Monday, April 24

Carnivorous Blooms

She's beautiful. She's got ivory skin, dark hair, large black eyes, pink lips, tall figure and a slender body. She's gorgeous, yes she is. You could say she's got a kindness about her too, but not for too long. Beware, she attracts you to her vicinity but makes you pay for it forever. She will help you but she insists your worship eternally. She will take your help but never is grateful. No one can talk about her but she talks about everyone else. No one is above her but she can be above everyone. She beckons divinity yet she's very much a mere mortal. She wails for constant applaud but she never applauds you. She loves everyone but she doesnt know what love is. She's got external beauty but is that what beauty is?

That is someone I know in my real life. She has helped me at a time I needed her help and I aprreciate that. In return I have helped her in a way that I cant even write here 'cos it's quite confidential. Not that I want to be praised for that but she never appreciates my help. She only sees what she did. I don't ask for recognition for the help I did to her as long as we can just be great company to each other. But even that, she is not happy with. She wants more and more and more of the acknowledgment of whatever she did to me and that's about it. It's been few years of worshipping her now and dancing to her tune. The last time I spoke to her was to convey my condolences to her as her father-in-law had passed away. Do you think she spared me the worshipping even then? Nope and I cant tell you how she asked for it, it's too shameful. Guess what...it broke the walls of the forced-respect that I had for her and so I told her what I truly felt. That I have had enough of her pride and ego and that one should not expect so much from someone. I couldnt believe it that I said that to her! Cos she was like a goddess among many and no one would dare speak to her in that way. Her physical beauty is something that everyone else respected her for no matter how egoistic she could get. I'm sorry to say this but her heart is unpretty. Isnt that what we should really keep beautiful? What's the point of looking drop-dead gorgeous but not being able to understand another human being or not being able to communicate with someone without making that person feel like he/she's noone? What's the point in being the diva when you can't even think clearly 'cos your psyche is fogged up by a begging ego? I think that to help someone is mighty, but to beg for worship in return for that is quite tiny. Being physically beautiful is a blessing but being emotionally beautiful is an earning.

123 Cranium Signets:

southpaw said...

She's beautiful. She's got ivory skin, dark hair, large black eyes, pink lips, tall figure and a slender body. She's gorgeous, yes she is.***u r tempting me again...lol

What's the point of looking drop-dead gorgeous but not being able to understand another human being or not being able to communicate with someone without making that person feel like he/she's noone?***Well beauty without arrogance is absolutely worthless.
But yes i truely believe that when u do something for anyone don't mention it, it devaluates the ur deed.

visithra said...

how true - u did the right thing to finally step out - i understand ur predictment - dont u worry dear - it was the right thing to do - n dont u let anyone tell u otherwise

:P fuzzbox said...

Physical beauty fades with time and without inner beauty only turns to ugliness. Inner beauty grows more and more each day to glow through brighter and brighter as time goes by.

Trée said...

Keshi, I couldn't agree more with today's post. Show me your heart. That's where beauty lives.

Tarun said...

How can only you meet to such people in life....or I never notice people?

Stud said...

Beauty is a sense of harmony and some people think their opinion and desire are more important than harmony with their family and their community. Actions taken by such people are to benefit only themselves and to solidify their feeling of permanence in a transitory reality. Such people suffer dissatisfaction with themselves spiritually, physically and emotionally. It is a feeling of poverty. They always feel poor, always like they are not enough and so they start to emulate that which they covet. People who ever remotely help other’s and seek praises later, constantly feel insubstantial, impermanent, indistinct, discontinuous and undefined.

“emotionally beautiful is an earning”. -- That’s asking a lot. Are we willing to take full refuge in the forever opening experience of above mentioned qualities? I will let your board decide for themselves:)

Jay said...

I like beautiful chicks.. but to think of marrying them, that one I still have to think deeply. Got my point?

Sunita said...

I think you did the right thing stepping out...:)

suniieee said...

i soooo agree with you.

burf said...

"her heart is unpretty" - what's that????

we have always heard of

healthy heart
cholestrol-free heart
saffola heart

since when did hearts started coming in 36 24 36 shapes ;)

:D :p :D

Sujit said...

the real beauty of a person is the person character!.. No point having a physical no sense at all!!.. You did the right thing to get out!!.. Tehre was one person in my former lab..!! He said being freind is like business, you give me something.. i give in return something else!!.. That was the worst thing i could ever hear!!.. More than that.. antyhing he does.. we all should go and appreciate his work!!.. in return he acts so wierd!!.. So, i revloted and a cold war was on!! till i left..!!

uttara said...

i know wat u mean babes...:)

anyways .. i too agree with u .. cos am the last person to boast abt myself n say "I DID THIS / THAT FOR U "
NEVA
but yes if its the question of my pride and self respect i wont spare that person .. NEVA

u have to be precise n know wta to speak when ...
but people forget n say it which hurts to the core .. it need not be money only it can be mental or physical help too ...

people are so self centric they forget that a world exists out of their world too
its always "I, ME N MYSELF" attitude

good thought keshi...

HUGGGGGGGGZZZZZ
missed u
muaaaaaaaaaahhhhh

saby said...

if Janice were here now she wud say


Keshi
u DUMBASS

u cant change ppl
love dem or leave dem

saby said...

physical beauty dont last
age and ageing is a great leveller

boobs sag
the tight ass turns flabby and starts to droop

but the beauty of the soul is reflected in the eyes

eyes are a great turn on for me

musings (m000nie) said...

ur absolutely right... if u remember i had posted something like this a long time ago... something about being prejudiced without knowing who or what a person is like...

physical beauty is no measure to like a person...but every now n thn we fall in the trap...

laterzzz sweety tc

Die Muräne said...

Keshi, you just have to try harder to please her!

AmitKen said...

yeah! some ppl keep reminding you that they were great enuf to have helped you. and when they ask for it, thats when it gets ugly - and you loose respect towards them and you stop caring for what good they did to you.

thats part of life i guess, just one kind of a person in various kinds that we meet. and i guess the good thing is that such ppl remind us that we should never become like them.

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

u know ... ur descripton of her reminds me of those leeches that suck all ur peace out .. and finally leave u totally bereft of energy ...

rebel_on_loose said...

"Being physically beautiful is a blessing but being emotionally beautiful is an earning."
U said it gal ! Thts the mantra!

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

but KEshi dear , how did u take it all these days ?

i mean didnt ur ego haunt u ?

adsking for praise , acknowledgment and worship is human .. but to this extreme ... YUCK ! SICK !

lil _kath said...

...lots of them around :( ,so be wise sweetie..to whom you open your heart next time.
...it's your choice, keep them or leave them!

..have a great week ahead!^_~

cheers,
-kathy

Ghost Particle said...

would you belive if I say some are just born like that. That's being human, thats being themselves, thats total ignorance. But rest assured that someday they would realize all this and feel damn stupid and maybe cry for forgiveness. But while they be like that, we be ourselves, we be human and we love everyone. Thats our character.

Jewel Rays said...

uh huh uh huh..You said it..

Being physically beautiful is a blessing but being emotionally beautiful is an earning.

Cheers!

Queen Bee said...

Sometimes being too beautiful is a form of handicap... to the bearer.

SamY said...

I wudn't agree what that dame expressed as egoism. Egoism is when you think you are above all. Quite honestly that is healthy at certain levels.

Beyond which it becomes being second handed. Second handed ppl need other to constantly praise them and acknowledge their greatness. Without others they are none. They base themselves on other and not their self.

As an individual, u shud know what you are thyself. Regardless of what the world has to say about u. Such people are seared as egotist. if u'v observed, the greatest achievers have been :).

But most people cross the line n become second handed. IMHO this lady surely is.

the greatest blow for second handed individuals is neglect ;), they wudn't cut themselves off in search for a servile person :)

SamY said...

I wudn't agree what that dame expressed as egoism. Egoism is when you think you are above all. Quite honestly that is healthy at certain levels.

Beyond which it becomes being second handed. Second handed ppl need other to constantly praise them and acknowledge their greatness. Without others they are none. They base themselves on other and not their self.

As an individual, u shud know what you are thyself. Regardless of what the world has to say about u. Such people are seared as egotist. if u'v observed, the greatest achievers have been :).

But most people cross the line n become second handed. IMHO this lady surely is.

the greatest blow for second handed individuals is neglect ;), they wud cut themselves off in search for a servile person :)

Orikinla Osinachi. said...

Keshi,
You read my tongue-in-cheek poem on So She Thinks She is a Star.

But, I won't advise you to give up on your friend.

How will the flower blossom and bloom without your light?

What we need here is to use your intelligence in addressing her arrogance due to her ignorance.
Ignorance is the mother of arrogance.

Treasure your friends as much as you treasure your life.

She needs you now more than ever before.

True love does not abandon us.

God bless.

:: The Protector :: said...

alagu, araivu irkkum idathil teemirum irrukkum,being physically beautiful is a blessing but being emotionally beautiful is an earning tats well said Keshi.

Cheers!
:)

Johnny B. Good said...

M00nie has gott great eyes

Johnny B. Good said...

i sure wud hate to be in Keshi's bad books

i can see the post coming up titled Dirty Old Man

Himu said...

nice post

Johnny B. Good said...

one reason i dont chase beautiful women is the competition is heavy

i prefer to make a pass for the homely girl widout lipstick, eye liner and fancy make up.

a stunner like julia roberts or Aishwarya i ignore

let the Swiss guy and the Nigerian make an ass of themselves

PRADEEP K. said...

Keshi, I relate to this kind of people, I have seen many of them.

I might not have any right to say this, but I shall take the liberty as I always do.

Why don't you just ignore such people and start concentrating on people who truly are beautiful on the inside?

Instead, you seem to ignore all the people who truly love you and appreciate you, and get hurt by concentrating on these other people.

Please ignore this comment if you wish.

(Hugggggs)

Jeevan said...

We should not measure by seeing their personality.

ishita said...

*sigh*...good for u...and don't have any doubts abt wat u did...she deserved it.

i knew a person like that...way backkk...she taught me a very important lesson...she taught me how to say "NO" and to recognize d fact that we do outgrow frenz...and we have to face it and learn to say enuff is enuff!...

i think everyone shud experience ppl like her...if only to see selfishness up close and appreciate the few genuine ppl we have in our lives...

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

People are like that ... but wht u have to decide is tht coz of their one weakness can u afford to lose them? If shez a friend, accept her as she is ... u can not change her ... you can not change people ... mebbe just tell them abt wht u dont feel is right.

I simply don wanna defend u knowing one side of the story ... but i guess u've done tht to a friend, it might have been an effort from ur side too.

Take care.

karmic_jay said...

Keshi. I am appalled that people worship her for her beauty? Oy what world are we living in? I guess people really are that vain.
Anyways her physical self will become unpretty with time, youth and beauty is purely transitory in nature in the large scheme of things.
I am surprised you put up with her as long as you did, since she seems to be one of those people for whom it is always about "THEM". I am glad you broke away and you are the better for it.

niki yokota said...

i feel sorry for such beauty silly girl!!
well done, keshi-chan!!!! ^^

Darius said...

I think you're onto something - might be described as the difference between pretty and beautiful. A woman can be pretty, but if what's on the inside isn't pretty, she just stays - pretty. It's a surface thing.

But if what's on the inside is good, then pretty becomes beautiful.

SCRIBBLEZ TO WAKEUP said...

Hey..Such people do exist...Have seen a couple myself....Guess its the huge amount of insecurity they have that makes them that way....Beauty is nothing when another person cant feel it as when another person sees it, it could also be an illution of the eye....But if you make some feel that you r beautiful, you have tht beautiful YOU! :)

Art said...

may be after u meet such people.. the respect for good people increases more

desperado said...

beautiful last line

and with looks of the first few lines....i thought the comments would make for an interesting reading again ;)..hehe
take care

ArChaNa said...

gurl you did the right thing.. glad you told her what you felt.


I pity the one whoz gonna marry her .. pst .. he's dead ;)


anyways, how was ur weekend??

The Phoenix said...

People can't help it if they won the genetic lottery and look absolutely gorgeous.

Dumb is still dumb, no matter what they look like. It's unfortunate that study and study proves that people perceive attractive people as more intelligent and nicer. Even though they might not be.

When you get down to it, it's really what's inside that truly counts. Some of us are more together than others. And the kind of person you are IS something you have control over.

Sudeep said...

Being physically beautiful is a blessing but being emotionally beautiful is an earning

this line sums it all... :)

sittingnut said...

heyy!
i agree with every thing in this post, a good one. :-)

I think that to help someone is mighty, but to beg for worship in return for that is quite tiny
couldn't have been better put.

only remember that not all ppl can be angels like you they are merely human. :-)

Being physically beautiful is a blessing but being emotionally beautiful is an earning.
ditto as above.

and in most cases when one is emotionally ugly, that ugliness does sneak through exterior beauty.

hope you are having a great day! :-)

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Vivhyd said...

for a moment i thought u were talking abt those carnivorous plants which attract their prey..

as for ur friend.. thts unfortunate ur last stmt was very well said.. in a way being physically beautiful is not wholly in our hands.. thts destiny.. but being emotinally beautiful is something that takes some effort and is more appreciated

Outdoorsy Girl said...

I totally agree with your post 100%! LOVE your wording and the way you emphasized importance of such characteristics with smaller and larger fonts. Very clever.

I'm glad that you didn't bow down to worship her this time. She is not worthy to have a following of people with beautiful hearts like yours.

Sugababee said...

There are all kinds of people in the world. Each and every one of us brings something to the table. This lady, is indeed helping you in building your own character and the way you react and respond to her says alot about yourself. Not everyone can be perfect, and would we even want a world liek that? It's extremely easy to judge, but ever so hard to just accept.

burf said...

hey u unhappy about anythng? something bothering u? u slept very late last night, r u ok?

sophie said...

yeah well said gal...
Mother Terresa is more beautiful and Ishwaryia...isnt she??

done said...

Beauty is the eye of the beholder
Beauty shines through
Beauty is within and then comes out
Beauty is captivating,and outward beauty does fade.
Take care, Elisa:)

Dalicia said...

all those men want pretty women.
at times, i'm so glad that those pretty women play them out and bankrupt them. :)

i don't think too much about it. at the end, the person with the best personality always wins!

the_ego_has_landed said...

Hey u did the right thing...it shows she's insecure no matter how beautiful she is.
I can understand if she's 16-17 but jeez she's married...tell her to grow up! lolz

saby said...

i am on VRS at work
at home i been replaced by a dildo


my wife dont tink i am physically beautiful
my dog says i stink

so dats why i am here
i like to think i am beautiful inside

any takers?

p¡£®®£(X000nie) said...

"Being physically beautiful is a blessing but being emotionally beautiful is an earning"

I liked dat stmt :)

Gangadhar said...

dat's a nice post,Keshi..
And I'm so sad to see your comment on my "Divineness in wait" post... I'm so sorry for your dad..

Ekta said...

Guess we all come across such people at some stage!
I know of one such person too--who always make u feel like ur indebted to them for life--and its this which makes you feel even less indebted to them!
Well written keshi!

The Girl Who Sold The World said...

I guess the concept of beauty is too complicated in itself. I mean, who's to decide the basic criteria for a person to be classified as "beautiful"? Like they say, "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". :) (Pssst: ever wonder who this "they" was/were? :P)

Being physically beautiful is a blessing but being emotionally beautiful is an earning.
EXACTLY! Yeah, of course, looks/attractiveness/beauty/ is an important thing but it's not really the only thing. There's more to a person than being physically beautiful. Moreover, I guess it's the inner beauty which counts in the end. Outer beauty lasts for how long? 30 years? 40 years? 50 years? After that, it's beauty of the heart that counts. :)

saby said...

beauty is a concept created by the MNC cosmetic industry

to sell skin cream, eye liners, nail polish, cosmetic surgery




we have been suckered

Yashita said...

keshi, I am getting freaked out now!! seriously...no! I mean I am very serious!!! how can this be!!! just today I kind of had an argument with my very good friend...same case!! though she is not the physical beauty as much...but an intellectual one...everyone respects her for that...no one can speak to her in any manner other than a respectful one...she deserves it...but quite a few ppl get irritated with her high and mighty attitude...she has done a lot for me...she was there for me wen I most needed her...I will be grateful to her eternally...but yes, all she expects is praise and more praise in return!!! she will always treat others as if their opinions dont matter in front of hers!!! acc to her she is always right, no matter what others say!! even if a bunch of ppl disagree, she will stck to "I am correct" stance!!
I really got irritated today with her...but I dont think I will tell her yet...maybe she will realise it on her own someday...I love my friend...she is someone I totally admire...but tho I don't like somethings about her, I really don't want to see her hurt...

Btw, I love "you've got a way with me..." lovely song!!:)

smiley said...

Be to her virtues very kind,
Be to her faults a little blind.
~Matthew Prior

>|' ; '| said...

dont talk abt ur friends like tht...she must have troubles i guess..help her

Sudarshan said...

Er you're right...I guess appearances are rather misleading. However, you've put this post in a rather brilliant way:-) Well there are some people who will never appreciate whatever you do for them,without bothering to give a thought to your feelings. I've experienced this too. Such people I feel suck.I give them a wide margin lol then after a certain time, its a good-bye!! I feel you've done the right thing by backing off!!

Stud said...

"but KEshi dear , how did u take it all these days ?
i mean didnt ur ego haunt u ?"

:)

Autumn Storm said...

Absolutely.
That last line is so very well put!!

Contented said...

Hey Mate! Looks I am bit late here. Very well said about blessing and earning of beauty.

I always thought gratitude is paid and recieved in humble ways. Its pity to hear about what has happened...:(

But on a different tone I would like to ask was confronting her made any differenece??

sittingnut said...

heyy mate!

where are you ?

we miss you.

we need your words !!!!

otherwise the whole internet is empty

Keshi said...

Hiiiii Guyyyys!

I was away yday...aww Sittingnut u miss me so much? What a sweet thing to say..I feel so special after reading ur last comment...ty so much muahhh!


Im back now...I will ans u all soon :) Luv u all and missed u all alot, I swear!


Keshi.

Lindsey said...

Ms. Keshi...did you know that your blog is worth a crapload of money on the fake stock market? i think it was like $16,000 or something. See my post from Sunday and it will show you how to figure it out.

Keshi said...

~~Southpaw

Am I tempting u again? lol sorry :)

**Well beauty without arrogance is absolutely worthless.

u think so? well I agree a lil bit of arrogance can be tolerated but not this kind...u've got to meet her :)


**when u do something for anyone don't mention it, it devaluates the ur deed.

she's mentioned it to me in countless ways and some very hurtful ways too. To date, I never opened my mouth abt her...but guess after telling her how I felt, I feel alot better and thats why I wrote this post.





~~Visithra

hey girl...aww ur always a guiding light to me with lots of love n support, always knowing how I feel...thanks and huggggggggz Visithra!





~~FuzzBox

Fuzzy ur right...beauty thats within u glows eternally...outer beauty just fades away with time, how true.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Tre

**Show me your heart. That's where beauty lives

and how hard it is for some ppl to make their hearts beautiful than their faces...thanks Tre u've got a beautiful heart along with a very handsome face ;-)





~~Tarun

**How can only you meet to such people in life....

hehe Tarun I guess ur in very good company then :) lucky u!





~~Stud

hey Studdo!

** Such people suffer dissatisfaction with themselves spiritually, physically and emotionally. It is a feeling of poverty.

very true...nothing's enough for them. Omg u said it perfectly!


**Are we willing to take full refuge in the forever opening experience of above mentioned qualities?

hehe how d u mean? :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Jay

hey Jay how have ya been?

**but to think of marrying them, that one I still have to think deeply.

I dunno mate...it doesnt mean that all beautiful women r b#tches...hehe. My mum was a very beautiful girl when she was younger...she was almost like a movie star...I aint bragging. She's got very pleasant and attractive features. But she married my dad and was very good to him, even tho he was not the perfect man. She never left him, she was a good mother to us and she never ever cheated on him. U know what Im trying to say now :) A beautiful body and a beautiful soul can come together...so never lose hope in all beautiful women.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Sunita

hey girl thanks!





~~Suniiee


thanks and how r u?






~~Burf

**healthy heart
cholestrol-free heart
saffola heart

lol!


**since when did hearts started coming in 36 24 36 shapes ;)

Since I was born... ;-)


**hey u unhappy about anythng? something bothering u? u slept very late last night, r u ok?

huh??? lolz whats this Burfy?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Sujit

**He said being freind is like business, you give me something.. i give in return something else!

gosh what kind of greedy advise is that? Im so glad u dropped him. If he comes back to u, teach him what he should know...help him to realise that life and r'ships r much more than keeping accounts.






~~Uttara

huggggggggz Uttsy I missed ya yday!


** it need not be money only it can be mental or physical help too ...

very true...why cant ppl realise that it's not always tangible things that r eligible for 'help'?






~~Saby

**u cant change ppl
love dem or leave dem

we can Saby...I have changed becos of many ppl here...u gusy have a huge effect on me and ur posts and thoughts have shaped my heart in many ways...so I believe we can change some ppl if we try, as long as it's for the good...and if they dun change, then that's when we can say goodbye...and thats what I did with her after so many years of being subjected to sh#t.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Musings

m000nieeeee I hope I havent lost u too hugggggggggz!


**something about being prejudiced without knowing who or what a person is like

I rem that post very well m000nie...I loved that post of ur's. Ur right, we somehow fall into that trap every now n then...

tc mwah!






~~Die_Murane

lol Murane why should I try 'harder' to 'please' her? btw thats what I did for many years...pleased her knowing that I was not even happy with what I was doing! I kissed her goodbye...if she ever comes back to me, I will take her...but only if she's willing to hear others' point of view too...






~~Amitken

Amit u always say some very wise things...thanks!


**and you loose respect towards them and you stop caring for what good they did to you.

thats what happened...I lost the respect I had for her for all these years...there's always a limit to the sh#t that one can take.


**and i guess the good thing is that such ppl remind us that we should never become like them.

so damn true! Thanks Amit, that really made me open my eyes...this is for me to realise never to become like her, and also to appreciate others who r much more 'beautiful' than her...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Deepa

hey Deepz yes it's like being ard a leech. I hate to speak abt her this way but the truth is she deserves every bit of it...she created her own fate...so what can I do :(


**i mean didnt ur ego haunt u ?

it did...but u know, I was always a very humble person...I was brought up that way, thanks to my parents. I never seeked for glory or praise tho I got plenty of it anyways :) but she demanded it and that was shocking. But I always was the good girl..I never said anything to hurt ppl, especially those who have helped me...so I always was respectable to her. And even when I told her how I really felt, I was so polite..I never used a bad word or never yelled at her. Well Im not mad at her, she always has me as a shoulder to cry on if she needs me...but I hv lost that sweet affection for her...







~~Rebel_on_loose

hey Rebbz...thats a mantra in itself oyeah :) thanks!






~~Lil_Kath

muahhh Kath!

**so be wise sweetie..to whom you open your heart next time.

true...I have opened my heart to too many shooters..lol! Now my heart is all full of scars...but it's still in good shape ;-) thanks to lovely ppl like u huggggggggggz!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Ghost_Particle

hey Ghosty!

**But while they be like that, we be ourselves, we be human and we love everyone.

u maybe right..that they r born with that. and we all cant be the same. true...lets not be like them at all...thanks!






~~Jewel_Rays

**uh huh uh huh..You said it..

lol Amy ur so cute, thanks! mwah lady!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Queen_Bee

**Sometimes being too beautiful is a form of handicap... to the bearer.

so true! goshhh thats so damn true. Maybe her beauty got her to be this way...to use it in a way to obtain a power and hurt others. Who knows. Thanks Queen!






~~Samy

hey Samy :)

I like ur analyis on this...very well-said...

I agree that a tall ego is great...but not to a height that it hurts ppl who have done nothing wrong to u...


**it becomes being second handed.

Vrey true...such ppl cant survive w.o. another's praise...


**the greatest blow for second handed individuals is neglect

omg Samy u just realised the absolute thing that happned between me n her! When I rang her for the condolences, thats what she told me...that I neglected her after she helped me so much! R u some mind reader? :)






~~Orikinla_Osinachi

hey mate I rem that poem :):)


**How will the flower blossom and bloom without your light?

No I never wanted to leave her for good...I cant do that, I'd be a heartless b#tch then. But I have had enough...u know, when ur pushed off the edge, what happens...u just give up. not totally but atleast for a while. I gave her years to dance with her ego and I think thats enough...its my turn to go on a break :) But if she ever comes seeking my love, I will help her...as long as she dun do the same mistakes again.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Vishnu

thanks :)





~~JohnnyBGood

lol Johnny u make me laugh! U dun like Julia-Roberts-lookalikes? aww then u wont like me lollz! I'd go on a date with Murane then ok :):)


**i can see the post coming up titled Dirty Old Man

hahaha no way! I have my decency too...dun forget that :) So I'd prolly title it as 'Unclean aged male'...hehehe ;-)






~~Himu

hey WC Himu n thanks!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Pradeep.K

aww Pradeep :)


**Why don't you just ignore such people and start concentrating on people who truly are beautiful on the inside?

I cant ignore these ppl Pradeep...they r part of my life...if I could, I'd have done it a very long time ago...


**Instead, you seem to ignore all the people who truly love you and appreciate you, and get hurt by concentrating on these other people.

awwwww did I ever make ppl like u feel less loved? cos u ppl love me alot and I have never ignored u, or have I? :*(






~~Jeevan

thanks Jeevan and how r u today?






~~Ishita

hey Ish hows it going?

**and we have to face it and learn to say enuff is enuff!...

so true! ppl have limits and we have to learn to say NO. very true!


**i think everyone shud experience ppl like her...if only to see selfishness up close and appreciate the few genuine ppl we have in our lives...

SO DAMN TRUE! Thanks Ish and thats exactly why I put up this post! Not to humiliate her, but cos I learnt a very good lesson from knowing her...never to just PUT UP with ppl for the sake of it. And also, it made me realise what a lot of truly beautiful and humble ppl live in this world.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Cheesy_Termite

hugggggggz Cheesy hows u today?


**but wht u have to decide is tht coz of their one weakness can u afford to lose them?

One weakness? aww Cheesy that one weakness ate me up completely...she never accepted me for who I am...she wanted me to worship her 24/7 for many years. Wud u put up with someone like that?


**If shez a friend, accept her as she is ... u can not change her ... you can not change people ... mebbe just tell them abt wht u dont feel is right.

I know that I cant change ppl...but this is not abt trying to change her to be someone else. This is abt making her realise that what she's doing is hurting alot of ppl apart from me...that she's driving her loved-ones away from her. I accepted her for who she is for many many years...but Im only human and I cant take it anymore...what do I do now? na I didnt dump her for good..I told her how I felt and I dun think she liked it. So be it :)


**I simply don wanna defend u knowing one side of the story ...

true...and Im sure u wudnt wanna know her Cheesy :) it's not a simple friendship kinda issue here..much more than wut u think baby hehe..besides me putting up a post here abt her doesnt make me an angel and she a devil...no ways! I dun want ppl to think that way abt me either. Just that I have had enough of her. She didnt dump me..I did.


u tc huggggggz!

Keshi.

Dawn....सेहर said...

Who cares what one looks outwardly....as what remains is the inside part...and even one is beautiful outwardly...the real inside is what portrays on top...and you know when that comes upon...the realy face is ugly.
I some how cant take too much pressure like that as life has enough to give...so I often keep a safe distance to get rid of such people as its not harming anyone if we keep our distances and am glad you did it.
Speak your mind at the first point and you wont repent my dear :)
am happy for u....hip hip hurray to u ma keshi darlin...

hugggggggggggz
cheers

Keshi said...

~~Karmic_Jay

hey Jay hows ya?

**I am surprised you put up with her as long as you did, since she seems to be one of those people for whom it is always about "THEM".

Im surprised too :) yup...she was all abt HER...and to tell u the truth, I had enough..and I feel so much better not having to attend to the formalities of HER Royal Highness..hehe, thanks mate!






~~Niki_Bakshi

hey Niki silly indeed, thanks n muahhhhhh!





~~Darius

ur absoulutely right!

**But if what's on the inside is good, then pretty becomes beautiful.

Spot on and thanks mate!






~~Scribblez_to_wakeup


**....Guess its the huge amount of insecurity they have that makes them that way....

true...insecure cos the heart isnt so beautiful..


**Beauty is nothing when another person cant feel it as when another person sees it, it could also be an illution of the eye....

thats 'beautifully' stated!


**....But if you make some feel that you r beautiful, you have tht beautiful YOU!

so true...and I think u r very 'beautiful' Scribblez! thanks for that very insightful comment...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Art

**may be after u meet such people.. the respect for good people increases more

it has increased, and for ppl like u...:) thanks mate!







~~Desperado

hehe ur still in luuuurve with that sexy post ha...;-)

thanks mate!






~~Archie

hey thanks girl, my weekend was goooooood...I went to so many places..too many that I cant even rem lol! And ur's?


**I pity the one whoz gonna marry her .. pst .. he's dead

she's married...got 4 young kids...and her husband is ok with her, I guess he's smitten hehehe..


Keshi.

saby said...

Keshi said...
Actually Eswar my love did not like my Mariah Carey looks. He said that my boobs are too big and he was scared it would burst in his face if he got too close to me. It is sad he did not look beyond and above my boobs and directly into my eyes. I am longing for the day when someone will look into my eyes and tell me those 3 wonderful words "Super Boobs, Woman" :)

Take care Matey!

Keshi.

8:31 AM






hehehehehe
the cloned keshi is at his best here

Keshi said...

~~The_Phoenix

hey mate hows ya?


**People can't help it if they won the genetic lottery and look absolutely gorgeous.

hehe so true..

And I believe too that what u r deep inside IS within ur control...thanks!






~~Sudeep

hey thanks Sudddz!

I believe u r 'beautiful' in all ways...I can sense it :)






~~Sittingnut

heyyyyyyyyyy hows ya? aww so u missed me :( It was ANZAC day yday in Aus...the memorial day of Soldiers lost in war...so was a holiday here :) And we had ppl over for lunch and I couldnt log in from home...tho I did late at night and published all comments lol! Hows u btw?


**and in most cases when one is emotionally ugly, that ugliness does sneak through exterior beauty.

yep in some cases...but there r some not so attractive ppl with very beautiful hearts too...so dun ever judge anyone by looks unless it's just for a crush :):)

have a great day ahead mate!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Saby I know that Keshi-clone is in Burfy's blog etc...lol I feel sorry for that poor clone, trying his lil pea-brain out..hahaha!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Mahesh

hey WC Mahesh n thanks! I will visit u soon :)






~~Vivhyd

yes...u r spot on, thanks mate!






~~Outdoorsy_Girl

Girl thanks a ton and I agree with wut u said...not worth scarring our hearts for a heart like her's...

muahhh have a great day ahead!






~~Sugababee

hey Suga hows it going?

**Not everyone can be perfect, and would we even want a world liek that?

ur right...but I guess this is not asking for perfection...it's asking to be civil...


**It's extremely easy to judge, but ever so hard to just accept.

true...easier to judge. But na I dun wanna just 'accept' for the sake of it either...wud u Suga? ppl who love u r suppose to love u...not go ard flaunting their ego. I believe that if they need us to accept them back, then they better earn it, just as I have :)






~~Sophia

**Mother Terresa is more beautiful and Ishwaryia...isnt she??

Spot on! U said it! I mean Aish is great for the movies...thats abt it. I bet alot of guys here wud freak out if Aish was his wife :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Elisa


**Beauty is captivating,and outward beauty does fade.

true...so true and thanks!







~~Elaine

Elaineeeeee hows ya babez??


**at times, i'm so glad that those pretty women play them out and bankrupt them. :)

lol hahaha true!


**i don't think too much about it. at the end, the person with the best personality always wins

ur spot on girl!

Thanks and have a good day Elaine!






~~The_Ego_Has_Landed

hey girl thanks!


**it shows she's insecure no matter how beautiful she is.

I bet she is...cos her heart is not stable...


**I can understand if she's 16-17 but jeez she's married...tell her to grow up! lolz

lol ur so right! She's not a teen...infact she's married and a mum of 4 young kids..hehehe. I always told her to 'grow up' too...in my head tho. But now I told her to her face...I wonder if she will now...

thanks!






~~x000nie

hey thanks and Im glad u like it :)






~~Gangadhar

hey Gangzz thanks...it's ok mate, both I and my mum r doing fine now...






~~Ekta

**who always make u feel like ur indebted to them for life--

thats EXACTLY how she made me feel all these years. Tell me, can someone just 'accept' them for the sake of it?


**and its this which makes you feel even less indebted to them!

Spot on! And thats what happened with me...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~The_Girl_Who_Sold_The_World

hey Girl!

Ur right...no 2 ppl will define 'beauty' in the same way..ur absoultely right there!


**After that, it's beauty of the heart that counts...

beauty of the heart counts from the day u were born I guess...look at a smiling happy baby as opposed to one who's always crying and irritating his momma....look at a 5yr old who lends a pencil to his classmate as opposed to a child who never lends anything to anyone...look at the teenager who comes home everday cos he values his family as opposed to the teenager who goes out at night doing all the wrong things...look at the young woman who looks after her mother at home as opposed to the young woman who never even says hello to her momma...look at the friend who doesnt ask for tangible things as opposed the one who demands it...look at the father who works hard for his family as opposed to the father who drinks and ruins his family happiness...look at the old man who's dancing in the rain in opposed to the old man who's sad abt his old age and grumpy abt his impending death...

Beauty of the heart can be earned from the day u were born until the day u r gone...


Keshi.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Yashita

hehe so we r the long lost freaky sisters lol! High five Yash! :):)

So ur going thru the same kinda thing...aww and she's ur friend...well if she thinks she's always right, is she really ur friend? :)


**I love my friend...she is someone I totally admire...but tho I don't like somethings about her, I really don't want to see her hurt...

I agree...we dun want ppl we love to be hurt...but look at it this way Yash. Loving someone the way u love is really beautiful..cos u overlook her faults to be with her cos u truly value her as a person. But does being with her really make u happy? Does it allow u to be urself? If not, then there's something u need to talk to her abt...talk to her and see what she says...dun be afraid to break the ice. After all, being friends without knowing the true meaning of each others' feelings is not worth it...I hope u will talk to her and solve this issue, good luck Yash!






~~Smiley

hey thanks!

**Be to her virtues very kind,
Be to her faults a little blind

I have been tooooo kind to her Smiley :) And yes I have been way tooooo blind to her faults too :) and now I have had enough...







~~Poison

hey Poison!


**dont talk abt ur friends like tht...

awwww :*( like what?
U think Im trashing her...well if so, she deserves it Poison :) cos she overlooked my kindness for way too long and Im not God to keep praising her blindly...hehehe. I have something called self-respect too na Poison?


**she must have troubles i guess..help her

nope...she's rich, she's well-educated, she's happily married, she's beautiful...why cant she be hapy with that? mebbe she cant be happy with all that cos she's heartless...yes thats what she is...and she better realise it b4 its too late for her. I have helped her mate, trust me...but she never seems to pay attention to what Im saying..it's nothing for her...she's all she hears...






~~Sudharshan

thanks for understanding me mate...it's not like I wanna trash her her...I've had enough and I want ppl to realise that u dun have to 'PUT UP' with ppl like this...


**.I give them a wide margin lol then after a certain time, its a good-bye!!

yes lol! I give them a VERY wide margin too...actually it's been too long now...and then I lose it and thats it. Im done :) Thanks!







~~Autumn_Storm

Thanks babez ;-)






~~Contented

heyyy hows u? Better late than never mate :)


**I always thought gratitude is paid and recieved in humble ways.

I believe in that too...thats why it was too hard for me to bear her for this long...


**But on a different tone I would like to ask was confronting her made any differenece??

NOPE. She just hung up on me and we havent talked for few months now. Dunno what that means :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

~~Linny

hey Ms.Linny :)

**did you know that your blog is worth a crapload of money on the fake stock market? i think it was like $16,000 or something

lol aww really? Let me come n see it then...mebbe I can finally make some 'REAL' money then lolz! Thanks!







~~Dawn

hey Dawny hows ya?


**and you know when that comes upon...the realy face is ugly.

so true...watch someone's face when they r angry and yelling at someone...isnt that a very ugly site? :) by now my clone must be really UGLY lol!


And like u said, I wish I cud have kept a distance with her from teh start, but I just cudnt..now that I took the first step, I feel alot better...and even if I die tomorrow, I'd be closing my eyes happily...cos I said what I had to...


Keshi.

Anand said...

Hey kesh,
well honestly have never met anyone like this but can imagine how irritating it must be around people like her!
But I guess such people suffer from their own insecurities and thats what makes them do stuff like this!
But good that u spoke your heart out--atleast now hopefully she should learn a lesson!

saby said...

frankly keshi

i tink u r loosing it
this post was way below standards
or as richard Cranium wud say
'pure unadulterated crap'

besides it was in poor taste
u dont dissect ppl on blogs

u are getting too like oprah the Wimp

dont pontificate

u were getting a lotta hate mail
coz u did this earlier on chat

your best friend and worst critic,

saby, the dirty old man

saby said...

i am gonna get a lotta hate mail now

from your fans

Tarun said...

hehe Tarun I guess ur in very good company then :) lucky u!

I don't have company...lucky me ;)

Tarun said...

BTW, how's Monica? pretty strong hannn. I think u r very far from her path right....

Keshi said...

~~Tarun

hey u got to have SOME company na? :)

Monica sure sounds pretty strong and scary...well WA is awaiting her arrival with fear but I guess they r pretty much prepared...






~~Saby

guess u like reading crap from Keshi clone and enjoying it...and want me to read em too...so why not publish it here ha? :)


**besides it was in poor taste
u dont dissect ppl on blogs

why not? am I here for a business? to please ppl? to market myself? NO. Im here to pour out my true feelings Saby. And if that doesnt fit in ur 'great marketable' posts category, I really cant help it. Im me and u r u. And dissecting ppl on blogs/chat cant be that bad if there's the truth in it :) I cant be bothered trying to please anyone..and I think I told that to many ppl b4. And those who think Im a crappy abusive girl, well whats new..they neva thought any good abt me anyways...and do I care, NO.


Keshi.

SamY said...

** R u some mind reader? :)

:)) sometime I wish I were :p just to know ppl secrets ;)) ... just that I constantly keep evaluating ppl around me ... n this is a pattern I'v seen b4

fortunately 4 me ... my negligence changed the other person, who gave up that attention

saby said...

OK, lets live and let live
but wat u do is not christian or buddhist






i just gotta have the last word

Keshi said...

Saby I dun go by text books...I go by my conscience...and it may look wrong to u. Doesnt bother me.

Keshi.

southpaw said...

Am I tempting u again? lol sorry :)***Yep a lil bit with the description u gave about that person.

u've got to meet her :)***This one surely reminded me something funny...lol, anyways I m already due to come there again in a couple of months i guess then probably we can think of that.

but guess after telling her how I felt, I feel alot better and thats why I wrote this post.***Alls well as long as u r well...

Good day my friend...:)

Jewel Rays said...

Hey Keshi. :)

Was reading one of ya comments to one of ya blog mates. and felt that i have something to say about it. so here it is..:)

I have helped her mate, trust me...but she never seems to pay attention to what Im saying..it's nothing for her...she's all she hears...

You know for all you know she could be feeling insecure or jealous with ya. Maybe, even though she had everything a happy marriage, beauty blah blah etc. Maybe she just isn;t really happy deep within. Thats why the worship probably feeds her insecurities . but i guess deep down within there is a alot of insecurities or complications. I feel thats probably the reason why she is so snobbish and demanding and treat others as if they were just little punies. she is not making it. she is just hurting her field. Rings a bell to me. somewhat. :)

Keshi said...

~~Samy

** my negligence changed the other person, who gave up that attention

great :)






~~Saby

ppl can plagiarise/clone me at their own risk...Im not the least bothered :)





~~Southpaw

woohoo u'll be in Aus soon? WOW! Cant wait :):)






~~Jewel_Rays

Amyyyyyyyy mwah! I hope ur well girl and I hope u had a great weekend.


**You know for all you know she could be feeling insecure or jealous with ya

ur right...tho I may not have most of what she has, I have inner peace...she doesnt seem to have that...well I cant help her feeling that way either...right now, the best thing to do is walk away and I did just that...and I know that it rings the bell to u alot girl..take it easy, no one so insecure is worth ur precious tears...

thanks alot girl...huggggggggggz!


Keshi.

saby said...

106 comments
how come i get only six !




i wish i had ivory skin, dark hair, large black eyes, pink lips, tall figure and a slender body.

burf said...

lol, the last one was by a burf clone :p

:D

Jewel Rays said...

I am doing well Keshi. *smiles* Thanks gurl..*hugz

Chelseajean said...

Great post, amazingly writen! I am so glad that you stood up for yourself. :)

saby said...

i love dis SamY guy

uttara said...

oooooooo

someone is going to aussie with someone to the wooooooooooooooooooooooods
ahem ahem

done worry :p i will come there to be a kabab main haddi ..hehehhehehhe

ArChaNa said...

she's married?? :o
I guess he's smitten .. loll!

my weekend?? movies day out .. hehhee ... watched some movies n tht's pretty much :)

Yashita said...

lol...yup looks like it!!!

hmnn..maybe once the exams are done...I will...thanks:)

Nikita said...

I remembered something I have read before - We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension; and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm; childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations. That quote brought me to this new understanding. Truly, we change unevenly, partially, in layers. We may be brilliant to one and childish to another person all in the same breath.

What is important is that we stay connected despite the change. Beautiful and amazing, isn't it?

KL said...

Ah Keshi, you seriously meet some interesting people in your life, pal :):):)....

We are rich and beautiful because of our heart and not because of our wealth or outward appearance.

Keshi said...

~~Saby

u have fair skin na :)





~~Burf

lol was it a clone? hahaha good fun :)





~~Jewel_Rays

Im so glad ur 100%...hugggggggggz!





~~ChelseaJean

muahh babez thanks!





~~Uttara

**i will come there to be a kabab main haddi

lol wut was that? aww u MUST come na...I wud love that! Then we can fight in the woods with Raj..lol!





~~Archie

hehe yep she's married..

looks like u had a cool weekend, good on ya!





~~Yashita

good one ya Yash!





~~Nikita

**We are mature in one realm; childish in another.

WOW that's really a new finding for me...very very interesting! Thanks so much for sharing it with us here. That really makes sense why we may have maturity in one aspect and not in another...WOW brilliant stuff, thanks Niki!






~~KL

yes KL I can call my life is quite rich for having met even these kinds of ppl cos they teach me many things :)


**We are rich and beautiful because of our heart and not because of our wealth or outward appearance.

SO true! Thanks KL n u have a good day!



Keshi.

sittingnut said...

heyyy!
yes i did miss you.

yep in some cases...but there r some not so attractive ppl with very beautiful hearts too...so dun ever judge anyone by looks unless it's just for a crush :):)

true . will do .

Keshi said...

~~Sittingnut

:)

Keshi.

Tarun said...

hey u got to have SOME company na? :)
u r very far otherwise u could be a good company ;)

Keshi said...

**u r very far otherwise u could be a good company

awwwwwwwwwwww far in distance...close in heart :)

Keshi.

Maya Cassis said...

it's true,what you said
though beauty has a lot of benefits,even though everyone goes around saying..i look for a nice heart -they don't,after a while when the wrinkles set in..everything else that was built up on false claims vanish.

Keshi said...

~~Maya

yes u r right...especially guys who say they luv a beautiful heart r liars..lol!

**everything else that was built up on false claims vanish.

very true!

Keshi.