Monday, May 28

A Well-Known Stranger

Ok you are not going to believe what I'm about to say. Cos even I can't believe that this really happened...I still can't and I won't be able to for a very long time. My life sure is full of dramas and I think it's worth putting it up on the Guinness Book. OMG I can't even believe I'm writing this today! I can hear you saying 'cut the crap Keshi and get to the point'. Ok let me take a deep breath now!! So I spill em now:

On Saturday, me and my sis had a coffee date planned with 2 other friends. We planned this 2 weeks ago. We were to go to a nearby beach cafe - a 10mins drive from home. So we drove to S's place first at about 2pm and then parked our car there as S said it's best we all go in one car - her car. We had to pick A on the way, so we drove to her place, picked A up and were on our way to the beach. Since S was driving, I was seated in the front passenger seat, and my sis and A were at the back. We were all caught up in girly chatter and suddenly G's wedding topic came up. Both S and A don't know G that well, but have heard about her before and know how close we were. So they both told us it's silly of her not to invite us but it's ok cos we still had each other etc etc. You know just making-us-feel-good talk hehe. And as S was nearing the cafe area, driving down this popular beach road, I saw beautifully dressed people getting out of several cars. Then we all said to each other that it must be a wedding etc. And as I turned my face to the left to get a closer look, I saw a huge Catholic church and a beautiful bride getting out of a silver convertible. Guess who it was???? IT WAS G*****!!! My jaw-dropped to the seat as I said to everyone in the car 'OMG it's G's wedding guys!'. I'm truly surprised I didn't pass out. We were all completely in shock that we drove past the same church that G was having her wedding!! I just can't believe that (I just can't cant' can't can't can't can't ever believe that!). Out of all the roads in Sydney, all the suburbs, all the places, all the churches, we had to go past the place where G was having her wedding?? I swear I didn't even know where her church ceremony or the reception was (come to think of it, I know G loved this area and now it isn't so much of a surprise she chose that area). However I had no idea that we'd be driving down that same street!

We had to park down that street cos that's where our cafe was. I told S that we should go somewhere else cos if someone saw us they'd think we were snooping (which we were not but who's going to believe us when even I cant believe what has just happened??). But S said that she can't find any other parking spot cos it was a busy street etc, so we had to park right there and walk past that same church. So as I walked past it, I saw G now standing at the church door with 3 beautiful bride's maids (all dressed in G's favorite color purple) and with her mum and dad by her side. There were few guests I recognised but as I walked by pretty fast (my heart beating faster from the shock and not wanting to be seen by any other friends), we didn't see much. But I did see G! She didn't see me though. She looked so radiant and so very beautiful in a white sleevless bridal dress. I felt like calling out her name and saying 'G you look gorgeous, I wish you well hun'...but cmon you know I can't and won't do that...cos I'm the uninvited and I don't want her to think I planned this or give her any stress on her big day.

So we finally reached the cafe (in total disbelief and in joy at the same time), had a good 2 hours by the beach sipping coffee and talking about life and it's strange ways...went home and told my mum about what we saw on the way...she nearly fainted LOL! Anyways all's well that ends well. Did the angels drive S's car that day? Can someone give me an explanation to the shocking co-incidence that happened on Saturday? Cos I still can't believe what I saw. It's been a while since I felt that excited about something totally unexpected happening and I was chuckling the whole day at the marvel of it all. I will be sending G a card to wish her well, as well as to let her know I just happened to walk by. That day I was just a stranger down the street but I knew that bride so well. Life sure is strange and the surprises it has for you is totally UNREAL! I believe in angels and miracles. I really do.


Happy Monday folks!


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Jac said...

It happens in everyone's life, moments of unexpectedness.

Though you were shocked, you were able to see her in the wedding dress.
Now, cheer up keshi and have your coffee !
:)

Silvara said...

NO WAY! that has got to be fate or destiny or something!!! That is super freaky. Well in a way - perhaps in both of your heart of hearts - you wanted to be there and she wanted you there...so maybe this was the way how it could happen :)

Jay said...

What? No pictures? I would have taken pictures. LOL

Did they have a free bar at the reception. Cause if they did I would have crashed the reception party too. ;-)

Shionge said...

Oh what a drama indeed Keshi and so sweet of you to be sending a card to her.....on a positive note, sometimes wedding couples might have missed out some names or they just might have only a limited budget to work on.

Yes....a bitter sweet feeling I suppose. Wishing G all the best.

Iceman said...

Lol...

Good one!

Menchie said...

My gosh! what a small world!!!

Anonymous said...

Dont give me dat crap
u cudnt resist

u had to see her
now i get it

now i no why u were so hurt
u two were having a les relationship

Anonymous said...

hey Keshi

u dont be in a hurry to get married with a man (or woman)

u will break a lotta hearts here

Lisa Francisco aka AVIANA said...

Drama Drama Drama and Mas Drama! Como estas chica?! I have not kept up to date the past week.. Busy and more busy.. yeah probably not a great answer!

Well everything happens for a reason. ...it is kind of freaky though...have a happy monday!

Muah!

smrtnhuggble said...

hahaha.. atleast you knew only the bride.. and it didnt end up being omg thats my friend who didnt invite me..
OMFG.. thats the guy i made out with last night.. he's the groom
hahahahaha
may be fate took you there anyways eh?

hahaha.. weird how things happen eh?

AnonymousBlogger said...

What an insane story Kesh! I think you totally should have crashed that party, and act like you were invited.

"Oh, thanks so much for inviting us G, this is just a lovely wedding".

But then that's just me.

Still, what are the odds?

Cazzie!!! said...

I bet G will be very happy you did see her in the end, it was supposed to be this way.
I had people attend my wedding, more people than at the reception. It is too expensive to invite everyone to a reception.

Cazzie!!! said...

Oh,and also Keshi, it did not mean I did not value the freindship of those who just came to the chapel to see the wedding and not to the reception, I love everyone same :)

jitendra said...

yo!

damp squib! i thot you would say you saw brad pitt standing on the road asking for a lift :D THAT would be classic..

krystyna said...

Wow, Keshi!
I can't believe too. Your life is really very interesting. I'm sure some day you will write wonderful book( autobiography?).

Good luck to you!

Nora said...

Fate!

Jeevan said...

Great to know the place u were planned to spend is the same G’s wedding place. Nice at least u could see her on her wedding. The title is perfect to this post!. have a great weekdays.

niki sato said...

haha~ that is really strange!!
i hate seeing wedding ppl :P
cheer up, keshi-chan!!

Anonymous said...

Hey Keshi

i wont ask your age
but u can tell your monthly salary

i just want to know the pay scales all over the world

for the consultancy i do here
i can only get 60 dollars a day

my counter part in california gets 1000 dollars a day for the same work

which i can do better

Anonymous said...

OMFG.. thats the guy i made out with last night.. he's the groom


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
thanks smart and huggable
Huggsss

Deepak Gopi said...

Unexpected events ,that is life

Akshay said...

Hey Keshi, sorry for the unexpected hiatus..Now I am back baby. Check out some sunset pics at http://merifotos.blogpsot.com.

Anonymous said...

I needed dat laff
things are bad here

not getting much work
in fact not getting much of anything

sad sack
thats me

Anonymous said...

i like the look in Gopis eyes
he looks like a dreamer

Keshi said...

hehe Jac yes...tnxxx!


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Yes Silvara even I kept saying NO-WAY for hours after that!


** perhaps in both of your heart of hearts - you wanted to be there and she wanted you there

I wanted to be there cos I wanted to wish her well on her special day...she and I have been that close. But Im not sure if she wanted me to be there. If she did, she cud have invited me just for teh church ceremony.


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Jay I was actually thinking of taking some mobile shots...lol I wasnt soo brave tho.


**Cause if they did I would have crashed the reception party too

they wud have had a bar for sure...cos they r Italians.


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ty Shionge!

**sometimes wedding couples might have missed out some names or they just might have only a limited budget to work on

I know sometimes that happens too...but her dad stopped by our place 2 months ago and said that we'd be invited. But I wasnt so sure anyways. :)


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ty Iceman :)


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Isnt it Menchie!



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Anony/Saby

**u cudnt resist
u had to see her

YUKKKKK Im not that kind of person. The kind who snoops in uninvited weddings. plzzzzz u know me better!


**u two were having a les relationship

to tell u the truth ur the SICKEST person that I have ever come across in my entire life.


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Lisa I know...everything happens for a reason. ty sweetie!


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hehe Choco :)

Yes I believe it's FATE.


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AB lol yes its totally insane! And the TIMING omg! I mean she was getting out of the car to go into the church as we passed!!


**Oh, thanks so much for inviting us G, this is just a lovely wedding".

LOL I cant do that mate. I wish I cud tho :)


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Hey Caz!

**I bet G will be very happy you did see her in the end, it was supposed to be this way.

I know she will get to know..cos one guy saw me...and he knows both G n me very well. Anyways!


**It is too expensive to invite everyone to a reception.

aww Caz I know that. Alot of my friends who got married just invite the closest only for the reception...cos it's damn expensive! And ur right...that doesnt mean u value the chapel-only guests any less than the rest.

But G didnt even invite me to the chapel and I know that hadnt we had that tiff, I'd be even one of her brides' maids...we were that close.

ty n HUGGGGGGGGGZ!


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hey Jit!

**thot you would say you saw brad pitt standing on the road asking for a lift

in that case I wudnt be blogging today...I'd be on my way to Hollywood with him. LOL!


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hehe Krys :) Im not sure if I'd write a book...but this blog has is my life story...some day when Im gone, it's all written over here :)


huggggggggggz!


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Fate it is Nora!

Its freaky tho.

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ty Jeevan!


:)


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Niki I LOVE weddings!



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Saby lol!


**i wont ask your age
but u can tell your monthly salary


ok I will email ya.

So this American trip is all abt the money? And not abt ur GF?

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True Deepak!



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hey Akshay WB! I missed ya. ok I'll be there soon :)



Keshi.

Anonymous said...

Too much going on in my life. I really dont know how people deal with it all.

I know, have faith, it will work. I tell myself that over and over.

I wish life were like a movie, a good romantic comedy.....that way you know how it will end.









Posted by Miranda at 12:21 AM 6 comments

Keshi said...

Anony heyy!

**I wish life were like a movie, a good romantic comedy.....that way you know how it will end.

if u knew how it ends, will there be any fun at all? I dun wanna know the end...let it unfold as it should.

Keshi.

Anonymous said...

money is important
dont knock money

money can buy u happiness
if u know where to shop

money can buy u love too
there is nothing more attractive to a woman than a fat wallet

never mind if u have a fat belly too
and your jeans dont bulge in the front

Anonymous said...

its Mirandas birth day on Monday

Anonymous said...

http://deepinmymind.blogspot.com/
dats miranda

Keshi said...

Saby nah I dun believe Money can buy TRUE happiness. Money can buy u temporary joy...like how retail therapy helps me chillax. But as soon as the excitement of my new top or shoes wears off, Im back in a black pit.


Keshi.

Anonymous said...

Happiness is a vague concept
the happiest man in the world is an idiot drooling saliva


only 2 types of people are truly happy

the idiot and the saint
who lives in the hope of paradise

i want my happiness now

Neihal said...

Co-incidence!!

But sure the kind that would freak anyone. :)
Happy Monday :)

Priyanka Sarkar said...

omg keshi.....thts some heck of a coincidence!!!!!
sometimes life s so funny!!!:)

Keshi said...

Neihal it sure was...cos the timing was perfect too!


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aha Priyanka...Im still in shock actually.



Keshi.

Rajeev said...

lol!!
U'll never know what life has for u! :)

peace & love
Jeevy

Anonymous said...

Much ado about nothing

Jewel Rays said...

Wow at least u got a peek at how beautiful she is..:)

Its amazing how life sometimes hear ya silent cries i guess. haha..Really something i must say!!

wowie!!

~Jewel

Keshi said...

haha Rejeev yes Life sure has a stock of surprises!


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Anony how d u mean?


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Amy hey tnxx sweetie!

**Its amazing how life sometimes hear ya silent cries i guess

I know! Isnt it shocking. I mean I didnt want to be there cos I felt hurt...but somehow deep down I wondered what she looked like as a bride etc...and then it seems like someone/something heard that wish. It's just UNBELIEVABLE! Amy u should've seen my face then...LOL!


Keshi.

Ps said...

Really amazing.I have had incidents like this too in my life--a friend of mine is a strong believer in destiny and says "In life there are no coincidences" It has happened quite a few times to me--and sometimes I do believe that certain things are destined.No matter what you do certain things just happen for no reason.
What else can you call it except destiny?

Peter said...

Life is full of coincidents! How do you meet your future life partner? Is it written somewhere in advance?

I'm sure you will end up as best freinds one day again... and then this will be an even better story!

AmitL said...

Hi,Keshi..I can imagine your surprise,nee,shock at seeing the wedding scene...guess that's what life is all about..Unreal,sometimes.:)

DJ said...

wow...
may it be divine intervention or mere coincidence, it is surely dramatic...

*** Anyways all's well that ends well.***
yeps... true enough...

take care...
cheers!!!

Ash said...

Image something happening in front you and you know every dialogue being said and going to transpire including the conclusion!! happened to me many a time, this is amazing LOL!!....
Take care Keshi, Ash

Ekta said...

isnt life full of strange coincidences!

alex said...

Keshi,

Well if it was me, i would have attended her wedding. :)

I dont wait for invitations. :)

Vest said...

Keshi: It is high time you became a beautful bride, you have more than enough qualities and love stored within yourself to achieve a lifetime of shared joy love and happiness.

Kavi said...

Boy ! looks like you had some reasl time connection ! I mean virtual real time connection to guide you there ! A mental GPRS kinds...whooa

vishesh said...

i don't believe in coincidence...it is better for you to search the meaning...maybe it is to say that you have to invite her for ur wedding ;)

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

lol OMG OMG OMG .. i wud have seriously fainted!!! out of all places u HAD to go there! A big coincidence!! Maybe someone up there thought that you HAD to give ur best wishes to the couple in some way .. and hence this happened!

therez no other explanation .. unless S took u there on purpose lol .. which is not true coz u all had pre-planned all that!

Trundling Grunt said...

Yes, that is very odd. Clearly you all have quite similar tastes. I'm glad you saw a positive spin on it - I think I'd have floored it in the other direction.

taqdeer said...

What a beautiful post :)

Angels do indeed exist, and miracles happen everyday :D

As the line on your one picture says: "Only as deep as i look can i see"

Wonderful :)

Asha said...

You didn't call her to wish her ,huh? Oh well... at least you saw her as a bride!!Good fir you.Sounds like fate and you were destined to see your ex buddy in her best moment:))
Enjoy the feeling and have a great day.We still have memorial day holiday today,tomorrow back to routine.

Helen said...

Hey Keshi, everything happens for a reason, I truly believe that. Weddings are strange, you're entering this new phase of life, and leaving an old behind. Somewhere in your marriage you have to reconcile old hurts and relationships with you new life, but at the onset, you don't see that growth and those steps. Send a card, wishing the best. Life works out in the end.

**I did read your entire post the other day, I just wasn't sure what to say about the situation**

mystic rose said...

Keshi,
OMG! your life is NEVER dull! Thats incredible.

WP2007 said...

Hi Keshi

It is strange when something like this happens.

Have you thought about someone you haven't seen in a while, and then suddenly they show up at your doorstep?

Better yet, you are on vacation in another country when you think of a person, and you board a bus and sit right down beside the person. The odds of this happening has to be 100000000..... to one.

This happened to me. We were both shocked out of what's left of our brains.

There may or may not be a new post on my blog today.(Monday our time) It was a very busy weekend, and it will be a busy week.
I'm leaving on a jet plane (I do know when I'll be back again--screwed that lyric all to hell. LOL)on Saturday.

Hugs

Bev

Nadim said...

im sure quite a few ppl here wud have already asked, whether it was a coincidence or ... :P
so im not going to ask you again! hehehe...

Sugababee said...

:) Oh how life treats us at times... its great innit..

In a way... you were there at her wedding... just like it was meant to be;)

Justine said...

that's just uncanny!

Aidan said...

weird universal consciousness moment, you were focused on your formerish friend thinking about her day, perhaps on a subconcious level you kind of new... thats my way of looking at it. Focus on your goals and you will get them.
The devil is in the details.

Now to work out what my goals are.

Keshi said...

PS ty!

**In life there are no coincidences

I somehow believe in that too. And after what happened on Sat I HAVE to believe in Destiny :)


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Peter tnxx mate!


**How do you meet your future life partner? Is it written somewhere in advance?

I know...everyone has a different story. I feel it's all pre-written.

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Amit it sure is!



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DJ tnxx!


**may it be divine intervention or mere coincidence, it is surely dramatic...

haha yes...I still cant believe it happened.


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Ash hey!


**you know every dialogue being said and going to transpire including the conclusion

OMG really?? Tell us abt it.


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Sure is Ekta!



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Alex heyy!

**Well if it was me, i would have attended her wedding

hehe I wish I cud do that but I really cant mate. Cos her mum doesn't like me for some strange reason...I mean she talks really nice to me and all that...and then she does something really snobbish to hurt me. Not once but many times. So had I walked into that church in my denims and black skivvy, her mum wud have thrown me out..LOL!

Jokes apart, they left me out for a reason. I want to respect that.




Keshi.

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

oh oh Keshi how dya manage all this ... replyin to so many comments ... blog hopping?? how how how?? tell us the secret :D

Keshi said...

Hey Vesty ty for wishing me well! Thats so sweet of ya.

However I dun think Im meant to hv a normal life..u know getting married, havin babies, living happily ever after..ah ah...it seems it's not meant for me. But Im ok :)


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Kavi ty!

**A mental GPRS kinds

LOL thats a good one! That sorta sounds freakishly POSSIBLE.


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Vishesh me too.


**is better for you to search the meaning

I think there's a meaning underneath it all...that I was meant to see her wedding even tho she didnt invite me..FATE took me there.

Cos G and I talked so much abt finding our partners, getting married etc..we use to hang out together at the same beach, have coffee, sing in choirs together, watch movies, hv dinner etc etc. We had a very strong friendship...and it was a family friendship too. So it's kinda wierd that I was not at her wedding...even tho some stupid argument took place 2 yrs ago!

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Cheesy yeah my head was like spiralling down in shock LOL!


** Maybe someone up there thought that you HAD to give ur best wishes to the couple in some way .. and hence this happened!

mebbe...I'd like to think of it as that.


**S took u there

nopes...she doesnt know G at all and it was only in te car that I told abt her wedding. NONE of us had any idea WHERE the wedding was taking place!

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tnxx Trundz!

** I think I'd have floored it in the other direction

LOL I did feel that way for a second or 2. I wanted to run down the street like I was in a race haha! But both my friends were walking slowly and taking it all in good spirits, so I thought wut the hell, lets just face it. Evn tho Im glad I saw her, I really regret having gone down that same street...cos I one guy saw us...and I know he'll go n tell everyone...and they r NOT gonna believe that it was a mere coincidence. So I get the SNOOPY label.

But hey who can put a guard on wut ppl think abt u. Let em think anything they want. As long as I know wut really happened, thats all that matters.

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ty Taqdeer!


**Only as deep as i look can i see"

Thats a beautiful quote isnt it.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Asha I didnt call her yet...I will later on. Or mebbe I'd just send her a card only. That way Im not making em feel guilty or something. Wut say?


**Sounds like fate and you were destined to see your ex buddy in her best moment:

I think so too :) U can never avoid ur fate can u. Cos out of all the places, that was the last place I wanted to be at on Sat!

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aww Helen ty sweetie!


**Somewhere in your marriage you have to reconcile old hurts and relationships with you new life, but at the onset, you don't see that growth and those steps

I agree....Im sure she will think of me some day...


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Rose lol I didnt want my life to be this exciting on Sat! I really wanted to run n hide.


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aww Bev where r u going to again? Plz come bakk soon!


**This happened to me. We were both shocked out of what's left of our brains.

Really? OMG!! Tell me abt it.


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Hi Nadim!


**im sure quite a few ppl here wud have already asked, whether it was a coincidence or ... :P
so im not going to ask you again


U can think anything u want. I cant put a stop to it can I? After all, u should either know me or not know me at all by now :) So if ur not gonna BELIEVE wut I say, then think anything u want abt me. Not that I have any control of it is it hehe.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Suga hows u? I missed ya!

** you were there at her wedding... just like it was meant to be

yes thats how I think of it too.

tnxx hun!


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It sure is Justine!



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Aidan thats a very clever analysis of it. ty!


**you were focused on your formerish friend thinking about her day, perhaps on a subconcious level you kind of new

Thats freaky but a very interesting theory.

ty!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Cheesy MWAHH! :)

how? lol cos Im Mrs.Jesus. ok ok jokes apart...I leave abt 1hr for blogging...I come very early to work, and then ard 9:30am I reply-comment and blog-hop...and then bakk to work..then in between when I get time, I do some blogging again...it's easy. If ur skilled at time-management, u can do anything.

:)

Keshi.

SaffronSaris said...

Lo, life certainly is strange, huh?
Cheer up!

WP2007 said...

Hi Keshi

To answer your question, we're heading off to England on a working holiday. We are working on location for a new TV show. The first series (season) has six instalments.

It was in England that I sat beside a chap I worked with for about a year. Neither of us knew the other one would be in England.

Spooky

LOL

Bev

Keshi said...

It sure is Saffy!


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OMG Bev thats FREAKY!

England here comes the hottie! ;-)




Keshi.

Anonymous said...

something wonderful happened right now
i believe in angels and miracles too


and time management
and i disallowed annony mouses on my main site IMNUTSINCAPS

they were getting real nasty
shame on u ANNONY MOUSES

Anonymous said...

i second what
Vest said...
Keshi: It is high time you became a beautful bride, you have more than enough qualities and love stored within yourself to achieve a lifetime of shared joy love and happiness


marry me

lee said...

Ah, that's funny. Sometimes in life these things just do happen. Like one day a couple of weeks ago I was very busy doing a lot of jobs down the street and was too busy to go and buy meat and see the butcher -I am on foot and it's out of the way -and I was disappointed. And then as I was getting into the taxi -who did I see drive straight past on his way home from work? -got to have a look , afterall ;).

Keshi said...

Anony heyy!

**marry me

and u r? LOL!


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Lee hey thats a beautiful 'meaty' co-incidence ;-)



Keshi.

gautami tripathy said...

A close friend of mine was getting married and she did not invite me. I wasn't even aware where she was marrying. That day I landed up in the same venue looking out for another friend of mine. I didn't know how to react initially but I did go and wish here. She was gracious too. Looked such a beauty!

It was a long time back. Maybe she had her reasons not inviting me.

Keshi said...

WOW Gautami so this didnt only happen to me! That's nice of u to go n wish her well.

I agree...G too had 'her' reasons not to invite me. I respect that but I still want to wish her...so sent her a card.


Keshi.

Little Miss Muffet said...

so u were meant to be at her wedding after all :)

Vivhyd said...

Well in the end it all evened up.. thats fate I guess.. hope u had a good date after that..

Btw those pics of celebrites without make up really scared me.. Jeez.. but u look amazing as always..

Keshi said...

Miss.Muffet I can only think of it that way :)

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Viv tnxx!


** but u look amazing as always

where? I didnt have my pic in that post did I hehehe. tnxx anyways! :)


Keshi.

SamY said...

** Ok you are not going to believe what I'm about to say

given to how much a drama queen you are I did guess you were either invited for the wedding or something such ... ur becomming like kollywood ;) ... predictable :p

Keshi said...

Samy o nooo dun compare me with Kollywood yuikkz Im not that dumb am I LOL!

Keshi.

Akshay said...

thats very strange keshi, I have never seen pop-ups on that blog and no one has ever told me about it. Anyways I will look into it, thanks for the info. sending link again, just in case..

Photoblog

Poo said...

Hi Babezzzzz
How are you ? "I dont wanna talk""" krshiiiiiii no nothing like that ...i was off on Monady and just saw ur message now.

awwww swwets nothing like that been busy on weekend and on MOnday running around doctors.

I am so sorry!!!!

Keshi said...

ty Akshay!

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Poo nah u have been quiet for few days now...so I was just wondering if u didnt wanna talk to ur blog-mates. Thats all.

Hows Prachi? Did u take her to the Sai Hospital?



Keshi.

Deepak Gopi said...

:) good day

Poo said...

Sai Hospital ...yeah No appointment for the next 15 days

Next week we are admitting prachi to NIMHANS... for 5 days they are going to test take some tissues from her body and test her in and out.

Even i will be off for next week.

How are you sweety ????

been to all the temples (Krishanji bhagwan, Sai baba temple, Hanumna temple, Ganesha temple) and prayed for her.

Poo said...

Even this week on thursday i will be off may be going to NIMHANS they have called us ....

Howz work with you

Keshi said...

aww Poo she will be ok...I know. Just have faith in God.

I hope the new tests wud lead to new therapies and that she'll get cured soon.

Im ok...just a lil busy at work. hugggggggz tc!



Keshi.

Deepthi said...

there was an angel that day...and she was just in time for you to see your frnd in tht beautiful wedding gown and for you to be by her side..even though it was far away...bless you...

Poo said...

you ok ...you are sounding sad ????

Deepthi said...

there was an angel that day...and she was just in time for you to see your frnd in tht beautiful wedding gown and for you to be by her side..even though it was far away...bless you...

Keshi said...

Deepthi I really do believe it was an angel who took us there that day. ty n huggggggggz!


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Poo Im ok. If u read my last 2 posts u'd know I was a bit upset abt not being invited to my good friend's wedding last Sat.

Tho I'd like to tell myself that it's ok, deep down Im kind of shocked and hurt. Cos she isnt someone like that...someone who wud hold on to a small argument and not invite her good friend to her wedding. But it happened somehow. I guess we just tend to keep on believing friends will always remain the same...but they dun. They change...times change...ppl move on...and I must too. But being KESHI, I find that the hardest to do :)

Anyways I just sent her a card...wishing her well. After that I feel alot better. Mebbe that took it off my chest.

ty dear HUGGGGGGGGZ!

Keshi.

Poo said...

awww HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ i was reading ythe post ..... Yesh people change either for good or bad.....But life moves on People come and go in ur life.... Every relation teaches you something.... and we treasure all the moments shared together.

I am sure when she will see ur card she will call you and everything will be alrite....

you know something you are missing with something today ??? GUESS what it is ???

and i I love this song dear very nice :))

Poo said...

atleast you saw the beautiful bride :)) who was ur close friend.

Keshi said...

ty Poo!

I must learn to let go of good friends too...cos they dun always remain the same. Im very foolish in many ways.

I dun think she'll call me. I dun expect it. I just did my part and Im happy abt it. Cos I really wanted to wish her well.


**you know something you are missing with something today ??? GUESS what it is ???

huh wut? mmm let me guess...actually I cant think of it. Wut is it? :)


Keshi.

Poo said...

you missing with ur SMILE !!!
common smile dear wanna see that Sweet and SEXY smile :))

lets hunt together .... ding diding diding di ding di ding di diiiiiiiingggggg ..... SMILE :))))))))))))

Keshi said...

:)

Keshi.

Poo said...

oh ho you still not smiling ok ...lemme think ...hmmmm wil tickle you now!!! just asi do it to Prachi !!!!

the more you think about it the more it will upset you !!! so just let go for some time....I know things will be alrite dear .....

Keshi said...

I know Poo...but nothing will take away the pain too. Its horrible when something like this happens. If she was a mean person, I wudnt be so upset. She is a lovely person and I cant imagine that someone like her cud live in that one spur experience n forget abt all the good times we had. That leaves me with no hope in friendship.

Anyways I have u and all these wonderful friends here. I feel truly blessed!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

**sour

ty for being here for me Poo...u r lovely.

Keshi.

Poo said...

I know Poo...but nothing will take away the pain too......

I am sure sweety even she will be missing you .... but there is this Invisible line in both of ur relation and it has to be broken.... that will happen one day and things will be alrite.... at this moment she has just got married she has just stepped in the new journey of her life ...when things will settle down ...I am sure she will call you .....

She is a lovely person and I cant imagine that someone like her cud live in that one spur experience n forget abt all the good times we had......In every relation there are fights sweety ... Just give some space for some time .... you did your part !!!

That leaves me with no hope in friendship..... Na dont say this !!!! Some sour exp should make you more stronger ...I know you are very strong:))

Anyways I have u and all these wonderful friends here. I feel truly blessed!.... I feel more blessed to have you in my life :))

Thanks dear ...you know what some times you must cry when you are feeling bad or sad .... the heavy feeling in ur heart will just vanish away!!! try doing it ...i do it actually v-offen it works sometimes.

TC sweetie and Smile always :)))

Keshi said...

ty so much Poo!

I just want to know if Im such a bad person that she left me out. I hope not. But whatever she did, hurt me alot.

Like u said, mebbe in time she'll think of me too. The way I think of her now.


tnxx sweetie u really made me feel better.


Keshi.

Poo said...

I just want to know if Im such a bad person that she left me out. I hope not. But whatever she did, hurt me alot........ Na dear you are not at all bad ... just that some times situations are like that ....

There must be something which she dint like about you ...doesn't mean that ur Bad !! dont ever think like that again ...plssss Keshi darlzzzzz is so sweeeeeeeeet :)) I know your hurt.

No body can really help you, you need to help urself and come out of it. I am here to talk to you to make you feel better and bring that sweet smile smile on your face :))and i will always be there.

Love ya sweetz tc dear and eat properly.

Keshi said...

Mebbe she doesnt think of me the way I think abt her...after that argument. ty Poo HUGGGGGGGZ!

Keshi.

Poo said...

Mebbe she doesnt think of me the way I think abt her...after that argument........

she will realise her mistake one day or may be she has realised it but she is not having that courage to talk to you
......HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ dear everything will alrite

Keshi said...

Poo she said Sorry to me...but after that we never really were the same. I tried...but she was distanced. her mum doesnt like me much...I dunno why..she's always rude to me. Even tho our families were very close.

Anyways tnxx for hearing me out. MWAH!

Keshi.

Poo said...

""her mum doesnt like me""

My best friends : 5 of us" always been there for each other. But none of there mums like me (Bcoz i am working) In our community Girls dont work !!!

thr wr times when there was any function at there home ..i was not invited, Its not that i was not hurt i was hurt but some times you cant really help.

And now we all hardly talk to each other, everybody is married except me and thats gives one more reason for there mum to hate me.

Its good that ur letting out.... but you need to Come out of it dear .... or else it will make you feel more worse in the next few days.

Keshi said...

Poo ur right...usually mums of ur friends dun like u either cos ur more independent than em or cos ur more of a challenge to em. I think with me, she didnt like me cos I like fashion etc and she always criticised me for it...I dunno why it should bother her anyways. But I still respect her cos she's the mother of my friend.

Anyways it cud be her mum who said NO to this...I really dun care anymore. Im just glad Im not like her.

So ur the only single girl in ur friends circle? I still have many single friends.

Keshi.

Poo said...

""cos ur more independent than em or cos ur more of a challenge to em"""" exactly !!

yeah i am the only single left :)) and i am happy about it ... I dun care either..... I love being myself.

But one thing bothers me all the time ...when ever they meet my mom they just ask her one thing ""Will Puja vere marry' Are not finding a match for her blah blah blah ...and it then my mom starts crying ..and i dont like that :(

Keshi said...

Thats really none of their business is it? If I were u, I'd tell em to go bake a cake instead of wasting time.

Keshi.

Poo said...

I wish i cud say that !!! But Marwadi community ...Horrible !!!! cant help

Did you eat something ??

Keshi said...

**Marwadi community

wuts that?

but I know Indian/Sri Lankan communities can be so nosy.

yes I had my lunch. U better go n do some work sweetie. ty for being here!


Keshi.

Poo said...

thanks sweetie ....

Marwadi Community....hmmmm

"Rajasthan community"

you 2 have a good day and smile always dear :)))

Velu Nair said...

Yeh!! Those real jaw-dropping moments have to be survived thru, to be believed...

Life sure can pull a fast one on us at times, what say??
:)

Vest said...

Keshi:There must be a good reason for you to remain single, tell me why please.

Pete said...

I stumbled across your blog tonight whilst surfing aronud and I would love the chance to interview you for my site www.bloggerview.net

Would it be ok if I sent you through some questions?

If you're interested let me know pete@bloggerview.net

Ghost Particle said...

dayumn! HEHEHEH... u were snooping...:p

Man this is like it always happen you know.,..teh days i go to my uni and pray i dont meet my lecturer and guesss wholl walk into the lift!

Sanjay said...

Unexpected coincidence or a connectedness of a different kind?

Princess Banter said...

Wow -- that was quite freaky!!! Life's little surprises ;) Nonetheless, sounded like you have one helluva weekend :)

The Shrew said...

Wandered over from rama's braindump.

That's quite a coincidence.I know how you must've felt at being snubbed.I've been in the same situation once.It's nice to see you so happy for your friend inspite of it.

It's something isn't it?Seeing someone so close in their wedding dress?I cried when my best childhood buddy got married too.It was quite dramatic of me but well atleast I learnt what "tears of joy" meant.She looked so beautiful in the gorgeous wedding gown and wreath!!

Alok Jha said...

Have been reading ur post for the last two hrs and just can't resist to stop. Fantastic narrative style. Am inspired.

homo escapeons said...

What a nice surprise. Years from now when your friend matures and realises what an ASS she was for not inviting you, you can tell her that you accidentally saw how beautiful and happy she looked anyway.
That will make her feel even worse for being such a bitch!

LADY LUXIE said...

I'm a first time reader so..the way i understand it is that..this G was your friend and she didn't invite you to her wedding but you happen to chance at the main even unexpectedly...

wow!...Totally intuitive!...And your sweet thought about sending her a card and wishing her well just proves that you're a real friend...anyone would be proud to have.

I hope more friends come your way..have a nice happy day :>

:P fuzzbox said...

It is a twisty turny thing. This thing we call life.

Top cat said...

What a wonderful spontaneous moment for you.
you rock!
tc

Lizard Princess said...

I know lots of people say this, but I don't believe in coincidences. You were meant to see her- if even just to wish her your best in you heart, and do the honorable thing by resisting the urge to shout to her- that was noble of you.

e said...

Hey I am unsure if you visited and left a comment on my blog, but I have a feeling someone is up to SOME mischief pretending to be you on my comment box. Maybe you recognise the ISP address? Sorry, I had to say it here - but I dont know how else to get in touch with you. Do let me know because I am unsure whether I should retain or delete those stupid comments. Thanks and I am sorry to have to bother you ~ Ravi

The Old Mule said...

Life comes in peculiar waves. I am glad you had such an exciting event!

deepti said...

well i would say that since u so wanted to wish her n see her on her wedding day it happened becuse of that sheer power that wishes have... well i believe in it, u can choose to believe otherwise...
B/W i have translated the poem for u, u can read it in my comments...
Happy week ahead...
Love...take care.

Lisa Francisco aka AVIANA said...

Stopping by to say hi!

Anonymous said...

Good morning Poo, Keshi

Anonymous said...

its OK to be single girls
its not a crime


dont rush into marriage
wait for Mr Right

Anonymous said...

Calibre is when u dont rush into matrimony just boz u r lonely and all your friends are married


no marriage is far better than an unhappy marriage

Keshi said...

ty Poo for that txt msg...it made me happy :) MWAHHH!

I'd love to see u in beautiful Rajasthani wedding gear some day...


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It sure can Velu!



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Vest I dun wish to remain single...just that FATE seems to want it that way for me.

:)


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hey Pete I'll be to check u out. tnxxx!



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Ghosty u know I wasnt hehe.


LOL @lecturer!


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hey Sanjy hows u? Missed ya mate.


**Unexpected coincidence or a connectedness of a different kind?

I really think it's the latter!



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TY Banter :)




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Shrew WC n tnxx!

aww I know those happy tears...I cried em too...for G...just yday.


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WC Alok n ty!

:)


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:) HE tnxx!

I sent her a beautiful card yday...


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Lay_Luxie WC n ty!

yes u interpreted the story spot on! if u read my lats post's 2nd section, on Friday I had just whinged abt not being invited :) and this happened on Sat!

I have already sent G a beautiful car.

ty for ur well-wishes for me!


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It sure is Fuzzy!


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ty Rick!


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Lizard_Princess I truly believe in that too...that I was MEANT to be there. It's freaky but it's magical. ty!


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E heyy so it was u who emailed me as Ravi? :) Now I get it.

I checked ur comment section...the very first comment was mine. The rest from some jealous junky. I have many impersonators...unbelievably jobless ppl. Just check the IP addy next time.

And tnxx!


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ty Mulester! :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Deepthi ty sweetie!

**it happened becuse of that sheer power that wishes have

I truly believe in that too.


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heyy Lisa ;-)



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Saby Good Morning!


I know being single is much better than being stuck with the wrong person. :) ty for that!




Keshi.

ღ lil_kath ღ said...

** I felt like calling out her name and saying 'G you look gorgeous, I wish you well hun' **

... aww thats soo touchin' kesh, how sweet of u to still feel the same way even she didnt invite u! ;( was in tears readin' it now... ;(;( see God still made the way to let u see her on her wedding day.... awww! i know time will come and she will realized that... and i hope u two can talk soon! muaahh...

... stay blessed and the way u are!! luv ya...

hugss**

Keshi said...

Kath ty HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

Im still in tears...happy tears for her. Seriously I dun hv any ill feelings towards her...she's a lovely girl and even tho she didnt invite me for her big day, I still love n care for her...I truly mean it. I dun usually feel this way if someone hurt me like this, but it must be her...she's special. thats why.


ty sweetie!
Keshi.

Pete said...

RE: Hi Pete hows it going? :) ty for dropping by.

Whats the Interview abt?

Hey Keshi...basically every week i post an interview with a different blogger....i try to ask questions coming from the angle their site is about.

You can check out the site at www.bloggerview.net

If you're interested let me know as i would love to get your take on things.

pete@bloggerview.net

Trinnie said...

aah, i dont think this is a mere coincidence. various experiences of the sort in my life tell me that u and ur friends were meant to pass that way on that way!
i hope ur friend and u reconcile though...

take care! :)

White Forest said...

Hey Kashi how are you dear...?

I know its long time ...i was in an impasse..but hopefully should get out of it soon!

voww...this was a wonderful co-incidence...

Keshi said...

Pete tnxx matey! Im eagerly waiting for the qns now :)


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Trinnie I think so too...isnt it lovely!



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Forest hey wussup? I hope ur ok? Tell me..



Keshi.

alex said...

Keshi,

hmmm....well, then it is difficult...

Shiva said...

Keshi, You yourself have given the explanation. It is a pure coincidence. Life is full of chances and surprises. The beauty of life is in such surprise. Just wonder with awe.

MONA said...

keshi, how are you! Some good posts here. I have been keeping away due to some snide remarks by some anons who seem to have gravitated to my blog and even taken & put my picture on their blog. Will return soon. :) Dont mind please. I love reading your blog!

Keshi said...

Alex :)


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yes Shiva ty!



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Mona u ok?




Keshi.

MONA said...

I am okay Keshi. Its just that some person called Jim posted some very nasty comments about you on my blog. I had to remove them of course. Later I found that he had taken my HNT picture & posted it on one of his numerous blogs. I am writing a comment here because I do not want to provoke anyone into making snide comments about myself[ like mona looks hot in a sari etc.] or you[as it happened on my blog] for the time being.I just want to be away from the scene.

Keshi said...

Mona tnxx! Let me come over n see what happened.

Keshi.