Tuesday, May 8

Keying Motherhood

WARNING: Long post ahead. My chatterbox genes did Overtime today.

This post is dedicated to Helen...a beautiful girl with a beautiful heart...and a beautiful mother she will be.

Teenage Frenzy
Ok I wore a short summer dress (in Autumn that is) and a lei (a flower garland) around my neck for the Hawaiin night. Thanks all for your great tips. The birthday girl bt
w looked sooo beautiful in a colorful beach sarong, black singlet and flowers in her hair. It was a great party cos there were the loud teenagers and then the late 20s and the early 30s crowd as well. And there were some 40s and 50s people too. It was a great mix of generations - almost every generation. And could you believe it, we gatecrashed the teen dance floor. One of my friends and I heard the music start and we just couldn't be seated anymore. We were on the floor within seconds, and the teenagers (who had formed a circle while dancing) were like what's going on - who are these 2 crazy grown-ups here hehe. We went right to the middle of the circle and got them to dance around us. They enjoyed having us and it's not like we are sooo much more older than them ha! A very tall 18yr old guy there thought I still went to High School and he asked me which HS I go to, LOL! I told him that I'm still in Kindy - he knew I was trying to be too funny when it really wasnt. The music was not bad...they played some of my fav songs too and so we danced all night long - it was good fun. Came home at 2am - didnt see any ghosts on the highway this time. Sorry I didnt take photos of the party (now can you believe that)...others did and I haven't got them yet. Anyways I didn't look too flash...it was just a teenage party and I didn't wanna make them feel less important you see.

Lost One More Thing!
Last night when all the people on my floor had left, I was still in my office finishing off some work around 7pm...so I was the last to leave the floor. Our floor's got a Password protected alarm system to be activated and also a door to be locked by the last person who leaves the floor. I activated the alarm and then when I was going to lock the door, I realised I had no key to do it duhhh! The key that has been in my handbag for so long and the one I use all the time was suddenly gone. Now where was it? Panic set in (being the top contestant of Miss.Drama Queen of all times). I sat down, emptied the whole bag on the carpet and was trying hard to find it somewhere in my bag, but apparently the Key God was drunk - or on some permanent holiday in the Bahamas flirting with the Door Goddess maybe, cos he wasn't answering my prayers damn it! I was sooo upset, tired, hungry and it was really late and I felt like a door bitch standing near the door not knowing what to do - and there was no f'n way I could leave without locking the place up (even thought of sleeping insde the office that night). So I went back into the office, rang up my boss (to ask where the spare key was or which security guy I should contact) on his mobile - he's someone who always answers the phone. Well guess what...this time he didn't. It went to his voicemail. BUMMER! And then I rang up another colleague, and another, and another...no one was bloody picking up the phone! Then finally I managed to reach my other boss who was actually still in the City - I felt so relieved! He came back to the office within 15mins, locked up the place and we went home. So where is my key? It was not at home, not in the office, not in my bag...this can never really be cos I always had that key in my bag for such a long time and I used it last on Mon this week. Key where are you??

How About A Mini Me?
This photo was taken yesterday just to show you that I CAN smile. Some people tell me here that I don't smile much...oh well I always do :). Smiling and giggling like a maniac is just about the only thing I can do really well. I'm so high on Nitrous Oxide my mum sometimes tells me to stop acting like a 5yr old. Speaking of kids, I have lately started thinking alot about Motherhood. I see few mothers in Blogville (Tasha, Menchie, Asha, Lee, Autumn, Mommy, Starry, Kath, Ish, Shionge, Cazzie, Ghee and many more great mums) putting up pics of their lovely kids and telling us cute stories about them...those wonderful experiences make me wanna be a mum too. Imagine what my blog would be like if I was a mum! I'd take 500 photos a day of my babies and all of you would get so bored with my yakking about them hehe. But do not fear my children, cos there's a very low chance of that happening soon considering the fact that I haven't even found the frikkin father of my future kids - go figure! But then again in this day and age, you really don't need a man to have kids. There's all sorts of short-cuts to be a mum. But I aint no Angelina Jolie you see and neither am I into having a baby without a committed man in my life. I don't think it would be fun without having a man around - the father of the kids I mean, not the neighbor! I believe Motherhood is also about Fatherhood. A child needs both of them (if possible), and the mother and father need each other to bring up a child in a balanced environment. People need to take Parenthood seriously. Instead alot of people these days just have babies and leave them to be looked after by one parent or someone else altogether. If you make babies, please be responsible for your creation and be there for them as they grow up. I think being a mother is one of the most beautiful experiences in life (apart from the delivery time!) and I wish to be a mum some day (before my eggs RIP), say to about 3-5 kids?I love kids and I'd do anything just to be a great mum. And if I ever get to be a mum (a Rock-mum that is), may God look after my kids' mental status.

Mothers Around The World

OMG I just realised that this weekend is Mothers' Day! I swear I didn't plan this post for that...I just started yakking about my office keys, my smile, then kids, then motherhood and look where it ended - all of a sudden I have written about Mothers/Motherhood just today out of all days. I guess it's just my instincts that wrote this post then ha. At our home every single day is Mothers' Day cos without our mum we'd be nothing. Basically she's my world. She's the reason behind my everything. There are times we have silly arguments and we don't talk for a while, but I can't be like that with her for too long - so I go and make funny faces at her and then we both laugh and make up. If a mum cant be there for her child and if a child cant be there for her/his mum, you really haven't lived life - cos the bond between a mother and child is purer than anything else in the world - you just cant deny that and you cant live denying that. Have a Happy Mothers' Day this weekend all you lovely mothers (and fathers) out there! Now I gotta go and find my eggs, ooops I mean my keys!

And today's Music is especially for my momma and for all the mums around the world!
If you're a mum share with us the BESTEST part of being a mum.

Current Music: Bohemian Rhapsody by Queen
Current Music Update: I Just Called To Say I Love You by Stevie Wonder

119 Cranium Signets:

Shionge said...

I just love your post ~ almost everything under the skies keekkeke...

Right, thanks for the update on the birthday party, I would dance the night away with you too.

Hmmm...about the key ~ Murphy's law huh? Glad you manage to get out and post this for us heheh....

Love your smile and bet your future kid is gonna have the best smile ever plus your intelligence too :)

Luv you pal!~

Thumbelina said...

Hi Keshi!

Great to hear tat u enjoyed the party :) Dancing in the middle of the circle of teens.. Hmm.. U are very brave.. HaHa..

The pic. Nice! Nice smile too! Seldom see u post up ur pic with a smile.. Normally its eyes eyes & more eyes.. HeHeHe..

Lost key? It happened to me at times too.. Its weird. The key which i hung in my key pouch was missing when the pouch is on my hand.. Hmm.. HaHa.. Emptied my whole bag on the floor like u, i still can't find it.. Looking for it all over again, i found the key stuck inside one of the slots in the key pouch.. LOL!

Motherhood.. Fatherhood... Hmm... I wonder how it would be like to see ur blog full of the little ones' pics.. HeHehe... Its not easy being a moth or a father as far as i know. We got to really plan it out well if not everyone will suffer..

Mothers' Day.. Hmm.. Thinking of bringing my whole family out for a nice dinner to celebrate Mothers' Day.. But still thinking cos my mum works on Sundays too..

Take Care!!

Thumbee

dharmabum said...

ah! so she smiles - although just a wee bit ;)

thank you keshi!

Neihal said...

hahhaha
it wasnt that long after all. :)

and just like Shionge I was thinking of the Murphy's law. :D

Aditi said...

mothers day is still a while away isnt it?
hope u find the key...

Trinnie said...

"apparently the Key God was drunk - or on some permanent holiday in the Bahamas flirting with the Door Goddess maybe, cos he wasn't answering my prayers damn it!"

"and I wish to be a mum some day (before my eggs RIP)"


LOL keshi, u crack me up with lines like these! i can never really think up somethin like this or write in such a humorous style. i wish i had a better sense of humour. and u know i don't crack jokes becoz the times i did, no one laughed and i ended up looking like a fool! :P
ok i digress!

"I believe Motherhood is also about Fatherhood."
yeah, thats so true... its a joint responsibility. i have friends who have lost their fathers. i always wonder how they feel coz they don't speak much about their dads or if they miss them or how they feel about them...

and don't worry keshi, wish with all the greatest intention in the world for what u want and u will get it. u just have to want it with all your heart. whether its a nice partner for life and/or beautiful kids! take care! :)

deepsat said...

really nice long post keshi!!

so that key is still missing??? hope u find it soon!! :-))

vishesh said...

wish i can party......

anyway maybe you put the key safely some where??my mom usually does that,she keeps somethings so safely you can never find that....


everyone is a creator isn't it......all of us can create...if we are some kinda real sinners we wouldn't have that power would we....its too confusing i know...why this dude/dudette called god created humans and then gave us the power to create....

Cuckoo said...

Glad to know you enjoyed the party, short dress... Ahaaa ;)

Could you find the key ?

And Happy Mom's day to your mom too.

Autumn Storm said...

You're absolutely right about the father being in the picture, not so in the case of myself and my daughter. Had I a magic wand..
Being a single-parent means there is no one to share the joy with, add to that the responsibility and the diciplining and what have you of course, but mostly it's about having someone to share all the pride and joy with. I do miss that. And as for M, without doubt, she has lost out in not having a father.

Hope you find your keys. :-)

Happy Wednesday, xo

Perspective Inc said...

Long post it was, but well worth the read!!
So...any luck with the 'key'?

Menchie said...

Yikes! that's a nightmare about the keys...hope you find it.

great choice of outfit for the party...and you look gorgeous whether you smile or not.

as for the best part of being a mom, I would say it's when your child is old enough to hug and kiss you because they want to and when they say..."I wuv you mommy!" :D

The Grunt said...

Great Mother's Day message, Keshi.

I hate that anxiety when keys are lost.

Nora said...

I hope you find your eggs - I mean KEYS - soon! x

alex said...

Keshi,

I enjoy dancing to music too. :)

'till the eggs burst' LOL :D

der Bergwind said...

motherhood is abt fatherhood or is fatherhood abt motherhood too.. as they say the woman kind knowz the limitz n bounds of this great sexual divide that rolls across the social fabric.. but then its the 'men' who seem to not know that lifez more of a balanced trapeze :)) so i guess...

Pritika Gupta said...

Being a mom.. I dont know but it needs mental preperation too.. tht too when in india people soon start pressurizing u as u get married.. i just know tht im neither mentally nor physically prepared for it.. god help me..

Vikas said...

HELLO KESHI :)

It must be really fun dancing with teenagers.Even i did once with them and had fun.The best part was there were more rythymic than me:D

hmm you in shor skirt...i want to see u keshi...pics plssss...

keys...show keys made u lost...hmm night in office..wait wait let me start my spy cam ;))
..did u find them now??

motherhood is the best and infact new life to women,,and women cant get this hapiness without men....hey keshi my news post is bit different but its on family only..check it out my blog"DAIRY OF LIFE" and let me know ur view

what else honey..
Take Care
Vikas{V}

Silvara said...

Heheh the party sounded like it was a success! Ur outfit sounded great too - get some pics asap!

Oh Kesh - you'd be an AWESOME mother I can just see it now lol. Totally a rock mother hehehhe.

And once again I'm going to say I LOVE the hair - that pic is soooo sexy :D Beautiful smile :)

lee said...

It's a cliche -but the unconditional love that exists between a mother and her child -that's the best thing ever.When my son was born and was given to me to hold I fell in love with him -of course it isn't romantic love, but something stronger that takes grip of your heart and doesn't let go.Sometimes my boy will look into my eyes and in that moment you feel as though you are the most special person that ever walked the planet -and hopefully he feels the same way when I look at him.

Cazzie!!! said...

Best part of being a mum is the love you get when you do not expect it, the kisses, huggs and the things the kids make all by their own selves :)

Poo said...

summer dress (in Autumn that is) and a lei (a flower garland) around my neck - WOW pictures pictures pictures ;)

Key !! it gone to his Girlfrnd its just fed up of you that why ;) even the key needs love and break that why its gone now... so you need a new key.

mOtherhOOd :)) i want to become a mommy too. I am going to have 3 kids and gng to adopt one for sure :))

Nice post keshi :))

Love ya and tc

Poo said...

A beautiful poem- So simple

You cry,
And I pick you up

I leave the room
And you look for me.

You smile at me
And I smile back at you.

I rock you
And you melt in my arms.

You sleep with me
And we nurse the night away.

I am your mother
And you are my baby.

You need me
And so I need you.

ishita said...

hey kesh...lovely post esp. the dedication to all the mommies..

u've always been very thoughtful :)

sumday u're gonna be gr8 mom...i know that!

and the best part of being a mum for me...is...just experiencing this feeling of unconditional luv for my baby...:)...in fact i think that and the fact that I've become so so patient after V's come along...are the best things!!

thanks kesh:)...*huggzzz*

ToOothlEss WOndeR! said...

I've bottle fed him through his milk days, braved milk teeth nibbles and even cleaned his poop.
Now Spark's a big boy, and is totally in love with the dalmatian next door.
I have a right to figure on the best mom's list!
:|

Jeevan said...

It’s seems you had a great movements in the dance party. Hope u find the key or get another from the office.

You make me feel high about the motherhood u like. Wish you to have cute and sweet children in ur life:) I felt there is nothing great before their stress, pain and sacrifice as a mother. Happy Mothers day dear. Hugssss.

shnaggy said...

i bet you look fab in the party keshi...

and happy mum's day to your mum. she raised a wonderful, strong, confident woman that you are!!!nice mum you got kesh.

my life.... said...

eggs RIP? haha hilarious way of phrasing yr words man... well, yes, i hope that i get hitched soon so that i can enjoy motherhood... hope u find the Mr.Right soon... hehe...take care and have a great day ahead Keshi:)

Asha said...

LOL @ *Now I gotta go and find my eggs, ooops I mean my keys!*
Your Eggs still have some time to find a good one!;D Hang in there!
Hope you make your mom VERY happy this Sunday!:))
Hugs,love you!

Princess Banter said...

Awwwww what an apt post for Mother's Day :) You'll get your chance to be one too... one day. And I'm sure you'd be a wonderful mother too...

Helen said...

Aaaw, thanks for the dedication, Keshi, someday, someday, it'll be fat, happy babies, giggles and gurgles--for both of us!! (then we'll HAVE to visit, maybe meet up in Venice or Athens) ; )
Wouldn't that be fun?! Maybe we can get Visa to sponsor say a cruise for 50 of your closest blog pals to meet for the first time! : ) ha ha
Lovely post, Keshi, I love the way your thoughts ramble!!

Pecos Blue said...

Great to read your posts. You will be a mom don't worry and yes you will take 500 photos a day.

take care

WP2007 said...

Keshi, Keshi, Keshi

What are we going to do with you?

You think u r ready to be a mother, and you lose your keys. Is this the way u r going to treat your babies?

"The baby that has been in my handbag for so long and the one I just had were suddenly gone. Now where are they? Panic set in (being the top contestant of Miss World Whore Queen of all times). I sat down, emptied the whole bag on the carpet and was trying hard to find them somewhere in my bag, but apparently I was drunk - or on some permanent brain holiday in LuLu Land flirting with a hunk maybe, cos he wasn't answering my prayers damn it cos I do need another baby! I was sooo upset, tired, hungry and it was really late and I felt like a bitch standing near the door not knowing where my babies were - and there was no f'n way I could leave them to lock the place up (even thought of them sleeping inside the office that night). So I went back into the office, rang up my boss (the father of my babies) on his mobile - he's someone who always answers the phone. Well guess what...this time he didn't. It went to his voicemail. BUMMER!"

LOL

Bev

Top cat said...

I have your key.:)
Nice smile keshi.
You will make beautiful babies.
tc

Kavi said...

Great to hear that you enjoyed the party ! Hope you find the key. Hope mothers day turns out fine :)

Nice post with humour laced in. Wonder how you are able to do this. So very consistently.

jitendra said...

why such a constipated smile? :D:D It aint a smile unless you show your teeth ;)

Charles said...

Hi Keshi,
I have tagged you, my apologies. I hope you don't mind.

Interesting post, I too think its a great responsibility. I wish I had grown up with a mom, I feel like I missed so much I should have learned, not to mention the love and enjoyment.

Have you listened to Bohemian Rhapsody? I'd feel like a failure if I hadn't taught my child better than to kill a man. I guess its the best you can hope for though, there's not a lot of songs that mention mothers.

The Phoenix said...

Phew....that was a long post.

As far as motherhood is concerned, sounds like Mother Nature is nudging you a little.

Fated said...

That is a beautiful photo of you!

I agree with you. A child deserves both a commited mother and father. With the world as crazy as it is, each child deserves every possible advantage. I would definitely say having both a loving mother and father would be one of the best advantages to give a child.

Charles said...

Hi Keshi,
I've tagged you. My apologies.
Happy Mother's day to yours. Same to future Mommie you.

Keshi said...

Shionge Murphy's Law it is! btw I must have been in Murphy's mind when he came up with that law cos the wrong things take place in my life almost all the time.

I hope u have a lovely time with ur kids this weekend!

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hey Thumbee ty!

**the key stuck inside one of the slots in the key pouch

ur lucky. yday I searched the whole house n office...and thought of calling a search party too...but my key seems to have travelled to key heaven.


Thumbee tho I like and want to be a mum, I dun think Im quite the mum-material...cos I have a very free life right now and to imagine bringing up a baby and looking after it 24/7 sounds like a horror movie to me...I mean all the hard-work. The coochee coo part is my fav :). I agree its not an easy job!


I hope u have a terrific time with ur family this wknd Thumbee!


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Dharma actually I thought of u when I took that pic :) cos I rem u said I dun smile hehe.


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Neihal it sure was Murphy's Law and also Drama Queen's Law of panicking :)


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Aditi Mums Day is this weekend - Sunday in Aus :) How abt in the US?




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Trinnie hugggggggz! Im glad u enjoy reading me :)


** don't crack jokes becoz the times i did, no one laughed and i ended up looking like a fool

o dun worry that has happened to me many times. but I dun care I still say lame jokes hehe. who cares if they cant see the humor in it...we can right? :) So keep cracking em girl.


**they don't speak much about their dads or if they miss them or how they feel about them...

I know that feeling...cos u know my dad died when I was 16. Atleast he was ard for my first few years on this Earth. I still do miss him alot tho.


Trinnie tnxx for ur beautiful wishes me! I hate to be negative but somehow I feel Im not gonna be a mum in this life...Im sorry to sound so pessimistic, but there's my instincts telling me that...dun ask me how/why.

ty n huggggggggggz!

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ty Deepz :)



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Vishesh why cant u party? btw I dun party all the time...Im not a party girl. I just go to parties when Im invited and thats not many btw. Just few bday parties and dance parties here n there.


**my mom usually does that,she keeps somethings so safely you can never find that....

but she'd know where it is right. In my case I dunno where it is :):)


There's power in us to create...but there seems to be no responsibilty for that. Atleast it seems like that with some parents.

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ty Cuckoo!

And plz leave that tag link here for me, tnxx!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Autumn HUGGGGGGGGGZ!

**but mostly it's about having someone to share all the pride and joy with.

I agree Autumn. Even tho Im not a mum and I had both my mum n dad until I was 16, I have friends/cousins who r either single parents or who didnt have both parents since they were babies. I can see those single parents struggling to share the joy n pride of parenthood...I can see the kids missing out on having a dad...I can see.

But u been one of the best mums there ever was, with all ur intelligence, beauty, grace and comapssion, I dun think M is missing much. U rock!

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Perspective ty and nah I still cudnt find my keys :(


Last nite there was a huge Search mission for it at home and I had no luck.

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Menchie I know...the key drama!


**..."I wuv you mommy!"

awwwwwwwww so sweeeeeet! well I still say that to my mum hehe. Just this morning I hugged her and said this in a baby voice:

"maaaamy maaaamy I lubb uuuu'

she got so annoyed lolz!


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Grunty ty and I hope I find my keys...cos I hate to ask my boss for another one...he's gonna think Im a key-eating moth of a drama queen.


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Nora I hope so too ty sweetie!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Alex!

**'till the eggs burst'

u mean I should dance till my eggs burst? LOL!


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heyy Bergwind!


**but then its the 'men' who seem to not know that lifez more of a balanced trapeze

Some men, yeah.
:)

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hey Pritika!


**i just know tht im neither mentally nor physically prepared for it

I agree...Im no way physically prepared for it! :) I mean carrying a baby for 9 months and then going thru the delivery...omg its freaky. I'd adopt a baby actually.

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Vikas ur spy-cam didnt help :(


**and women cant get this hapiness without men

true...it's a team effort and joy that need to be shared.

I'll check ur blog soon ty!


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Silvara ty sweetie! I hope I get the pics soon :)

btw u'd make a cool mum too...a posh, closet-nympho kinda mum u see ;-) Ur kids will look good all the time.


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Lee that was beautiful.

**Sometimes my boy will look into my eyes and in that moment you feel as though you are the most special person that ever walked the planet

very touching! I wanna feel that too...some day I hope.

TY Lee!

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heyy Caz!


**Best part of being a mum is the love you get when you do not expect it, the kisses, huggs and the things the kids make all by their own selves

awww just lovely! I always feel that energy n happiness in ur blog...the one that u get from ur kids. Its amazing!


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Poo ur gonna have 3 kids? WOW! I hope I'd get to see them too.

**even the key needs love and break that why its gone now... so you need a new key.

r ya saying I didnt love my key? SOBBBBBBBBBBBBBBZ! :( I loved that guy so much that he was smothered by my love..thats why he left prolly.


I just love that verse...ty soooo much for sharing that with us Poo HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!


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Ishi hugggggggz lovely to see u here!


**just experiencing this feeling of unconditional luv for my baby

I know that all mums feel this way abt their kids...my mum always says that too. I wanna feel that kinda love too...some day.

ty Ish!


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heyy Toothless!

**Now Spark's a big boy, and is totally in love with the dalmatian next door.

LOL ok! ur indeed a great mum then :):)

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ty Jeevan!

** felt there is nothing great before their stress, pain and sacrifice as a mother

I agree...it is the toughest job on Earth.




Keshi.

Keshi said...

awww tnxxx Shnaggy HUGGGGGGGGGZ!


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My_Life :) ty!

btw I cant get to ur blog :( dunno why.


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Asha tnxxx! :)

Speaking of eggs, I dunno if the guys eggs expire too..do they?



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ty Banter n u too!


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Helen awww twas my pleasure hun. HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!


**then we'll HAVE to visit, maybe meet up in Venice or Athens

That wud be the sickest thing ever..sickest as in AWESOME :)

Imagine us holding babies together...WOW!

And inviting 50 blogger-buddies too..just WOW!


Well Helen I know u'd be a mum soon...I so know that. U'd make a beautiful mum and ur kids r gonna be so lucky to have ya as their mum. I can just picture ya!


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Pecos and I know ur a great momma too!

ty sweetie!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Bev u cracked me up big time! LOL ty soooo much for that comment. One of the HILARIOUS ones ever!! :):)


**You think u r ready to be a mother, and you lose your keys. Is this the way u r going to treat your babies?

lolz yes. cmon if I lose a baby I can rent one na.



**"The baby that has been in my handbag for so long and the one I just had were suddenly gone.

how did u even know I usually carry my babies in my handbag? that was great!


**Now where are they? Panic set in (being the top contestant of Miss World Whore Queen of all times).

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! U forgot to add DD b4 Whore.


**apparently I was drunk - or on some permanent brain holiday in LuLu Land flirting with a hunk maybe, cos he wasn't answering my prayers damn it cos I do need another baby!

ROFL! How did u know that Bev??


** So I went back into the office, rang up my boss (the father of my babies) on his mobile -

lolz OMG! Then I'd be with a suga-daddy. not bad..he's a daddy anyways.


Bev u have a classic sense of humor. Loved it mate ty! :)


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ty Rick!



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Kavi ty!

I guess this is just me..so Im not puttin in any effort to write posts...it just happens. I dun usually plan posts...I sit n write one post in abt 20mins and it's all done n over with. Im glad u like my posts.

and tnxx for the encouragement too!


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Jit the sexy guy in hot nerdy glasses, hows u?


**why such a constipated smile? :D:D

mebbe cos I was constipating at the time? LOL!


**It aint a smile unless you show your teeth ;)

really? I didnt know that. Ok next time I'll show my teeth...in case ur wondering I do have teeth and they aint dentures lol!

tnxx for the tip Jitterz!


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Charles I'll be there soon ty!

Did u not have ur mum with u when u grew up? Im so sorry to hear that mate. It must have been very tough.


**I'd feel like a failure if I hadn't taught my child better than to kill a man.

I know. But I love this song so much. everytime I listen to it, I think of my mum.

there r some other great MOTHER songs out there...I know few of em. But chose this one instead :)

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heyy Phoenix!


**sounds like Mother Nature is nudging you a little.

yeah mebbe Im feeling clucky..cos I aint getting any younger am I :)


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Fated ty!

yes having both the parents wud be a great advantage for the kid...these days it's more like a bonus!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

KK yes 7:30pm is late for me cos I come very early to work....:) wut abt u?


Keshi.

Vivhyd said...

Hey Keshi.. too bad u didnt take any pics at the party.. wud have loved to see some..

LOL with the keys.. glad u got out!
Did you find it?

That was a nice piece abt Motherhood ..

krystyna said...

Hi Keshi!
You said, that it will be long post. I didn't notice it. You write as a master. I love your story. Thanks!
Blessings to you and your dear mother!

Jay said...

There was a period of time when I thought that maybe being married and having kids would be cool. But, for the most part I'v never really wanted kids. Getting married would be okay, but not kids.

Hey, at least I admit it and didn't go ahead and have kids even though I didn't wan them like so many people do.

Aidan said...

War and Peace as a Blog post.. So much to say.

I really wish i could dance, it looks more like a fit than a dance routine. ALthough i have been told im light on my feet, unfortunately i am heavy on everyone elses....

Any nice boys at the party, anything you have neglected to mentnion:)

I dont think you can ever truly repay your parents in life, They gave you life, they sheltered you, feed you clothed you for 20 ish years, financialy and emotionaly, you could never give it all back:)

I was listening to Hammer to Fall about ten minutes ago. I have a version of Bohemian Rhapsody with..... Queen (- freddy), Elton John (vocals) and Axel Rose (for the heavy bit)..... its a live recording, keep an eye out for it on Bit torent, lime wire etc

vishesh said...

i dont party because none of friends are of that type....all of us are footie mad.....we will land up playing football whatever we are doing :)

Drama Div@ said...

We also should celebrate our mother on our birthday... the day our mom experiencing severe birth pains in order to bring us to the world!!

Here's a toast to Mama!!

Keshi said...

Viv ty!

abt pics...didnt take em cos I left my camera at home like a dorky dorksterness...others did take some. dunno when I'd receive em.

nah I cudnt find it yet :(


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gee tnxx Krys ur so sweet!


Hope u have a lovely Mums Day this weekend.


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Jay hey!

**at least I admit it and didn't go ahead and have kids even though I didn't wan them like so many people do.

I agree. U r being very honest and I really like that.


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heyyya Aidan :)

**it looks more like a fit than a dance routine.

LOL I'd like to witness ur fit.


**Any nice boys at the party, anything you have neglected to mentnion

Aidan there were very good-looking guys at the party...my only dilemma was that they were only 18-20. And I aint no cradle-snatcher u see hehe.

The 'eligible-for-keshi' guys were either taken or not really my kind. Go figure mate, I think Im doomed for life! Where r all the other Aidans?


I agree abt parents...u cant really ever repay em fully.


** I have a version of Bohemian Rhapsody with..... Queen (- freddy), Elton John (vocals) and Axel Rose (for the heavy bit).....

I have listened to that version on youTube. One of the BEST! I gotta download it and put into my iPod somehow.


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heyy Socceroo Vishesh...why dun u guys then throw a party at the football field?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Diva thats so true!

Everyday is Mothers Day...thats what I believe.

Keshi.

WP2007 said...

Hi Keshi

I happy you liked my comment.

With the Mommy Dearest Day coming, your post was well timed.

LOL

Bev

Keshi said...

And I sound like Mother Superior dun I :)

I gotta be more like Daughter Superior...I'll work on it.

Keshi.

curryegg said...

Ya..without mum..we're just nothing. I hope I can treat her better and be a better daughter.
And for me, everyday should be a mother's day... ;D

Lisa Francisco said...

HI Girly!!!!

Yep that would be me with the key thing!

Yea I also have been thinking alot about motherhood the past few years and especially more so now. I don't know why. Maybe I'm getting to that point. I'm not in my 30s!!!! Shit!!

I definitely plan on adopting, I want a boy. I don't know why. I do think about having my own kids from my own body but I just worry too much about the effects on my body and what wll happen if me and the father break up and stuff....oh well

glad you had fun at the party!

so you like AVANYA? I like it too...a little different....you're the first one to pick that name....hmmm

bye!!

lisa

Sujit said...

wow.. party all the time?.. thats great ya.. sorry have been bit busy..with work so could not visit regularly.. :( hope things are fine..:) and you are doing good..

Rajeev said...

PHEW!! #:-S that was a really long post.
but was worth readin every line :D
I'm thinkin of a poem to write for my mom for mother's day!!
lets see how it turns out!!

peace & love
JeeVY

tsduff said...

Hi Keshi,

I would kill for long slender legs like yours... you lucky gal you!

Nice tribute to Mothers - I love reading your blog. I am blessed by my own three children... grown up as they are. I have one sweet little boy grandson, who, is as priceless as any other child. You, Kesh, will make a wonderful, worldly, eyeopening and loving Mother. You are full of life and joy of life's expectations. HUGS!

Keshi said...

Curryegg thats right, ty!


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Lisa yes I like AVANYA alot.


**but I just worry too much about the effects on my body and what wll happen if me and the father break up and stuff

I can u'stand that. I see some of my married friends goin thru such probs. To some extent their experiences scare me.


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Sujit hows u?

not all the time :) I dun party like a maniac...hehe.


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Rajeev ty n good luck with ur poem to ur Ma!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Terry huggggggggz!

oh no girl they r not my legs :) It's a pic from fotosearch. Yeah great legs they r! I can honestly claim I have nice legs too..I hope I dun sound like Im bragging here hehe.

Ur a mum too? I always forget that cos u seem/sound too young to be a mum! HUGGGGGGGGGZ n have a good mums day weekend Terry!


Keshi.

vishesh said...

nice idea....ha,here goes my cell bill!!

Keshi said...

why the cell bill? I didnt ask u to have a cell party btw. LOL!

Keshi.

MONA said...

LOL @ Seeing the ghost on the midway. Duh Huh? Why do ghosts choose human roads to accost people?

LolLOL @ key god & door goddess date...

Babies are fun to have the natural way too..its is lot more enjoyable then having your blood taken in a test tube :)

Keshi said...

Mona cos I really saw a ghost on a highway recently...I did blog abt it too :) Im not joking. Check my post 'Highway Temptress'.

btw Im scared of child-birth :(


Keshi.

Priyanka Sarkar said...

amazing post....great writing style and awesome analysis of the most beautiful thought of the world...can't wait to read more of u!!

vishesh said...

i have to call everyone to organise it...shouldn't i??how many of them out of town so many things....

btw....my bill has already reached 410 Rs. and only 10 days have gone in this month...my father will scream...so have to cut out the thing....my highest bill till now has been 700....so should keep it with in that...

Keshi said...

Prinyaka WC, ty and keep coming :)


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Vishesh I have a better idea...when u meet em all next time for footy, then tell em personally...that way u save the fone bill :)


Keshi.

Trinnie said...

**I hate to be negative but somehow I feel Im not gonna be a mum in this life...Im sorry to sound so pessimistic, but there's my instincts telling me that...dun ask me how/why.

oh keshi, don't say that....it might come true... :(

even if ya cant have a biological child, u cud adopt, u know. but then it also depends upon how u like being a single mom...
just suggesting and trying to make u lil optimistic! :)
take care!

niki sato said...

awww i havent got mother's day gift yet lol
u look beautifuuul, keshi-chan!!
im glad your boss could reach in 15 mins!!

Keshi said...

Trinnie ty but its not cos I feel I wont be able to have a biological child, its cos...mmm nevermind lets just leave it there. :) huggggggggggz!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehe ty Niki!

Keshi.

taqdeer said...

hehe keshi :)

Looks like you partied in true Island Style ;)

Maybe that key will be replaced by a key to an adventure ;)

...hmm, maybe a key to motherhood ;)

DJ said...

nice song to dedicate...

happy mother's day... u r lucky to be with ur mom to enjoy the day... don't miss any minute of it :)

Protegeoflife said...

hmm well wriitten and right cord touched

Shiva said...

Keshi, a thoughful post. Happy Mother's day to the Mother to be:)

Loon said...

lol wow i can't wait to see u in that dress now .. u better get the pics really soon!!

lol and abt the key ... guess what happened once .. i had lost a key ... and i was thinkin abt it all night .. and it came in my dreams as to where it cud be! and the next day i checked and it was really there!!! :O :O :O .. so do it .. u nvr know it might just work lol

and recently i lost a very special CD ROM given to me by my ex ;p .. and i've lost it .. its probably gone with the newspapers or smethin :( i yell at my mom for havin misplaced it .. and she says "its just a few mp3 songs!! u can get them again frm anywhere!!" shw wudnt knw wht it means for me :(

and abt motherhood ... yeah its great to be a mother .. since my sister just became one 2 mnths ago ... but shez become such a meanie after tht ... all she thinks abt all the time is tintin (my nephew's petname) :( .. which annoys me so much :( :(

anyway happy mothers day to ur mom ... they don't celebrate it here in May .. its sometime in March here in the UK.

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Oops that was me .. i was logged in with a different account!

now this is what i hate google and blogger for! x-(

SamY said...

** A very tall 18yr old guy there thought I still went to High School and he asked me which HS I go to, LOL!

see I told u nah, that how ur haircut luks like :p

** I have lately started thinking alot about Motherhood

OMG OMG OMG! you should tell ur mom nutty :)

** If you make babies, please be responsible for your creation and be there for them as they grow up

ha ha ROTFL ... just imagined you going on a campaining speaking this loud on a mic :D to all the adults in the community who r bz begetting

** may God look after my kids' mental status

actually u shud pray for urs ;) ... lest they drive u nuts

** Now I gotta go and find my eggs

thats for a guy to find u nut =))

taqdeer said...

hehe, in Islam there is a saying that When one door closes, another one will open. So maybe that lost key..

..will be replaced with a key to Motherhood ;)

Nice post :)

Jewel Rays said...

Hello Keshi!!:D

That was an interesting post despite the length lady!! It kept me right on.:)

And awww..Kids. They have been on my mind too since i have been seeing my two beautiful nieces around. Yesterday, she drew me a a paper watch. Cut it, stuck it on my wrist and put a scotch tape to hold it. IT was sooo cute. I had no hard to take it off. But i had too. Children are really..aAwwwww...:D

And Gosh the key incident.Lol i love the key God part. Made me laugh big time.haha:D

And great to hear u had fun at the party. :D:D And sounds like a nice outfit u had to the party there.:D

Glad u rocked the dance floor dancing queen. ROCK ON!!

*huggiz*

Jim said...

Tuesday, May 08, 2007
,God is a Salami Sandwich ,

I once began writing a book called God is a Salami Sandwich.
That would have been a very good book. I gave you that inspiration. Why did you not write it?
It felt like blasphemy. Or at the very least, horribly irreverent.
(
You mean wonderfully irreverent! What gave you the idea that God is only "reverent"?

God is the up and the down. The hot and the cold. The left and the right.The reverent and the irreverent!

Think you that God cannot laugh? Do you imagine that God does not enjoy a good joke? Is it your knowing that God is without humor'? I tell you, God invented humor.

Must you speak in hushed tones when you speak to Me? Are slang words or tough language outside My ken?
I tell you, you can speak to Me as you would speak with your best friend.

Do you think there is a word I have not heard? A sight I have not seen? A sound I do not know?Is it your thought that I despise some of these, while I love the others?

I tell you, I despise nothing. None of it ;s repulsive to Me. It is life, and life is the gift; the unspeakable treasure; the holy of holies.I am life, for I am the stuff life is. Its every aspect has a divine purpose.

Nothing exists - nothing - without a reason understood and approved by God.
- from CONVERSATIONS WITH GOD, Book 1

Posted by Jim at 5:50 AM 2 comments



Saturday, May 05, 2007

tkkerouac said...

Beautiful, love this post, and happy HNT!

Ghost Particle said...

You dont have to simle to show the fun and jelly beens and the Keshi in you. We all love you da same. But its a nice wicked smile...hemmm...wat r u hiding!? Maybe a husband may already be found...and hes hiding from the alpha female :p

Motherhood is great (put the baby picture in a separate blog so dat we can look at it on a rainy day when we feel human :P). Its the pain and sacrifice and most importantly knowing what the heck the children is up to at any give time that makes mothers the greatest Gods of all.

Have a nice weekend Keshi.

starry nights said...

Keshi that was a long interesting post.Happy mothers day to your mom.I also think everyday should be mothers day.Did you ever find the key. As for motherhood I think you will make a great mom.Glad you enjoyed the party You dancing queen:)

david santos said...

A beauty post our mothers really deserves thanks a lot, Keshi!

diyadear said...

keshi
hope u found ur egg oops i mean keys by now;)
lol at the key god goin off to bahamas..nice post n i too have been thinking of motherhood he he..

Neo said...

nice blog!!! u have been blog rolled!!

Keshi said...

hey Taqdeer WC!

**Maybe that key will be replaced by a key to an adventure ;)
...hmm, maybe a key to motherhood

aww how sweet. But that wont happen soon Taqdeer cos Im still single :)


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DJ ty!

And wheres ur mum?


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ty Protege!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Shiva!


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Cheesy huggggggz!

U dreamt it? WOW! My dreams these days have only been nightmares..

aww u lost the CD...u know wut..I still have all the memoribilia of one of my ex's gifts to me...nah he's not dead incase ur wondering LOL!

ur sis is a f/t mum all of a sudden...give her some time to settle in n then she'll b back to her normal self.

so the poms celebrate mums day in March...slackers :)

I know loon - loon_gal...LOL chillax sweet hrt.

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Samy heyy!

**just imagined you going on a campaining speaking this loud on a mic

LOL!

U dun like kids Samy?



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Amy heyy love ur new bangs!

**Yesterday, she drew me a a paper watch.

awww how cute. My 5yr old niece does that kinda thing too..she even leaves hand-written letters to me if I wasnt ard when she came over. She's so cute. I miss her now...cos her mum is the Cuzn-T who had a tiff with me regarding my uncle V...rem that post. So I dun get to see the lil one anymore.

U should have been at the party too Amy...we wud have had so much fun. I know u love Dancing too.

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Jim heyy!

**,God is a Salami Sandwich ,

then I eating him right now. :)
ok just kidding hehe.

I read that article in ur blolg n commented. Was a great read.


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TK mwahhhh n ty!



Keshi.

The Phosgene Kid said...

I think I have your key...

Keshi said...

Ghosty heyy hows u?

**You dont have to simle to show the fun and jelly beens and the Keshi in you.

awww tnxx mate!

btw dun u like babies?


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Starry Huggggggggz!

nah I didnt find em :( I wonder where they r.

I hope u have loads of fun with ur kids this wknd!


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ty Dave!

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Diya ur married right? so u can have kids...how lucky.


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Neo WC n ty!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

G'day Phos!

**I think I have your key...

ok wow then cud u plz leave em in this comment section for me, ty ;-)


Keshi.

shammu.. said...

i had read it yesterday,but idnt i comment? i dont remember...memory loss :( :O!


and i 'd loved the long post :)!
i hopu get ur keys soon....
and yep.mothers are precious :) even kids too ;) you know, children like us :D!
takecaare!have a nice time!

tulipspeaks said...

hey sweetie..im back. found ur keys eh? :)


ammu.

Keshi said...

Shammu its not u, I guess I post too frequentlty :)

yep Kids like Keshi n Shammu need alot of love u know.


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Ammu na no keys in sight :(

hows u bubbz?


Keshi.

SamY said...

** U dun like kids Samy?

noo way. I luv kids! ... its much easier for me to hang out with em than grown ups :)

Keshi said...

thats so true.

Keshi.

Dawn....सेहर said...

Nice post! Happy Mother's day to all the mother's in the world!
Hope you find your key...;)
Nice pic ...colorful since I hv seen u mostly in black :)
keep smilin dear
huggggz n cheers

Keshi said...

ty Dawn :)

yeah Im black-loving chick hehe. but I also like pinks n reds.

Keshi.

visithra said...

oooh i love black too

If you make babies, please be responsible for your creation and be there for them as they grow up. I think being a mother is one of the most beautiful experiences in life

- this is so true - but most ppl dont get this into their head sigh

DJ said...

my mom's in india...
never seen her since the last three and a half years... :(

alex said...

Keshi,

LOL. That isnt what i meant. Both lines were unconnected.

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

lol u aussies are slackers ... only the australians and kiwis call the brits as poms .. which is like an ancient term for these guys lol
and yeah coming bck to slackers .. we celebrate it before u :))

lol kidding ..i dont belong to this place .. but somehow since ive been stayin for ovr 2 yrs now ... therez a sense of belonging ;p

yeah my meanie sis :( .. am waitin for her to get bck to normal :(

and @ nightmares .. think abt hot guys before u sleep .. ;p ;p

homo escapeons said...

I lose my keys every f'n day! Even when I put them in the exact same spot the key gnomes steal them and hide them in a jacket that I have not worn in years?
I would totally freak out if I had to lock up..alarm systems and I do not get along. They hate me and I hate them!
So your biological clock is tickin' is it? I guess that makes you normal. Whatever you do, DO NOT look for a guy who would be a great Dad but just a pretty good Husband. Uh-Uh-uh! Hell to the NO!

In the sad but true department kids are not enough to hold you together and they do eventually grow up and leave. Then you're stuck with a pretty good husband that you've lived alongside for 20 years and now what?

Not that it is easy to find a guy with everything but you aren't perfect either right. Forget opposites attracting too...they do for a while because of the novelty but then KABOOM! You need to be aware of similar interests and ideals with moderate exceptions.

Hey relax. There is a lid for every pot. Honest.

smrtnhuggble said...

there should be soo much other important stuff i should comment on
but i cant get away from the fact that you called your self a "door bitch".
it was hilarious.. HILARIOUS!!

Fleiger said...

Nice one... You must have enjoyed a lot in the party.

Anyways, losing keys now? Do you think this "losing streak" points to something? ;)

Enigma© said...

i dunno if u lost the keys or forgot them.. But yeah.. i'm a lunatic. seriously. i keep forgettin the place wer i put my bike keys.. i keep misplacing them almost every day.. Wish i had a fingerprinted lockin system for my bike.. damn.. but cant afford tht u know.. LOL..

And abt motherhood. I jus loved the post.. Yeah.. U're right.. Mother is the best relation in the world.. So pure and loving.. I do fight wid my mother over petty things. But we love each other so much tht we patch up again pretty soon.. and yeah.. even i make funny faces... haha.. Very nice post sweeite...

priya said...

Happy Mother's day to your mom keshi.

--Sunrise-- said...

Keshi I love it when you chat to us through your blog posts! I loved reading all this.. :D

Hope you find your keys... bet it will be right in front of you - that's how these things are!

Me: Where's the damn pencil!! I can't find it!!
Friend: Uh, it's behind your ear.

Sigh. ;)

Keshi said...

Visithra long time...hows u sweetie? I missed ya. I cant find ur blog anymore :(

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Thats a very long time DJ...I was once like that when I was at Uni...it was 3yrs that I didnt see my mum n when I saw her at the airport, I broke down.


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haha Alex pardon my rather mighty ignorance! :)



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heyy Cheesy the pom babez!

lol I know Aussies call the Brits poms...and wut d u know, I love the Pommy accent...like I love BOOTER with my bread :)

Hunks in my dreams..o well it doesnt happen that easily even if I sleep with one next to me LOL!

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HE mebbe ur keys r in the keyhole...lol I do that sometimes.


**Then you're stuck with a pretty good husband that you've lived alongside for 20 years and now what?


I agree...happiness never lasts...every r'ship is temporary.


ty so much!

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Choco huggggggggz!

lolz yeah I do feel like a door bitch sometimes...


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Fleiger heyy!

**Do you think this "losing streak" points to something

huh u mean I'm suffering from memory loss...possible. :)


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hey Enigima!

**Wish i had a fingerprinted lockin system for my bike

LOL! It might even happen in the near future, so dun lose hope altogether :)


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Priya ty I'll pass it on to her...and same to u sweetie!



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Sunrise heyy ty!


**it's behind your ear

LOL!

well I didnt get that lucky...I still havent found it :( ok let me check behind my ears and even inside my stomach...I'd have swallowed the keys in hunger who knows!




Keshi.

DJ said...

yeah... i m sure to break down whenever i see her... but i m ready to wet my eyes for that moment...

in fact i break down everyday since the last couple of weeks now due to the culmination of so many haps... :(

just waiting for this cruel time to pass by and start afresh...

anyways, take care... i hope you enjoyed the day... :)
GBU...

Keshi said...

awww DJ HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ! U will see her soon. TC of urself till then.

Keshi.

javagirl1111 said...

Couldn't agree with you more on the Motherhood and Fatherhood go together kinda thing... but yeah, I find myself gettin the baby fever too;-)

Keshi said...

ty Java!

Keshi.