Thursday, August 10

The EX Factor

What do you really think about your ex-bf/gf(s)? Do you miss them when you think back or do you simply mutter 'f##k you swt hrt'. Well I don't think the same about all of them but I sometimes have thoughts like 'who the f##k cares what you do anymore', 'hope you're in pure bliss with Miss.Small Boobs', 'whoever is gonna end up with you would carry the surname Bimbo', 'What? Im even thinking about you? Time for a cranium-refill', 'Im glad we broke up or else I wouldnt even have a blog', 'Your new GF is beautiful, perhaps only in the land of no women?', 'wow your GF is lucky to have less to play with'. LOL ok some of them I just made up for this post, I admit, but the rest I really mumble when I think about this particular ex-bf. Others were really sweet and I don't think anything bad about them. But na I don't wish any harm upon this particular ex either - just that what he was could be easily nominated for the Jerk Of The Millenium Award, that's all. hmmm lets call him Dick Cranium. Whatever happened happened for the best and I'm so glad I'm not with Dick anymore cos if I was, I would not have met any of you - I could even be experiencing rebirth somewhere else...he was that possessive.

Apart from feeling like a loser and needing anti-stupidity pills (btw these pills exist now) for dating some of these EXs, do you feel jealous if/when you see an ex with a new partner? I have seen Dick with his new partner. Well I never felt jealous 1.cos he's not worth it and 2.cos she's not Salma Hayek either. LOL ok I'm acting like a real teenager now and I know I shouldnt. The truth is Dick likes alot of attention and he only likes things going his way. He's so self-righteous and as long as he gets what he wants, he doesnt care what happens to others. Well I wouldnt say he's all mean and no good at all. Yes Dick has a good side too. He's cute. duhhhh so! Yeah that's what I mean when I say looks is not everything. You have to bite the apple to know whether it's sweet or not (I know most apples are sweet and that was a poor example - stop staring at me like that now). Anyways, I wish Dick and his girlfriend (lets call her Rhonda) well.

Have you had a fatal attraction ever? lol I know Southy did. I haven't so far but I have a friend who's ex haunts him to date - lets call my friend Michael and his ex Glen. Glen can't get over him even though he's told her many times before to consider him dead. She regularly calls him up, txts him, emails him and even sends him letters saying she can't forget him and that she might die soon if he rejects her totally (actually it's Michael who walks around like a dead body these days). I haven't met Glen but from what I have seen, she looks vampish and a little bit like Mrs.Dracula on an all-expenses-paid holiday. She has long black hair and red lips like she sucked on some blood before taking the photo. I always tease Michael saying that she's gonna cook his dog in a big broth someday and leave it in his apartment stove (have you seen the movie Fatal Attraction?). Well there's something to learn from that...don't date for the sake of it and also choose carefully who you go out with. btw Michael is in the process of changing countries.


I must say my first boyfriend was so innocent and so sweet.
Let's call him Brandon. He didn't even know how to kiss but I really liked him. Why, cos even I didn't know how to kiss back then hehehe. I remember that he always waited for me to come back from school and steal a few moments to chat with me in some hidden place. I was so afraid that someone might find out and tell my dad. I was only 14 for goddsakes and he was 16. Anyways we chatted but I don't think we really said anything to each other - we just stared at each other the whole time, lol! I wonder where Brandon is these days...wherever he is I hope he's happily settled and doing well. I miss that guy.

So do you remember those good(or fatal) old days? Tell me about your EXs...love em for life or loathe em to the grave?

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southpaw said...

Ahem ahem...sensitive topic again...:)
Well i share decent relationship with all my ex-gfs except ONE, she is truely exceptional, we'll go there later, let me first praise all my other exs...:) so like i said they hv all been really good when we were on and they r still good when we r just friends, they call up on festivals and bday to wish, they visit with their hubbies, most of them hv got married and i do the same coz i m not a jerk who wud not know how to reciprocate to a decent behaviour. Infact some 15 day back one of my ex-gf who's now married came to ahmedabad with her hubby for some family function came to my house for dinner, though i was a bit shocked when her husband told me that he knew abt our relationship,but then thats how it shud be i was her past and after the formal break-up we were just friends then...

And as far as the exceptional one is concerned, keshi u already know abt her, she spends most of her money to harass me with all possible ways, she knows the funda, MONEY CAN DO ANYTHING very well, though right now she has given me a 2 months break from her torture...lol, may God bless her and give some brains in this 2 months.

La vida Loca said...

my exs for the better part are really nice..we share a decent freindship even today.. :)

Sunita said...

And what wud u term my ex-bfs who never came back after they saw the bigman's fury???

Parag said...

How can one forget the past relationships.. Even the one-sided ones.. the girl/boy you secretly admired but never had the courage to approach.
But life goes on.. I am a believer that companionship breeds love. You always have a soft corner for people you are close to.. At School, at work.. in sport .. and ofcourse your spouse..
All human beings need relationships to grow (not in negative way) apart from just your spouses.. You need attention while at work.. School etc.. Even while you write blogs..!!
I value all the people who have helped me "grow" in life..
How can I ever forget them..

deepsat said...

i dont really think of the past and ruin the present. but certainly i never think about them becoz my present is beautiful! if i do cross path with them i would be friendly! thats all!!

i can never think of getting back with them ever!!

;-))

SamY said...

not my department :)

** I must say my first boyfriend was so innocent and so sweet. Let's call him Brandon. He didn't even know how to kiss but I really liked him. Why, cos even I didn't know how to kiss back then hehehe.

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww that was absolutely cute of u guyz ... he he ... really had some hearty laughs imagining it ;))

saby said...

the girl i really adored was Janice
and she is gone and waiting for me

we made a pact
if i go first
i reserve the seat next to me for her

and she said who nos grandpa
i may go first

and she went

samuru999 said...

I guess I would just have to say I
would wish they are all very happy, in love, and living fullfilling lives!
I very seldom think of past loves...but, I guees there is one I will never forget!
He used to call me 'my lady'
I did love him with a passion
deeper than the deepest ocean!
Take care sweet Keshi!
HUGGGGGGGZ!
-Margie

SamY said...

luks like ur stuck with the luv thingy big time

really dun see gud reason to loose ur bolts over ur ex, as u rightly put he ain't worth ur troubled mind.

if he turned to be a jerk then u shud be ignoring him when I c u giving attention to it

** Your new GF is beautiful, perhaps only in the land of no women?

** Yeah that's what I mean when I say looks is not everything

Statements are contrast :) what do I say. Wondering if therz J behind ur disclaimer.

visithra said...

Dwell shall not in exes when though is looking for a present ;)

but its hard isnt it

all i can say is i dont hate my ex - but i could never in a million years be friends withhim - though he tries -

Kumar Chetan said...

X-GF
I never had any GF who can be X. Ys I do have a virtual GF but Virtual GFs always come with this X Factor.
I am waiting for some GRL to become my X.

Keshi said...

~~Southpaw

lol I know SOuth that u have dated 1 Miss.Dracula a while back and paying for that so terribly right now. Whatever got u attracted to that girl in the first place? Cos she sure sounds like a nightmare.

Ofocurse u have to be good friends with ur other Exs cos those girls r nice, normal and dignified ladies. And I know ur a gentleman too.

:)








~~La_Vida_Loca

hey WC LaVidaLoca!

And thats great u r good friends with ur Exs. Way to be :)







~~Sunita

lol poor Exs...did they just vanish into thin air?








~~Parag

hey u raised a very imp point...good/bad all these ppl have taught us something in life. Thats so true. If not for them we wont be what we r today. Wonderful thinking.

And all my swearing etc r for fun - I hope u know that ;-)







~~Deepsat

**i dont really think of the past and ruin the present.

so u neveer think of em? :)

Anyways thats great u can befriends with em. Im the same..Im too kind to my Exs. Recently I met with one after many years and I was sooo friendly to him and he was too. It's all good :)








~~Samy

heyy Samy u havent had a single GF yet? awww...not even a crush? Im sure u have heaps of crushes?


**really dun see gud reason to loose ur bolts over ur ex, as u rightly put he ain't worth ur troubled mind.

hmmm looks like u took me very seriously with my witty comments :):)


**if he turned to be a jerk then u shud be ignoring him when I c u giving attention to it

I sure do ignore him. And na Im not bitter abt him. Just that I feel sorry for Dick. Thats all :) If Im bitter abt him I should be his fatal attraction na? lol!


**Statements are contrast :) what do I say. Wondering if therz J behind ur disclaimer.

Ok ur not being fair now..cos that was a witty statement just for kicks...no truth it it ok? :)

Im sorry if I sounded like a jealous b#tch..but Im soo not. Trust me when I say that. I have moved on from Dick long long time ago hehehehe. And Im so happy Im not with him.







~~Saby

And u had to remind me abt Jan....







~~Samuru999

Margieeeeee!

Yep I wish em all well too.


**I did love him with a passion
deeper than the deepest ocean!

aww I can imagine how lucky that guy was. Knowing u Margie, he lost big time.








~~Visithra

**but its hard isnt it

yep thats right...it's really easy to say that we dun think abt em, but we do. Cos somehow they have left some impression in us.

haha ur Ex tries to be ur friend? awww poor guy let him be friends na?


Keshi.

Ghost Particle said...

grease was a great movie...and olivia newton was my EX...arggh...those were the days...

Why do we need an EX post now!...its weird you humans...you need affection and then the next moment you hate each other...reminds me of my particle friends...u cant get too close, coz same charge particle's repell each other...get it!

Hence...why the Ghost is still single...:p

AnonymousBlogger said...

don't date for the sake of it and also choose carefully who you go out with.
Wise words.

I think feeling ill feelings and jealousy is normal, maybe even inevitable.

Jewel Rays said...

Great post!

don't date for the sake of it and also choose carefully who you go out with

Something that has been on my mind for a while. MY friends think i am crazy about liking a guy but not wanting to have anything more to do with him. yeah they tried scheming something up since they said its obvious there was something between us. and i destoryed their plans by finding out ..HAHA!! and than we had this talk.. and i told them ...what i think. and they just couldn't get why i am so particular about who i date...?? well i am 16 to just go on joy rides anymore..oh well...whateva..Haha..maybe its jsut something i dun want to spend too much time think.. will speak when mind gets sorted out in the organisation brain chart..haha..

take care sweets..

*hugs

Kautilya said...

Well.. No GFs in my life till last months... But now.. things are new.. and different and lovely.. after she happened...

Just a thought...
About EX'es... u spent some gr8 time..with em... and that moment in time.. surely might made u feel one with the universe... for that moment... which is irrelevent now...

well... If I did have any EX'es.. when I think back of em.. just ... wish that..dey have a gr8 life...

tulipspeaks said...

adeda..

'hope you're in pure bliss with Miss.Small Boobs',

best wishes to him eh? hahahaha..


hmm.. i love my ex. u know i do. too bad it didnt work out like i wanted. sometimes, i do miss times we spend together. but at times, its all about the pain i suffered.


hugss

=ammu=

southpaw said...

Whatever got u attracted to that girl in the first place? Cos she sure sounds like a nightmare.***what got me close to her, u all hv already read that in sunita's blog and if tht deserves a punishment like this, then just bring it....:)

@Sunita
u r still cribbing for those no good loosers????

saby said...

Memories .....


but think of the good times not bad
think of the happy not sad


i am happy for Janice
i no Janice is happy up there

though i miss her soo
and u miss her too

but life must go on
i have no regrets

i fooled her as Julia
but i confessed

THANK GOD
and she forgave me

if u love somebody
tell him/ her today

tomorrow may be too late
yes, tell me u love me

saby said...

but for heaven's sake
dont tie a rakhi on my rist

or call me grandpa
as Janice did

i hate u Janice

uttara said...

ahem ahem .. good 1 babes..:p

i neva had a bitter exp witjh my ex... we still frnds...:)

sometime he does hate me to haund him like Mrs. Dracula.. lol
na no i neva did just kidding

hey south .. congrats for 2 months :p may it give u some peace from her..:p

neihal said...

the whole issue of ex's is so complicated...I know of a freind who broke up, then got into a relationship with good-for-nothing sort...we called her serial dater.

SamY said...

** heyy Samy u havent had a single GF yet? awww...not even a crush? Im sure u have heaps of crushes?

none yet :) ... should I say thankfully :-? ... crush, yes I'v had, but I never found a girl worth my time n effort as yet :D

** hmmm looks like u took me very seriously with my witty comments :):)

no just pulling ur legs :)

** Ok ur not being fair now..cos that was a witty statement just for kicks...no truth it it ok? :)

yeah yeah ... n that was a statement I made to make a conv, okie :)

think chiquitita (did I get it right for once :-?) is reaaaaaaaaaly in need for a luv'r :x ... big time :D ... who'd ... oops ... I dare not say it ;)) he he ... shez way too hawt for guyz to handle :p

Keshi said...

~~Kumar_Chetan

** am waiting for some GRL to become my X.

lol so ur soooo sweet that none of the girls wanna be ur X? awwww I can imagine that :)







~~Ghost_Particle

heyy Ghosty even I like Olivia Newton John..great Aussie babe. Even now she looks hot.


**you need affection and then the next moment you hate each other

lol na I dun mean I hate em..aww I was only joking with thos lines :(

na u wont be single for too long...trust me, I just know ;-)








~~AnonymousBlogger

**I think feeling ill feelings and jealousy is normal, maybe even inevitable.

Atleast someone's being realistic and honest...tnxxx AB :)








~~Jewel_Rays

**Great post

thanks for saying that Amy cos from the comments I got so far, I felt like I was like some mean b#tch wanting to get at my EX lol!


**well i am 16 to just go on joy rides anymore

so true..I mean it's not a time to play games. And u have to be careful who u go out with.


**maybe its jsut something i dun want to spend too much time think

true :) n huggggggggggggz!









~~Kautilya

**u spent some gr8 time..with em... and that moment in time.. surely might made u feel one with the universe... for that moment... which is irrelevent now...

thats so true.


** when I think back of em.. just ... wish that..dey have a gr8 life...

ofcourse! tnxxxx :)








~~Amutha

Amuu mah pretty tulip mwahhhhhh!

**best wishes to him eh? hahahaha..

yes and best wishes to her with whatever that is 'small' ard him..lol!


**hmm.. i love my ex. u know i do.

u still do?


**too bad it didnt work out like i wanted. sometimes, i do miss times we spend together. but at times, its all about the pain i suffered.

yes ur right...sometimes I miss my Ex too...we did have some good times altho he was a jerk in the end. but sometimes I really do miss his presence in my life..his words of advice and funny jokes etc. Anyways whats not meant to be wont be. We have to move on Amu. ok??








~~Southpaw

**if tht deserves a punishment like this, then just bring it.

lol I know u dun deserve that. Yes I rem that story. wow so it was her? OMG!







~~Saby

u fooled Jan with ur Julia ID na. I know that. God I wonder where Jan is....!







~~Uttara

Uttsyyyyyyyyyy mwahhhhhhhhh babez!

**sometime he does hate me to haund him like Mrs. Dracula

lol I can imagine that. hahahahaha! I rem seeing a man chased by a sexy vampirish woman down the streets of Bombay...oooooooooo!







~~Neihal

**we called her serial dater.

lol did she date the same guy?



Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Samy

Im glad u didnt take me serious :):)

** shez way too hawt for guyz to handle

lol u mean ur in luuurve with a woman who's too hot to be handled?


Keshi.

Jewel Rays said...

oOPS I typed wrongly. i meant i am not 16 to go on joyrides nemore...

well..its just i just wanna have fun. like be friends...have fun ge to know a person instead of just going on a few days and than there u go will u be ma gf..hmm..that kinda freaks me out..well i neva know ...haiz..

Keshi said...

~~Jewel_Rays

Amy Im soooo like u in that aspect. With that HUNT thing...well I have abandoned it now. lol dun ask me why.

Keshi.

uttara said...

heheh na i dint haund him...

loll

Keshi said...

ofcourse I know u didnt Uttsy...cos u wudnt have to. U wud have guys hounding u tho ;-)

Keshi.

uttara said...

hehhe .. ya i used to have guys hounding me.. lol..

poor they ..lolzzzz

Keshi said...

And I might be a girl hounding u lol!

Keshi.

uttara said...

uff keshii.. u dont..lol

n hey am all boreddddddddd 2de .. waiting for tomorrow ..:d
yepieeeeeeeeeeeee its gonna be soo much of funnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Keshi said...

omg ur leaving to Goa tomorrow na? btw with who r u going?

Keshi.

the_new_cloud said...

Oh..

Its a pain if the relationship ends up in a bad shape. And the sad part is that it ends up sobby sometimes.
I havent had good experiences with this ex thing...
I was released on PAROLE...:-P

uttara said...

keshi i wont be online till next wednesday.. awwwwwwwwwwwwwww


am going with my office ppl...
abt 19 of us r going...

Keshi said...

~~Uttara

thats GREAT - will be good fun na? WOW I wish I was there. Always wanted to go to Goa. Bring me something bakk from Goa..perhaps a nice hunk ;-)







~~The_New_Cloud

heyyy WC Cloud n tnxxx!

tell me abt it..all my EX except one is alive right now..lol Im just kidding.

**I was released on PAROLE

ur kidding me right? lol!



Keshi.

uttara said...

sure sure..
i will get one for u n me ..lol

i cant wait for tomorrow..lol

Keshi said...

I guess u wont get me a nice one..cos u'll prolly steal him first like a real stealer...lol!

Keshi.

Contented said...

Oopss Not my Research area of interest...:)

Its true that I have had lot of crushes when I am younger in school and college. I never talked to them, so they are strangers to me. I never got to see them again though to know how I feel.

But anyways I am not a good person to talk about the concept of Love. If it mean to happen it will- simple concept. I dont think it will happen again and again. So I am out of Ex-s concept...:D

southpaw said...

@Keshi
Alright so now u know who i was talking abt...:) but i dont hate her even after all this coz at one point of time i poured my heart out on her, so she is still a special one, thats why an exceptional one....:)

@Uttara and Keshi
We already hv Sebastian out here lol ...why do u both need another goan hunk?

tt said...

tt just died. Brandon's here babez. Let's stare. Non-verbal communication rocks.

saby said...

I wish Sophie and UTTARA and Karen and Michele wud post their pics too







sighhh
dreams are made of dis

saby said...

Oh Lord NOOO
Ori dont poste your pic pleeeeez

saby said...

Heyyyy Keshi

did u say u r re-locating to PORTUGAL??

i wish i cud move there too
these guys gave us siests and suzzegadd and football

THANK GOD
i detest cricket

Dalicia said...

my first boyfriend....hot body, models, top student in school, athlete,experienced in love :) made my first experience a very memorable one. i do think about him all the time. too bad we weren't able to be in touch.

last boyfriend, i was very disappointed in him. he's not a bad guy. just that he wasn't into the relationship.

Parag said...

Hey keshi --> don't worry about the swearing.. I head the trading desk of a large multinational stock broking / investment banking firm.. and "good vocabulary" is not my strong point as you can immagine in the stressful job..

Parag said...

Did someone mention Goa ?
That's where I was born
Originally from Goa.. I love the place.. Own an ancestral home there.. Old cottage.. but usually stay in a hotel..Go there atleast twice a year .. Its a 11 hour drive from Mumbai (Bombay)

Eclipsed Thoughts said...

hmmm...
In high-school, i almost fell in love with this guy "almost"... but then when we really started going ard, i couldn't move ahead. It was getting difficult. I had to search for stories to actually "get-off the relationship". I dont know what went wrong, he was not at fault, but i couldnot commit myself.
I guess i am too fickle minded. Very scared of serious relationships... hehe!
That was my only "ex"... only one... hehe!! i dont miss him, i dont think of him... funny, maybe it never was so important. NEVER BEEN HURT, BUT NEVER BEEN HAPPY EITHER... i guess this explains for my unstable attitude!!

Eclipsed Thoughts said...

I think your first guy was really cute!! Imagining you guys just staring at each other.... lol....
By the way, your uncle/cousins/dad's frens never caught you??... ;)

Dh@v@! said...

y the hell shall i worry abt my ex....

neway... nice post buddy...
;)

Sudeep said...

it is hard to forget the first luv.. the rest depends on how gud or bad the person was

lol @ the name Dick Cranium

Fatal Attrn was a gud movie.. i wonder wht torture tht guy would be going thro if tht happens in real life.. lol

little bit like Mrs.Dracula on an all-expenses-paid holiday. She has long black hair and red lips like she sucked on some blood
ROFL!!

Paavani said...

What an interesting post.
From past few days I’m just thinking about this guy and all
and your post made me to rethink. As what all I thought was She is so good (my assumption), he would be happy (again assumption) and I’m also happy (self-confusion).

You wrote something very sensitive and difficult to understand. What went wrong, why whatever happens happen for good. Then why feels bad.
-Paavani
www.paavani.in

Ekta said...

I am daily in touch with my ex boyfriend...coz I am married to him:-)

My one an only boyfriend and I married hi..damn! what a waste of life!

Has to be me said...

Hey good post gal...looks like u r really caught on by the love bug! ;)

Anycase once they r X's so why bother having good or bitter feelings for them? They've become x cos u've let gone of them...so it is the past & no use still living in the past!

So gal the bottom line is to concentrate on ur current (i,e prospective) bf's!! ;)))

SamY said...

** lol u mean ur in luuurve with a woman who's too hot to be handled?

no I meant U r too hot 4 guyz to handle ;)) ... ur r the chiquitita

naah I dun hav any gf n I ain't in lurv or anything... as yet ... as I said "never found of girl worthy of my time & effort"

n am happily njoi'n the freedom of bachelorhood ... for now ;)

Cari said...

In my opinion...

I think they are ex;s for a reason...

I don't call em

I may think about em a little

now and then

but I know that things happen for a reason

I had my 1st "love" try to get back with me for over 11 years...YES!!

He had 2 kids a wife...and he still tried...

he hired a PI and still tried...

and I finally told him that he really needed to move on...because I already did.

AND I was happy.

It's crazy but I get over things like that pretty fast. Now with my husband...that's a diff story..

even when we fight I get all emotional...and fearful of seperating..I don't ever want that to happen...

I guess I can truly say that I am in no doubt head over heels...in love....I love him for so many reasons...none are shallow or material...it's him. He's always been there for me. I can trust him 100%...

Those are what matter to me. :}

Nelly said...

I really dont. Its been so long since I actually had just a girlfriend that I actually would like to see what some of my formers are up to. I really cant think of anything bad to say about any of them but im sure they can think of plenty to say about me..... I actually partied last weekend with a couple that had been divorced for quite a while but still hang out as friends. I thought that was pretty cool that they were able to at least reconsile to be friends..

Nelly said...

Oh, and Wowzaa back at you ;)

s0ulasylum said...

hey keshi!

nice post gal!.. ex's.. hmm.. the one instantaneous reaction from me is *ouch*.. :)
u dealt with the sweet.. the mean.. the arrogant.. the dick headed.. the cranium needing bf.. u havnt mentioned the PSYCHO bf.. the one who gets overpossesive if you as much as look at your fone more than twice a minute.. or trail u down to ur frnds house and then give u flowers so u wont yell.. (which i dont think is sweet by the way!) .. where's the barge pole??.. lemme make some distance between the PSYCHO and me!!!! haaaaaalllppp! lol!
and what about the boyfriend who is a social idiot.. and all ur frnds hate!! *SHUDDER*.. hehehe
well not all tht bad .. im overcome by this urge to exaggerate..as ALWAYS! :)

christabelle said...

why ex, thats in the past and there it belongs, me I like talking about today and the future which by the way looks to me like its going to be real bright, I wish the same for u Keshi.

Do take care girl.

Nitika said...

lol...that was quite fun reading...

well i don't have any xyz..present..future...opps can't say abt future...lol...
if i had any as an x i would always day dream of slapping him 7 times without any pause coz i hate breakup thingy.....*grin*..

but on a serious note, i guess what we think for our ex depends on the situation how we ended the relation

hugzzz

Het Waghela said...

Hi Kesh,

Thats Ex Factor post after your previous AXE Factor :)!

".cos she's not Salma Hayek either"
Yeaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh! My Salma is on Keshi's post ^_~
Well he can't have Salma... now c'mon she can't be at 2 place at the same time,,,, she is with me always :).

Well now about the post. Well I did had ex but I never had a bad thought about any. Thing with me was whenever I was in love with any female, I never had seen her physically, or never thought of expressing my love for her by kissing or touch or something like that, (I don't consider expressing that way as bad). But I used to do something new all the time and surprising. Maybe at that time I never realised i was cultivating such feelings inside me.
She made me realized that it was love but I never realized it. When I realised it was too late, but am happy that she is very very happy.

I think my thoughts are totally going in different direction.

Perplexio said...

I only have 1 ex where things ended particularly badly and I truly hope I never hear from her ever again. I wish her no ill will, she was just a vaccuum in my life (she sucked all the fun and enjoyment out of it) when we were dating. So I wish her the best... as long as she keeps her distance.

I still get along with my other exes-- heck over on my space, 3 of my ex-girlfriends are listed as my friends. We still get on okay. Our lives just took us in seperate directions and/or we drifted apart.

I tend to believe each of them was the right person for me at the particular point in my life when we were a couple. None of those relationships were meant to last. I look back on my time with those girls fondly because we did have some good times. It doesn't mean I want to get back together with them or anything... It just means I prefer to focus on the good times we had together rather than on the bad.

In hindsight, prior to meeting my wife I went from a really bad relationship to a really good one. And because I'd just come out of a really bad relationship... the entire time I was in the good relationship I was waiting for the sky to fall (so to speak). I felt it was too good to be true and it wouldn't last. I was right, but that's beside the point. I think that constant expectation that it would end made its end a self-fulfilling prophecy. We had it all, for just a moment. Then the moment ended and we went our seperate ways.

Orikinla Osinachi. said...

Well.
I have been thoroughly schooled in the facts of life. I am not an emotional person and even when I cry or sob, there must be a very good reason and not for petty sentiments.

I can switch on and switch off and continue with my romantic life.

I don't miss any ex-girlfriend and they were only three real ones and we parted in peace. And I don't live in the past.

Sweet Keshi, I envy any guy who has had the honour of your love. And if you were lovers, the guy should even be grateful for such a privilege and if any guy never realized your awesome worth, what a tragedy.

Don't sulk over your ex-guy, because if he did not value you enough to do all his possible best to keep you, then he does not deserve you.

Don't waste your precious time and priceless love on those who don't see beyong their nose and think their skills are in their loins.

Read how the greatest Philosopher King and lover Solomon adored his love in the Song of Songs and that woman after King Solomon's heart is whom you are Keshi and any man who does not believe and prove his love to you heart and soul, should not even be in your reckoning.

The same words to me too.

God bless.

Orikinla Osinachi. said...

Well.
I have been thoroughly schooled in the facts of life. I am not an emotional person and even when I cry or sob, there must be a very good reason and not for petty sentiments.

I can switch on and switch off and continue with my romantic life.

I don't miss any ex-girlfriend and they were only three real ones and we parted in peace. And I don't live in the past.

Sweet Keshi, I envy any guy who has had the honour of your love. And if you were lovers, the guy should even be grateful for such a privilege and if any guy never realized your awesome worth, what a tragedy.

Don't sulk over your ex-guy, because if he did not value you enough to do all his possible best to keep you, then he does not deserve you.

Don't waste your precious time and priceless love on those who don't see beyong their nose and think their skills are in their loins.

Read how the greatest Philosopher King and lover Solomon adored his love in the Song of Songs and that woman after King Solomon's heart is whom you are Keshi and any man who does not believe and prove his love to you heart and soul, should not even be in your reckoning.

The same words to me too.

God bless.

SCRIBBLEZ TO WAKEUP said...

Well...Your funny...The thought sor the thoughts u made up for the post r funny....I really have no hard case to say but I wont talk or think bad or mean about either of them as I too moved on right n anyone can move on.....:)

Within Without said...

Hey Keshi...

A post like this brings up a lot of feelings, for sure.

The only woman I've ever had truly bad feelings about after a breakup is my ex-wife.

But that's because of so many other things that are involved and what the institution of marriage is supposed to be: "forever."

There are kids involved, and a lot of money, and disappointment, anger, regrets, etc.

So that's a different kettle of fish.

In terms of all my other relationships, they're all different, of course, and a lot of this depends on who's the dumped and who's the dumpee.

I have hurt many, but I have also been hurt -- same as everyone else.

I remember my first truly serious relationship when I was 17 or so...she went on a trip to France with a bunch of my friends and I couldn't go because I was working.

She came back on someone else's arm at the airport, a buddy of my brother's. Now THAT hurt.

Fast-forward to these past few years, still reeling a bit following divorce, trying to re-connect with someone.

I dated several women and had relationships of different durations and intensity.

I ended up getting together with a woman at work, a tall, never-married, very complicated lady with a past. Long black hair, beautiful face, I wanted her more than anything.

We were together, although in a very off and on way, for two years. I even moved in with her.

Then, kaboom! It was over and despite all the struggles, it wasn't me who ended it.

That hurt more than the divorce, more than anything.

But here I am now, two years later, pretty much past that and have met someone new -- much less complicated, knows what she wants, is very available to me, wants to be with me.

I still see the raven-haired one at work, we can talk politely and smile at each other, but I can't be close with her again as a friend. Some things you just can't let go of, you have to recognize that you feel what you feel.

It would probably sting to see her with someone else, so I'm still working on that a bit. There's some residual sadness. But it's fading.

There is no hate or death wish or anything like that for any woman. I have bitterness for my ex-wife, that's it.

It's the ebb and flow of love, the good times, the bad times, the joy and ecstasy, the hell.

You know...

Yashita said...

well...there are the jerks u can forget and then the one you cannot...memories, sigh!...but hey! then there are the ones waiting to be discovered!:)hhehehe

musings (m000nie) said...

oh k00kie u want all our secrets out... lol

i think when u have had a relationship with someone n later when ur not together u shud cherish it.. whatever u have had...

Nikita said...

Keshi,

So much of our lives are intertwined to relationships with others that when one of the deepest, most important relationship we can experience is broken, life does not seem to make sense anymore. The realization that the dreams we had planned to share with our partner will never occur can be devastating. Often times people try to downplay their negative feelings and grief over the loss of a relationship. Each person is different and will go through the grieving process in their own way experiencing their own set of emotions at their own pace.

southpaw said...

Like the oldman said, before its late, let me tell all my gfs that i loved them then, i respect them now and forever and thank them for all the good moments i had with them....btw here's my list:-

1. Neha Sharma
2. Neelam Mehra
3. Chitra Chhabaria
4. Poonam Verma
5. Bhavna Verma
6. Shirley Kingsley
7. Anamika Patel
8. Elizabeth Pacheco
9. Amy Dsouza.
10.Roma Khanna.
11.Uma Patel
12. Rajni Sharma
13. Neelam Kaul.
14. Geetanjali Verma
15. Shital Chauhan
16. Ritu Agarwal
17. Rita Carpenter
18. Kulraaj Kaul
19. Anjali Sharma
20. Jaquiline Diaz
21. Beena Chawla
22. Shaina Pillai
23. Edna Gomes.
24. Pallavi Shah
25. Pooja Jaffrey
26. Namrata Patel
27. Dr. Shilpa Saxena
28. Mrs.Geeta Singh
29. Sangeeta Iyer
30. Sumita Shah
31. Raksha Goel
32. Ramona Heimz. (The Israeli connection…:D )
33. Olga Minakov( Yes a Russian, she’s one of my best friend now)
34. Sangita Chowdhary.
35. Shital Chhabaria.
36. Aradhana Verma.
37. Dipti Joshi.
38. Ching shang (Chinese treat, my college-mate)
39. Bena Chadda.
40. Dr.Manisha Verma
41. Davina Bajaj.
42. Nikita Shah.
43. Rashmi Oza.
44. Rasila Chinappa.
45. Sophia Rodrigues.
46. Kuljeet Chawla.
47. Sheena Ratnaike( Used to work as a recieptionist in Taj Samudra, Colombo,trip was boring until she hooked in, it took only 25 mins to hook her up, btw its my personal landmark…:D)
48. Monica Mukherjee.
49. Mitali Jain.
50. Radha Gaur.
51. Seema Saxena.
52. Hema Mirchandani.
53. Mrs.Neha Bakshi.
54. Payal Joshi
55. Rrushali Trivedi.
56. Niharika Jain.
57. Sonali Khachru.
58. Shilpa Thakkar.
59. Shaina Kurup.
60. Juhi Shah.
61. Neeru Khosla.(Toughest nut to crack, took me 3 days of preparation before proposing her…:D )
62. Rekha Chhaya.
63. Lect. Sameena Tasnim (This was a Bangladeshi adventure)
64. Shital Sitwala (The exceptional one… ha ha ha ha)
65. KAVITA SHARMA (HAPPILY MARRIED WITH…:D)
66. Nisha Singh (Don’t get me wrong, only dated her once, nothing physical abt her *winks)

I m in a process of taking permission from them to put their snaps on a slide-show, lets hope they agree to it...:)

KL said...

Can't comment as I have no experience :)

saby said...

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watch it


i suspect she is les like UTTARA

prithz said...

I've had no bf to have an ex... even now i am single... :) or :( i dunt know......

Anyways, i have shared some really wonderful,happy, sad times with some close frnds.. and wehn it breaks... i make my best efforts to go bk.. and get bk the realtionship i share.. but sometimes, it hurts a lot... and i simply cant consoel myself to the fact that that person is no more in my life... takes a lot of time.. for it to sink into my heart...

at such times,i simply think... "if only my tears could speak of my lvoe for u"....

lil _kath said...

lol! cool topic again here Kesh ^_^
... speaking of Ex's, i had only two... and im civil with them everytime we meet in Philippines, we usually go out with the group coz were all classmates na so when im around we do class reunion.
And they're married too now so we just laughed sometimes when we talked about first dates coz we do group dates usually at the park hehe... cute highschool days na ^_^

... ** 'Your new GF is beautiful, perhaps only in the land of no women?', 'wow your GF is lucky to have less to play with'. **

hahaha ^_^ lol! what she looks like?? :P quite scary na ;)

... ** Jerk Of The Millenium Award, that's all. hmmm lets call him Dick Cranium. **

hehe...what a name :P

gudnite sweetie muaahh!

hugss,
-kathy-

neihal said...

no...its just that sometimes she didnt even take a week's break between two relationship...you know how some ppl always have to be in a relationship to feel secure...they end up with too may ex's in the "Jerk " category.

Meg said...

I love it when you run into an old flame (ex) that you haven't seen in years and they happen to be with their current wife/gf and she is fifty pounds heavier than you, or bitchy or snotty and you look at your ex and give them that look as if to say "if could have been me - look what you lost out on". Sometimes, sometimes, it takes years before it happens, but sweet satisfaction can be so worth the wait :)

And remember, the best revenge is to live a successful and happy life!

ari4u said...

whoa... i think i stepped into a rant board. :D No comments on this one. I dont have any ex. I have my only sweety i was going out with for a very long time and we finally got married last year! :)

Take care and dont despair. Past is gone, future isnt here, so enjoy your present before it becomes your past.

-ari

"Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
Anonymous

starry nights said...

Interesting topic as most of your posts are. I htink you have said some wise things here.Never go for just lo0ks.because he is just going to be into himself.I am sure your ex is sad now that you guys are not together and I think he is the loser. I loved just one person I was 14yrs old.I would stand by my gate and wait for him to pass by my house on his bicycle. Thats all I waited for day after day.I never told him that I liked him.he was the brother of my sisters friend. The weird thing is I heard that in 2000 he did in an accident and it made me so sad.I had not seen him after high school but he still made me feel sad. Beware of the fatal attraction ones because they are emotionally sick.

ArChaNa said...

hugggggggggggggggggggz!!! keshi dear!

loooooong time :) how r u??
i missed so many posts
waaaaaaa:((

ahem! interesting post :)
I don't have an ex bf .. but I had a crush :D Recently I came to know that even he had a serious crush on me. But I curse him .. 'coz we were always competetive in school. Even till date, whenever we talk, he always starts off with his college stuff and his grades...blah blah!
argh! I hate him ... lol!!!

Keshi said...

~~Contented

aww but love does happen many times na..even tho all LOVES dont end up in marriage. U know what I mean?

Anyways thats good u dun have the EX factor in ur life to haunt u atleast lol!







~~Southpaw

heyy Sebastan lol!

OMG that list! Whoaaaaaaaaaaaa u rem all the names, just like that? WOW! Let me read it properly and ask some Qns soon ;-)








~~Twisted_Truth

**tt just died. Brandon's here babez.

ROFL!

yep I agree non-verbal comm is soooo beautiful and deep.







~~Saby

if Im ever going to Portugal I'd make sure ur not coming with me.








~~Elaine

hey babez!

**made my first experience a very memorable one.

he must be some macho man ha ;-) lucky u.

Well I rem ur last one...r u still in touch with him?








~~Parag

heyyy Parag hows it going?

** head the trading desk of a large multinational stock broking / investment banking firm

really? WOW! I have something for guys who work as stock brokers..lol dun ask me why. It's just some silly infatuation I guess.
btw r u single? ;-) hehehe Keshi is playing naughty now - just ignore my dumb comments ok?? :)

omg u were born in Goa? WOW! I hear it's soooo darn beautiful. I wanna go there some day and I hope u would rent me ur ancestral home then hehehe. Lucky u. U know most Sinhalese Sri Lankans look like Goans and Punjus.



Keshi.

sittingnut said...

hey mate ! :-)
good morning !

blogger was out again :-(

exs hmmmmm.
i am in good talking terms with all of them.

more regret than hate.don't think they hate me either.
simply not in love with them now. or so i think

hugggggggz!

Keshi said...

~~Eclipsed_Thoughts

heyy pretty woman. That foto was sooooo beautiful - tnxxx for putting it up. U look absolutely pure, serene and angelic.

Ur highschool swt hrt story sounds sooo cute. but I know wut u mean when u say u couldnt go ahead with it. I have felt that way too. I guess bakk then we were naive and scared of pur parents. Besides dun forget we come from Indian/Sri Lankan families and they r so conservative. So we always carry that guilt-fear-whatever factor. Anyways u fell in love...thats what matters. I think they make u sweet memories for a long time to come.

**NEVER BEEN HURT, BUT NEVER BEEN HAPPY EITHER... i guess this explains for my unstable attitude!!

U cant really say u have never been happy...cos when u ALMOST fell in love with that guy, Im sure u wud have experienced some sweet butterflies in ur tummy and some magical heartbeats everytime u saw him...that happiness prolly was short-lived but u still were happy na...awwww hugggggggggggz!

U'll be right when that man who deserves u comes into ur life. Now try telling the same to Keshi lol!

Abt Brandon...well yeah my dad later found out cos he caught me staring out the wondow a couple of times..lol! Then u know wut he did? He went to meet the poor guy and told him to stay away from me or he'll lock him up in jail (cos my dad was a top Police guy bakk then). Brandon got so scared that he didnt meet me after that for a while. I got a good scolding at home too :*(. But it wasnt like I was neglecting my studies or anything - cos I always topped the class. But dad wanted us to stay away from BF business.

My dad was too strict - to an extent that he wud be really upset if we were like 1/2hr later after school or if some guys were loitering in our premises. I guess he was too protective and then one day he suddenly died. I dun think he'd have ever imagined that he'd leave me and my sis all alone in this world, just like that...God I miss him! Brandon wrote a long letter to me after my dad died..he was so sorry and I said to him that it's best we don't meet. Cos at that time I missed my dad so much that I couldnt think of anything else but dad. We moved from that home right after dad died and I never saw Brandon again.








~~Dh@v@

tnxxx :)

yep u dun have to think abt ur EXs...just that we do sometimes anyways lol!



Keshi.

samuru999 said...

Keshi~
I want to tell you about a dream I had last night... that had to be
due to my response to this post!
It was the strangest dream ever!
But, I cannot post it here.
I have my email on my blog!
If you send me yours... I will
tell you about it!
Take care!
HUGGGGGGGGZ!
-Margie

Keshi said...

~~Sudeep

trust me Sudeep fatal Attn kinda things really happen. Michael is facing the preliminary stages of it right now lol!







~~Paavani

heyy tnxx :)

**What went wrong, why whatever happens happen for good. Then why feels bad.

Thats so true. But as humans we do feel bad abt some of those experiences. It really depends on the kind of r'ship one had had. Some could end in peace and some could end in a real bad note. So yeah :)








~~Ekta

**I am daily in touch with my ex boyfriend...coz I am married to him:-)

haha thats a very cute thing to say Ekta sweety.


**My one an only boyfriend and I married hi..damn! what a waste of life!

lol! Na it's not a waste if he's a good catch. Why waste ur energy on many boys when u have one good catch. I think God blessed u with less trouble n heartbreak cos ur a great girl :)







~~Has_To_be_me

heyyy hows u?

**looks like u r really caught on by the love bug! ;)

yup the bug has bitten me and left me with huge red mark on my lips...lol!


**Anycase once they r X's so why bother having good or bitter feelings for them?

ur right..no one should bother abt em and worry urselves. But sometimes it's hard NOT to think abt em isnt it? :)


**They've become x cos u've let gone of them...so it is the past & no use still living in the past!

na no use living in the past ofcourse. But Im sure alot of us still think abt em. There's a difference there :)


**So gal the bottom line is to concentrate on ur current (i,e prospective) bf's!! ;)))

hehehe yes..now let me get my binoculars ;-) tnxxxx girl!








~~Samy

Samyyy!

**no I meant U r too hot 4 guyz to handle ;)) ... ur r the chiquitita

na I aint hot...right now my skin feels frozen :)


**naah I dun hav any gf n I ain't in lurv or anything... as yet ...

aww I thought u were def in love with me - SOBBBBBBBBBBBBZ!


**as I said "never found of girl worthy of my time & effort"

hmmmm...ok...mebbe she's in the future somewhere waiting to make it worthy for ya...


**n am happily njoi'n the freedom of bachelorhood .

and r u sure ur 'happy'? be honest cmon...wudnt u love to have someone to do things with?








~~Cari

**I had my 1st "love" try to get back with me for over 11 years...YES!!

OMG is this for real? Even after he got married? How come?

Anyways ur right...they r EXs for a reason. And Im glad ur married now and abt to give birth to an angel...OMG Cari I cant wait for u to have the baby...good luck and HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!







~~Nelly

Nelly ur a nice man...I can see that from ur posts and well as ur pic. U have a good heart - unlike some blokes who make it hell for their ex-GFs.

**I thought that was pretty cool that they were able to at least reconsile to be friends..

Yes...there r girls like that too. Girl who can really move on and be friends with their EXs. Leaving aside the extreme wit in my posts (and swearing), Im in good terms with all my EXs...whoever who's in touch with me right now. We r great friends and we even go out for drinks together.



Keshi.

Ekta said...

Quite an ouch touchy topic!!
But I am in touch with some of my ex girlfriends and with some others(who chose not to keep in touch) they'r outta my radar...
Guess with those am in touch with its a nice cordial relationship!

Anand said...

I am In touch with some of my ex girlfriends and some (who chose not to be in touch) theyr outta my radar!
With those who I am in touch with I have a nice Cordial relarionship

p.s:- Pls ignore the previous comment-didnt realise wifey had logged in her id already...!

Keshi said...

~~S0ul_Asylum

hey Chikka! lol I had a good laugh reading ur funny comment :):)

**u havnt mentioned the PSYCHO bf.. the one who gets overpossesive

haha I know...but Im lucky I havent had a mega psychotic BF yet except one who was over-possessive...that's Dick. Dick cudnt even stand it if I was talking to some guy friend.


**where's the barge pole??.. lemme make some distance between the PSYCHO and me!!!! haaaaaalllppp! lol!

ROFL!


**and what about the boyfriend who is a social idiot.. and all ur frnds hate!!

hahahaha I never had such a one...omg did u? awww...:):)








~~Christabelle

aww Chris but sometimes its good to think bakk cos those r the ppl who have made u what u r today...all those experiences somehow helped us in being who we r today :)

**the future which by the way looks to me like its going to be real bright, I wish the same for u Keshi

BUT I agree on that - hugggggggz n tnxxxxxxx!







~~Nitika

hugggggz Niti!

**if i had any as an x i would always day dream of slapping him 7 times without any pause coz i hate breakup thingy

lol so sweet! Yep breaking up is something very hard to do...I agree.

and hell yeah it all depends on how the r'ship was and how it ended.







~~Het_Waghela

Hetttt!

lol @AXE factor!

Salma is in ur vicinity ha?cool ;-)

**She made me realized that it was love but I never realized it.

aww but it's good that u got some experience from it all and that it all ended in good terms. Thats what matters na. HUGGGGGGGZ Het!








~~Perplexio

hey mate!

** just means I prefer to focus on the good times we had together rather than on the bad.

Thats a good way to handle things. U r such a sensible guy.


** the entire time I was in the good relationship I was waiting for the sky to fall

I just kno wwut u mean...cos when things go bad and u find love again, it's like u have lost all hope in something good.

But Im glad u found a great gal who is ur wife now and that ur very happy. U deserve it mate.








~~Orikinla_Osinachi

heyyy Ori thats great u parted peacefully with ur EXs. Knowing u, it's expected that handle things well and in a decent manner :)

**that woman after King Solomon's heart is whom you are Keshi

wow what a compliment! :) But really do deserve all this? I dun think so...cos Im just a girl, like any other girl...

tnxxx anways n huggggggggggz!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Scribblez_To_wakeup

**I really have no hard case to say but I wont talk or think bad or mean about either of them as I too moved on right n anyone can move on

thats great! I know..I was only being funny and Im so not serious abt some of those swearing lines lol!







~~Within,Without

heyyy mate I really like all the new profile pics u come up with...interesting stuff!

**The only woman I've ever had truly bad feelings about after a breakup is my ex-wife.

Im so sorry to hear abt that. I hope this post didnt bring u any pain. I really didnt mean it that way. It was more of a fun post. HUGGGGGGGGZ WW!

I can see u have moved on with that anyways...cos u have found new love and someone whom u can be urself with. Thats imp.

And abt the girl in the office...well Im sure she too added spice to ur life and got u where u r today...I mean emotionally. All these things have to happen for us to develop emotionally. And look what we have...a brilliant well-balanced great guy called WW ;-)


**It would probably sting to see her with someone else, so I'm still working on that a bit

We all feel that way. I mean jealousy is part n parcel with
Love. Its human to feel that way. As long as it doesnt go too far and end up in a mess. But Im sure u have nuttin to be J of...cos u got a lovely woman beside ya. Sail away in style WW!







~~Yashita

**then there are the ones waiting to be discovered

Yash I gotta buy new binoculars cos I cant see anything thru these..lol! tnxxxxx!



Keshi.
U know

Keshi said...

~~Musings

m000nie mwahhhhhhh! So good to see u often now.

**oh k00kie u want all our secrets out... lol

lol haha yes, Im sooo nosy ha ROFL!


**i think when u have had a relationship with someone n later when ur not together u shud cherish it.. whatever u have had...

so true...as always m000nie with so much wisdom and grace. tnxxxxxx babez!







~~Nikita

Niki ur so right...each person handles each situation differently.


**The realization that the dreams we had planned to share with our partner will never occur can be devastating.

true..I was like that once. But I moved on pretty fast from him. But not from the r'ship's effects. It took me a while to realise that love can happen again.







~~KL

no probs sweety awww :)







~~Prithz

**I've had no bf to have an ex... even now i am single...

awww so ur a very lucky girl...no headaches and stress :)


**and i simply cant consoel myself to the fact that that person is no more in my life... takes a lot of time.. for it to sink into my heart...

so true...it's the same with BFs...breakups can be really hard to come to terms with.


**at such times,i simply think... "if only my tears could speak of my lvoe for u"....

awwwwwwww...HUGGGGGGGGGZ Prithz! I know how u feel..friends sometimes just take off...it has happened to me and I have felt so many painful cuts in my heart. By the Doc called Time has eased the pain...let things be as they should be. If they r ur real friends they will come bakk...if not let em just be.







~~Lil_Kath

Kathhhhhhh!

**And they're married too now so we just laughed sometimes when we talked about first dates coz we do group dates usually at the park hehe

LOL haha really? thats so sweet.

I still meet one of my Exs at parties n stuff...no probs at all - we r good friends.








~~Neihal

**you know how some ppl always have to be in a relationship to feel secure...

yeah I know such ppl too..wut is it with em? Mebbe cos they dun feel whole w.o. a partner and I think thats pathetic.


**they end up with too may ex's in the "Jerk " category.

LOL!








~~Meg

Megzz I rem one of ur posts abt an Ex...I hope he fainted that day when he went home...cos Im sure u look gorgeous!

**love it when you run into an old flame (ex) that you haven't seen in years and they happen to be with their current wife/gf and she is fifty pounds heavier than you, or bitchy or snotty

HAHAHAHAHAHA!


**and you look at your ex and give them that look as if to say "if could have been me - look what you lost out on".

I cant deny it I love that feeling too!! thats the bitchy side of me lolllz!


**Sometimes, sometimes, it takes years before it happens, but sweet satisfaction can be so worth the wait :)

Spot on babez!


**And remember, the best revenge is to live a successful and happy life!

so true...ok now that's in my life plan...I wanna get a nice hunky BF and be successful in every way and walk ard my EX some day...GOD please grant me that one small wish. I wont ask anything else from ya plzzzzzzz? God, u there?
;-)








~~Ari4u

Ari u did walk into a Rant board..lol! This post is where u can throw rotten tomatoes at ur Exs. :)

Ur married? I didnt even know...heyyy thats great!


**Take care and dont despair. Past is gone, future isnt here, so enjoy your present before it becomes your past.

no ways I dun despair...never :) This was just a funny walk down the memory lane..hehehe. Im still good friends with my Exs.


**"Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
Anonymous

so true...wisdom indeed! tnxxx.








~~Satrry_Nights

Starry heyyy hows u?

**.I am sure your ex is sad now that you guys are not together and I think he is the loser.

lol yeah he did something totally unexpected towards the end. But na I dun blame him cos he was pressured in many ways so let bygones be bygones. Im still good friends with him. I'll write a post abt what he told me the last time we met.


**I would stand by my gate and wait for him to pass by my house on his bicycle.

aww so sweeet...


**The weird thing is I heard that in 2000 he did in an accident and it made me so sad.I had not seen him after high school but he still made me feel sad.

OMG is he ok now? I had a guy crazy for me when I was abt 17...he used to ride this black motorbike and always made beautiful cards for me from the computer. He gave em to me and I got em but never met up with him hehehe cos I was scared to pursue any r'ship bakk then. He died from a sudden accident.


**Beware of the fatal attraction ones because they are emotionally sick.

lol Starry thats so true! tnxxxxxx.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Archana

heyy babez hows u? been busy? I missed u!


**'coz we were always competetive in school. Even till date, whenever we talk, he always starts off with his college stuff and his grades..

LOL! Highschool swt hrts ha? CUTE!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Sittingnut

**more regret than hate.don't think they hate me either.
simply not in love with them now. or so i think

they cant hate someone like u...they must have missed out big time. HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!







~~Samuru999

OMG really? I'll write to u soon ok Margie...tnxxx n huggggggggggz!







~~Ekta

** I am in touch with some of my ex girlfriends

lol ur so sweet Ekta!








~~Anand

**With those who I am in touch with I have a nice Cordial relarionship

thats great Anand :)


**p.s:- Pls ignore the previous comment-didnt realise wifey had logged in her id already

huh? Im confued now :( why wud u log in as Ekta?



Keshi.

southpaw said...

Yes i rem all the names, i also rem their b'days, the month and year we got hooked up and like i said i m in a process to take their permission to make the slide-show...:)

Dawn....सेहर said...

I am believer and I think what is good should and must be appreciated. I often discuss about them still and I do give reasonings for each type of behaviour!
I think there was something worth that we were with them for no matter how long...but its the moment thats spent worth in happy manner :)
Good post dear I liked it :)
Cheers

Parag said...

Hey Keshi...
unfortunately I am married !!
But like you have a crush on stock brokers.. I once had a crush on a Sri Lankan Girl !! Who used to work in a stock broking firm !!

:P fuzzbox said...

I try to be as kind as possible since they lost out on a once in a lifetime oppertunity. ;)

saby said...

Pssssssttt
SOUTHPAW copied those names from a telefone directory






he aint fooling no one
dis guy is sick

southpaw said...

Lol...oldman i'll take ur crap till i get the permission to put the slideshow, so enjoy the moment of glory till then...:)

Apy said...

hmm.. i miss my ex Gfs.. the ones in school.. but my last relationship totally changed my attitude towards these relationships... I neva thought about havin a gal frn af that..lol... i guess the Glen that you described fits in....

Keshi said...

~~Southpaw

**Yes i rem all the names, i also rem their b'days, the month and year we got hooked up and like i said i m in a process to take their permission to make the slide-show

Ur serious? I cant even rem the bdays of my first few Exs lol!

Hey Im waiting for that slide show..wow u think they'll all say yes?







~~Dawn

hey sista I missed ya! :)

**I think there was something worth that we were with them for no matter how long

thats so true. Well-said! HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ Dawny!







~~Parag

**unfortunately I am married !!

SOBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBZ!

hehe it's ok Parag...I was just teasing - cant deny the fact I may have been tapping some territory either ;-)

**But like you have a crush on stock brokers.. I once had a crush on a Sri Lankan Girl !! Who used to work in a stock broking firm !!

really? U know I think this craze with stock brokers started cos I worked for this big company for a while and they had a stock-brokers floor where handsome dudes roamed ard disturbing my peace hehe.

Anyways Im glad ur married - mostly that u found the love of ur life.






~~Fuzzbox

**I try to be as kind as possible since they lost out on a once in a lifetime oppertunity

lol well ofcourse Fuzzy! How could they miss someone like u? It's shocking actually. And Im serious when I say that.







~~Saby

lol u J South has 66 GFs?


Keshi.

southpaw said...

Yes i m serious, look initially it was all natural, then it was a deliberate process to keep a record of every hunt...lol, afterall its quite an achievement to get formally hooked on and off and yet maintain decent relationship with everyone of them or u can say i m sick like the oldman quoted...
Lets hope they agree otherwise u know how to get a glance at them...:D, YM and buzz...lol

saby said...

Hey Keshi

UTTARA is going with me
u J ?

uttara said...

OMGGGGGGGG

southyy

hahah tussi gr8 ho..ok ok i knew the no. 66 but not the names..:p
lol



saby ...
huh???



keshi look at us.. shame on us .. i think we r such a waste on earth...lol

uttara said...

i can see ppl's eye popping out after seeing the list southy..

for an instance they wud think u r kidding .. but i know u dont lie..:p

Keshi said...

~~Southpaw

Keshi jumps into a not-so-deep well...






~~Saby

na I aint J cos Im going with South lol!






~~Uttara

Uttsy u know wut..Life is too short to be Keshi and Uttsy...lol Im disgusted at myself after that list. WTH am I doing on this planet?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Keshi wears robes and goes into the woods...hoping to remove em there lol!


Keshi.

shpprgrl said...

Ex's. Gosh that's a complicated subject. I'm glad all of them are just that.

southpaw said...

@Keshi
yeah come soon i m waiting there...:)

@Uttara
well u knew the name of the 66th one and even tried to disturb me when i was on with her by calling me on my cell....lol

and btw don't u both consider urselves waste, just change the way of certain things....*winks, life can be really fun.

Keshi said...

~~Shpprgrl

hehe thats true :):)







~~Southpaw

**just change the way of certain things

and just what exactly do we need to change Prof?


Keshi.

uttara said...

only robes..????????

i can see some1 is looking hott n that black satin robe..:p


**Life is too short to be Keshi and Uttsy...lol Im disgusted at myself after that list.....

i know i too feel disgusted now...

OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

wat a watse we both r man
u carry on i shall join u both in a while ..........in the WOOODS
should i drop my plan to GOA???

lolllll

southpaw said...

Remember the conversation we had on YM?
I explained u the whole theory in detail that day and u mus agree that there was nothing wrong or sinfull in the entire process....ahem ahem...

Keshi said...

Uttsy awww dun goooooooooooo SOBBBBBBBBBBBBZ! :*(

na I think u must go to Goa...cos atleast u wont be a waste of a life like me...u might find some cute guy there and a list upto 66 may get created...so go Hun ;-)


Keshi.

uttara said...

south...:p

ok i wont ask the same Q ... cos i know wat he has to say... lol he has given me enough gyan abt that..lol

u know am not a waste then ???
lol

Keshi said...

South

** mus agree that there was nothing wrong or sinfull in the entire process....

I know..but Im just not like that...its so hard for me to change all of a sudden :(


Keshi.

southpaw said...

@Uttara
Hey common u better go to goa , we r sending saby...
Old man u betta rush and get ur tickets done and incase u loose her, she is gonna be somewhere near ur cousin's place there...lol

My word i can already see uttara running on the beach like Urmila Matondkar did in the movie Rangeela and our rangeela old man standing on the rocks with a bottle of feni and cigerette in his mouth...Wow!!!

southpaw said...

Dont worry u'll change, i can already feel it...:D

Keshi said...

Is Mr.Saby really gonna be in Goa this weekend? In that case Uttsy ur gonna be in hell...cos he wont let u flirt at all except with himself lol!

**uttara running on the beach like Urmila Matondkar

South lollzz! Urmila is nowhere close to Uttsy...Uttsy is the only bootylicious ard rem!

awww I wanna be in Goa right now!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Na Southpaw Im a very difficult mind to change in that aspect...wut ur seeing is just the palyful side of me.

Keshi.

uttara said...

i cant miss a chance from going to the WOOODS..lol
so its gonna be HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

HAHAHHAH

so i drop my plans n going to WOOOOOOOOOOODSSSSS

lol

southpaw said...

South lollzz! Urmila is nowhere close to Uttsy...Uttsy is the only bootylicious ard rem***Yes yes i agree but i just used urmila so that our good old fox can hv some sort of idea abt uttara's assets....ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

Yeah once the oldman catches her there, she wont get the chance to flirt anywhere else....lol

southpaw said...

yes u r right, actually nobody shud change so easily and that very playfull side will get u to glory one day coz it just requires a few mins of playfull mind togo there...:)

southpaw said...

@Uttara
no no no no....saby is already onboard for Goa

Contented said...

Oh, I wasnt talking about marriage at all. I mean to say TRUE love happens only one time in life. I am a firm believer of that...Since I havent felt any true love before and I am sensible enough now not to lose it if it happens. So No Q's of Ex factor!

Hey Thanks for your kind words! Hope to return back....Miss ya...Hugggggggggzzzzzzz

uttara said...

southy...
na dont snd saby.. plzzzzzzzzzz

na i wont have fenny it wud be vodka with a ciggy..lol

like urmila...HAHAHHAHA

uttara said...

**no no no no....saby is already onboard for Goa

utssyy faints...
lol

n hey where were we planning to go WOODS na.. thats better..
chalo go n get ur bags both of ya..lol


south dont give me a heart attack...lol

neihal said...

you know the kind who always have to be in a relationship to feel good about themself...she was like that...she hardly took a week off between a breakup and a new relationship....which meant she was left with too many of those ex's in "Jerk" category.

southpaw said...

@Uttara
I m all set of the woods, my gal is also ready in robes, u quickly decide whether u wanna join us or go with the oldfox?

uttara said...

na na .. am aint joining the old fox..lollllll

i wuddddd lubbb to join ya..
u know wat sophie is also coming to GOAAAAAAAAAA
loll

Keshi said...

~~Uttara

do we need bags to go to the woods? if so where do we change? lol!






~~Southpaw

Southy I think thats my bane...:(






~~Contented

heyyy ur off soon na? :(

** mean to say TRUE love happens only one time in life

yes I know :) thats why we have Ex na..hehehe.

yup keep in touch via emails. see u soon huggggggggggz!







~~Neihal

lol I got ya!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Is Sophie really joning u in Goa Uttsy?

WTF I have no life.

Keshi.

uttara said...

ya she said we might meet up..lol
wooo hoooo

am soo happyyyyyyy
its a coincidence...

southpaw said...

Southy I think thats my bane...:(*** rem those lines? you can run, u can hide, but u can't escape my love....lol

Now cheer up...:)

uttara said...

my sexyy babes

muaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah
u r the BESTTTTTTT

uttara said...

cheer up ma sexyy babes

u r the BESTTTTTTT
MUAAAHHH

Aditi said...

Love and loathe both depending on which one it is.
Yea those comments were hilarious specially when i saw one or two that i have been uttering..hehe

ishita said...

i hate getting here right at the end coz d damn page takes forever to load!!! :(((

i totally enjoyed reading this post...he he he...dad had a quizzical luk on his face wunderin wat i wz chucklin about!! *grin*

ex's...i cld write a post (or more!) about them...lolz but wldn't wanna start a debate wid R here...ummm...but then i cld never match up to him in terms of qty (read no of ex's!)...lolz...

i have a cordial relationship wid all my ex's wid d exception of two...out of which one was a total jerk and the second is one of my best frenz! (talk about extremes)...i however have no regrets coz i think wenever i dated a particular guy it wz coz at that point of time, they were important to me...and of course i never had a nasty break up or any hard (?!) feelings later ;-)...

i'd once commented on yashita's post that for some strange reason i got along extremely well wid all the mom's! hmmmm! maybe i just gave d impression that i make good DIL material...and i get along fine wid my MIL now...:)

two of my ex's were at my wedding (one was also one of the photographers on d day!)...which was quite sweet na:)...

and as for the jerk, he seems to suffer from some kind of wierd hallucinations claiming to have known me a lot better than he did...hmmm! we met in interesting circumstances...but that's a long story...

anyway...this post made a fun read...got me thinkin of all my ex's...nah lol...not missin any of them:)...!!

gonna get back after gettin vedant home from d bus stop and comment on the latest post...

tc kesh:)...wkend's coming up na...hope urs is full of fun and smiles!:)

Sudeep said...

lol.. best of luck to ur frnd then

i forgot to say tht looks do matter but ONLY looks DONT matter.. there has to be something gud inside the head which makes one match frequencies :)

Keshi said...

~~Southpaw

**Jaquiline Diaz

I think is the name of Miss.Sri Lanka 2006..lol is that her?


**Ramona Heimz. (The Israeli connection

OMG u have had every country too!!


**Ching shang (Chinese treat, my college-mate)

WUTT u had a Chinese babez too??


**Sheena Ratnaike( Used to work as a recieptionist in Taj Samudra, Colombo,trip was boring until she hooked in, it took only 25 mins to hook her up, btw its my personal landmark

ROFL really? It's spelt Ratnayake. Gawwwd South ur such a casanova lol!


**Neeru Khosla.(Toughest nut to crack, took me 3 days of preparation before proposing her

How long did it last?


**Lect. Sameena Tasnim (This was a Bangladeshi adventure)

goshhh by any chance was she ur lecturer? lol!


**64. Shital Sitwala (The exceptional one… ha ha ha ha)

u mean Miss.Dracula?


**65. KAVITA SHARMA (HAPPILY MARRIED WITH…:D)

awww...the prettiest one.


**66. Nisha Singh (Don’t get me wrong, only dated her once, nothing physical abt her *winks)

Nothing physical with ONLY this one? LOL great South ur a heart-breaker ha? hahahaha great read :):)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Ishita

Ishhh huggggggggggz! I really wanted to read ur comment on EXs..lol!


** hate getting here right at the end coz d damn page takes forever to load!!! :(((

awww Im so sorry abt that sweety. I know my posts get too many comments.


**dad had a quizzical luk on his face wunderin wat i wz chucklin about!! *grin*

LOL aww I hope ur dad doesnt think u met a mad mad girl on the net called Keshi.


**ex's...i cld write a post (or more!) about them...

Ofcourse...cos someone as pretty and sexy as u r should have a ton of EXs na...my gosh Ish those 2 pics u sent me almost turned me les..lol! U look absolutely GORGEOUS n SUPER-SEXY! U should put em in ur blog??


**but then i cld never match up to him in terms of qty (read no of ex's!)...lolz...

HAHAHAHA!


**and of course i never had a nasty break up or any hard (?!) feelings later ;-)...

yep me neither...and thats great.


**i'd once commented on yashita's post that for some strange reason i got along extremely well wid all the mom's!

I guess ur a natural at it...I think if someday I have a MIL I'd be good with her too. Cos usually Cancerians r caring.


**two of my ex's were at my wedding (one was also one of the photographers on d day!)...which was quite sweet na:)...

LOL really? Thats sooo sweet!


**and as for the jerk, he seems to suffer from some kind of wierd hallucinations claiming to have known me a lot better than he did...

ROFL! Just tell him he needs a life.


**anyway...this post made a fun read...got me thinkin of all my ex's...nah lol...not missin any of them:)...!!

GOOD :)


**gonna get back after gettin vedant home from d bus stop and comment on the latest post...

heyyy aww dun have to rush for anything...just take ur time and na u dun have to comment in all my frequent posts. I know u have a very busy life with Vedant etc unlike me lol! So yeah its OK :) HUGGGGGGGZ!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Sudeep

I agree Sudeep. There's got to be matching frequencies.

:)
Keshi.

Seattle_Smoke said...

Neither have a current, not an ex..seems like no future huh?
single, ready to mingle

starbender said...

"MISS SMALL BOOBS"
HAhahahahahahaaaa!
I luv it!
:)

southpaw said...

Jaquiline Diaz

I think is the name of Miss.Sri Lanka 2006..lol is that her?***Really, but here i m talking abt someone who lived in our area in mumbai and now very happily married in mumbai itself, she is gorgeous goan babe...:)


Ramona Heimz. (The Israeli connection

OMG u have had every country too!!***She was a student in a management institute in mumbai, was my pg for sometime when i lived alone in a seperate appt.

Ching shang (Chinese treat, my college-mate)

WUTT u had a Chinese babez too??***Don't blame me, she was the one who initiated, i just obliged her...:D

ROFL really? It's spelt Ratnayake. Gawwwd South ur such a casanova lol!***But i see ratnaike on her emails as well...anyways who cares, she was a great host i must say...:)

Neeru Khosla.(Toughest nut to crack, took me 3 days of preparation before proposing her

How long did it last? ***Approx. 4 months, why?

Lect. Sameena Tasnim (This was a Bangladeshi adventure)

goshhh by any chance was she ur lecturer? lol!***No she is a lecturer of Organic chemistry and had come to mumbai on some educational trip, hooked up with me after a brief arguement in a parking place at Nehru planetorium.



64. Shital Sitwala (The exceptional one… ha ha ha ha)

u mean Miss.Dracula?***Don't say that i really poured my heart on her...:)

65. KAVITA SHARMA (HAPPILY MARRIED WITH…:D)

awww...the prettiest one.***ABSOLUTELY...*WINKS


Nisha Singh (Don’t get me wrong, only dated her once, nothing physical abt her *winks)

Nothing physical with ONLY this one? LOL great South ur a heart-breaker ha? hahahaha great read :):)***Heart breaker???common if i had hurt them by anymeans wud they still be decent with me and stay in touch and some of them who r married visit with their hubbies...Its just that we were at a right place at a right time for each other...

sittingnut said...

heyy mate! :-)

they cant hate someone like u
:-) thanks!

have a great weekend!

huggggz!

Eclipsed Thoughts said...

AWWWWWWWWW...
Its okay girl.. and thanks... i know you will feel love and learn love when you meet your "man"!!
All the very best.... guess we need to pack our clothes and head for somewhere? ;)

Jeevan said...

Just a second I thought, that I have entered Flora's blog mistakenly, but no no, its Keshi's only. Because Flora only writes about her Ex;)

I have a girlfriend, who is my class met, I used to go to her house in evenings. She was in next street, we learn tuition in her apartment, some we play hide & seek and cycling. I got a good friend kavitha, in my 8th STD; she was very sweet and very kind with me.

Its nice to know about ur Ex, esp. your friendship with Brandon is sweet:)

ishita said...

those pics were taken while i was reading a book and in a totally dishevelled state! lolz..nuthin sexy abt them na...atleast not in d way i wz feelin when they were taken :)!!! lolz...but gotta say they're amongst my fav pics:) of myself...i normally hate my pics:(

d blog is a place to flaunt more formal pics..he he!

@ tons of ex's..! ... just a few na kesh ;-)...just a few that really mattered!:)...lol

*is reading thru rajbir's endless list*....can never match that! lolzz...:)...i like d way he's so candid na:)...

ArChaNa said...

awww... I missed u too!!!

i'm pretty good.. grrr... getting busy by the day.. MBA na .. :(( sob sob

**Highschool swt hrts ha?

hehe.. ye sort of

how u been? howz ur weekend going?
mine sucks :((

Jo said...

I was so angry at the time I split up with her, because she had multiple boyfriends at the sametime and wanted to hook with me. But after we broke up, I maintain an okay relationship with her. I dont believe in the crap like 'my ex is my best friend now'. :-))

Keshi said...

~~Seattle_Smoke

**Neither have a current, not an ex..seems like no future huh?

awwww na..not having a BFish past does not mean u have no future...:) It's all waiting to happen. Have hope babez.


**single, ready to mingle

now ur ready, lets bring it on boys ;-)









~~Starbender

**"MISS SMALL BOOBS"
HAhahahahahahaaaa!
I luv it!

Guys cry for big boobs and when they get it, they lose the cranium and go in search of bee-stings ;-)








~~Southpaw


**Really, but here i m talking abt someone who lived in our area in mumbai and now very happily married in mumbai itself, she is gorgeous goan babe...:)

lol ok so its not her.


**She was a student in a management institute in mumbai, was my pg for sometime when i lived alone in a seperate appt.

ooooooooo ;-)


**Don't blame me, she was the one who initiated, i just obliged her...:D

Southy the sweet n pleasant helper..lol!


**But i see ratnaike on her emails as well...anyways who cares, she

oh thats another way of spelling it yeah...


**was a great host i must say...:)

plz explain further...


**Approx. 4 months, why?

not bad :):)


**No she is a lecturer of Organic chemistry and had come to mumbai on some educational trip, hooked up with me after a brief arguement in a parking place at Nehru planetorium.

And then she really started learning abt chemistry and organs? lol!


**Don't say that i really poured my heart on her...:)

awwwww sorry :(


**Its just that we were at a right place at a right time for each other...

nope I didnt mean u broke their hearts as in hurting em! :):) I meant that u must have really won em over.








~~Sittingnut

hellooo hows u? Did u have a good weekend?

huggggggz!








~~Eclipsed Thoughts

**guess we need to pack our clothes and head for somewhere? ;)

I think we should..I really wish u were here...we could have had so much fun :):)








~~Jeevan

**Because Flora only writes about her Ex;)

lolz yes I know!

looks like u have had some very sweet GFs in ur life Jeevan...nice!


**Its nice to know about ur Ex, esp. your friendship with Brandon is sweet:)

heheh yes :):)








~~Ishita

Ishhhhhhh huggggggggz!

**those pics were taken while i was reading a book and in a totally dishevelled state!

thats when ur naturally sexy..I luv those shots.


**lolz..nuthin sexy abt them na...atleast not in d way i wz feelin when they were taken :)!!!

ra ya blind Ish? THEY LOOK GORGEOUS! Sultry us the word ;-)


**..of myself...i normally hate my pics:(

yep same here...there r only some pics of mine that I can say I really like. We girls r so vain lol!


**d blog is a place to flaunt more formal pics..he he!

not really...lol!


**@ tons of ex's..! ... just a few na kesh ;-)...just a few that really mattered!:)...lol

let me count mine...1, 2, 3, 4...only 4 real r'ships. And a zillion crushes ofcourse lol!


**is reading thru rajbir's endless list*....can never match that! lolzz...:)...i like d way he's so candid na:)..

OMG Ish can u believe that list lollllz! I dun think I'll reach that number even if I'd lived 10 lifetimes lol!









~~ArChaNa

heyyy Miss.MBA :)

Wknd was great...will tell u all abt it soon ;-)







~~Jo

Jo heyyy!

**I was so angry at the time I split up with her, because she had multiple boyfriends at the sametime and wanted to hook with me.

Is she some BF maniac? lol!


**But after we broke up, I maintain an okay relationship with her. I dont believe in the crap like 'my ex is my best friend now'. :-))

True..its a bit hard to be friends after having had a r'ship...I know wut u mean. But time heals every scar. And I wish u well Jo, hugggggz!



Keshi.

southpaw said...

@Keshi
was a great host i must say...:)

plz explain further...***I don't think its an appropriate media to put those details....:P

And then she really started learning abt chemistry and organs?***Yeah its always good to spread ur knowledge...;lols

awwwww sorry :(***Its ok bubbzy...

@Ishita
*is reading thru rajbir's endless list*....can never match that! lolzz...:)...i like d way he's so candid na:)... ***Those were some moments i tell u...:)

Keshi said...

~~Southpaw

:):)

**Yeah its always good to spread ur knowledge...;lols

hahaha yes!


Ishi and I r still astounded at the number of girls u've floored (pun-unintended) lol!


Keshi.

southpaw said...

Ishi and I r still astounded at the number of girls u've floored (pun-unintended) lol!*** Me too at times and when i recall the actual reason behind the obsession i just can't stop laughing now...:)

Keshi said...

:) South.

Keshi.

Orikinla Osinachi. said...

With such a long list, Southpaw has all the hallmarks of a playboy.

Saby,
The beauty of Keshi remind me of my mother and Denzel Washington reminds me of my father. And both my father and mother claimed that I look like them.

I am 6'3 and the complexion of Keshi is like mine and I love to see myself naked. I once did private strip tease to earn some thousands to pay the college fees of my youngest brother when I had no money and I will not exchange places with Brad Pitt or George Clooney.

I thank God for my looks.

My eyelashes and the colour of my eyes.

But I won't post my pictures for security reasons. I have another life in the Niger Delta region of Nigeria. And Nigerian politics is dangerous and known for bloody assassinations. One of our old boys Funso Williams was recently murdered in his home in Ikoyi, Nigeria.

I believe Keshi prefers me alive and in love with her than be a ghost.

God bless.

Keshi said...

~~Orikinla_Osinachi

hehe I dunno if South wud agree with that statement abt him..lol Southy u a playboy?


Ori it's not fair..we wanna see u. Cmon Im someone who never wanted to put up pics of me in my blog but I did...so can u. If it poses a danger to ur life then plz DONT POST EM. But u can email it to us na?

tnxxxxx!

Keshi.

southpaw said...

@Orikinla
I m an illiterate person, pls define me the term PLAYBOY

Known Stranger said...

i am not as intellegnet or intellecutal like you or the other blogger here. a simple guy with a complicated way of viewing things as if trying to sort the complication which is not so .

all after reading your blog - i smile - i mean it keshi - i smile from ear to eart with a mischievous look in my eyes. 0kie fine i often end up smiling with eyes rather lips. ( a ex gal friend said me) heiehei ..

you still have the love in you. this is what i wanted to tell you and complicated the simple statment.


you are lovely with a child like innoncence in the way you think

now i know why so many men are there in your blog and it is nothing unusal. you attract them well in your charm.

Keshi said...

~~Southpaw

:) Southy just leave it. Cos I dun think u r a playboy...ur just handsome dude with a beautiful heart that gets any girl attracted to u...so u have a huge list of girls running after ya..isnt that just great hehehehe ;-)

Huggggggggggggz!







~~Known_Stranger

KS thanks mate ur too sweet!

**you still have the love in you. this is what i wanted to tell you and complicated the simple statment.

awwwwww I hope it lasts :) Huggggggggggggz!

I appreciate u being here and advising me etc. So nice to have great ppl like u in my blog. Im richer for knowing u all.


Keshi.

Known Stranger said...

i have decieded to drop the comment very late and last . every time onc eyou make a new post - i will read you old post and leave a comment because it is easire for me to come back to veiw what you respond because hardly any one reads your old post once you post a new one.

Let me do things differntly - let all those men be first in your page. ehiehei - i prefer to be last to get noticed.

easier and simpler.

hey.. i am not great and all. harldy a few years elder to you may be even of the same age not sure. a stupid guy i am.

you are sweet gal dont worry - your love will certainly find you the peace and campanionship. ha hha as if blessing i am a old man... i am another person like you just like you but opposite sex. thatz the difference

Keshi said...

~~Known_Stranger

hey KS first or last I always read ALL the comments :) I appreciate u being here mate. tnxxx for everything!

ur old? lol cant be. hehehe but thnxx for the kind blessings :):) Same to u!

Keshi.

Known Stranger said...

ya... true last or first doens make a different - but being me last makes easier when you rspond. making my job easire . heieheih.. self brut i am.

I dont know if i am old - because that is a respective term. if youa re teenage gal - i think you would treat me uncle. if you are in mid 20's then i am still young.. if you are as old as my grany - i am a kid to you. ah aha haa . i am not talking about mental age..
because i am mentally retarted - my brain works like a new born baby - it knows to cry when my belly grumbles and knows to sleep when belly is full.

Known Stranger said...

ya... true last or first doens make a different - but being me last makes easier when you rspond. making my job easire . heieheih.. self brut i am.

I dont know if i am old - because that is a respective term. if youa re teenage gal - i think you would treat me uncle. if you are in mid 20's then i am still young.. if you are as old as my grany - i am a kid to you. ah aha haa . i am not talking about mental age..
because i am mentally retarted - my brain works like a new born baby - it knows to cry when my belly grumbles and knows to sleep when belly is full.

Keshi said...

lol I can assure u ur not an uncle to me and that Im not a granny to u :)

Keshi.