Wednesday, March 8

Re-United Airlines!

Ok guys we are re-united and flying, not so high but our wings have healed from all those injuries. Thanking you all for all the support and words of wisdom given to me at my time of sorrow. If anyone thought that my previous post was a public disgrace to my good friend, then you are mistaken my dear. 'Cos my blog is where I write about things I value, my deepest emotions, my most personal stories and I can get pretty straightforward with my posts...and if I did write up a post about someone (be it on a bright or gloomy note), that means that person means/meant alot to me or have affected my life in some strong way. I believe that certain people have that drive, the drive to make one feel extremely happy/sad etc - the drive to make you express about them openly. That means those people and their influence on me are worth causing a commotion about :)

Also, by writing that post I really received the much-needed relaxation and the realisation that I ain't a perfect friend either. 'Cos I hurt my friend too and there's his side of the story that none of you have heard yet. But that post was the outline of the short tragedy and I guess I learnt alot and grew so much from all your very wise advice. I also realised how hard it is to lose someone you really care for, how much some people really mean to me, and that it takes plenty of grace to realise that I was wrong too and to say Sorry. That was the biggest and the most valuable lesson.
So thanking you all, and apologising if I hurt anyone in my little process of learning and healing...it is your wisdom that brought me home...so thank you again folks!

"A good friend is hard to find, hard to lose, and impossible to forget"..."Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say"..."Friendship is talking to your best friend without words"..."Money might make you wealthy, but friends makes you rich"..."You don't make friends, you earn them"..."Yesterday brought the beginning, tomorrow brings the end, but somewhere in the middle we've become best of friends"...

69 Cranium Signets:

:P fuzzbox said...

Time heals all wounds.

Keshi said...

yup yup Fuzzy time is the healer of all times :):)

Keshi.

tsduff said...

Friends are gifts to cherish and treasure. We would be bereft without them.

sittingnut said...

good day mate!

That means those people and their influence on me are worth causing a commotion about
that is a nice definition and i have seen you create commotions several times to know that you have great friends. glad that the friend referred was one too. :-)

now that your wings are getting better we expect the angel to fly high as she always does.

Trée said...

Excellent news Keshi. I must be a good luck charm. :-D

Keshi said...

~~Terry

muahhh! Some great words there...




~~Sittingnut

hey mate Im so good at creating high tides and then enjoying the smooth n clam low tides :)

Thanks for being there for me!




~~Tre

not u 'must' be..U R :) huggggggggz!



Keshi.

Jewel Rays said...

*SMILES*

Thats a beautiful post..haha! :D

Keshi is up and on flight.;D

love your expression on the friendship part keshi and so glad i found ya heart in ya writings..

CHEERS with a big smile and some *cling! *cling! ;D

uttara said...

HAAPYYYYYYYY WOMENSSSSSSSSS DAAAAYYYYYYYYY


abt ur post ... lubbb uuuuuu n himmm :D

am happy u patched up ...:)

HUGGGGGZZZZZ

saby said...

SHIT !
i hate mushy stuff

to me a friend (gender no bias) is a buddy

a guy i can cuss, hit, ridicule, flirt wid his wife, pull his pants down, deflate his ego, and borrow his money to take his g/f out on a dinner date followed by ....

and he does the same to me



needless to say, i have few friends in the real world

southpaw said...

Alls well that ends well...:)Good day keshi!

still_figuring_out said...

good it know it all ended well :)

joey♥ said...

i understand where you're coming from. sometimes people read into what others write and misunderstandings occur. glad everything got cleared up.

ArChaNa said...

true! what use is blogging if you cannot be yourself!!

I guess talk is the best healer! better than time!

Tarun said...

Did I miss something here? What is this all about? What kind of sorrow?

Dawn....सेहर said...

Good dear indeed!!! All I will say listen to ur heart...and believe me u will never regret what u do :)

be happy dear....keep smilin....
cheers

Dewaker Basnet said...

hey great... three things to justify the word.
1. Great that the sun has risen again and certain things have made you wiser.
2. Happy women's day to you and all ur frens..u have a whole bunch of em.
3. Glad to be under 15 in the comment section. seems im improving..anyways my target is 1st commentor..there's so much competition in your blog u know;)

PuNeEt said...

good to c u back smiling...

do what ur heart feels...
dont worry abt wat people have to say...

smiless

Sugababee said...

*ear to ear smile

uttara said...

ok i guess my dose did work ...loll
n i dint wanna put it publically .. anyways am happy for u both ...:D

1 cant loose frnd so soon .. n am not the person who cn give up .. :)

it has to be both sides .. not one sided ... ok lemme not get into the crap ...loll
u know wat i mean here...:)

HUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGZZZZZZ


hey boi..;)

mail me bk soon whom u dating 2de...lolll

u need not revert here can mail me :p


HUGGGGZZZZZZZZZ

kkalpz said...

hi kesh...
You looked hurt in ur prev post...ur new post shows your revival...welcome back..:)
People come into ur life for a reason,a season or a lifetime.
1.When someone is in ur life for a reason,it is usually to meet a need u have expressed.They have come to assist u thru a difficulty,to provide u with guidance n support,to aid u physically,emotionally or spiritually.They may seem like a godsend n they are!!They are there for the reason you need them to be.Then without any wrongdoing on ur part,or at an inconvenient time,this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.Sometimes they die,sometimes they walk away,sometimes they act up n force u to take a stand.what we must realise is that our need has been met,our desire fulfilled,their work is done.The prayer u sent up has been answered n now it is time to move on.
2.Then people come into your life for a season,because your turn has come to share,grow or learn.They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.They may teach you something you have never done.They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.Believe it!!It is real!!but,only for a season.
3.Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons:things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.It is said love is blind but frdship is clairvoyant.
Happy Womens Day.
PS:i knw comment is slightly big..lol...Plz dont cuss me or ban me frm ur blog..when i read it i loved it and wanted to share it with u coz it seemed so apt for u rt now...:)

kannan udayarajan said...

Good news yaaar..!

so was that the motivation afterall?

:))

Ekta said...

Hey Keshi,
Am glad u guys pathched up!
Nothing is worth losing a good friend for!
Have been friends with my best frd now for more than 15 yrs and its difficult to even think of a life without her in my life!

Ricky said...

Nice to hear about the reunion. Have a great day!

~~~
A good friend will come and bail you out of jail, but a true friend
will be sitting next to you saying, "Damn... that was fun!" :)

~~~

Pri said...

great news buddy ....:)guess sometimes we juss need to hang in there before plungin in sorrow n grief n things get sorted on their own...:)

keep smilin

Het Waghela said...

First of all Happy Women's Day,

Dearest Keshi.

"A good friend is hard to find, hard to lose, and impossible to forget"
Wow! well said, and so very true.

>|' ; '| said...

Friends Are There
To Help You Get Started, To Give You A Push On Your Way.

Friends Are There
To Turn You Around, Get Your Feet On The Ground For A Brand New Day

They'll Pick You Up When You're Down
Help You Swallow Your Pride When Something Inside's Got To Break On Through To The Other Side

Friends Are Someone You Can Open Up To When You Feel Like You're Ready To Flip When You Got The World On Your Shoulders

Friends Are There To Give You A Tip
Friends Are There When You Need Them
Their Even There When You Don't
For A Walk In The Park, For A Shot In The Dark

Friends Are There. Garfield: "I Don't Care"

But Friends Will Care For You-u-u-u-u-u-u!


this is the old theme of the cartoon series 'garfield n friends'... :)

Kripa Shankar said...

:)

Queen Bee said...

Viva... good for you ;)

PRADEEP K. said...

HAPPY WOMEN'S DAYYYYYYYY!
Love ya!
(hugggggggggggggggggs)
(smiles)

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

Hey !!!!!

I am back ....
Dont fret, dont worry
Coz they u'll be sorry

Keep smiling dear

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

Happy Women's Day

By the way ....

Die Muräne said...

happy to hear!
and "walk carefully, because you walk in my dreams" ;-D

Gangadhar said...

It's so nice to see you smile..
Keep it up,Keshi!!

burf said...

i'll try to figure in one of ur posts

Jeevan said...

the friendship is theonly relation which come till your end. well writen.:)

Happy Women's Day

saby said...

, People come into ur life for a reason,a season or a lifetime.
1.When someone is in ur life for a reason,it is usually to meet a need u have expressed.They have come to assist u thru a difficulty,to provide u with guidance n support,to aid u physically,emotionally or spiritually
,

SHIT !
dont be silly

it cud just be the hottz
nutting so lofty

SaffronSaris said...

Oh dear Keshi, cheer up! Believe in yourself!

tulipspeaks said...

i'm glad things r now okie :)

=am000nie=

Contented said...

Happy to know you and your friend understood and nurturing "friendship"...

Keshi said...

~~Jewel_Rays

Amy heyyyy ~~smilezz~~ :):)

huggggggz!





~~Uttara

Utttsyyyyyyyyy my lady!


**HAAPYYYYYYYY WOMENSSSSSSSSS DAAAAYYYYYYYYY

Happy B##CHES' day lolllllll! MUAHHHHHHHHH!

thank u so much babe!





~~Saby

huggggggz my dear friend Saby! awww....

**needless to say, i have few friends in the real world

lol hahaha good one Sabbbz!


**They have come to assist u thru a difficulty,to provide u with guidance n support,to aid u physically,emotionally or spiritually ,

so true...lol na not cos of any crush...dun spoil the verse now duhhhhh!





~~Southpaw

heyyyy South thanks! I will write to u soon...got all ur msgs - huggggggz!




~~Still_figuring_out

Thanks SFO muahhh!





~~Joey♥

heyy Joey hows ya?

**sometimes people read into what others write and misunderstandings occur. glad everything got cleared up.

yes and Im glad that those who u'stand me u'stand me :) muahhhhhh!





~~ArChiE

Hey Archie!


**true! what use is blogging if you cannot be yourself!!

Spot on! Well-said girl...thanks so much for saying what I needed to say...hugggggz!


**I guess talk is the best healer! better than time!

It sure is...it made me feel so much better...thanks!





~~Tarun

hey Tarun!


**Did I miss something here? What is this all about? What kind of sorrow?

just that I suffered a near-loss of a great friend....but we patched up and I feel so good Tarun :)





~~Dawn

Dawnyy heyyy hugggggggz!


**All I will say listen to ur heart...and believe me u will never regret what u do :)

Golden words there....I did listen to my heart and only my heart lead me to where I am today...thanks soooo much girl!




~~Dewaker_Basnet

heyyy mate!


**1. Great that the sun has risen again and certain things have made you wiser.

:) thanks!


**2. Happy women's day to you and all ur frens..u have a whole bunch of em.

aww THANK U n hugggggggggz!


**3. Glad to be under 15 in the comment section. seems im improving..anyways my target is 1st commentor..there's so much competition in your blog u know;)

lol heyy dun sweat abt small things...:):) Just enjoy being here...hehehehe...thanks so much!





~~PuNeEt

Pu bear muahhhhh!

**do what ur heart feels...
dont worry abt wat people have to say...

thank u SO MUCH for those golden words and for the encouragement and the strength u give me...huggggggggz!




~~Sugababee

***ear to ear smile

SMILEZZZZZZZZZZZZZ :):):)

Suga something u said in my previous email regiseterd something really imp in me...thank so much for ur presence in my life n hugggggggz!





~~Kkalpz

heyy Kalpz!

Thanks so much :)


** The prayer u sent up has been answered n now it is time to move on.

aww thats a bit sad for me...but its really true...they all come for a job and a reason for u...


**They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.Believe it!!It is real!!but,only for a season.

thats so true too!


**It is said love is blind but frdship is clairvoyant.

aww SO BEAUTIFUL, thank u!


**Happy Womens Day.

Thanks :)


**Plz dont cuss me or ban me frm ur blog..

what makes u think I'll cuss u? :) Thanks very much for all those lovely verses abt friendship....huggggggz!





~~Kannan_Udayarajan

heyy Kannan thanks!


**so was that the motivation afterall?

how d u mean? :)





~~Ekta

Hey Ekta WC to my blog!


**its difficult to even think of a life without her in my life!

so true...they become part of the furniture in ur life ha :):)

thanks!




~~Ricky

heyy Ricky!


**A good friend will come and bail you out of jail, but a true friend
will be sitting next to you saying, "Damn... that was fun!" :)

lol so true, thanks so much!





~~Pri

heyyy Pri hows u?


**guess sometimes we juss need to hang in there before plungin in sorrow n grief n things get sorted on their own...:)

so true....but grief follows soon after arguments n we have to go through all that to arrive in clear waters :) thanks so much!




~~Het_Waghela

Hettt heyyyy!


**First of all Happy Women's Day,

aww thanks!

U have a great day ok...:)





~~-Poison-

heyy toxic mate :):)


**Friends Are There
To Help You Get Started, To Give You A Push On Your Way.

true true...


**Friends Are There
To Turn You Around, Get Your Feet On The Ground For A Brand New Day

so true!


**They'll Pick You Up When You're Down
Help You Swallow Your Pride When Something Inside's Got To Break On Through To The Other Side

damn true!


**Friends Are Someone You Can Open Up To When You Feel Like You're Ready To Flip When You Got The World On Your Shoulders

awwww...


**Friends Are There To Give You A Tip
Friends Are There When You Need Them

for sure!


**Their Even There When You Don't
For A Walk In The Park, For A Shot In The Dark

bravo!


**Friends Are There. Garfield: "I Don't Care"

awww.......:) Garfield!


**this is the old theme of the cartoon series 'garfield n friends'... :)

so sweet and so damn true, THANK U! n hugggggggz!




~~Kripa_Shankar

Heyyy Kripa thanks :)





~~Queen_Bee


**Viva... good for you ;)

Viva forever Queen! Muahhhhhh :)





~~PRADEEP K.

heyy Pradeep!


**HAPPY WOMEN'S DAYYYYYYYY!
Love ya!
(hugggggggggggggggggs)
(smiles)


aww THANK U n huggggggggz! Luv u too mate!





~~Deepa

Deeeeepppppz! Hows u busy gal?

**I am back ....

WB n HUGGGGGGGGZ!


**Dont fret, dont worry
Coz they u'll be sorry

aww so true hehehehe...thanks!


**Happy Women's Day

Thanks so much and same to u sweety!





~~Die Muräne

thanks mate :)


**and "walk carefully, because you walk in my dreams" ;-D

really? reall I mean? :)




~~Gangadhar

Heyyy Gangzzz! Thanks so much mate :)




~~Burf

heyy Burfy!


**i'll try to figure in one of ur posts

how d u mean?





~~Jeevan

heyyy Jeevan!


**the friendship is theonly relation which come till your end. well writen.:)

awww thats so true...not even family sometimes stick by u but a good friend will..so true! Thanks mate!


**Happy Women's Day

thanks so much!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Amutha

aww thanks...and hows u? Email me ok...




~~Contented

hey thanks so much!



U guys r always here for me...thank u so much and I luv u all!

Keshi.

Boldnbeautiful said...

:) yes keshi indeed every post of urs contain's some message.

It is nice U overcame ur anger. :)


HAPPY WOMAN's DAY

Invincible said...

hi Keshu.
Good to see ya back n smiling.
:) :) :)

Cibbì said...

Hi, first time I come here. I like your blog, your writings. I wanna improve my English, gonna come back to read you. Can I link you?

:: The Protector :: said...

now you on the air....gud keep similing....

"A relationship is like a rose, How long it lasts, no one knows; Love can erase an awful past, Love can be yours, you'll see at last; To feel that love, it makes you sigh, To have it leave, you'd rather die; You hope you've found that special rose, 'Cause you love and care for the one you chose."
-Rob Cella


Happy Womens Day!

hugzzzzzzzzzz

Cheers!
:)

burf said...

arre baba

didn't you say

"if I did write up a post about someone (be it on a bright or gloomy note), that means that person means/meant alot to me"

:D:D

btw, did u get it now?

alice said...

be nice to urself...

Yashita said...

could life be worth living without friends?? nah! friends are such a big part of our life...it amazing...and sometimes you realise that after they leave us:(....and it's never too late to patch things b/w friends...good you both got all misunderstandings sorted out:)...doesn't it feel nice to have one more good friend around??

friends are not made but realised, they are earned...so true!!!

and happy women's day!!!

niki yokota said...

woow~ so many nice quotes!!
lemme add one more..
'fren is like a lost-and-found. u might lose it at times, but find it later.' ^^

Dewdrop said...

lessons to learn for life...glad to see you are back to your normal self. keep smiling

AF said...

wow!! good that u realised that even he might have been hurt...GOt back ur good friend--Great!!

and the last part of the post was just superb!

Jigal.. said...

hi

Happy Woman's day...

bye

take care

Sugababee said...

Not too sure what I said that was so profound... but im glad i could help :D
And dont be thankful for my presence..lol u making me sound all mighty now:p
Hugzzzzzzz :)

kkalpz said...

kesh...
no need to thk me sweetz...the pleasure was all mine.

saby...
am glad u approve mate.....hehehe
if they come in ur life coz they have the hotzz for u then they wont last long saby n if u have any brains in u,u will see thru them.

Nitika said...

wow!!...good plp deserve good things sooner or later
its grt to see u back in happy mood...alwyas smile sweeti
hugzzz

coolvir said...

I donno weither you know hindi or not but am posting a song i remembered from RockFord...

Yaroon dosti badi hi azeez hai,
Yeh na hoon to bolon kya yeh zindigi hai,
Koi toh hoon razgaar,
Jispar ho aitbar.

Friendship is indeed precious :)

Rohit Talwar said...

Sweet. You're just the sweetest. Take care. And keep smiling. :)

Sujit said...

Thats nice to hear that you guys are back.. its so nice..! have great time..!

sittingnut said...

hey!
hope you are having a great day.

how was the women's day yesterday? :-)
what do you think about it?

Keshi said...

~~BoldnBeautiful

**:) yes keshi indeed every post of urs contain's some message.

good to see u read between the lines girl :)


**It is nice U overcame ur anger. :)

mostly hurt...Im ok now...thanks n huggggggz!






~~Invincible

v000nie wow after a long long time!

hows ya?





~~Cibbì

heyy WC to my world Cibbi!


**I like your blog, your writings.

well thank u :)


**I wanna improve my English, gonna come back to read you. Can I link you?

U sure can link me...improving ur English? U sound good to me already! well we all can help u to make u fluent in it ;-) stay tuned okk :)





~~Vishnu

Vihsnu dear that was one of the most beautiful verses abt friendship...so very sweet n thanks so much!


**"You hope you've found that special rose, 'Cause you love and care for the one you chose."

I have not only just 1 rose, but many special roses....that's all of u!


**Happy Womens Day!

Thank u :) hugggggggggggz!





~~Burf

heyyyy Burfy :)


**arre baba

aww cute term lol I love it!

I got ya now...lolz...so u wanna be in one of my posts someday...awww...u sure will - wait n watch :):)





~~Alice

Alice muahhhh!


**be nice to urself...

sure is some great advice :) thanks!





~~Yashita

Yashhhhh hellooo!


**friends are such a big part of our life...

so true!


**sometimes you realise that after they leave us:(

indeed...thats what happened with my friend...u just realise how much they mean to u, mostly after they leave!


**doesn't it feel nice to have one more good friend around??

It sure does! And to have all of u as my truest friends makes me feel just GREAT!


**friends are not made but realised, they are earned...so true!!!

yepp, and hugggggggggz!


**and happy women's day!!!

thanks n same to u u beautiful woman :)





~~Niki_Bakshi

heyy Bakshi chick...


**'fren is like a lost-and-found. u might lose it at times, but find it later.' ^^

lolz sure is ha! Good friends sometimes get lost but r easily found again :) good one Bakshi babez!





~~Dewdrop

Heyyya Dewdy dooo :)


**lessons to learn for life...glad to see you are back to your normal self. keep smiling

indeed! Even tho it's blogs, we see so many events taking place just like in real life...and we also learn so many lessons out of them right here in blogs...amazing ha :)





~~AF

heyyy AH hows it going?


**wow!! good that u realised that even he might have been hurt...GOt back ur good friend--Great!!

I know...sometimes it takes a whole post to realise that lol!





~~Jigal

Jigggzy heyyy!


**Happy Woman's day...

Thanks so much!






~~Sugababee

heyy Suga!


**Not too sure what I said that was so profound... but im glad i could help :D

go back to ur comment in my earlier post and read what u said...U said, there's 2 sides to it and he may be hurting too...that really hit me in the right spot Suga...it woke me up...it really really did...


**And dont be thankful for my presence..lol u making me sound all mighty now:p

Om Shanti Shanti Shanti Sugaaaa.....

lolllz!Thanks n hugggggggggz!





~~Kkalpz

heyy Kalpz :)


**u then they wont last long saby n if u have any brains in u,u will see thru them.

Saby is a Crushologist..so he will last somehow!





~~Nitika

Heyyy Niti ur not coming back to blogs? :*( Ur blog is not active....why?





~~Coolvir

heyy Coolvir when I saw ur poem (dunno Hindi but) I was touched...for someone to write me verses from so far away n in Hindi, just to make me feel better - it's amazing - thank u so much!


**Yaroon dosti badi hi azeez hai,
Yeh na hoon to bolon kya yeh zindigi hai,
Koi toh hoon razgaar,
Jispar ho aitbar.

plzz translate...I only know the words Dosti there :):)




~~Rohit_Talwar

heyyy Converse star ;-)


**Sweet. You're just the sweetest. Take care. And keep smiling. :)

goshh look who's talking! One of the SWEETEST boys with the CUTEST smiles eva!





~~Sujit

heyy Sujit thanks so much! Thanks for being there...really appreciate that...




~~Sittingnut

heyy mate!


**how was the women's day yesterday? :-)

oh gawd so many wishes! txts, emails n blog msgs..I was so overwhelmed, thanks so much!


**what do you think about it?

Well it really is a great way to celebrate the fairer sex of the society...the emotionally bolder and the stronger ones ;-) lol kidding...it's such a treat for all the lovely ladies out there - it shows how much we r appreciated and needed in this world.

Huggggggggggggz mate!






Thanks ALL for being there for me...I hope I can be there for u when u need me too...muah!


Keshi.

Boldnbeautiful said...

he he he
**:) yes keshi indeed every post of urs contain's some messages.

This is a general comment :)

Ofcourse I read every word of your post & also Saby's comment :):)


I like Saby's comment

ishita said...

luks like m late on this but never too late to say this is makin me smile and feel good :-)...

glad things r fine between the two of u and hoping things just keep getting better:-)

God bles..keep smiling!

Dalicia said...

well, we aren't perfect ourselves. i feel that i'm unforgiving at times.

hopefully, things will turn out right :) sometimes, i expect too much from a friend. so for me, it's better to depend on yourself....sure, the whole world would be boring without friends.

but, don't expect ppl. to be there for you all the time.

Keshi said...

~~BoldNbeautiful

:) Thanks dear!


**I like Saby's comment

yeah even tho he can get really crude with his words, he makes sense most of the time...I said 'most' Saby..and that doesnt mean 'all' the time..lol!





~~Ishita

thanks dear hugggggggggz!





~~Elaine

yep never expect ppl to be there for u always...it just isnt practical :) Thanks n WB!



Keshi.

lil _kath said...

Forgive and Forget...that's cool ^_~ hugss sweetie!

-kathy-

anup.777 said...

where did my comment go???? :) Keshi ... are u angry??? ... why ??? :)

Keshi said...

~~lil_Kath

yep yep...we tend to forgive n forget when we realise that we r not the only ones who hurt...thanks sweety muahhh!





~~Anup.777

lol Anup what r u talking abt? Which comment? hell na I aint angry with u...how can I get angry with u??


Keshi.

Jo said...

Oh yeah! That's life! (Jo in a philosopher mood)

Keshi said...

~~Jo

thanks :)

Keshi.