Monday, September 19

Sorry strictly prohibited?

Last night I was wacthing a true story of a woman (Kelly) who betrayed her older sister by having an affair with her husband. The sister sort of suspected it but didn't harass Kelly with it 'cause she was only 15 at the time and she thought it was just silly flirting. The night that her sister went missing, Kelly was having s#x with her sister's husband at home! The next morning they found out that the sister was a victim of car-jacking and horrible murder. This happened almost 15yrs ago and Kelly regrets every bit of it today. Though she's not involved in the murder she was ashamed of her double life and for knowingly cheating her sister. One important thing she said was "I never got to say Sorry to her, and now I will never be able to..." and she was totally devastated.

This is rather a heavy example but I don't understand why people find it really hard to say sorry when they truly hurt someone. It's only a simple word that expresses your regret in saying or doing something hurtful. I know it does not take away the pain caused but it will atleast relate to the other person that you are truly regretful of what happened. Hence I believe that people who don't want to say Sorry are really not repentant of what they did.

I have come across many people in my life that hardly use the word SORRY even when they know they have done something wrong. It's as if that they have a fear of this word (sorryphobia or something hehe), that it will hurt them instead, their ego perhaps. I don't expect their Sorry anyways because even if such people apologised, it would mean nothing more than just an empty word used for the sake of it. But I think by remaining insensitive they are doing THEMSELVES injustice and self-neglect, more than the persom affected. Because they are missing a chance of a lifetime to extend that hand of apology that if used would save them from great amounts of guilt, remorse and self-bitterness some other day. Usually young people are arrogant and don't realise the value of this word and some fine day, when they are old and grey, they sit in front of God and ask for forgiveness. What's the point? One person I know didn't have a good relationship with her mother and now that the mother is ill with Cancer, she's running around churches asking for forgiveness from God and to give her mum back to her. How can she even patch up the damage now that her mother isn't too well?
You are given a chance in this life to love and obey God...loving God is not praying daily or running to Him when tragedy strikes, it's about saying Sorry to the person you hurt, it's about thanking the friend who helped you, it's about realising that you can be wrong too sometimes, it's about being open to the other man's views, it's about making mistakes but realising they were mistakes and taking the chance to say Sorry...

Still SORRY seems to be the hardest word to say. Therefore don't leave a chance for you to cry some day not having the person you so wanted to Thank or say Sorry to. This is the ideal time so just say it, but make sure you mean it 'cause a Sorry without the feeling is not useful to yourself.

This is to my dad...not that I ever hurt his feelings but Im sorry that he never got to see me going this far in life...I'm sorry you were taken too quick dad. Just like a butterfly you quickly escaped my glimpse, but the vivid and colorful memory of you is as brandnew as today. That memory can't see me but I can sing to it...

Sorry, I never told you, all I wanted to say...
Now it's too late to hold you,
'Cause you've flown away, so far away.
Never, Had I imagined, yeah, living without your smile...
Feelin' and knowing you hear me...It keeps me alive...
Alive, And I know you're shining down on me from Heaven,
Like so many friends we've lost along the way,
And I know eventually we'll be together..One sweet day....
One Sweet Day - Mariah Carey.

114 Cranium Signets:

Arz000n said...

YEYYYYy
me FIRST

saby said...

nutting.
takes his ciggie and burns his butt

saby said...

i dont care about being first

having the last word on the last post is a more significant achievement

saby said...

i tot dat post was
Smoking strictly prohibited


SORRY !

PuNeEt said...

hope fully technically third...
not bad
;-)
howz u ...
how was the weekend

saby said...

buttt,


saying sorry widout being really sorry is the greatest paap


saying sorry is admitting guilt
dats why christians have confessions

it dont wash away the Kerma
it only takes away the guilt
and eternal damnation (Hell)

Hell is separation from the one u love dearly (God)

My soul thirsts for the Lord


PS: I am sure Justine will agree wid all dis

saby said...

mebbe i am gay
but ever since Justine went away


i am blue

saby said...

i hope to post about 50 of the 100 comments here

its very convenient to post here
coz all the guys i love
and all the guys i hate
visit here regularly


where is Pithaly ?

saby said...

i bet Arz00n is coming up wid a long long post

i just cant wait to tear it all apart

Arz000n said...

SORRY is a passport for a person to screw up things. Dont u think so??
You know what you are doing is wrong...and then you also know that one word SORRY will patch up everything.

But yes...if its by accident..or something happens which was never planned for, SORRY always comes handy to brings things back to normal

Remember that Chemistry-lab gal in 12th I talked about...she had this bad habit of saying sorry after screwing up things...after sometime, I got so used to this word, that it just became yet another word in her dictionary. Did it carried any sentiments to me? Naah...

SORRY seems to be the hardest word to say.
Very truly said here K000kie-masta.
Its really very difficult to look in to the eyes and say that YOU ARE SORRY. No wonder its one hardest word to speak out. But betta late than neva...

This is the ideal time so just say it,
Lemme take this oppurtunity to say SORRY to you from core of ma heart...if u ever got hurt from any of ma actions on blog.....knowingly/unknowingly..

And yes...I mean what I said...so dont worry...will avoid making regular use of this word :))

Have an awesome day ahead K000kie-piez
Take care and KEep smiling
hugzzz
Awesome post once again <- do I need to tell this all the time...coz its losing its value...hehehe

saby said...

the jester kicked the Royal Ass (the King's butt)


i beg your pardon
your highness


i tot it was the Queen

saby said...

Saying sorry is worse than saying nutting at all sometimes

southpaw said...

Hmmm...good post to start the week!!!I saw a hindi movie sometimes back,"Musafir" story of the heroine in that movie was more or less like kelly, though in the movie, the heroine's brother-in-law was a jerkoff, anyways coming back to the post,***it's about saying Sorry to the person you hurt***if i have to strongly believe in that then i'll be saying sorry till my last breath...:)coz i have and i do hurt a lot of people.

Keshi said...

Hey z000nie and Puneet :)


z000nie
***SORRY is a passport for a person to screw up things. Dont u think so??

not if u really mean it. how owuld u screw things if u r really sorry abt something?


**and then you also know that one word SORRY will patch up everything.

Not really. It may NEVER patch up things...but atleast u felt sorry and u said sorry hai na? nOt feeling sorry when ur wrong is what may screw things for u later on...thats what I believe :)



**that it just became yet another word in her dictionary

yep I agree...over-using it and saying it with no real meaning will kill the authenticity of it.



**Its really very difficult to look in to the eyes and say that YOU ARE SORRY

yep many ppl hate to admite their wrong...thats when they cant look in the eye and say Sorry.


**do I need to tell this all the time...coz its losing its value

lol na...u dun have to say it...just write ur thoughts...


**Lemme take this oppurtunity to say SORRY to you from core of ma heart.

ok now ur over-using the word lol! why r u saying sorry to me when u havent said or done anything that hurt my feelings, even if I desereve it sometimes :)? Well let me be honest z000nie, u havent said/done anything at all to ask for forgiveness from me, but that was sweet HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!


Keshi.

saby said...

like i said to justine the other day

if ur really sorry
kiss my ass


i guess Arz00n is really really really sorry

Wat he done ?

Keshi said...

Goodday South!

Musafir...I havent seen it...gues I should get it some time...thanks.


**if i have to strongly believe in that then i'll be saying sorry till my last breath...:)coz i have and i do hurt a lot of people.

but u dun hurt em intentionally na?


Keshi.

saby said...

intentional or nott
the hurt is the same

southpaw said...

Ofcourse not...but for me its my job, for them its their livelihood...:):):) so i guess the intention has nothing to do with that...:)

saby said...

Kelly betrayed her older sister(??) by having an affair with her husband



wid out going into wat happened next
dis dont amount to Betrayal
Kelly did her sister a favour by proving dat her hubby is a creep

it takes 2 hands to clap or sex
why blame only one of the duo?

Keshi said...

**Ofcourse not...but for me its my job, for them its their livelihood

South I really dont get what u mean :) Can u elaborate plz...but if u cant, it's ok.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Saby rem Im the high priestess in ur eyes..so how come u still want to read her posts?

Besides the last time we ever talked u wanted me to kiss ur's and moron ITCC's ass...now even if u say SORRY (which I dun think u will ever and I' dun expect it either) I don't think it's going to be real and neither will I be able to forget that you being a good friend really did say something like that to me...knowing how low ITCC is.


Keshi.

saby said...

if only we didnt have memory
like wid be much more happy

guys nirture a grievance like they nuture a rose

its silly
my wife as dat way too

i dont get sex for a whole month and more

for a hurt i supposedly caused
and the funny part is dat i dont even no
she is hurt

she has a memory of an elepphant she says

i really feel sorry for elephants

saby said...

i tink i answered dat Kesh
u and Justine are far too sensitive

Keshi said...

oh whateva Saby...not that u dun have memory or that ur wife has a better memory, just that u r selfish and insensitive.

no u didnt answer me or Justin...just proved it even more.

Keshi.

saby said...

hahahahhahaha

i answered yr reply
b4 u commented

just goes to show
how well i no u and of course Janice

where is she?
is she in labour ?

Keshi said...

Never ruin an apology with an excuse. ~Kimberly Johnson

saby said...

i intend to tear dis post apart word by word

Keshi said...

If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? And why are you waiting? ~Stephen Levine

Keshi said...

It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend. ~William Blake

Keshi said...

True friends stab you in the front. ~Oscar Wilde

Keshi said...

You can make up a quarrel, but it will always show where it was patched. ~Edgar Watson Howe, Country Town Sayings, 1911

saby said...

it's about making mistakes but realising they were mistakes and taking the chance to say Sorry...


will u say sorry to all Indians?


dat post was insensitive to say the least

i no u didnt mean it
the way it came about in the ritten word

but the hurt remains

u shud read how bad it hurt by reading the shit u gott as feedback on my blogg

and u say
'i am insensitive'


???

Keshi said...

**will u say sorry to all Indians?

I said clearly in my post it wasnt about ALL Indians so Im not going to say sorry.

Keshi.

saby said...

True friends stab you in the front. ~Oscar Wilde



dat makes me a true friend

Keshi said...

**but the hurt remains

why r U hurt by that post if it didnt apply to u?

Keshi.

saby said...

i do accept
i have a thick skin

i also dont have attachments
to wealth
to friends and lovers
to ppl and places
to dis material world


which is why
when i die
i will die easy

AMEN !

saby said...

thumbs a finger to his nose and waves




, I WON GUYS !,

Keshi said...

**dat makes me a true friend

U stab me for the wrong reasons supporting some ass. That aint true friendship thats actually the oppositte.

Keshi.

southpaw said...

well keshi, what i meant earlier was that i have done more than 800 successfull assignments till date, where people have been convicted by the court of law, some even lost their lives, for them it was their mode of livelihood, for me it was my job to catch them and produce them in the court of law and at times in an attempt to do so i might have done many unpleasant things to them, its still on, so if i keep feeling sorry for everyone of'em, i'll be then doing it till my last breath.

saby said...

who the fuck said
i am hurt ??


to me
it is all funn and games

i dont take life seriously
or even daeth

we all gotta die someday
a few moments earlier or later dont matter

Boldnbeautiful said...

Many times we hurt people & never bother to say "SORRY". Just let people live with hurt.

Sometimes I feel "Sorry " is the most irritating word. People just blindly use it..

Both I feel extrimes.

But "Sorry" to be used only when one is really sorry for his or her deed.

Keshi said...

oh ok South I get it now. U say ur job is to catch the convcited - well thats ur job and u aint doing something unlawful...cos those ppl have hurt someone else intentionally. I dont think u need to say Sorry to them, but yeah u would feel sorry deep inside...u cant help it cos they r human too. It must be really tough for u!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Saby read u rown frikkin comment above.

**dat post was insensitive to say the least...i no u didnt mean it
the way it came about in the ritten word...but the hurt remains

btw I DID Mean every word I said in that post and NO I aint gonna say SORRY cos I DONT FEEL IT.


And U think ur gonna die easy...thats not something u can plan for.


Keshi.

saby said...

nutting.

he just hides from Southpaw




the law is an ASS
many an innocent man has been convicted

even by a POPE
as in Galileo


John Paul II said sorry more than a 100 years later

Keshi said...

B&B I agree....both extremes r really disturbing...u r so right!


**But "Sorry" to be used only when one is really sorry for his or her deed

Exactly my point!

Keshi.

saby said...

frikkin'??

TCH! TCH !
cool it kesh
its just a game wid winners and lossers

dis time
ur the loosa

is dat so hard to take ??

Keshi said...

Saby just becos u call me the loser, it doesnt make me one. ur the biggest loser cos u lost it from my Indian Man post :) I tickled u at thr right place and u still cant seem to get over it - simply cos u brought it up again in this post...so yeah I aint any loser.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

actually Im the winner :) but I do lose many times I agree but not with u.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

U called me high priestess and that Im judgemental so why r u reading my posts still? U should have just dropped me like a hot potato right after that post and left...but u didnt...

Keshi.

Keshi said...

dont tell me u care for me blah blah blah cos u simply dont - Im a challenge to u and very airritating one too - thats why u like to come and annoy me. Doesnt work with me Saby.

Keshi said...

btw I forgive u for being this arrogant Saby...:)

Forgiveness is the sweetest revenge. ~Isaac Friedmann


Keshi.

Me said...

If u really feel sorry, it could be read from your look... some people have a habit of saying 'sorry'... whether they really feel that or not...

"there is no sorry between friends"....

if u ever got hurt from any of my actions knowingly or unknowingly...
then dont expect 'sorry'(If u treat me as a friend)...

Otherwise ... 'sorry' . 'sorry' . 'sorry'....

Keshi said...

lol Avik...ur right mebbe we shouldnt expect sorry from friends...but I dunno, still say Sorry if I hurt a friend...dun u?

yep the looks can say it all too...no need of words...

hey u dun have to say Sorry to me at all...ur totally gulit-free Avik :)hehehe...

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Socrates
“I am very conscious that I am not wise at all,”

Keshi said...

The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and for deeds left undone. ~Harriet Beecher Stowe, Little Foxes, 1865

saby said...

I MUST HAVE THE LAST WORD AND I WILL



'Love is not having to say sorry'
as AVIK and ERICH SEGAL (Love story) said

southpaw said...

u r right keshi, at times its really tough...

Keshi said...

I just rang my friend...her dad died this morning from a sudden stroke...gawwwwwwwd he was such a nice man and my friend cant even talk she's in tears. Well I have to go now...be by her side...

Im glad I went to have tea with him and his wife the last time they invited us...it was 2months ago.

Cya guys...life is indeed too short!
Keshi.

Keshi said...

Saby I have the grace in me to say Sorry to u...cos I dun want to have any regrets...IM SORRY IF I HURT YA! Luv ya, tc and bye!

Keshi.

strawy said...

well!!! SORRY is my pet word , and i never feel ashamed of saying sorry , i guess i sometimes say sorry even when its not my mistake too.
keshu u miss ur dad alot na , me too re ,come here baby ,let me hug u , hugssss keshuuu tightly...
even my dad was a wonderful person,very cheerful and full of life kind of , love u dad and i m sorry dad if i ever hurt u knowingly or unknowingly .....

thnx keshu for the post, love ya re.

st000nie

southpaw said...

Very sorry to know about ur friend's father's demise, pls extend my condolences to her.

saby said...

LIFE IS NOT MEASURED BY THE NUMBER OF BREATHS WE TAKE


but by the number of moments dat take our breath way


my condolences to the guys who are in grief now

Euphoric Dreamer said...

good !

--pearl-- said...

kesh,firstly hugzzzz cheer-up lil choco-chip-kookie :)

secondly,sorry if i eva hurt u or any of my blogmates fo' dat matta..din intend too :)

jkhkhjkh said...

Sebe, Here I am. Keshi, let me disagree first. I'll read the post later.

jkhkhjkh said...

"Remember that Chemistry-lab gal in 12th I talked about...she had this bad habit of saying sorry after screwing "

Arzoon!!

tulipspeaks said...

sorry to dad for forgetting his sugar-free lozenges..

sorry to mom for ignoring her an hour back..

sorry to sis for skipping today's lunch with her..

sorry to the poor malay guy at the counter for losing my temper and shouted at him

sorry to k000kie so for being late to comment..

guess thats the 'sorry' i need to say lately..

=am000nie=

tulipspeaks said...

err..and sorry to n***n for shutting the msgr..shouldn't have shown my anger to him though..

=am000nie=

Jim said...

Yeah ! Pithaly
she gott beeg breasts

Jim said...

Heyyyyy Pithaly !


why is Amutha blushing ????

Janice said...

uff...sabby an kesh cool it guys...@keshi... ur post really got me mad... how cud a sister do such a thing to ones close one i really fail to understand the funny thing is u often find a female only destroying another females household... but yes u often dont get to say sorry... o be very honest was in the same position...there were tons of things i often wanted to tell dad as a kid he was busy making a living ... as a teen i was busy being miss popular among my friends... u always kinda figure out theres is time for such things but then life sure has different plans instore for u... anyways wanted to say bye known u thru bloggs an little through chat but was sure nice knowing u... you write really well ... lol not one of my talents... but i really admire ur kick ass attitiude towards guys ... though u tend to gt a little emotional... who knows may be girls are that way ,,, but keshi just ignore them life is too short to hold grudges honey....take care an god bless

@sabby labour lolz yeah i guess the way u often make fun of me u can say i nearly went into labour

PuNeEt said...

Hi Keshu...
First a big warm hugg to you...
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Ye Now ur Post...
Once again a fundu one…
Keshi’s trade mark ;-)

Hey a bollywood movie had copied this story of Kelly…
Not new… but definitely disgusting…

People take relationships for granted…

Neways the point here is different…
Sorry…
Ye a lot of people are afraid saying it…
Correctly said… they feel their ego might get hurt… or some shit…

it's about saying Sorry to the person you hurt, it's about thanking the friend who helped you, it's about realising that you can be wrong too sometimes, it's about being open to the other man's views, it's about making mistakes but realising they were mistakes and taking the chance to say Sorry...
ooh My My… These are the “Golden Words”…
so true… I’m gonna mug this up… word to word… and then wen time comes will flash it in front of a pretty looking girl… and she will impressed…. ;-)
hahahhahaha
I’m sorry for copying…
See I’m so nice… I say sorry


Just like a butterfly you quickly escaped my glimpse, but the vivid and colorful memory of you is as brandnew as today
Ohhh Keshu…. Huggzzzz to you…
That’s damn nice of you…

Yes he is watching you… and I’m sure you are making him smile a lot… like you do to a lot of your friends…

You are such a beautiful person… God Bless you…
Take care
Cheers

dfg said...

Hi
nice post....
I replied to ur comment on mine...check it out...

I agree with u about saying sorry for the sake of it...not only sorry but others like thanks, miss u....if they dont come from the heart it is useless...

the reason some people dont say sorry is one they dont like to accept they have done something wrong( ego) and second is the worst one....some people even dont realize that they have done something wrong.....We have to standup for our mistakes...take responsibility....
i think that is enough.....SORRY it is too long
Prakash

saby said...

Heyyy Janice
u really looking beeg

Yes! Kesh very often puts her foot in her mouth
she gott small feet and beeg mouth

but i am not worried about Kesh rite now

looks at Janice again
u sure u can push him out from there ???

Jim said...

Maicho go Bostiao
tuka loz na ?

Jim said...

Heyyy Amutha ! and Janice

'if u want to see the rainbow
u must put up wid the rain
and creepz like Bostiao'


-Dolly Parton
(she gottt real beeg ones, beeger than A.....)

Sonia said...

i don't hafta say sorry! i'm always right! ;o)

julia said...

,Wat the Fuck is happening here ?
is dis an inquisition or wat ??
,


heyyy guys
COOL IT!


she apologized to me
and dat is ENUFF



, me, i hate VANCE and SEAN and ROHAN !,


Deewana is cute
and cuddly

julia said...

Now lets party !
, TIGER u need counselling,

u gott the memory of an elephant
and the brain of an ant

julia said...

i bet dis is a domesticated Tiger
a pussy cat


a guy dont carry a grudge for soo long

Kroopa Shah (Kr00pz) said...

Ya I agree with you there. And like you said, its an ego issue for people who just don't want to accept the fact that they've done something wrong and the least they can do is say sorry. We don't realise but stuff like this hits us later on in life

Tarun said...

You have heard about double meaning words.....while What I feel, Sorry and Love (I am sorry and I love you) are double feeling words. Some times you or we just use these words because we are used to to say these words since childhood. But other times When you really mean it you do or should do more than just saying Sorry or Love you.

Justin Thyme said...

Interesting topic as usual, Kesh. Reading the content of many of the comments that followed only served to reinforce my belief that we live in a society of blame - it's everyone else's fault but our own.

"We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers -- but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change."
-- Katherine Hepburn

Arm Pitt said...

I say sorry like 10 times a minute. But Do I really mean them all? That is a point to ponder. There are sorryphobics and there are sorryphiles too! good topic to discuss though!

sebia said...

hi,
nobdy can imagine how much this wrd means 2 me and how this ego took my most prescious thing away,
i am always a bit stubborn 1,and stooping down from my high fi padestal is always v hard fr me,i had a silly arguement with my bro,i said so many rude things 2 him and he said 1 thing 2 me..u will regret it 1 day .i didnt listen and he went that ws the last time i saw him alive,what came bak was a body neatly wrapped in white and 2 this day i just ask frm GOD fr 1 chance just 1 minute with him again so that i can say sorry 2him.
We in our ego sometimes just cant realize that those words which we are spewing and those gestures with which we are hurting others can cm back 2us ,its so hard 2 say sorry,but its more hard 2 live with the guilt,shackling ur soul.

Keshi said...

awww st000nie hugggggggggz I luv ya heaps! I can imagine wut a wonderful dad u had...u r an awesome person and he's got to be just as beautiful as u r.

**and i never feel ashamed of saying sorry

ppl who feel ashamed to say sorry r the egoistic minds...who always blame someone else.

Thanks hunnny u always make me feel happy - luv ya!
Keshi.

Keshi said...

Thanks South and Saby...I went there last nite...it was a very sad story...the way it happened. He just collapsed in the toilet while shaving...he suffered a stroke from HBP, and they took him to the hospital and he died without saying a word...the 2 daughters r in deep shock - I didnt know what to say...I was speechless...cos this reminded me of my dad's death...the only difference is my dad was much younger when he died - only 42...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Amu that was so thoughtful of ya and so sweeeet. But hey u dun have to say Sorry for coming late in comments lol - relax...even if u dun comment on a post, I have u in my mind :) Take it easy babeh!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Pearly huggggggggggz! lol chocochip k000kies...that was cutte! Hey no sorry from u plzzz...u havent done anything to hurt me - ur tooo sweet to hurt anyone at all...luv ya babez!



Pithaly wussup? :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Jannnnnnnnnnnn muaaaaaaaah! So nice to see ya here...

hey where r ya going? U cant leave me like this?? If ur going into labor then be back blogging as soon as u have the baby lol! otherwise I'll miss ya like hell!

yes one woman ruining another woman's family is the sickest thing on Earth..cant imagine how that can be done...and that too ur own sis!


**but i really admire ur kick ass attitiude towards guys ... though u tend to gt a little emotional

hehe...yep me a sea of emotions LOL! U can call me uhh...uhh...Drama Queen :)

Keshi

Keshi said...

Puneeeet huggggggz n thanks!

**they feel their ego might get hurt… or some shit

yes its the EGO that grows their madness...


**You are such a beautiful person… God Bless you

Goshh that was sweet...thanks and same goes to ya. U r such a wonderful guy and Im blessed to know ya...God bless ya too!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Prakash heyyy!

**some people even dont realize that they have done something wrong

Thats sooo true! Thats the worst scenario...not realising it is really ur fault.

lol u dun have to be sorry for writing long comments...I told ya na I like em :) Thanks!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Sonzz WC :) So ur always right..lol...ok then...if thats the case, well u dun have to say sorry.



Kroopzz..
**We don't realise but stuff like this hits us later on in life

thats so true...

reminded me of my Aunt who died recently...there is this other aunt who used to hurt her always with gossipping etc...so after she died, this other aunt was soooo sad and was crying buckets saying Sorry...what for now??



Tarun yes u r right...
**When you really mean it you do or should do more than just saying Sorry or Love you

thats such a great point...it's just not the word Sorry u must say...u have to do more than that to show ur Sorry...thanks Tarun!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Justin as usual u bring out a very interesting side to all my posts...thank you for that mate!

** we live in a society of blame - it's everyone else's fault but our own

thats so true! Blame game is what we all play till teh day we die. We never want to accept that WE MAY BE WRONG TOO! Denial adds to the wrong deed done.

** But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change

No one could have said it any better!

THANKS matey!
Keshi.

Keshi said...

arm_pitt WC and thanks!

**sorryphobics and there are sorryphiles

thats a great way to describe it...yep theres no point being at 2 extremes...u have to really mean it when u say it...and if u dun mean it, it's best NOT to say it...thanks again that was a great point!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Sebzzzz gimme a hug....I know u dun like em but I want to hug ya na...


**nobdy can imagine how much this wrd means 2 me and how this ego took my most prescious thing away,

Sebzz the best part is u realise that...some ppl go years without realising that the ego is burning them down. But u realised even tho it was thru a hard lesson...u realised...thats what matters.




**had a silly arguement with my bro,i said so many rude things 2 him and he said 1 thing 2 me..u will regret it 1 day .

well Sebzz since it was a silly argument u wouldnt have thought that it was necessary to be so dramatic and say Sorry etc. So dun blame it all on ya gurl...



**i didnt listen and he went that ws the last time i saw him alive,

well u neva imagined he'd die right. It's not like u knew it was going to be the last time ur gonna see him. thats human nature - we take each other for granted...we cant be so divine not to...



**i just ask frm GOD fr 1 chance just 1 minute with him again so that i can say sorry 2him.

u have already said Sorry...he would know by now...cos the silent tears u shed arent gonna go unseen Sebzz...every tear drop was seen and felt...



**We in our ego sometimes just cant realize that those words which we are spewing and those gestures with which we are hurting others can cm back 2us ,

so true...whatever u say and do always come back to ya...I always say that...cos the negative/positive energies u emanate has a negative/positive reaction for sure.



**its so hard 2 say sorry,but its more hard 2 live with the guilt,shackling ur soul.

Sebzz u have to let go of the guilt...u r torturing ur soul with this...remember u have to love forgive urself too....ur soul is begging for forgiveness and ur not giving it...thats another misdeed ur doing to urself...he's gone, u r genuinely sorry for what happened and now it's time to forgive urself and move on sweety...be kind to urself now.

Thanks and take care u lovely gal...Sebz u have touched my soul in many wonderful ways...in ways that would overcome all past egoistic deeds that may haunt u today...bury em all and be happy cos this is the time u have to live :)

Huggggggggggz!
Keshi.

Tanvi said...

heyy kesh..lol well my battery is flat...im juz not into the bloggin thing rite now...i think im over it..thinkin of deletin the blog...n i juz visit like a few blogz everyday...

i think the break wasnt very helpful..lol

Keshi said...

hey why Tanvi? U sound depressed...goshhhh temme girl wussup?

Keshi.

Tanvi said...

lol no! im absolutely fine! im jus over the bloggin....im not depressed

Keshi said...

cool...well but be here ok. I mean dun delete ur blog...its a place for me to leave msgs for u na?

Keshi.

Squared said...

Well written!

I guess Sorry is not an easy word to say. In fact the more its wanted, the more difficult it is to say. On the other hand, as you have mentioned, some ppl seem to have a big stock of sorry up their asses.

I really find it hard to say, but I do make sure that I say it or the chasm would never be crossed..

SaffronSaris said...

Argh! This morning, I was the unwitting punching bag of a friend who was irritated with someone else.
Worse, this friend has a mental block on saying "sorry". I wish he reads your blog.

Keshi said...

Heyya Squared!

**In fact the more its wanted, the more difficult it is to say.

that is soooo true.


**On the other hand, as you have mentioned, some ppl seem to have a big stock of sorry up their asses.

LOL good one!


**I really find it hard to say, but I do make sure that I say it or the chasm would never be crossed

I find it hard when the person doesnt deserve an apology :) but o.w. I say it cos he/she deserves it and thats why I felt sorry anyways right :)

Thanks matey!
Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hey Saffron WC and thanks!

**Worse, this friend has a mental block on saying "sorry". I wish he reads your blog.

awww Im sure he will come back to ya and say Sorry cos if he's a true friend, he would know what he did was wrong...take it easy.

And huggggz!
Keshi.

Autumn Storm said...

Some people will never apologuise for pain caused, because they are not sorry. 'Good people' do not have a problem with accepting their mistakes and will try to make amends for hurt caused.
Then, of course, there is pride, which also stops some in their tracks - misplaced pride to be more exact.
In short, being able to say sorry is an admirable trait that too few possess and with many others not wanting to.
Being sorry is more to do with a feeling than actually saying the words...and feeling it is more important, as we do not always have the opportunity to say it.
Sorry, :-),if I am not making sense = not enough sleep last night!!!

Autumn Storm said...

BTW another great post.
PS Goosebumps accompany the emotion. when Elton sings "Sorry seems to be the hardest word". Gorgeous.

Keshi said...

Hey Autumn ur words gimme the goosebumps :) cos they r so true!


**misplaced pride to be more exact.

Couldnt have said it any better...thanks!

Yep u got to feel it more than just blurting out the words...better not say Sorry if u dun feel it.

I love that song too...and I cry often listening to it :(

Thanks matey!
Keshi.

jkhkhjkh said...

Sorry comes from the word sorrow. Its a state of living. Only then can you love. Take it at whatever level you want.

Jim said...

Some people will never apologuise for pain caused, because they are not sorry.

'Good people' do not have a problem with dat

they never have an occasion to say sorry

Autumn has plenty

Jim said...

, TANVI , i am sorry
i forgot to charge your batteries


i cud do it now

jkhkhjkh said...

Sebie, Sebe's counterpart, "We in our ego sometimes just cant realize that those words which we are spewing are hurting others .." So true.

Keshi said...

**Sorry comes from the word sorrow. Its a state of living. Only then can you love.

Pithzz that was lovely thanks!



Saby saying Sorry is the first step...u dun even take that step.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

With permission from Justin. This poem abt Apology best fits here so Im posting it here for everyone to read. Justin at http://justin-thyme.blogspot.com/ wrote this.



How do I tell you I'm sorry -
With a gesture, a look, a touch?
How is it I never realized
I hurt you so very much?

I do not ask forgiveness,
A comfort I'll never deserve.
I merely want to let you know,
But I cannot find the nerve.

To finally confront you, face-to-face,
To look you in the eye,
To face your wrath, your apathy -
Too terrified to try.

You called me selfish, I turned away,
I festered and I fled;
Cutting and wounding and lashing out,
Just to see if you bled.

Betraying and deceiving you,
I surely had no right
To snatch away such a precious gem;
A dark thief in the night.

So much time has passed
To bring us to this day,
When I present these simple words
I never thought to say.

The time has come, it's long past due,
To put aside my fear;
Would this confession torture you,
Or have you longed to hear?

To hear those two forbidden words,
To vanquish all the pain,
To understand my dearest wish:
To know you once again.

The years aged me remarkably,
Though they have not made me wise;
I do know I erred irrevocably -
For that I apologize.

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