi
the father of your jungle kids is depressed
he is talking of after life
the Silly old man, there is no after life for atheists
lovely blog...
came jumping 2wards ur blog when i stated posting again ... i guess v used to follow each other blog 4 yrs ago!
lovely blog...
came jumping 2wards ur blog when i stated posting again ... i guess v used to follow each other blog 4 yrs ago!
hi babes!!!...
how you doing???
its wonderful reading your writing after such a long time!!!....
I see so much in common bet us two.. Two sisters. I too miss my dad. A LOT. I too need jus one more day with him. will do anything for that.
Please come back dear.
I truly need you...
Beautiful as always. I miss you. xo
Hi my dear friend!
Just wanted to tell you that whenever I think of you, I always smile!
Lots of love to you!
Margie :)
Beer is flowing chicken is on the palate some of it in on the plate as well.
Will for the wheels of time and chimes of tide to turn.
How must you be Keshi?
I miss you. I really do.
I miss you Keshi!
I dunno if u still visit ur blog or not...but i just thought of dropping by to say a hi! Miss u Keshi, i m sorry for not having mailed u in a while. But that's not why i m here, i have come to tell u something. There's a news for u on my blog. Plz plz do read my latest post and u'll know what it is about. :)
Thanks & hugs,
Ria
Hey Keshiroo,
how are yoooo?
:)
Hi dear...how are you? Hope you had a great diwali celebration! I remember you every time - no matter what :) I feel sometimes we have something more than this blog world connection :)
we will figure out
You take care - you are always in my prayers
Cheers n Hugs to u
Just dropping in to say hi, hope you are well.
Hello, Keshi!
Have a nice weekend!
too long you are gone.. it is time to return back sissyer... miss you :)
It's great to come back and read something like this!
"God places 'items' along the road of life." Well yeah! He certainly does. ;)
Merry Christmas my Dear Online Angel!
Dear Kashi!
I wish you a wonderful Christmas and joyously happy and healthy New Year!
haven't u been away for too long now?
hope life is treating ya well...
THIS IS TO NOTIFY YOU THAT OUR FRIENDSHIP CONTRACT FOR 2011-2012 HAS BEEN UPGRADED to a LOVERS CRUISE
We embark on this SHIP on 31/12/2010
- Saby, IMNUTSINCAPS
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