Monday, February 12

Blah Days

So much Love from all over the world! That last post made me realise that there are so many people who truly CARE. Thank you so much guys, I felt like my dad packed me an aeroplane full of angels and sent them down to Earth to keep me company :). You guys are just amazing! The energy that all your beautiful messages conveyed to me made me realise how blessed I am to have you all by my side. I can live with nothing now cos I have you, and that's all that matters. I love you guys!


My weekend wasn't all that bad. Sunday as planned was spent at a quiet Buddhist temple lighting lamps, offering flowers and thinking of dad. Then we met up with some friends and had lunch at their place. It was a peaceful Sunday. I had all of you in my prayers and thoughts. One other thing happened last week which I nearly forgot to tell ya. As I was walking down the street after work, guess who was driving down that same street? Mr.Darcy.
O well I'm not telling you that I'm missing him, but he did see me, and guess what I did? I pretended like I didn't see him and kept on walking elegantly (hoping and praying that I wouldnt trip and fall like an idiot) past his car wanting to make him feel like he missed out on a great deal LOL! Well I could sense him getting uncomfy in his seat hehe. Anyways that was it. I didn't have time to think about him when I went home, cos I was too busy talking to mum about him, telling him about what happened etc haha! Yeah that's me. btw mum had met Mr.Darcy's mum down the street last Friday and apparently she was invited to a family prayer ceremony at their house on Sat! Now none of us have ever been to their house before (even though I've known Mr.Darcy's mum for a very long time). So I told mum that it's totally upto her. I don't control my mum's social life. She can do whatever she wants to and after all, Mr.Darcy's mum is not a bad lady. She's really a wonderful woman. But my mum couldn't go as planned on Sat cos we had visitors over. In a way I'm glad about it. Cos I don't want Mr.Darcy to think that I'm still interested in keeping ties with him. Even though his mum invited my mum over, who knows what the rest of the family would think. And seriously I'd be better off with a suga-daddy!


O those friendship maths! I have (must be 'had' by now) a good friend. She and I have known each other for like 8yrs now. Well we sometimes meet up for dinner after work...perhaps once/twice a month. So as usual we planned to meet for dinner 2 weeks ago (at the time I was moving house). But I couldn't meet her as planned cos that night I had go go back home straight after work for an urgent matter, so I had to cancel dinner plans that morning (that was also the first Monday after Mr.Darcy and I ended it and I was feeling quite sucky). So I told her that on Mon morning that I won't be able to make it that night and I also told her about my crappy weekend with Mr.Darcy etc. She was so upset that I wasn't gonna meet up that night, and she just spat the dummy on me. Not even a single word was asked about how I was feeling about Mr.Darcy's crap etc or how my move was going. She just emailed me straight after that saying that she's really mad with me cos this was the 2nd time I cancelled dinner plans (yeah that's right...cos I had to cancel it one more time earlier cos I was flying out the next day for that wedding in NZ and I got very busy). Anyways I always give enough time for my friends when I cancel plans - it's not like I don't call at all/not turn up/make people wait for hours for me. While I agree I was slack and I was wrong, should it make a good friendship of 8yrs end forever? Cos she's not answering my calls/emails/txts at all for 2 whole weeks now and it's really not like her. Just what's with that? People have left me waiting for them for hours, some didn't even turn up as planned but I have still forgiven them (after being pissed off for few days ofcourse) and moved on. I was wrong here, I agree - I was wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong (gasping for breath now) but that doesn't mean I have to be crucified/jailed for it does it? Shit happens. I was sorry, I did say sorry to her, I had my very valid reasons for cancelling it, I told her early enough, she heard it, she lost it with me, she doesn't wanna talk anymore, she is being quite arrogant, well THAT'S FINE with me cos I'm quite used to that kinda crap from so-called 'friends' - friends who can't seem to think beyond themselves. And one more thing...she can go to hell.



Current Music: Lying Eyes by The Eagles

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azuka said...

I'm glad the day went by peacefully for you. I'd really love to visit a Buddhist temple, but as I hate traveling :-(.

Life's all about letting go. If she wants to end it, so be it. Alternately [as I believe], everyone you meet has a particular role to play in your life. Perhaps hers has ended.

Jay said...

Your "friend" is being very childish. You should tell her that.

I bet Mr. Darcy is still thinking about how much he screwed and what a dummy he is.

WRYTER 07 said...

Hi Keshi

I thought for a quick moment I was about to read The Return Of Mr. Darcy. A horror flic indeed.

I can believe an 8-year friendship can end over a petty thing. I've had it happen, and likely many others have relationships end the same way.

It is strange how some relationships can storm through the worse of times, only to break apart in the best of times.

With me, I lose guys when they see the plastic sheet. LOL You'll get this one after you read Passages. LOL

HUGS

Bev

Jewel Rays said...

Hello...

Glad to hear that u had a peaceful sunday. Lunch with friends on sunday always works..;)

I pretended like I didn't see him and kept on walking elegantly (hoping and praying that I wouldnt trip and fall like an idiot) past his car wanting to make him feel like he missed out on a great deal

lol ins't it always like that with us girl.we pretend like they don't exist to not kiss their stupid male egos which might explode if we do give them a hint. *rolls* at least u succeeded...He was uncomfy!! lol..


Honestly, had friend who cancelled on me at the last minute before.. It sucked bad but i chose not to blow up or u know get sulky. Not worth a seperation in a friendship. but there are times when it get tooo much i do let them know my unhappiness and often they are not very happy with what they hear. but there is definitely improvements..:)

But i surely know that its not worth a break up in the friendship for such petty matters..

hope ya friend cool down ..

Cheers & hugs..

Great to see ya smiling agian..

Boldnbeautiful said...

Good morning. Nice to see this lovely post.

Thank god u are now my old bubbly keshi :).

Mr Darcy;)
TC

musings (m000nie) said...

hey girl.. give her some time.. mayb more time.. things will get back to normal.. i know u've said sorry.. n now she's in the wrong for not forgiving u.. but i would still say that if she was and has ever been your true friend she'll get back to you.. hugss

southpaw said...

wish i was there down under....
i love ARROGANT girls, can i hv her id or a look at her...:D

KK said...

Well good to know that the weekend went fine... Chill it with your friend... I get totally pissed if they stop talking for some reason... I believe that if you have prob with me then talk it out... then only we can resolve it... no point stopping from talking... If I am guilty I say a apology once or twice but if they still refrain from talking then I just move on...

Sugarlips said...

Keshi Hugs :)

If your friend is sensible enough to understand then I'm sure she will be fine once she cools down :)

Stay Beautiful...!!

Aditi said...

I am glad u had a good enough weekend.. =)
oh my god.. i love the way u walked past mr darcy.. he deserved it.. i think i woulda totally tripped though..
About your friend.. I cancel on my friends all the time and the other way around.. its no reason to go ballistic.. i say if u're a friend u understand.. definitely if something like that had just happened to u .. u know?

Mehak said...

Hey Kesh...how are you doing?? I was away at my parents place for sometime..so cud not catch up with ur posts..had a lazy m/c with a terrible dialup there...Need to read sooooo many posts!!!!

tc..have a nice week ahead :)

~~ektaran

Seema said...

Haiii thereeee...Glad you had a peaceful day with a visit to the temple...

Hey n u know what...i am glad u did not notice Mr. Darcy..that really proves you have n you are trying at your best to forget that whole episode ! Great going...

Sure it felt nice sharing everying with Mom too...lovely gal !

Heyyy n on yr friend...i guess you have done your bit...u apologized n now just give her some time..may be she has something at her end too..so just leave it like that for the time being i guess..

Meanwhile you take care...love, seema

Cazzie!!! said...

Keshi, not much you can do if you had to cancel plans then you had to cancel plans and that is it. I have had to do this before, especially having the kids and all and it is just too bad, other things can be of more importance at that time.
If it is a true friend then they would understand you were truy sorry.

Saira said...

Hey Keshi...I have learned one thing in life...taht if god takes something from u...he definitely gives u something in place of that...afterall we are all his kids and he has to take care of us...
Well about seeing Mr darcy...i dont think u sud bother abt him anymore...and abt the frd...cant say much....some ppl are like that :)

Menchie said...

Am glad you had a peaceful weekend. As for your friend, maybe there's something else going on aside from the canceled dinner. But I think you've done your part in apologizing.

PrAcHi said...

Hope u feeling better by now keshi. Good to know that your weekend went well.

You got all these wonderful people because you are also a wonderful person :).
Mr. darcy.. But actually on the contrary I would say, you should have talked with him as if nothing happened btw you. Or rather to tell him that he is not that important for you that u will avoide him. But anyways I know it would have been difficult for you. I guess you did the right thing by not giving much importance to him. He disserves that.. Huhhh..

Your friend.. oh.. do you really think she knows what does a FRIEND means?? I can still understand she getting angry on you.. I mean that is considerable thinking that she really wanted to meet you and you cancelled. But not talking for two weeks?? Oh god.

I think friendship is a relation where you get all the freedom what you want to do. You can be yourself only with your friends and with noone else. I don’t think you need to give the explanation to your friend for what you do and what you don’t. They are supposed to understand it by themselves. I feel sad that your friend can’t understand your problems even after explaining it to her. And plus that’s so sick of her to end the friendship by such a stupid reason.

Anyways.. just let her go. She will come to you when she will know what she has lost by loosing a friend like you.

desperado said...

well maybe if you meet her face to face things may sort out...maybe she is not replying just cause she is embarrased too much by her behaviour on tht day...who knows what caused that behaviour..i wuld suggest talking in person

but ending an 8 yr friendship over a dinner date is plain stupid...on part of both of you :)....so i would suggest give it one more try Keshi...it will workd out hopefully

tulipspeaks said...

hugss darling. glad u had a peaceful weekend. :)

and thank goodness u didnt trip n fall in front of Mr Darcy :P

kekeke..


muuuaxxx


=ammu=

shammu... said...

heyy Keshiii!
glad to know the day went off peacefully..

"I pretended like I didn't see him and kept on walking elegantly" LOL!!i think i do that lots of times ;) ;),and u know it matches up with my name, sham=pretend,LOL!!
anyways, and ur friend, i guess she wil realise sooner or later that her behaviour was 'dumb'!! and maybe she mite get back to u..or else she is losing on a great frend i gues :)
anyways, i have had 'friends' who have stopped talkin for silly silly things, and whenever i have tried talkin back with them, they just dont respond..perhaps they are angry at theirselves to have hurt me,or they hate me..lol..i do feel low then but my big bro tells me,"y do u have to feel that way, there are lots of other ppl waiitn 2 b ur friend" ..LOL..but that does the trick i guess!!hehe..
anyways,Take care!! and Stay Blessed!

david santos said...

Helo!
Good day for you, Keshi. I`m in Portugal and love you perhaps.
Very good
Tank you.

Arun said...

hi keshi,

i think ur dad is always right next to u, encouraging u, comforting u, listening to u...coz he left this world sleeping right next to u...he is in ur heart & he with u always..

its good hear that u had a peacefully sunday. and coming to friends, yes some friends insensitive,selfish, ungrateful & rude...

i too had bitter experiences with some friends...but i have good friends also..its like this, all the fingers of a hand r not same... all the friends need not be or cannot be good friends...its the fact of life...

anyways, i answered ur question on my blog for 500 roses post..check it out...

hope u had a nice day

Arun

Arun said...

hi keshi,

i think ur dad is always right next to u, encouraging u, comforting u, listening to u...coz he left this world sleeping right next to u...he is in ur heart & he with u always..

its good to hear that u had a peacefully sunday. and coming to friends, yes some friends r insensitive,selfish, ungrateful & rude...

i too had bitter experiences with some friends...but i have good friends also..its like this, all the fingers of a hand r not same... all the friends need not be or cannot be good friends to us...its the fact of life...

anyways, i answered ur question on my blog for 500 roses post..check it out...

hope u had a nice day

Arun

Ganesh Ranganathan said...

Couldn't you have smiled at him...isn't there an chance that the relationship is not over as you think?

And I am guilty of sulking too when a friend cancels already set plans at the last minute, though it rarely happens. All my friends given an ample notice if there is any change in plans

Vikas said...

hello angel :)

iam back .....gr8 to see u laughing........just go one honey and smile simle simle for miles :)

Take Care
Vikas{V}

Jeevan said...

Glad u had a nice time in the Buddhist temple with your family.

Small misunderstand are normal with friends, but we should not get it go. We must stop the drama, and leave the ego and talk openly. If I get some understanding problem with my friends (years back), I don’t give space, as I love my friends I forgive the mistake its mine or those I go and talk normally. Hope she will understand u and talk soon…. Hugssss dear.

niki yokota said...

welcome back keshichan!
thank u very much for that nice eagle's song :) love it!
and im sorry abt ur fren. it happens sometimes..
i think the best way is to ask her for another meet up. she might say that she cant come or something. but she will feel better.
wat u did to mr. darcy is great!! hehe...

Sanjay said...

Glad the weekend was not bad at all. Sad that your "friend" decided to end things in a jiffy over such a small thing? We could all use some understanding.

:: The Protector :: said...

hey dear how are you? been long time... missed you all.... am back now...

tc..

Cheers
:)

Gledwood said...

Thank u very much 4your comment. I'm finally out of bed, finally at the computer. Feeling a bit better. So I'm slowly rejoining the human race. WB back in touch again soon,

all the best

Gledsx

Asha said...

A good friend, if she is really is a good friend, will understand and forgive and forget.If not,good riddance,get rid of her!You are better off!
Mr.Darcy,they don't change but they can pretend to be!!
Have a great weekend,suga' daddy or not!:d Hugs.

Shitrint said...

ouch! the last part was an angry one. but ur right in this case, if ur "frend" thinks the silent treatment will help then shes wrong. id say if shes really a frend she needs to be a lil more understanding. so wat if u cancel plans twice? its not a big thing...why dont ppl understand that sometimes some real big things turn up that cant be just ignored?!?!

take care kesh!
>:D<

Yashita said...

NOOO! I hate good friendships going sour :( This happens...friends expect more from us..specially if they are old friends,it's okay...let her be mad for sometime...mail her, she'll talk if she is really matured :) happens with me all the time...and yeah...am a little difficult friend too:D just some weeks back...my best friend got terribly busy with her USA plans and forgot to wish me on my birthday :( I was very very pissed with her...she cried and begged for forgiveness and I was like, okay I forgive you, it doesn't matter and all, she was expecting me to act all angry, throw tantrums like I always do...but I was so pissed that I just spoke to her like she didn't matter at all and that hurt her like hell...I even blocked her for two weeks on gmail :D...I know :) am a horrible friend...But all the while I was feeling terrible too...so One day I mailed her and said sorry and forgave her too,and incidentally, she too mailed me at the same time :) so, it's okay...if she is a good friend and worth having, and since you shared this friendship for the past 8 years, which is really great, then maybe you should let it go and initiate a conversation once more...it doesn't matter who starts the talking in friendship, does it? as long as the person is worth having...so don't give up so fast on this friendship,maybe she is difficult like me:D...maybe she will call you back, maybe she is waiting for one more call from you, maybe she is feeling terrible too...hope, you don't lose out on any good friends...take care:)

Eclipsed Thoughts said...

hmmm.... looks like KAP is pretty mad... hmmm... i think you shuodl tell your fren that its not worth losing a relationship for such a petty stuff...

She might have felt that she was taken for granted... give it a last try KAP... u never know what the both of you might be losing.

About Mr. Darcy.... lol.... i laughed when you said *** I pretended like I didn't see him and kept on walking elegantly (hoping and praying that I wouldnt trip and fall like an idiot)

Haha,,, enjoy babes.... muaaah

pink ginger 珂琳 said...

Glad to know that your sunday went well.

give her sometime, she needs time to cool down. I know your apology was sincere.

priya said...

Keshi: SOme people need to growup. They become very sensitive, possessive and feel you have to say all about you and other stuff. You can say few things but not all coz where is the privacy.

If she acts abnormal, you can't do other than by asking what all about. Some people like to hurt others coz they know others will come to them. Did you get the card I sent?

SamY said...

** As I was walking down the street after work, guess who was driving down that same street?

I guessed it right, just as I read that line :D. if ur mumbling so much bout that guy then u sure must have had quite a strong feeling for him ... those short and temporal

** hoping and praying that I wouldnt trip and fall like an idiot

actually I was hoping you'd say that something of that sort happened :D ... it would have been such a ROTFL situation ... gosh god's cruel :(

** She was so upset that I wasn't gonna meet up that night, and she just spat the dummy on me.

awww ... thats choo chweet :) ... gud friends can afford to do that keshi ;) ... some ppl have expectations and u can't explain to em ... they r humans too ... 2 playing hardball does get anywhere ... so u play cool ... friends r worth it

Anonymous said...

Its possible that she is going through a 'situation' in life that is not allowing her to react normally. Try to drop her a line, saying 'I am sorry about the screw up and I am even more sorry that you are upset. If there is more to this, lets talk it out'. You never know what will come out of it.
Give it a try.

BTW, love ur site. And *your* pics.

Suresh

starry nights said...

Hi Keshi..glad you had a nice peaceful day.I think your friend needs to get over it.You cannot break an 8yr old friendship over something petty as this.And you even apologized. I think she will come around. I am sure Mr darcy is hoping he will get another chance.

Top cat said...

I'm glad you had a quiet and peaceful sunday keshi.
I'm happy we your blogger friends could offer our love and support.

Your friend is being a baby.

Did mr.Darcy have permission from his mom to be out in his car?

Raghav said...

Arent friends supposed to be these creatures who understand and stand by their fellow friend-creatures no matter what ?

St. Dickeybird said...

You weren't in the wrong. Things happen, and plans need to be cancelled. You gave as much notice as you could, and it doesn't seem to be something you do often.
Your "Friend" is in the wrong.
:)

ann said...

I'm glad your Sunday was peaceful and went smoothly.

I'm sorry about your friend too. Maybe she also has some major problems herself and this is just a hiccup.

Be patient... true friendships are worth waiting for

Aidan said...

Before the serious part of this comment.... I LOVE THE EAGLES:) I saw them on the farewell tour in melbourne.... $225 a ticket.. but soo worth it, three hours of amazing music..

Definately an over reaction on her part.

It is so much easier being a guy, If you have an issue, you either hit each other after a couple of beers, or mention it in passing... Next day everything is back to normal, never hold a grudge, just back to mates.

Glad we could be there to cheer you up
Aidan

Keshi said...

Azuka I like wut u said.

**Alternately [as I believe], everyone you meet has a particular role to play in your life. Perhaps hers has ended

thats so true. ty!

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Jay 'childish' is the word.


lol @dummy!

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G'day Bev hows it goin?

** horror flic indeed

LOL haha! mebbe Part-2 of Fatal Attraction?


**It is strange how some relationships can storm through the worse of times, only to break apart in the best of times.

well-said Bev.


haha @plastic sheet. tnxxx for that great tip btw ;-)

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ty Amy Mwahhhhhh!


LOL @stupid male egos. yeah I did just that and I cud sense he was turning n lookin at me, and then pretending like he didn't see me haha. Well if he was walking too, I'd have def said HI to him. I have no feelings whatsoever for him hehe.


I know Amy even I get annoyed when ppl cancel plans in the last minute. But I never get upset when my friends tell me in advance. Anyways she has the right to be upset cos it was the 2nd time. I have apologised and even emailed/txted a couple of times asking wussup...she's not replying. Well now I'll give her some space. Let her call me if she wants to.

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awwww ty for checkin on me this way BnB...ur so sweet, HUGGGGGGGGGZ!

The reason why I bounce back to a happy mood is cos of all of u. Imagine my world without u all? goshhh it wud be sooo gloomy!

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m000nie thats right...I have done my part...now I'll give her some time n space. Lets see what she does.

tnxxx sweetie n huggggggggz!


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Southy wut wud u do if u were over here? Take me out for a drink or go see my friend? LOL!


**i love ARROGANT girls, can i hv her id or a look at her

she's way too arrogant...btw I dun have any pics of her on my pc :( sorry Southy.

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KK ur right...I mean we can TALK abt it right? But she doesnt wanna. Now I have just left her just like that. Let her come to her senses, if not adios.

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Thats right Suga. ty n hugggggggggz!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Aditi dear I was trying hard to look more 'sexaaaay' as I walked past him LOL!

yeah let my friend come bakk to her senses. And I'll let her take her own sweet time.

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Ektaran I missed ya HUGGGGGGGGGZ! WB!

So u were holidaying at ur parents' place? Thats cool.

Glad to have u bakk sweetie.

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Seema ty so much!

yes I talk alot with my mum..hehe we r more like good friends. Actually she's my best friend.

Mr.Darcy...o well I cant forget him that easily, cos he did leave some strong impression on me...he's different that the guys I have met. But yeah when he went with what his sis said, I was totally put off. thats why they say Looks are decieving :).

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Caz ur right...there r more imp things that suddenly turn up and then u'd have to cancel the less imp plans. Only if more ppl understood that :)

ty sweetie!

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Saira sweetie HUGGGGGGGZ!

**taht if god takes something from u...he definitely gives u something in place of that...afterall we are all his kids and he has to take care of us...

thats so true. God may have decided to take my dad sooner than we thought, but he sure gave me all of u angels!

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Menchie ty darl!

yeah mebbe she's having some other issues. I'll let time decide upon our friendship.


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Prachi ty dear HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

I wud have talked to Mr.Darcy if he was walking down the street too. But cos he was driving, there was no way I cud have stopped and said Hi. But nah, I have no probs in saying HI to him.


**I feel sad that your friend can’t understand your problems even after explaining it to her

True. I mean wut more can I do than explain to her what happened. She didnt even bother to ask how I am after that Mr.Darcy crap. Anyways, I cant expect anyone to comfort me either. Expectations lead to disappointments.

ty Prachi!

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Dhruv ur right. Talkin in person wud be better, tnxxx!

but I really dunno if she'd wanna talk...cos I have emailed/txted and if I ring her now, she mite even hang up. I dun want her to do that to me cos I hate ppl hanging up on me...it's something I dun like and wont easily forget. So I'd wait for her to email/txt me first. Wut say?

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hehehe Ammu nah I didnt fall...it cud have happened cos Im very much prone to accidents LOL!

hows u sweetie?

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heyy Shamzz ;-)


**y do u have to feel that way, there are lots of other ppl waiitn 2 b ur friend"

:) I think ur brother is spot on abt that!

HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

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heyyy my mate Dave in Portugal, a big wave at ya all the way from Australia! ;-)


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Arun hey ty! that was so sweet of u.

**coz he left this world sleeping right next to u..

awwwwwwww...what a beautiful thought. And thats so true, cos I felt that way too.

Friends r a difficult lot. Im not saying Im a perfect n easy friend either. Sometimes I can be really difficult too hehe.

I'll check ur blog soon, ty!

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Ganesh heyy!

**isn't there an chance that the relationship is not over as you think?

NOOOOOOOO :) Even if he comes bakk, I dun want him bakk at all. No wayz! He's proved himself to be someone I can never fall in love with.


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*****smilezzz**** @Vikas :)


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ty Jeevan!


yeah I do the same...I like to talk things over. o well lets see what she does.




Keshi.

Suryan said...

hi keshi
Sorry to hear about ur father. Somethings in life are irreplacable. The feelings will never go away. Sometimes u wish u forget everything. and sometimes u r glad its there. i mean the memories.
(Love is the reason why I'm alive)
me too keshi

Keshi said...

ty Niki!

o well I dun wanna ring/email/txt her anymore. I've done enuff. Lets see what she does now. I'll give her time n space and an orbit of she wants to lol!

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heyyya Sanjay mah matey hows u?


**We could all use some understanding.

Exactly. I mean its not like I burnt down her house is it...lol!


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heyyyyyy Vishnu HUGGGGGGGGGZ! I missed ya. WOW ur bakk. WB mate!


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hi there Gledwood!


**So I'm slowly rejoining the human race.

thats great :) And hey the human race isnt a very easy bunch to deal with but who r we to complain...lol cos we r all the same. So stay strong and face ur challenges. But be different ;-).

Have a good day!

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MWAHHHHHH Asha!

**If not,good riddance,get rid of her!You are better off!

LOL! Lets see what she does. I've done my part. I've even gone overboard. left too may msgs.

Can u find me a suga daddy? :):)

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Shitrint thats what Im saying too. I mean more imp things suddenly turn up and I'd never misunderstand a friend over such things. So why cant she understand me?

** if ur "frend" thinks the silent treatment will help then shes wrong.

thats right. Silent treatment dun take us anywhere. It's best to talk things ova.

ty sweetie!

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Yash HUGGGGGGGZ!

Yeah I know...even I dun want a good friendship to die just like that. Well thats what I kept calling her etc. She doesnt wanna ans. So it's really her problem now.


**even blocked her for two weeks on gmail

LOL u did that? gawwwwwwd Yash ur alot like me :):).

But Im glad u 2 worked it out. bdays r imp. And it hurts when good friends forget ur bday.

ur bday was 2weeks back? I didnt know :(


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KAP Im pissed off with her cos she's acting like a 6yr old fighting over toys n not talking for days. Thats ridiculous behavior for an adult.

**She might have felt that she was taken for granted...

yeah I agree. I accept hat I was wrong to have cancelled dinner twice, and I said sorry to her. More imp things come up KAP. And Im the one who was doing the Move by myself and had to organise alot of things that week. She has to u'stand that, doesnt she?

o well I'll see what she does. And I'll keep u all posted :). tnxxx babez!

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Pink_Ginger ty sweetie!


o well I u'stand she needs time to calm down...but it looks like she needs a year to calm down. LOL!


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Priya u sent me a card? awwww I didnt get it :( Which addy?

btw she can really go to hell..lol seriously. Cos she's pissing me off big time by her childish behavior.

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Samy hugggggggggz mah mate!

** u sure must have had quite a strong feeling for him

hehe ok at first i did...cos like I said b4, he was different compared to most guys that I have met b4. He was the ideal guy. Then he proved he wasnt hehe. He put me off big time by demonstrating his poor decision-making skills. :):)


awww Samy u wanted me to fall...LOL ur a mega meanie!


**gud friends can afford to do that

mebbe ur right...only very good friends wud do that. Well thats what Im giving her time...time to calm down and talk to me if she wishes to.

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Suresh hey WC n ty!

I liked what u said. mebbe I'll really try that. Sounds veru apologetic which is how I really feel.

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Starry ty sweetie!

** I am sure Mr darcy is hoping he will get another chance

u really think so? I dun. Cos he clearly stated that he doesnt wanna do this cos we r the same age. I mean why wud anyone go bak to such a thing? Anyways I dun cre what he thinks anymore Starry. Even if he comes bakk, there'll be a big NO from me.

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awwwww Top_Cat I love ur new profile pic!


**Your friend is being a baby.

she sure is.


**Did mr.Darcy have permission from his mom to be out in his car?

LOL hahahaha! That really cracked me up!! :):) U guys really cheer me up tnxxx!


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Raghav heyy!

**Arent friends supposed to be these creatures who understand and stand by their fellow friend-creatures no matter what ?

yeah they r 'supposed' to be like that. Then our ego plays a big part too.

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Dickeybird hey tnxx mate!

But she doesnt think that way...she has crucified me for 2 whole weeks now and I think it's high time that I come down from the cross!

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Ann ty and I'd like to think so too. Lets see what she does.

HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

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Aidan hows it goin mate?

**$225 a ticket.. but soo worth it, three hours of amazing music..

WOW! Im a huge fan of Eagles too. But I aint as lucky as u r...havent seen em LIVE yet. D u like REM? I went to their LIVE concert in Sydney few years back. Was just AWESOME!


**It is so much easier being a guy

Aidan thats so true! Girls become so touchy n J n wutnot...rolling eyes here!

:)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Suryan thats so true...sometimes u just wanna forget everything but u cant. I even wish for dementia :)

ty matey!


Keshi.

Outdoorsy Girl said...

About Mr. Darcy...I wish you many more opportunities to strut your stuff in front of him. May you always be a reminder of just how wonderful life could have been if he had chosen to listen to his own heart rather than try to please his family.

Your friend is being ridiculous! I know how disappointing it is for dinner with a friend to be canceled, but I'm sure you were disappointed that you had to cancel, too. I'm sure that you had much rather been with her chatting over some good food about how wonderful Mr. Darcy is.

But it didn't turn out that way. You were hurt over Mr. Darcy and needed some healing time. As your friend, she should have been concerned about you and what you were going through.

And no, this is NOT a viable reason for ending an 8 year friendship! What is she thinking???

Thumbelina said...

Hi Keshi,

Glad tat ur weekend was not full of tears... :)

**I felt like my dad packed me an aeroplane full of angels and sent them down to Earth to keep me company

- HeHe... Maybe he did? :)

**I had all of you in my prayers and thoughts

- Aww... Thank u!

**I pretended like I didn't see him and kept on walking elegantly (hoping and praying that I wouldnt trip and fall like an idiot) past his car wanting to make him feel like he missed out on a great deal LOL!

- HaHa.. i guess he must have felt awkward... Hmm.. Lucky u didnt trip & fall like me.. HaHa... If not would be the greatest clown of the year.. HaHa..

**I'd be better off with a suga-daddy

- Hmm... Something nice... Suga Dada will shower u with lots of gifts... :)

**She just emailed me straight after that saying that she's really mad with me cos this was the 2nd time I cancelled dinner plans

**Cos she's not answering my calls/emails/txts at all for 2 whole weeks now

- She sounds so childish... Reminds me of the days when i was still in primary school... (Hmph! I dun fren u anymore!) HaHa..

Since she's treating u like this, i dun see a point for u to worry abt her or think abt her... Just let her go to her & forget abt her.. Ppl like this dun deserve our care & love for them..

Take Care!

Thumbee a.k.a. Thumbelina

SaffronSaris said...

Hiya poppy-doll pearl, glad you had a peaceful day at the temple. Religious places have the power to make a person serene, most of the time.
That time I was in Istanbul in the Blue Mosque, the iman (or some helper at the mosque) told us we could go into the prayer area to pray, even though we weren't Muslims. He wasn't pushy like how some pastors can be, which gave me a really good impression of Islam.

Shionge said...

Yo Keshi, glad to read that you are feeling better now and hey, me and my family members went to the temple for prayers too ~ My Father & My Grandparents coz next week would be our Lunar New Year :)

Coming back to friendship Keshi, true frienddship stick through thick and thin and if she is behaving a such due to some cancellation of dinners has proven to you that she is not worth it at all.

In this case, better you stay with us online heheheh.....coz we might be not be able to have dinner together we engage sincerely for sure :D

Cheers to our frienship Keshi!

southpaw said...

Take me out for a drink or go see my friend? LOL!***See her and then take u out for a drink with a reason to celebrate...:)

she's way too arrogant***u r tempting me now...:D

Sreeharsha said...

Hey Keshi,
Good to hear that yu spent yur weekend nicely...Arre chodna yaar. Mr. Dorcy must be a dumb.
You know what, my Mom often says - Good things happen to Goog People :-)
Hope to see some joshful, thought provoking, & some naughty posts from you.... ;-)

Cheers

~Harsha

Vivhyd said...

I guess u will run into Mr Darcy often as u guys stay close.. so those will be some awkward moments no doubt.. but over time it will all be alrite

As for ur friend, well thats sad, she is being very childish I guess.. hmm.. well u dont have to get worked up too with the go to hell and stuff.. over time she will be ok and hopefully u both will be back as good frnds..

priya said...

Your hot mail only. May be its gone to junk coz first time when you from unknown it goes ther automatically.

Helen said...

Hey Keshi, I was glad and heartawarmed, too by all the love and warmth sent your way over the weekend. You are loved...

Don't forget the "reason, season, or a lifetime" mantra about friends. I'd write (yes hand-write) a good letter telling her how you feel, (honest feelings, not the "Oh Hecks no, you're not gonna walk on me hunny")and if she won't come around, love her for being in your life a season and let her go...(Ok, I'll crawl off my soapbox ;) ha ha) You're too kind to dwell too long...

Fleiger said...

Oh come on Keshi, 14th feb is here to get you back in the mood (we are expecting some nice posts about that now)...

As for your dad, like me and my friend was discussing just the other day, the people we love always live in our memories...

Keshi said...

ty Outdoorsy!

yeah may I be the eternal reminder of his jerkism LOL! btw each time I acome across him, it also reminds me that Im a mega jerk-magnet.


**but I'm sure you were disappointed that you had to cancel, too

thats right. I was really disappointed that I had to cancel dina with her.

Anyways let her sort it out herself now...cos the ball is in her court now.

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Thumbelina ty so much!

haha @clown!

Primary school indeed! I mean cmon, it's not like I robbed her little lunch LOL!

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Saffy it sure does feel great to be in a relgious place...so peaceful.

**I was in Istanbul in the Blue Mosque

WOW u have been to so many great places. btw I have never been to a mosque. U make me wanna visit one now.

ty sweetie!

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G'day Shionge!


**My Father & My Grandparents

awww I hope everything went well.


indeedz...we may not b able to have dina but we u'stand each other so much and we r having so much fun here, arent we. HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

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oii Southy hows it goin? btw I cant get to ur blog :( It gets stuck again. DO SOMETHING FAST!


**See her and then take u out for a drink with a reason to celebrate.

huhhhhh?? U'll see her first? BAAAAAAAWAAAAAAAAA!

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hey Harsha ty!


**Mr. Dorcy must be a dumb.

hehe not dumb...he's unable to make decisions for himself.

ty for the kind wishes Harsha! btw I cant get to ur blog either :(

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heyya Viv!

**well u dont have to get worked up too with the go to hell and stuff

LOL okkk :) Well wut wud u do if u send so many msgs and they dun reply to any? Obviously u'd be pissed na Viv?


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awww Priya...that must b wut happened. Im so sorry! I'll be on the look for any emails from u from now on. ty so much for that, n HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!


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Helen my sweet friend, hows u?

**Don't forget the "reason, season, or a lifetime" mantra about friends.

I know...I remembered that when I was thinking of her. But I cant believe it that she'd be a 'season' friend. Cos she's not like that. Well let me give her some time n see how she goes.

ty for that darl!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

U'll see a fatal Vals Day post from me soon Fleiger :)

yep ur right..the memories neva die.

Keshi.

southpaw said...

Getting stuck!!!! i havent put any new application except the new tag!

southpaw said...

maybe i hv put too many images thats why? but its opening lightening fast at my end.

southpaw said...

Yeah i wanna meet her first seduce her and later we can party on that....:P hahahahahaha

Kumar Chetan said...

As Mr Darcy is out I feel competition is bit lowered. Dont worry bout ur frend she will b ok. And what are you doing 2mro?

deepsat said...

hate to say it but looks like that Darcy family is a total "mistake" of nature!!!

u be care around them!!!

;-))

Keshi said...

Southy ur gonna seduce her? LOL ur gonna have a high n dry time then.

OMG u even forgot abt me :(

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aww Kumar LOL @competition.

Wuts tomorrow? huh? o its Sucky Day. Wut will I b doin? Well u'll see an extra hot lovey dovey post from me tomorrow...plz be here ok?? :)


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haha Deepz!

:)


Keshi.

Vivhyd said...

ya i wud be pissed too but i think if u both were frnds since 8 yrs u shd wait a little longer and persist.. if she still doenst repond then she can definitely go to hell :)

Jewel Rays said...

Well now I'll give her some space. Let her call me if she wants to.

:) Thats what i would do too..:)

Keshi said...

heyy Viv tnxx!

**if she still doenst repond then she can definitely go to hell

lol haha I like the way u said that :)

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ty sweet Amy!


Keshi.

Poo said...

hey Beautiful...how are you doing ? Smile always ;) i know you are already smiling while you are reading my message ;) heheheh

Ok ...you know what i had a friend ..and i Miss her even today ... she just stopping talking to me ...i really don't understand people sometimes
what does friendship mean to them?
They just hurt you!! and we are the ones who suffer here thinking about them ..happens just give her sometime ...if she your true friend she will call you if not ....:)) i am there na, amy is there and all the wonderful friends on Blog.

Take care ;))

Poo said...

and 8 yrs is a long time ... she should understand you yaar ;))

Keshi said...

I always smile when I read ur sweetest comments Poo HUGGGGGGGZ!

yeah I know..some friends r wierd...btw why did ur friend stop talking to ya?

ofcourse u and alot of other beautiful ppl r here as my life-long friends awwwwwww...ty!

Keshi.

The Phosgene Kid said...

I think your are safe here- I don't think you can crucify a Buddhist. Union rules or something like that.

I am getting ready for Lunar New Years - you are welcome to come out if you like, I'll even whip up a curry!!!

Poo said...

and according to me you should have talked to Mr Darstink... just you know Kuch nahi hua types.... just pretending he was just a bad dream and make him feel bad about it.

Neihal said...

Mr. Darcy aint Mr. Darcy Keshi, he's just some guy :)
and yeah this friend is acting kiddish...maybe she will cool down in some days..:)

Poo said...

its the same one with my recent post ... and you know what i must confess i really miss her she was a very nice person but ...

Keshi said...

Phos its high time she gets me down from the cross :) Buddhist or not, I feel like I was crucified hehe.

Curry? WOW! So now Phos-the-great-American-chef is becoming a curry muncha? ;-)

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aww so that was abt her Poo? o well just do what Im doin...keep quiet for a while n see how it goes.


**Mr Darstink

LOL I like that name! Well if I met him down the street face-to-face, I'd have def said HI. He wud too.


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Neihal hey tnxx!

**Mr. Darcy aint Mr. Darcy Keshi, he's just some guy

high time I get that thru my head ha :) ty sweetie!


Keshi.

Ash said...

Glad to know you had a peaceful Sunday!

kavya said...

I think its time to go n meet her...an 8 year old friendship shud not end like this.

take care
hugs!!

Deepak Gopi said...

Nice to know that the day went peace fully.
This part of India doesent have Buddist temple,But I am planning to go Bylakoope soon.

Drama Div@ said...

keshi,

Take it easy, girl... it's normal. Every friendship has its ups and downs. It's like a rollercoaster ride. Yeah, you should give her some time...

take care.

p/s: I wish today was Friday!

Southpaw unplugged said...

Southy ur gonna seduce her? LOL ur gonna have a high n dry time then.***I hv seduced some of the most diff gals one can ever think of, i m sure she is not that tough to crack...

I didnt forgot abt u, i'll seduce u while we party and then head for the woods, i still havent forgotten that...:P

Nora said...

Keshi, honey, true friends do NOT end an 8 yr friendship over a cancelled dinner. They understand that sometimes, life just gets in the way...
True friends also realise when their behaviour is inappropriate and they correct it.
This gal definitely owes you an apology! x

vinay said...

People come into your life for a reason..season or for a lifetime!! guess that says it all!! cheers!!

PS: i have seen u in most of the blogs i visit!!!!when i am bored and with no work to do..i read blogs....and i feel u do the same as well!!!!!! tc..

Ganesh Ranganathan said...

From what you wrote about him previously, 'your' Mr. Darcy doesn't seem that bad a guy.

Indecisive - YES, Unlovable - NO...

Cant you guys sort it out? What happened to happy endings??

awaiting said...

She can go to hell is right.

Who needs selfish people around them anyway.

She is the one missing out in the end...because Keshi, you are one PHENOMENAL WOMAN!! :)

uttara said...

after people giving u gyaan abt how tobehave n stuff lemme not add up u know wat i wud say.. kick her ass n tell her to FO..lol


raj n keshi...
u guys going seducing ppl n stuff n forgot completely abt me huh???
LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

SaffronSaris said...

Hiya poppy-doll pear, moi just realised u visited SaffronShots and commented. U're so sweet! Muack!

Silvara said...

Hey Keshi,

Hehe....ohh I bet Mr. Not-so-Darcy is rueing the day he let you go. Sigh...well you know my thoughts on him lol.

The friend - maybe she had a bad day too which is why she was so childish and rude. Maybe now she is embarrassed to call you over it. Or...that she really is childish and rude lol. If she is a friend she'll get over it lol. I not...well...

Keep smiling Keshi !!

P.S. Will you be my Valentine?? *blush* :P

The Grunt said...

Keshi, sorry that your friend is being difficult. You need her support, not this. I hope that she comes around.

Arun said...

this is nuts keshi, i guess this is the second time both of our thoughts crossed

i remember first one it was about Anti Valentines day topic Now its about ur dad.... :-)))

anyways..hope u had a good day

Arun.

alex said...

When people expect a lot from someone and it doesn't happen, they get hurt. This is what happened. It isn't your fault.

:)

Poo said...

"it takes years to build up trust
but only seconds to break it".... well you know what may be after few days u can just give her a call .... 8 yrs of friendship is a long time ...she just can't break it like this.

I am sure everything will be fine... she needs some fresh air ;) and then she will be back.

Poo said...

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY dearest Keshi

Valentine treasures are people who
have often crossed your mind,
family, friends and others, too,
who in your life have shined
the warmth of love or a spark of light
that makes you remember them;
no matter how long since you’ve actually met,
each one is a luminous gem
who gleams and glows in your memory,
bringing special pleasures,
and that’s why this Valentine comes to you:
You’re one of those sparkling treasures!

Has to be me said...

Sorry 2 note abt ur dad dear. Im glad the day went peacefully in a temple for u. Huggzzz....

talldarkman said...

Happy Valentine's Day keshi...:)

talldarkman

Michelle said...

story of my life...

Arz000n said...

Yeah...yeah....
your dad sure sent loads of Angels in an aeroplane and you know wht??

I was the pilot of the plane...and I made sure that everyone was able to land in Sydney safely :D

Heheheh....

Glad to hear that you had a nice weekend K000kie masta :)

and ahem...ahem...bumping into Mr. Darcy....yummm yummm :D

Good luck...

The Phosgene Kid said...

I use a red or green curry paste,thinly sliced chicken, some Thai basil, julienne bamboo shoots, and coconut milk. Good stuff! Speaking of good stuff when are we going to get to see some more Keshi Pictures?

christabelle said...

many people will walk in and out of your life only true friends will leave a mark on your heart, thats it dear.

Hey sweetiepie have a lovely vals day.

Take care

Meg said...

Hey Keshi Girl,
I just want to say - you are just the most special person around. I hate when I don't have time to fully take in all that you write - so, I always make sure that I save you for when I truly have time.

Your last post touched me. Wow, girl - what a tribute!

This post has also, in a different way. I am not sure how you write things exactly how I've been thinking, but that happens frequently.

Your a blessing girl, a true blessing!!!!

Meg

Dalicia said...

yeah..life is such...also remember we're not perfect ourselves....
in an ideal world...we want to get along and be happy.


hardest thing is letting things go.
frienship shouldn't be about just that one person. it's about sharing

happy v-day to you :)

Ghost Particle said...

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY KESHI.

Since ur far far away, I jst wanna tell you that Im eating 12 ferrera roche's on ur behalf.

Thanx :p

AnonymousBlogger said...

Glad to hear your weekend went well, all things considered.

I'm guessing Mr.Darcy will regret his decision for some time to come. Maybe he will try and win you back. What would you say then?

Odd about the lack of communication from your friend. No matter what the case, there is never any need to ignore someone. If she's mad and doesn't want to speak to you, then she should tell you that.

Maybe there is a reason you haven't heard from her?

KK said...

Right thing to do Keshi... use that time to find someone for the V day :)
Have a great V day :D

Keshi said...

Ash ty!

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Kavya I will call her today n see how she is...ty!

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Deepak ty!

**This part of India doesent have Buddist temple,But I am planning to go Bylakoope soon.

where is that?

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Diva heyy yeah Im gonna call her today :)


**p/s: I wish today was Friday!

I dun long for Fridays anymore...I just enjoy any day :)

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Southy heyy!

**I hv seduced some of the most diff gals one can ever think of, i m sure she is not that tough to crack...

uh oh u dunno this girl...thats what ur saying it :):)


**I didnt forgot abt u, i'll seduce u while we party and then head for the woods, i still havent forgotten that...:P

LOL! Its Vals Day today...so how abt going to the Woods today?


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Nora heyy!

**They understand that sometimes, life just gets in the way...

Exactly.

ty sweetie!

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Vinay WC!


**People come into your life for a reason..season or for a lifetime!! guess that says it all!! cheers!!

so true.


**PS: i have seen u in most of the blogs i visit!!!!when i am bored and with no work to do..i read blogs....and i feel u do the same as well!!!!!! tc..

hehe thats right :)

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hello Ganesh!


**Indecisive - YES, Unlovable - NO...

na I cant love a guy who suddenly put breaks on his so-called undying Love for me, just cos of us being the same age! Thats very shallow.


**Cant you guys sort it out? What happened to happy endings??

Even if I cud sort it out, those first impressions of him wont allow me to move on. Im quite stubborn myself hehe.

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Tasha babez hows u?

**She can go to hell is right.

LOL ur like me.


**She is the one missing out in the end...because Keshi, you are one PHENOMENAL WOMAN!! :)

hehe I dun think she thinks of me that way anymore :(

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Uttsy mwahhhhhhhh!

**after people giving u gyaan abt how tobehave n stuff lemme not add up u know wat i wud say.. kick her ass n tell her to FO..lol

LOL hahaha!


**raj n keshi...
u guys going seducing ppl n stuff n forgot completely abt me huh???

nah it aint me...Raj wanna seduce my tough nut friend LOL!

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Saffy yeah u have beautiful pics there sweetie.

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Silvara hello sweetie hows u?


**ohh I bet Mr. Not-so-Darcy

LOL haha good one!


**If she is a friend she'll get over it lol. I not...well...

she better ha.


**P.S. Will you be my Valentine?? *blush* :P

LOL I asked the same Qn from my cuzn in NZ this morning...she said WHY NOT. ROFL! awwww ofcourse I'd be ur Valentina...hahaha!

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G'day Grunty!


**You need her support, not this. I hope that she comes around.

I hope so too. tnxx mate!

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Arun hello!


**this is nuts keshi, i guess this is the second time both of our thoughts crossed

lol yeah! great minds u see ;-)


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Alex hows u?


**When people expect a lot from someone and it doesn't happen, they get hurt. This is what happened. It isn't your fault.

well yeah...but I must say I was wrong cos I cancelled it twice. I can u'stand her being pissed abt it hehe.

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heyy lovely Poo MWAHHHHHHH!


**"it takes years to build up trust
but only seconds to break it"....

thats right.


**she needs some fresh air ;) and then she will be back.

prolly.


**HAPPY VALENTINES DAY dearest Keshi

awww ty babez HUGGGGGGGGGZ! And same to u. Wut u doin today?


**each one is a luminous gem
who gleams and glows in your memory,

wow thats so beautifully put.

same goes to u...u r so lovable and so precious. ty for being in my life Poo!

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Has_to_be_me heyyy hows u?

ty so much for ur kindness.


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Tally OMG Happy Valentine's Day to u too! I miss ya man!


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helllo Michi

**story of my life...

lol! Friends can be daunting ha.


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z00nie heyy :)

**I was the pilot of the plane...and I made sure that everyone was able to land in Sydney safely :D

haha yeah thats right...ty for that!


**and ahem...ahem...bumping into Mr. Darcy....yummm yummm :D

wuts so YUM abt it? LOL!

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heyy Phos!


**I use a red or green curry paste,thinly sliced chicken, some Thai basil, julienne bamboo shoots, and coconut milk.

that sounds really yummy!


**Good stuff! Speaking of good stuff when are we going to get to see some more Keshi Pictures?

hehe soon. How abt another nekked nekked Thursday? ;-)

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Huggggggz Chris where have ya been?

**many people will walk in and out of your life only true friends will leave a mark on your heart, thats it dear.

so true!


Hope u have a lovey dovey day too :)

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Megzzy MWAHHHHHHH babez!


**I just want to say - you are just the most special person around.

OMG thats such a sweet thing to say. ty Meggzy! I believe we all r special in our own unique way.


**I am not sure how you write things exactly how I've been thinking, but that happens frequently.

cos we all have similar probs in life sweetie.


**Your a blessing girl, a true blessing!!!!

u too! All my friends here r a great blessing to me. I will never forget that.

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Dalicia hows u sweetie?


**also remember we're not perfect ourselves....in an ideal world...we want to get along and be happy.

thats so true!


**hardest thing is letting things go.frienship shouldn't be about just that one person. it's about sharing

very true. well nowadays I have learnt to let go..not hold on to some issue for too long. its quite liberating to do so.

Happy V-day to u too babez!

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Ghosty ty n wud u be my eValentine? :) :) HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!


**Since ur far far away, I jst wanna tell you that Im eating 12 ferrera roche's on ur behalf.

LOL not fair! Leave me some chocs in my comment section here.

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hiyyya AB!


**I'm guessing Mr.Darcy will regret his decision for some time to come. Maybe he will try and win you back. What would you say then?

not really. If he's da kinda guy who wud have any feelings for me, he should have txted me by now...atleast asking how I am.


**Maybe there is a reason you haven't heard from her?

true. I'll be calling her today. tnxxxx AB!

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KK hows u? Any pending proposals today? ;-)


**use that time to find someone for the V day :)

hehe find someone for V-day? I'd have to go visit the Jail then. :):)



Keshi.

Poo said...

hey i am doing nothing today actly he is busy with his work so both are working :(

Everyday is a valentine day so thats fine ;) when i am with him that the best time and that is what matters

Miss ya take care and have fun:)

KK said...

Mez gud :) No pending proposals man... another year down the drain :(

**hehe find someone for V-day? I'd have to go visit the Jail then. :):)
Why you date a convict or what??? :D

White Forest said...

hey keshi ...very happy V day!

Keshi said...

aww Poo...well something romantic mite happen this weekend then :)


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KK thats the kinda men I attract...losers n jerks LOL!

didnt u know Im a jerk-magnet?

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heyy Forest ty and same to ya!




Keshi.

Sreeharsha said...

Keshi,
Ususally I blog in Kannada, my mother tongue. But dont worry, henceforth will translate n mail you. You can send me a test mail to my email Id - sreeharsha.bg@gmail.com

Have Fun

~Harsha

Keshi said...

Harsha ty! I tried comin to ur blog, it never worked :( Shows me some error.


Keshi.

--Sunrise-- said...

Whoo…



Very fiery… lol… I know the feeling, only with a "cousin" of mine… and it wasn't the same situation as yours, but it was similar… we were really really good friends for such a long time… then she started telling me some things, expecting me to go with her point of view – I got a little pissed off (lol, as I told you in my comment on this previous post… I hate being told what to do/how to be – that's for ME to decide) and told her (a little rudely, I admit… ooops.) to back off. And she decides she shouldn't talk to me anymore… seriously, wtf? Whatever… if they don't want to hold out to this hand that has been extended for them, then that is their loss, not ours, right? I've dropped the hand now, but if she ever asks for it.. I will bring it back up for her.. but it has to come from her – I've had enough.



Lollll sorry about this lil ramble… :D

Keshi said...

heyy Sunrise there r narrow-minded ppl everywhere rite...


** if they don't want to hold out to this hand that has been extended for them, then that is their loss, not ours, right

Spot on!


Just like ur friend, this girl is also just dragging it for no reason. She can come bakk to me if she wants and I'll ofcourse take her bakk. But like u said, it's upto her to come back. Im not gonna beg her again.


Keshi.