Wednesday, August 13

The Deep End

SIMPLE don't always mean SPECIAL...

Looks are deceiving yes, but for me it means both attractive/simple looks can be deceiving. From the last post of my fav Men's pics, I sensed that some people label all good-looking people as SHALLOW/FAKE. I don't get it. Just cos someone is born good-looking or is popular for certain skills/looks whatever they may be, it does not suggest that person's character/depth/genuinity, does it? How do you do it? I mean are all simple-looking people GREAT people? And are all good-looking people HORRIBLE people? I don't think so. What works for you, may not work for them. And what works for them, may not work for you. That's about it. Just cos some of us prefer to look and dress simple, that doesn't mean that that's the best way to live. Neither does that mean that people who don't look or dress like us are awful people. That's a hugely prejudiced and biased opinion. Bottomline is we are all different, our looks and behaviors have been shaped by our families, culture, exposure and preferences. And I'd like to respect that in each indvidual, as long as it doesn't 'bother' me. Does it bother you?


Beauty is to be admired...
Whether we like it or not, this world is also about Looks, looking good and being attractive. If not, we'll all be trying hard to look ugly! Now by wanting to look good I didn't mean being overly crazy about one's looks and going overboard with Narcissicm. It's about being presentable and feeling good about yourself. And I see nothing wrong in doing that...do you? Both metrosexual men and women don't bother me unless they shove their looks on my face, which most don't do anyways. As much as I appreciate inner beauty, I appreciate outer beauty too. And I look at beautiful things. We are programmed to look at beautiful things and get attracted to such things. If not, we cant be human. And by being attracted to beautiful things, that doesn't mean I'm shallow too. That only means I'm being human. And that also don't mean I sleep around with every hot hunk on Earth! It just means I appreciate good-looking men. And if later on I get to know them and they turn out to be bad men, ofcourse that's a different story. My point is, no one can just look at someone and say 'he/she is shallow' just cos he/she looks good or just cos he/she lives a flashy life or just cos of the way he/she is dressed? If they have the beauty and if certain styles suit them, then why not flaunt it? Celebrities and good-looking people are also human...and they are capable of being good humans just as much as the simple/average person is. And some simple people are capable of being horrible humans just as much as some celebrities are. And to be honest, some of these celebrities are really nice people in real life...they are good partners, great parents and good Charity-workers. Just cos of few bad celebrities, we cannot brand every celebrity as shallow idiots. We have a whole lot of bad people who are non-celebrities...so does that mean all of us are bad? I think not!



I'm not here to please the world...
Worse, some people classify an outgoing, outspoken, hot-men appreciating, night-clubbing, fashionable, photo-taking, extremely friendly girl who lives in a 'White' land as a 'bad' girl. They think such girls are easy, cheap, dirty, unfit for marriage, mentally ill, narcissistic, not someone their mothers would like *rolling eyes, do I care momma's boy? NO!*, highly promiscuous etc etc. To be honest, I don't care what people think about me or my life. I am who I am...if you like what you see here, come in. If not go back to your cave and Baboon life. *FYI we are in the 21st century...note that down in your Tarzan undies on your way back*



This hottie is especially for you Jane!
And no, not all good-looking blokes are shallow...infact they are doing us women a great favor...they've got the Looks and they are flaunting it to people who appreciate it, and I don't see anything wrong with that. And if some men here are jealous about it, sorry I can't help that. I just figured out that women are not the real jealous kind, it's men! I mean me being a woman can genuinely appreciate another good-looking woman and say she's beautiful without going all green and spazzy about it. But it seems most men can't appreciate another good-looking bloke without throwing shit on his face just so that they can feel good about themselves. It's really sad you know. C'mon guys learn to admire a fellow good-looker without throwing hissy fits about it...it's childish and makes you look insecure btw.



Dive in deeper to find the treasures...
Looks are deceiving, yes...so don't judge a book by it's cover. I say it's true the other way too...if the cover is simple, who knows, the contents can be simple too. And if the cover is beautiful, who knows, the contents can be beautiful too. And vice versa too. Just don't judge a book by it's cover. Whatever it is, whoever it is, scratch the surface a little to find out the deep end of a character, before labelling them as shallow/deep purely based on their outer appearance. I say if we label people based on looks, we are the ones who are constantly swimming in the shallow end, not them.


And don't forget, Ted Bundy the serial rapist/killer was a very simple, non-celebrity, Church-going man. Go figure!


Current Music: You're Beautiful by James Blunt

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Jay said...

Lots of people who are really average looking are very shallow and vain and stuck up. Lots of people who are really beautiful are very deep and thoughtful and smart. A person's looks have nothing to do with whether or not that person is an asshole or not. ;-)

Keshi said...

Jay I knew it that u wud u'stand wut I mean. Cos ur a very smart and honest guy!

I dun u'stand why some ppl (both men and women) get so J abt good-looking ppl.

Some dun even visit me anymore cos apparently Im very 'narcissistic' :):)


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

And by that I didnt mean Im good-looking...they just tell me so!

Keshi.

SMM said...

I agree with Jay...a person's looks have nothing to do with his character unless its a movie star or a some topshot model or a bit actor trying to make it big.

There are loads of average/ ugly ppl who maybe extremely talented in some other way which could make them attractive to me, but not to you and vice versa {Here I don't talk about the universally acknowledged so-called attractive ppl]. A person's charm also has alot to do with his personality.

Right from time time I started acknowledging men, I have found men with french beards & glasses to be really attractive. Another woman may not find it so. Beuaty after also does lie in the eyes of the beholder. Some beholders see it in the outer beauty of a person and some in the inner beauty :)

SMM said...

Keshi I'm guessing your online again at the same time as me...this is the time I reach work and this seems to be tme in your part of the world when you take a break :)

mayz said...

looks r a gift...some ppl appreciate it as a gift others call it there destiny n flaunt it...its just how we percieve our own looks n project ourselves to the rest is what makes a difference...
also some of us can't appreciate things which we dont have...its a common human tendency...envy...we r afraid of wats better than us...so try n pull it down...
every coin has 2 faces...its upto us which one we choose when its flipped

Keshi said...

hey SMM ty!


yes Im online now..hehehe..same time ha :)


**A person's charm also has alot to do with his personality.

I agree.

But that doesnt always mean that simple ppl r charming. It has nothing to do with LOOKS good/bad. Thats what Im trying to say from this post.


Cos it seems, when someone is a good-looking top celebtrity, we r all too quick to judge him/her as SHALLOW. And thats so wrong.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

SMM..

** this seems to be tme in your part of the world when you take a break

yes ur right! :) This is the time I stop for some blogging and I post a new post...usually ard this time hehehe..

hv a lovely day ahead!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Mayz!


**its just how we percieve our own looks n project ourselves to the rest is what makes a difference...

yes I agree.



**also some of us can't appreciate things which we dont have...its a common human tendency...envy...we r afraid of wats better than us...so try n pull it down


Spot on! And I dun appreciate that one bit.


Keshi.

SMM said...

Nope i don't say simple ppl are charming...some of the most average looking ppl can be downright boorish...all I'm saying is that irrespective of a person's looks, if the person is charming that person will be attractive.More than a person's looks its the charm that counts. Salman Khan maybe one of the best looking men in the world today, but its also a fact that he has abused his girlfriends and has a foul temper - that just makes him so much less attractive to me.


Btw some of the celebrities with their incessant giggling and stupid answers on the reality shows do come across as dumb.

Silvara said...

As they say - Beauty is only skin deep

As our face, body and clothes are the first things people see when they look at us - it's the first thing they will judge and form an opinion of us on. It might not be fair but it's reality. To look beyond the surface to see the person inside is quite hard for some people to do.

Keshi said...

I kno wwut u mean SMM. Looks dun define personality.


But dumb/annoying/violent/shallow etc habits are not just CELEBRITY habits. They can be anybody's habits. I dunno why some ppl always associate such qualities ONLY with famous ppl. Mebbe cos famous ppl r always in the limelight and r VISIBLE, so it's easier for us to point fingers at their every move.

But just imagine if we the average ppl r being put on TV or the big screen. I wonder how each of us wud behave.


:)

Keshi.

La vida Loca said...

it really weird how we type cast ppl. I have similar rant as u..out going, drinking, well dressed gal= slut. u get asked questions like "are you a virgin?"
shheesh

mayz said...

replyin to ur comment on my blog...here is a poem i dedicate to d swt lil keshi :)

http://satanzmantra.blogspot.com/2008/06/poison-ivy_22.html

Keshi said...

yes Silvara ur right.


** To look beyond the surface to see the person inside is quite hard for some people to do.


I can u'stand that too. Cos it takes some time to know a person well. But to judge immediately is wrong!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty LaVida!


**out going, drinking, well dressed gal= slut. u get asked questions like "are you a virgin?"


I know wut u mean! Its so disrespectful.


They think that dressing up nicely, having some alcohol and looking good means SLUT and that we dun deserve respect. How foolish r they!

Keshi.

the_thinker said...

Look might not define the character of the possessor but it definitely makes things easy for him/her. Look plays role in getting job, getting a mate, getting promotion. it might not be everything but its a big thing...the celebrity culture has only boosted the emphasis on look. Living in some way is one's capability to supress one's subconscious. An ugly man/woman might be happy believing what if i m not good looking..i am honest and down to earth and bla bla bla..life won't betray. I will get equal opportunites. Sorry that does not happen in the real world however at the end of the day savior is one's wit and intelligence..but after the day ends there is dark

Aaarti said...

OH, woww.. loved the post girl!!!
I've always believed in "never trust a book by its cover'.. this holds true for every aspect of life...work,friends, family,love,etc etc etc etc.....

Looks are superficial... some smarto said "beauty is skin deep".. to me, its wats inside that matters.. all the way....

when i see someone gorgeous looking, i mite glance twice at em.. but when i see someone i relate/gel/connect to/with, i see them more than twice..if you know what i mean!! these are the bonds that go a long way...

completely agree with you on simple/good lucking is not necessarily boring/interesting or other way around...

never be too quick to reject someone based on looks
and never just follow blindly cos a person is good looking....

go with your instincts n get to know the person better!! :)

ok, enuf ranting !!! toodle doo girl...:)

Keshi said...

aww ty Mayz, I'll check it out soon :)

Keshi.

Tarun said...

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
I definitely had nothing against those knights,in fact I have nothing against anyone provided they respect other's space.
Yes everyones appreciates beauty.Beauty is the classical sense is a kind of perfection.
Inside or outside whatever u wish to praise.

Nor I was jealous.
The thing spiralled out in not the way I desired.

I still feel sorry for people who are caught in the cage of their own perception.

Keshi said...

Thinker that was a DEEP analysis of the topic, ty! I loved it.


**it might not be everything but its a big thing

Well-said!


And ur right...LOOKS do get u places whether ppl like to believe it or not. Just that most of us think its such a BAD Thing to appreciate GOOD looks. Why?



**Sorry that does not happen in the real world however at the end of the day savior is one's wit and intelligence..but after the day ends there is dark


so true. Some ppl r in denial I guess. :)




Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Aaarti :)


**never be too quick to reject someone based on looks
and never just follow blindly cos a person is good looking....


I agree. At the same time never think that a simple person is deep and real, just cos he/she is simple.



:)

Keshi.

Iceman said...

Whatever it is, whoever it is, scratch the surface a little to find out the deep end of a character, before labelling them as shallow/deep purely based on their outer appearance.

haha.. nice... but sometimes... u risk drowning in the deep end... :P

Be careful... even if u r scratching... u risk drowning... :P
and for such cases... u will never know how deep is deep or how shallow is shallow.. Its always apparent... always... :P
Making them mysterious... and guess thats what sucks ppl in... as in attracted... :P

Keshi said...
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Keshi said...

Tarun its not only u, some others called em FAKE too.


The following were ur own words in the previous post :)


**This whole metrosexual thing sucks big time. I ask, flaunt what and to whom? most people do it not to flaunt themselves, they do it to hide their hollow intentions and viciousness.

**Me not much into cream and gels, prefer hair oil and soap instead.

**Horses for courses.
I am what I am along with my coconut hair oil.




If that was not abt JUDGING someone immediately based on the their good looks, then WHAT was it abt Tarun?





**I still feel sorry for people who are caught in the cage of their own perception



Dun feel sorry for them Tarun, cos maybe they are HAPPY in their own cages, just like u r HAPPY in ur own cage!



Keshi.

Southpaw unplugged said...

I m glad u used Mallika Sherawat as one example...all men who criticize her are the ones who crave for her but know that they cant have her...and all women who criticise her are mostly the ones who die to hv assets like her to flaunt, but sadly they r just av. ones...

As far as the knight thing is concerned, like i said in my comment then, i dont try, i leave it on the other person to figure out the knight and the knight'mare they see in me...:P

Keshi said...

Hey Iceman tnxx!


**u will never know how deep is deep or how shallow is shallow.. Its always apparent... always...


I agree. And what's deep/shallow to u may not be so to me :)


Keshi.

girish kohli said...

Dive in deeper to find the treasures... right next to your picture angled down into your cleavage...

we get the hint....someone is getting desperate...

hee hee haa haa ho ho

Keshi said...

tnxx Southy!

And I used Ms.Sherawat's pic here cos of the VERY reason u stated.

So many ppl r jealous of her and call her 'slut' etc only cos they cant have her or be like her!



Keshi.

girish kohli said...

signing up for follow ups

Keshi said...

lol shutup Mystique!

Keshi.

girish kohli said...

ooh someone's blushing now :P

the stygian sailor said...

what happened to those women who got silicones?

Southpaw unplugged said...

Now coming back to the actual context of the post, when u ask a question u r bound to get variety of answers coz we all think differently...The guys u potrayed hv a set of followers and even guys like Ted bundy get to penetrate initially with their set of followers. And come to think of basic criminology, u always need to worry abt the simple one coz its very hard to identify them unless they execute their initial steps...a high flier, a go-getter is like an open book so u just need to make a decision abt that lot, thats all...

Keshi said...

yes Im blushing badly over here Mystique. Stop doin it to me..lol!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Stygian they all ran away after seeing Mallika and Keshi LOL!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Southy and I agree.


** u always need to worry abt the simple one coz its very hard to identify them unless they execute their initial steps...a high flier, a go-getter is like an open book so u just need to make a decision abt that lot, thats all...



soooooooo true! My mum always say that too :)


Keshi.

the stygian sailor said...

but of course!
indeed they ran away :)

Keshi said...

:) Stygian..

Keshi.

Tarun said...

Hair Oil was just a metaphor for God sake.

These are my perception of how things.

That wasnt judging, it was plethora of previous experiences.

Plus being in the show bizz,u got too look glam all the time.

Keshi said...

**Hair Oil was just a metaphor for God sake.


I know it was a metaphor Tarun, so I was using it as my metaphor too! :)



**That wasnt judging...


ok wutever! Cos u can so easily twist it now as NOT JUDGING blah blah blah.


I rest my case.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

And Tarun u urself asked why FLAUNT it and to WHOM? Im sure that was JUDGING.

Keshi.

Tarun said...

If u rest your case, then I now rest in peace.

:)

Keshi said...

hehe Tarun...its all good :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

And Tarun this post wasnt in reply to only ur comments in the prev post but to many others' too...

some ppl termed those guys as FAKE. They dun even know these guys in real and they conclude that abt them, just cos they're celebrities? :) wow!


Keshi.

Sun Follower said...

I've always felt that the average looking person with inner beauty is FAR MORE ATTRACTIVE than the good looking person who is unkind and bitter.

And if you have both inner and outer beauty... that's good.

Ash said...

I used to always think of people who wore too much makeup or were too appearance-conscious as fake and shallow. And boy, was I prejudiced!

Thank you for this post, Keshi. Now I'll think twice before I mentally label people :-)

Keshi said...

ty Sun!


**I've always felt that the average looking person with inner beauty is FAR MORE ATTRACTIVE than the good looking person who is unkind and bitter.


I agree.


But this isnt abt who's more attractive in qualities. This is abt judging ppl based on just looks.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehe Ash..

**I used to always think of people who wore too much makeup or were too appearance-conscious as fake and shallow.


not always. I dun wear much makeup but I dun judge every woman who wears heavy makeup. we all hv physical insecurities...and just cos we cover em up with makeup that doesnt mean we r emotionally insecure too.


:)

Keshi.

Chakoli said...

:))

Yup... cud be true ... but cud be true other way round as well :))

I have seen almost all good looking girls with attitude and proud...

dont blame me ...but really i have this thinking "beutiful girls" are not good natured :((

even if I try to change this myth, I m not able to, as each time I m proved wrong :((

may be its because they are appricated so much that some or the other time u need to show off ur attitude .... tahts nt thr fault... I suppose :)))

About guys...dont know... can't find "good looking guys" actually :PPPPP

but gals...yup....

and about the simple living and being good... there is a direct reltion for sure...

Tarun said...

Well I thought the post was on comments.
If pen is mighter then sword then words can hurt.
Learnt i that the wrong way. :(

anyways me gearing up for a big weekend.
Menu is already set.

Keshi said...

ty Chakoli!


**I have seen almost all good looking girls with attitude and proud...

**dont blame me ...but really i have this thinking "beutiful girls" are not good natured



hehe now hv u met EVERY good-looking girl on Earth? And hv u met EVERY simple-lookinh girl on Earth too? Im sure u hvnt. So u cant really derive that conclusion based on few ppl u've met Chakoli.



I agree, some very beautiful/popular ppl may hv some attitude, as u say. Wut abt the ugly ppl then? Some very ugly ppl hv very nasty attitudes too!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Tarun noooooo dun say that!

**If pen is mighter then sword then words can hurt.

This is not a personal remark at YOU. This is my THOUGHTS on what your THOUGHTS. Note the difference..it's not abt YOU.




So it cant hurt mate...and I didnt mean to hurt u :). we r only hvn a good debate here and it makes us all grow, doesnt it?


*HUGZ*


Im so far away from the wknd tho...cos I hv so much of work to finish b4 Friday :(


Keshi.

Tarun said...

No I wasnt hurt at all.
As I had said things spiralled downwards in a manner which I think we both didnt appreciate.
Friday is a holiday here, will take a leave on saturday and then sunday.
I will look to get lost early from office, so thats a long weekend in a while.
*has shopping on my mind too.*

Cinderella. said...

I completely agree with the general bias that happens.

Ppl so get biased against good looking ppl- lets better ppl in every sense , not just the look,

Once a college professor (female) told me, all you have is a pretty face, you aint gonna go nowhere with that.

That was so hurtful you know. But then later I laughed it off, cz first, she was this yucky looking horrendous lady - no looks no style - and secondly her behaving this with good looking girls was a common scenario.

Such sad ass non-entities seriously !

I have absolutely no qualms when I spot a good looking female in complimenting her that she looks pretty ! Than why cant it be with the rest ?

Keshi said...

Good to know that Tarun :)

so wut r u buying this time?

Keshi.

HOBO said...

It is all about an individuality.
Respecting ourselves and respecting others goodness too.
:)

Cinderella. said...

Just went thru the other comments..I will agree, I have seen ppl very very conscious about their looks, they're just so obssesed with their own pathetic selves...!!

Its sickening...!!

And like Jay said, looks have nothing to do with whether or not that oerson is an asshole !!!

LOL !

Tarun said...

Thinking of getting something for "Her" may be a pair of denims and half sleeves shirts or t-shirts.

Cinderella. said...

LOL !!

Girl I just read my first comment about my college proff....that seriosuly doesnt imply my implying that I am good looking...sheeesh !!!!

Keshi said...

Amen to Cindy's comment!

Finally atleast one good-looking woman knows what Im talking abt :)



**Once a college professor (female) told me, all you have is a pretty face, you aint gonna go nowhere with that.


thats so hurftul! Even before I read ur next line Cindy, I imagine her to be some ugly looking witch anyways. Cos only ppl who r insecure abt themselves wud say that to someone else.

*HUGZ*


And u prove that u hv both Beauty n Brains, contrary to the popular belief that Beauty comes with an empty head. *rolling eyes*



**Than why cant it be with the rest ?

exactly my qn to others!



U rock Cindy!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

yes Hobo its certainly abt individuality! Thats what alot of ppl fail to remember.


Its individuals who r good/bad, not certain looks.


Keshi.

Cinderella. said...

I dont care about the hurt part now , I mean I came to a conclusion pretty soon, and that is - atleast she told me I have a pretty face....lol !!!

Keshi said...

Cindy ur beautiful (both in and out) and u know that, so dun let others stop u from believing that. :) HUGS!



**I have seen ppl very very conscious about their looks, they're just so obssesed with their own pathetic selves


I know such ppl too. But also, think abt it this way...there r some not so good-looking ppl who r obsessed with THEMSELVES. Not with their looks (obviously cos they dun hv it!) but with THEMSELVES. Thats worse btw!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

thats sweet of ya Tarun :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha yes Cindy, it somehow came outta of her mouth! :)

Keshi.

Cinderella. said...

Awww...thankyou sweety !
So are you !

**But also, think abt it this way...there r some not so good-looking ppl who r obsessed with THEMSELVES. Not with their looks (obviously cos they dun hv it!) but with THEMSELVES. Thats worse btw!**

Totally babe !!

I have had the golden opportunity of knowing one in real actually.

Thats scary infact !

Cz they're missing out on the rest of happening world - and end up obseesing about whats happening to them..lol !!!

SamY said...

*phew* very serious posht

but I could control from laughing when I read this

* note that down in your Tarzan undies on your way back

ha ha =)) ROTFL ... is that a common phrase or did nutty make that up :P ... had you railed with those words at someone right in front of me I'd have laughed without control ... don't ask why but it was soo cute :), beneath all the anger :p

anits said...

hi keshi just drop to say..hi..n am a bit busy...tcare n hv fun gal!

Keshi said...

ty Cindy MWAH!


**Cz they're missing out on the rest of happening world - and end up obseesing about whats happening to them..lol !!!


haha I know such ppl too. Actually in blogville too. Its always ABOUT THEM an wuts happening in THEIR lives. Im sick of it :)


See wut I mean...sometimes ppl who r obsessed abt their LOOKS r way better than ppl who r obsessed abt THEMSELVES!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha ty Samy!


**is that a common phrase or did nutty make that up

its my own..Keshi copy-righted btw :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha ty Samy!


**is that a common phrase or did nutty make that up

its my own..Keshi copy-righted btw :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

No worries Anits, tnxx n take it easy!

Keshi.

SamY said...

** its my own..Keshi copy-righted btw

Seriously! I loved it :) .. still cracks me up every time I read it LOL!

Keshi said...

aww Samy :)

It just came to my mind when I was writing abt Stone-age cavemen lol!

Keshyi.

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

Sissy....
but appreciating sumone bu just looks and giving him or her a preference is bad..donchaa think

u shud appreciate but if u give preference then it's just another form of biasing.. :)

but I do appreciate all the playboy playmates with and without their clothes :P
and my dreams are so full of them :P

deepsat said...

i think ppl who make such judgment are jealous or seriously in need of some psychiatric treatment!! the world is beautiful with people!! god & evolution made it that way! someone has a problem, hmmm.. which side is highway?? LOL!!

;-))

Keshi said...

Bro, NO I dun think it's wrong to appreciate/admire good-looking ppl based on LOOKS only. Why not? They r BEAUTIFUL, so I appreciate that beauty. I wasnt talking abt their personality when I said BEAUTY here. Just the looks only.



**u shud appreciate but if u give preference then it's just another form of biasing


Im not giving PREFERENCE to them when it comes to a friendship or something else. Im just saying they r beautiful and at the same time, Im not gonna judge these ppl as shallow just cos they r beautiful.



**but I do appreciate all the playboy playmates with and without their clothes

lol u porn boi! ;-)


Thats wut I mean...u like watching beautiful ppl, doin things dun u? Thats it!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha Deepz tnxx!


** god & evolution made it that way!

I agree. LOOKS r inherent to us humans...some r genetically blessed, some arent. But that dun give us the right to CLASSIFY ppl's characters based on looks.


Keshi.

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

I agree with ur view but I really hate when women gets job jus becoz they look hot and those managers think they wud own a place to park their cocks....

and then also most of the time I've seen people even don talk with ugly peoples.... but even I am a beauty lover...who wud like to share a bed with a ugly bitch wen u can have cindy crawford to kiss u goodmorning ...
and abt people opinionating them shallow ..i fink they don kno how much struggle and IQ is requirred to become and actor or a model...and if sumone is hot ..she needs to appreciated licked to cool :P
khikhikhi

Keshi said...

Bro I know that SOME managers hire BEAUTIFUL women. But certainly not ALL.

And it also depends on the Industry/Company. If beauty is needed for that industry/job, then why not use it? It boosts Sales cos men fall for it and will do business with the company just to see the chicks lol!



**..i fink they don kno how much struggle and IQ is requirred to become and actor or a model


I agree. Cos Movie/Modelling industry isnt a piece of cake. There's alot of hard work and BRAINS needed too. Just looks only dun work and get u to the top.

Some ppl dunno that, sadly.


Keshi.

rantravereflect/ jane said...

heyyyyyyyyyyyy keshhhhh..
ya put up wentworth miller:0
ggeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee..
thanksssssssssssss a ton!! that man is a hot faucet who turns me on no end..
geeeeeeee..

abt beauty, well, we gotta face it, everyone wants to look good n presentable!
n there's noooo fuck wrong with that!!!
n yehhhhhh, i appreciate beauty when it's there..


for anyone who uses cocoNUT oil on his nuts n pubic hair, it's his personal preference ;);)

n yehhhh, scrathing the label is mandatory before judging a person.

keshi, let's go * scratch-scratch *, n make it a game!!

we'll choose some hot men, n go scratch them to check if they have a stuffed sock of a beautifully stuffed-brain and humor...

Chakoli said...

Hehhehehehhe :))

I agree ... I havent met everyone...but somehow I m not here for survey :PPP

I mean...peopel usually judge people personally.... and fr themselve... when they belive something nt beacuse wrld is thinking...but usually beacuse there world(there surroundings) made him to think that way :))

Parul Gupta said...

i agree with u keshi darlin...actually its all because of the stereo type mindsets that people generally possess...its only when people like u question them they sit back n think....
cheers..
parul

SMM said...

Dedicated to those whom love their coconut oil-


Mallu version of Hotel California by The Yeagles

"On the road to Trivandrum Coconut oil in my hair
Warm smell of avial Rising up through the air

Up ahead in the distance I saw a bright pink tube-light
My tummy rumbled, I felt weak and thin I had to stop for a bite

There he stood in the doorway Flicked his mundu in style And I was thinking to myself I don't like the look of his sinister smile
Then he lit up a petromax Muttering "No power today"

More Mallus down the corridor I thought I heard them say Welcome to the Hotel Kerala-fonia
Such a lousy place, Such a lousy place (background) Such a sad disgrace,

Plenty of bugs at the Hotel Kerala-fonia Any time of year Any time of year (background) It's infested here It's infested here His finger's stuck up his nostril
He's got a big, thick mustache He makes an ugly, ugly noise But that's just his laugh
Buxom girls clad in pavada Eating banana chips Some roll their eyes, and Some roll their hips
I said to the manager My room's full of mice He said, Don't worry, saar,I sending you meen karri, brandy and ice

And still those voices were crying from far away Wake you up in the middle of the night Just to hear them pray
Save us from the Hotel Kerala-fonia Such a lousy place, Such a lousy place (background) Such a sad disgrace
Trying to live at the Hotel Kerala-fonia It is no surprise It is no surprise (background) That it swarms with flies

The blind man was pouring Stale sambar on rice And he said We are all just actors here In Silk Smitha-disguise
And in the dining chamber We gathered for the feast
We stab it with our steely knives But we just can't cut that beef
Last thing I remember I was writhing on the floor
That cockroach in my appam-stew was the culprit, I am sure Relax, said the watchman
This enema will make you well
And his friends laughed as they held me Down God's Own Country? Oh, Hell! "

Keshi said...

ty Jane lol I cant stop laffing!

**for anyone who uses cocoNUT oil on his nuts n pubic hair, it's his personal preference

LOL LOL LOL!



**we'll choose some hot men, n go scratch them to check if they have a stuffed sock of a beautifully stuffed-brain and humo

haha good one! Im game, r ya? ;-)


*HUGZ* n ty!

Miller is lookin at ya hun!!!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

I know Chakoli, ppl judge by their personal experiences.


**I agree ... I havent met everyone...but somehow I m not here for survey


I know ur not here for a Survey but just cos u brand all beautiful girls as proud etc it looks like ur STEREOTYPING.


:)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Parul!


**its all because of the stereo type mindsets that people generally possess


Spot on! Thats exactly WHO I wanted to address thru this post.



Keshi.

Cazzie!!! said...

Love that song Keshi, and of course, your picture too :)

Keshi said...

HAHAHAHHAHAHA SMM I cant stop laffing!!!

ROFL @Hotel Kerala-fonia!!!


ty for making me laugh!!! HUGS!


too good lol!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Coconut oil is trend in India ha...in Sri Lanka too lol!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Caz MWAH! :)

Keshi.

Arv said...

Hi Keshi,

Thats a point well made about the common misconceptions on people's looks.

*our looks and behaviors have been shaped by our families, culture, exposure and preferences.

Very true, that is what makes everyone one of us an individual :)

*I'm not here to please the world...

I like that attitude... Jus be yourself gal... You rock!!!

Nice song...

Have a nice evening mate... Cheers..

The Paratrooper said...

lol....keshiiiiiiiii lol waht fif u do!!! so many male pics in the last posts...i am here at the academy...lol...public internet acess..... lol..they saw it from behind..so could not read what was that ....but could see the pics only... and i was reading it all so i took time... so for the people looking at me from behind ..it looked as if i was staring for 15-20 mins at Gerard Butler's BONER.... so u can guess what hapened... i showed them the slide show with my name on it ...phew thank god for that.

*~*{Sameera}*~* said...

"Beauty is truth and truth beauty" - said John Keats.And if a person is beautiful both on the inside and out,what more do we need? :)

Good post Babes!

gunj said...

babes i soo agree with u thr!!
so true!

Priya Joyce said...

Superficiality or shallowness can never be defined by looks never at all. The worst thing we do is to form opinions about others.
If we just wait for sometime and just take a li'l time to know the person then all this is not a problem at all.
Then again about envy and jealousy that everyone has but the fact which proves us human in such a situation is our ability to suppress it and act accordingly.
What I mean to say is those who are jealous can also praise just that human quality is needed.

Chakoli said...

MAy be I m wrng...
but hard to say that I cud alter it :)))

Aphrodite said...

hihi...lol...have u heard hotel keralafornia...sounds funnier with the southie accent...neway...nice post gal...i so agree that beauty can be skin deep or just surface- deep...if u know wht i mean...

stony said...

* From the last post of my fav Men's pics, I sensed that some people label all good-looking people as SHALLOW/FAKE.

Should be coincidence. Depth of a person has no relation with his looks.

* Whatever it is, whoever it is, scratch the surface a little to find out the deep end of a character, before labelling them as shallow/deep purely based on their outer appearance.

Beautiful thought. Unfortunately, we create perceptions on the basis of our past experiences. These perceptions are so deep rooted that we feel scratching the surface is not worth the effort.

* But it seems most men can't appreciate another good-looking bloke without throwing shit on his face just so that they can feel good about themselves.

I thought it was more with women.
Is your observation based on the guys competing one another to get closer to you? :)

* I mean me being a woman i can genuinely appreciate another good-looking woman and say she's beautiful without going all green and spazzy about it.

If that woman becomes heart-throb of your heart-throb, you may change. :)

* We are programmed to look at beautiful things and get attracted to such things.

But what is attractiveness? Some people find simplicity attractive. The attractiveness-quotient of something is different to different persons. Also what looks attractive today may not look attractive tommorrow.

And btw your blog-visitors get addicted to your blog because they find your writing attractive. [You are attractive too but that benefit is only incidental. :)]

Maddy said...

Its very difficult to keep pace with your number of post I guess, I think I missed quiet a few.

What can I say...YOU ARE BRUTALLY HONEST girl.

vishesh said...

lol ;)

Priya said...

Totally agree with your post Keshi. Beauty comes from heart and that glows the entire body.

phoenix said...

i so agree with you on this one....

did you know you have very expressive eyes?? :) i really like them you know

Aneesh said...

what you've mentioned here is absolutely correct. it's the age old proverb "Everything glitters is not gold" which we normally define not all good looking people are good. 'N even if a person is bad looking, he might be good, but it is a fact that whether good looking or not, all are humans and all have it's special characteristics.
'N we cannot blame the celebrities, unless we are in their position, how can we blame them? When we are suddenly overwhelmed with wealth and fame, who knows what we do? To preach and blame someone is easy, but to practice, it's really tough!
:)

Sensitive:-) Jigyasa said...

Completely agree. With you on each word. And besides I like the way you have given the shape to your thoughts, the pictures, the lines in bold.........all these things add to the beauty of your thoughts.

Keep Smiling!!!

Ankur said...

first to go with the tagline..

It simple to be happy, yet so difficult to be simple!! :)

i agree with u, its not necessary that all good looking man are bad... not at all, but ya agreeing with others... they use their looks most of the times, and use their brains less!!

but i have seen most beautiful of the people to be so good... and bad too!! so in my case i cant judge any one by its cover!! not at all.. i need to know that person more... those who talk sweet arent necessarily sweet all the time!! :)

and Sweetie.. u r one of the loveliest arnd here!! :)
u r sensible, beautiful and adorebale!! :)
*hugzzzz*

Take CAre
Ankur

P.S. i havent read whole of last post yet... but will read it soon with comments!! :)

Nadine said...

It's good to be comfortable in your own skin. People are who they are and we should learn to accept others where they are at. Not everyone is going to love us or like us, and that's ok.

I always appreciate your honesty.

Be blessed,
Nadine

Sweetstickychewy said...

A fantastic post Keshi!:)

***What works for you, may not work for them. And what works for them, may not work for you.

You said it well.

Well what can i say, sometimes the most shallow people are the not so good looking people who think they are so good looking that they hold a right to size up people.

And if a person will have to go a certain distance with a person by the grading their looks before a step. Than they would just be dieing a thousand deaths before truly knowing whats beautiful.:)

Anu said...

Your right about not judgind a book by its vover. But I think tis the media and fashion industry who give the good loking people a bad name. The images shown of school cheerleaders or fashion models sway the thinking that if your pretty , your nasty.. life is not about judging but understanding.. that however misses people all the time

Tejas Lakhani said...

As always.
UR simply awesome when it comes to express yourself.
I also believe in 'never trust a book by its cover' and as far as myself is concern I have gr8 respect for you.

I don't think if a gal talk bluntly and carrying in-your-face attitude becomes a bad gal.

But opinion differs from person to person and so we shud not worry abt all.

Haha..... take a chill pill babe and keep posting such stuffs.

rayshma said...

LOTS of good looking ppl are rather genuine and bright.
ur john, for example, is one of the most modest celebs i've met. mallika sherawat, contrary to general opinion, is a rather bright individual in my opinion.

i agree with you... by judging people solely on their looks, it's we who're being superficial!

Solitaire said...

Ekdum sahi kaha! (Very well said!)

Looks and character may not necessarily have any connection and people always like to join the dots, anyway.

I don't think anyone in our grandparent's age (at least amongst Indians) went around wearing minis and sleeveless shirts and yet many of them turned out to be not-so-nice people who are hardly missed when they die!

And think about Sita (from Ramayan). The outfits that women wore than were soooo seductive and yet we do not say anything about that!

Solitaire said...

@ Paratrooper,

Where did your blog disappear?

maverick said...

well..im sure my comments in the last post played a role in this post coming up...dont know how significant..but im sure they did...

newaz...i didnt comment..bcos i generally dont comment on dudes..u ld ve seen that on my blog/my comments..

and i dnt judge a book by its cover...ever :)

mirage said...

Nice post lol

Good looks r soothing for eyes,but not necessarily reliable.A not-so-good looking person can be everyone's favorite,if he/she can smile from deep within the heart,right?

Of course good looks are deceiving but what matters is the good character...
Good looking people can be good at heart too:))) like you

love

mirage:)))))))

AmitL said...

Hi,Keshi-that was a very pertinent post,I'd say..you know,it's something I've often wondered-why do men hate to praise other men?
---
I mean,take my example-as I've said earlier on my blog- when I was putting on weight,people would say'oh,you've put on weight''oh,have you stopped walking?'. I lost 10 kgs+ and look fit as ever,and,they ask'have you been ill?'..I mean,does it give them some kind of perverse pleasure to ask questions which are always meant to make the other person feel lower than a molehill?
---
Or,take a discussion between people at a party-this was more prevalent in India-me being me,I'd prefer to say a good word about someone,rather than bitch around-so,if I'd say'oh,so-and-so did such a good job at that project',2-3 others would instantly say'oh,but,see-it was an easy project/the client was so good/oh,he's just lucky it went well'...I mean,instantly,people begin deriding the other person..I used to just move to the side.Sigh!!Now,I totally avoid any such conversations,even if it means being a loner at times!!
---
So,to get back to what you said- perhaps it's a sense of insecurity that makes men do what they do,when they deride another person?What else could it be?
---
PS This doesn't mean the ladies don't feel J of other ladies,I'm sure...how about your personal experiences in real life,in a coming post?

Ria said...

Well said gurl!i dont ever judge ppl by the way they look. what matters to me is how they behave and if tht wins my heart then nothin like it! And who wudnt love a killer combo of a looker and a good human being. Btw the pic of John in ur previous post was jus too good! I dont understand y do ppl dislike appreciating someone's beauty. I m confident of who i m and i dont mind is praising some other person or admiring tht person. I hav always felt gud complimenting ppl coz i feel it can boost anybody's morale. :) So be secure and dont stop urself from admiring the beautiful creations of god.

akanksha said...

This is utter confusion...
"Dont judge a book by its cover"
And
"First Impression is the last impression"

I still dont know which one is correct!

akanksha said...

This is utter confusion...
"Dont judge a book by its cover"
And
"First Impression is the last impression"

I still dont know which one is correct!

AmitL said...

BTW,will tell u about the 'correct answer'logic,by Fri-feeling too tired with workload this week..TGIT tomorrow.:)

Zubin said...

*Sigh*

This is like the fourth or fifth.."We hate men"...post that I have read in the last two weeks..!

I agree on a lots of things that you have expressed here...Looks don't dictate interiors..In fact there is no relation there what-so-ever.

For those who think Beckham is a show off..go check out his half field goal video and his so perfect corner 'bent' kicks..he captained an international country..not for his looks..maybe the criticism he attracts is for his outrageous lifestyle and his alleged 'cheating on his wife'(on various occasions)...Butler is a promising actor..I have no info on his lifestyle...and same goes for John..Jude has had his share of bad boy charm though...Does that make Jude and David shallow..??

I would rather not comment.. :)

Nothing wrong with flaunting btw... whats the use of a well toned body if we can't show it off.
The day I get my six pack, I am throwing all my shirts out.. :d

But generalizing it all into "Good looking = Shallow" is outrageously ridiculous..

The same way its ridiculously hurting to generalize things against all guys..(being jealous of hot ppl)...I have only known guys getting inspired by other good looking or 'perfect bod' guys..just blindly saying women don't get J is wrong as well..

If a few females had given same comments instead of guys...would you have gone all guns blazing against the whole women community..? But because they were all guys..you go all against the men..

To say the least, I am a bit disappointing...and really tired of facing all the undeserved wrath.
Why is it always about men/women and not about people all together...? :(

Zubin said...

Sorry for being so LONG..! :D

Mallika btw..is one of my favs.. ;)

one more thing..there is nothing wrong in being a metrosexual...you have gotta look good..not necessarily for others though. So I agree..but not on the all men are J thing..! :)

Princess Mia said...

babes its easy for a gal to walk upto another gal n compliment the other gal.....but yesh i havent really seen any man comlimenting another man.....hmmmm so true....yur right men r jealous of other men i guess that where mine is bigger than yurs comes from .....haha

Princess Mia said...

btw looks like u still cant access my diary ;( , i dont see nothing wrong at my end babes ....it must be something at yur end ;(

Beach Bum said...

But it seems most men can't appreciate another good-looking bloke without throwing shit on his face just so that they can feel good about themselves.

You are right on all the points you made. But one reason its hard for guys to not feel threaten by other guys is simple million year old genetic programming and the competition for mates to reproduce.

I sensed that some people label all good-looking people as SHALLOW/FAKE.

This attitude by others sometimes pushes "good-looking people" into looking like they don't have compassion for others or any depth of personality. Some good-looking people feel alone and isolated because other envy them. Not that I ever had this problem with my ugly mug.

WP 2007 - 08 said...

Hi Keshi

Just a quick comment.

I think as one gets older one tends to appreciate inner beauty more. Although, outward beauty stills plays a part.

Bev

fingers said...

I prefer to judge a book by its weight rather than its cover.
I pick it up and if it feels to heavy I put it back and get something lighter.
Same system with chicks...

Keshi said...

haha Paratrooper r ya showing my pics to all ur Army buddies? Im scared of em! :(



**it looked as if i was staring for 15-20 mins at Gerard Butler's BONER....


ROFL! So u must be labelled 'gay' now?


*HUGZ* I miss ur writing..ur lovely deep posts...when r u gonna blog again? :( dun tell me it's after World War III!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Arv!

Yes its all abt the INDIVIDUALITY...not abt gender/looks/color/race etc etc.

most ppl always forget that and I cant stand Stereotyping.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Sameera!


**Beauty is truth and truth beauty

so 'true' and so 'beautiful' :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Gunj!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

I agree Priya, being jealous of someone's good looks is natural but to deny that person is beautiful and to label em as shallow w.o. even knowing them is way too stubborn :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Chakoli if u say its gonna be hard to alter it, how r u even gonna give another beautiful person (lookswise) a chance to show u who they r? cos u hv already made up ur mind abt not changing.

Its more like saying all Indians r like this, all Africans r like that, all women r like this, all men r like that, all whites r like this, all muslims r like that etc etc.


Its called STEREOTYPING. And if ur one of them, then yeah its something that NEED TO CHANGE.

:)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Aphrodite!

yes SMM put that song up here lol too funny!


**...i so agree that beauty can be skin deep or just surface- deep

I know wut u mean :)

And tnxx hun!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Stony!

haha so u think men r jealous of me admiring Becks n John? o cmon its not like Im gonna marry these already-married men is it. LOL! Its just a crush..a lil crush ya know :)



**But what is attractiveness? Some people find simplicity attractive. The attractiveness-quotient of something is different to different persons. Also what looks attractive today may not look attractive tommorrow.


I agree. It varies from person to person and it may change tomorrow. Thats also my point...why JUDGE others from wut YOU find attractive? I mean, coconut oiled hair may be one man's attractive feature..but it may not be so for John Abraham lol!


*HUGZ* n ty! :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Maddy HUGS!

hey dun worry abt not being able to 'keep up' with this Speedy Gonzales lol!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Vish 'LOL' for wut?? :)

Keshi.

krystyna said...

Hi Keshi,
you are beautiful inside, your soul is beautiful and it is the most important.
And you look beautiful outside too,
because your soul is beautiful, you love people. In your heart is love.

You know, this night I had a dream. You visited me. You looked very beautiful and we talk and talk. In my native language.

Have a wonderful day!

SaffronSaris said...

Sour grapes?
Really, I think there's no need to be apologetic for being above-average looking. And plastic surgery takes great courage too.
No matter how much we want to believe that looks don't matter, they do. Just look at the latest hooha from the Beijing Olympics. The original singer was deemed not attractive enough and another little girl replaced her at the Bird's Nest, lip-synching.
Reality hurts, but pretending it is otherwise doesn't make it go away.

Keshi said...

yes Priya..my mum always says that too.

That if ur beautiful inside, it'll show thru ur face.


:)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Phoenix!


**did you know you have very expressive eyes?? :) i really like them you know


aww...alot of ppl say that. mebbe cos Im expressive by nature...cos I cant keep anything in my heart...I just say it. lol that sometimes gets me in trouble too.


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

enchanted illusionz said...

Worse, some people classify an outgoing, outspoken, hot-men appreciating, night-clubbing, fashionable, photo-taking, extremely friendly girl who lives in a 'White' land as a 'bad' girl. They think such girls are easy, cheap, dirty, unfit for marriage, mentally ill, narcissistic, not someone their mothers would like *rolling eyes, do I care momma's boy? NO!*, highly promiscuous etc etc.
i really cant believe that gals are still put into situations dat require us 2 giv dis kinda talk. and mama's boys are really a pain in de ass, they don realise dat dey hav a mom & dat dey luv her , until its too late. beware when u hear mama being mentioned as an excuse , dos ppl end up fooling mama & you & me too.
& abt men's jealousy , he he , i hav felt de same & its ridiculous , toh men are expected not 2 be jealous , not 2 gossip etc , dey do it better tan us. u can be proud of dat skill of urs guys!
nice post keshi!!
if som1 hs both inner beauty & outer beauty , its ll de more better & not at all an impossiblty.
& you honey hav it both & neva once did it cross my mind dat u r narcissistic. nw wld dat me i wld b branded 1 too by whosoever is the authority. lol!
take care & yeah m doing gud too..

Keshi said...

ty Aneesh!

**Everything that glitters is not gold

I agree.




** When we are suddenly overwhelmed with wealth and fame, who knows what we do? To preach and blame someone is easy, but to practice, it's really tough!


Spot on Aneesh! Its so easy to TALK the TALK but its so very hard to WALK the TALK :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Jigyasa WC to my world n tnxx for the sweet encouragement! :)

Keshi.

Invincible said...

First of all, one should never generalize anything.
So statements like "But it seems most men can't appreciate another good-looking bloke without throwing shit on his face just so that they can feel good about themselves. It's really sad you know." or " I just figured out that women are not the real jealous kind, it's men!" would not get my buy in. The latter sounded like a big new world revelation. Also, those who comment on this blog may not be 'representatives of the general population' to make such statements. So i will let them go.

Now, if u see showbiz industry, most of the ppl, go great limits just to look good. They do botox, facelifts, nosework, breast enhancements, take steroids, or go on really crap diets, sometimes go feeding banned substances and God knows what else. Why - so they great perfect looks. And believe me, these ppl aren't too few and wouldn't u call them shallow or fakers ? I think the general sentiment of public over the years of going through such cases (and counting) has turned a little negative towards showbiz industry. And there are always 'gossip channels and magazines' specially dedicated to fish in the gutter and feed to this perception.

Personally, i am not a bad looking guy but i am not a hunkster. I always appreciate ppl with great bodies (than looks) cos ur body is ur biggest treasure and if u can take care of it, you deserve to get credit. And i always confront ppl who belittle hot chicks as b**ches or good looking guys as playboys. I mean, come on they have earned their bodies. And every good looking person can be as sensitive and caring and modest as they can be. But then why do i see most of the hunks turning out to be insensitive cheapos on ur blog ?
Again, i never try to compartmentalize ppl based on any one quality and i never felt good looking ppl are better as a person (or worse) than not-so ppl.

Amen :-) !!

Keshi said...

ty Ankur!


**its not necessary that all good looking man are bad... not at all, but ya agreeing with others... they use their looks most of the times, and use their brains less!!



so wut if they do that Ankur? They've got the looks that can be used to gain wut THEY want..so wuts wrong with that?



Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Nadine!


**People are who they are and we should learn to accept others where they are at


Amen!


yes..its not a crime to be born beautiful and it's certainly should not be a reason to poke fun at!


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

I totally agree Amy n tnxx!


** sometimes the most shallow people are the not so good looking people who think they are so good looking that they hold a right to size up people.


lol so true!


ppl r too quick to judge a beautiful/famous person..but they fail to look at they themselves that r mangled in I, ME, MYSELF!


Sometimes I feel it's better to be obsessed abt ur looks than being up urself all the time, poiting fingers at others. Dun u think Amy? lol!


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Anu!

ur right...media adds an element of 'NASTYNESS' to beautiful ppl. And its not always true.


** The images shown of school cheerleaders or fashion models sway the thinking that if your pretty , your nasty..


so true! its like if ur pretty, ur mean..or u gotta be mean to be pretty. it sucks!

:)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Tejas n u too. Ur great just the way u r.



**But opinion differs from person to person and so we shud not worry abt all.


I know. But it irks me when ppl try to act like they r flawless and that everyone should live according to their BELIEFS. :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Raysh!


**LOTS of good looking ppl are rather genuine and bright.


I agree. And some ppl who r not so good-looking love to tease good-looking ppl just for the heck of it. When in real, good-looking ppl too hv the same abilities n skills as any other person wud hv.




**ur john, for example, is one of the most modest celebs i've met. mallika sherawat, contrary to general opinion, is a rather bright individual in my opinion.


Exactly! And even to use the GOOD LOOKS they have to become FAMOUS n appreciated, there's got to be some BRAINS. If a person is just good-looking, it isnt enough to get far in life. One needs brains too.



Keshi.

Hemanth Potluri said...

care to the other person is imp ..love show for wat we r is imp ...stading by the side is imp...beauty without these is nothin then a doll without heart...

i am not a cute guy in this world i know that that does not mean i dont care anyone..there r some who like me by heart not by beauty and i am happy for that.


urs..hemu..

Shionge said...

To me, looks would 'win' over the others especially during interview which is sad ;(

I have 'witnessed' alot of cases when some of the bosses in my organisation conducted interviews and all things being equal though, the one with the looks get the job.

Keshi said...

ty Sol!


**I don't think anyone in our grandparent's age (at least amongst Indians) went around wearing minis and sleeveless shirts and yet many of them turned out to be not-so-nice people who are hardly missed when they die!


very well-said there!

There were equally viscious ppl back then too irrespective of wut they wore and did.




**And think about Sita (from Ramayan). The outfits that women wore than were soooo seductive and yet we do not say anything about that


omg this is so true! Good point Sol. And all ppl can say abt such seductively clad women is that they were soooo faithful to their men and so beautiful! *rolling eyes*

Talk abt double standards!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Mav!



****well..im sure my comments in the last post played a role in this post coming up...dont know how significant..but im sure they did...


Ur comments in the last post? U didnt say ANYTHING, did u? I mean u said NO COMMENTS for that post. :) so how come u thought this post was abt something that u didnt even comment on?




**newaz...i didnt comment..bcos generally dont comment on dudes..u ld ve seen that on my blog/my comments..


why dun u comment abt dudes?



**and i dnt judge a book by its cover...ever

good to know that Mav :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Mirage :)



**Good looks r soothing for eyes,but not necessarily reliable.


but doesnt that apply to simple-looking ppl too? I mean simple looks r not necessarily RELIABLE too. :)

Point it, LOOKS good/bad dun directly link to personality.



**A not-so-good looking person can be everyone's favorite,if he/she can smile from deep within the heart,right?


so can a beautiful person be everyone's fav is their heart is good.


Its just that it irks me when ppl always seem to give chance to simple-looking ppl just cos they APPEAR genuine. I say its prejudice.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Amit AMEN to ur comment!

atleast one man ADMITS it that 'most' men dun compliment another :)


**I mean,take my example-as I've said earlier on my blog- when I was putting on weight,people would say'oh,you've put on weight''oh,have you stopped walking?'. I lost 10 kgs+ and look fit as ever,and,they ask'have you been ill?



very good example Amit! Its just they dun wanna say something nice abt u, and the reason is JEALOUSY. Nothing else.


Girls r also like that. Some dun give out compliments but love receiving em. But atleast I hv seen MORE women complimenting agood-looking chick than MORE men wud compliment a food-looking man. And thats what I was talking abt :)

Cos my last post is living proof to it. Had I put some pics of hot women, all the guys wud hv drooled on em and commented abt em. But since it was abt hot men, NO GUY SAID ANYTHING GOOD ABT ANY OF THOSE CELEBRITIES...except one or 2 guys. And that was so very shocking to me!



**he's just lucky it went well'..

exactly wut some guys said abt the winners in the last post!

no guy congratulated those who won (u, Prakhar and Deepz)..instead they said u just got LUKCY!!!


Whereas some girls were happy to seem Men winning in that post and congratulated u all too.


Basically it's not abt WINNING in my posts..after all its no big deal...just Keshi's silly qns and trophy posts :) And who cares abt em.

But, its imp to recognise ppl's skills etc and compliment them w.o. feeling jealous abt it. Thats what I wanted to say. If someone did well in anything, I'd congratulate em instead of telling them they just got lucky or it is a coincidence.


And u did well, once again! HUGZ Amit!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Well-said Ria!


** I dont understand y do ppl dislike appreciating someone's beauty. I m confident of who i m and i dont mind is praising some other person or admiring tht person


Exactly my point! If ur confident abt who u r, then there should be no probs at all when it comes to complimenting another.

U hv often seen (even in Blogville), some ppl dun like to compliment another. Its really sad.

I believe in giving credit where it belongs!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Akanksha :)



**This is utter confusion...
"Dont judge a book by its cover"
And
"First Impression is the last impression"
I still dont know which one is correct!



Whoever said that First impression is the last impression is wrong. :) FIRST impressions does matter but it never is the LAST impression.


In the end, its upto each person to delve deeper to get to know someone or live with the first impression.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

No wurries Amit ;-)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Zubin!



***Sigh* This is like the fourth or fifth.."We hate men"...post that I have read in the last two weeks..!


WUT? When did I say WE HATE MEN? Wut r u talking abt Zubin? Mebbe it's how u like to INTERPRET my posts. Well lets see, in the last 2 weeks, I have written abt various topics, 1 of which was abt MEN, yes. And u exaggerate that to 4. Is it my fault? I think not. :) Besides, I LOVE MEN..and my Beckham post was abt how much I love men. So why didnt u pick that post to see the other side of me? Cos this is the way u wanted to INTERPRET Keshi as..someone who HATES MEN. Then again, just cos u interpreted it that way, that doesnt make me that. :)





**For those who think Beckham is a show off..go check out his half field goal video and his so perfect corner 'bent' kicks..he captained an international country..not for his looks..


Spot on! just cos he looks good, ppl fail to see recognise his great skills and contribution to other areas in life.




**maybe the criticism he attracts is for his outrageous lifestyle and his alleged 'cheating on his wife'(on various occasions)...


Thats his PERSONAL life and we hv no right to qn that! Let his wife handle that. How many non-celebrity men r total bastards? ALOT. But the difference is their lives and every move isnt on papers!




**Nothing wrong with flaunting btw... whats the use of a well toned body if we can't show it off.
The day I get my six pack, I am throwing all my shirts out.. :d

lol good for ya!




**The same way its ridiculously hurting to generalize things against all guys..(being jealous of hot ppl)...


did i say ALL guys? I give up!






**If a few females had given same comments instead of guys...would you have gone all guns blazing against the whole women community..? But because they were all guys..you go all against the men..


yes..I'd hv pointed it out.

Its just that I hv noticed in my 4yrs of blogging, MOST (not ALL) guys dun appreciate another goodlooking bloke. ITS A FACT. But I put some pretty chicks on a post, BOTH girls and boys appreciate em. Why may that be??





**To say the least, I am a bit disappointing...and really tired of facing all the undeserved wrath.
Why is it always about men/women and not about people all together...? :(


Who posted this FOR YOU Zubin? And I didnt say its ALL men did I? MOST isnt ALL. So u take it upon urself and blame me. Well Im disappointed too!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

**but not on the ALL men are J thing


READ the post properly before u comment Zubin!


Here is that line in the post, AGAIN especially for u:



**But it seems MOST men can't appreciate another good-looking bloke without throwing shit on his face just so that they can feel good about themselves



MOST isnt ALL.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Mia!

I still cant get to ur blog...I'll try from a link in another blog. ok? tnxx n HUGS!



**but yesh i havent really seen any man comlimenting another man...


haha so true! And it seems some men cant even digest the fact that they r like that. *rolling eyes*



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey BB :)


**But one reason its hard for guys to not feel threaten by other guys is simple million year old genetic programming and the competition for mates to reproduce.


AMEN! Atleast 1 guy admitted it w.o. whining abt it. And that makes u a real man BB. :)


And ur right, MOST men dun like doin it cos they r TERRITORIAL. And its all in the GENES, yes. ty for that BB!





**This attitude by others sometimes pushes "good-looking people" into looking like they don't have compassion for others or any depth of personality. Some good-looking people feel alone and isolated because other envy them.


I agree! Some ppl make u feel like ur LESS of a person just cos ur beautiful!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Bev n ur spot on!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha Fingers ur crazy!


Wut if it weighs too light? lol!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Krys same goes to u! Truly beautiful ppl recognise other beautiful ppl. And u stand a great example for it. HUGS!




**You know, this night I had a dream. You visited me. You looked very beautiful and we talk and talk. In my native language.


omg really? wow! :) Atleast in ur dreams we hv met and spoken in ur language too WOWWW! So exciting to even think abt it hehehe.


*MWAH* I hope u come in my dreams too!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Saffy!

Sour Grapes it is! Well-said.


** And plastic surgery takes great courage too.

lol I cracked up at that line!




**No matter how much we want to believe that looks don't matter, they do.


So true. Its like some ppl r in total DENIAL.


I was gonna mention that Beijing story in this post Saffy! strange how u thought abt it too :)

But later on, I decided not to put it in this post cos it involves 2 lil kids. I will write abt it in another post.


tnxx hun HUGS!

Keshi.

The Phosgene Kid said...

Got all the bases covered, I am simple and homely.

Keshi said...

aww ty Ecnchanted HUGS! :)


I hv met a couple of Momma's boys..and later they proved their Daddy's boys too! Cos all they ever talked abt is their dad's money, assets etc etc.



**toh men are expected not 2 be jealous , not 2 gossip etc , dey do it better tan us

soo sooo true! They always say women gossip and r botchy blah blah blah....but just look at their SILENCE when a goodlooking man is appreciated lol! That silence itself peaks alot and they dun even realise that!


I thing I hate is a man who is JEALOUS. Atleast women r KNOWN to be that so we r ok. But when a man is J, its so UNMANLY.





**& you honey hav it both & neva once did it cross my mind dat u r narcissistic. nw wld dat me i wld b branded 1 too by whosoever is the authority


haha good one girl! even if Im narcissistic, I dunno how that bothers them? :)


tnxx n HUGS!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty v000nie!



**First of all, one should never generalize anything.... ....would not get my buy in.


I agree...but did u read the line where I said its MOST men? MOST is not ALL v000nie!! So I didnt GENERALISE at all.



**The latter sounded like a big new world revelation.

??



**Also, those who comment on this blog may not be 'representatives of the general population' to make such statements. So i will let them go.


I know that! Did I use the words GENERALLY or ALL at all? Altho ALL men on this Earth dun come to my blog, I hv observed this trend in the men who come to my blog...and MOST of em dun appreciate another goodlooking guy. Its MY observation v000nie. And in MY blog, I can only write abt MY experiences...not EVERY other person's!




**Now, if u see showbiz industry, most of the ppl, go great limits just to look good. They do botox, facelifts, nosework, breast enhancements, take steroids, or go on really crap diets, sometimes go feeding banned substances and God knows what else.


whooaaaaaaaaa wait, hold ur horses! Look who's GENERALISING now? :) Surely u know that only a few insecure ppl do that and thats not ONLY celebrities...non-celebrities go for plastic surgery too! This has nothing to do with CELEBRITIES..it's to do with the INDIVIDUAL.




**Why - so they great perfect looks. And believe me, these ppl aren't too few and wouldn't u call them shallow or fakers ?


yes I wud...but I wont label a goodlooking person as SHALLOW. Thats the point of the post..not abt ppl who do plastic surgery!




**And there are always 'gossip channels and magazines' specially dedicated to fish in the gutter and feed to this perception.


And thats what I was talking abt. I was just asking ppl NOT to judge EVERY celebirty/goodlooking person under the light of that same PERCEPTION.




**Personally, i am not a bad looking guy but i am not a hunkster. I always appreciate ppl with great bodies (than looks) cos ur body is ur biggest treasure and if u can take care of it, you deserve to get credit.


I agree.




**And i always confront ppl who belittle hot chicks as b**ches or good looking guys as playboys. I mean, come on they have earned their bodies. And every good looking person can be as sensitive and caring and modest as they can be.


Thats what I was talking abt too. :)



**But then why do i see most of the hunks turning out to be insensitive cheapos on ur blog ?

MOST of the HUNKS? Like who?



**Again, i never try to compartmentalize ppl based on any one quality and i never felt good looking ppl are better as a person (or worse) than not-so ppl.


good on ya v000nie!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Hemanth!

I agree...beauty is not just abt looks.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Sadly Shionge, thats a fact in many companies.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Phoso..

and u forgot one more thing.


ur truly beautiful!


Keshi.

Hemanth Potluri said...

hey keshi forgot to say i blogged...

urs..hemu..

Hemanth Potluri said...

hahaha depend on lot of gals...i think guys dont like my blog much ..:(...some do come some even comment i am the worst of all bloggers...heheh lol...so even if i put their name they try to get me down so dint think of puting thier name ..and mostly gals will be true for wat they meant ...so that's the reason put their names :)....lol..

urs..hemu..

Keshi said...

hehe I know Hemanth. opposites attract :)


Anyways, I was only telling ya not to depend too much on others (girls or boys) to kick back into a positive mood. U know wut I mean na? :) Cos in the end, it's in YOUR hands to keep YOURSELF happy.


And ignore those idiots who make judgements abt u and ur blog. Let em get bored with themselves lol!


Keshi.

carolinagal said...

Good post Keshi. I totally understand what you mean.

LOL@ Tarzan undies

carolinagal said...

Hey Samby
Where are you?

Keshi said...

CG tnxx hun! :)

Samby is IN TRAINING...to become a hot Paratrooper ;-)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

wutever he does, CG lets hope he dun take his shirt off!


cos I'll faint!

Keshi.

Coco said...

hello keshi,
i hope you are well...
i am "sort of" back to blogville.
but things are better, thank god!

i've missed my you, my friend : )

blessings

stony said...

* haha so u think men r jealous of me admiring Becks n John? o cmon its not like Im gonna marry these already-married men is it. LOL! Its just a crush..a lil crush ya know :)

But they become your benchmark. This reduces prospects of the guys trying to get close to you :)
So Becks n John must be criticised.

Keshi said...

I missed u too Coco!!!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Stony hows it goin? :)


**But they become your benchmark. This reduces prospects of the guys trying to get close to you :)
So Becks n John must be criticised


omg ur an expert in this arent ya! lol that was spot on!


So d u feel jealous abt Becks n John too? ;-)



Keshi.

Zubin said...

oh..well..when did I say I read all 4,5 posts on your blog..??!! :o
I read other blogs as well..! :)I am yet to seem a guy's blog writing a post against women..but I have seen a lot of female bloggers writing against men..oh I mean SOME/MOST men..!! :)

*this is the way u wanted to INTERPRET Keshi as..someone who HATES MEN. Then again, just cos u interpreted it that way, that doesnt make me that*

One mere incident or one non-agreeable post is not enough for me to make a perception about someone...It takes more than that. I know it doesn't make you that, I know you are not that..and why in the hell do you think I WANT to INTERPRET you like that..? :O
that hurt...! :'(

*Thats his PERSONAL life and we hv no right to qn that!*

I know its his personal life but how exactly do we get to know that a person is shallow or not..?? Based on their on-field behavior..?
I am not suggesting that David is a shallow person, coz for me to perceive someone I have to know him or her personally. but sadly that's not the case with most people. I only gave that reasoning to suggest that this MAY be the reason behind all THOSE MEN who are against them..for the record..I am not.. :)
David was my fav player..b4 I saw Henry playing..!

You din't say all guys..but for me MOST is as good as ALL..!!

*Its just that I hv noticed in my 4yrs of blogging, MOST (not ALL) guys dun appreciate another goodlooking bloke. ITS A FACT. But I put some pretty chicks on a post, BOTH girls and boys appreciate em. Why may that be??*

I am new to blogging..but my real life experiences have been different..I have rarely seen girls appreciating other girls (sonner or later they start saying things that make me feel that they are J)...and as I said earlier..most of us..(the people I know or hang out with)...always appreciate a good looking person(guy/girl)...I know very few GUYS...who are J of someone's looks..!!..may be about other things but NOT LOOKS.

but even then, I can't generalize this as a rule..maybe its just the set of people that I know..maybe the girls that I don't know are different..!

*Who posted this FOR YOU Zubin? And I didnt say its ALL men did I? MOST isnt ALL. So u take it upon urself and blame me. Well Im disappointed too!*

That's harsh..Didn't you posted it for your all reader?? I din't BLAME you for anything..!!
Stop making me feel bad..would you..! :( :'(

and..my point is..(and has always been)..why do we have to put it like.. men vs. women..or men are but women aren't..and vice versa..?
why this groupism..? I hate sexism..intentional or unintentional..!!

*I just figured out that women are not the real jealous kind, it's men!*

This is the generalization I am talking about..! Do you notice 'SOME/MOST' before men or women..?


I don't want to get into a gender war..I don't have the heart to debate with someone that I really like. So I would put a halt to this.

I am really sorry if I hurt your feelings in any manner.

Tk Cr..
Zub

Invincible said...

when u say "most men" that means assuming 50-50 distribution of sexes, and 7 billion world population, that is most men of 3.5 billion men and that must be atleast more than 1/2 of them, so like 2 billion men. That is way too much to generalize.
Now let's say 100 ppl visit this blog daily, out of which 50 are men (same rule), then i think u got this 'notion of jealosy' from 10 or max 20 of them. Putting 2 billion men on line from 20 men is way too high generalization. That's like 1:100,000,000 ratio.

And when i said 'only showbiz industry' how did that become generalization, when we know that they really get all those procedures done, and go through crappy diets etc.

The latter sentence was "I just figured out that women are not the real jealous kind, it's men!"
you also figured the whole men population out based on the visitors of this blog (again not comments of all of them, only some of them).
You call good looking ppl knights. Some may call u shallow as ur idea of a knight is purely based on looks. That may be stupid but that doesn't look too far fetched.

Anyways .. i've put across my views about looks already.
take care !

Keshi said...

hey Zubin :)


**well..when did I say I read all 4,5 posts on your blog..??!!


ok this is wut u said in ur prev comment:


**This is like the fourth or fifth.."We hate men"...post that I have read in the last two weeks..!

??


I never said I HATE MEN. In every post that I write abt men, it's abt ppl I hv met. That doesnt mean YOU, or some other man here is also like them. So dun take it upon urself Zubin and feel so bitter abt my posts!




**I am yet to seem a guy's blog writing a post against women..but I have seen a lot of female bloggers writing against men..


why may that be? maybe MOST guys hv no issues with MOST women they meet? :) And EXPRESSING is also inherent to women more than it is to men. So women must be writing alot more than men do, abt r'ships etc.




**and why in the hell do you think I WANT to INTERPRET you like that..?


cos never in any of my posts did i write 'I HATE MEN'/'WE HATE MEN'...but in ur first comment u said this:


**This is like the fourth or fifth.."We hate men"...post that I have read in the last two weeks



So thats why I thought that this must be the way u INTERPRET my posts and me. As simple as that.




**that hurt...!

that hurt YOU? how d u think I felt when u interpreted my posts to be WE HATE MEN kinds posts? U think I felt good? :)





** MAY be the reason behind all THOSE MEN who are against them..for the record..I am not


Well Im glad to hear that. And no one here said that YOU were one of those men who hate goodlooking men. Just that it wud hv been nicer to hear more abt Bekham's greatness from u in my Beckham post..not here!




**.Didn't you posted it for your all reader?? I din't BLAME you for anything..!!
Stop making me feel bad..would you


lol I didnt mean that my post was not for YOU to read. I mean I didnt see YOU as one of those jealous men. So stop feeling bad over nothing. HUGS!




**why do we have to put it like.. men vs. women..or men are but women aren't..and vice versa..?
why this groupism..? I hate sexism..intentional or unintentional..!!


for godssakes this is not Sexism! wutever it is, MEN and WOMEN r different. Its a fact. And talking abt those differences dun make me or anyone else Sexist. Sexism is to discriminate ppl based on Gender. I hope I didnt do that here!





**This is the generalization I am talking about..! Do you notice 'SOME/MOST' before men or women..?


yes! straight after that line there's the MOST line, which u conveniently ignored.



Im not fighting with anyone. I like to debate, talk abt things w.o. being biased. And I guess friends should be able to do that w.o. breaking up. Kapish? :)


No worries at all and tnxx Zubin!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy v000nie!

Abt ur number of men in the whole world...Im not even going there. Cos I did NOT say ALL THE MEN in the world r jealous. So I dun wanna drag myself into that debate again. I rest my case here.



**You call good looking ppl knights. Some may call u shallow as ur idea of a knight is purely based on looks. That may be stupid but that doesn't look too far fetched.


hahahaha I cant believe u bought that so beautifullly. The KNIGHT post and the questions abt WHAT/WHO IS A REAL KNIGHT was actually to get ppl to express wut they think abt it. My celebrity selections for my Knights was purely for FUN v000nie. And u already imagined me to be shallow just cos u didnt read the comment section, where I said alot abt wut a real Knight is..and that I was testing ppl to see if they can see thru my humor in that post etc.


Anyways, call me shallow, hunk-loving idiot, stupid, wutever...Im not gonna change. :) This is me. Love me or hate me for who I am, not for something who Im not.


tnxx v000nie!

Keshi.

Invincible said...

come on i am not calling you shallow !! I know you better than one post on this blog.
i was just saying it can be. If someone can interpret comments on this blog and make worldly wise statements based only on that, then God save them.
Other than those generalizations, i am in perfect agreement with what you said (as said before).

Keshi said...

no worries n tnxx @ v000nie!

Keshi.

Ankur said...

**They've got the looks that can be used to gain wut THEY want..so wuts wrong with that?

Its wrong, completely!!
You should not use anything u have as an advantage, its the same as someone who has lot of money and he can buy girls to have sex with, is it fair? to ruin someones life, coz, he has got the money to gain wut he wants... isnt this wat u said???

Dawn....सेहर said...

Hey did you cut your hair? You look beautiful in that outfit and the short hair look too ;)
Cheers dear

Keshi said...

hey Ankur!


**Its wrong, completely!!
You should not use anything u have as an advantage, its the same as someone who has lot of money and he can buy girls to have sex with, is it fair? to ruin someones life, coz, he has got the money to gain wut he wants... isnt this wat u said???


who said that its GOOD to USE looks to RUIN someone? All I said was that there's nothing wrong with USING LOOKS to gain wut ppl want, be it career or something else. And yes, as long as it doesnt hurt someone else!

Why do ppl always think that USING looks is so wrong, when we are all USING something that we hv been gifted with to get wut we want, be it skills etc?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Dawny HUGS! :)

nah I didnt cut my hair...just my hair is folded in a way that it looks short...in that pic hehe..

actually my hair is very long now!!!

Keshi.