Friday, May 25

Crappy And Happy

~~Crappily Ever After~~

A question for you:

What do you think is the world's worst invention- the crappiest ever?

My Answer:

Man-made WEAPONS. It serves only one purpose...for harming another being be it for self-defense or not. Would you need a gun if you have a conscience?


Apart from weapons, there are few other crappy inventions such as Revolving-doors that make me bang my head sometimes (why can't we just use a normal door?), Clothes-driers that waste energy when the sun can do that for us, Soup cos it never fills me as it's supposed to (here the problem could just be my greed), Paris Hilton cos she's Paris Hilton ('you should live everyday like it's your birthday', a Paris Hilton quote FYI) , Keyboard cos I can't hand-write beautifully anymore, Big Brother TV show cos it gives a new and extensive meaning to DUMB (waste of dictionary space), Plastic Surgery/Botox programs cos they make people lose their marbles along with whatever they want to lose/gain (with Plastic-surgery I could be marrying a guy with false parts you know and I could be eating pieces of plastic yukkk!), Money cos it wrecks relationships, Religion and Race cos they are the reasons behind all kinds of disputes today, Borders cos they help diminish humanity. I can go on.


(this first pic is of a real woman who had plastic surgery done on her. I'm sorry to say this, but to me she looks like a horror flick come alive. Wouldnt she have looked much better before this? I mean anything is better than this!).



~~Happily Ever After~~

This weekend an old friend of mine is getting married. She and I had a tiff long time ago. The fault was her's...she hurt me in a shocking manner and then apologized for it - it was big drama (I'm saying the exact truth here whether you wanna believe me or not that it was her fault ). Anyways, after that our friendship wasn't at it's best. You know how you can never go back. Well it was like that between us but we still said our hellos etc. Then last month I heard she was getting married. She's much older than me and I thought she's a matured person. We were good family friends too. Well she invited everyone in our friend circle to her wedding tomorrow, except me. Everyone's ringing me asking if I'm going to be there tomorrow and they are all shocked that I wasn't invited. Well she chose not to have me witness her happy moments. I really don't get that. Not that I'm desperate to go to a wedding, but we had alot of good times than that one sour experience. I can't understand how some people carry grudges through their entire lives yet call themselves devoted to God, good people etc etc (she and her family are extremely God-loving). My mum and sis were very close to them too...so if she didn't want to invite me, what about them? If I was getting married, I'd have definitely invited her whole family though they hurt me big time - yes big time. I think it's during one's happiest times that you can tell if you are wanted in their lives or not. I guess with her, I'm not wanted anymore. Anyways I wish G and her fiance all the LOVE in the world and may the 2 of them have wonderful, love-filled, happy and joyous years together in each other's company! I'm not going to be there at her wedding tomorrow but I can wish her in my blog can't I :). Live it up beautiful bride! This song is for the new couple.



Happy (but not a crappy) weekend guys!



Current Music: All My Life by KC & Jojo

116 Cranium Signets:

Anonymous said...

Long long ago,God used to live in this very world amongst the people. Everyone was reaching out to him with their problems.Soon they became so dependent on him for solving each and every problem of their’s ,that they stopped trying on their own and started pestering him too often to get ready made solutions.

One of God’s angles pointed this out to Him and advised him to leave to a less populous, infact the most solitary abode, on the top of the Himalayan ranges.But God refused as he knew that Edmund Hillary and Sherpa Tensing would soon reach there too and then again his whereabouts would be revealed and the crowd would start rushing up there to him once again.

Ultimately, he had an idea.He had already witnessed that Man was always seeking outside himself for everything. So He decided that the safest harbor would be to get inside the heart of Man.

And there he remains till today, undisturbed.

http://thetwobits.blogspot.com/

Jim said...

it dont matter that u r not invited
Gate Crash

i think u shud do it Keshi
that is what we all expect from u

Gate Crash
Give your wishes to the bride and groom


and walk away

Jim said...

to add to the list


bleach
hair curlers

wonder bra
Viagara

dildos and vibrators
whips and hand cuffs

annonymouse blockers
comment moderators

Jim said...

better still
seduce the bridegroom

get him on your hoss
and ride away into the sunst

WP2007 said...

Hi Keshi

We think alike. You'll see when you read my blog--last post too.

I can never get an electric can opener to work. It might be me.

LOL

Just saw Depp's new Pirate flic. It's worth the price of the ticket.

Grudges leads you quicker to your death.

How's that?

LOL

Bev

Anonymous said...

there is no more potent weapon than an erect penis
or a woman on heat



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Helen said...

Hi Keshi, I've been incredibly busy, so I'm just saying hi to you here rather than ignoring other comments on my post. Sorry I haven't written lately, it's just that godawful busyness that I've been dealing with, you know? I miss you : ) and writing to and hearing from you often. Take care!!

Great post, by the way, I have often pondered our "dependence" on things that really do not fulfill the shelter, food, water, love need in all of us (b/c I really think that love is as important as the other three). I would have to say the most deprivating innovation has been the use of non-renewable fuels for our primary energy.

Jay said...

The worst invention ever is those damn video game machines. Kids today just sit around and play those games all afternoon and night long. They never get outside, they don't read books. Nothing. They just play those games and get fat. Terrible.

The Phosgene Kid said...

It's not the weapons so much as the people the wield them. I've been around some pretty powerful weapons in my time and came to no harm. I didn't pull the trigger, just held the gun, so to speak.

A more diabolical invention is the cell phone. Once again the phone isn't bad in and of itself, but the people who insist upon yakking whilst they drive are a menace to society.

Jewel Rays said...

lol i love the one on plastic surgery. Got me cracking.:P

Keyboard ..hehe.call me abum. I love keyboard. so easy to drop my thoughts abt when i need too. The speed is awesome.:P

I love the song Keshi.



*hugs*

chocolteluva said...

i agree with the weapons and boundaries and religion and plastic surgeries and all of the above. although plastic sugery was really invented for people with burn injuries. when you have over 30 % of ure body burned.. u need plastic surgery.. i mean yes its ok to live with scars, but trust me YOU DONT WANT TO.
it was later perfected by idiots who love them selves..
and etc.. etc..
___________
its petty of ure friend for not inviting you. i believe the same thing.. happy moments like that should be shared with everyone, especially with someone that you used to be close to. LIFE HAPPENS.. ppl piss each other off, but certain things like weddings, babies, engagements - should be told to all.. u know?

Keshi said...

Nice one Anony tnxx!

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hey Jim!

**Gate Crash
Give your wishes to the bride and groom

no I wont do that. Wut if they dun wanna see me at their most imp day?


**bleach
hair curlers

I cant see they r a major issue.

**wonder bra
Viagara

lol!


**dildos and vibrators
whips and hand cuffs

hmmm...


**annonymouse blockers
comment moderators

yes!! I gotcha :)



**get him on your hoss
and ride away into the sunst

so u want em to HATE me now? LOL!


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Heyy Bev my partner in crime :)

** electric can opener

lol!


**Depp

I can just watch him all day ahemmm irrespective of the price of the ticket.


**grudges

I agree. :) tnxx hun!

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Anony heyy!

**there is no more potent weapon than an erect penis
or a woman on heat

so r u saying they r crappy inventions?

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Helen aww u busy bod HUGGGGGGGZ!

Love is so needed but the least tried.

**I would have to say the most deprivating innovation has been the use of non-renewable fuels for our primary energy

I totally agree! Good one there.

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Jay heyy!

**video game machines

yes, how can I forget em!


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True to a certain extent Phoso.

**but the people who insist upon yakking whilst they drive are a menace to society.

OMG I so know such ppl. So annoying!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hey Amy ty!

**love keyboard. so easy to drop my thoughts abt when i need too

I agree..but it has also wrecked my hand-writing :)

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Choco I agree...plastic surgery is a must for Burns victims. I have seen a TV programme abt a burnt boy named SAFARI. A lil African boy. He was perhaps 95% burnt and was treated in Sydney. Amazing how his face looks now and Im so very happy for him!

Abt the wedding...same feelings Choco. Unless u had a major fight tearing each others' hair out, I see no reason for contempt.

tnxx!


Keshi.

Jewel Rays said...

oh yeah i forgot to mention that i read abt tht lady you posted on ya post 2day.

Read that she did that to look like the cats she has.

Crazy!!

Aditi said...

i like your list of worse inventions but i keep thinking if man hadnt invented those then man would have invented something equally or more destructive...and yet the worse is still to come

Menchie said...

would have to agree with weapons of mass destruction and video games as Jay said. totally useless.

Keshi said...

Amy wuts this lady's name?

**cats

I have neva seen a cat like this b4. I wonder where she got her cats from! btw I thought I love cats eeeeeeeeeee!

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thats so true Aditi..MAN is obsessed with inventions...in that process he has forgotten to look deeper inside of him for real treasures.


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ty Menchie!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

lolz I just realised that not many ppl read the entire post...just a skim of the top n they r gone :):)

tnxx anyways!

Keshi.

Kavi said...

Money ! Thats perhaps the biggest wrecker of them all.

For the wedding: Would suggest, go anyway ! But you know best !

homo escapeons said...

You really have some zingers out commenting tonight Kesh!
the twohobbits.blogspot.com?

Any invention that can do something positive for us can be used to harm someone.
That is what we do.

I have been watching poor Heirhead Paris slowly weasel her way into a reduced amount of jail time...
someone said that she could sell pictures of herself in jail for $500,000 a pop ((sigh))

Jewel Rays said...

lol @ ya comment.

I can't remember her name. Read it long ago.

She doesn'tlook like a cat exactly but check out her eyes and cheeks.

I read ya comment on the ending part of the post. I read it all lady. I didn't knw how to put my say so i didn't say nething.

will try now.;P

It must be the suckiest feeling ever to be in ya place and to have a friend invite everyone except me. It hurts. But i am amaze by ya spirit in still wishing her good wishes. Its impressive and really pretty.

U are pretty..Thats what i meant Keshi.

*remember my hug tomorrow if anything.

*Hugs*

Sorry to not said earlier.

Hope it encourages you gurlie.

~Jewel

Keshi said...

Kavi thats right.

btw i cant go to the weddding uninvited Kavi. Cos it seems they did it intentionally (cos they have invited all the friends except me), so I really dun wanna be where Im not appreciated.

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lolz HE @2hobbits! Gotta check that out.


**Any invention that can do something positive for us can be used to harm someone.

I agree!


**someone said that she could sell pictures of herself in jail for $500,000 a pop

see its all abt the money ha!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Amy!

Love having u over here again n again..it's a privilege for me :) HUGGGGGGGGGZ!

**She doesn'tlook like a cat exactly but check out her eyes and cheeks.

To me she looks like a wild zebra gone brown. Sorry but thats the truth.


**I read it all lady. I didn't knw how to put my say so i didn't say nething.

awww its OK sweetie. I just said that for fun hehe. U do have a pushy friend here dun u LOL! hugggggggz!


**It must be the suckiest feeling ever to be in ya place and to have a friend invite everyone except me

yes it hurt alot. Yday I was feeling horrible. I mean even now when she meets me somewhere else, she hugs me etc. And Im like why did she choose me to be left behind. There must be a reason. Anyways tnxx Amy u made me feel much better and thats how I wanted to feel. TY!


Keshi.

niki sato said...

keshi-chan, i wud be happy if my frens dont invite me to their wedding :)
coz we must pay USD$200-300 for it as a custom.
well said at weapon!!

Keshi said...

And hey Amy plz dun apologize for not saying anything abt that bit b4. Its upto u to read and comment on whatever u feel like and I totally u'stand that ok? HUGGGGGGGGGZ! :)

Just ignore my silly tanties LOL!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Niki heyy!

**coz we must pay USD$200-300 for it as a custom.

thats ridiculous. Who made that law?


Keshi.

dharmabum said...

bed to disagree about that bit about religion. religion shows man the way to god. that fact that it has been grossly misinterpreted is only man's fault.

i'd rate the worst invention, like always, as underwear :D

Jewel Rays said...

***Just ignore my silly tanties LOL!

Heyz at least u let ya thoughts be known. I appreciate it sweets. ;) I am glad u did..:P there are times when iw onder people read my whole post too..lol! Oops. Secrets out in da open!!hehe..

***To me she looks like a wild zebra gone brown. Sorry but thats the truth.

hehehe..No sorries baby!! as long she doesn't hear it. Meow!! Scratch!

***Love having u over here again n again..it's a privilege for me :) HUGGGGGGGGGZ!

Its been a while since we got crazy. i needed it.;D


***I mean even now when she meets me somewhere else, she hugs me etc. And Im like why did she choose me to be left behind. There must be a reason.

Its weird since she hugged ya and stuff. Really weird indeeds. She's probably not over it. haiz. Some people just probably find it hard.

Keshi, I am glad to hear u felt better cause it makes me perkier too!! Weeee~~~

Lets go for a ride!!

LOL!! hope that doesn't sound wrong:P

Jewel rays HUGS~~!!

Srijith Unni said...

That`s so nice of you, Keshi..!
At least you didn`t hold a grudge..
I`m back after some time, with a tag for you.. Don`t know whether you`ve already done it, but still.. :)

Have Fun, Take Care and Happy Weekend to you too.!

With Best Regards,
Srijith.

Keshi said...

hey Dharma hows u?

**bed to disagree about that bit about religion. religion shows man the way to god. that fact that it has been grossly misinterpreted is only man's fault.

To a certain degree I agree with u that religion shows man the way to God. But it has also made man become an animal. I know that some ppl misinterpret religion, but isnt that due to the fact we have something called RELIGION, all gropued into being Hindus, Muslims etc etc? What if we dun have that grouping? If we all believe in one God?


**i'd rate the worst invention, like always, as underwear :D

lolz there u go again. Why d u hate undies? I cant live w.o. em!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

awww Amy ur always such a caring friend. HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

I'd hate to imagine myself running down the street being chased by that woman. EEEEEEEEEEERIEE meowwwww! :)


**She's probably not over it. haiz. Some people just probably find it hard.

I think so too. She's just not over it. U nailed it. Thats what it is!!


**ride

lol ok count me in hun! I'd love to roam ard with ya Amy...I really dream of it :):)

Have a beautiful weekend luv!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Srijith grudges makes u old n ugly..thats why I avoid em LOL!

I commented in ur blog regarding the tag :):)


Keshi.

fergal said...

the fuc#en internet!!! ;-D
~

Keshi said...

o nooo Ferg I love the net! :) if not by now there wud be roses growing over my grave.

Keshi.

Jewel Rays said...

;)

MONA said...

My God! What the heck!

Yes I wrote that on my blog once!
I wonder who is this anonymous quoting me!

Please show yourself!

Keshi! I didnt know what you were talking about so I came here to see what the matter was.

I see what you mean now!

Keshi said...

tnxx Amy muackkzz!


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Mona so it wasnt u?

Was it ur words copied from ur blog?



Keshi.

MONA said...

Please check post #2 on my blog Keshi.
But I guess whoever did that was just answering your question in the end & as he/ she seems to have quoted the source, the intent was obviously not malignity.

Geet said...

hey Keshi!

Haven been here in loong.
Hope you're doing well:)

And the plastic surgery pic got me!

Makes good tv though, I always end up watching Extreme MAkeover, riveted to my seat, just so I can see what they look like past all the pain, gore and infection.

But yes, I do agree that it has immense benefits for those who need to reconstruct their bodies and faces.

HAve a good weekend ahead!

Anonymous said...

Psssttt guys
MONA looks hott in a sari



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Keshi said...

Thats right Mona. As long as it isnt malicious its ok.


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Geet it sure does make good TV!

btw it does help burnt n badly disfugured pp. I totally agree! But when normal ppl abuse it, thats when it all goes whacko.


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ok Saby stop playing games.



Keshi.

uttara said...

keshi...

listen at times ppl do realise their mistake.. in her case she hasnt realised it yet.. may be she will take longer time.. n if she hasnt invited u its her misery.. so cheer up sweety.. they are not worth ur tears ..

HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ

now comeon lemme see keshi smiling :)

huggzz again babes

Keshi said...

Uttsy WB here after a very long time!

**n if she hasnt invited u its her misery.

I know..thats it.


ty so much n hugggggggz!
Keshi.

ღ lil_kath ღ said...

... aww she didn't invite u to her wedding? that sucks!!! well, that only shows what kind of friend she is... and i think she will realized that later and regret it.

... but yeah i know how it feels ;( muaahh! listen to some good music and smile.... hugss**

luv ya!

Anonymous said...

the worlds greatest invention
the world wide web

i cant imagine the world without internet and google search

i learnt such a lot

i learnt that

size dont matter
its how u do it that counts

there are soo many women that find me desirable

that there are soo many women that i want

i learnt how to blog
i learnt a lil bit of html
i learnt how to search what i want

and porn, porn and more porn
in my time we didnt even see frontal nudes on PLAYBOY

Thumbelina said...

Hey Keshi,

So bad of her not inviting u. U have treated her until now as a friend she treats u like nothing..

Having so many ppl calling u to ask whether u are going to her wedding anot.. I bet u feel very very weird & felt like a knife just stabbed through u. It sure hurts..

I think after tat, u can ignore her until ur wedding then throw her ur invitation.. LOL! Wonder how she would react..

Anyway, dun be sad. Smile always! :)

Thumbee

Cazzie!!! said...

Have a fun and safe weekend Keshi.

vishesh said...

have happy weekend...don't worry all the inventions are after all apart of us...without them we will never undersatnd the meaning of peace and love.. :)

Anonymous said...

Undies keep the flies away

Vest said...

The best surgery would be the cloned body of a 20 yr old, with ones own brain as the replacement with that brain of the 20 yr old. Then we could live forever, or to whenever you would tire with the pleasures of the flesh. Worth giving it a go dont you agree?

It would decrease the need for super and pensions.

DJ said...

to add to the list of crappiest inventions:
cellphone
i somehow hate when ppl try to resolve imp matters on this crappy device... i prefer face-to-face talk where i can see in the eyes of the other person...

well... as i told u in the comment on last post...
u r a good soul... only such a person can bless ppl not related or ppl who do-not-want-to-be-related...

thanks for the happy weekend deal...need blessings right now...
i need it big time this weekend... am gonna face doom probably... :)

btw... u r tagged... pls pick it when you can...
tc and have a nice weekend...

Priyanka Sarkar said...

keshi u rock harder with every post of yours.....
borders and weapons take the cake....:)
i think money was one of the worst inventions.....the root cause of all our endeavors in life...and of all harm!!!!
wat do u say?

cathy said...

OK you convinced me , no nose job.
The wedding, her loss not yours.

Sense said...

that's just plain nasty, gurl... you know, If I really wanted to get someone's goat, i'd be big enough to invite them to my wedding. there's nothing more galling to an individual than knowing that their being miffed/ angry/ upset has not affected you one bit! Please invite her and the poor sod she's marrying to your wedding... I bet that'll really rub it in..

Asha said...

Crappiest invention is plastic Surgery looking at that crappy face!OH MY LORD!She wanted to look like her cat,can you believe it?
Hey,may be you should call her to wish her luck.May be her invitation is lost,happens you know! At least,you will be in the right if you leave a message,even if she didn't.
Happy weekend:))

St. Dickeybird said...

Worst invention (other than guns and religion)?
Reality TV.

St. Dickeybird said...

Worst invention (other than guns and religion)?
Reality TV.

Lizard Princess said...

I know it's too late and all for the wedding, but the old saying that 'you can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar' seems to be the answer here. Sometimes when we full-on believe that we were in the right, we still need to say 'sorry, I was wrong'. Wrong can mean so many things- wrong heart, attitude or whatever. Perhaps your friend, in her arrogance, was waiting for you to make the first move, but obviously since SHE was in the worng, you didn't. I have no idea how much you value this person in your life, but it only hurts our pride to come and apologize, and sometimes it can be a very healing thing. We as a society (speaking of westerners, here) don't value humility as a positive thing, but I think if more people embraced humility, many conflicts would be resolved. That's just my two little cents, for what it's worth.
BTW, I should say that I learned this lesson the best from my husband: he is almost always the first one to ask for forgiveness, and it always disarms me and causes me to say it too. It's beautiful.

PS- thank for visiting my blog and for loving tofu!!!

SamY said...

** What do you think is the world's worst invention- the crappiest ever?

the 1st of those were the ones that used to feed us :) ... ironic ain't it? just that humans also hunt fello humans now ;)

** this first pic is of a real woman who had plastic surgery done on her

I think MJ stands a much better example

** it was big drama

u mean she was a bigger drama queen than u are :p ... jks apart ... nasty things usually happen to good people

** If I was getting married, I'd have definitely invited her whole family though they hurt me big time

not everyone is keshi :)

Jac said...

Instead, I will invite you for mine...though I am pretty old myself.

Nadim said...

'Man-made WEAPONS'
hmm... so u mean to say women havent invented any weapons? read this
www.theaustralian.news.com
.au/story/0,20867,21277955-2703,00.html
it was all started by women! :P

i think the worst invention is 'cloth'! if it wasnt invented, wouldnt we all be wearing leaves? now, how sexy wud that be!

Peter said...

Thanks keshi for visiting my blog! Now I know how to say it in Sinhalese. Will it help me one day? Never lose hope!

I will come back to your blog more often. I spent a long moment reading your last posters including all the comments. Fascinating, although I'm not really used to your new language, so I had to concentrate quite a bit. You talked about keyboards and handwriting, but how about spelling? Difficult for an old man - and foreigner.

I don't know what to add, except that I agree to almost everything including possible contradicitons.

The Old Mule said...

I find it so commendable that you wish your friend and her husband happiness and love. It is always best to forgive and allow others their human faults and transgressions.

krystyna said...

Hi Keshi!

105% I agree with about WEAPON.
To your second part you put perfect pic and words. This is so true.
Thanks for this.
Have a excellent weekend!

Trundling Grunt said...

Most inventions have a good potential, but it is what we do with them that distorts them and makes them evil. But instruments of torture have no positive intent. And yet people have spent years, millenia even, perfecting inventive ways of inflicting pain and disfigurement on our fellow beings.

Trundling Grunt said...

oh, and get married suddenly and don't invite her....

Outdoorsy Girl said...

You have an excellent outlook on this hurtful no-invite. She is going to regret it and be very sad that she didn't have you there.

gautami tripathy said...

Think this way, you won't have buy her a present. Always see the brighter side, sweetie!

La vida Loca said...

worst inventions would be
alarm clocks

religion and race

can't think of anything else :)

Charles said...

Geesh, that poor woman. Why didn't anyone tell her Jim Henson wasn't a plastic surgeon?

david santos said...

Day 25 of May. World-wide day of the disappeared children.

THE PLANET

Earth is a place where love cannot endure,
Where death and evil roam, at each lane,
Neither kindness nor children can live secure,
Where those who cause suffering reign.

David Santos

Malnurtured Snay said...

Keshi - what if there's a Klingon banging on your door trying to get in and kill you? Wouldn't you want a gun to shoot him with?

Dawn....सेहर said...

When I read the question ...the first thing came into my mind was weapon and then I read even your answer is same :)...! Yes man created to destroy himself...so sad!
And yes hope you enjoy the wedding and have a gr8 one dear...with lots of hugggzzz n love
Cheers

trinitystar said...

Have yourself a beautiful weekend
hugs :o)

Steph said...

Her loss Keshi, not yours. She's the one who fucked it up.

As for you hating on Big Brother!! Wash your mouth out young lady!!!
*smack*

Jeevan said...

There are some invention in this world, that was suffering after years of the creation, but many suffers are from birth. In today’s world the worst invention is telecasting serials that confuses the people who watch them continuously.

Ho that’s really a hurt! Glad that you are wishing her, even though…. Very sweet of you dear:)

My comment is missing in ur last post it seems.

my life.... said...

Dear keshi,
i can understand yr good intentions which i really like it... some ppl, just one incident, sour the relationship and bear the grudges for the rest of their life... would they hold the same grudges if their parents had the same sour incidenttowards their children ? i am sure the children would have have gotten over that incident if it were their parent... i mean is there differentiation of grudges? well, anyway this is my opinion... i learnt to forgive those who hurt me but i can t forget them... forgiving is one thing and forgetting is another thing...may god bless her with a blissful life

niki sato said...

aww its kinda thank u money for invitation & conglats.. not law but common sense for japanese.
i paid only $100 when my fren got married a decade ago.
then she asked me to pay $100 more later lol

dharmabum said...

it is a beautiful thought, not to group ourselves and remain as one. God sure is one, whether or not we believe in Him. but to find the Truth isn't easy, and there are many ways. it is these different ways that make religion. the problem comes when some religions reject others.

Deepak Gopi said...

My marriage greetings to your friend.
njoy a nice week end

Bullshee said...

I don't know about the other stuff but whoever took the pic of that woman should be taken out into the street and shot!

Condolences on the friend's wedding thing........er.....life sucks a lot....but it has its high points too...

mystic rose said...

keshi,
the world seems to be getting more and more 'plastic' everyday.. including the people.. :)

and about your friend, you are right, you can judge a lot about a perosn from the way he is when he is in good times, bad times always teach us humility and tolerance,a nd those who lose that as soon as the situation changes .. well..
and then there are those who never change.

and also you cna always judge a person by how he behaves with his colleagues and subordinates socially.

always wish the best and move on, i guess.

anuj said...

ya thts pretty much crappy .. and the worst part is that you wont really know that people hold grudges, and you would continue thinkin that things are normal n stuff .. nd thn some moment thy would do somthing .. jus to take some sort of revenge or somthing, may be just to satisfy their ego ..

so d bad thing is that ppl carry that hate along, where you might have jus completely forgotten about the same thing ..

HAppy weekend!!

cheers
Anuj
- not in sydney yet .. hehe

Ash said...

Interesting post Keshi!

That woman looks gross and scary. Ugh!

Dharmabum has a point regarding religion.I agree with him, its man who has manipulated and misinterpreted religion.

deepti said...

hey keshi...
Hmm...
U r right about the things u have stated but that is coz people r misusing the technologies...
Now its upto all of us to help ourselves...
We cannot n should not play the police i guess...
As for ur friend, i know how much it hurts coz i have had a friend who treated me alike(not as in marriage or sumthing) but the whole happy moment thing n all...
Anyways...
nice weekend.

javagirl1111 said...

All my life... Oh the memories! lol

Hmmmm... worst inventions??? I've gotta be with you on the whole plastic surgery thing... didn't we have enough to worry about without thinking we had to look perfect at 60? Also... the whole non-food culture here in the U.S.!!! I wish they would have never invented Hamburger Helper, Instant Everything, Fake Cheese Food, etc, etc! It's destroying our health!

Mr. Evil said...

you know the crappy thing is that when friendships go sour for a moment they take a long time getting back to the normal state. unless both are willing to hug n say sorry and really mean it. one says sorry genuinely and the other has to accept genuinely. the one saying sorry has to believe they are forgiven genuinely and the one forgiving has to believe that apologies are most true from the heart. if there is a lack in any one of those 4 aspects well then there is going to be a "no return" state.. in which case.. its best to let go.. and forget.. for we are too sentimental when it comes to moments that we hold in our hearts as special. Sometimes detachment and letting go is the only way to find answers to those small questions that arise.. like "why?"

Hope ur not gonna be bugged :)

Neo said...

i hate it when friends act like that...how insensitive...

Nora said...

Keshi, you're being very gracious about this wedding.

Don't gate-crash (as if you would).

Don't even mention it to other family/friends who've been invited.

You've wished them well and moved on.

That's real class. :)

lee said...

The worst invention would be breadmakers! You use them twice and then they sit in your cupboard forever!!! ;).

shnaggy said...

viagra.

if u can, gate crash and wish her well. then just leave. but if she calls you to the reception go!!!

Anathema Heterodox said...

Hi Keshi,

Thanks for leaving a comment on my blog, I can't believe you have over 30 pairs of shoes!!! Are you going to take a picture for all of us to see?

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Inventions: Well, I may get some negative comments for this, but I think there's one thing which brings out the worst in people as well as the best in people. So although I think it's the worst thing invented (assuming it's an invention, but I'm not altogether certain of this....just bear with me, I'll get to my point eventually), it also is powerful enough to bring people together.
What is it?.....Religion.
Really in today's world, most of the conflicts which arise between groups of people (on the grander scale of course), is religion.
At the same time, religion is what brings a lot of people together, and gives them an strength, and a sense of being.
I think religion is necessary, but not for all people. I don't know which religion is better or the true path, and people debate this every day. I am not in a position to make that judgment. Everyone has their own opinions, and I repect that.

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As for your friend who didn't invite you to the wedding, I agree with everyone else that posted comments. That was a very petty thing to do. Especially since she invited all of your circle of friends but not you.
I think you are the stronger person here though, since you took the high road and wished them well in their lives together.
You show there is still good in the world, and it takes a good heart for someone to do what you did and wish them well.
I think you made my day!


Stop by my blog any time, you are certainly welcome.

Laterz.
AH

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

lol the woman looked scary really!!!

i would say weapons too ... they haven't done much good .. have they?? or maybe am too ignorant lol


and abt u friend G .. she must be really silly ... am sure u are feeling bad abt not being invited but then baah this shows how immature she is! To make her realise what she did .. u can actually call her up and congratulate her ;) she'll never forget it and will realise how small she is ;p

brute said...

hi keshi...

surprise surprise..me coming to aus for pursuing MS in swinburne...
melb city...

I wanted to ask ur help in finding an accomodation in melb , my frnd is also cmoing to melb city,but shes gonna land on july 10th, me in aug ending..so i thot of asking ur hlp in finding her (my frnd) accomodation in melb, near univ of melb...

awaiting for a positive reply frm u...

happy weekend keshi...:)

email : hunky4gals@gmail.com

The Phosgene Kid said...

Hope you are having great weekend!!!

Aidan said...

The Phoneless cord?
up there for one of the stupidest.

It funny how we forget everything, all the good times, all the smiles and love. Angry clouds judgement, we say things we dont mean. WHy is it so hard just to say "I'm SOrry"

Stace and I never go to bed angry, we never let the sun set on an argument. That's the secret then start the next day a new.

Jim said...

i hate courtesy invitations

if your friend didnt invite u
she is being honest

she has her reasons
perhaps u r hotter than her
and the groom may be distracted

perhaps .....
who the fuck nos
and who the fuck cares

perhaps she just forgot
and she didnt mean u r not invited

at my wedding a lotta friends showed up who werent invited

a real friend dont need no invitation
he nos he will be welcome

perhaps Keshi
u misread all this

Jim said...

VEST has the mind of a 20 yo
hehehehehe

Keshi said...

Kath ty sweetie n hugggggggz!

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Anony the Internet is great indeed.



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ty Thumbee n hugggggggz!

yes I admit Im hurt. Even tho we parted a lil after that silly argument, we really had some awesome times together...and we wtill said out hellos and hugged each other whenever we met.

Anyways Im not gonna be like her...if I ever get married, she'll be one of the first to be invited...not cos I wanna get at her, but cos I do care abt her. I did learnt alot from her too. She's a very nice girl.

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ty Caz MWAH!



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hey Vishesh!


**without them we will never undersatnd the meaning of peace and love

hehe ur tooo wise!


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hey Anony!


**Undies keep the flies away

Can u get any more disgusting that? I DONT THINK SO! Mebbe ur one of those flies.


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hey Vesty neat idea :)


**It would decrease the need for super and pensions.

LOL I agree.


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hey Mister DJ ;-)


** i prefer face-to-face talk where i can see in the eyes of the other person...

I agree. U know these days ppl even do divorces thru mobile phones LOL!


**only such a person can bless ppl not related or ppl who do-not-want-to-be-related...

aww Im really not thinking Im any better than her though...she's her own kind, Im my own kind. Mebbe she hasnt gotten over it yet...in time maybe she will but she wont have another wedding to have me in it, will she.

hope ur weekend was good...u ok DJ?




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Priyanka ty sweetie :)


**the root cause of all our endeavors in life..

I totally agree. It wrecked many r'ships between me and my loved-ones too.


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hehe Cathy ur nose is perfect...no need to change it at all hun.

ty!


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:) Sense ty!


** Please invite her and the poor sod she's marrying to your wedding... I bet that'll really rub

I will but not for the sake of getting back at her...I'll invite her cos I care abt her as a friend. I truly do. If I hated her and wanted to hurt her at my wedding, I'd rather not invite her. Cos at my wedding day I wanna be happy and have good feelings towards everyone who's with me.

tnxx hun MWAH!


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Asha meoooooooooooow! :)


**At least,you will be in the right if you leave a message,even if she didn't.

yes ur right...I'll be sending her a card soon. To wish the newly-weds.


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hiyyya Dickey!


**Reality TV.

I totally agree! How can I forget it! Mebbe cos it's pure gunk. lol!


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Lizard_Princess WC here n ty!


** I think if more people embraced humility, many conflicts would be resolved.

I totally agree. Tho it's a very hard thing for many ppl. She did apologise, and then I did forgive her too. But somehow we grew apart after that. I guess it's just the ego in both of us. Im to be blamed as well.


**he is almost always the first one to ask for forgiveness, and it always disarms me and causes me to say it too.

thats just beautiful! today I learnt something from u. TNXXX!

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hey Samy :)


** nasty things usually happen to good people


I agree.


Mega drama queens in the horizon LOL!


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Jac if ur not married yet, u aint old ;-)



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hey Nadim!


**so u mean to say women havent invented any weapons?

hehe well it's standard way of saying it. I cant help it can I :)

I'll check it out tnxx!


**leaves

I cant imagine myself wearing leaves to work and answering to a boss in leaves YUIKKKKZ!!


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hey Peter WC to my world :)


**You talked about keyboards and handwriting, but how about spelling?

hehe cmon dun tell me Im speeeeling-error-free LOL!

Ur WC here anytime mate. And TY!

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hello there Mulester!


**It is always best to forgive and allow others their human faults and transgressions.

o well it's hard..but it's well-worth it..and highesr in the rewarding dept :)


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ty Krys HUGGGGGGGGZ!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Trundz I agree.


**And yet people have spent years, millenia even, perfecting inventive ways of inflicting pain and disfigurement on our fellow beings.

So true and it's freaky thinking abt it!


**and get married suddenly and don't invite her....

u think so? Cos another friend told me the same thing. Somehow I feel I'll invite her...cos I want her to be there. Not to hurt her but to correct everything that has gone wrong between us. Life is too short to hold grudges this way. And I think a wedding is the perfect place to patch up :)


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Outdoorsy hey tnxx hun!

**She is going to regret it and be very sad that she didn't have you there.

Im not sure if she's sad that I wasnt there...it was she who chose NOT to have me there. But Im gonna send her a card...wishing her well. I really want to. A Wedding happens once in a lifetime..and I wanna wish her well.

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Gautami ty!


**won't have buy her a present.

hehe...somehow I'd have loved to get her something special and wrap it all pretty...thats the sentimental me! :)


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LaVida ty!


**alarm clocks

hehe I know wut u mean :) But if not for alarm clocks I'd have missed many of my Uni exams and I wudnt be here then LOL!


**religion and race

I agree...totally!


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hey Charles!


**Why didn't anyone tell her Jim Henson wasn't a plastic surgeon?

who's Jim Henson btw? :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Dave hows it going?


**Neither kindness nor children can live secure,
Where those who cause suffering reign.

I agree...Earth is not a safe place anymore...


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hey Snay WC!

**Wouldn't you want a gun to shoot him with?

hmm I can never kill anyone...not even in self-defense...I'd try to run away from him thru the back-door or something...but if he breaks the door n gets me b4 that, I'd say my prayers...leave it all upto the man upstairs.


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ty Dawny I knew u'd agree with me :)


**And yes hope you enjoy the wedding

I didnt go sweetie...I was uninvited hehe.


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ty Trinity!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyya Steph lookin GOOOOD in that pic WOW!

**Wash your mouth out young lady!!!

lolz why why why? I hate BB sweetie...it sucks big time. Big D#ck wud be a better title for it LOL!


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Jeevan hey tnxx!

** In today’s world the worst invention is telecasting serials that confuses the people who watch them continuously.

I know! They give me a headache!

Ur comment in the prev post is missing? awww...Im sure Blogger plays up sometimes. Im sorry abt it Jeevan.


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My_Life tnxx alot!


** would they hold the same grudges if their parents had the same sour incidenttowards their children ?

I know. ppl r so biased when it comes to forgiving n forgetting. Totally agree there!


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hey Niki!

**then she asked me to pay $100 more later

ur kidding me right??


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I agree Dharma. It's ppl's fault when they DIVIDE and DISCRIMINATE.


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ty Deepak thats so sweet of u!



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Bullshee WC n ty!

**life sucks a lot....but it has its high points too...

I agree...Life is all abt ups n downs.


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Rose ty sweetie.


**bad times always teach us humility and tolerance,a nd those who lose that as soon as the situation changes

I agree...bad times bring out the REAL personality.


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So true Anuj!


**and the worst part is that you wont really know that people hold grudges, and you would continue thinkin that things are normal n stuff

Spot on! I thought everything was ok between us tho were not exactly the same as before. Hence the shock of not being invited atleast to the church ceremony.

When r u coming to Sydney?


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ty Ash!

Agreed abt Religion. But I still think inventing something like RELIGION is the reason behind all these wars. True faith, spirituality should not create so much hatred...



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Deepti ty sweetie!

Hurt does last longer...but I hope mine will go away soon. I thinlk it already has :) Huggggggggz!



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Java hey ty! :)

**wish they would have never invented Hamburger Helper, Instant Everything, Fake Cheese Food, etc, etc

I agree...FF chains r grosssss health-wreckers!


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I agree Evil...saying Sorry and forgiving is the best way to patch up. But it also depends on the amount of hurt causes and on the individual too. And Forgetting is still very hard.


**Sometimes detachment and letting go is the only way to find answers to those small questions that arise.. like "why?"

I agree. Its the best way to handle it...but not necessarily the best way to heal.


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Neo I agree...but its ok..Im not mad at her...just a lil sad that she intentionally kept me off her wedding territory...its not something that I'd really do even tho we sometimes think of doing such things.


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Nora ty sweetie!

**That's real class.

I agree...and I truly feel good abt this...I have no malice towards her...I only felt a lil sad on Friday...but Im much better today :) tnxx to ur friendship!


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Heyy Lee!

**breadmakers! You use them twice and then they sit in your cupboard forever

LOL how true!



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heyy Shnaggy how did the move go? I hope all is well with ya.


**if u can, gate crash and wish her well. then just leave. but if she calls you to the reception go

Wait till I tell u what happened :)



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Anathema WC n ty!


** Are you going to take a picture for all of us to see?

heyy thats a neat idea..I'd really do that for u some time soon :):) This is why u shoul dnot give such ideas to Keshi LOL!


**Really in today's world, most of the conflicts which arise between groups of people (on the grander scale of course), is religion.

I totally agree. Religion as in a written set of rules, is a hiderance for peace and harmony. cos opinions clash and then wars arise. and ppl r always opinionated.


**At the same time, religion is what brings a lot of people together, and gives them an strength, and a sense of being.

true. It's Buddhism that has made me the person that I am today...but it's also Chrisitianity, Hinduism etc etc. Cos I believe in one God and I respect all His teachings.


And abt my friend...ty so much. With ur kind words, u made my day too :) HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!


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Cheesy weapons have not done anything at all....u r spot on there!


** can actually call her up and congratulate her ;) she'll never forget it and will realise how small she is ;p

thats a neat thought Cheesy. I might really do that. Mebbe I'll send em a card...I really want to.


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Brute heyy thats great news :)

I'll email u.


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I did Phos...ty so much!

Hope u had a great wknd too.


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Hello Aidan!

**The Phoneless cord?

LOL haha! I still like it tho hehe. Cos how can spill all the juicy gos if I cant take the phone to the balcony ha? ;-)


**Stace and I never go to bed angry, we never let the sun set on an argument.

awww thats so sweeeeeeet...ty for telling me abt it...cos it sure sounds like a GREAT tip!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Jim good morning!

**perhaps Keshi
u misread all this

nah...cos her dad stopped by my place 2 months ago and asked me n my sis to be prepared for the big day...thank God I didnt buy a $300 dress!


Keshi.

Jewel Rays said...

Hi sweets,

how are you? Came to check in on ya.

*huggiz* Thought of u this weekend.

Love,

Amy *muacks!!

Jim said...

wedding receptions are costly affairs in india

my son has been going steady with his girl for a long time now and her parents want a wedding soon

but i am broke
how the fuck am i going to raise 5 lakhs !

Jim said...

Amitabh the Bacchan was in the soup recently

for the Abhi-Ash wedding
he invited just a handfull
said his mom didnt want a tamasha wedding

He said if he had to invite all
he wud have to have the wedding on the bandra Kurla complex

but he has been forced to have another reception now and invite all

people were hurt coz they werent invited

can anyone here suggest how i can get away from this jam

i am not Amitabh Bachhan

Jim said...

look at the bright side
u saved on the wedding present

Jim said...

Among us Goans
we have a silly custom

the wedding invitation has to be delivered hand delivery by the bride/groom to be or their parents

otherwise it doesnt count as an invitation

Silvara said...

Hey sweetie!!! Sorry I haven't dropped by before - busy weekend lol. How was urs in the end?? Forget about people like that - seriously - if they can't get over things like that then don't worry about it. I know it hurts but all the people around you will realise that it was her mistake for NOT inviting you!

Keshi said...

aww ty Amy HUGGGGGGGGGZ!

And if u read my latest post u wudnt believe wut happened on Sat!! :):)


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hehe Jim have it simple then...a down-to-Earth Goan beach wedding...that wud be just lovely!


Jim cud u stop trying to make me feel good by comparing this to Aish n Abhi's wedding...thats too much man LOL! u r so sweet. tnxx anyways! I felt hurt, but Im ok now. tnxx to all of u. HUGGGGGGGGGZ!

**the wedding invitation has to be delivered hand delivery by the bride/groom to be or their parents

we have customs like that too...but I dun consider em so imp...as long as I get the card/call/email whatever, I count myself invited.


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Silvara hey ty girly HUGGGGGGZ! Im ok :)


**if they can't get over things like that then don't worry about it

I know...but the hurt lingers on for a while...I'll be ok tho. MWAHH!



Keshi.

Charles said...

Jim Henson was the American puppeteer responsible for the creation of the Muppets, Fraggle Rock, the creatures in Farscape, The Never Ending Story, and many others.

toby said...

Don't know if you pick up late comments. No matter.
Idealism is charming but without weapons in the hands of good people, we would all be slaves of the local tyrant (although you might be lucky enough to be one of his wives).
For those of us who value our freedom but don't believe there's someone "upstairs" to protect us, we appreciate the courage of those who defend our way of life. No matter how civilized we think we are, we are only a heartbeat from the law of the jungle.

Keshi said...

oh ok Charles gotcha now :)

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Toby tnxx!

**No matter how civilized we think we are, we are only a heartbeat from the law of the jungle.

I agree. And thats cos we bear arms! :)


Keshi.

ghee said...

ohhhh,so this was G??!! i read the entry on the top first b4 reading this??what a coincidence that you saw her before marching?goshhh...what a day!!

Keshi said...

yes Ghee! :)

Keshi.