Tuesday, February 28

It's Simple!

Heyy guys ever wondered how important you are to this world? Or are you really that important? lol I don't mean to make you feel worthless, but just as much as we ARE an important part of this world, we are also not going to last forever. Or let me convey it this way...we may place ourselves at a very high place in the family, society, work place or anywhere else for that matter, but we are not going to last! Can you believe that? Yes I can believe that and many of you may be saying 'well Keshi shutup, I'm important to my family and I may not be the world to you but I'm the world to someone'...lol ok I got you and I know what you mean. But what I'm trying to make you see is that by giving too much importance to yourself, you are going to be quite disappointed some day...not 'cos you gave so much importance to yourself, but because by concentrating on doing that, you probably missed out on the fun. Get what I'm trying to say? Well let me give you an example...I used to go to this Funk dance class...we used to have so much fun doing the wrong steps sometimes and we used to have a ball doing our own moves too...lol...but there was this very serious girl who used to attend the same class...all she ever wanted to do was get the steps so perfectly right to the point of being frightening to watch. To add to the horror, she never even looked around or shared a smile with the others. In the end, she never made friends with anyone or had any laughs during the classes but probably won a gold medal somewhere at a gym in Aus..like that's what matters :)

I have met few people in my life who think too much of themselves, too proud to even move their lips to smile, too busy to even laugh, too afraid to make a mistake, too perfect to be silly, too serious to be funny, too focused on career to even spend time with family/friends, too serious about life that they plan every stage of it...but wait a minute...life doesn't happen like that. You can't really plan too much...'cos the only certainity of life is that it's uncertain. Don't feel so important and be so serious guys 'cos in about half a century we will all be forgotten anyways. What I'm trying to say is live and let live. Don't impose hard rules on yourself or others..loosen up...live life, not plan it...cos while you're planning it, you may have lost a few good opportunities of living it. Also don't be angry and destructive like Fluffy and the suicide-terrorsit cat above - lol, life is short, be merry and dance around like this cute puppy of a Cheer leader :) Since NV always says that my posts are too long, let me make it simple this time. Life itself is simple...just don't make it complex folks. Let go, live and let live.

109 Cranium Signets:

display_name said...

lol,ya it is

PRADEEP K. said...

BRAVO! BRAVO!
(A standing ovation)
:)

Sugababee said...

ME First??...nah its too good to be true.

But mate this is a wonderful post. I totally agree... People are too caught up in things...juss live mate..just live. Lol it is indeed alot easier said than done but nonetheless...thats no excuse.

Also, ppl are often too into the goal like u mentioned that girl in ur dance class...
A wonderful quote i love from Ghandi himself:
"Glory lies in the attempt to reach one's goal and not in reaching it."

We only got one life to live. Live it up!
:D

Paul said...

Dat kitty kat giv me chicken skin!

Queen Bee said...

Ha ha, just like Fluffy, so cute yet so grouchy-looking. He could have an easier life. :)

:: The Protector :: said...

am i first????????????????

:: The Protector :: said...

hey Keshi, are u saying dis is the small post...

agree with what u said...most peoples forgot to smile,laugh,etc... afta v've one life...


Cheers!
:)

desperado said...

beautiful piece keshi
let go....the hardest thing to do
to be carefree just like a small kid..

easiest way to do is to listen to Kurt..hehe

we would surely make a good grunge couple ..lol

kannan udayarajan said...

Don't feel so important and be so serious guys 'cos in about half a century we will all be forgotten anyways

...true...
n nice post yaar..
:)
cheers

white devil said...

"before death, it's all life!" - kilgore trout

Het Waghela said...

Am I first??? wow this is an achievement to be first on Keshi's blog to comment :))))

Het Waghela said...

I think I am not first as you moderate and approve and then it is posted :(.

Bout our importance, then everyone is important to someone in one way or the other. But life and time will not stop if I am not there. Its like we sometimes say during our tea breaks to each other "if you will not do code then someone else will do it".

So life is not a standstill
without you.

You have got your own importance in ur existance.

I agree upon ur point on loosening up the things and not to plan out too much.

PuNeEt said...

thats true no denial...
bt its important to feel imp abt ur self... else othrs will tk u for granted...
and you urself will feel unwanted...
bt yes... one needs to draw a line...

live and let live
well said...
I believe in that ;-)

Cheers

Manish said...

Some people are born perfectionist :) So u can't change their nature. Can u!
In indian film industry Amir Khan is case in point. He will do takes after takes until the shot is perfect. Never mind how much his col-actors hate him for that'But whatever he does for so caled perfection the end result is when we see him on screen we just love his performance.
So I half agree with u when u say Don't impose hard rules on others but then in an individual's life let him decide how to go abt it ! May be what is fun for one person is utter waste of time for other.

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southpaw said...

Hmmm...interesting!!! when i was small somebody taught me to always believe in KISS. But i m a bit twisted,u must hv come to know that by now, can't help it, i make very strong disciplines for myself and raise my standards above normal, it does gives me a bit of high, but at end of the day its all back to KISS.

icyblue said...

Am I first????

icyblue said...

I guess it sounds simple...but how many of us can actually implement it? I agree, life is unpredictable. U can't predict what will happen the next day, or minute, or moment...

I hope all of us can learn from this post :)

Cheers!

Shikha said...

..in about half a century we will all be forgotten anyways
what about all those famous people??

Kripa Shankar said...

I just finished writing one on life and came here...to find another perspective.
so i came before your friends who fight for first-comment-spot...but it happend that way.
cool post

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

am i first ???

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

but u know , we might feel that living with a smile , with our parents and sharing a laugh are necessities ... but a workaholic might not think so ... his whole life might be work !

btw , Kodai => Kodaikanal , is a tourist spot ...
itz not very close to BLR ...
i am staying w/ my parents ... but we have gone to kodai when i was a kid

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

u know many a time , even i dont smile at ppl and all that ... coz i instinctively distrust certain people ...

nice post !

Dewaker Basnet said...

fluffy is so damn cute:)

tulipspeaks said...

err.. i might be the first..

or the second..

or the third..

or not in top 10..


but whatever it is.. let me read n come back on this


=am000nie=

Boldnbeautiful said...

me first .yeah

niki yokota said...

suicide-terrorsit cat?? LOL!!!
wat a cutieeeee!!!!
i really dislike that kinda girl.
yeah smile is the most important thing in our life!(^v^)
or maybe the other girls in the dance class looked tooo scary????

Boldnbeautiful said...

you are so right Keshi, It is not worth in life to be too serious & lose all the fun.

it is not necessary that u are so important everytime.

Girl friend is so important to her boy friend when he (needs her) is in love

He does not bother about her when he breaks up. & Vise versa

employee is very inportant to the oraganisation when they perform too well

Orzanisation does not bother after he leaves

Parents are too important to children when they are kids.

They become less important when they grow old.


Importance is with need & performance

kkalpz said...

ummm...you knw wat kesh...if i had joined that funky dance class...at the end of the course dance is prolly the last thing i wud have learnt...i wud have freaked out n wud have had a ball tryin to learn dance..many a times we r so hung up on setting n achieving goals we kinda forget to have fun...we tell ourselves.."i can have fun tomorrow,i can freak out tommorrow, but today i need to work hard,but who the hell has seen tommorrow...it mite never come.

tulipspeaks said...

i am a selfish person..although i know u'll disagree..so, i better stop it there..


but about loosing it and lighten up my life.. i've been thinking so much about it lately..for so long, i've been so serious with stuffs that i do with my life..so, stiff when it comes to decision n all..and then, a thought just came to me.. "hey! if u dont enjoy what u have now...u might not enjoy it ever..live a day at a time"..

hard to change my lifestyle which i have been following for 26 years..but then again, a small change would do no harm isn't it?


hugsss

=am000nie=

talldarkman said...

I wonder how I can be the first to comment on keshi's post....:P

Lemme read the post latere....and comment on it first...b4 anyone laps up the place...;)

talldarkman

musings (m000nie) said...

helloooo... m i in the top 10??? hope so... lol...

k00kieeee... im living life just like i want to... hmm there r adjustments everywhere... but m happily happy... lol

hugzzzzzz

Datingmaster, Jerusalem said...

KESHY my love,we try to make some impact on life , family and friends and work all play apart-life is a challenge. I once read a poem about leaving footprints in the san dof time-isnt that a good image

Datingmaster, Jerusalem said...

Keshi u r leaving me some aggressive comments why? also why do u write that sex is over-rated-from experience?

Tarun said...

Well said :)

Jigal.. said...

hi

M I 1st???

bye

take care

Sudeep said...

Now due to this comment moderation I cant even shout I m first even while i m seeing 0 comments... :((

But let me not make myself less important n so i m shouting I M FIRST... i know keshi is a sweetheart n will accept my comment b4 others'.. he he he

Life without fun is ... wht??? nothing.. better spend it merrily b4 it ends :))

UD said...

hi keshi me first this time...

UD said...

ya ur true keshi...

Ben Heller said...

Good advice keshi.

Emerald. said...

I'm glad I don't have to pick a

Favourite.

:P fuzzbox said...

As the song says, 'All we are is dust in the wind'. Might as well have a few laughs.

Jackal said...

nice n simple......live n let live have a ball go to uttara's party @ the beach : )......
....though one thing is certain with life......the end..........

Vivhyd said...

keshi.. i have no idea wht u r trying to say but as far as how important we r to this world talk goes.. I dont think anyone is important to the whole world as such in the sense that world stops after so and so passes away.. ppl carry on with their life dont they.. its all down to how many ppl are impacted in some way once u go.. the number of ppl depending on ur reach.. and it does start with one's family, society and there about.. so each and everyone is important to his or her own spheres of influence.. as far as not being too complex and living life easy.. u r rite.. we could have a complex mind but we must learn to sort things out the simple way..

The Phoenix said...

Once I get working on something and keep failing, I get very narrow minded and obsessed with getting it right. I guess that's a typical Type - A personality.

But I hope I'm able to laugh at myself and not take it too seriously.

I can hope...

Ricky said...

Me the first...

"Live and Let Live" - To me, it all depends on how people define themselves. It is not easy to live upto the expectations of the society but living for urself gives more satisfaction. We miss the best part of our life in searching for things that do not exist, and later realize that we have been fooled and left with nothing.

Life is short, make it Sweet and worth living.

sittingnut said...

good morning mate !

as for feeling important about oneself, i think i am guilty of that.
i do think that one's own self should be the greatest. imo anyone who cannot be honestly proud and satisfied with of him/herself cannot be really happy.

ppl are satisfied with different things
that girl in the dance class for instance , she did her own thing and was probably very satisfied with herself in the end, that is what counts imo.
it would be great but not everyone can be an angel like you :-)

Let go, live and let live.
i am not sure about the 'let go' part :-)
however i am certainly with the 'live and let live' part.

hugggzz!

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Yep that's very true ... sometimes while trying to achieve bigger things in life we neglect the small sources of happiness which are around us everywhere ...

and then regret it later ...

it's good if we realise it as soon as possible ... else we'll be da real losers!

Keshi said...

~~Display_Name

woohoo someone's smiling laughing his way to being Number-1 ;-)




~~Pradeep.K

Thanks matey :) I hope I can live upto my own words..lol! Cos I do lose my temper quite often hehehe...




~~Sugababee

heyy girl ur the first girl-commentor in this post ;-) gotta be good na :):)


**Glory lies in the attempt to reach one's goal and not in reaching it."

so true! Wonderful words there and thanks for sharing it here Babez...kinda like how they say 'happiness is not a destination, it's a journey'...




~~Paul

lol that kitty cud be a cousin of Bin Laden. And WC :)




~~Queen)Bee

lol Fluffy is having tough time trying to stay calm..aww poor baby someone made him so pissed off lolz!




~~Vishnu

heyyy mate u r somewhere in the FIRST 10 :) wow!

**are u saying dis is the small post...

lol awww u teasing me now?





~~Desperado

heyyy matey :)

**the hardest thing to do
to be carefree just like a small kid..

so true! But I guess trying will hamper the genuine nature of it...might as well be who u really r...


**easiest way to do is to listen to Kurt

Golden words of wisdom there! EVERYONE PLEASE READ THIS :)
I SO AGREE MATE! I forget ALL my probs when I listen to Kurt's lyrics, voice and music...UNBELIEVABLE! To me He is God in human form.


**we would surely make a good grunge couple

lol yes...we can do things listening to Kurt...I mean talk, play, wut-not ;-)





~~Kannan_Udayarajan

hey thanks matey :) Yes, alot of ppl think they r gonna last forever and try controlling themselves n others...they forget that we wont even be ard in a few years time...




~~White_devil

yes...live life, not exist :) Thanks Devil!




~~Het_Waghela

heyy Het hows ya?

**But life and time will not stop if I am not there. Its like we sometimes say during our tea breaks to each other "if you will not do code then someone else will do it".

So true...u will be replaces in a different form...

Thanks! btw u r on eof the top commentors in this post, if not first :)




~~Puneet

yes it's imp to feel self-imp...but not to the extent that it makes u a selfish n dull person missing out on 'living'...

I have a friend who whinges she doesnt have a BF...she says she couldnt marry at 25 as she planned - and now that she's 27, she's basically in tears! BIG DEAL - I mean cant these ppl realise life isnt abt getting married at 25?? I really wanna puke when I hear such stupid complaints abt life!




~~Manish

heyy mate :)


**Some people are born perfectionist

totally agree! And to tell u the truth, I'm close to that..lol! Cos I want my home so clean n neat, and whatever I do I try to do it close to perfection :) Often ppl tell me Ima perfectionist...but lately I have realised I cant let my life get wasted trying to be so prim n proper...this post is an encouragement to me too btw :)

But d u honestly think Aamir is perfect? Nobody is perfect...only near-perfect :) Im sure he's having fun and there's no problem trying to do something to the best of one's ability. But what I mean is ppl who waste their lives trying to be too perfect...




~~Twisted_Truth

huh where?




~~Southpaw

heyy matey what's KISS?

I know ur a man of high maintenance ;-)




~~Icyblue

**but how many of us can actually implement it?

SO true, even I cant do it sometimes...but I dun in any way fall into that serious_gym_girl category...lol not even if I try :)

btw ur one of the FIRST few Icy, not bad at all :)





~~Shikha

heyyy :)


**what about all those famous people??

are we famous? :)





~~Kripa_Shankar

lol Kripa thanks! I will read ur's soon.




~~Deepa

hey Deeeeeeepz muahhhh!


** but a workaholic might not think so ... his whole life might be work

true..and this post is for such ppl to read :)

U cant be smiling with ALL the ppl in the world, but when someone smiles at u, wud u look away?

thanks for the info on Kodai...I have read abt that place...sounds like a wonderful place to visit some day...




~~Dewaker_Basnet

heyy mate WB :) Yep Fluffy is such a meanie cutey pie..lol!




~~Amutha

Amuuuuuu huggggggz!

**if u dont enjoy what u have now...u might not enjoy it ever..live a day at a time

yes...live in the moment with vagues plans abt the future..not with hard n fast rules abt it..


**but then again, a small change would do no harm isn't it

Ur such a realistic babe...yes one cant change overnight but a little change is betetr than nothing at all...great honest words there - Thanks Amu!




~~BoldNBeautiful

hey girl I really like ur comment there...opened my eyes to a new persepctive of Importance..wow!

**Importance is with need & performance

Damnnn it, its so true! Imp is def with need n performance. No matter what r'ship u take...I hope all the ppl will read ur comment...thanks for that!




~~Niki

Hey Bakshi babez :)

**maybe the other girls in the dance class looked tooo scary

aww I swear they didnt hahahaha! Cos Im one of em lol!





~~KKalpz

:) u sure wud have learnt some funky steps from me lol!


**but who the hell has seen tommorrow...it mite never come.

Tomorrow never comes...cos when it arrives, its Today.





~~Talldarkman

lol Tally, it's so funny ur not first...but ur among the first few :)





~~Musings

Hugggggggz m000nie! So good to see u here...


**there r adjustments everywhere

yep..it's all abt adjustments...it'll always make u and others happy :) Thanks girl!




~~DatingMaster

hey Master :)

**about leaving footprints in the san dof time-isnt that a good image

yes...one will always leave memories behind...but for how long? even the ppl left behind will die some day...


Me leaving aggressive comments? lol when? Oh abt s#x being over-rated...well I thought u were just making up a s#x story just to get ppl commenting in ur blog...I still cant believe ur story :)




~~Tarun

hey thanks mate :)




~~Jigal

Jiggggz hows ya?




~~Sudeep

lol Sudzz u aint first in comments but ur really sweet :)


Yep..be merry before it all ends, thanks!




~~Arun

Thanks mate!





~~Ben_Heller


Thanks mate :)




~~Emerald

lol thanks n WC!




~~Fuzzbox

heyy mate hows ya?


**'All we are is dust in the wind'.

so true...from dust we rise and to dust we go...




~~Jackal

heyyy hows ya?

**go to uttara's party @ the beach : )......

lol good one! All in beach-wear ha ;-)

The end is the only certainity abt life...thanks mate!




~~Vivhyd

heyy Viv hows ya?


**I dont think anyone is important to the whole world as such in the sense that world stops after so and so passes away

lol thats what I meant :)


**its all down to how many ppl are impacted in some way once u go..

obviously family and friends will be impacted...and if ur a famous dude, the society will be impacted too...but after all that? What happens after all of em die too? What Im trying to say is, even if there's an impact after u die, that impact will some day die too..everything is short-lived :)




~~Phoenix

heyy mate!


**But I hope I'm able to laugh at myself and not take it too seriously

Thats exactly what I meant! And few ppl coudlnt get the point of this post :) thank God u did...hehehe...




~~Ricky

aww Ricky u aint first to comment but u sure r one of the first few, so good on ya!


**but living for urself gives more satisfaction.

Great advice there!


**We miss the best part of our life in searching for things that do not exist, and later realize that we have been fooled and left with nothing.

thats so true...some ppl waste their lives going after money, fame, career etc...but they all get old some day n start thinking 'what the hell have I been doing all this time' :)

Thanks!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Sittingnut

hey mate hows u this morning?

**i do think that one's own self should be the greatest

I agree...we must all value orselves and be the masters of our souls...no doubt abt that. But I mean some ppl just forget that being valuable is not the only thing in life...u know what Imean na? :)



**she did her own thing and was probably very satisfied with herself in the end, that is what counts imo.

true...but d u think that one day when she's old n grey, she will be having any happy memories left of her dance classes? Maybe that too is not what she wants in life..:)


**i am not sure about the 'let go' part
w

why not? In the beginning I was so sure of myself and was too clingy...now I have learnt to let go...it's the BIGGEST help I have done to my mental peace and personal development...trust me...





~~Cheesy_Termite

hey sweety did mum come back? And hows ur legs?

**else we'll be da real losers!

thats right...one may feel that he/she is winning today but somewhere down the track, he/she will realise that they were the real losers in life...


Keshi.

sittingnut said...

But I mean some ppl just forget that being valuable is not the only thing in life
sure i agree but that is just our point of view. they have a different idea about the whole thing

but d u think that one day when she's old n grey, she will be having any happy memories left of her dance classes? Maybe that too is not what she wants in life..:)
maybe you are right or maybe she will have fond memories of executing the perfect steps( or whatever). we simply have no right to judge.

I have learnt to let go...it's the BIGGEST help I have done to my mental peace and personal development...trust me..
i can very well believe that about you. but some ppl really are not after peace and 'personal development ' in that sense they might prefer something different from life. and i as i said above i don't have a right to judge. :-)

btw i am fine.thanks
hope you are enjoying the day. :-)

tulipspeaks said...

Good morning darling..

Hows the day so far eh? :P



hugsss

=am000nie=

Keshi said...

~~Sittingnut

Well understood...I have no right to judge :) but isnt life all abt judging one another...I mean when u set urself goals and plans, then too ur constantly judging urself..whetehr ur upto what u set urself for :):)
But yeah judging urself is called for...not judging someone else :) thanks matey!

The day is going good so far...could be better but :)




~~Amutha

Morning swt hrt hugggggggz! Im well n u?


Keshi.

southpaw said...

KISS-Keep it simple son...:)

Sunita said...

Life itself is simple...just don't make it complex folks.***Very true.

Keshi said...

~~Southpaw

hey that's a neat KISS :)




~~Sunita

Thanks :)


Keshi.

Dawn....सेहर said...

Dear...U must pat on ur back for me ;)....awesome post...!! Believe me...there are such ppl and its so pathetic to see well educated and experienced ppl do tht...!!!

I just dont want to start here or else this will be a post ...lol
but your fluffy made me laugh...he is so cute....
hugzz for a wonderful and factual post

cheers

joey♥ said...

live and let live. yes..btw you're linked :).

Vinu said...

Keshi,

good thoughts put on writin..
But i sensed a change in topic as it started flowing..u started with our importance to this world and then discussed about people being arrrogantly proud of oneself..wtever..th topic was good..
but u had written
~~Don't feel so important and be so serious guys 'cos in about half a century we will all be forgotten anyways. What I'm trying to say is live and let live. ~~

Cant agree to u at all that dont feel so important and be serious..I agree its not good to be serious all the time but , definitly should feel we are important...we are important to someone,somewhere in somewhat sort...If u dont feel u r important there is life ahead..but yeah this feeling of importance should not turn into arrogance...

Cheers Keshi,
Have a great time.

Vinu

PuNeEt said...

lolz sweeti...

I really wanna puke when I hear such stupid complaints abt life!
dun puke and spoil the surroundings ;-) lolz...
just have sympathy for them... coz they are still not prepared for bigger tragidies... which are a part of life...

Cheers

anup.777 said...

Amazing! especially since I was working on article just on this topic! ... I'm probably not gonna post it now that u've handled it so well!

It's absolutely true. Life is too short to hold grudges and certainly too short to be uptight.

Yeah! loosen up world! Let's have some fun! :)

uttara said...

keshiiiiiiii
am here ...:p

first i really thought u lost it ...hahhahaha but then u write so damn well ..loll muahhhh

***Don't feel so important and be so serious guys 'cos in about half a century we will all be forgotten anyways

am i serious .......loll but 1 should feel imp cos others wont respect ... n may be draw a line n not make a hoo haa abt anything ....



***Let go, live and let live.

yes this is my policy ... n i n ahere to it totally ...

to tell u the fact ever moment 1 tries to chnge .. n no 1 can predict it ... :)

***Heyy guys ever wondered how important you are to this world? Or are you really that important?

i seriously can ans this as of now .. i donno how imp am to the world or others ... sometimes i feel useless .. i donno y n i dont wanna live .. anyways i pull myself up n see the beautiful world n the beautiful sunrise the next day ...

i guess am going bla bla .. so lemme stop here

huggggggzzzzzz babay ...

ya i will come up with a post ...

:)

muahhhhhhhhhh

uttara

Keshi said...

~~Dawn

heyyy I really hope ur ok...must have been a very scary exp na...take care girl!


** its so pathetic to see well educated and experienced ppl do tht

lol yes...it's worse when 'educated' ppl behave that way...but I really dun think education is related to one's behavior at all, cos alot of dorks have proved that to me!

Thanks for ur kind words...btw it doesnt matter if u write another post here, just do it :) I like long comments na..hehehe...yep Fluffy is SOOO cute lol!




~~Joey

hey thanks girl :)





~~Vinu

hey long time...great to see u here Vinu!

yes..I mean being overly imp...that really makes me feel sorry for such ppl...but then again it's the individual's priority..sadly...




~~Puneet

heyyy I...:)

**dun puke and spoil the surroundings ;-) lolz...
just have sympathy for them... coz they are still not prepared for bigger tragidies...

they make me puke at blockbuster levels...really...anyways :) Funny thing is that they dunno what bigger tragedies r...and I dun think such ppl ever meet up with bigger tragedies cos they live in a closet...must be closet-syndrome or something lol!




~~Anup.777

awww look who's here...so sweet :):)

**I'm probably not gonna post it now that u've handled it so well!

na na I want u to post it...WTH Anup lol! I wanna see how u have written it...plzzz post it, NOW! :)



Keshi.

uttara said...

SOUTHY ......

wat KISS r u talking abt ...hahahahaha


:D:D:D:D:D:D:D lollllllll
uttara

Keshi said...

~~Uttara

hey Uttsy babez hows it going? :)


**first i really thought u lost it

duhhhhhhh is there anything left to be lost in me? u should know by now that I have a permanent place in the Lost city :)


**but 1 should feel imp cos others wont respect ...

oii I didnt mean one should have 0 levels of self-Imp..lol!


** sometimes i feel useless .. i donno y n i dont wanna live

why is that? goshhhhhhhh in no way did I mean that one should feel worthless or useless...what I meant is have a balanced level of self-imp...and why dun u wanna live? WTF Uttsy I'll kill ya...ooops I mean if u think abt such things again...cos u mean alot to me and u have been very 'useful' in keeping me sane and many more I think...so stay alive babez ;-)


I think Southy's KISS = passionate liplocks in the woods lol! mmmm mmm mmm :)


Keshi.

uttara said...

na na ... i guess i have lost it ...loll

so just scarp wateva i said ...loll



***I think Southy's KISS = passionate liplocks in the woods lol! mmmm mmm mmm :)

n southy lip lock in wooddsss ..huh

will come bk on this waitttt
loll
uttara

web_loafer said...

The loner in your dance class is probably going to succeed at almost anything but life.

I'm sure ou've heard the saying...."He was driven to succeed........"

I've been driving truck for 35 years, and have never had to haul a load of success from somewhere to anywhere. It seems to get there on it's own.

RBTL's (read between the lines)

That is where webloafer does his best work for the world.....hauling freight that makes all of our lifes better....

Hopefully everyone of your readers and yourself will have a better life in the future. And it would make me happy to know perhaps I had a small part in bringing someone happiness.

AmitKen said...

agreeed :)

way to Go keshi..

and yeah... that Blog-a-thon thngie has been rescheduled for 7th March (next tuesday) so u hvn't really missed it :)

Die Muräne said...

Cool Keshi, great post!!
I also think if people wouldn't take themself so serious, we would have a much better world.

I already started with myself ;-)

Go on!

Jo said...

A little planning in life won't be a bad idea. This planning includes having space to breathe, spending time with family/friends and taking care of your own career/business.

saby said...

http://gomeanimalfarm.blogspot.com/

hey Guys
Gomey is in the dumps
, 'if life is a bowl of cherries
wat am i doing in the pits'
,

-says Gomey, the coal miner

ArChaNa said...

may be she knowz that shez not gonna live long? .. jus kiddin.. i just finished watching a movie.. a walk to remember i guess the moviez namez right.

i do't know why ppl live lyk that.. may be they want to acheive all thier dreams b4 they leave this world?

rebel_on_loose said...

Well said Keshi....v'll all b forgotten in half a century....so let's make hay while the sun is shining! :)
Luved those pics btw!

still_figuring_out said...

live and let live--one of the wisest thing said!

;) i like it. live like there is no tomorrow. you know how i cheer myself up when i`m feeling down?

i ask myself;

"well, if you die tomorrow, do you want to die feeling unhappy?"

that always cheers me up.

though the question itself sounds miserable! lol..

Boldnbeautiful said...

ohh nooo moderator cheated many..

Thanks to moderator, at least most of them celebrated for bieng first.

I had good laugh he he he

>|' ; '| said...

In the end, she never made friends with anyone or had any laughs during the classes but probably won a gold medal somewhere at a gym in Aus..like that's what matters :)

well .. from wat i see, we donno what is it tat matters. :) maybe it mattered to her. maybe she was in love with the art. perfection is an endless pursuit and some do find in that pursuit. i luv ur policy of " Let go, live and let live."

and let the negotiations begin ;)

Dinesh said...

The importance of being thouself is elaborately demonstrated in thou blog...as Shakesphere would have probably said.

Jeevan said...

First time here, very nice thought Keshi, life is a fun, when we lost it, we cant take it back. thanks for droppig your comment on my blog.:)

alice said...

u r right girl..

lil _kath said...

We must live "LIFE" to the fullest..live to the present and have fun while we're at it..smile ,smile and smile^_^ !That's the formula....of simple life.
Hey can't imagine 5'7 girl doing funky dance hehe..maybe tallest in the group naa?Oops you asked my height on your last post?i'm only 5'2 sweetie...i'm afraid that my lil sweet rina will be taller than me soon haha..muaah!

hugs,
-kathy-

Yashita said...

hey that's so true!!!...
while you are busy plannin life, life itself mite just happen...and you can only wonder wat the hell happened to all the years gone by...i was in my own world and one day i was rudely woken up from my sleep...to find that i had friends only from my own group...i had lost all my friends from school, coll, hadn't spoken to neighbors in ages, dint knew anything aboput my relatives...nuthin...lost touch wid some of my best frnds...it took a bad exp to realise that there is much more to life...and ya, live and let live!!!great post:)

praveen said...

sorry dear..was bz and couldnt comment earlier..but im finally here now

I'm the world to someone

hmm....its nice to know if you are in that position,ain't it??

by the way, i love the doggy with the pom poms

huggsss

Art said...

totally agree with u :)

Sujit said...

Well, its fun to allow yourself to do what you wnat to do!.. that may not lead to nowhere also. Attimes we need to sit and chalk out things of what you wnat to be.. and on the other side what is neccesary such that you can make that what you wnat to be!!..

its true.. to have fun and live with a smile.. but sometimes I cannot smile at people who are insane and selfish and feel great about themselves.. many time i have done so..

Manish said...

Very Well written... I also share the same thoughts... ppl usually make life llokmore complex than it really is.. all that is requires is cordination between heart n mind... as without smile life is dull n without perfection life is haywire... so a trade off is what is required... neways.. nicw way to say ur mind :)
good work...
keep smilin n writin
God Bless u
Manish
BTW: Thanx for droppin by my blog

sittingnut said...

snt life all abt judging one another......
But yeah judging urself is called for...not judging someone else

you are right we judge others constantly. it is human nature. even though i said i have no right to judge others, i in fact judge other ppl but it is still wrong.

wish you a great day.!

Keshi said...

~~Uttara

yep u lost it too..or else how wud u gel so well with someone like me? lol!

**n southy lip lock in wooddsss ..huh

mmm mmm mmm ;-) my lips r locked...cannot say anything..lol!





~~Web_Loafer

heyy mate WB :)

**The loner in your dance class is probably going to succeed at almost anything but life.

mebbe she'll never know what we r talking abt cos that's the way she is...isnt that sad...


**I'm sure ou've heard the saying...."He was driven to succeed........"

Very interesting...u just opened my eyes on that line...


**I've been driving truck for 35 years, and have never had to haul a load of success from somewhere to anywhere. It seems to get there on it's own.

Spot on! Couldnt have said it any better :)


**And it would make me happy to know perhaps I had a small part in bringing someone happiness.

We r a group of ppl who share knowledge and personal development tips...with just one comment, u sure have contributed so much to my personal development..thanks mate, good on ya!





~~AmitKen

heyy Amit thats great :)




~~Die_Muräne

heyyy mate...

**I also think if people wouldn't take themself so serious, we would have a much better world.

if only most ppl think like u...it wud be a wonderful world then...


**I already started with myself ;-)

woohoo u rock ;-)





~~Jo

heyyy Jo!

**This planning includes having space to breathe, spending time with family/friends and taking care of your own career/business.

I think that's just the perfect balance! Thanks :)





~~Saby

wut happened to Gomey pie?





~~ArChiE

WC to the jungle Archie ;-)

**a walk to remember

so many ppl asked me to watch it n I still couldnt....how was it?


**may be they want to acheive all thier dreams b4 they leave this world?

mebbe...ur right...cos my dreams r not gonna be the same as their's...




~~Rebel_on_loose

heyy Rebbbz!

**so let's make hay while the sun is shining!

Exactly! Have fun while u can...





~~Still_figuring_out

SFO hows u babez? All relaxed now? Hope so :)

**"well, if you die tomorrow, do you want to die feeling unhappy?"

thats right...u gotta think that way n make up ur mind...

it sure is a miserable Q tho..lolllz!




~~Boldnbeautiful

heyy babez...First or not, u just rock...;-)





~~Poison

heyy Lee loving sweet erotic dude ;-) lol!


**from wat i see, we donno what is it tat matters. :) maybe it mattered to her.

u know what...ur right :)


**perfection is an endless pursuit and some do find in that pursuit.

It sure is...but surely it cant make u so stiff, can it?


**and let the negotiations begin ;)

Ahemm...Keshi takes her car keys to drive down to Poison's area..:)

Ur sure u can handle my negotiations? ;-)





~~Dinesh

Hey Dinesh u in Paris?

**The importance of being thouself is elaborately demonstrated in thou blog...as Shakesphere would have probably said.

aww that was cool! A touch of William in my blog..lol!




~~Jeevan

WC to my world Jeevan!


**when we lost it, we cant take it back.

yep...n only few ppl realise that b4 they lose anything badly...

Thanks!




~~Alice

hey Alice how u been?




~~lil _kath

Kathy babez...


**live to the present and have fun while we're at it..

Spot on! Live one day at a time..


**Hey can't imagine 5'7 girl doing funky dance hehe..maybe tallest in the group naa?

hell na...there r taller girls than me...c'mon 5'7 aint that tall...lol!


**i'm afraid that my lil sweet rina will be taller than me soon haha..muaah!

:):) aww u have a baby girl? How old is she?




~~Yashita

heyy Yash u came back? WOW how was the wedding?


**while you are busy plannin life, life itself mite just happen...

it sure goes on...and not many realise that...


**i had lost all my friends from school, coll, hadn't spoken to neighbors in ages, dint knew anything aboput my relatives...

yes...we tend to forget all of em at some phase in our lives...then we realise...at least u realised - that's great...


**it took a bad exp to realise that there is much more to life...

it often takes a bad exp to realise all that..ur right. My dad's death left me with a big scar...scar for life...I realised how much he was needed in my life...and one of my friends committed suicide...then I realised how imp it is to keep in touch with ppl, which I didnt with him towards his last days...





~~Praveen

heyy Praveen how was ur exams? Heyyy no need to apologise for not being here...goshhhh! :)


**hmm....its nice to know if you are in that position,ain't it??

I sure hope someone wud think like that abt me...lol!


**by the way, i love the doggy with the pom poms

me too...cheerleader Tesssa lol!




~~Art

Thanks :)




~~Sujit

heyyy Sujit hows ya?

**that may not lead to nowhere also.

true :) but a balance of planning is what I suggest...


**but sometimes I cannot smile at people who are insane and selfish and feel great about themselves..

They r the ones Im talking abt in this post :)

Thanks mate!




~~Manish

heyy Manish WC!


**all that is requires is cordination between heart n mind...

it sure does...


**as without smile life is dull n without perfection life is haywire...

Couldnt have said it any better! That's why we need a healthy balance of the 2...

Thanks!


Keshi.

Sujit said...

just getting adjusted to new place.. and already work has started.. still taking time off.. to explore with kitchen and library..!!! not explored with people :).. since indians in this unversity are very very lesss!! :)

saby said...

, HELPPPPPPP !,

i been cloned
i am not here

i am on hiatus
dis aint me either

check my blogg id

Keshi said...

~~Sittingnut

I dun think we can stop judging others...it's human nature :)

Hope u have a great day ahead!





~~Saby

I think Ash Wed has gotten to ya..lol!




~~Sujit

hey good luck with the Kitchen experiments...lol dun burn the house down :)



Keshi.

southpaw said...

KISS = passionate liplocks in the woods lol! mmmm mmm mmm :)***Phew finally the spooky noises r gone, the creepy crawlies r busy with their own things, the mosquitoes r also not bothering much and the only sound in the woods is mmm mmm mmm...lol

coolvir said...

Ya its sad and a bit strange too that some people spend most of their life trying to make their life better....and in the end realize what they have lost...

Hope people smiles more often at each other...

btw...nice pics..specially second one...LOL...

Keshi said...

lol South I guess the creepy crawlies will be scared of all that slip slppp slurrrp mmm mmm mmm now!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Coolvir

how r ya mate?


**that some people spend most of their life trying to make their life better....and in the end realize what they have lost...

Well-said!


**specially second one

thats' Bin Laden in action - taking life so serious! lol!


Keshi.

southpaw said...

Absolutely...:)

uttara said...

slip slop slurrrrrrrpppppppp mmmmmm mmmmmmm mmmmmmmmm

gosh ... wer am i ...loll wait lemme pat ur bks n say am here .... lolll else i will blow a bomb there ... hahahah

lollllzzzzzzzzz
uttara

Dawn....सेहर said...

Dear...am fine...the thought still makes me scare :)
Abt, ur comment 4 manish - abt Aamir...:) believe me he is near about perfection...in almost everything he does...and I am saying this coz I know him very well :)....he is great at it in everything dear ;)
So its true...some ppl get the opportunity to be the way they want to be...and some have to mold themselves for others...just coz ball is someone else's court ;)

Abt education - well I think education brings awareness..and broadens the mind too....so it does help in changing attitude and behaviour...
take care..
cheers & hugggzzzz

4u2nvau/Rohit said...

WOW that was long :p

Keshi said...

~~Southpaw

:)




~~Uttara

heyy jealous mermaid hows ur day going? lolllz!

I meant u n South in the woods duhhhh! :):)




~~Dawn

goshh I gotta meet Aamir then :) How's his marriage, love life etc?


**well I think education brings awareness..and broadens the mind too....so it does help in changing attitude and behaviour...

yes u r right...it helps indeed...but sometimes even education cant change certain rough attitudes :)




~~NV

very funny mate..lol! Hows ya...I miss u duhhh!


Keshi.

Jewel Rays said...

Thats great stuff.Something we need to hear at times. Thanks for that Keshi

But what I'm trying to make you see is that by giving too much importance to yourself, you are going to be quite disappointed some day...not 'cos you gave so much importance to yourself, but because by concentrating on doing that, you probably missed out on the fun.

So true..rahter see yourself less..:) it always pays much more and worth the character build though hurts much at times.

Keshi said...

~~Jewel_Rays

**rahter see yourself less

Spot on! It sure hurts but it's worth it, thanks girl!


Keshi.

uttara said...

na na .. its not me ..:p u n southy ... cos he is going with u to the woods ...loll ahem ahem


uttssyyyyy

Keshi said...

~~Uttara

yes I rem that he's going to the woods with me...I aint suffering from Dementia btw..lol...but rem u wanted to muck up his appoitments so guess u will end up going with him...not anyone else lolllz!

I wanna kiss kiss kiss when the sun goes down..o o o o...

:)

Keshi.

uttara said...

keshi....

na being a sweetheart i wont do that ..lol i will leave him for u;;)...loll

***I wanna kiss kiss kiss when the sun goes down..o o o o...

till the sun goes up n ......ROTFL .. i think u guessed wat i wanted to say...loll


southy did u hear this ??????


hahahaha

Keshi said...

~~Uttara

**till the sun goes up

lol wuts this? Is this any sort of 'rising' ur talking abt...

Keshi.

Varkey said...

it is nice to hear people say
'Live today as if there is no tomorrow' but then either that person has plans to get killed tat night or he must be really loded LOL

I would LOVE to live life as if there is no tomorrow .... but then as long as u live there is always a tomorrow that u have to be prepared for ...

Live and let live .... live you life as u like it... but make sure in doing so u aint stopping someone else from living their life ... now tat is something everyone can and SHOULD do.

VirginUpdates said...

i loved fluffy.
by the way, great expression.:)

Keshi said...

~~Varkey

heyy thanks mate...ur right...just how many of us can really do it? :)


**live you life as u like it... but make sure in doing so u aint stopping someone else from living their life

thats so true...some ppl r born to control other ppl's lives thereby destroying their individuality...thats the worst of all sins I guess...

Thanks mate!






~~VirginUpdates

Hey VirginUpdates WC to my world!

and thanks :)




Keshi.

Sameera said...

A wonderful message to all the snobs out there.Good one :)