Girls, have you noticed that some guys just can't take their eyes off your ass/chest or the entire body? Well I have noticed that so many times and it's bloody irritating. It's one thing to be looked at and appreciated as a woman, but altogether a rather embarassing and harassing experience when the looker is a born pervert or when he's a Phd-holder in Pervertology. Some guys just don't know when to stop staring! I don't know if guys get the similar treatment from ladies but it's mostly guys who can't stop staring at a girl's ass/boobs. What is it with these men? Why are men so addicted to a pair of boobs and that butt that they have too? Can any guy answer this please :) I mean I have had some guys basically talk to my chest, as if my face was a couple of inches below! It's like 'Hi Keshi, WOW, ok so hows life?'. LOL, I'm laughing now, but it truly is annoying. It's not like I can tell them 'Could you stop talking to my cleavage cos my face is up here, not down there...'.When I'm travelling to work, I have seen so many guys perv at many body parts of women.
Well it's ok to look at something beautiful as long as you don't touch...but there's always a limit to looking too, isn't there? I have noticed some guys staring so much that you'd just want to forget about catching the train and start walking home. And some other guys just pass these flimsy looks as if to ask 'Are you free, so can we talk...'...urgggggggggggh not in this life Mr.Jack Ogle! I have seen some guys practically freezing looking at some girls' assets and these girls were not even dressed scantily. I guess those guys may have collapsed somewhere half-way through their journey haha! And I have been subjected to quite a lot of pervy treatment that I'm even embarassed to write here (no I don't walk around in super mini skirts and boob-tubes!). Some men who are with their wives/girlfriends (at movies, mall or train stations) still stare at me and at other women...not just once but infinitely! If that was my boyfriend, I'd knock him unconscious, and Dr.Death will be called in for further help.I know that men are made of some very fragile hormones (lol I can see rotten eggs coming my way) but that doesn't mean they have the freedom to make women feel uneasy in public places. But I do know that all men are not like this. Some dudes have fine-tuned their habits
to minimise the damages ;-) Well don't get me wrong, even I look at good-looking guys and day-dream sometimes hehe, but I don't stare so much that the guy notices it and starts to feel uncomfortable. That's sexual harassment be it physical or not. No one has the right to make another feel uncomfortable by being stared at. But no one has the right to say 'don't stare' too. It's really frustrating. Luckily my work colleagues are great guys...and know their limits. But I'm sure there are tons of other women(even men) who get subjected to such harassment in many other countless ways at work/Uni/public places or even in their own homes! So tell me your experiences. And do not be afraid to speak out next time. If someone is bothering you and doing it for too long, let them know it and free yourself of the harassment. Don't just put up with it! 
127 Cranium Signets:
yippie me first for once :D
ha ha I'v noticed this too ... I'v even noticed people doin so with their own relatives ... men staring @ their brothers wife n all #-o ... so despicable creatures
I guess some ppl have just not outgrown from those animals instincts which seek nuthin more than next quota of food n gratification ... all else is dust
crudely put a plate of idlys n vadai is all they'd ask for
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that apart howdy ur weekend go?
I totally enjoyed this post Keshi! :D hhahaha how true..So true and it really makes me wonder as well why male species are so attracted to these parts...GOSH! I heard and have watched movies that mention that guy think about sex every 20 minutes. i wonder how true really....
and i totally agree on the it could be downright irritating when they keep looking without knowing the full stop to it. i mean its a boost when they look but when it goes overboard as in that pervertic grin it just irritates the hell outta of me. and it makes me even more irritated if they are married. like GOSH U have a wife for goodness sake. OLD mans freak me basically. lol.
Love this post. fun one and real one at that too!!
Take care lady!!
It happened with me once..On the crowded platform at the station, waiting for my morning train to work, I felt a man brush past my behind. Thinking that he was in a rush and so squeezed past a little too close by accident, I did nothing beyond glower in his direction. A minute later, it happened again, same man, same bottom. I moved faster this time, and more aggressively, swinging my fairly heavy bag in his direction. It did make contact, but perhaps not at the point I would have liked – he was not left writhing in agony, soprano, sadly enough.
What is the cheap thrill that men get from this sort of behaviour? Cop a glance and get energised for the day ahead? Waggle your eye balls at wimmen (of all age) and then go home feeling fulfilled? That would be an interesting and valuable study to make, wouldn’t it?
lol
after reading that i thought you are probably one of those females in delhi ;)
lol
i guess it happens everywhere, now my delhi is not as bad as some females sound it to be :)
~~Samy
yeyyy u r FIRST :)
**men staring @ their brothers wife n all #-o
eeeeeeeeks!
**guess some ppl have just not outgrown from those animals instincts which seek nuthin more than next quota of food n gratification
yep lol!
My weekend wa spuer bliss...with mum n sis and cousins..was terrific! How was ur's?
~~Jewel_Rays
lol Amy glad u like this post :):)
** I heard and have watched movies that mention that guy think about sex every 20 minutes. i wonder how true really....
Can any guy answer this plz?
Amy I heard that too lol! Lets see if guys can explain that...
**like GOSH U have a wife for goodness sake. OLD mans freak me basically. lol.
ROFTL! hahaha ur so cute!
~~Nikita
hey Niki :)
**A minute later, it happened again, same man, same bottom.
LOL haha that was so funny..same bottom LOL!
**It did make contact, but perhaps not at the point I would have liked
omg lol u really did that??? hahahahahaha!
**and then go home feeling fulfilled? That would be an interesting and valuable study to make, wouldn’t it?
haha yes and we an call it Menscraniumology...:)
~~Burf
hye Burfy long time! Wut happend to ya?
**after reading that i thought you are probably one of those females in delhi
one of what females? I hope u didnt mean prostitutes, cos that wud be such a low thing to say..even to a friend.
Keshi.
i can never understand women
they spend an hour or more to dress and look sexy before they step out
and when i look at her appreciatively and whistle
they call it sexual harassment
well here we worked on sat :( ... tho made up 4 it in the evening ... sunday was gud fun ... hearty siesta, blogger meet ;) ... gud times
It's liek a car wreck, you know you shouldn;t stare, but you have too. The thing that gets me is a woman walking throug the mall wiht everythgin ahnging out andf then gettign disturbed about soemdude looking. Waht'd she expect.
You are right, there is no place for that crap in the workplace.
Funny that the ones that catch my attention are the beasts that don't realize that bare midriff thing just ins't working for them, and that they are such a train wreck that adding that tattoo just compounds the problem. I know there's more to people than looks but love o' god we need to know our limits before heading out into public.
~~Saby
**and when i look at her appreciatively and whistle
they call it sexual harassment
na I dint mean the innocent whistles...its the Jack Ogles Im talking abt :)
~~Samy
u work on Sat? aww...anyways looks like u had a great weekend Samy wow :)
~~The_Phosgene_Kid
**a woman walking throug the mall wiht everythgin ahnging out andf then gettign disturbed about soemdude looking
well na...I dun have everything hanging out lol! Im pretty decently dressed :)
Keshi.
keshi,
a very balanced take on the issue. While its totally wrong to stare/oogle at a girl in a sleazy way, its equally wrong to brand all men alike. and anyway you cant stop people from lookin at u, but yes you surely have a right to be looked at in a decent way.
i am associated with BlankNoise Project, which is trying its best to fight this same menace in society. you can visit http://amitken.wordpress.com
I was sexually harrassed once....
..by a woman!!
She wouldn't stop staring at me, I felt as if she was raping me with her eyes.
What you gota say bout that Kesh? I agree some guys can be perverts, but not all girls are angels :p
hey keshi,
Chill!
I know exactly what u mean--in fact EVERY girl will relate to this!
But have reached a stage where I think I just have become immune to all this--I mean if staring till your eyes fall apart makes a guy feel any better--then do it for all I care!...It doesnt make me any less or more sexy, beautiful smart or decent than I am...
oh.. here is the link for blanknoise project -
http://blanknoiseproject.blogspot.com
cheers!
AmitKen
http://amitken.wordpress.com
u know wat... i think a lot of pepole(girls) have got used to being treated like that. They ignore it when being harassed, and in effect encourage the perverts. In fact a lot of ppl who do this do not even realize that their stares/comments/whistels are making someone uncomfortable. they need to be realize this, and they'll realize only when ppl stop getting used to this harassment.
hey.... I can instead write a post on this on my own blog ;-)
i can understand how ROHIT feels
i was passing by a girls college and evry one of dem was staring at my front
i turned blue and hurried away to check if my fly was open
it wasnt
but u cant really blame the non veggies
its the flesh they eat
they start drooling when they see flesh
~~Amitken
hey Amit :)
**While its totally wrong to stare/oogle at a girl in a sleazy way, its equally wrong to brand all men alike.
true...and I was only joking abt some men...na not all men r not like this and I think I said that in my post :)
**am associated with BlankNoise Project,
yes thats what was on my mind when I wrote this..cos u and Ish told me to write something on that and this is it...I hope its ok. Thanks for all the links...hope ppl will go there n read it too.
**they need to be realize this, and they'll realize only when ppl stop getting used to this harassment.
true...thats why ppl should speak up...
Thanks alot Amit!
~~4u2nvau
NV awww I missed ya terribly! U ok? Hope ur keeping well.
**She wouldn't stop staring at me, I felt as if she was raping me with her eyes.
lol omg who was this?
**What you gota say bout that Kesh? I agree some guys can be perverts, but not all girls are angels
Well I agree 100% with ya NV :) I didnt say ALL guys r preverts did I, awww...and na not all girls r angels, no ways!
~~Ekta
hey Ekta :)
**But have reached a stage where I think I just have become immune to all this-
LOL!
yeah ur right..it doesnt make a woman feel less/more...but it sure is annoying and quite uncomfortable...
~~Saby
**i turned blue and hurried away to check if my fly was open
:) if it wasnt opened then why were they staring at ya...must be u forgot ur pants altogether and were in ur boxers? lol hahaha!
Keshi.
~~Jim
**they start drooling when they see flesh
na they drool cos they have a salivating disease..in this case..lol!
Keshi.
I know how to deal with them.
We males are hardwired to investigate the potential reproductive ASSets of prospective partners. It is a bloody annoying nuisance for us too.
Eons of evolutionary trial and error have favored males with the ability to quickly summise the profitablity of fertilising healthy egg donors. You must remember that a lot of prehistoric quickies were mandatory for a lot of guys while the alpha male was out clubbing the last guy who tried to mate with the alpha female.
Keep in mind that most of the sperm is killer/blocker sperm and only a chosen few are egg fertilisers. Enough with the science.
With all due respect to the equality of the sexes; Like it or not men love to behold women and women have been designed to attract them or you and I wouldn't be having this discussion.(Other primates can nurse without portruding breasts)
Oggling exists at various levels of repugnancy from culture to culture and is usually more pervasive in oggling friendly locations like beaches in the Mediteranean or Oz (as opposed to the level of oggling at the misogynist veil & burka ensemble in a segregated Saudi shopping centre)
Here in Canada we only have four parka free months at the beach so there are a lot of stiff necks out there in the summer.
I am not apologizing for the boorish louts but I consciously work at being politely subtle. Having two beautiful daughters has certainly helped redefine acceptable behavior for me.
Sorry for the tedious frickin' essay..
Guys
WATCH IT
stay away from Sunita
yup
me too
i fear for my daughter
i am trying to get her to wear Burkha
and i will kill the guy dat stares at her boobs and ass
these disturb me too
fine keshi..
hmm..
I know this is one of those touchy topics for women!
All I can say is that..men will be men,...doesnt matter what u wear...its all in their head!..
Such men are assholes..and can imagine...even if a women stares at me like this I would feel extremely uncomfortable..!
*sigh*...where do i start and where do i end?!
start this debate with men and u can end up hearing the most inane and crazy excuses from them...justifying so called male behaviour...(they can't help it u see!)
i want to step out of my house without feeling like an object...i want to walk arnd without eyes following me...
it doesn't matter if i'm alone or with a guy...or even my son...men look..stare:-(...it doesn't matter what i wear either...be it jeans, skirts or a sari! men stare...
not coz m exceptionally good lukin...lolz...but JUST BECAUSE I AM A WOMAN...simple! I cld luk like shit...yet there'd be some guy there...frustrated (?) enuff!
...and i can't begin to recall instances...or narrate a single episode...it just starts a chain of thots and it's quite a pain just recounting stuff most women (in fact all women) already know and have experienced day in and day out!!
hmmmm...!
but if u get d time...read this...a post i wrote back in Jan titled "Make a Difference"...
http://ishipishi.blogspot.com/2006_01_05_ishipishi_archive.html
Like this post Keshi... Argh, I had this experience too. I was at Singapore for holiday. I was taking the bus to go to another destination then a couple went up the bus and standing infront of me. The girl's back was facing me and the boy was facing his gf of course... He kept hugging her and touching her.. well, I don't mind that but what I mind was... He was looking at me up and down again and again and then stop at my breast. All the while he was looking at me and staring at me... He was touching his gf...Yucks...
hmmm...women encourage perverts by ignoring them??!...ever wondered why women ignore such men?
i agree sum men out there get unnerved when a woman retaliates...BUT NOT ALL!
and there's yet another breed of men with whom no woman would want to mess with...dunno abt other countries but in India, not many ppl come forward when a woman objects!
"speak out"..."object"...easier said than done!! and hell women are doing that...how about guys out there taking up the cause for women and against men?...
don't just come up with reasons why...don't make politically correct statements...!
Just walk out of ur house and intervene when u see a woman getting uncomfy...wld u?
ummm..ok...that Keshi...was specifically for sum of d guys arnd here:)...
ps: burf? where's ur delhi? :-)... but then being a guy i don think u'd be at the receiving end of such treatment...?!:)..
i should tell the truthn here. If a girl wear a moden dress (or glamour dress) and pass me, my eyes automaticaly look her, but it will continue for just 2 or 3 seconds. We can see the beautiful girls form a limited distance, but we should be clear that our views should not sent her into uncomfortable.
I know, how we look other girls, like the same way other guys will also saw our mom or sisters, so i mostly avoid seeing girls.
I think most guys have no clue how to look and yet seem to be not looking?
Also all one needs is a quick glance, that is no different than a nomral glance.
My wife tells me desis tends to stare more then other men, not a statistical observation though.
I'd advice every girl I know with the three point technique to sort out any troublesome guy
Fingers to the Eyes,
Elbow to the Sternum,
Knee to the Groin!!
Three Point Technique! Always Works!
hiya Keshi .... am just a bit caught up wid work .... thats why cldnt visit ya earlier ... :(
I'm afraid I'm not really gonna comment on today's issue ... I'm too busy staring at the wallpaper of Eliza Dushku on my PC .... :)
But seriously no one shld put up with harassment .... Speak up! Take action!!!
Darling Keshi,
indirectly giving us hints of your awesome voluptuous orb and voluptuous backside? :)
I knew it that my Sixth Sense can sense a sexy babe even from her posts without seeing her. My romantic and erotic senses have never failed me. So sexy Keshi, do send me a pix of your voluptuous Weapons of Mass Destruction (WMD), so that when I am bored of seeing the local babes here on Bonny Island I can gaze at you as my screensaver and swallow lumps of saliva in erotic rapture.
Now to your vital question, why most men cannot resist the temptation of being enraptured in the voluptuous pulchritude of Keshi and other sexy babes and ladies all over the world?
It is not their fault.
We are innocent of our hormones and innocent of our sexuality.
I did not create my awesome erection.
Man is born by a woman through the vagina and immediately on arrival from the great hole, he is given two soft and succulent boobs to suck till he is tired of sucking them for one or two years before being weaned on formula or something else. And he is always cradled on her thighs and he wakes up seeing her booty until he becomes a boy. So, he is fixated on the female organs of sexuality for years and they are now in his nature. Natural instincts respond to them when seen. So, as he grows up and sees the same boobs and buttocks on every girl and woman, he is naturally triggered to respond to them as he had been fed on them from the very day he came out from the womb through the great hole.
So, do you blame him?
Any man who does not gaze at the awesome chest and booty of any babe or lady is a great pretender or incomplete.
Even females gaze at the awesome boobs and buttocks of their fellow sexy mates, so who are we men not to be so enraptured in the awesome delight to sight of Keshi and her fellow bevy of daughters of Eve?
And exclaim as Adam exclaimed when he first set eyes on Eve, "Woow-man!" He was damed!
Keshi, so when are you coming to visit me on Bonny Island?
Awesome exotic beach, nature park, awesome golf course, gardens and the love and constant attention of the equally tall and tan Orikinla Osinachi. If you loved "Basic Instinct", then you would be ecstatic over my "Natural Instinct".
Gosh! Mon amour Keshi extatique!
God bless you 24/4!
one of those females who keep on cribbing about the state of crime against women in delhi
where did prostitues come from in here????? what all do u think re???
Smart post...I have heard tht men are more visually excited than women. Its one of the compositions of being a man.
Looking at sexy women, is something most of them do and even if a wife accompanies them, it does not make a difference I guess.
SOme guys, very few and trust me so very few just admire the beauty once and not stare at it. The blank gaze and stare has to go and that is with hard core grooming about the same and some amount of self respect and resocet for the woman in question too!
I used to think people would stop oogling at me once I am married but how wrong was I. Men sill stare at me, oh its not even men, teens stare at me thinking I am a teen girl in US and in India its the men. They all see my husband with me but still visually treat themselves.
One was saying that they literally undress you with their looks! How true.
It would be very interesting to folollow all your comments here and have the info from guys! They would have some theory and maybe it would include that we dress that too. They may say that if we wear loose tshirts and no tight jeans or skirts the attention wont be captured but, that is just eliminating a baggie dreesed person and they will still stare at other ladies which is not fair. They ought to stop it towards all!
Where the hell do you get these images?
I believe your write a post for the images you get than get images for the post your write :).
Arun
cheesecakes! Ok i cant say anything here...but lets see...God gave us a heart, and feelings, and a brain...so we have to admire the beauty of everything.
Science says that hormon's are natural occurances.
So either you blame God or Science. Not men! :p
hmmmm
a real BURNING HOT issue ;)
well, as per my observation, a glance or two on a lady wid sm limits , always goin to wrk as a great ego booster for that lady.
I guess, gone r the days where gals used to feel like mentally raped when sm one stares at them.
But obviously, if it goes beyond limits n a guys stares for more than a minute, u hv every right to charge up.
Must confess I'm a total Ass-man. Sorry Keshi, look it's like this....I hate it when someone stares at my sis or my girlfriend...but if a really good looking woman is passing by I cannot keep myself from exchanging glances or admiring her figure or looking at her ass...
I'm sure I will feel totally violated if I see people gawking at me constantly (however, I'll be quite impressed with myself if I see good-looking women gawking at me). But the truth is guys are guys...and sadly, good eye candy cannot be missed. I'm just trying to be honest to my gender here, don't get me wrong.
I do understand your reaction, but all I can say is there is a very fine line between admiring and lustful gawking....it's sad I know...all I can do is humbly apologize on my gender’s behalf.
I do agree that women are blessed with better assets than men are, but no, I do not enjoy staring at a total stranger's boobs or ass. To do so is really gross, and disgusting!
Frankly, I think men who do that give too much credit to women. Women do not deserve that kind of attention.
Sex may be a fun topic to think about, but believe it or not, some men (including me) do have much better things to do in life than to think of sex once in 20 mins.
Lol@guys talking to ur ahemm... chest rather than the face! But yea seriously i'm sure it must be real harassing and this is soo much more true with sum places in India....
But yea if u think this thing was restricted to eve-oogling only....well let me tell u this....even adam-oogling happens....and normally guys take it as ego-boosters....but even v can get freaked out if the perpetrator is a middle aged married woman!
Keshi,
A guy once was talking ot my friend, well more like looking at her chest and talking. So she snapped her fingers in front of his eyes and says "I am up here!!". Or another time when my friend was annoyed at this guy who was staring at her chest that she held her breast with her hands and says "Can we help you?" Maybe you could try those lines!! :)
hahahha keshi damn sweet ... i was LMAO reading this ...:p cos i too go thru this almost everyday ... hehhehe
my ex branch head was a jerk n used to talk to all girls boobs rather than face ..i always used to back answer him or talk with him rudely only cos i couldnt say anything upfront due to XYZ reasons .. hehehheh but he reduced having discussions with me :p
**Some men who are with their wives/girlfriends (at movies, mall or train stations) still stare at me and at other women..
ask me about it ..lolll
omggg keshi this is like my story :)) n ya ppl who try to mess ard with me will get nice from me ;) ...
loll
huggzzzz keshi
muahhhh
even i have come across diff kinds of Perv's ...but there have been instrance wher i've punched a guy in the face for grabbing my ass or telling off a guy to stop staring at my chest...
actually i've punched a couple of them... :)
lolz..
we call this "kutuking".. meaning hmm.. "insulting" the men folk..
i still can stop laughing imagining their face and reaction now..
appuramma comment panneren
hugss
=am000nie=
lolz..
we call this "kutuking".. meaning hmm.. "insulting" the men folk..
i still can stop laughing imagining their face and reaction now..
appuramma comment panneren
hugss
=am000nie=
homo escapeon has the right idea. it is true throughout millions of years of evolution the male has been conditioned to behave this way, usually when it comes to the excess of oogling it is one of two reasons.
1) some males are frustrated and they have difficulty finding a suitable person in which to practice(now when i say this it is a person who lack of a better word "can't get some")and so they are uncommonly compelled to stare at whomever crosses their path.(doesn't sound nice for you ladies but it is a fact amongst males in that situation, anything will do)
2)most of the male population is unfortunately much too in tune with their instinctual self and through the messages sent to the brain they cannot help but to consistently contemplate activities concerning below the equator recreations. this is usually the case most males have no control over it and they will continue to do it. (basically they are too unconscious to try and stop it or if you prefer too stupid).
i have been known to do a little oogling but i am one of the lucky ones! i have photographic memory and so need not look for more then a split second to satiate my carnal desire to behold the splendor of women, breast are nice, along with the rest, i happen to enjoy all aspects of the female form and revel in their beauty. hate not the ones who see it for beauty and want to see it more than once, there are ones out there also who do this for that purpose, would you blame any man who would enjoy to study the tantalizing grace of a flower? the beauty is much the same as that of woman and i think in some cases it is often misunderstood to be perversion.
well most of d men yet need to learn hw to respect a woman; that shes nt a play thing rather a human being of equal stature jes havin different physical properties...bt poor asses jes love to ass arnd..
Nice post. Thouroughly enjoyed reading it.
***Why are men so addicted to a pair of boobs and that butt that they have too? Can any guy answer this please :)
haha...well there are some gals who are addicted for them too...lol...:P
But its a million dollar question and I suppose nobody has exact answer. If you do know please let us know... *twinkling*
I think its matter of principles for an individual to have his own limit in such scenarios. I think one
can't generalise the idea. I believe in having an amicable environment when I do happen to stare at beauty, mostly for eye to eye contact...:)
But tell me one thing do u want me to be a saint not to look at german gals in hot summer.... hehe...lol..:)
Nice post. Thouroughly enjoyed reading it.
***Why are men so addicted to a pair of boobs and that butt that they have too? Can any guy answer this please :)
haha...well there are some gals who are addicted for them too...lol...:P
But its a million dollar question and I suppose nobody has exact answer. If you do know please let us know... *twinkling*
I think its matter of principles for an individual to have his own limit in such scenarios. I think one
can't generalise the idea. I believe in having an amicable environment when I do happen to stare at beauty, mostly for eye to eye contact...:)
But tell me one thing do u want me to be a saint not to look at german gals in hot summer.... hehe...lol..:)
you bet keshi!
that is so harassing!
Visual harrassment!
we need to add this to the list of harrassments! :P
i've always had this concept in my mind....
You girls have always PRIDED this fact-Somewhat it gives you a sense of belonging, yeah in way- Imagine you being ingnored by someone,loooll
i wanted to do the science part, some weird dude above me done in already anyway
Have fun Keshi
Cheers
BTW the pic is so darned Funny
the poor guy and flasher woman
hehehhe
hello mate:-)
i didn't know it was that bad in australia.
i thought this kind of behavior, that is harassment of women in public places, is more common in urban sri lanka bc of certain aspects of culture. well may be i was wrong.
most if not all men probably admire other women even if they have girlfriends/wives. it is how they are made, but that does not mean anything but as you say they should not make those admired uncomfortable or bothered.
If someone is bothering you and doing it for too long, let them know it and free yourself of the harassment. Don't just put up with it!
you are completely correct. in fact it doesn't have to last 'too long' if someone bothers one, one should let them know.
glad to hear that you had a great weekend hope you will have a great week :-)
sorry Keshi - lost the comment I posted. I'll try again later.
Didnt knw it happ even Down Under .. but well, somethings dont change.. its been happening ever since men and women came on Earth I guess.. well as u said a little admiration look is ok but staring is bad..
Someone once told "Looking at Cleavage is like looking at the sun, You dont stare at it, You just give a glance and look away".. guess not everyone knws abt it. :D
~~Sunita
Give me some tips girl :)
~~Homo_Escapeons
WC to my blog Homo Escapeons :)
**We males are hardwired to investigate the potential reproductive ASSets of prospective partners.
hehe I know that...thats the whole issue but cant males fine tune this functionality to suit themselves while not harassing the object of their lusting? :)
**It is a bloody annoying nuisance for us too.
haha!
**Keep in mind that most of the sperm is killer/blocker sperm and only a chosen few are egg fertilisers. Enough with the science.
hehe I know...ok u got a point there :)
**With all due respect to the equality of the sexes; Like it or not men love to behold women and women have been designed to attract them or you and I wouldn't be having this discussion
true...
**Here in Canada we only have four parka free months at the beach so there are a lot of stiff necks out there in the summer.
LOL!
**I am not apologizing for the boorish louts but I consciously work at being politely subtle. Having two beautiful daughters has certainly helped redefine acceptable behavior for me.
Sorry for the tedious frickin' essay..
I understand ya mate...it's the nature in me, unfortunately...:) But there r also some fine men who dun 'harass' women this way..so yeah all men arent perverts...
Thanks so much for ur input in this and have a good day!
Keshi.
Sex may be a fun topic to think about, but believe it or not, some men (including me) do have much better things to do in life than to think of sex once in 20 mins.
Pradeeep, i need help
cant tink of any other topic these days
u see my Dick is about to expire soon and yours will soon too ...
wat topic u gott?
if i see someone nice.. its only a glimpse thats all.. nothing more than that..!! if she is attractive then i will run away from there :).. hehe
~~Jim
**i am trying to get her to wear Burkha
lolllz Jim, for once be serious plzzzz...
~~Known_Stranger
heyyya KS :)
~~Anand
hey Anand :)
**..men will be men,...doesnt matter what u wear...its all in their head!..
hmmm :) ok I'll ask u a question since i Know ur married...d u ogle at other women? And how wud u feel if some guy ogled at Ekta?
yes, not all men r perverts...only some dudes.
Thanks Anand!
~~Ishita
Ish heyy hows ya?
U know I wrote this post with ur's and Amit's request in mind..abt the blank-noise project..
**not coz m exceptionally good lukin...lolz...but JUST BECAUSE I AM A WOMAN
So true..Im not trying to brag here that Im so good-looking hehehe...its cos Im a woman but I aint flat-chested either lol!
Doesnt ur hubby notice such men and get annoyed Ish? I ofcourse dun have any body-guards :(
**dunno abt other countries but in India, not many ppl come forward when a woman objects!
true....it's easier said than done...
Ish has some very tough questions for u guys..:) now try and answer plzz..hehe..
Thanks Ish!
~~Blu3
hey girl :)
**. All the while he was looking at me and staring at me... He was touching his gf...Yucks...
YUIKKKKKKS he must have been a maniac...what a loser! If I was his GF I wud kill him instantly with some Mortein...lol! What a pest!
~~Jeevan
Yes Jeevan..I u'stand that a good-looking, nicely-dressed woman is irresistable to the eyes...it's normal. But u know some guys just treat women like objects and they can do that with their eyes too..then it becomes really harassing.
~~Karmic_Jay
hey Jay!
**My wife tells me desis tends to stare more then other men, not a statistical observation though.
hmmm can I put my hand up and say I AGREE WITH UR WIFE...cos it's so true here in Aus too. May not be statistical but my experience says so! goshhh they stalk with their eyes, thery really do!
~~Anjaan
hehe Anjaan that was so cute!
**Three Point Technique! Always Works!
Unfortunately we cant lay our hands on someone just cos they stare na...in self-defense one could do that but when someone stares at ya, how can we beat em up? Mebbe we can go up to them and talk...ask them why they r staring this way...but even that seems dangeorus cos the reaction depends on the person....
Thanks anyways...it's a very handy tip for some future use :)
~~Anup.777
WB Anup!! Awwww hugggggggggz! :)
**I'm too busy staring at the wallpaper of Eliza Dushku on my PC
who is she? lol!
So glad to have u back matey :)
Keshi.
Orikinla Osinachi is knowledgeable about these matters
heyyyy Orikinla
does size of the Dick influence the mind?
Indians arent too beeg here
yet we drool the most
or it due to our sexual mores?
viz no pre marital sex
most indians use their apparatus pretty late in life
i lost my virginity at 25
i had to pay for it in cash
didnt want to fake love
and give promise of marriage
~~Orikinla_Osinachi
hello hows ya? :)
**do send me a pix of your voluptuous Weapons of Mass Destruction (WMD),
lol goshh na I dun have WMDs..hehe...well havent u seen me? I have 2 pics of mine posted in 2 previous posts...check em out here ;-)
http://keshigirl.blogspot.com/2005/08/great-expectations_23.html
and
http://keshigirl.blogspot.com/2006/02/dream-on_24.html
**We are innocent of our hormones and innocent of our sexuality.
I did not create my awesome erection.
lol yeah I know...but we can control our actions cant we?
**he is naturally triggered to respond to them as he had been fed on them from the very day he came out from the womb...
well we women come out of the womb and feed on breast-milk too...but we dun stare at women, do we? lol!
**Keshi, so when are you coming to visit me on Bonny Island?
awww dunno mate...I have plans to go to London this year and perhaps NY next year...but the beautiful Bonny Island is not yet in my agenda...I should add it na..thanks so much for ur very kind invitation and the reminder :)
Keshi.
goan catlik girls dress sexy talk sexy walk sexy and ....
my muslim friend Akbar says
they are just asking for it
u cant blame an UP bhaiiya (in Mumbai) who is sex starved (his wife is in Gaon and he hasnt seen her since last 3 years) from loosing control and rapes the girl
Bonny Island dont compare wid Mumbai
Jon Abraham lives close to my place
~~Burf
**one of those females who keep on cribbing about the state of crime against women in delhi
aww ok ok...I thought otherwise becos it sounded like that :( SORRY!
btw I aint cribbing ok?? lol!
~~Scribblez_To_Wakeup
hey girl!
**I used to think people would stop oogling at me once I am married but how wrong was I.
goshh so do these men know ur married? I mean these men r friends/relatives?
**Men sill stare at me, oh its not even men, teens stare at me thinking I am a teen girl in US and in India its the men.
YES! Omg even very young boys stare at me..lol so funny that they think Im someone who could get attracted to teenage dudes, duhhhhhhhh!
**One was saying that they literally undress you with their looks! How true.
thats true..I have felt like that a ZILLION TIMES!
** They would have some theory and maybe it would include that we dress that too.
hehe yes...most men say that. But funny how Im not dressed 'that way' when Im being stared at..and I aint drop-dead gorgeous or 'starably' ugly for that matter :):)
lets see what the guys here have to say :) Thanks girl!
~~Mr.Maverick
hello hows ya:)
**I believe your write a post for the images you get than get images for the post your write
Nope...never :) I always writ ethe post first and then find the pics on the net...I swear.
~~Gangadhar
hey Gangzz :)
**I enjoy watching beauty..which is not harmful to anyone...
Agreed! It's always good to enjoy it w.o. making the other person feel dirty and harassed...thats all Im trying to say :)
~~Ghost_Particle
hey Ghosty :) Cheescakes? lol!
**Science says that hormon's are natural occurances. So either you blame God or Science. Not men
awww...hmmm well hormones r natural but we have a brain to control our feelings and natural instincts dun we..I mean sometimes we do feel like killing someone but we dun really go and do it, do we :):)
~~Shriedhar
**always goin to wrk as a great ego booster for that lady.
hehe yes I wont deny that...but certainly not being stared at :)
**I guess, gone r the days where gals used to feel like mentally raped when sm one stares at them.
not really...even tho Im a modern woman with liberal thinking, I still feel mentally raped sometimes...tho I choose to ignore it, that doesnt mean I dun feel...
~~Reflextion
WC mate :)
**Must confess I'm a total Ass-man.
Im glad ur being honest...we like more ppl like u to be honest here and speak the truth abt how men really feel.
**but if a really good looking woman is passing by I cannot keep myself from exchanging glances or admiring her figure or looking at her ass...
thats normal...its ok.
**I'm sure I will feel totally violated if I see people gawking at me constantly (however, I'll be quite impressed with myself if I see good-looking women gawking at me).
hehe ok...u got a point there. when someone good-looking looks at ya, it's an ego-booster :)
**But the truth is guys are guys...and sadly, good eye candy cannot be missed. I'm just trying to be honest to my gender here, don't get me wrong.
agreed..but d u visually stalk girls?
**I do understand your reaction, but all I can say is there is a very fine line between admiring and lustful gawking....it's sad I know...all I can do is humbly apologize on my gender’s behalf.
aww hehe I admire ur honesty...thanks mate!
~~Pradeep.K
hey Pradeep hows ya?
**Frankly, I think men who do that give too much credit to women. Women do not deserve that kind of attention
hehe wut d u mean they dun deserve too much credit? aww...
Keshi.
Girl, YES! I think all of us chicks deal with this problem!
Sometimes when it is an extremely creepy guy, it is almost unbearable! Not that it is okay if they aren't creepy! :)
~~Rebel_on_loose
hey Rebzzz lols yes they do that all the time..I call is boob-talking :):)
**well let me tell u this....even adam-oogling happens
lolz really? U mean granmas stare at u guys? awww..lol!
~~Sajini
**that she held her breast with her hands and says "Can we help you?" Maybe you could try those lines!! :)
lol hahaha that was so funny! I wish I could do that but u know Im soooo timid when it comes to such things..I know I wont do that kinda thing :(
Thanks for the tips tho..who knows, some day I might have the courage to do so lol!
~~Uttara
Uttsyyyyyyyyy muahhhhhhhhh!
**my ex branch head was a jerk n used to talk to all girls boobs rather than face
lol hahaha I can imagine!
Uttsy have u ever kicked a guy who did this kinda thing to ya? lol tell me...cos I really wanna kick few butts..hahaha!
~~Alice
wow Alice ur the bravest hottie here! U really punched him? lolllllllz!
Once I was standing near thi sbridge in the city waiting for my cousins to catch up with me...and suddenly I felt my butt got touched and then squeezed...I was so shocked that i didnt even realise who did it till the guy was like few steps ahead of me..it was some dude walking past me...
~~Amutha
lolz Amu!
**we call this "kutuking".. meaning hmm.. "insulting" the men folk..
hahaha!
~~White_Devil
hey Devil hows ya? :)
**it is true throughout millions of years of evolution the male has been conditioned to behave this way,
I guess thats correct...
**1) some males are frustrated and they have difficulty finding a suitable person in which to practice
thats true too..
**2)most of the male population is unfortunately much too in tune with their instinctual self and through the messages sent to the brain they cannot help but to consistently contemplate activities concerning below the equator recreations.
hehe thats true I guess..
**(basically they are too unconscious to try and stop it or if you prefer too stupid).
lol!
**i have been known to do a little oogling but i am one of the lucky ones! i have photographic memory and so need not look for more then a split second to satiate my carnal desire
hehe I think ur one with brains :)
**would you blame any man who would enjoy to study the tantalizing grace of a flower? the beauty is much the same as that of woman and i think in some cases it is often misunderstood to be perversion.
I agree...beauty is there to be enjoyed...to give pleasure to all senses...but not to the extent that it harasses that beauty...u know wut I mean..:)
~~Milo
hey Milo!
**well most of d men yet need to learn hw to respect a woman;
spot on!
**that shes nt a play thing rather a human being of equal stature jes havin different physical properties..
true...some dudes dunno the limits..thats all :)
~~Contented
lol hi mate!
I agree...one can set his onw limits..no probs..but make sure those limits dun harass someone else :)
**But tell me one thing do u want me to be a saint not to look at german gals in hot summer
lol no probs there mate! u can 'look' but dun 'harass'...:):)
~~White_Forest
hey hows ya?
**Visual harrassment!
I think we found a new item to the harassment list :) thanks mate!
~~NavFalco
hey Nav :)
**You girls have always PRIDED this fact-Somewhat it gives you a sense of belonging, yeah in way- Imagine you being ingnored by someone,loooll
lol I know...it kinda makes u feel good when someone looks at us...but not when someone mentally stalks us...there is a BIG difference! :)
**the poor guy and flasher woman
LOL! yeah :):)
~~Sittingnut
helllo and how r we? :)
**i didn't know it was that bad in australia.
na ofcourse its not SOOO bad here compared to SL! Gosh I can rem in SL I was mentally 'raped' in buses and streets...I hated to go to school when I thought of the jam-packed buses with men in their WORST behavior! Na Aus is MUCH MUCH MUCH better than that, trust me. But there r still men who stare and make u feel like an object. but yeah thank God they dun expose as much as they do in SL! Cos if they did what they did to us girls in SL, I wud really bash them up this time...I swear I will!
**most if not all men probably but that does not mean anything but as you say they should not make those admired uncomfortable or bothered.
true...
**in fact it doesn't have to last 'too long' if someone bothers one, one should let them know.
yes...but some women ignore or put up with it cos they r afraid of teh consequences of confrontation...so this may go on for a long time...
thanks mate and u have a terrific week ahead!
~~Terry
hey Terry its ok..take ur time...:)
~~Vivhyd
hey Viv!
**Didnt knw it happ even Down Under
na it aint as bad as in Sri Lanka..read my reply to Sittingnut.
**Looking at Cleavage is like looking at the sun, You dont stare at it, You just give a glance and look away"..
lol ur cute Viv! yeah guess all guys dunno that one..hehehe...
~~Saby
**u see my Dick is about to expire soon and yours will soon too ...
lol goshhh u make it sound like ur a product on the super-market shelf hahahahaha!
~~Sujit
hey Sujit hows ya?
**if she is attractive then i will run away from there
lol why wud u run away Sujit? awwwww.....
Keshi.
~~Saby
goshh too much info lol!
na there is NO excuse for rape! noen whatsoever! How can u even justify that Saby? Ur gonna have to take alot of flack for that now, wait n watch! :)
~~Outdoorsy_Girl
hey girl!
**Sometimes when it is an extremely creepy guy, it is almost unbearable!
yeah thats so true...it freaks me out!
Keshi.
Thats what I mean Keshi!..Men will be men--doesnt matter if ur married or not!
The difference between a decent guy and assholes is what u pointed out yourself--as a guy if I see an attractive women I will look at her and probably admire her--but will not lech at her to the extent that she feels uncomfortable--infact I would feel cheap doing it too!
Similarly If Ekta looks attractive I know men will look at her--certainly I wouldnt like them making her uncomfortable...but I cant stop them from looking can I?!
Point being-I completely agree with your point--its ok to look and admire(that may even be flattering) but to lech to the extent of making the person uncomfortable is what can be repulsive!
~~Anand
hey dude :) thanks! I got ur point...
**but to lech to the extent of making the person uncomfortable is what can be repulsive!
spot on!
Keshi.
If you are ever in doubt as to whether to kiss a pretty girl, always give her the benefit of the doubt.
-Thomas Carlyle (1795-1881)
Quote WorldFamous Quotes at QuoteWorld.org
If Ekta looks attractive .....
W T F !
she is pretty sexy
Most men are pigs , me included . But guess what women have started in on it . I work in sales and I've caught "ladies" check'n out the goods daily . I turn quick and there she is ogling da ass . I look away , look back and she's check'n da package . WA GIVES ?
Oh gal! what a topic :D....yes always...and so many times some of them just dont hesitate to mention even ...its something that you are not ready to take compliment on! And yes, I liked what you said at the end...better to make them clear about it and get rid of it rather than putting with it..!
I usually, dont speak but make sure with my gesture that I convey the message :D
But then beauty is something to be admired and so we are beautiful women dear ;)...
good topic!
hugggzzz
cheers
OK, the scientific explanation is simple. Men are visual. We're wired that way, and there's nothing anyone can do about it.
HOWEVER, us guys should be respectful and not LEER. I think some guys need to quit staring and making women uncomfortable.
i amf ine.. how are you doing?.. i run away because they are pretty!!.. staring something dont like.. chupke chupke is fun :p.. my freinds used to stare like anything from the point a girl enters their view till she leaves.. proper snanning.. i used to ask them what is there to stare so much?..
~~JohnnyBGood
Johhny even when ur in those very flashy undies, I still dun stare at ya..lol!
~~Wallycrawler
heyyya Wally ;-)
**I turn quick and there she is ogling da ass . I look away , look back and she's check'n da package . WA GIVES ?
LOL ok..I agree..we women check em out too...hell yeah :) but na I neva gawk..no ways!
~~Dawn
lolz girl I have had so many guys telling me how good I look etc...but thats pretty decent...and there have been some really vulgar comments too yuiikkks!
**But then beauty is something to be admired and so we are beautiful women dear
indeed :) Hugggggggz pretty babez!
~~The_Phoenix
I like ur scientific explanations...always mate :)
**HOWEVER, us guys should be respectful and not LEER.
and thats what I meant, thanks!
~~Sujit
Chori chori chupke chupke ha Sujit? :):)
** my freinds used to stare like anything from the point a girl enters their view till she leaves..
now thats so rude...tell ur friends I said that :)
Keshi.
LOL Keshu pie...
I had a nice laugh reading ur post..
I know ur addressing a serious concern bt I cudnt stop controlling my laugh...
Agree with wat u say... most of the guys r like that... may be manufacturing defect ;-)
I beg to be considered in exceptions ;-) lol
I dun stare long to embrass some1
rofl hahaaahahaaaa
talkn to a girl n staring at her chest is insane... hopeless guys...
i can only say that guys also enjoy window shopping ;-)
@ 4u2nvau/Rohit
I agree some guys can be perverts, but not all girls are angels
well said dude... agree with u completely :-)
ishita - it is here, nowhere else
and i tell u it is all those people coming from outside who are into these crimes, not the oldie goldie delhi native
I was expecting this
81 comments and more to follow.
u hav touched a topic that I will call is controversial.
NSTP is a common term my pals know I use for BirdWatching ie for looking at girls. But I look them in totality. I never gave attention to some body part but faces do get attention. But then there are lot of grls in Chandigarh and if I give more time to one particular girl that will b injustice to others. So the max time give to a grl is 2-3 mins.
ROFL ^_^
...Spot on Kesh!! That's my girl^_~
..."Could you stop talking to my cleavage" hahaha...damn ;( i dun have that boobs *sobbbss!!
...yeah, anybody is free to stare at someone and admire her but not to the extend of making her uncomfortable...time limit is 2-3 seconds ^_^ hehe is it ok guys?
...love ur post kesh..muaahh!
..but sorry to say ;) i do look at someone( w/ my sweetest smile everytime)the one whom i admire most :D for minutes and i think he's enjoying it coz he smiles back and gave me a wink even *grin* hehe...^_^
hugss,
-kathy-
keshi...i do look at guys.
but i don't look at their butt or their dicks. that's not my interest.
you can look but can't touch.
what can i say, men are weak.
they can't help it!!! i bet their pants gets wet all the time...
deep inside you know all the men wants a hot woman. i think they also need to get REAL and look at themselves at the mirror :P
I know!!the photo is so funny but I have seen men do just that!!
It's so annoying,especially when you are a kid.you have no clue what is going on.
Once I saw a letter placed on my desk during a relative get together at my home.
When I started reading it I understood that it was not for me but as I was about to put it away,I saw my name in it several times.
It was a letter my older cousin bro was writing to his gf.So I was thinking oh!he's so sweet.probably has lots of nice things to say.
I felt so sick to my stomach when he wrote about my boobs stating that i don't know how to dress.But the worst thing was I was wearing a frock which my dad had bought for me!!!I wanted to scream,I wanted to cry,I wanted to show the letter to dad!
But I knew it would put them in a really awkward position.SO i didn't tell anyone for many many years.I just shut up until my youngest sis reached college and then I told her.Disgusting creep!!Now we all keep away from him.
Such a major as*&*le!!!!!:O
So I totally understand what you have written here.The best thing is to ignore but If the person is pointedly in your way or someone you always crash into,for example in the office....let him know that he is a total creep!
Well..Was blog hopping and landed here...Keshi...you seem to be a prolific blogger...Very very popular blogger...I was amazed and am still wondering as to how you manage to read other blogs and manage your blogs...
This post buddy...Is really really amazing...But guess that is the mentality of thrid rated cheap men...I too have witnessed this many a times...In bombay, there are men who pinch off ladies chests and back on the streets in the crowd...
Still a few, force women and remove their clothes mid on a empty road..The situation is really really grim...
Ohh man it so irks me as well - thankfully none of my friends are like that - one time friend and i were so angry we asked them what they wanted - they said nothing n continued staring
@Saby, (Others kindly excuse)
You need my help, Saby? Okay here's an honest advice: Take care of your dick, Saby. Don't go sticking it up in all the wrong places (if you know what I mean).
~~Puneet
haha Watch-Puppy glad u liked the post :):) ooops I mean Watch-Bear awww....
Window-shopping? How d u mean? Goshh Pu has his own bird-watching vocabulary...hmmm great lol!
~~Burf
Burfy booo hows ya? :)
**and i tell u it is all those people coming from outside who are into these crimes, not the oldie goldie delhi native
huh so u mean none of the Delhi men r Jack Ogles? None at all? oh cmonnnn..lol!
~~Kumar_Chetan
hey Kumar :)
**NTSP
??
**But then there are lot of grls in Chandigarh and if I give more time to one particular girl that will b injustice to others. So the max time give to a grl is 2-3 mins.
LOL good thinking...superb...great...goshhhhh! :)
~~Lil_Kath
hey Kath lolz glad u enjoyed this post :)
**i do look at someone( w/ my sweetest smile everytime)the one whom i admire most :D for minutes and i think he's enjoying it coz he smiles back and gave me a wink even
WUTTTTTTTTTTTT omahgosh I think I must put on my maniac mask and get on with it now..lol...cos Im J that u too 'look' and smile n all...lollz tell me all abt it na Kath...plz plz :)
~~Elaine
girl I dunno if u read my earlier msgs to ya, but I still dun see ur blog link...wuts going on?? I cant visit ur blog anymore SOBBBBBBBBBZ! Can someone tell me if they can see Elaine's blog??
**i do look at guys.
but i don't look at their butt or their dicks. that's not my interest.
hehe u dun? oh ok..lol! ahemmm :):)
**i bet their pants gets wet all the time...
ROTFL!! hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Elaine! LOLLLLZ!
**deep inside you know all the men wants a hot woman. i think they also need to get REAL and look at themselves at the mirror :P
LOL haha ur soooo funny Elaine! Thats why I luv reading ur blog and ur comments lolz U GO GIRL!
~~Maya
Hey girl thats such an evil guy...omg he's such a LOSER! U were so small and he had the guts to write something like that abt ya? I wud have ripped him apart...really! Thats so YUIKKKS of a guy! I guess bad upbringing...he must still be an a##hole. U should have told ur dad then and there...and got him in deep sh#t!
**Such a major as*&*le!!!!!:O
LOL ur so cute! Yeah he is...and such guys need to be put where they belong...bin.
u tc sweety huggggggggz!
~~Vicky
WC Vicky and thanks!
hehe Ihave super powers na..thats how I manage my blog ;-)
**In bombay, there are men who pinch off ladies chests and back on the streets in the crowd...
Thats awful! Do these women wait n watch????
**Still a few, force women and remove their clothes mid on a empty road..The situation is really really grim...
well such ppl r called rapists and should be charged with criminal offenses! Dun tell me they get away with that kinda thing??
Thanks for dropping by Vicky!
~~Visithra
hey girl ur bakkk? WOW WB sweety! Missed ya tonz n tonz!
**one time friend and i were so angry we asked them what they wanted - they said nothing n continued staring
lol thats terrible! U should have slapped the guy!
~~Pradeep.K.
Hey Pradeep!
**Take care of your dick, Saby. Don't go sticking it up in all the wrong places (if you know what I mean).
LOL hahahahahahahahahaha! Good one Pradeep!
This Saby needs a good wake-up call sometimes...he really does. He loves provoking ppl! Actually I shouldnt have published that comment of his...but then I published it thinking that u guys need to sort things out between u 2 cos it was regarding a comment that u first made Pradeep. And if I rejected that comment, I wud be criticised for not publishing all comments related to the post. Thats why I published Saby's comment to u. I hope u r not mad at me for that Pradeep.
Anyways u guys sort it out plz. And Saby stop swearing at ppl..u reap what u sow...
Keshi.
At May 15, 2006 4:12 PM, saby said...
i can never understand women
they spend an hour or more to dress and look sexy before they step out
and when i look at her appreciatively and whistle
they call it sexual harassment
LOL!!
~~Poison
lol awww I didnt mean a harmless whistle...I meant visual stalking :):)
Keshi.
..and Dr.Death will be called in for further help.
lol! huuhuu, scary!
I never ever would glance, that's sooo dirty :)
I'm sure I would faint anyway if I see you somewhere...
hey!! i so agree with u!!
"I don't stare so much that the guy notices it and starts to feel uncomfortable."
i believe in this too...u can check out but y stare infinitely!
N I always get stared at..and my frens too..when guys are with their gf s and wives/etc...
I dunno if its intentional or just scanning and checking out...but its sick and weird...
and yeah its pissing off...i would shout at my boyfren too!
took a break..have exams:( but ur blog was refreshing:)
Keshi-chan, Hahahahahaha
but better they stare at US rather than at other guys, no?
;)
Guilty as charged... darn it... sorry Keshi!! I'm doing my best though...
hugz
JD
91 guys commented
most women appreciated appreciation
some guys said they dont look at tits and ass, (only a guy above 80 or a dead man can say dat honestly)
2 guys got harrased by women
ROHIT and Johnny
still counting ...
i expect another 200 guys to comment
ohhh sudeep has mentioned it to me. he said there wasn't a problem....
try it again!
http://everybeing.blogspot.com
this blogger thing, must be down for a while.
Gosh!! so this was the watchdog Puneet was referring to...
hmmmm... i know some guys r really perverts n make gals uncomfortable with those looks
i too look at beauties but make a point tht she doesnt ever know tht m looking/was looking at her
sometimes i feel tht a gal might think why doesnt he look..lol
but this is not restricted to guys only... n i used to think tht only gals were physically harassed until i faced a really awkward situation myself
~~Die_Murane
**I'm sure I would faint anyway if I see you somewhere...
hahaha why wud u faint? btw Im not an anesthetic lolll!
~~The_Ego_Has_Landed
hey girl WB I missed ya! aww u still have exams :( :(
**I dunno if its intentional or just scanning and checking out
It cud be any one of them and sometimes they dun even realise that its pretty embarassing lol!
~~SaffronSaris
hey Saffayyyyyy ;-)
**but better they stare at US rather than at other guys, no?
lol hell yeah!!
~~Luvwannabefree25
hey mate u too?? lol hahahahaha! I love ur honesty tho :):)
~~Jim
**(only a guy above 80 or a dead man can say dat honestly)
lol hahahahhahahaha!
**still counting ...
i expect another 200 guys to comment
lol no ways...see wut I mean..only girls get harassed more often than guys :(
~~Elaine
hey Elaine and Sudeep thanks! I can see ur blog thru that but not thru ur profile page..bt it's all ok now...thanks!
~~Sudeep
lol @Pu and watch-dog! And Sudeep is a Watch-Cutey :):)
**sometimes i feel tht a gal might think why doesnt he look
hehe I know...if I see this great looking dude and he doesnt look at me, I do feel wuts wrong..is he blond or something? lolll!
hey wut happened to u? tell us na...:)
Keshi.
first time eva u would have deleted a post...mind me i too was feeling the same thing since 2 days ...
hows ya baby .. am not gonna comment on wat u wrote cos u deleted it ..
huggzzzzzzzz
muahhhh
Uttara Im ok..just f##kin pissed at some ppl's stupid behavior.
Keshi.
yest me n raj sent u a long mesg hope u recd it????
will mail u soon .. dont be pissed i know wats in ur head .. dont put that post either ..ok "TRUST ME"
ok
Keshi.
However, Keshi, to take a scientific, anthropological approach that I'm making up just now, but still... I feel it's important to distinguish between the involuntary eye-reflex stare and the deliberate ogle. I mean, if the involuntary eye reflex-stare goes on slightly long - say maybe there's a mental lapse, maybe the guy's just tired or bored, and it goes from say one to two full seconds - then it could be mistaken for being intentional.
The eye-reflex stare is a well-known phenomenon in which the male's eyeballs experience a gravity-like downward pull that can happen before consciousness has set in. {Scientific American, April 2006, v. 12, Cook and Young, "Eye-Relexes in Higher Primates and Lower Humans", pp. 31-40.}
Wow Darius..a very interesting scientific explanation there..hehe 'can happen before consciousness has set in'...agreed...it takes a while for em doesnt it? ;-)
Thanks!
Keshi.
I get that all the time but what can you do. I can't help it that I was born so damn good looking ;)
Fuzzy having said that, I wanna see ya now..lol!
Keshi_turned_Gawker.
Thats men, alright! Their human nature, never change =P
When I was 15 years old I was trying to work up the courage to ask this guy to a dance. He heard about it from my big mouth friend and said something awful about me. I felt horrible but since he and I had been friends for a few years I wanted to try and salvage things. So I went boldly to try and make peace with him. As I was trying to make eye contact I noticed that the whole time I'd been talking to him he was staring straight at my chest. Last time I checked I'd not grown eyes on my breasts so I was patently offended by this. I figured to hell with it. If he was this much of a creep I didn't want him for a friend anyway.
The other thing I find loathsome is when men speak of pregnant women in a sexualized way. Not that pregnant women aren't beautiful, but you'd think there's something sacred about it and at that one time in our lives we wouldn't be subject to that kind of rude leering puerile behavior that we have to put up with the rest of the time.
I know not all men are pigs. But there are a few of them out there that are putting a bad reflection on the rest of y'all!
Peace,
The Cheesemeister
(Not in any way a man-hater)
Alice:
Back in my young days I once kicked a guy in the yarbles because he kept coming up to me in the hallway and grabbing my butt or boobs. He groaned that I was being childish. I admonished him that I was capable of being downright infantile. I felt bad about having to resort to such tactics, but he never touched me again!
I probably take things too far in the opposite direction of the way some girls dress. I wear very baggy clothes because I'm quite uncomfortable with being leered at as a sexual object. Yet it still happens sometimes--even though I'm a big old gal who is built like a hockey player! Go figure!
~~Jolene
hell it seems like :):)
~~Cheesemeister
lol ur comment was so funny! Some guy he was ha..thinking that ur face was located on ur chest hahaha!
** Not that pregnant women aren't beautiful, but you'd think there's something sacred about it and at that one time in our lives we wouldn't be subject to that kind of rude leering puerile behavior that we have to put up with the rest of the time.
thats true..pregnancy is not a time to ogle at women!
lol u really kicked him?
Keshi.
Keshi, you are awesome ^_~
You know u hit bulls eye always :).
Even though I am a guy, I have observed males observing female's asset until their eye-balls drull out. At such times when I am observing, I feel like "c'mon are u going to get inside her or what, plz for God's sake take ur bloody eye's off her now".
Also, no male can avoid looking at it for sure. But definitely for some moment it is ok but non-stop is bad.
Will post more comments on this later.
But seems u get too much stare on ur way :).
keshi, i thought so much about your chest (hahaha) and so I wrote a little poem. I hope it can cheer you up a little. you'll be fine... one day... lol
Inside
I'd like to be the bright light in your chest
all hidden in your heart
and no one could see me inside you
just you could feel
when you close your eyes in silence
the soft tickeling of my flame
while I discover your body
all up and down
inside
and more and more you feel
the hot hot burning
as we glow and melt
together
lol! have a good day, lil deer
~~Het_Waghela
lol Het hahaha some guys r mad na!
yep a lil bit is ok..:):)
**But seems u get too much stare on ur way
I do..not cos Im drop-dead gorgeous or something...but mebbe cos Im just..u know...a woman! lol!
~~Die_Murane
hahahahaha that was an awesome poem mate! I couldnt stop laughing...lollllllllz!
**the soft tickeling of my flame
while I discover your body
hmmm great! so is this what guys think when they stare at the inseparable twins? lol!
Keshi.
blond or wht... gosh
now m gonna let her know m looking at her... he he
not at all in a public forum
Hahaha Keshi... No I am not mad at you, dear.
In fact, I request you to publish all such comments if they are meant toward me. I shall answer such comments in my own little way. I believe in freedom of expression on both sides. :)
Actually, I was hoping you wouldn't be mad at me for posting my response to him in your space.
Cheers girl!
always! ;)
and if you close your eyes, maybe you could like that as well... :)
What i think is if anyone wants to stare then there are other source also rather then embarrassing the female, like tv channels (which i am seeing ftv ^_~) lol.
You know there are guys who don't even feel bad when they by chance get a eye contact after a big stare the boods+ess, and sees as if they have done a big big thing.
I will not say that i never see but definitely i don't stare. Also when i see and then immediately somehow get direct eye contact with that female i feel dead embarrassed, coz i don't see it like an sex-maniac.
On lighter side, if female is like he one in ur blog pic then definitely its difficult to take ur eyes off their :).
**I do..not cos Im drop-dead gorgeous or something...but mebbe cos Im just..u know...a woman! lol!**
But i feel a female gets stare either if she is too beautiful or she is hot, so i think u r beautiful and hot both. "Het stop Flirting with Keshi".
Its nice to talk with u Keshi.
I've been there, done that. :-) BUT in my early college days. I was, what, 17 or 18? When we boys stand as a group we would stare at women but never looked that close like the guy in this pic. :-)))
But hey, that's the boyhood/teenage thrills. Just part of the age, I believe. I would still give a look at the beautiful faces passing by - I dont think thats wrong.But if I keep doing the other thing at this age, I would be a pervert ofcourse. :-)
lol everywhere the same man!!!
where dya find such pics eh??? THAT appropriate!!!
~~Sudeep
**blond or wht... gosh
now m gonna let her know m looking at her... he he
lol haha!
**not at all in a public forum
awww...ok then email me :)
~~PRADEEP K.
aww Im so glad! Cos some of my previous friends left my blog for good cos they couldnt handle ppl like Saby...lol! But Im glad ur a good sport and that u know that it's Saby and NOT ME...thanks dude!
**In fact, I request you to publish all such comments if they are meant toward me. I shall answer such comments in my own little way.
ur a real man...:)
**Actually, I was hoping you wouldn't be mad at me for posting my response to him in your space.
No ways! U can say anything u want as long as it's not abuse...I mean if u've got a point to express why not...
~~Die Muräne
goshhh lol Murane! ;-)
**and if you close your eyes, maybe you could like that as well... :)
wow ok Im dreaming now hahahaha!
~~Het Waghela
heyyyyyyya Het twas nice flirting with ya hahahaha! Why not...ha ;-)
**like tv channels (which i am seeing ftv ^_~) lol.
lol yeah...there r tons of ways to do it na..
**and sees as if they have done a big big thing.
OMG yes! They look n look n look as if it's what being Manly is abt...rather it's weakness!
**I will not say that i never see but definitely i don't stare.
good on ya Het!
** contact with that female i feel dead embarrassed, coz i don't see it like an sex-maniac.
LOL!
**On lighter side, if female is like he one in ur blog pic then definitely its difficult to take ur eyes off their :).
haha yeah I know...men and women r attracted to each other by nature so yeah, it can get hard...hehehe...
**But i feel a female gets stare either if she is too beautiful or she is hot, so i think u r beautiful and hot both. "Het stop Flirting with Keshi".
aww lol thanks!
Have a 'flirtish' day Het! ;-)
~~Jo
hey Jo hows ya?
**I've been there, done that. :-)
lol yeah College days ha? hehehe...yes I know College dudes luuuurve staring at girls...
**stare at women but never looked that close like the guy in this pic. :-)))
haha no ways! If a man really did that, I'd kick him in the face...lol!
**But if I keep doing the other thing at this age, I would be a pervert ofcourse. :-)
haha na...u can still look but not stare :) there's a difference.
Thanks Jo and u have a great day!
~~ČħéèŝŶ.ŦēřmiŦę
Cheesyyyy mwahhhhhhhhh! :)
**where dya find such pics eh??? THAT appropriate!!!
hehe...I just write the post then search search search..not hard to find the right pics when u search on the right words..I guess that's a skill by itself ;-)
Keshi.
hehehe... can't stop laughing ..ROFL!!
I feel so uncomfortable when someone's starting.. worst part..i was shopping at a store n a gal wouldn't stop starin at me ... GOSH!! guess she was a lesbian .. loll!!
lol Archana yes even some girls stare at other girls...must be les yeah :):)
Thanks!
Keshi.
erm... I think the guys are too attracted by your ass/cleavage/breast.
That's the difference. Guys are turn on phycially and female get turn emotionally.
Guys think with their dick and gals think with their heart.
I guess ur right...being quite raw there ha? :)
Thanks! btw..WC Author!
Keshi.
HI KESHI , well u made a nice attempt to uncover the male pyschology abt being obsessed with those pair of body parts. well, I am adding something to it. All men in world, he might be ur bf , brother, neone , they just cant stop loooking and thinking abt a female B&B. The only difference lies in the way they stare. Some people do it shamelessly, some do it in style and some do it in disguised manner. Some dont do , not because they dont want to , but they fear. Its an honest comment, u like it or not.
hey Amit WC!
what u said is damn true and thanks for being so honest! :)
Every man is a LOOKER in some unique way!
Keshi.
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