Thursday, March 23

Looking for Janice...

I miss Janice (Pic of Janice on the LEFT) so much that I want to cry right now. Janice is a sweet girl I met on IndiaTimes chat a long time ago and we became friends instantly. She liked me for my kick-ass attitude...that's exactly what she told me and I still remember her giggles and warmth. Then she got married to a guy called Chris in India and then they both left to the US - that's what she told me. And even from the US she used to keep in touch with us and also started blogging regularly. She is such a crazy girl and she always put a smile on my face by her most famous word 'DUMBASS' which she often used on Saby and a little bit on me. Well she got pregnant and then she was going into labour in Dec 2005. Up until the end of Nov '05 she blogged and told us all about her pregnancy etc and then she left, promising us that she'll write us all about the good tidings of joy as soon as she gives birth. It's March 2006 now and no one has heard anything from her as yet. As I have no contact details of her's other than the blog and email, I don't know who to contact. And some anonymous person from her area in India had come to Saby's and my blogs and stated that Janice and baby died during childbirth! I refuse to believe that until I hear from one of her loved ones...and when is that going to be? Can someone please help me find Janice, cos I've been missing her alot and I want to make sure that she's ok. If anyone else here knows her please make an effort to find out if she's doing ok..that's all I need to know, that she and the baby are ok. I've been missing you Jan...
Maybe I didnt say
Maybe I did
What you are to me
Is a gentle touch
A beautiful soul
A never-ending story
And you shall live forever...

165 Cranium Signets:

sophie said...

i wish
she is happy and cheerfull
in some part of the globe
with her lil angel
joyous and spirited

Anand said...

Hey keshi,
Thats sad...can imagine how it must feel to be in the uncertainity of not knowing whats happening to someone u care about!
Hope and pray that u get to know their whereabouts soon and that she and the kid are fine!
God bless!
and hey..dont lose hope!

saby said...

Janice lives
she now lives in a better world

she was always an angel
i can see her clearly now wid a harp on a cloud high up in the sky

loking down on us and smiling dat sweet smile of hers

she was the only blogger/chatter i new

who never ever had a bad word or tot for anyone

not even for the net creeps who tried to talk dirty to her

PRADEEP K. said...

Awww... Keshi, this is so touching.

Wish I could help out, but the only information I have about Janice is what she has disclosed on her profile.

I hope everything is okay with her, and that we will soon see her again. Maybe she just got too busy taking care of the newborn and things like that.

Anyways, she is in all my prayers.

Pri said...

Im sure janice will get bak to u keshi...keep the faith :)
Its can get real tough when our friends suddenly move out of touch n all of a sudden we stop hearin frm thn...strange thoughts cross the mind...ive gone thru tht..but believe me whn she comes bak to u ,ul'l only be happy twice as much...mebe she's juss busy wth her new life.now thts shes entered motherhood :)
hope u hear frm her soon n hope she's doin fine...

hugzzz

Contented said...

Hey Mate!!

Sad to hear about your friend Janice. I hope someone will surely update you about her well beings soon.

Like Nat Burton said
"There'll be bluebirds over the white cliffs of Dover,
Tomorrow, just you wait and see.

kkalpz said...

GOSH!!!!what a tragedy...if what saby said did happen that is....i pray to god it didnt.
I still cant believe that even today women die of child-birth and that too in countries like the US.
I just checked out her blog.Dear god, she had so many plans and was scared too that nothing sud go wrg durin the pregnancy.I didnt know her but, choked for a minute when i read the post on baby names...:(
What can be done is to get in touch with her bro in mumbai.Maybe she is just busy after the baby...maybe she is still recuperating.

Jo said...

Oh!!! That's really shocking. How is this anon related to Janice? I don't know if we can believe it. Perhaps, she is in the bed rest after the delivery and all.

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

:(((

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

You know .. i hate it when women get married .. i have lost 2 of my best friends to marriage .. i think i wrote abt it sometime back ...

obviously , women change after marriage ... but i find it awful ... these days , i try avoiding them .. coz they have suddenly become so goody goody , conscious of society and all that bull shit ...

am too angry to write more .. .seriously ... not joking

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

hope u find Janice soon

Dewaker Basnet said...

yoah..first one keshi;)
feels on top of the world.;) lest somebody's commenting first, willread ur piece later and comment again later k..
i just so happy:)

PuNeEt said...

thats a sweet post...
i dun know her so can't of ne help...
bt am sure a lot ur of IT gang members r bloggers
hope some1 has her contact no...

all the best

Cheers

Orikinla Osinachi. said...

Your post reminds me of one of my songs, "I Can't Say Goodbye".

If you are a strong believer in God, just say a prayer for Janice.

I also met an enchanted Indian who has disappeared as she appeared into my cyberspace. And I once had a beautiful and wonderful German blonde Nikky who was my muse in real life in Nigeria for two years and she returned to Munich and left home and disappeared and I have not seen or heard from her since 1995 to date.

Such is life.
As the following lyrics go.

C'est La Vie

A dinner invitation:
Tonight we're eating up the ocean floor
No negotiations -
May I suggest the plat du jour?
Take your places at the table and we'll serve it up
In our own sweet time
Subtly microwaved and sweetly irradiated
D'accord? Now we've fish to fry

Don't cry, don't cry
C'est la vie, c'est la mort, my friend
Life's a menu of experiments
Though what goes down may come up again
C'est la vie, c'est la guerre
Ooh la la, la mer, la mer
Detonnez! Detonnez! Allez...

We will tenderly burn
A delicate fruits de la mer flambés
Done to a turn
In waters purer than Perrier
A taste explosion, a tried and tested recipe
That slays them every time
Sweetly vaporised and swiftly exterminated
D'accord? Now kiss your ass goodbye

Don't cry, don't cry
C'est la vie, c'est la mort, mon vieux
The South Pacific goes cordon bleu
Bon appetit, c'est delicieux
They say everything is fair
In l'amour and in la mer
Detonnez! Detonnez! Allez...

From the Chajai Hills in Pakistan
To Lop Nor in Sinkiang
From the Mississippi to the Nevada plains
We've bombed and bombed and bombed again
Semipalatinsk and Monte Bello
Farmington and Almagordo
Emu Field and Maralinga
Fangataufa and Muroroa
Christmas, Bikini, Tuamoto and Reao
Blown sky high and reduced to zero
At Eugelab when the smoke had cleared
Three islands had just disappeared
A fine result for the boys in the lab
And an archipelago wiped off the map

Don't cry, don't cry
C'est la vie, c'est la mort, my friend
Life's a menu of experiments
Though what goes down may come up again
Well, such is life

So don't cry, don't cry
C'est la vie, c'est la mort, mon vieux
The South Pacific goes cordon bleu
Bon appetit, c'est delicieux
They say everything is fair
In l'amour and in la mer
Detonnez! Detonnez! Allez...

© Chris Hoban 2005
N.B:
Keshi,
I read all your posts on the front page of your blog and I wanted to e-mail you to publish your blook.
Your awesome respondents are also enlightening. Your articles are very seminal and the issues you have raised should be given more mileage.

Jewel Rays said...

Oh Dear Keshi..

*HUGS*

Sometimes we know not what happens to the ones who pass us by.We go in search for them to find them lost. Things happen that collide with what we want to hear that seems nice. But sometimes things just don't go the way we want. WE question why only to find no answers coming back in time. Loved one lost only to leave us crying without saying goodbye. Hearts breaks and minds can't reconcile just know that her desire would be to see you smile and not cry.

Somethings happens leavin us wondering why...

I hope that helps keshi. *HUGS* luv ya...

>|' ; '| said...

we can only hope for the best and be prepared for the worst...

Boldnbeautiful said...

Keshi, I dont know Her, still I could not control myself.

She is from Mahahrastra. Mumbai, as per her profile.

Even I am from Mumbai. If u can give me her details as her real name, the area she stayed, I will try to contact nursing home in that area to find out.

Hope all is well with her by god's grace.

Nov 26 was her last post. I hope all is well & we will hear real soon.
After reading ur post I just cant stop crying. tear is flowing for the unknown soul.

Boldnbeautiful said...

Nothing as such had happened as u imazined atleast to mom I believe. In Mumbai we have best medical facility.

I havent read in paper too.

But I have heard of SIDS by mom's carelessness.

Again all the cases wont be reported in news paper too..

Jeevan said...

dont worry keshi, hope she will be fine with her kid, and enjoying her life. i know how it will be for u, if we hear some bad rumers like this of our loved one.

Het Waghela said...

Kesh,

I can surely try for it. If I can know which part of India she was from.

I will surely surely help you.

DUMBASS you could have asked me only!! (just used that as never told anyone DUMBASS before, sorry if u didn't liked it)

KL said...

Any idea in which part of the USA she has come to? I don't believe about whatever that anonymous person said - nowadays such things happen perhaps in Afganistan, not in the USA.

Did you contact her over email? If you didn't get reply, don't worry. I had two friends who became mothers, and right after birth, there were no contact between us for more than 6 months. I used to send them emails, etc, but no reply from the other side. Now that we are in touch, they say that it's really tough and more than 24 hours job after a baby is born. With so much work, and hardly any sleep, they were not in the situation to write emails.

Do you know the last name of Janice and Chris?

I am sure everything is fine with them. So, cheer up girl.

Sudarshan said...

Yay..I'm first here:-) Anyway I'm real sad after reading your post..I mean you must be feeling so down. Even I'm close to a lot of people I've never met including a lot of bloggers, and several chat buddies. We're used to talking to them daily and sharing practically all our thoughts with them!! Sudden termination of contact with such close buddies can be a tough problem to handle :-( I really don't know how I would react!! I hope nothing has gone wrong with your friend, and I pray that you'll be able to get in touch with her soon!!

the_ego_has_landed said...

hey...hope u can get in touch with her...
hugs

Princess said...

I don't know about your friend. But I'll definetly pray for you to get a good news about her and her child.

Zombie said...

she is under the wings of love and protection, wherever she is.

Shriedhar said...

Hi keshi,

so sad to kno this.

well, it was too pesonal a post to comment.

rebel_on_loose said...

Hey Keshi this ws a really really touching post.
Hope u get 2 know about Janice real soon.

Hope she's still around.

Maya Cassis said...

A beautiful friend touched your heart and left.I have been longing for some of those missing friends too but I reassure myself with the memories if I don't get to see them again.
*hugs*

Vivhyd said...

thats too bad.. hopefully she is alrite.. and will get in touch with u soon

niki yokota said...

Oh my gosh!!!
i had also lost my chat fren who went to war.
juz try to think ur fren is alive in somewhere. juz cant contact us due to some reason(>_<)
pls dont worry abt it, keshi-chan!!
hugzzzzz

Tarun said...

Hey it's so nice of you.....hope for the best

strawy said...

oh keshu... even i heard it from m000nie that she passed away and her baby too ...
i dunno how true it is ,but its hurting for sure...
ask m00nie , coz she knows wats the truth...
hugsss keshuuuu
hope u r doing fine
take care sweety
love ya

The Phoenix said...

I hope you're able to re-connect with her.

Dewdrop said...

Hey Keshi, I really really hope that anonymous comment abt Janic is false. Id like to convince myself and you by thinking she quit blogging and that shes probably busy with her real life and the new addition in her family. But yes would definitely want some assurance and confirmation that shes out there in her own little place. This was an awesome attempt at trying find out some details of a long lost friend. Great work, girl.

Abhishek Upadhyay said...

Hi Keshi,
thats true few people whom you dont often meet become so close that you miss them when they are not around for a long time.
I hope your friend will return soon.I myself have losed 2 net friends who were in touch with me for more than 4 years and then suddenly both of them disappeared one by one. Well, even i was a bit responsible for that coz I was cut off from net for more than a year..

Just 2 days back I received mail from one of them(she is from Phillipines)I had lost all the hope to be in touch with her...but then she popped up one day from no where.

May be same will happen with jane.
Dont worry

Keep Smiling
Regards

ishita said...

keshi i hope she's fine too and so is her lil baby...praying u do hear from her...and sumone sumwhere gets here to let u know how she's doing...

u know...this post's got me wanting to check up on all my frenz...u don't realize how much sumone meant to us...till they're not a part of our lives...hmmm....

Neha said...

omg! i wish i cud help u.. i hreally hope she's ok and u hear from her soon!

tsduff said...

You have posted about a nightmare I've wondered about recently. What if something dire happens to one of our blogging friends....or even to ourself, and then, no more blog. There isn't really anybody who would update the blog to inform folks of the reason for the disappearance, so we would all just be left with questions, and never knowing what happened. I'm sorry about your situation in losing touch with Janice - I hope it is just a fluke and not serious.

Autumn Storm said...

Oh gosh, hope you hear news!

Trée said...

All the best in your search Keshi. I'll keep Janice in my thoughts and prayers and hope you are able to establish contact again. Hugs and kisses my dear.

sittingnut said...

hey!
this is one of those terrible things about online friendships if one stops communicating others are be left with impotent anxiety.
i hope your friend is ok. probably she is just busy with the baby and new babies are hard work.
i have known ppl who voluntarily go incommunicado for six months at a time without notice.

hugggz!

saby said...

if any mumbaite wants to make an attempt to trace janice

u will find the details here
http://imnutsincaps.blogspot.com/2006/01/friendz.html

keshi publish her foto

Keshi said...

Guys thanks so much for all ur love and support...we have become such a close-knit community here and all ur heart-felt comments show how much we care for each other...Im really touched by all of ur love...I dunno what I'd do w.o. u guys...THANKS n HUGGGGZ!

Strawy says that m000nie really knows what happened to Jan...atleast someone knew and it seems this post that was long overdue has brought Jan's news to me....I want to confirm this with m000nie and let u all know what really happened to her. Perhaps this afternoon I will know so give me time till then.


Last night I went to a prayer centre to pray for Jan...I never did this before..I mean for a missing blog friend....I felt I had to go sit there in silence and have a conversation with God. There was a picture of Jesus there and Janice is a Christian...so I was all teary when I saw Jesus' face...I really didnt know why I was crying cos I never thought I'd cry...it was like Jesus was staring into my eyes...and then I asked Him in my mind what had happened to Jan...that I have to know somehow...Jesus seemed all content and was almost like telling me to go home and that I will hear soon. And I didnt expect it to come this soon to me...I mean any news of her's. Cos I had few emails too abt her this morning. But I wanna make sure it's the truth and this is not what I wanted to hear of her. I hope He wont let me down this time too...

God bless jan!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Sophia

thanks...lets hope so...




~~Anand

thanks mate...I hope not to lose hope...but hope always loses me...




~~Saby

Saby I dun want to believe any anonymous net comments abt her...but it seems m000nie knows abt Jan. I will ask her today. Oh Saby I just wanna hug ya...cos u n i had some great times with Jan...I want her to come back....




~~Pradeep.K

Pradeep the possibility of that is dimming by the hour...I'll let u know soon tho...




~~Pri

thanks and I will know soon if thats true...




~~Contented

**"There'll be bluebirds over the white cliffs of Dover,
Tomorrow, just you wait and see.

that brought tears to my eyes...I miss Jan...




~~KKalpz

**What can be done is to get in touch with her bro in mumbai.

hey Kalpz u too knew she had a bro...? So u knew her well? Cant u find out then?




~~Jo

Jo it sounds like it's bad news..I dun wanna believe it tho but lets wait n see...




~~Deepa

Deepzz dear I dun think that Jan has changed after marriage...cos she wrote to us even after marriage n migrating to the US...it's after her delivery date that she's missing...

but I do know what u mean..women change a bit after marriage n childbirth etc...such is life...but u dun have to change just cos some do :)




~~Dewaker_Basnet

Thanks mate...lets hope we get back Jan...




~~Puneet

Pu it seems m000nie knows abt Jan...wait till I let u know for sure ok...thanks!




~~Orikinla_Osinachi

hey mate that was a very beautiful song...I cried reading it...u have a taste for very beautiful things...I like ya! Thanks


**If you are a strong believer in God, just say a prayer for Janice.

Hence I went to God last nite looking for Janice....hope He answers me soon...

Thanks alot!





~~Jewel_Rays

**Hearts breaks and minds can't reconcile just know that her desire would be to see you smile and not cry.

hey Amy I dunno wut to do...cos I so wanna cry...I cant hold these tears that's full of love for Jan...





~~Poison

thanks Poison but hell na I dun wanna be prepared to hear that she infact died...how can I prepare for something like that? I havent even gotten over my dad's death, my friend's suicide and now Jan? It's too much...




~~BoldNbeautiful

hugggggggz BnB! Thanks so much for trying to help me out...she was in Mumbai and then flew to the US with her husband..it was there that she was supposed to give birth..in the US. I dunno any of her family in Mumbai...but I know she has a brother and mum there and that her dad died when she was little...just like my dad. Saby knows more of her details than I do...


**After reading ur post I just cant stop crying. tear is flowing for the unknown soul.

shows that u have a heart that feels...luv u gal n HUGGGGGGGGGZ!

I will hear of her news this afternoon when I speak to m000nie...lets keep our fingers crossed that she's well!




~~Jeevan

thanks Jeevan!




~~Het_Waghela

Het thanks so much for ur support! I really really appreciate that...

well she's from Mumabi Maharashtra, and she married a guy called Chris...thats all I know...and she was in the US last I spoke to her.

**DUMBASS

I love that word :)...brings back sweet memories of a dear girl I knew...Jan Dumbass come back!




~~KL

hey thanks sooooooooo much! U guys r so supportive and Im so thankful to know ppl like u.

**Do you know the last name of Janice and Chris?

I have no idea...I never asked too many personal things from her...I only knew her for abt 2years...and in that lil time period she touched my heart so deep. She just migrated to the US after her marriage....in 2005. I have to go back to her posts and see which part of the US cos I cant rem...

but thanks so much for ur concern - luv u!




~~Sudharshan

thanks mate...lets hope we get Jan back...




~~The_ego_has_landed

I dunno Ego..I really dunno what to do...or what to say anymore...cos I have this feelings that alls not well with Jan...





~~Aizwaikcha

Thanks for ur prayers girl...thats all we can do right now I think...




~~Zombie

**she is under the wings of love and protection, wherever she is

awwwwww......:*(




~~Sridhar

Thanks...




~~Rebel_on_loose

Rebbz thanks...fingers crossed!




~~Maya_Casis

**A beautiful friend touched your heart and left

why do they have to leave...




~~Vivhyd

thanks mate....




~~Niki_Bakshi


**i had also lost my chat fren who went to war.

did he come back?




~~Tarun

thanks Tarun...




~~Strawy

st000nie is that TRUE? I mean does m000nie know for sure?? Can u ask m000nie to email me plzzzzzzzzz.......




~~The_Phoenix

hey thanks...my connection with her wont die even I die...




~~Dewdrop

aww Dewdy I hope that it's a lie too...but apparently m000nie knows abt her so let me find out ok...I so hope she's FINE. Thanks!




~~Abhishek_Upadhyay

hey thanks Abhishek that makes me relax a bit...lets hope Jan too will suddenly turn up n say Hi...




~~Ishita

Thanks Ish!

**this post's got me wanting to check up on all my frenz...u don't realize how much sumone meant to us...till they're not a part of our lives..

isnt it strange that we take some ppl for granted and that it doesnt sink in until they r gone...




~~Neha

thanks Neha!




~~Terry

ur so right...if I die tomorrow who wud tell u all that Im no more..isnt that sad. I guess it's best we have atleast one or two blog friends who know our phone# atleast...atleast I do...so if I die, they will ring my mobile n someone will tell em Im no more...I want it that way so I have given my mob number to few of my close bloggers. We never know if we'll be here tomorrow...

Thanks darl!




~~Autumn_Storm

I hope so too Autumn...thanks!




~~Tre

Thanks mate!




~~Sittingnut

thanks....I really hope she's not dead...it's the worst that can happen to a newly married girl abt to be a mum...


Keshi.

saby said...

, janice has been hacked !,

Keshi said...

~~Saby

thanks for that pic...

Saby her blog is not hacked..just a stupid graphics problem...will fix itself in a while. It happens to my blog all the time too...


Keshi.

Ekta said...

Hi keshi,
I hope and pray that she is safe and sound and that she gets in touch with you!
It can be quite killing when people dissapear suddenly and we have no cleu about their whereabouts!
keeping fingers crossed!

Tanvi said...

hey keshi..oh damn i hope shez alrite..she should be alrite...maybe she just decided to take a little break and shez busy wit the baby..hope shez alrite

luvwannabefree25 said...

Hey Keshi.. I'm so sorry.. don't give up hope... maybe she's so busy with the baby that she doesn't have time... that tends to happen.. perhaps you should ask the person who told you that mom and baby didn't make it to give you the name of a relative you can contact.. until then you are in my prayers... don't give up...

xoxoxo

JD

Keshi said...

~~Ekta

thanks girl...I hope the same of her...lets wait n see if someone tells me abt her soon.




~~Tanvi

hey Tanvi...so far I havent heard what I want to hear but then I wanna confirm b4 I make a conclusion abt Jan...will let u know soon.


Keshi.

southpaw said...

Isn't it a possibility that since she was expecting a baby, she must hv got really busy with the upbringing of the baby....

Dawn....सेहर said...

Hey Keshi...think positive...she must hv got busy with the baby n all the visitors n all tht...!!!
She should be fine and healthy....

Pray for the best...
I can understand ur concern and the restlessness after someone saying so...but its always better to hear from the horses mouth...be patient..thats all one can do...

May God bless her and the angel..

uttara said...

hun ..

huggssss ... dont get disheartened .. hugggzzzzzzzz

uttara

tulipspeaks said...

keeping our fingers crossed..

=am000nie=

Jewel Rays said...

Dear Keshi

Its ok to cry sweetheart.:)Its important to cry in these times. Just let it out but do not forget how to smile. Its important to know when to come out and when to let yourself go. Its a shocking news indeed. Even when i read it, i was quite taken aback. It sucks when someone leave without a seal. but thats the way life present its faces at times. know Girl that you were blessed with such a friendship with an angel(janice). :)

Keshi said...

~~Luvwannabefree25

** that tends to happen.. perhaps you should ask the person who told you that mom and baby didn't make it to give you the name of a relative you can contact

Im trying to do that now...thanks mate! I appreciate ur support.




~~Southpaw

well u r right, thats a possibilty...but she was also not too well during her pregnancy..she had alot of collapses and bleeding issues...and I know she was Anemic. Only very few ppl knew that. And this person who came and said she knew Jan and that she died, also said that she was Anemic and died as a result of all that during childbirth...if he was lying how wud he know all that?




~~Dawn

hey Dawny I so hope too that she's doing fine...but some guy from her hometown told us that she died...and I dun wanna believe it but he said some pretty close details abt her health etc...so I wanna go back to Saby's blog and get his info and track him down...let me see how far I can go...

Thanks alot!




~~Uttara

Uttsy a hug will do just right now...thanks muahhhhhhhhs n hugggggz to u too!




~~Amutha

Amu I missed ya! Hugggggggz n thanks!


Keshi.

Outdoorsy Girl said...

**hugs** to you Keshi...

I am so sad for you. I know how it is to lose a friend (my best friend passed away 4 years ago and sometimes it still feels like yesterday), but the uncertainty must be worse. I hope you find out about Janice soon. She will be in my prayers.

Keshi said...

~~Jewel_Rays

Amy thanks so much...hugggggz!

**know Girl that you were blessed with such a friendship with an angel(janice).

thats so true...just look at her innocent face...so damn innocent...and like Saby said, she never used a single word to hurt anyone...I call her an angel just for that reason alone...but i so hope she's ok.




~~Oudoorsy_Girl

hey girl that 'hug' really made me feel good...a hug from such a long distance from someone I never met sure feels divine...thanks u guys r just awesome.


**my best friend passed away 4 years ago and sometimes it still feels like yesterday

Im so sorry to hear that! Ur best buddy? Goshhh how? Can I ask...?


Keshi.

uttara said...

HUGGGGZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

always there for u girl
muuuaaaaahhhhhhh

uttssyyyyyy

Keshi said...

**Anonymous said...
saby agar tu janice jo mulund mein rheti thi jo nes ratnam college mein thi uske baremein keshi ke blog mein pucch raha tha uski woh bacche ko janam dene ke wakt uska bohot bleeding ho raha tha doctor usko aur baby ko save nahi kar sakte the uski aunty bol rahi thi mere grand parents ko uska bhai ka shaadi hone wala tha jo cancel ho gaya. teri friend nahi rahi abhi





Can someone translate the above comment into English plzzzzzz!

Thanks!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

***Anonymous said...
abey tiger mein uske saath chat karta tha indiatimes pe mujhe pata hai woh kidhar ki hai, woh mere se 3 saal chooti thi same college mein ab mein blog ka id kidhar bhetke banau sirf yeh batane ke liye uski family ko bhi pata tha usko pregnancy mein bohot problem ho raha tha woh anemic thi. mera naam harish hai





And this plzz...

Keshi.

Keshi said...

**Dear Keshi, I have put up a post on Janice in my blog in order to locate her. Hope you don't mind. I am feeling very sad and lost on reading this post and all the comments here and in other places, and that is why done such a thing.


KL Thanks a million! HUGGGGGGGGGGZ! ppl like u all make me believe in Love..it's still there...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~KL

and u have posted ur last comment in my previous post...but thats ok...I replied to u above. THANK U SO MUCH!

Keshi.

Outdoorsy Girl said...

Hi again Keshi...I don't mind at all your asking about my best friend. She passed away from a clot to her brain. It was very sudden and shocking. I talked to her on the phone one night and I was holding her hand as she lay in the hospital dying the next day. I miss her very much, but I can still feel her with me at times. She was the most selfless and caring person I have ever known in my entire life. Her death was a loss not only for me, but for the entire world that is in dire need of people like her to make it a better place.

Again...another hug for you. Janice sounds like a great, fun person and it is obvious what she means to you.

Sunita said...

Hi keshi,
Since i dont know anything about her, its very awkward to say anything, but those last 2 comments in hindi definitely suggests that she has passed away during the labour, the last one seems to be from her college friend Harish who knew her personally...:(. If what he says is true then may God bless both of them...I am really sorry...:(

Keshi said...

~~Outdoorsy_girl

a clot took her life away...how sad and I bet she was too young to die..well ur friend's passing on proves that good people indeed die young...she prolly wasnt fit for this cruel world...Im so sorry tho, cos u must miss her immensely - I can only imagine how ur feeling...hugggggggggggz girl, anytime u wanna talk, Im here...ok??

She was a flower
Bloomed for a while
Then came Winter
And her soul's on flight...


Especially for ur friend...





~~Uttara

Huggggggggz thanks babes...ur a gem!




~~Sunita

It said that he's her college friend? Does it say how he got to know abt it?

Thanks alot for translating it...muahh I miss ya too :*(


Keshi.

anup.777 said...

I remember Saby raising this question when u were away for a while recently ... and I was horrified to read the anonymouse reply he received too ... it's really tragic if its the truth ... I pray its not ... but such things do happen ever so often ... :(

Thë Icè Þr¡ñce§§ said...

hey kesh,

m gonna say beforehand that m really bad at stuff like this, i really never know exactly the rite stuff to say to a person to keep up their spirit.

All i can say is that think positive, negative thinking is no good. I know hearing about the horrible news must have shaken u left n right, but since no ones certain of it, u shud keep up or hopes and just pray that wherever she is, she's happy and maybe got bzy with the new arrival in her life. I have seen it happen a lot to my frnds.

Just pray for the best, u never know one of these days her blog will pop back up with all the good new fun stories of her lil one.

I hope it helped in any way.
A BIG HUGE HUGGGZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ FOR KESH.
i know hugs are always handy at any time.
peace out

icey ^_^

Thë Icè Þr¡ñce§§ said...

hey kesh,

m gonna say beforehand that m really bad at stuff like this, i really never know exactly the rite stuff to say to a person to keep up their spirit.

All i can say is that think positive, negative thinking is no good. I know hearing about the horrible news must have shaken u left n right, but since no ones certain of it, u shud keep up or hopes and just pray that wherever she is, she's happy and maybe got bzy with the new arrival in her life. I have seen it happen a lot to my frnds.

Just pray for the best, u never know one of these days her blog will pop back up with all the good new fun stories of her lil one.

I hope it helped in any way.
A BIG HUGE HUGGGZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ FOR KESH.
i know hugs are always handy at any time.
peace out

icey ^_^

icyblue said...

Gosh... I really hope she is alive..! Maybe she got real busy and stopped blogging...I hope so... Infact I'm sure she'll stop by one day... Dont worry :)

Keshi said...

~~Anup.777

I know...but I dint wanna believe back then...I always thought Jan wud post a new post soon - so I kept going there and leaving comments in her last post...cos she didnt reply to any of my emails either...we were always keeping in touch with emails if not blogs, and it's strange that she has suddenly become so quiet...cos she promised me that she will definitely tell me abt her baby etc as soon as she delivers...but now it's March and it's so quiet...so very quiet the silence is unbearable...





~~Ice_Princess

hey Icy thank baby n huggggggggggggz! U always put a smile on my face....

**u never know one of these days her blog will pop back up with all the good new fun stories of her lil one

that line gave me some sudden hope...Im happy now...I dun wanna believe anything abt Jan until I hear from her family or someone I know well...thank so much muahhh!



Keshi.

:P fuzzbox said...

I hope that you find your friend and that she is well.

kkalpz said...

kesh,
I tol ya i went thru her blog whole noon...read most of her posts...in 1 of her post whr she had said stuff abt herself(the 1 abt her dads death) she mentioned her bro...n thru some of her posts i got details like she stayed in mulund n her full name was janice christopher d'lima(got tht frm the baby names post).I have already tol my neighbour whose son resides in mulund n who happens to be a catholic...the pic will defy help, am downloadin it rt now...what wud really help is her maiden name...her last name before she was married.Plz let us knw as soon as u spoken to moonie.Am tryin frm my end too.

Keshi said...

~~Icyblue

hey icy Im blue as ever today :*( thanks anyway...I luv u guys!




~~Fuzzbox

Fuzzy thanks!




~~KKalpz

aww thats so sweet of ya...thanks alot! I dunno her maiden name yet but I will somehow track it ok...thanks again for ur support, u guys just rock!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

I forgot to say that Janice is from:


Aamchii Mumbai, Maharashtra, India.


If anyone is anywhere close to this place, can u please find out. Thanks!


Looking for Janice everyday since Dec 2005...


Keshi.

Jewel Rays said...

yeah lets hope for the best. :)

Het Waghela said...

I also stay in Mumbai. If at all u know any area or something, i can try for it.

But anyhow I will do that for sure, try to find out through sources I have over here.

Keshi said...

~~Jewel_Rays

thanks n huggggggggz Amy!





~~Het_Waghela

Thanks Het...here r more details as of today:

Her Full Name: Janice Christopher d'Lima

Location: Aamchi, Mumbai Maharashtra



Thanks!
Keshi.

kkalpz said...

the 1st comment meant tht...saby if janice,abt whom u were asking on keshi's blog is the one who used to stay in mulund n was frm nes ratnam college, then she died while giving birth,she bled a lot n the doctors couldn't save her n the baby.her aunt tol this to my grandparents.Her bros wedd got cancelled too.Your frd is no more.

the 2nd 1 meant...i used to chat with her on indiatimes, i knew where she stayed, she was 3 yrs younger to me and we were in the same coll.Why sud i get an blog ID just to tell u all this.Her family knew tht she had lots of prob durin her preg and that she was anemic.My name is harish.


kesh....any1 who went thru her posts will knw she was frm mulund ...she was anemic which she did mention in her posts while she talked abt her faintin n bleedin spells but what is not ment in her post is the name of her coll, which this guy seems to knw(he might be bluffing).Life is so cruel..is there a god up there???

Boldnbeautiful said...

Keshi ask Uttara or Puneet to call up Moonie. They have Moonie's Number.

Keshi said...

~~KKalpz

hey Kalpz thanks so much for translating word by word...I really appreciate that.

If this anony person is lying I cant help thinking why he would lie? I mean what's the point. In Jan's own language, only a big DUMBASS wud waste his/her time spreading false rumors abt someone on the net.

But then again, if he/she is telling the truth, how wud he/she have found our blogs?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~BoldnBeautiful

hey BnB I have already emailed Uttsy and m000nie...waiting for their replies...

U live anywhere close to Mulund?


Keshi.

musings (m000nie) said...

k00kie... i cant seem to get thru my hotmail account... will get back to u in a while...

i had commented about this issue on one of ur posts long bak whn saby told me abt it.. i guess u missed it...

will mail u bak

laterzzz

Keshi said...

~~m000nie

I was inquiring abt Jan...d u know anything abt her?

Thanks!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

And beware ppl there's a JANICE clone that some bloody idiot has created yday just to have some cheap thrills...

and I find it amazing that ppl like Jan r missing when so many other losers get to breathe ard.


Thanks all for ur efforts...plz keep looking out for Jan. Im doing my best looking for any details of her's on the internet...but still no luck...will keep u posted. THANK U ALL!


And hey have a safe weekend all of ya (including the bloody idiot Janice-clone).

Hugggggggggz all!

Keshi.

burf said...

hey ki did u find Jan?

i hope u find her good

do tell when u find her

:D

and u take care

Het Waghela said...

Location: Aamchi, Mumbai Maharashtra

Ok Keshi, i will try from the info given by you, even though its very less for locating a person in one of the biggest metro in the world.

Ya one more thing, Aamchi is not a location, its something u might have interpreted in a wrong way. Coz as far as I know Aamchi is a marathi word which means "My" and often refered by people staying here in Mumbai.

But I will try my best for the finding Janice and her where-abouts.

Trust God, she will be fine.

Boldnbeautiful said...

Keshi tried calling up nursing homes. In some I got negative reply, some did not parting the information.

Some adviced to call to muncipality. No is 25617410 . I called up. could not resist. It is tough one.

Gangadhar said...

Keshi,
I strongly wish..everything's fine for Janice..and i believe she is leading a happy and blissful married life..And i hope you 'll get into contact with her soon..And i'll forward this thing to all my friends in US of A..

take care

Keshi said...

~~Burf

thanks..I hope to find her too...




~~Het_Waghela

oh Het Im sorry I didnt know what Aamchi is :) She's from Mulund and that anony guy said she went to Nes Ratnam College...will that do?




~~BoldnBeautiful

hey thanks sooooooo much! Ur such an angel..

When she was pregnant she was in the US...in Nov '05...thats what i knew...

Thanks for ur efforts BnB!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Gangadhar

Thanks a ton Gangzz!


Keshi.

kkalpz said...

kesh...she was frm mulund so assumin tht she was goin to a parish there and maybe just maybe got married there too, i contacted the st.pius church in mulund...i gave them the details...they said they will find out and to call back in the evenin ard 6-7 (my time)...am keeping my fingers crossed...whatever happens, will post on ur blog...keep checkin...bye.

susubala said...

Sorry to know abt missing of Janice. Iam even more eager to know about her, the sweet soul, u loved very much !

But then, iam wondering how can i trace out Jan ! I hate myself for iam helpless to u !

Hope that she's fine with her hubby and kid. But then its makes me more worried is that, when she's so close to u, how can one b without any contact for such a longtime. The fact that makes me think !

Anywayz, I pray to God that she should be alright leading her family life a wonderful with the new born !

Let us all wait until then we hear an authentic information. Keshi, but dont forget to tell me abt Jan when u come to know abt her, though i may be peeping into ur this post often!

lil _kath said...

oh.. hope everything is ok with her and the baby..
let's pray for that..
...so sweet of you kesh,you're really a friend.

-kathy-

Het Waghela said...

Now Mulund is somewhere I can look for. It will be helpful. If still you can dig more then it will can help me get more closer to the person. But Mulund has reduced the area now.

Ben Heller said...

Keshi,

I'm sure she's well, and I truly hope you find each other again

saby said...

it sure is nice to see u guys going all out to trace Janice

Janice must be very moved
wherever she is

u guys are the bestest guys i have seen in my 55 years

Diana said...

hey...i read a very touching story similar to urs in ramya kannan's blog..she too lost a very close frnd who she only met through blogging world.. and nw i hear it from u
God bless janice's soul.
be assured she is in a better place

Manish said...

so sad to read it! ...
thats what this virtual world all abt.......people slip out...and we can't even notice it..Hope she is well!

Sudeep said...

I hope tht comment is not true... n u get to talk again with ur frnd

have a gr8 weekend.... huuugggzzzz

niki yokota said...

wat a beautiful girl!!!!
and you are posting really awesome pictures, keshi-chan ^^
abt my missing fren... no clue!
thank u very much!!

Zombie said...

any news yet? did moonie get in touch?

Miranda said...

That is truly the saddest thing about meeting people online, either through chatting or blogging. They sometimes up and dissappear with no word what so ever. Leaving us with the worry and fear of the unknown.

display_name said...

last nov 12 2005

I was told that "nishi" passed away ( she was yet another indiatimes chat user)

we bunch of ppl tried to find out and wanted to blv its false,

bt after 2 months we were at same point where we started

I kno wat it feels like,

chat frnds doesnt really reveal their true identity for years and this kind of sudden events make u question abt the pattern of chat.. i gave up chattin on indiatimes since then....

I prefer to blv better side of it...that she might be busy takin care of child.

display_name said...

last nov 12 2005

I was told that "nishi" passed away ( she was yet another indiatimes chat user)

we bunch of ppl tried to find out and wanted to blv its false,

bt after 2 months we were at same point where we started

I kno wat it feels like,

chat frnds doesnt really reveal their true identity for years and this kind of sudden events make u question abt the pattern of chat.. i gave up chattin on indiatimes since then....

I prefer to blv better side of it...that she might be busy takin care of child.

done said...

The Value of a Friend
Two are better than one,
Because they have a good reward for their labor.
For if they fall, one will lift up his companion.
Ecclesiates 4:9-10
True friendship will find each other, and I'll pray that you find your friend. Remember that babies keep a mother busy, so this could be a good reason why you haven't heard from her. Take care, and have a good weekend! Elisa:)

Jackal said...

sorry to hear...i know how u must be feeling....just hope tht she is fine n tied up with her baby..n will return soon to call u a dumbass ......tcccc hugzzzzzz

RandomThoughts said...

One thing's sure Keshi!JAnice must be anice girl to have left her mark on someone so deeply.

I'm sure u'll find her.
God bless her & her baby & your friendship! Touch wood.

Rashmi.

Baroque said...

its me charisma ;p changed my blog and nickname.. missed u keshi!

praveen said...

hey gurl..thats bad...i hope that news u heard isnt true but then....isnt it scary...that you're all fit and fine and suddenly its all gone..thats what all the women out there go thru giving birth...they gamble their life to bring in another individual into the world....:-((

Ekta said...

Hey keshi,
any update?
Any news of her yet?

Keshi said...

Im not feeling that great since yday...it's too hard not knowing if what that Harish guy said was true or not. I wish he never said that so I could have just found it out myself...I was in NZ for nearly a month between Jan-Feb and when I came back, there was still nothing from Jan...thats when I thought I should find out...and it seems some loser has hacked her blog since yday..now I cant even go back and track details...what kind of pathetic world do we live in?

Anyways I havent heard anything as of yet to confirm Janice's status...but many of my friends in Mumbai/US r trying to track her details...m000nie, Het, Kalpz, KL n BnB r trying there best....thanks each and everyone for ur support...I feel the whole world is with me looking for Jan...I think we will hear abt her soon...we cant possibly not know what happened to her when the whole world is right here...thanks so much! I will keep u all posted as soon as I hear something solid abt her status...this morning I logged into check if there's anything and there was nothing with solid evidence...so I cant conclude Janice's status as yet.


these r what I heard so far of Jan:

**A guy called Harish from Mulund, Mumbai said that my sweet Jan n her bubz expired during childbirth. I dun wanna believe it as yet...


** A Malayalee guy who used to email Janice regularly has also told Saby that Janice is missing for months...


**Saby and I who know her so well and were in touch regulary with her thru email/blogs have heard nothing from her since Dec '05, even after so many attempts to contact her.


**m000nie, st000nie, Dewdy, Fira, NV, Cheesy, z000nie, South and many more knew Janice thru our blogs...and so far none of them have heard nothing from her either....


Janice is a girl who kept in touch with me at a stretch for the whole of last 2 and half years...hence it's strange that she isnt replying to my emails and that she isnt on her blog at all...it's too quiet - maybe she's not well or something like that. But I rem her telling me she had some serious problems during her pregnancy...fainting and bleeding etc...infact one of her lat posts demonstrated that her pregnancy was not a smooth one...she was taken to hospital after a faiting and bleeding incident..she told us all abt that...


Anyways I want Jan coming back knocking on my blog...she always used to come n comment saying 'knock knock...guess who's here'....

these r some posts that Janice commented on in the blog world...

http://keshigirl.blogspot.com/2005/05/where-your-heart-is.html

http://keshigirl.blogspot.com/2005/02/love-is-in-air.html

http://keshigirl.blogspot.com/2005/07/right-to-pull-plug.html

http://firacub1979.blogspot.com/2005/07/my-fellow-bloggers.html#comments

And many many more...I cant even begin to u'stand why Janice is so hard to find now...

Janice my dear, dun tell me I wont ever hear form u again cos that wont be something I can deal with...tell me u r well and that u r safe hun cos thats all I wanna hear...no more tears now...u know I cant even think clearly since yday...


Keshi.

kkalpz said...

i can acess her blog, why cant u???...anyways i went diggin again to get the month she got married in...thts what they keep askin me when i call tht parish...i called once again in the morn today n they go "plz call back after an hr"...they did say thr wont be any nos. but i sd an address will also do...lets see...one of her posts keeps playin in my mind..."when tomorrow starts without me"

kkalpz said...

When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;

I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;

But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,

And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for,
So much left yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays,The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.

If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for a while,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through Heaven's gates,
But when I walked through Heaven's gates,
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,

He said, "This is eternity,
And all I've promised you.
Today your life on earth is past,
But here life starts anew.

"I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day's the same way
There's no longing for the past.

"You have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true.
Though there were times
You did some things
You knew you shouldn't do.

"But you have been forgiven
And now at last you're free.
So won't you come and take my hand
And share my life with me."

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.




posted by Janice @ 10:27 PM 10 comments

Keshi said...

~~KKalpz

I really appreciate ur help mate...u r wonderful.

Did u hear anything from the St.Pius church?




~~Susubala

Sumi u may read her comments and see what a beautiful person she is...unfortunatley someone has hacked her blog and I cant see any of her prev posts now...too bad this world is full of idiots.

Anyways thanks for the concern...I will tell all of u once I know for sure...u guys r all with me on this so together we will see that we find her ok.




~~Lil_kath

Kath I need a hug...Im not feeling too good...it's not easy not knowing...

And can u pray tonight at the alter to Mother Mary to make sure that this young mother was saved...



~~Het_Waghela

Het thanks! Im keeping my fingers crossed that u may find something abt her...


**If still you can dig more then it will can help me get more closer to the person.

I wanted to dig more details from her blog but some loser has hacked it...can u believe that? How insensitive and careless can ppl be especially at a time like this...

do let me know if u hear anythign at all...ok.




~~Ben_Heller

Benny thanks for the assurance...I really hope she's safe too..




~~Saby

Saby we r a lil community here and we have hearts that feel...how can we eat, sleep knowing that one of us maybe suffering...and that too somone like Jan?? why is the question...

thanks for being there for us Saby...plz try and track that Harish down...


**u guys are the bestest guys i have seen in my 55 years

and ur the BESTEST 55yr old I have come across - huggggggggz!




~~Diana

hey Diana thanks!

**she too lost a very close frnd who she only met through blogging world..

oh Im so sorry to hear abt this...may I know this blog address plz?




~~Manish

Manish Im so sad now...thinking abt Jan and how she used to spend her time with us...


**people slip out...and we can't even notice it..

so true...but I always had Jan on my mind...I was giving her time to come back from her delivery...but now it's too long...almost 5months since I alst spoke to her...and during that time I emailed, commented in her blog asking her to tell us something...but all I received was silence...thats when I decided to put this up...




~~Sudeep

**I hope tht comment is not true... n u get to talk again with ur frnd

I hope so too Sudeep I so wanna cry now...




~~Niki_Bakshi

She has a face of an angel..so innocent...and u know what, she IS innocent...I know her and she never ever said anything to hurt anyone and is soo pure in thought, word n deed...I miss her Niki!




~~Zombie

**any news yet? did moonie get in touch?

yes m000nie spoke to me...but it seems that m000nie only heard from that Harish guy too...in Saby's blog...but now m000nie is trying to track more details of her's from Mulund...Im keeping my fingers crossed, thanks Misty!




~~Miranda

**They sometimes up and dissappear with no word what so ever. Leaving us with the worry and fear of the unknown.

so true...in Jan's case Im worried cos someone said that she died...that really worries me knowing her health too...

Thanks Miranda!




~~Display_Name

**I was told that "nishi" passed away ( she was yet another indiatimes chat user)

does she have a blog?


**bt after 2 months we were at same point where we started

do u know for sure if she's dead?


**i gave up chattin on indiatimes since then....

oh Im so sorry..I know how u must have felt...it's horrible to lose a friend...


**I prefer to blv better side of it...that she might be busy takin care of child.

I really hope so too...only thing that worries me is Harish's comment...and I hope this guy comes back and says something so we can confirm...

Thanks! I hope Nishi is alive too...




~~Elisa

**The Value of a Friend
Two are better than one,
Because they have a good reward for their labor.
For if they fall, one will lift up his companion.

thanks Elisa that was truly awesome...


**True friendship will find each other, and I'll pray that you find your friend.

I so hope Jan hears me and finds her way to me...

Thank u...




~~Jackal

**just hope tht she is fine n tied up with her baby..n will return soon to call u a dumbass ......

aww Jackal I miss Jan so much, espeiclaly how she calls me DUMBASS....:*(



~~RandomThoughts

**One thing's sure Keshi!JAnice must be anice girl to have left her mark on someone so deeply.

She is...no doubt abt that..cos Janice is worry-free and hurt-free...she's full of giggles and jokes...I know that such ppl dun get much happiness in life...it's like they only r here for a short while...


**I'm sure u'll find her.
God bless her & her baby & your friendship! Touch wood.

thanks Rashmi!




~~Baroque

**its me charisma ;p changed my blog and nickname.. missed u keshi!

aww thanks for dropping by...I rem u...




~~Praveen

hey Praveen I missed ya!

**that you're all fit and fine and suddenly its all gone..

I feel that Uncertainity of life is laughing at me right now...I really do...cos Jan is missing n it feels terrible...


**thats what all the women out there go thru giving birth...they gamble their life to bring in another individual into the world....:-((

so true...to lose one's life trying to give someone else life...goshhh its really sad.




~~Ekta

**Any news of her yet?

nothing as yet...nothing solid...I really dunno wut to do Ekta...I searched the net, told many ppl in Mumbai, emailed Jan so many times...but still nothing...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Kkalpz

hey mate...thanks so much for trying...I dunno the month she got married...it would have been end of 2005 - beginning of 2005..let me check n tell.


yeah I rem that post...let me try going back to her blog..


Keshi.

saby said...

Come on u guys!
be rational

the explanation for Janice absconding cud be any one or more of these:

1. Harish told the truth
she is an angel now

2. Chris found out about her blogging and put a stop to it

3. She dont like u guys anymore and me

4. She is just doing it for kicks


in any case, we shud cry
and move on


New post please Keshi

visithra said...

This is wat i hate about online friendships - u dont know anyone else to connect u with them then theres always a fear theyd go missing one day n ull never know :(

god bless n hope shes ok

Keshi said...

~~Saby

I dunno...I wont make up my mind abt Jan till I know solid news of her...



~~Visithra

Thanks dear...hope she's ok too..Im reading her blog now and all her posts suggest that she had problems during pregnancy....worries me more.


Keshi.

kkalpz said...

KESH....In 1 of her post (life in the dumps for me rt now)she had replied to some1's comment sayin its nearly nine months of her marriage...i calculated backwards n called up the church again sayin to chk their register for marriages tht may have taken place in the month of sept(i may be wrg here)...they sd they will chk n to call back...i called back 5 mins ago n they sd there is no record of any marriage in tht month under the name of janice christopher d'lima...now i dunno wht to do....st. pius is the only church in mulund...if she stayed in mulund all her life she must have been to tht church n i am tol normally in a catholic wedd nuptials r held at the gals parish...dead end...:((


saby...if her hubby put a stop to her blogging why isnt she replyin to keshi's mails???

i still feel n hope tht she had a difficult delivery n is still recuperating n not allowed out of da bed

susubala said...

I had been to ur this post today to find any news abt janice...but the same stories....and i wonder where she is !

May God help us in finding her...BTW, when i was going through her comments which u referred, i could go to her blog and view her posts.

yeah, no doubts she's a wonderful and cheerful person whom u r missing ! If at all...she's alive I wanna b friednly with her as well u.

Pls let me know ur yahoo messgr ID !

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

:)))

i got a comment on my blog from some1 called JAnice .. whoz that ?

saby said...

Janice, I gotta move on

,I hope u will understand,

Prmod Bafna said...

I can certainly imagine how you must be feelin.. Hope she's fine, what with having such a nice friend such as yourself! Cheer up :)

Keshi said...

Saby check this post from Janice last year...goshhh it's creepy now..


http://janicemumbai.blogspot.com/2005/01/when-tommorow-starts-without-me.html


Keshi.

saby said...

Keshi,

dis is Janice
she just spoke to u
(u scared of ghosts?)

now u dummy will u call off dis mad hunt for janice

Janice is asking u to let go
let her enjoy heaven

KL said...

Somebody left a comment on my page saying that her last name was D'Lima. Then, I went and read her blog, and found that her husband was planning of naming their son as Christian Christopher D'Lima. So, that confirmed that at least her husband's last name is D'Lima. I have already searched for all D'Lima's in all the states in the USA. No Christopher (or Chris or just C.) D'Lima. I read her blog to see where in the USA they might have come, but no such thing mentioned in her blog. Do you remember any mention from any of your chat??

Jigal.. said...

hi

Babes Ur post make me Cry....

bbye

take care

white devil said...

you know the greeks back in the day never asked what the person was or what they did, they only asked i he/she had passion. if everything turns out for the worst and your fears come true. you know you must move on for them, that is the only thing we can do, see it through so that the experiences you accumulated while with them never went to waste. they are a part of you show them a good time.

snazzy said...

I happened to see this post and was looking at the comments....

Have you considered she might just have not logged in? Assuming she were ill she might be recovering?

Since when did we start believing all posts (some dude claims he knows something bad happened?

The answer to finding about this is not to post and make it all about ourselves and how we feel. Its about the girl and perhaps you should care by making private enquiries. Use email and phone.

I am sure Janice would not appreciate the rabid speculation about what happened to her. Bottom line is no one knows shit. All this is some post and umpteen comments.

And I care. I hope she (and anyone else that I ever come in contact with) is doing well. And I am going to believe she is fine.

If you haven't heard in a year, then come back and post something. Until then, please give some damn space and don't talk a lot of others lives.

My 2c
Snazzy

Michelle said...

i din really knw janice...but i hope n i'll pray tht shez gna b ok...
its really sweet wat yr doin keshi...i mean some of u guyz havent even met her but still the attatchment is so strong...i jus read all the comments by everyone n everyonez helpin out...its really nice...im sure janice wud really appreciate all this...
i hope shez too busy bein a mommy right now

hang in thr keshi...u'll get in touch wid her soon :)

Rohit Talwar said...

I hope She's fine.

Manish said...

hey keshi...
sad that u hav no clue bout janice... but yes she may be well...be in this plane or the other realm.... so just lets pray ... wherever she is , she is well .... amen
GBU
Manish

Yashita said...

hey keshi,

I hope you are fine..,you know I came here many times...I dint comment, but i always came to see if i can find any news about janice, to see if u found out about her...I sincerely hope that you get some news about her, hope she is fine.

I read tht poem...it was kinda freaky u knw...gosh!!it seemed like she knew..neway..i dun wanna say anything bad..

this post has really touched me...i am stunned u knw..so much love and care for a person u hardly met..this has shown a new side to blogging...and a new side of humanity...guess ppl are not all that bad afterall...there are some who are like angels sent down on earth...and d bloggers here are surely one of them.so many prayers..i am sure janice will be fine.take care.

Keshi said...

~~KKalpz

Im appreciate ur kindness Kalpz...u have taken great effort in trying to track Janice. It's ok that we've hit a dead end..atleast we tried. Im sure someone will somehow find out abt her...I mean there's no reason why we cant find her with so many bloggers from Mumbai ard...Im sure someone will soon tell me that she's fine. Thanks so much for ur efforts mate!





~~Susubala

aww she will definitely be friends with ya...cos she is so innocent and so friendly...so easy-going, no pretences and a very good-hearted girl...

thanks for praying for her Sumi and being so concerned...u guys r so sweet!





~~Deepa

**i got a comment on my blog from some1 called JAnice .. whoz that ?

Deepa thats some loser who cloned Jan...if u click on that link u will see it's a blank Id with no blog. Some idiot with lots of time and alot less cranium.





~~Prmod_Bafna

hey WC Prmod and thanks! I hope she will come back too...





~~Saby

**Janice is asking u to let go
let her enjoy heaven

how can I let go of her when I dun even know if she's alive or not...? I wont let go of Jan until I find out what happened to her...so u better get ur ass into Mulun and find out...Saby u live in Mumbai and ur not even trying!





~~KL

Hi KL thanks!


**Christian Christopher D'Lima

Yes, thats what she told me when we were thinking of names for her...and I said that it was a boring name..lol Jan just laughed it off.

I really dunno which part of US...I only know she went very recently..as soon as she got married, she went to the US and got pregnant...she would have left to the US end of 2004-beginning of 2005...thats all I rem unfortunately...




~~Jigal

awww dun cry Jiggz...we will find her ok...





~~White_Devil

hey Devil u say some very meaningful things...thanks!


**see it through so that the experiences you accumulated while with them never went to waste. they are a part of you show them a good time.

aww...I have to do that I know...but I hate to believe she's not here anymore....she has to come back and tell us all abt the baby na...we planned so much...





~~Snazzy

oii helloooo hugggggggggz Snazzzo!

aww I hope Im not spweing Jan's life on public...I didnt intend it that wat Sanzzz...I just wanted to find out...we did some private searching...emails etc. Nothing worked. So I called on for public help cos Jan was very much in blogs etc too. So anyone who might know her could read this and perhaps lead us to her family. That was my only intention.

Im sorry if it looked otherwise...but Jan is a good friend of mine...we shared alot in emails/blogs etc...therefore I really think it's my duty to find out what's going on with her and using my blog for that cant be a crime, or is it...what say Snazz?





~~Michelle

Michy I hope she's busy being a mum too..I reall hope so too...

Thanks sweety Im so proud of u...cos u guys r sticking with me in praying for Jan and her wellbeing...and it's amazing how wonderful all of u r!





~~Rohit_Talwar

Thanks Rohit :*(





~~Manish


**so just lets pray ... wherever she is , she is well ....

aww...I really hope she's in the US rocking her new born bubbz...someone tell me this plzz...





~~Yashita

huggggggggggz Yash! What u said is so true...look at all the love we have here..so much love n support for someone we havent even met...isnt that great!


**...i am stunned u knw..so much love and care for a person u hardly met..this has shown a new side to blogging...and a new side of humanity...guess ppl are not all that bad afterall...there are some who are like angels sent down on earth...

Spot on babez! And u r one of them - luv u!


Keshi.

saby said...

Kklapz

janice maiden name is janice d'souza
her mom has a house at pali hill BANDRA MUMBAI

jANICE lived in mulund and married here
then went to USA california i tink

delivery was in usa
she said BRANDON wud be her kids name if she got a son

best of luck pal

saby said...

there is no reason to doubt Harish annony mouse

all dat he mentioned about janice fits

besides,if janice was around she wud have definitely gotten in touch wid one of us

keshi hit upon the last testament of janice

dat was no accident
i tink janice wants u guys to let go

Keshi said...

Thanks for that info Saby...I have ben searching all over the net for 3days now...

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Saby...

**all dat he mentioned about janice fits

all whatever Harish said was already stated by Jan on her blog..so he may have read all that and taking us for a ride?


**keshi hit upon the last testament of janice

??


Keshi.

saby said...

that janice brother was to get married and dat the wedding was called off was not stated in her blogg

saby said...

here is another sign

when i finally accepted dat janice is no more on dis planet

i went to the local grog shop to buy me a nip
i needed a drink bad

there was a lucky draw
i gott a beautiful black wrist watch

Keshi said...

Saby...

**that janice brother was to get married and dat the wedding was called off was not stated in her blogg

goshh dun u rem her saying that her bro is going to marry early 2006...well it's in her blog too...in one of her posts.

obv this Harish read that and just told us that the wedding got called off cos of her death...can it be the case??

It's great u won a wrist-watch but what does that have to do with Jan not being here?

Keshi.

saby said...

dis keshi is pig headed
the watch was a memento

dat lucky draw promotion wasnt there earlier

julia said...

Thanks for the memory
Of things I can’t forget

How lucky I was

And thanks for the memory
How cozy it was

Now since your vanishing I wake up
Alone on a gray morning-after
I long for the sound of your laughter
And then I see the laugh’s on me

But thanks for the memory
I’ve lived a lot and learned a lot
I miss you so much

Thanks for the memory

Thanks for the memory
Of emails shared
Books that we enjoyed

Tonight the way things look
I need a book by sigmund freud
How brainy he was


I know it’s a fallacy
That grown men never cry
Baby, that’s a lie
We had our bed of roses
But forgot that roses die
And thank you so much

for the memories


wid aplogies to frank sinatra

Keshi said...

Julia and u HAD to make me cry...

Keshi.

Keshi said...

KKalpz...

I found a list of d'souzas in Mulund...too many...so I dunno who Janice's family is cos I dun even know her brother's or father's first name...


but I also found just ONE d'Lima in Mulund...


*** CA D'LIMA,VANDANA ST PIUS CR S, ,MULUND WEST,400080 25677455


initials CA...could it be any of Chris' family? Are we able to ring and find out?


Keshi.

Jewel Rays said...

Hey Lady,

Came to check things out. How are ya doingz?

luv,
Amy:)

Keshi said...

~~Jewel_Rays

hey Amy Im ok thanks n hugggggggs!

No news of Jan as yet...:*(

Keshi.

Tanvi said...

dont lose the hope..janet is hopefully enjoying with her baby

kkalpz said...

I'll ring the no. n let u knw...

thks a lot for the info saby....now i have a feelin she got married in bandra....if that is the case, god help us(thr are 1 too many church's in bandra)

Keshi said...

~~Tanvi

Huggggggs I luv ya...




~~KKalpz

hey thanks but do it if only u think it wont cause u any probs...if u know what I mean...

Thanks alot!

Keshi.

Dalicia said...

hi keshi, i'm thinking she's busy taking care of her child. did she have any problems with her in-laws or spouse?

so nice of you to think of her! :) i pray that she's fine. i have no connections in india. hmmmmm

Keshi said...

~~Elaine

hey thanks girl...I too hope and do feel that she's ok...just that some guy said that she died which I dun wanna believe...but we have to confirm is she's ok...

Anyways thanks!

Keshi.

saby said...

~~KKalpz


heyyy buddy

i dont tink u shud carry on
janice was blogging in secret

let it be
u dont want to disturb the family wid dusturbing news

Yashita said...

hey keshi,

I just read the most recent comments and i am kind aconfused here.

acc kklapz and saby, this girl janice's maiden anme is d'souza/d'sa...they both are diff surnames btw..so please check which is d right one....d'souza or d'sa. also her addr: pali hill, bandra.

that's rite? are u 100% sure?

look, I know a janice d'sa, but she my good frnd, lives in pune...my coll.but besically she is from mumbai. and funnily her address is
pali hill, bandra. I asked her if there was any other janice out there...she says there is no janice on pali hill, bavdra. she is sure of that.

so please check from ur side.did she give u her right address?
and can u mail me her email address?
i am checking too, just thot i'd let u knw.

Yashita said...

hey keshi,

I just read the most recent comments and i am kind aconfused here.

acc kklapz and saby, this girl janice's maiden anme is d'souza/d'sa...they both are diff surnames btw..so please check which is d right one....d'souza or d'sa. also her addr: pali hill, bandra.

that's rite? are u 100% sure?

look, I know a janice d'sa, but she my good frnd, lives in pune...my coll.but besically she is from mumbai. and funnily her address is
pali hill, bandra. I asked her if there was any other janice out there...she says there is no janice on pali hill, bandra other than her that is.she is sure of that. also, she said if her name is d'sa then they are very slight chances that my frnd won't know her. coz acc to my frnd theer are very few ppl with d'sa surname, and if ur frnd's maiden name was d'sa and she lived in bandra then my frnd would've surely known..she knows most of the dsa's from mumbai.

so please check from ur side.did she give u her right address?
and can u mail me her email address?
i am checking too, just thot i'd let u knw.

Keshi said...

~~Saby

yep I agree with ya...no need to upset the family....




~~Yash

aww thanks girl for being so helpful...well she said to me that she was born in Bhandra but lived most her life in Mulund...according to Saby her maiden name is Janice d'Souza...she married a d'Lima...and they last lived in California...thats what we know according to what she told us...


I will email u her email addy soon...thanks so much Yash Hugggggggz!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

PPL plz note that no one's private life was on display here...whatever was discussed here was whatever Janice had in her blog...and her blog was public btw.

So yeah, no one demonstrated her private details here. And we are only trying to track her down out of friendship reasons. if anyone is bothered by this, I dun give a damn...go get a life.


Thanks to all those who really cared!

Keshi.

kkalpz said...

keshi...
I tried the no.you put up in ur post...got me nowhere...in fact got tol off big time by the lady who answered the call(it happened the min i mentioned i knew janice thru the net).


saby....
I agree saby tht she was blogging in secret n i too dont believe in rockin any steady boats...especially if tht childbirth incident did happen in december...by this time the family must be just gettin a grip n comin to terms with their grief...i have just 1 link...lemme just give it 1 last try before i hang up my boots...i promise this time i will do it in complete annonymity....hope u understand.

Keshi said...

~~Kkalpz

hey Kalpz just abandon ur search..no point annoying ppl out there w.o. being certain abt Jan's details...thanks anyways!


Keshi.

susubala said...

Girl....I've finished reading all the recent comments and found no news abt her well being !

Still could find te angels over here to help u out. Kalpz tops the first and she's so cute ! Kalpz have u attempted to call anony ? What was te result ? Eagerly waiting !

Astral said...

Hi Keshi, i agree with you, we know the worth of sm1 only once that person is not there in our life. And when they are there we often call them doubting thomas and cheating judas... Dont worry Janice is fine and blessed by GOD wherever she is.
Luv
Suchi

Keshi said...

~~Susubala

hey Sumu yeah, unfortunatley no one has been able to track her down yet...either her online names were not the real ones or God dun want us to find out :(

I still cant imagine her being so silent...there's no way she'd do that to us...

I hope someone will bring good news abt her and that she will rally email me some day soon...

thanks for ur support dear!




~~Astral

hey Suchi thanks so much! I know wut u mean...until someone's not on this planet, we take that person for granted...and when they r gone, we r in shock n distress..no point na...

Keshi.

hello said...

Hi Keshi...
I am someone who visits your blog just coz a friend of mine happens to visit your place.I am not a blogger. Just created this to reach you. I stay in Mulund but for work purpose I am in Nasik. I dont know if what I write now gonna help you or not. St Pius Church Mulund(West) is the place where most of the Christians go to pray. And almost 80% of Mulund Christians live in the vicinity of the church. I have a address here of Rev Ferdinand Fonseca of this church. I guess maybe He is able to give you some real info abt Janice. You have prayed for her before Jesus..and maybe your answer will come from this place of Jesus. Chk this link http://www.cbcisite.com/Honorarymembsinindia.htm
Most Rev Ferdinand J Fonseca

Auxiliary Bishop Emeritus of Bombay,

St. Pius the Tenth Church, Mulund West,

Mumbai - 400 080.

MAHARASTRA.

Tel (P): (022) 25 90 57 41

E-mail: bishopferdie@hotmail.com ,

bishopferdie@rediffmail.com



I hope this helps you to get real info abt your dear friend. I am sorry if...this isnt of any use to you. We can just hope and pray for the best.

Rish

Keshi said...

~~Hello

thanks alot but I have stopped looking for Janice...only cos alot of bogus ppl come here claiming they know Janice and I dun want to humiliate Janice's memory from such ppl.

Thanks anyways!

ps:why dun u write to that email and see for urself.

Keshi.