Wednesday, January 4

Calling Mr.Right...Hearing Mr.Wrong!

The men I meet, boy oh boy! How come all the other girls have cool guys as their boyfreinds and I somehow get attracted to jerks? Like Linny's latest post stated, I strongly believe I have genes that get me attracted to jerks/losers. Yep let's blame it on the genes. At the beginning he's really cool and very interesting to hang around with. But very soon he'll demonstrate the fact that my genes wont and don't change - they have got me attracted to just another jerk. Trrrrrrring trrrrrrring...woooooooosh - out the door!

Well, what is it that makes you get attracted to someone initially? For me t's the looks...no matter what people say, looks are important for first impressions. I like a guy to be smartly and neatly dressed (not overly neat cos I really would like him to be straight..), I would want him to be decently clean (not stinky as hell that would make me wanna run 871 miles - boy that would be good for my waisteline though..), I would want him to have a cute and honest smile (not a fake one just to find someone to do his laundry or to listen to his snores..) and I would want him to have some sex appeal (now that's really important isnt it?). Well all of these factors are there in most of the guys I meet, but sooner or later he would show that he's either a Momma's boy or Mr.Wrong from Dumbdudeland or jealous and selfish Mr.Know-it-all or Prince Not-so-charming-with-no-manners or Mr.Im-too-simple-and-I-love-Scratching, or Chain-smoking gingivitis speciman or an About-to-become-murder-victim - btw Im the murderer. That don't impress me much..ah ah ahhh...lol! They say love is blind but you certainly can't be blind to all of that can you?

Maybe Im quite unlucky in the Romance Department cos no matter how romantic or what-not I can be, the guy ends up being a jerk. You may think I'm the real loser - well in a way yes cos I don't seem to find my man so easily...but Im not the one who's not impressing them - cos while they are highly impressed with me, they never impress me. Not that I'm playing hard-to-get either, they just simply turn me off. The fact that he's good-looking, has a zillion dollars in his bank, has a new convertible Porche or that he has a posh house with a pool and spa don't impress me - please get real crazy man! Somehow I must admit that I did know few great guys for a while, and that's just before they turned jerky. Yeah, so where are all the great guys? They say either they are married or are gay, so then when is it my turn to bump into my man or is it that he has already turned gay? Please don't say 'Keshi your man will come along at the right time'...like I said before, either he's on a sleeping pill overdose (most probably dead by now) or he wasnt born at all. And please don't say 'Keshi there is a soul mate for everyone and he will come on horseback just for you'...either his horse is brain-dead that it doesnt know how to get here or he's gone somewhere else and happily married, with kids going to kindy by now - oh I give up!

A close friend asked me if I think we are able to be happy without having a partner...my answer is YES...I'm quite happy right now, although it would be good if a man existed in my life. But That's not the only Happiness in life..being happy is totally upto you...it doesnt come from any external source...it's within you and happiness is what you define it to be, and it's a constant vigil one must maintain. But I sure would like to get into a beautiful bridal dress and take nice romantic photos even if there's no marriage after that lol! And yeah...they say Men are from Mars...my man sure is still in Mars not knowing where Earth is - poor guy. Didnt I say I have some special genes that attract me to Martians, well that's why he's still there. What about you, what initial qualities impress you and how easily do they all fall apart after a while? And do you honestly think a Mr./Miss.Right exists or we just have to mould one out of a Mr./Miss.Wrong no matter how pathetic they initially are?

182 Cranium Signets:

UD said...

keshi, u will find one soon.

UD said...

me first.

Pele said...

Helloa! Firstly, Greetings for the New Year...Hope you have a good one. :-)

Nice post. Now for the answers you seek:

1. Initial qualities: hmmm, I'd also place looks on the top. We got to agree that it does matter. Don't have to be Angelina Jolie or Aishwarya Rai...but a thing of beauty is a joy forever! :-) I also look for how well she speaks / communicates...How painful it'd be to end up with someone who is not schooled in the business of communication! ;) And then comes sense of humour - that's a definite attraction point. The girl got to make me laugh. From inside. :)

2. Not too sure about Mr/Ms Right simply cause we love and we fail and we love again...If you are damn lucky, you hit it first time on, but if not...well, I never give up. After all, the search is exciting too, isn't it? ;)

Take care...

Kerry said...

keshiiiiiiii giiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrl! i am back babe!!!!!!!!! mauhz!!!!!! i have missed you sooooooooooooo much!!!!!!!!!

*reads your post*

me thinks i am back just in time! *hugggsss* are you ready to party girlie?! *smiles* its time to welcome in 2006!!!! hell yeah!!!! brings out the spot light-shines it on you! a star is born!! muahz!

Kerry said...

where are you doll? *tears* has someone been stalking you?! your format has changed... *sigh* i miss yeah girlie.

xoxo

your bodacious irish lassie,

kerry

Kavitha said...

A close friend asked me if I think we are able to be happy without having a partner...my answer is YES...I'm quite happy right now, although it would be good if a man existed in my life. But That's not the only Happiness in life..being happy is totally upto you...it doesnt come from any external source...it's within you and happiness is what you define it to be, and it's a constant vigil one must maintain.


I completely agree with you keshi...happiness is a world you create around you and decorate it with the things you value most in life...
btw....nice article...was real fun to read..:)

Kavitha

Caraf said...

can it be
can it be

im the first one here today!

holy crap

anyways

i get attracted to guys with warm voices

;)

Caraf said...

awww

:(

im obviously somewhere after the 100th post

damn

KESHI :|

and yeah

hey all the guys in the world are jerks

the exceptions are genetically modified mutations from other planets

:D

(im trying to be comforting here and its going all wrong :P)

saby said...

why do u need a man?
i dont need a man

saby said...

Keshi i have bad news
the odds of finding a man are very low

here are the stats?

50% of the men are already married or engaged
(u Sita Savitris wont even kiss on the first date so he moves on)

20% of the men marry their childhood sweethearts

10% are creeps like me

10% dont work, they are looking for a working girl

5% are only looking for a lay

4% are gay

3% want to marry their mamas

2% have lousy toilet manners (wont lift the seat when they pee)

1% are really good guys, but they are mouses
and u cant stand mouses

Take my advice
become a nun




at least u will get laid by the catlik padres

Helen said...

Hi! I'll say just what you said you didn't want anyone to say, but I'm sure there is someone out there for everyone! I think you end up meeting someone when you've stoped looking and when you least expect it. Fingers crossed! Helen

saby said...

the americans go for indian girls and Sri Lankans
but the marriages here last only for 3 years, give or take 3 days

the french guys are mostly gay

the Norwegian guys go for Japanese

the Japanese guys are all crazy for the japanes girl who visits here

the britishers have a stiff upper lip, rest all is limp

the Indians chew paan and spit all over the place
when they are not chewing paan, they are digging their nose
indian guys are lousy lovers- no experience
the only time they been inside a wooman is in the Staue of Liberty
(Pssst! Goans are an exception)



and the bad news is dat evry 5 th guy on dis planet is an indian

visithra said...

Heheh i attract short guys - who only reach my shoulders - i feel so bad saying ops bye but my shoulders??

Im also picky not in looks but in behaviour - must be fun must be an intelectual but not too geeky - yeah we're doomed ;p

I think for that 1 right guy u are too meet million bad ones - so go out more meet more and ull get nearer to the 1 elusive one ;p

Lindsey said...

I agree that we can be perfectly happy while being single. I think the only thing I sometimes miss is the companionship. The cuddling. You know, all that fun stuff.

By the way, do you know someone named Cappy? He left some very rude comments about you on my blog.

Vivek Panda said...

i'm the first !! woooohoooo muah muah muuuuuah

Vivek Panda said...

wooooooohoooooooooo i'm the first !!!

Vivek Panda said...

hello keshi!! in my blog did u see the pic of me with my girl? did u like the pic? whatddya think about her? i'm so excited to hear from you !!

muaaaaah and hugzz,
love ,
vivek

Loki said...

hey keshi,
thanks for cheerin me up...
you have a great writing style, and I sincerely hope you do find a Mr Right. I've been through some Miss Takes, Miss Understandings, Miss Chiefs (but fortunately no Miss Demenours)and its heartening to see this eternal struggle is happening on both sides of the gender. I tend to write all this out in a plodding poetic mess on my blog. Hope you have a great new year!

MS said...

Hi Keshi!!

Thanks 4 your comments @ my blog...
Hey BTW, i used 2 wonder why people were so over the top of the world, when they used to be the first to post a comment on someone's blog....but now I know the reason as am also feeling the same :)

Hey...first n foremost...I was really really surprised 2 know that U'd planned to quit blogging from this new year....I am sure I did not read that right!! Bcoz all of us around here do not want 2 lose such a gr8 buddy....CERTAINLY NOT!!...I mean I jus can't imagine a blog world without Keshi...N that's coming straight from my heart....I was, am and will forever b very inspired 2 read your beautiful posts out here...

So dear..please please don't do this injustice to all of us out here...ok!! Well I know 4 sure that even if you've some pre-occupations, you'll surely find time 4 your friends here....N you've also clearly reflected that in your last post, as 2 how much u missed ur pals here :)

So after a happy n gr8 start to your blogging year 2006, V all wish n hope that Keshi continues to fill our lives too with joy in this new year with her lovely posts!! Keep it going mate!!

Cheers!!
MS

desperado said...

i think there is no perfect match per say.
The two people make it perfect..love means knowing ur partner's weakness and faults but still loving them for tht and helping them to overcome tht..nobody likes their faults being pointed out..only ur mate can do tht..otherwise its just attraction

Zombie said...

hehehehehe...eternal quest...where is Mr. Right.

Stud said...

My dear keshisterness,

May all you ever needs to be blissfully content were a cottage,

With a sloping red roof, two donkeys, a garden with Thyme, Sage,

And sunflowers growing ‘I know for sure that you’d be ever so glad,

If these together with the love of a handsome guy could be had.

so, my sweet capricious darlin',..

sneeze towards the high plains, ye sit no tight,

for it holds in its immensity, ur beloved, Mr Right :)

Stud

AF said...

hehe!!...i loved the frank way in which u described abt ur likes in a boy...
u said u r happy being alone...my dear...u will be much more happier if u find ur MR RIGHT!!
Better luck next time!
thanks for ur comment at my space...u said my smiling profile pic attracted u...so sweet!...i like smiling faces and flowers(ur profile pic)!!

Die Muräne said...

A wonderfull smile impresses me, a nice body, always a nasty joke. And intelligence.
And it all falls away...when I'm sobber :-)

Known Stranger said...

A good blog i read in this year is yours. Am impressed. By the way.. I am often said Mr. Worst to hang on. hey am honest.heiheie.. good yar.. you would soon find the Mr. right.. when you are miss wrong. because the otherside attracts is it not ? just kidding all the best co- blogger.

Tarun said...

How come I read this post first....where are the other jerks....sorry guys I read this word 'jerks' so many times in this post that it came in this comment by itself...u know hangover of a word....hehhehe

praveen said...

ooh keshi...dont feel bad..even personally, i always ask myself..if they'll ever be the Mr.Right...or the person who i assume to be the right one to be the right one afterall...i seriously have no clue..and no, after reading all ur posts...you seem like a very attractive person so no you dont have the genes to be attracted to losers..

my sis used to be in the same boat once..i guess she's almost there in finding her mr.right now...or is she??

Tarun said...

Forgot that Mr. Right is on I mean moderator.....so not first.

Anyway
No one in this world is Mr or Ms perfect and to realize this I would say sooner is better. All the qualities or points u mentioned is good for hangout with someone because it's just for couple of hours or days but when u start spending more times then u see the real person, That's true for mr or ms. Before hunting ( or u can say looking) for Mr. or Ms. right we should also see ourself whether we r Ms. or Mr. right for someone or not. BTW Did u see any book written for opposite gender I mean for Ms. Right.

Manish said...

And do you honestly think a Mr./Miss.Right exists or we just have to mould one out of a Mr./Miss.Wrong no matter how pathetic they initially are?

Difficult to answer ur question Keshi! But all I can say that u can not have all the virtues (of ur liking) in a single guy. There will be few things completely matching with u & few which don't! U have to live with it! The right companion for me is the person whose positives by far overshadow his negatives .;)

exasparater said...

hey its me first time!!!

lemme read the post!!!

exasparater said...

oh!! thats bad "i need ur approval to save my comment"...

exasparater said...

though Ms.right should be beautiful, yet she must be smart,loving person,kind-hearted and finally she must be born only for me....

southpaw said...

Maybe Im quite unlucky in the Romance Department cos no matter how romantic or what-not I can be, the guy ends up being a jerk. You may think I'm the real loser***I'll fwd u an email which would surely give u an idea of what its like to be a real loser in life, maybe after reading that u might want to erase the above lines from ur post.

do you honestly think a Mr./Miss.Right exists *** Ya they only exist in the romantic novels and movies, in reality everything depends on the compatibility and the mutual abilities to bear each other and adapt the situations.

or we just have to mould one out of a Mr./Miss.Wrong no matter how pathetic they initially are? ***i guess i hv already made my point clear.

The Phoenix said...

Well...there are several factors involved with attraction.

There are the pheremones I posted about last week. Scientists are also finding that people with symmetrical faces are also seen as more attractive.

It's tough, because men and women are so different. Women are much more discerning and discriminating. When a woman enters the room, for example, she checks out all the guys and might zero-in on one.

With men, men typically look for one thing: willingness. When men enter a room, men check out all the women, scanning over and over again, waiting for that one woman that returns our gaze.

Interestingly, good looking men therefore get approached much more often than average or below average looking guys. So what you have is the top 5% getting hit on by over 50% of the women. So no wonder that top 5% are jerks.

If a very attractive man is what you want - you either need to find one that doesn't know he's attractive (good luck) or one that simply never fell into jerk-mode from all the women that have expressed interest in him. Even if a guy doesn't KNOW he's good looking, one day he might discover that he is, and all hell will break loose.

I'm not sure about there being that perfect someone out there for everyone. I think that's pretty naive.

coolvir said...

Another Sex and the City in making :)

Just kiddin.Nice post.

Have read somewhere that Love usually comes in your life when you expects it the least.
Hope you find your Mr.Rite soon.

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

LOL ... has no one actually commented ... or is it the comment moderation?? this is confusing now ... cant even yell 'Am first! Am first!' ... but plz Keshi do something .. and put this comment as No. 1 ... lol plz .. u havent even gifted me a new cell for this New Year!

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

LOL ... first of all tell me ... where do u get these pics from?? Do do answer this question ok! They're just so cute and suitable! lol

Guys are basically jerks only ... lol ...all of them! tiz just tht some gals have gotten used to them ... and others are compromising .... lol ... now tht's being positive, isnt it?

Yeah looks do attract u at first ... but then where do not-so-good-looking guys go?

LOL to me a guy's voice attracts too ... plus his length .. lol i mean .. sheesh how tall he is ... not the other length ... ;) ;)

I doubt if i'd be happy as a singlet ... my horoscope reads am divorce prone ... lol ... but wht the hell am just 18 now ... and looking for some fun at this stage! So as of now i do need someone ... hehee

You know a few days back i told someone that my Mr. Right is probably dead already ... lol ... and today when i read u saying the same thing ... i felt like ... pinching u ... Same Pinch na! lolll

Hmm ... but am sure there does does does exist a Mister Right ... or Miss Right for everyone in this world ... tiz just that a few of us are not so lucky to find them at the right time ... and the others do.

So Keshi darling ... dont worry about ur Mr. Right ... after 5 yrs ... if u're still single ... and if am single as well ...then i'll become ur Miss Right ...
(gay marriages are legalised here already! LOLL )

Till then take care babezzzz!

sittingnut said...

heyy dear friend !

since i fail at several (if not all) of your criteria for being the mr right , so cannot help in that way :-) , and since you don't want to be consoled by words, all i can give is a big hug. :-)

seriously, i find this hard to believe (see i am a jerk who says you are a liar). anyway if your mr right chooses to waste his time in mars poor him! as you say.

you are right, happiness is within oneself and what one defines it to be.
as for being single, it has it's pleasures, i should know, i for one would not mind being a bachelor to a ripe old age. you are welcome to join me :-) .

anyway whatever you say about your genes, i think we should follow our instincts and if there is love embrace it unconditionally even if ultimately it disappoints. as they say it's always better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all. besides next time it may not disappoint :-)
in any case don't compromise, you deserve the realthing.

hugggzzz!

btw nice cartoon.:-)

saby said...

Heyyyyyyyyyyy Cheesy


i am not dead yet

saby said...

Watch it !


Kerry has the hottz for u

Johnny B. Good said...

Why ur so special to me

http://www.nethugs.com/whyspecial.shtml

tsduff said...

Mr Right Does exist - as I believe does a Mrs. Right. I believe that if you look at the things which are important to yourself and to the other, the small insignificant other stuff pales to nothingness. If you are lucky enough to happen upon the one of your dreams, hold on to that one. And let that one hold on to you.

Keshi said...

***Arun

yeyyy FIRST indeed!

**keshi, u will find one soon.

goshhh I said not to say that na Arun...lol! Anyways, thanks mate!












***Pele

hey WC and happy new year!

looks yeah...it DOES matter :) yep communication is a must...u r so right! Sense of humor oyeah! I cant live w.o. humor so yeah he must have it. Thank God I know some guys who have an excellent and classy sense of humor :)

**After all, the search is exciting too, isn't it?

thats so true...thats why my Search is extended lol ;-)












***Kerry

WB Kerry muahhhhhhh!

Hey na my format hasnt changed...what r u talking abt Kerry sweety??












***Kavitha

WC to my world Kavi :) and thanks!


**happiness is a world you create around you and decorate it with the things you value most in life...

thats such a beautiful way to express what being happy means...THANK U!











***Caraf

heyyy muahhhhhhhh! Where u been? aww so glad to see u again :)

U like guys with warm voices...goshhh u have competition then ...lol cos I like em too ;-)

**the exceptions are genetically modified mutations from other planets

LOL I was laughing like a maniac at that line! hahahahaha! Thanks! U r so right there :):)












***Saby

lol ok...let me answer why I need a man...

1. cos Im a woman...ok?? :)
2.cos the man upstairs sent us here with fitted functionalities that need someone from the oppositte sex to operate with...get it? lol!


**Take my advice..become a nun

ROFL! hahahahahaha good one Saby! but na I cant be a nun cos Im too mortal to be a nun :):) btw do nuns wear shorts and drive silver babes listening to Robbie Williams wishing they were his microphone? LOL!














***Helen

WB and thanks girl! :) U make me feel so sure abt that Martian landing here anytime soon lol, thanks again! muahhhhhhh!











***Visithra

heyyyy :)

**i attract short guys -

haha why is that? I dun like a guy to be too short..I mean im 5'7 so I cant afford to bend down to kiss...lol!

u r so right...we r doomed lol! I dun go out much in real tho...Im a homely girl :) no wonder I dun find him lol!











***Linny

heyy girl!

**I think the only thing I sometimes miss is the companionship. The cuddling. You know, all that fun stuff.

yep I miss all that...so true!


**By the way, do you know someone named Cappy? He left some very rude comments about you on my blog.

Nope I dunno anyone by that name. But most prolly it's that Imposter leaving comments under several different nics. She's known for that now. Just ignore. thanks!











***Vivek

hehehe u have learnt to 'muah' pretty good now :):)

Wait let me come to ur blog and see who that lucky girl is..wow congratttts Vivek! aww..me so happy for ya! HUGGGGGGZ!












***Loki

hey WC and thanks!


**I've been through some Miss Takes, Miss Understandings, Miss Chiefs (but fortunately no Miss Demenours)

lol great way to put it...I guess we all go on that Search in different styles before we really find the ONE :) thanks!











***MS

hey thanks for ur compliments and the very encouraging words...hugggggggggz! Yep I will saty for a while atleast :)












***Desperado

heyy mate hows ya?

**love means knowing ur partner's weakness and faults but still loving them for tht and helping them to overcome tht..

so true! Im not saying that I want a flaw-less guy...cos I aint perfect either. I'm quite eager to teach him and learn from him too...but it's that first solid attraction itself that's hard to achieve...and even I did achieve that (as I have before), somewhere down the line I get unlucky for some dumb reason so I break up...












***Zombie

Misty yeah where is he? :)












***Stud

helloooo babester ;-)


**With a sloping red roof, two donkeys, a garden with Thyme, Sage,
And sunflowers growing ‘I know for sure that you’d be ever so glad,
If these together with the love of a handsome guy could be had.

thats such a BEAUTIFUL description...wow! Where d u get these words from?












***AF

WC to my blog and thanks!

Yep I will be happier if I find him but where the hell is he? lol!











***Die_Murane

WC to my blog and thanks!

**A wonderfull smile impresses me, a nice body, always a nasty joke. And intelligence.

so true...I'd like all of em too...a hawt body is a must ;-):)













***Known_Stranger

Thanks and WC!


**you would soon find the Mr. right.. when you are miss wrong

lol u got a point there...ok I'll act really dumb next time ;-)











***Tarun

lol @jerks..hahahaha...na u aint a jerk and none of the other guys who comere r jerks...hehe...


**we should also see ourself whether we r Ms. or Mr. right for someone or not.

so true! well I'll keep that in mind..mebbe Im not Ms.Right for them too :(

Na I dunno any books on Ms.Right lol why?











***Praveen

hey thanks for those encouraging words girl! I had 4 almost- Mr.Rights before..hehe..they wer ecertainly not Mr.Wrongs...but something happened with each one of them that I had to say goodbye...u know wut...it could be me too...somethign must be wrong with me that I cant get it to work...












***Manish

hey ur so right...

**But all I can say that u can not have all the virtues (of ur liking) in a single guy

true I agree...I dun look for all of it in one guy...I possibly cant do that cos I aint Ms.Perfect either :) But that one 'attraction' amidst the many flaws is a difficult thing to find isnt it?












***Exasparater

hey hows ya? :)

**Ms.right should be beautiful, yet she must be smart,loving person,kind-hearted and finally she must be born only for me....

yup yup...Im all that ;-)












***Southpaw

awww HUGGGGGGGGGZ!


**which would surely give u an idea of what its like to be a real loser in life...

aww South I know u really care for me and u would never think of me as a loser..hehehe...but yeah send the email to me...I'll see how 'better' I am :) thanks and hugggggz!


**Ya they only exist in the romantic novels and movies, in reality everything depends on the compatibility and the mutual abilities to bear each other and adapt the situations.

I think I watched too many Hindi movies where happy endings r a must lol! u r right..it's abt teaching each other and learning from each other...it's abt growing from each other...but I still havent found that guy that I wish to teach and learn from :) u know what I mean na...













***Phoenix

hii there!

Interesting facts wow!

**Scientists are also finding that people with symmetrical faces are also seen as more attractive.

hmm I didnt know that...I knew that ppl with simlar genes get attracted but I didnt know abt the faces etc...


**So what you have is the top 5% getting hit on by over 50% of the women

Thats a very interesting point :) now I know why the top ones r all taken lol!


**I'm not sure about there being that perfect someone out there for everyone

na I dun believe in perfection too..but I believe there is a not sooo right Miss/Mr.Right for each one out there :) Thanks mate!












***Coolvir

WC to my world and thanks!

I love Sex n the City :)

**Have read somewhere that Love usually comes in your life when you expects it the least.

true true..now I have started to act like Im not expecting love..lol...would that help? hehehehe...











***Cheesy

lol aww na babez ur not first in comments...but u r the BEST :) HUGGGGGGZ! Happy New Year to u babez...I came there to wish ya and ur blog had no posts? what's going on??

Where do I get these pics from? lol from the net...I search for pics relevant to my topics :) Glad u like em!


**Guys are basically jerks only ... lol ...all of them! tiz just tht some gals have gotten used to them ... and others are compromising

lol I think u r sooo right! And I wasnt a compromising woman before..mebbe I should start being one? :)


**LOL to me a guy's voice attracts too ... plus his length

AHEMMMMMMMM! lollllllllllz! OKKK Cheesy I nearly choked on my coffee...wait on...lolll!

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lol Im back and Im alive..length does matter lol yess...I mean the shoe-size...oooops I mean his height lolllllll!


**my horoscope reads am divorce prone ...

hahaha no ways! Ur not a divorce kinda girl...u will stalk him lol!


**You know a few days back i told someone that my Mr. Right is probably dead already

what r u saying girl, my late Mr.Right is fossils by now LOL!


**but am sure there does does does exist a Mister Right ...

yep just that mine has to be reborn...lol!


**after 5 yrs ... if u're still single ... and if am single as well ...then i'll become ur Miss Right ...

EWWWWWWW lol! awww ur a sweet darling hugggggggggz! :):)

U always make me crack up like a maniac Cheesy, thanks for that comment!













***Sittingnut

huggggggggggggz mate!


**since i fail at several (if not all) of your criteria for being the mr right , so cannot help in that way :-)...

aww did I say u fail at all of em? no way!! U r defintely not any of those I mentioned...c'mon :):) We havent met in real..and if we did, I think I'll like u alot...Im being honest...u r a true gentleman...


**and since you don't want to be consoled by words, all i can give is a big hug. :-)

always love a HUG from a hunk ;-) HUGGGGGGZ!


**seriously, i find this hard to believe (see i am a jerk who says you are a liar).

lol na na. I agree with ya here. The guys I met in real havent seen the real me...or havent taken time to see me through...:)


**i for one would not mind being a bachelor to a ripe old age. you are welcome to join me

awwww...we can be 60 something and still blogging as singles..lol!


** if there is love embrace it unconditionally even if ultimately it disappoints. as they say it's always better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all.

so true! Love should never be ignored...

thanks Sittingnut Huggggggggz again :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

***Terry

hey WB and thanks!


**I believe that if you look at the things which are important to yourself and to the other, the small insignificant other stuff pales to nothingness.

thats so true...guess I havent met him yet...even tho I thought I did many times before...


Keshi.

southpaw said...

but I still havent found that guy that I wish to teach and learn from :) u know what I mean na...***I read somewhere long back that we tend to disconnect from things just when its really about to rock, so go back to the memory lane and see if u hv left which u shudn't have or the other best option wud be that since u hv ur basics decided, focus on that precisely without deviating from the actual desire.
Damn...i m preaching again...

Stud said...

keshi babester,

all i offer is words(my creation) of late, so dodge me NOT just cos' i have turned boring.

saby said...

fitted functionalities that need someone from the oppositte sex to operate with...

Geee !
u r hott in caps

Keshi said...

**South

Thanks for ur wisdom...u always make me think...

**so go back to the memory lane and see if u hv left which u shudn't have

true...there was twice I did that...











***Stud

huhhhhhhhh! Who said ur boring?












***Saby

lol Saby hahahaha! Rather crazy in caps :)


Keshi.

southpaw said...

I m sure by now u must hv realised that u r in a much better situation my friend...

Het Waghela said...

"There is someone somewhere is made for you", its somewhat like a bollywood movie dialogue :). But you will soon come across Mr Right.

Life can be more interesting if you let go some of ur wishes or requirements. Thats my belief.

Stud said...

my dear,

I sent you some of my work from my book 'khoshmand and afruz'...didn't u get it?

Jewel Rays said...

great post and well expressed. love the pictures.

I enjoyed reading your post. Yet i am kinda clueless on what to say.:) You kinda remind me of me. hahaha...

**Jewel Rays***

Known Stranger said...

hmm so.. be a miss wrong with a little naughty stuff.. your mr. right will fall head over heals.

musings (m000nie) said...

k00kie

awwww i dont think theres ever gonna b mr right... we just got to adjust... :)

uttara said...

keshi...
heyyyyyy

missed u loadsss
okie there is nothing like Mr. right .... its in us how we think abt that person n how compatable we are ...

so hun .. life goes on n we learn from each others act ....

love u girl ....

uttara

talldarkman said...

halloa.....:)

Keshi, seriously you should put on some weight, you have grown too skinny (skeletal I can say). Then again you shud do some makeup, tho that pink dress fits quite well on you :P

*is she gonna kill me?*

On a serious note, you will have to make do with wotever specimen you come across. There is no Mr. Right, and no Ms. Perfect.

talldarkman

Keshi said...

***South

better as in?











***Het

helloooo :)


**its somewhat like a bollywood movie dialogue :)

lol Tuje dekha to ye jaana sanammmmm....hehehe...


**Life can be more interesting if you let go some of ur wishes or requirements.

So true! I have done that many times...but it's always that guy who doesnt let go...












***Stud

Did u email me?













***My_Unveilings

lol yes we r on the same beach...and no fish in the sea...or perhaps we r nowhere closer to a sea hehehehe...











***Known_stranger

**be a miss wrong with a little naughty stuff

lol ok..like wut?












**Musings

m000nie hugggggggggz!

Yep we just got to adjust...but there r some habits u just cant adjust to...na?











***Uttara

Huggggggggggggz Uttsy! awww...

yes I know but where is the compatible dude? lol!



Keshi.

uttara said...

keshi....
wait am sending 1 soon ;) ...
parcel wil be reaching u soon lollzzzzz
u will be there to take the delivery na ???

ROTFL
hugzzzzz

mermaid ;;)

Jewel Rays said...

Lol we are on the same beach with all da wrong fishes to swim with. LOl ;)

Keshi said...

***Uttara

oiiii :)


**parcel wil be reaching u soon

a dude in a parcel? then he has to be really short...I dun want him lol! I will return to sender ok?? :)











***My_Unveilings

lol Amy...I think u r perhaps near some sea (even if it's with the wrong fishes:)) but Im in some desert with no sea in a million years lolll!


Keshi.

Mr. Maverick said...

I thought I just posted a comment and now somehow I cant see it :(

Very honest post. Nothing wrong with placing ‘Physical attraction’ as the most important criteria :).

And as far the qualities I seek… well never mind… beggars cant be choosers :D

Keshi said...

***Tally

awww HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

**Keshi, seriously you should put on some weight, you have grown too skinny (skeletal I can say). Then again you shud do some makeup, tho that pink dress fits quite well on you


LOL Im not too skinny alright! actually i should lose some weight now that I stopped gym...:)

Pink dress WTF? lol!


Any speciman? loll I aint an animal to date a speciman hahaha!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

***Mr.Mediocre

helllooooooo!

na na it's not that u lost ur comment...just that I have turned Comment Moderation on :) That means all comments will be published only after I read em and approve em...


**‘Physical attraction’ as the most important

not the most imp...just for the very FIRST impressions only :)


**And as far the qualities I seek… well never mind… beggars cant be choosers

huh? what d u mean? u aint a beggar!!


Keshi.

pradster13 said...

hell!...i think i posted a comment here last night! i was happy i was the first one ....and here i am 64th...sheesh!!
anyways thats life and it sucks....all the hot gals i date turn up to be mindless bimbos and i guess i am still looking....btw did i mention i am hot,single and ready to mingle...;)...lol!

PRADEEP K. said...

Dear Keshi :)

Thank you for visiting my blog.

Looks... Hmmm... Maybe that is where I fail. I don't look lika an Adonis. lol. Well anyways, I have most other qualities.

I believe that if a girl was ever born meant for me, then we will find each other sooner or later. Until then (or, if not), I'll simply continue dating loneliness. Hahaha!

Hope you'll come back to read more of my articles. And I want to bring to your notice that there are a few of my poems there, too. Hope you enjoy them, dear.

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

ha ha ... u n z000nie seem to have smthg in common - Mars Attraction !!!!

and abt the right guy , i dont know , i feel it just happens ....
very often , it might be a very good friend ...

dont u feel very often ... what if such n such a friend could look at me in a *different* way ?

i used to go for looks too .. then, realised how stupid that was ...

but i know one thing - tho looks matter , what matters more is that the guy should have similar values as you ....

differences are all ok ... but , when u dont have a set of common values , u r in deep trouble

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

and after the first flush of attraction , nethinks , itz all upto us to make a relationship work ...

and dont ya ever go for the guys who praise u like crazy from the start ... genuine guys never do that ...

and i feel a guy who refuses to change himself - his character , i mean - bcoz of someone else is worth more than a consoling and kind hearted guy ... coz a kind hearted guy can be a comforter , but a guy whoz true to himself will also remain true to you

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

and gifts are a necessity - even a stray flower given as a gift can bring smiles .... dont ya think ?

Divya said...

forget Mr.right ... till date i havnt found mr.wrong too :(

so see keshi.. u r lucky lol

Jewel Rays said...

hey keshi, :) maybe its just better to go to a beach without any fishes. Haha!

strawy said...

Tall guys, handsome guys, sweet guys, cute guys, intelligent guys,smart guys, honest guys,decent guys ...is anyone left ...lolzzz
well!!!! all the above attracts me , but still its so hard to find the Mr Right.
or maybe i m just unlucky !!!!

anyways ... guys loss ... so who cares ...
nice post babes ... n those pics ...so adorable... i think the lady in the second pic is my future version ..lol
hugss keshu
love ya
miss ya babez

Ash said...

hey girlie .........

i like the bit in the end ....where happiness is solely our creation....

but i dont subcribe to a single life if that's what u mean ....it is good to have a companion in ur life ...and what more than a steady bf or a hubs

well, to be really frank, when i met my guy it was the bond we shared that made us come together and confess that yes this something more than plain platonic friendship over the net...

we saw each other months after our confessions until then the words typed in the chatrooms and the voices over the phone lines and ofcourse the thoughts that transpired between us were the only source of attraction.....

as my father says always the one rib taken from the man is somewhere in a woman and she will be yours...the best match ...

it is three years now and nothing has changed between us the difference is we meet face to face...
my concept of a companion for life or my soulmate as people say was a man i can talk to as freelya s i do with my 3 ppl... i guess i got the man .....

Take care
Ash

Nitika said...

Awwwww honey..i was giggling throuh out the post...its funny..mr.right word is funny indeed..lolzzzzzz

Mr. Right!!! He is just a lost property if we get any…lolzzzz....for a product like mr. right.....demand is more than a supply.......about to extinct from the real world..may be its better for them.....hahahaha

I guess mrright onlysuits in a film or a book....they have nothing to do in real world....as no one is perfect..that’s why we have a word like compromise and adjust..etc in our dictionary...

I think I don’t need any mr.right …if he is all rite then how can I perform a silly fight....Huh...too perfect or too good person sucks yaar....but right now don’t need anyone neither a right nor a cheap,rude,married..heheee..don’t wan’t them to disturb ma happy life with around ma family and fren

well...ummm....wat qualities impress me???!!...ummmm...may be his power to attract only me..lol..or may be sense of humour..voice,color,height,ummm.. unique personality....ummm..don no yaar...mez very confused, haven't thought before...but first and foremost impressing quality must be his "hairstyle"....lolzzzzzz...bad jokes...

And awwww ma sweeti....there is miss.right waiting for u and u r searching stupid mr.right....u better be stick with me.....*wink* *wink* *wink*

take care
hugzzzzzz

RandomThoughts said...

Hey Keshi, you don't have to be struck by lightning when you meet your Mr.Right! It's like that only in the movies.
In real life, it's just like any other day & any other person. Only that as you start speaking to this person you know you are meant to be together.

If its slow it definitely lasts!

All the best!

Love,

Rashmi

Dinesh said...

All the best to you for Mr.Right! And I did not get the 'running 871 miles' funda...why 871 ? :)

fatema said...

nice post! u'll find Mr right at the right moment!
BTW Happy new year to u
take care

uttara said...

keshi ....
hehehehe

*** a dude in a parcel? then he has to be really short...I dun want him lol! I will return to sender ok?? :)


not necessarily ... he is way too tall :p u duh!!! n u will never ever think of returning it bk to me lollll


hugzzzz

muahhhzzzz
utsy

Rohit Talwar said...

hmmm...

mr right... sleeping on mars...

calling mars..calling..calling...
hello...keshi's mr right? how would u like to... er... jump or..?

suddenly.. no response...
nasa is working on it.

sometime soon!!
=)

tulipspeaks said...

:( i remember replying to this post, keshi..whr is it??

sob!! sob!!!


=am000nie=

white devil said...

well i don't know if anyone has said this to you(cause i am unwilling to read all of your comments) but maybe the problem with you is that when you meet a guy, you sit there thinking "he is nice, a looker, secure, etc."
and your intuition is telling you that he is the "right one" but what i think is that what you should do is ignore your inner voice and go for the long shot the one who you are unsure of and maybe if you are lucky you'll get who and what you want. it is just something i accidentally encountered during my time. give it a try and screw your ideals then you get them in the end. maybe.

SaffronSaris said...

Tahaha Keshi Happy New yEAR!!!!
yOU R still young and pretty--lots of time, don't worry!!

saby said...

I strongly believe I have genes that get me attracted to jerks/losers

,did Linny say dis?,



THANKS for the tip off Kesh

-Saby, the creep in caps

saby said...

Amutha
wat did u say?





if it was a les proposal
it has been moderated

PuNeEt said...

Hard luck sweeti...
I cant say more than that...

Its all about perception...

People who dont find... feel as if no one exist
and people who find often feel they got the world...

Fortunately I fall in the later category... and am proud to be...

Atleast I cant be Happy being single for all my life...
and touchwood God knew it :-))

For me yes Ms Right exist...
Yes ofcourse no one is flawless...

I wish u luck... n all the best

Cheers

Stud said...

Babester,

I've your Mr.Right post read a few times now as all I had been doing is reading your blog lately. Don't know what a woman yearn for in her Mr. Right but know this my dear, men seek their Ms. Right too who certainly isn't available a dime a dozen.

should u ask me, i rather tell...

I thought that her had been a boy
with blindness eyes,
Or else some other wanton toy
that men devise,
Like tales of fairies often told
By doting age that dies for cold.

PiNK-y said...

Hello, i love your blog it's so interesting! By the way i just wanted to tell you about this new book thats come out by these two Kuwaiti grls..its supposedly really funny. I thought you might be interested. You can buy it off of Amazon (it's called Driving Down the 101) ..seriously its a must! (it'll also give you something to talk about).

wallycrawler said...

Hi , I'm Mr. Married again are you still interested ?
PS I'm scream'n hot !

rebel_on_loose said...

OMG...i guess i'm a bit late! Awesome post though, VERY witty indeed.
"they say Men are from Mars...my man sure is still in Mars not knowing where Earth is - poor guy. Didnt I say I have some special genes that attract me to Martians, well that's why he's still there"
Lolz now that got me really laughing.
All i can say is - "Patience".(Lol i know it's a cliche).
What do i look for...hmmm... lemme c ....
1. Reasonably decent looks(Of course i don't mind anything above that)
2. A minimum level of wits to carry on an interesting conversation.
3. Flexibility and Understanding.

Drywall Mom said...

All you have to do is not look for him and he will come. That's how I found mine.

Dewdrop said...

Fate favors those who take a free will approach to finding love. Let the romance be alive and well in your mind if not in your heart and soon you'll find your Mr. Right :)

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

whoa ... madam .....

sittingnut said...

hugggz mate!

a very good morning and great day to you. :-)

i was joking about being mr right and your criteria. i know you will never say an unkind word.:-)

The guys I met in real havent seen the real me...or havent taken time to see me through...- that may be the problem, that is why this situation will not last, sooner or later mr right will be forced to see your realself through his telescope from mars :-) soon we will hear the spaceship landing.

we can be 60 something and still blogging as singles. - lol. i wll certainly be like that, but you will be with the mr right blogging about how great your grand kids are! i know i have seen the future :-)

i don't think this whole concept of mr right is a result of romantic novels or hindi films as someone said above, i think those novels and films are there because the concept was there first and it's a real thing. so do believe in a mr right you will find him and don't compromise even if the wait seems long.

Jackal said...

Keshi dont worry u will find one soon when u meet me . ) hey this is so well written enjoyed reading it..u sure are gifted...
initially i think when u dont know a person then its only the looks tht attract.....but when u already know some one then there cud be so many reasons for attraction.....i mean the kind of person he/she is......tcc byee hugzzzz may ur search end sooooonnnn

Stud said...

mornin' sunshine :)

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

@ Ash

Wow! I didnt know this stuff actually happened!!! :D

You inspire me!

Justin Thyme said...

LOL... I hate to say it Keshi, but when the first thing one looks for in a potential mate are simply the physical attributes in someone, then don't be shocked when you get exactly what you want - pretty wrapping but no present inside...

Keshi said...

Keshi comes in singing...

~~I wanna know what love is...I want u to show me...

lol! Thanks guys for all the sweet words..let me see...




***Pradster

lol 64th is better than 94th - thats me :(


**anyways thats life and it sucks....

lol ok together let's come up with a new quote...LOVE IS SUCKY...:)


**all the hot gals i date turn up to be mindless bimbos and i guess i am still looking....btw did i mention i am hot,single and ready to mingle...;)...lol!

hahahaha hot bimbos u mean :) awww thanks for the offer and when r u planning to mingle lol!












***Pradeep K

Thanks mate!


**I don't look lika an Adonis. lol. Well anyways, I have most other qualities.

lol Adonis! Qualities MATTER and more than looks...but initially there has to be some attraction na.


**I believe that if a girl was ever born meant for me, then we will find each other sooner or later.

thats so true...so u believe in destiny...


**dating loneliness. Hahaha!

I think I have an eternal date with Mr.Loneliness :):)


**Hope you'll come back to read more of my articles. And I want to bring to your notice that there are a few of my poems there, too. Hope you enjoy them, dear.

I sure will visit u often - u write really well Pradeep!














***Deepa

muahhhhhhhhhh Deepzz I missed ya where were ya?

lol sometimes Jupiterians too :):)


**i used to go for looks too .. then, realised how stupid that was ...

na I never went for looks only...I need brains and brawn combined with looks :)


**what matters more is that the guy should have similar values as you ....

very true..but he should also teach me new things..teach me things that I never knew...


**and after the first flush of attraction , nethinks , itz all upto us to make a relationship work ...

Definitely...but fi he's not making an effort then I dun wanna be the only one to cling on to it...


**and dont ya ever go for the guys who praise u like crazy from the start ... genuine guys never do that ...

ohh this is somethign I learnt from ya...come to think of it, it's soooo true! thanks, I'll keep that in mind :)


**coz a kind hearted guy can be a comforter , but a guy whoz true to himself will also remain true to you

THAT IS SOOOOOOOOOOO TRUE! I dun want a guy to change who he is becos of me either! As long as he is true to himself, I can trust him...thanks Deepzz for bringing up such great points for the discussion!


**and gifts are a necessity - even a stray flower given as a gift can bring smiles .... dont ya think ?

OMG yess! Rem in Amu's post she asked what would we prefer to recieve from our men..well I really dun want expensive shit..lol...I want a pure and simple heart and that means even receiving wild flowers or sea shells would be so beautful :) as long as true love is there...












***Divya

huggggggggz Divvvvz!


**forget Mr.right ... till date i havnt found mr.wrong too :(

no u kidding?? c'mon how can such an adorable babez not meet even Mr.Wrong???












***My_Unveilings

Amyyyyyy hugggggggggz!


**maybe its just better to go to a beach without any fishes. Haha!

LOL hahahaha good one Amy! Recently I started buying fish from the pet shop lol! ;-)














***Strawy


st000nie u beautiful dolly how come u havent met him yet??? na na I cant believe that...no ways!


**Tall guys, handsome guys, sweet guys, cute guys, intelligent guys,smart guys, honest guys,decent guys ...is anyone left ...lolzzz

Can a guy have all these qualities in one?? If so plz apply at www.keshi.manhunt.com lol!


**anyways ... guys loss ... so who cares ...

lol way to go babez!


**i think the lady in the second pic is my future version ..lol

ROFL! hahahahaha I laughed so much at this line!!

Huggggggggggggggggz dolly!













***Ash

helllooooooo girl!


**it is good to have a companion in ur life ...and what more than a steady bf or a hubs

so true Ash..but as I said my future bf/hubby is in RIP mode somewhere lol!

U met ur man over the net? WOW! Never thought net r'ships could go so far...hint hint all the guys here lol!


**as my father says always the one rib taken from the man is somewhere in a woman and she will be yours...the best match ...

could u explain this further Ash...sounds interesting but I Didnt get it...


**my concept of a companion for life or my soulmate as people say was a man i can talk to as freelya s i do with my 3 ppl... i guess i got the man .....

Congratts and u r spot on there!

Thanks and hugggggggz Ash!











***Nitika

heyyyy mah Ms.Right huggggggz! :)


**Mr. Right!!! He is just a lost property if we get any…

lolllllllllz!


**demand is more than a supply.......about to extinct from the real world..may be its better for them.....hahahaha

lol so true...I think it's nearing extinction...like the Dinosaurs once existed and then disappeared...sighhhhh :(



**I guess mrright onlysuits in a film or a book....they have nothing to do in real world....as no one is perfect..that’s why we have a word like compromise and adjust..etc in our dictionary...

true...but I think Mr.Right is an imperfect perfect guy...he exists...u know what I mean...with all the flaws, u will still like him...cos he's ur Mr.Right. But mine is missing for years now...lol! I should put up a Missing poster...


**I wan’t them to disturb ma happy life with around ma family and fren

lol @disturb


**may be his power to attract only me..

thats exactly what I said above! Even with his flaws, he will attract u cos he's the one for u...:)


**lol..or may be sense of humour..voice,color,height,ummm.. unique personality.... foremost impressing quality must be his "hairstyle"....lolzzzzzz...bad jokes...

lol u r a demanding gal! hahahaha @hair!



**there is miss.right waiting for u and u r searching stupid mr.right....u better be stick with me.....*wink* *wink* *wink*

lol hahahaha soooo cutttte! U r not only Ms.Right u r also Ms.SweetHeart HUGGGGGGGGZ Niti!














***RandomThoughts

ellooo :)


**Hey Keshi, you don't have to be struck by lightning when you meet your Mr.Right!

hahaha I always wanted to hear bells and whistles at the background when I met him..it didnt happen yet :)


**It's like that only in the movies.

u think so? I think it must be in real too....when it really happens...


**If its slow it definitely lasts!

thats so true! If u build something real fast, it may fall apart real fast too..I believe in that, thanks!

Ur name is Rashmi? Thats beautiful! I had a friend called Rashmi back in Kindy...












***Dinesh

hiyyya Dinesh!


**And I did not get the 'running 871 miles' funda...why 871 ? :)

lol ur the only one who noticed this hahahaha! 871 cos it's 871 lol! I just made that up hahaha!













***Fatema

hello there!


**nice post! u'll find Mr right at the right moment!

yep and he better come soon na :)


Happy New Year to u too Fatema, thanks!
















***Uttara

ellooo babez!


**not necessarily ... he is way too tall :p u duh!!! n u will never ever think of returning it bk to me lollll

lol who is this tall man who's gonna fill my life now? who who??














***Rohit_Talwar

hiii Rohit hows ya?


**mr right... sleeping on mars...
calling mars..calling..calling...
hello...keshi's mr right? how would u like to... er... jump or..?

lol aww thanks for that call but he's high on Mars bars he wont wake up...:)


**suddenly.. no response...
nasa is working on it.

awww and if SRK is working in NASA on this project, I will ask Mr.Right to stay in Mars forever, so I can date SRK lol!












***Amutha

am000nie muahhh! This is the only comment I got from ya...awww...send it again...dun cry now huggggggz!













***White_devil

heyy mate!


**but maybe the problem with you is that when you meet a guy, you sit there thinking "he is nice, a looker, secure, etc."

lol yess I do..hahahaha!


**and your intuition is telling you that he is the "right one" but what i think is that what you should do is ignore your inner voice and go for the long shot the one who you are unsure of and maybe if you are lucky you'll get who and what you want.

that's a very interesting thought...wow...thanks...I think I just might do that next time...take risks...cos Im too stiff and have a very rigid psyche abt the perfect guy...


**it is just something i accidentally encountered during my time. give it a try and screw your ideals then you get them in the end. maybe.

wowwwww this is truly amazing advice! Thanks so much white_devil hugggggggggggz! I just cant wait to try it :)













***SaffronSaris

Hey Saffronzz I missed ya! Thanks and Happy New Year to u too girl!


**yOU R still young and pretty--lots of time, don't worry!!

Being young and pretty dont help much Saffy...I think I'll try to be old and ugly for a change loll! Thanks anyways muahhhhhh!














***Saby

**did Linny say dis?,

lol na I said that...but Linny has the same kinda attraction :):)













***Puneet

oiii Pu bear! :)

**Hard luck sweeti...
I cant say more than that...

OMG ur so mean :(


**Fortunately I fall in the later category... and am proud to be...

goshh Pu ur being a showoff n ur hurting my feelings sobbbb!


**Atleast I cant be Happy being single for all my life...
and touchwood God knew it :-))

so God doesnt know abt what I need? great Pu!


**For me yes Ms Right exist...
Yes ofcourse no one is flawless...

I didnt say I need a flawless guy...Im full of flaws...but I cant love every man can I?? lol!


**I wish u luck... n all the best

I badly need luck alright :) Thanks!












***Stud

Hugggggggz Stud!


**I've your Mr.Right post read a few times now as all I had been doing is reading your blog lately.

aww so sweeeet!


**Don't know what a woman yearn for in her Mr. Right but know this my dear, men seek their Ms. Right too who certainly isn't available a dime a dozen.

lol ok!


**should u ask me, i rather tell...
I thought that her had been a boy
with blindness eyes,
Or else some other wanton toy
that men devise,
Like tales of fairies often told
By doting age that dies for cold.

ok nice words sweety but I didnt quite get the meaning..lol..cos I aitn as poetic and brainy as u r :( tell me what u meant plzz...















***PiNK-y

heyy Pinkzzz WC!


**it's called Driving Down the 101..seriously its a must! (it'll also give you something to talk about).

I better get that then :) THANKS!












***Wallycrawler

hello there WC and thanks!

**Hi , I'm Mr. Married again are you still interested ?
PS I'm scream'n hot !

lol na I aint dating any married me...Im too conservative for that :)
















***Rebel_on_loose

heyyy :) thanks!


**All i can say is - "Patience".(Lol i know it's a cliche).

Thats my EBony quality na..lol...Impatience :(


**1. Reasonably decent looks(Of course i don't mind anything above that)

hehehe @above...:)


**2. A minimum level of wits to carry on an interesting conversation.

so true..I want a witty guy too :) Im too witty I'd be bored with a man who dunno how to laugh and make others laugh...


**3. Flexibility and Understanding.

yup yup...so true.

















***Drywall_Mom

hello there!


**All you have to do is not look for him and he will come. That's how I found mine.

aww how romantic. Yep now Im trying hard not to look for him lol!












***Dewdrop

heyy Dewdy!


**Fate favors those who take a free will approach to finding love.

Dewdy Im never look too hard for him...Im a a very free spirit and I have a big heart..but the guys I have met so far dun seem to be the ones for me, I dunno why :(


**Let the romance be alive and well in your mind if not in your heart and soon you'll find your Mr. Right :)

aww thanks Dewdy dooo HUGGGGGZ!













***Sittingnut

hugggggggggggggies Sittingnut!


**i was joking about being mr right and your criteria. i know you will never say an unkind word.:-)

nooooooo I wasnt being just kind..u know i can be really mean lol! I was being honest abt ya...


**sooner or later mr right will be forced to see your realself through his telescope from mars :-) soon we will hear the spaceship landing.

LOL hahahaha very cute!

I dun think any of the guys I have known in real know me as much as u gusy here know me..seriously!


**i wll certainly be like that, but you will be with the mr right blogging about how great your grand kids are! i know i have seen the future :-)

aww how come ur so sure of being single at 60? no ways! Ur still very young and with a beautiful mind like ur's, there will be love in ur life...trust me. My grand-kids? lol who r they? aww I would luv to have babies...Im so fond of children...I myself am a big kid lol!


** i think those novels and films are there because the concept was there first and it's a real thing.

High Five mate! Thats so true! Cos movies and books are also made up with ppl's real thoughts and experiences...so Mr/Miss Right is there for each and everyone, even though they may not be perfect...


**so do believe in a mr right you will find him and don't compromise even if the wait seems long.

aww so sweet of ya, thanks and special HUGGGGGGGZ to ya :) U have a way of making me feel calm and happy abt anything...thanks sooo much for being my friend!













***Jackal

heyyy Jackkkzzz hows ya?


**Keshi dont worry u will find one soon when u meet me . )

lol and when is that gonna be?


**hey this is so well written enjoyed reading it..u sure are gifted...

na na not gifted...boredom brings out the best in me :) We all r talented in one thing or the other na...hehehe...


**but when u already know some one then there cud be so many reasons for attraction.....i mean the kind of person he/she is......

thats so true...but even then ur not sure when he would turn out to be a jerk...cos it happened with my ex...he was sooo brilliant ahuman being and after 5yrs showed me he wasnt so brilliant...its ok, past is past...


Thanks mate for ur well-wishes always..hugggggggggz!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

***Stud

Goooooooood Morning Mr.Sunshine ;-)















***Cheesy

lol ok lets start a net affair now...:)


Keshi.

saby said...

, i just love wat
Justin Thyme just said...
,







i love evryting justine says
i just love Justine period.

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

lol it's riskyyyy

southpaw said...

Good morning keshi...:)

Kroopa Shah (Kr00pz) said...

LOL, I think I know what you mean. I've been through the same stuff and still am single. bit that may also be due to the fact that I expect too much. :-P
Anyways, Happy New Year to you gal!!

Dawn....सेहर said...

gal........u said all tht I think about ;).....to be in a man :D

Yes...its hard but not impossible u see :)...so u will get the right one just at the right time....may be this year brings all that you wish for ;)

best wishes gal & lots of love
cheers

Stud said...

my sweet keshi babesterness,

been writing all we'd brought
cant say can write much nought
for all i have to u is this tought
read thee before thee in love cought....ahem!!

keshi keshi keshi,
me lady keshi, o sire

keshi is my only joy,
faithless as the winds or seas
sometimes coming, sometimes coy
yet she never fails to please
if with a frown
i am cast down
keshi smiling
and beguiling,
makes me happier than before!

though, alas, too late i find
nothing can her fancy fix:)
yet the moment she is kind
i forgive her all her tricks

which, though i see,
i can't get free
she deceiving
i believing
what need lovers wish for more?

Lord Stud

wallycrawler said...

Man there's a lot of lonely guys out dare , 102 comments ."Waz up wit dat"?

Keshi said...

***Cheesy

lol risky but it can happen...Ash proved it :) Im goona go hunting on the net now lol!












***South

G'day mate! Woken up? ;-)












***Kroopa Shah

Kr000pzyyy WC!


**bit that may also be due to the fact that I expect too much.

I actually dun expect much..Im being honest..lol mebbe I should expect alot :):)

Thanks and Happy New Year to u too!












***Dawn

Dawwwnyyy muahhhhhh!

High Five! ;-)


**so u will get the right one just at the right time....may be this year brings all that you wish for ;)

aww lets see..if it happens I'd have to invite a whole heap of blog mates too :):)













***Stud

hey bebo :)


OMG Studddo u wrote that?? Lord indeed lol! WOW!












***Wallycrawler


Hi again :)

**Man there's a lot of lonely guys out dare , 102 comments ."Waz up wit dat"?

lol yep alot of lonely hearts..including me :) Now we r lonely no more hehehe...wut a merry bunch ha!

Keshi.

southpaw said...

Ya thanks for that buzz or else i wud hv continued all day long....lols

saby said...

i am still lonely
havent found a lover yet






Psssstt! M00niee
i dont mind xtra- marital

Keshi said...

lolz South u sounde really groggy hahahaha!








Saby now ur molesting m000nie jeeeeeez lol!


Keshi.

southpaw said...

i m always like that keshi....:)

Ash said...

Hey Keshigirl ........

In the Bible, there is this concept that the woman that is Eve was created from the Rib of Adam...by god...

i really haven't ventured much into the truth about it but it is a standard saying in my native place atleast about the each's man missing rib (as if one was missing) in his wfie would be ....s
so the marriage search mockingly said is the search for that missing rib ......

good morning Girl .....
Ash

Keshi said...

***South

aww u mean ur voice is groggy all the time? cant be..but it sure is deep wow!











***Ash

oh thanks for that story dear...very interesting! I guess my man's ribs r all in place within his own body..lol!


Keshi.

uttara said...

keshiii....

heyy
hugzzzzzz

ok i read groggy .. that too southy ..lollzzzzz na na he sounds ahem ahem ...



southy ... ask me na how u sound ;;)( batting my eyelasheds )


keshi u will know am right next time ...:p


both of u i am missing u 2 sooo much ...sobbbzzz


uttara

PuNeEt said...

hey peace out sweeti
no intention of hurting u...
hugggzzzzzzzz

am always a show off ... aint I ;-)
modesty doesnt suit my personality
:-)
lolzzzz kidding sweeti

U only said u can be happy single...
so ur confusing God... U see...
I can never ever be happy being a single...

Infact I've met quite a few people whom I can feel are somewhat close to that Ms Right...

am not asking u to luv every man u meet... but is it that difficult to find Mr. Right ???

may be ur expectations are too high...

Hope that Mr. Right of ur life knocks the door of ur heart soon...
and make sure u shut the door forever so that no1 exit ;-)
(but shut the door only after he enters ;-) lolzzz )

Huggzzzzzz

Keshi said...

***Uttara

aww u miss us...dun miss us cos we'll bedoing the tango soon lol, na South? :):)


Huggggggggz!














***Puneet

Pu Bear lol na I aint upset u big fat show-off...lol! I know ur lucky in love and Im J now :(:( just kidding man lol!

Im not confusing the guy upstairs..he's confusing me hehehe...:):)


**may be ur expectations are too high...

na...infact my only expectation is for the guy to love me truly and the guys I meet cant even do that simple thing lol! ok mebbe I just lied there..hehehe...


**and make sure u shut the door forever so that no1 exit ;-)
(but shut the door only after he enters ;-)

lol I shut it even b4 he got out of his car..ok let me see if I can have my door opened next time, atleast the fly screen lol!


Keshi.

uttara said...

awwwww... u gonna do tango ...

utsy sobbszzzz buckets .. okie u do tango with him soon n then i will do mamo wen he meets me lolllzzzz

LMAO


uttara

Keshi said...

u can do ur Mambo Uttsy but our Tango is gonna be really beautiful and it's gonna be infront of the Sydney Opera house lol!

Keshi.

uttara said...

wait am catching the next flight to sydney ... n snatch u away from him ..lollzzzzzzzz


BTW the topic abt Mr right .. we both sail in the same boat so dont worry i have 1 more person to add on our charlies angels group ...lolllzzzzzzz

uttara

AmitKen said...

oh! Keshi,

what happened to you???? :-o


and Saby,
you rock man!
lol @ the comment about stiff part of britishers ;)

sittingnut said...

heyyyy!

My grand-kids? lol who r they? - why not? they are as cute as can be. you will be sooooo proud of them.

so Mr/Miss Right is there for each and everyone, even though they may not be perfect.. - no no they have to be perfect that is the concept. :-) your mr right at least will be.

special HUGGGGGGGZ to you too!


btw do we get to see the tango in front of opera house?

Keshi said...

***Uttara

lol dun fly to Sydney...fly to Perth ;-)


**i have 1 more person to add on our charlies angels group

huh who is that? na I wont approve of that lol!












***Amitken

what happened to me? lol what happened Amit?? u tell me hahaha!













***Sittingnut

hellooo hehe my grandkids will be sweet yes..but they'll be damn emotional too lol!

me tangoing in front of the Opera House loll..yep yep...wanna join? :)



Keshi.

uttara said...

nana .. add 1 more in the boat from the angels group st000nie ...lolll she is still hunting her IM i donno who dont ask me ...lollzzzzzz

ok i will fly wer u both meet lollzzzzz okie ... LMAO



mermaid :p

sittingnut said...

but they'll be damn emotional too lol! being emotional does not damn one! being cold does. :-)

me tangoing in front of the Opera House loll..yep yep...wanna join? :) - lol it would be a sight to behold, as a spectator. :-)

still_figuring_out said...

huhm. mr.right and mr.wrong. age old topic. ;) for me, appearance is important as well. after all, e person has to be presentable in order to attract someone right? i`m not only talking about suit-tie-polished shoe deal, as even hippies who look chic can be attractive. so that`s one.

then his smell. i am a sucker for nice smell. i am simply delighted my significant always smells so fresh and clean. heaven...

and (what will people think?) financial position. he has to be financially secure. i mean, seriously, can you be happy with a person who begs for his daily bread? be honest now...

as for being happy with a man..well keshi, this is just my point of view, ok? i know women who said they are totally happy without that special someone. that was when they were 20ish and exploring the career world. now, into their mid thirties, people have labelled them as sulky spinsters. i have personally experienced how it is when someone who does not have husbands or children to love them feel jealous over those who do. not envy, but jealous. and that makes them bad company.

i think no relationship is perfect. you have to learn each other`s faults and revolve your life around it. i am doing it, and living with it. happily. sometimes i wonder how my other half stands my crappy tantrums. but tolerates he does. and he still manages to love me ;)

but! please do not settle for losers! or jerks! you just have to find your way towards love :)

Rohit Talwar said...

SRK? y do all females i know like him!

Abhishek Upadhyay said...

Keshi,

That was hilarious.
You know how to play with words and make people to come on your blog too often.

Hey where do you get those cool cartoon pics?

Keep peninn

Abhishek

Michelle said...

nice post kesh...
well lol yeh im a little young for the whole 'mr right' thing but wen it comes to guyz yeh even i usually ended up bein wid a jerk...it was like im a magnet for jerks or sumtin...but nah its not alwez tht way...im juz lookin at it frm a boyfriend aspect not netin serious...like i wudnt use da words 'mr right' cuz like i said ive not reached tht phase wer i cud decide for myself bout 'the one' hehehe
but neway...i think it juz depends on the right company or...i dunno...u juz eventually do find tht one person tht understands u n is more of a best frnd to u than a boyfrnd.someone u can trust,relate to easily...someone that knoz wat u feel and actually cares n respects wat u feel.
right now,ive found sucha person n i cant thank god nuff...i wont say luck...mebbe u juz hafta keep lookin...n u only succeed for sure after u fail.
ok...i dunno wat the hell tht was...lol cuz i dun usually get so philosophical hehhehee...neway good luck kesh!!!

Sudeep said...

so where are all the great guys? They say either they are married or are gay, so then when is it my turn to bump into my man or is it that he has already turned gay?

lollllzzzz..

it seems it is very hard to impress u.. guys around u sure have a tough time huh?

hope this new yr brings u ur man..

I dont believe Mr/Miss Right exists.. u just have to adjust urself to believe ur partner is tht one

susubala said...

I've got nothing to comments when it comes to individual choice of their life partner. Looks and outer beauty cant be eternal, but the inner beauty and quality one posses come with us life long. You better choose for the one who has beauty clubbed with good heart. Probably its difficult to find...

Better to have ur parents choice, if u have so much confusion in finding one !

Gangadhar said...

Nice write up,Keshi dear...
Not read fully..sorry...come back later..

Gangadhar said...

Keshi dear,
not read completely...
sorry..
Come back later

tulipspeaks said...

aarrghhh..my comment wasn't posted huh..funny blogger..nvm, let me try again..


'Keshi your man will come along at the right time'...'Keshi there is a soul mate for everyone and he will come on horseback just for you'.

nope..me not going to tell all that..coz i hear that all the time.. *sigghh...


parava ille keshi..let us join force and find THE man..err..btwn, do you believe in sharing..lolz..

hugsss honey..


=am000nie=

Baroque said...

i so0 agree!
i'm single and happy!
;) and as for the jerk attraction thing.. i'm sure its just a phase!

Kavitha said...

WC to my world Kavi :) and thanks!


**happiness is a world you create around you and decorate it with the things you value most in life...

thats such a beautiful way to express what being happy means...THANK U!


hey keshi
Your world seems to be larger than life babes...way to go gurl!!!

Gangadhar said...

very well written,Keshi..
And so beautifully depicted how Mr Right would be...
And I believe you'll definitely meet your kind of guy...

take care

Nitika said...

lol @disturb
yeah they will distrub for sure....i haven't been engaged in such relations but got to know from frens...alwyas break-up and patch-up....huh...how miserable life will be ni!!!.....

how's u honey!!!...
wish u grt weekend...
muaahhhzzzzz

La_Surrealiste said...

Lolllll Keshu..the Waiting fer Mr. Right piccy is hilarious..lol!! I do hope u find a 'right' one soon gurlie ..muuuaaaah!! Happy New Year! rock on!

Stud said...

babester,

I feel that if I could get myself remade, as if turned to gold, i WOULD not even then desire to become more than the mere setting of that diamond you must always wear :)

stud

saby said...

Right is probably rong

God nos the one for u
(marriages are arranged marriages made in heaven)

i have a strong feeling the guy who loves u most is a mouse

i had no intention of getting married

the mostest reason for a bachelor to want to marry is home cooked meals-laundry-sex

i was getting all

then a damn wooman at my office introduced me to a bandra girl

i had no date for christmas
it is tuff for a boy wid no sisters to get a date

so i booked her for the bandra gym dance

it was diwali then
the guys at the office had a good laff

maria blurted it out
then on i was called ponga pandit

to cut a long story short
i married her

she didnt have beeg tits
but she made me laff a lott

i orgasm when i laff

saby said...

dont u tink
it is better to be an old man's dahling ?




than a young man's slave

saby said...

i gott married at age 30
and i have gott the 7 year itch 3 times now

Kerry said...

*giant smiles* i am so happy for you doll! all my love and best wishes for the future

saby said...

I value everyone's views and I intend to grow from them, so you're most welcome to express yourselves





dats funny coming from u Miss Moderator

Pallavi said...

oh boy! Mr/miss Right lies in the eyes of the beholder.

i loved this...my man sure is still in Mars not knowing where Earth is - poor guy!

MS said...

Not just '4 a while' , but '4 a Mile of Years' matey!! :-)
Yes U've got 2 b here for some more time....FULL STOP n No more requests will b entertained!!..lol.. :D

Catch up later dear....
Cheers!!
MS

Trinity Teal™ said...

hey keshi,
me 1st timer here :)
Dont worry there is somebody somewhere 4 u dudette ... jus keep lookin!

PRADEEP K. said...

i miss u

alice said...

enjoy the wrong ones till mr right comes along.....
happy new yr girl...

Invincible said...

Hey Keshu,
Should i say May this new year bring out ur Mr Right from Mars and besot you forever !

Have u read 'eleven minutes' by Paulo Coelho? Try ur hand someday @it to learn more about men :)

Do u know the concept of 'arranged marriage'? let ur 'angels' guide u on the way :)

P.S. I see comment moderation active !!

Brood Mode said...

Happy New Year! Maybe this year you will find your man!

Joy said...

This was a very nice post Keshi. Glad I stopped by here today :)

Ajay said...

u will find 1 soon buddy

Loki said...

keshi,
tanx for your comments on my blog,
you're obviously intelligent ;) You'll get your beau, and when you do... believe it or not... it'll be worth the wait.

Sonia said...

yeah, finding your Mr. Right is a tough thing. and i'm beginning to feel there really isn't one ( for me).

Keshi said...

***Uttara


lol Mermaid where is st000nie Angel aww..I michhhh her :(











***Sittingnut

ellooo!


**being emotional does not damn one! being cold does. :-)

U r spot on there!


**lol it would be a sight to behold, as a spectator. :-)

hehe u used the term 'lol' and Im so delighted...cos I thought only I lol alot..lolll see! :):)

Hows ur weekend so far? I just read the news abt the SL Naval vessel explosion..so sad!!













***Still_figuring_out

hiyyya girl!


**for me, appearance is important as well. after all, e person has to be presentable in order to attract someone right?

so damn right and Im with u on that one! Appearance DOES matter at the start...


**en his smell. i am a sucker for nice smell. i am simply delighted my significant always smells so fresh and clean. heaven...

awww u r soo like me girl...I love a good clean smelling yummy guy ;-) I always like to smell nice and feel fresh so I'd expect the same from a guy...


**and (what will people think?) financial position. he has to be financially secure.

ur right there too! Ofcourse the guy has to be established in some career and should be having future goals. U dun want a guy to sit at home and expect u to be the man of the house...



**that was when they were 20ish and exploring the career world. now, into their mid thirties, people have labelled them as sulky spinsters.

so true! Especially Indian women past a certain age (say 28) and single would be like doomed...even tho Western culture is not like that. It's society's expectation and tho individuals thinks differently, it's hard for such girls...


**you have to learn each other`s faults and revolve your life around it.

spot on!


**i am doing it, and living with it. happily. sometimes i wonder how my other half stands my crappy tantrums. but tolerates he does. and he still manages to love me ;)

aww soooo sweet! That's a perfect kind of r'ship...may God bless u two!


**but! please do not settle for losers! or jerks! you just have to find your way towards love :)

thanks very much for being so concerned and for all the great advice huggggggggz!













***Rohit_Talwar

hiiii Rohit!

**SRK? y do all females i know like him!

lol yep :):) why??














***Abhishek_Upadhyay

Thanks matey :)


**Hey where do you get those cool cartoon pics?

Net ofcourse :) Just surf..hehe..













***Michelle

heyy Mich hows it going?


**wen it comes to guyz yeh even i usually ended up bein wid a jerk...

aww so ur my cuz? lol!


**it was like im a magnet for jerks or sumtin...

hahahaha me too! :)


**someone u can trust,relate to easily...someone that knoz wat u feel and actually cares n respects wat u feel.

soooo right Mich! U r wise beyond ur years. I guess that someone for me hasnt come along yet tho :(


**right now,ive found sucha person n i cant thank god nuff...i wont say luck...

wowwwwww lucky guy!

Thanks so much for ur well-wishes and I wish u 2 the same - muahhhhhhh!











***Sudeep

Suddzz heyyy!


**it seems it is very hard to impress u.. guys around u sure have a tough time huh?

naaaaaaaaaa lol! No way! It's nothard to impress me - Im not some tough cookie....Im a very soft, gentle soul who has a big heart and is very friendly :) Dun u know who I am by now awww...well it's just that the guys I meet r hard to understand lol! It seems like all the net guys here are angels from Heaven and why dun i meet such guys in real??? :)


**hope this new yr brings u ur man..

Is there some predicted Mars Landing? lolllz!


**I dont believe Mr/Miss Right exists.. u just have to adjust urself to believe ur partner is tht one

Me too :) Thanks!













***Susubala

Sumi heyy hows ya?


**Looks and outer beauty cant be eternal, but the inner beauty and quality one posses come with us life long. You better choose for the one who has beauty clubbed with good heart. Probably its difficult to find...

Sooo true! I believe in exactly what u said...but yeah, it's not an easy find...


**Better to have ur parents choice, if u have so much confusion in finding one !

It's not that Im confused :) But even if I say YES to arranged marriages, it's ultimately my choice isnt it?

thanks girl...












***Gangadhar

Heyyy Gangzz take ur time mate, thanks :)















***Amutha

Amu heyyyy muahhhh!

Yup it wasnt posted...mebbe something happened b4...


**nope..me not going to tell all that..coz i hear that all the time.. *sigghh...

lolllz awww hugggz girl, dun be sad now...


**parava ille keshi..let us join force and find THE man..err..btwn, do you believe in sharing..lolz..

lollllllllz! unnakku share panna venum endra, naan OK :) LOL!












***Charisma

WC Charisma and thanks!


**i'm single and happy!

lol me too but I would like it if I have a good man to share my life with...would be nice to have someone to pour all my love to :)


**;) and as for the jerk attraction thing.. i'm sure its just a phase!

lol how long will this phase be?












***Kavitha

heyyy Kavi hows ya? Glad to see u again...


**Your world seems to be larger than life babes...way to go gurl!!!

aww thanks but it's still not complete without love from a good man na...:*(













***Nitika

heyyy sweety!

hahahaha @disturb!


**alwyas break-up and patch-up....huh...how miserable life will be ni!!!.....

lol yep! I have broken up with my ex in the morning and then gotten back together in 2hrs time...i's misery mate lol!


**how's u honey!!!...

Im doing great cos I had a big weekend..has cosuins staying over at my place for 3 nights...they left just now so got some time to check my blog :) We had so much fun at the beach and movies...how abt u?













***La_Surrealiste

heyyy fm muahhhhhhhhhh milady!

lol @waiting-for-Mr.Right pic!


**I do hope u find a 'right' one soon gurlie ..muuuaaaah!! Happy New Year! rock on!

thanks babeh muahhhhhh I miss u :(














***Stud

heyyy studddo hows ya?


**I feel that if I could get myself remade, as if turned to gold, i WOULD not even then desire to become more than the mere setting of that diamond you must always wear :)

whatttt :):) u r turning into gold and dun wanna be my diammond awww lol! so sweeeeeeet!












***Saby

ellooooo Saby :)


**Right is probably rong

Ur right..:)


**God nos the one for u
(marriages are arranged marriages made in heaven)

So God is a proposal guy..lol!


**i have a strong feeling the guy who loves u most is a mouse

huh??? ewwwwww u mean a rodent? lol!


**i had no intention of getting married, the mostest reason for a bachelor to want to marry is home cooked meals-laundry-sex

dun tell me every man thinks like u Saby lol!


**to cut a long story short
i married her

yeyyyyy cheers to u two! :)


**she didnt have beeg tits
but she made me laff a lott i orgasm when i laff

EWWWWWWWW! go away Saby!



**dont u tink it is better to be an old man's dahling ?

na..I want a young body like mine LOL! Just joking...well age doesnt matter, but not too older than I am...no ways..


**than a young man's slave

na why would I be a slave..he would be my slave..lol! na joking. But I dun like big age gaps. That becomes a pain too and clash of opinions.


**i gott married at age 30
and i have gott the 7 year itch 3 times now

what is that???


**dats funny coming from u Miss Moderator

I VALUE valuable comments...not trash :)
















***Kerry

Huggggggz Kerry girl!

Thanks sweety same to ya!















***Pallavi

hi my dear!


**oh boy! Mr/miss Right lies in the eyes of the beholder.

wow what a great way to put it! Thanks!














***MS

hellooo MS!

**Not just '4 a while' , but '4 a Mile of Years' matey!! :-)

aww I dunno abt YEARS but will see :)


**Yes U've got 2 b here for some more time....FULL STOP n No more requests will entertained!!..lol.. :D

LOL huggggggggz! U r so sweet!!













***The_Grunge_Gestapo

hello Grunge WC and thanks!


**Dont worry there is somebody somewhere 4 u dudette ... jus keep lookin!

really? Then why is my friend's Aunt unmarried and is single at 65? That sounds scary :(













***PRADEEP K

awww I missed u all too....Im here now :)














***Alice

ahoyyyyyyy Alice hugggggs WB!


**enjoy the wrong ones till mr right comes along.....
happy new yr girl...

Happy New year to u too babez! Yep I should atleast enjoy them na ;-)













***Invincible

v000nie huggz where were ya? awww so good to see ya here :)


**Should i say May this new year bring out ur Mr Right from Mars and besot you forever !

lol thank ye thank ye...so sweet!


**Have u read 'eleven minutes' by Paulo Coelho? Try ur hand someday @it to learn more about men :)

lol learn abt men?? no ways! I dun have to lolllz! Men should learn abt women :):) and be more sweet and polite and sensitive...aww...I mean like u :):)


**Do u know the concept of 'arranged marriage'? let ur 'angels' guide u on the way :)

aww yes I know..but I dunno..let's allow the angels to guide me then :) Thanks mate ur too sweet!


**P.S. I see comment moderation active !!

lol yes finally! Hey why cant I see ur comment section??













***Brood_Mode

heyyyy Broody happy new year to u too huggggz!


**Maybe this year you will find your man!

lol lets hope so :) thanks!












***Joy

Hiyyya Joy WC and thanks!

**This was a very nice post Keshi. Glad I stopped by here today :)

Ur most WC to come back anytime ok...see ya!











***Ajay

ello matey :)

**u will find 1 soon buddy

thanks lol!












***Loki

heyyy WB and thanks!


**tanx for your comments on my blog, you're obviously intelligent ;) You'll get your beau, and when you do... believe it or not... it'll be worth the wait.

yep I think I will then look back and wonder what happened to my happy single days lol, thanks!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

***Sonia

G'day Sonnzz missed ya tonz...Hope the holiday season was great for ya...


**yeah, finding your Mr. Right is a tough thing. and i'm beginning to feel there really isn't one ( for me).

It is tougher than my Discrete Maths paper..lol! But in the end I passed it with a Distinction :) so guess we will find our Mr.Rights eventually too: - Fingers crossed babez ;-)


Keshi.

niki yokota said...

hi keshi-chan!! happy new year!
my fav writer said 'Cute & Sexy' is the last things when u choose a good husband(^o^;;;
yeah i also like sexy hunks but they will never make a good hubby. they get bored easily and look for another love affairs. my ex had divorced 2 times, has 4 kids now. it shows how much unloyal he was...lol
lets find someone plain and not cute!!! (am i wrong??)

Datingmaster, Jerusalem said...

Hi Keshi I wihs you happy new year
and good luck finding Mr Right
I want to ask you should I sleep with anothe rwoman to save my marriage?
come to my site and comment?

sittingnut said...

hello mate!

wish you a great week!

yes it's sad about the things that happen here . :-(
it's a good thing you are so far away.

u used the term 'lol' and Im so delighted- lol! if it delights you so much, i will be 'glad' to do lollllllll a lot too.:-) glad to laugh, in other words.
lollllllllllllllllllll!
it's easy to do in the presence of an angel like you, who brings so much happiness to others.

Sugababee said...

Really good post Keshi...

About Mr. Right, and wether there really is one...hmmm perhaps there is "the one", but in the realm of things, amungst the bazillion people on this planet; what are the chances that you meet that ONE person thats MEANT for YOU? I mean people always say "oh, I've found THE ONE". Not true. It's a shame but i think that there is a very tiny percentage of people who can truly say they've met the one. Now don't get me wrong, the one that everyone thinks is "the one" is still MR RIGHT...i mean afterall you're together but it's just that he's not THE ONE. And i know you said not to say this, but he will come, and you will be happy with him...juss give it time and it will happen naturally... his horse is recuperating, give the mare a chance huh ;)

Mirage said...

Gosh tell me abt it! Its an ordeal to go look for Mr Right! I'm having doubts whether theyre actually being manufactured now... coz everywhere I go, they say 'out of stock'!!

Good luck tho!

saby said...

i cud be right 4 miss sonia
if only i werent so rong

Keshi said...

***Niki

omg Niki is here! HUGGGGGGGGGGZ! Where r u right now sweety, I miss ya heaps!


**'Cute & Sexy' is the last things when u choose a good husband(^o^;;;

SO true! I wanna meet that writer mann lol!


**yeah i also like sexy hunks but they will never make a good hubby.

That so true. But I dun mean I need Tom-Cruise look-alikes lol! I wont be comfy with too good-looking men cos I aint Asihwarya Rai either na :) I meant only a decent appearance and some good old attraction - thats all :)


** my ex had divorced 2 times, has 4 kids now.

Niki u were married b4?? Sorry i didnt know! Wow so u can teach me abt marriage and stuff :)
yep he seems to be very unloyal..and now he must be paying heavy child-care fees LOLLL!


**lets find someone plain and not cute

aww na na...every guy is cute in his own sweet way...just that the cute one made just for u has to come along :)

Thanks babez hugggggz!














***Sittingnut

ellooooo hugggggggggz!


**it's a good thing you are so far away

yeah but is it good that we r so far away from each other? :*(


**if it delights you so much, i will be 'glad' to do lollllllll a lot too

awww HUGGGGGGGGGZ! Ur so cute when u do that 'lolllll' :):) I think I made a lot of serious guys go crazy lolllz! Im sorry ok :):)


**it's easy to do in the presence of an angel like you, who brings so much happiness to others

Thats such a sweet thing to say...so if u really meet me, u'll be giggling all the time...lol..Im sure u will..cos I love to laugh - ask my mum - she thinks Im nuts hehehe..:):)












***Sugababee

oii babez where were ya? I missed u, zilli and the gang so much! And now wheres Tanvi?? I miss her too :*(


**what are the chances that you meet that ONE person thats MEANT for YOU?

Ur spot on abt that! Goshh it's a tough job na. Not that Im too picky..but if we r to be together we have to click no matter what the differences r..


**i mean afterall you're together but it's just that he's not THE ONE

ur so right girl! Cos I have some friends who r just sticking with each other cos they just have to. And then I have some other friends who have found the perfect one....not to mean that those guys r perfect...but they r their imperfect perfection :)


**his horse is recuperating, give the mare a chance huh

aww lol so sweet! ok lets hope that thats the case and wait n see :) Thanks for the well-wishes huggggggz babee!















***Mirage

heyyy my dear hows ya?

** I'm having doubts whether theyre actually being manufactured now... coz everywhere I go, they say 'out of stock'!!


LOL u r right...I feel the same! So many men out there but where is Mr.Right? I better go to their factory then lolll! Thanks :)












***Saby

lol ur funny!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

***DatingMaster

lol ur nic makes me laugh but WC and Happy New Year matey :)


**I want to ask you should I sleep with anothe rwoman to save my marriage?
come to my site and comment?


huhhhhhhhhhh! How would that save ur marriage???


Keshi.

saby said...

heyyyyyy Kesh

u had a longg christmas vacation
do tell us wat happened out there

Caraf has some ideas

Hedwig Dasouza said...

, Come to GOA for the time of your life ,


CAUTION: once u reach the shores of Goa. u will never want to go back !

Hedwig Dasouza said...

Shit !


i meant to propose to m00niee
her mom said 'Yes'

Keshi said...

Saby what happened was that the Imposter got pregnant (with too much garbage in her head) cos I have Comment Moderation on lol! It just had to explode some other way na :)



Goa sounds beautiful...I will somehow visit Goa before I get married lol!


Keshi.

sittingnut said...

hey mate !

but is it good that we r so far away from each other? :*(
of course not ! but it's better that you are away from this warmongering place .

think I made a lot of serious guys go crazy lolllz! Im sorry ok :):)
lol, no! i am just happy not crazy, though i wont mind getting a bit crazy over you :-)

she thinks Im nuts hehehe - there! we can both be nuts( i am a nut even in name remember) and giggle to the heart's content.:-)

huggggz!.

Hedwig Dasouza said...

hasnt it occured to u thick heads
dat one Mr/Mrs Right is absurd

wat if i like blondes and brunettes too ?

Hedwig Dasouza said...

posted dis to a single mom who came out of the closet recently
she is now having a relationship wid a girl dat is flipping from hot to cold
bcoz of jealousy. she is seeing more than one .

saby said...
My g/f has admitted to being jealous ....

dats good i suppose
but why must relationships be exclusive ?


why cant we love more than one?
why cant i love u guys and my wife too?

LOVE for my wife dont get diminshed by me loving others too

the fountain of love never runns dry

a beautiful flower is meant to be seen and to give its fragrance to all

clipping the flower and putting it into a vase will surely kill it


i wish LOVE cud be shared
jealousy, possessiveness is not becoming of beautiful ppl

but i guess
i am just a dreamer

wont happen in my life time

its called Ramrajya by the hindus in india

Hedwig Dasouza said...

Intorspection ....


I do think that traumatic events or sudden changes in someone's situation can trigger depression, but people who are bi-polar or schizophrenic are just more sensitive to these changes. Kinda like the straw that broke the camel's back...
-but do you think that certain situations precipitate the onset of depression? For example, you were in the city and everything seemed fine, but you come back home and...
-I agree with you there. I am sure I would be happier if I were in a different situation, but with all the things with my mom, it sorta was an unexpected thing, now I have to take care of her and put myself second; but yes, I agree, it might be part of the problem and solution.
-And now?
- well, I am going to stay with my mom a month or two.It will give me some time to sort shit out. And let him adjust to being alone...
- do you feel guilty? Would you feel guilty for precipitating the breakup?
- Of course I would! nobody wants to be the bearer of bad news!
- so you might be hedging on the eventual breakup because you don't want him to hurt, cause you'll feel guilty.
- well, would would not want to feel guilty!! Unless you're amoral or a sociopath - guilt is not the emotion of choice..

Keshi said...

***Saby

well u got a good point...but...

**wont happen in my life time


what d u mean? ppl still love alot...it's only few losers who dunno what love is :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

***Sittingnut

hiiiiiiii mate! :)

**lol, no! i am just happy not crazy, though i wont mind getting a bit crazy over you

oh how good is that! High Five and ~~giggles~~ :):)


** am a nut even in name remember

LOL thats so funny hahahahaha!


Keshi.

icyblue said...

Hey Keshi....

Guys are jerks! There is no perfect one.. All they do is enter our lives, give us a lil happiness and throw us into hell with the pain they bring along...

Trust me girl... U r much happier being single and free, rather than tied up...

But then they do say... there is someone out there for u.. I dont know how true that is...and I feel that exists only in books/movies... anyways girl...relax and dont worry too much abt finding the right guy... Enjoy what u already have...

Cheers and huggz,
Icy :)

niki yokota said...

awww~ keshi-chan!?
i wrote abt my ex bf, not ex hubby..lololol
abt my marriage status, i dont feel like writing. haha~
every guy is cute in his own sweet way??
oh ur sooo Sweet like an angel!!!!
i dont see any cuteness in guys around here. maybe thats why im not in love(^o^;;;
thanks for ur comment reply!!!!

milo said...

yes even m waiting fr my soulmate..
dnt knw if hes gng to be mr. right or wrong, jes wish dat our souls hav such a connection dat wen we r together we tend to enjoy n adjust wid both d rights n wrongs of our life..

Abhishek Khanna said...

mmmm i m thinking of writing MS. right on my blog.... i also havnt find the perfect match.. hope to get one soon...

Keshi said...

***Icy_Blue

muahhhhhhhhh Icy I missed ya!


**Guys are jerks! There is no perfect one..

so true! I cant believe how jerky they can get!! One of my friends has a long-term GF and he lied to me saying he doesnt have one...I just found out...why did he lie?? How sick is that?


**Trust me girl... U r much happier being single and free, rather than tied up...

I know that very well - goshhh lol! Cos I was with one for a long time and in the end he showed how jerky he was...Im much happier now but it would be nice to have a man in ur life...isnt it.


**But then they do say... there is someone out there for u.. I dont know how true that is...and I feel that exists only in books/movies...

u think so? awwww :*(


**anyways girl...relax and dont worry too much abt finding the right guy... Enjoy what u already have...

so true..thanks for being so encouraging Icy hugggggggggz!
















***Niki

elllooo babez!


**i wrote abt my ex bf, not ex hubby..lololol

ROFL! oh ok hahahahah sorry mate!


**abt my marriage status, i dont feel like writing. haha~

well u will marry some day if not now na Niki...:):)


**i dont see any cuteness in guys around here. maybe thats why im not in love(^o^;;;

huh really? no cute guys in Japan? cant be :):)













***Milo

WC Milo!


**jes wish dat our souls hav such a connection dat wen we r together we tend to enjoy n adjust wid both d rights n wrongs of our life..

so right! Thanks!














***Abhishek Khanna

heyyyy...


**i also havnt find the perfect match.. hope to get one soon...

Good luck mate :) and thanks!




Keshi.

laks said...

awesome post..... anyways... as for me i have given up finding Miss Perfect... i dont think she is out there

Keshi said...

***Laks

hey WC and thanks :)

Given up? awww...well not until ur so sure of not finding her...hehe...good luck!


Keshi.

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