If you search for tendernessIt isn't hard to find
You can have the love you need to live
But if you look for truthfulness
You might just as well be blind
It always seems to be so hard to give...
Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what I need from you.
I can always find someone
To say they sympathize
If I wear my heart out on my sleeve
But I don't want some pretty face
To tell me pretty lies
All I want is someone to believe...
Honesty is such a lonely word... ... ...
As Billy Joel sings, is Honesty such a lonely word? Does Honesty live only in the dictionary? I know that no one can be 100% honest to another (and it would be too unrealistic an expectation), but I think when you really love and care for someone, it's not that hard to be 100% honest. That's one thing I can 'honestly' be :) When I mean Honesty here, it doesn't mean honesty in every little circumstance... what I mean is being honest about your friendship, love and respect to another. It's not such a luxury to ask for, is it? Then why is Honesty the hardest thing to find? I have been cheated, walked all over, lied to, laughed at, back-stabbed, betrayed, taken for granted but on any of those occassions I have not failed the test of honesty. Talk to yourself...ask yourself if you're being true to yourself? 'Cos that's when you can be true to others too. You could be staying in a relationship for the sake of it, putting on airs just to look cool, hurting others only because you don't want to see yourself hurt by the truth etc. But you know what, truth may hurt, but lies scar. The best thing you can ever do is to be honest and come out with it - it may be stormy but after the rain, God gave a rainbow... 
I'm sure many of you too may have found that Honesty is not such an easy thing to find in people. It's like coming across a mirage...so real yet so unreal...so close yet so far...so inviting yet so discouraging...so beautiful yet so lonely. But honesty when found is like a rare and precious Diamond that can never be stolen - once acquired it will stay with you forever and the magic, light and wealth it brings to you and everyone around you, is priceless. No matter how others treat me, being true to myself is the only eternal wealth I've ever known...
65 Cranium Signets:
OHHH NOWWAYYY!
im first im first loll keshhhhhhhh howww u doinnn
lol diamondz r foreverrrr everrr everrr
lol heard that song?
i love it kesh..honestly lol and the post too dun worrie...even though sometimes it hurtz .. honestyz the way to go..i'd rather have someone be honest to me and kinda hurt me a bit...than someone who would keep everythin to themself .. with good intentions though..lol the intentions r always good cuz it hurtz sometimes but honesty is better
ok i have no idea wut i juz said..lol ill shut up now
whooooooooopppppzzzzzzzzzz me 2nd ...lolllll not 3rd this time;)))
hugzzzzzzzzzzz
uttara
uttara
dat was the Gospel
according to Keshi
Honestly Kesh
i dont love u
i love TANVI
Hi lady !!!
Guess the word here is " INTEGRITY " ... right ???
I too would prefer some1 being honest w/ me than trying to flatter me .... but strangers ... well ... they neednt b insulting .. right ??
Dont worry .... u wont regret being honest ... EVER !
"Any fool can tell the truth, but it requires a man of some sense to know how to lie well..."
~ Samuel Butler.
where is my diamond foreva .. am missinggggggggg her loadssssssssss
come bk .. u know i love them ;))
hugzzzzzzzz
mermaid
Another thought provoking post sweeti...
will come back on this...
yes Honesty is not easy to find...
good one dear...
Diamonds are forever...
they are too costly too ;-)
have a great week
Cheers
my best friendz are honest
brutally honest
one told me
i dress like a louse
no dress sense
one said i smell
one said u need to wear socks when u wear shoes
one told me by briefcase is cracked like me
my belt is in poor shape
i need a tummy tuck -in
i told Tina, my daughter
wearing wonder bra is not honest
she is still not on talking terms wid me
i sent u some surpriseeeeeeeeeeeee
check ur maill...
lolzzzzzzzzzz
hugzzzzzzzz
uttara
i took note
i dont smell no more
TANVI in mumbai told me i smell divine
it was SRK perfume
i hope one day TINA will take note too
AVIK has a lotta sense
non-sense mostly
learned from his butler
***No matter how others treat me, being true to myself is the only eternal wealth I've ever known...***Glad to see u believe that and would be more glad if u stick to it all ur life. Good day keshi!!!
Hey Tanvi woohoo 1st ha!!!
**it hurtz sometimes but honesty is better
heyyy indeed...honesty is the best policy na :)
Thanks I got u sweety...huggggggggggggggggz!
Keshi.
Hey Deepa :)
**Dont worry .... u wont regret being honest
yess being honest one can live a peaceful ife...thanks!
Avik heyyya!
I agree with Samuel but I don't want to go by it...:) I want o use me sense not to lie, but to be honest...great to see u here!
Uttara awww Hugggggggggz Im here :)
**where is my diamond foreva
lol what d u think...I was at ur 99facts post commenting 99 comments on it...learning how to become a chatterbox just like u lol!
Puneeeeeeeeeet hallooooo!
yeah yeah come back when u have time hottster ;-)
Jim I guess it's good to hear such honest things from ur friends than them talking behind ur back na :)
G'day South!
Thanks and I will always be so :)
Keshi.
Honesty..
i've been always honest to myself and others with me..but many times it have landed me in trouble..yet, i'm still being honest, with a hope one day things would be better..God will never let me to suffer forever :)
muuuaxxx and hugssss
=am000nie=
goshhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!
u have written 99 comment on it ...
mez faintzzzzzzzzzz
*blushing*
"u r a star which shines like a diamond next to the moon "
awwwwwwwwwwww
hugzzzzzzzzzz
did u get my mailllllll
lolzzzzz
mermaid
Amuuuuu huggggggggggggggggz!
Ur an honest person I know...and yeah honest ppl dun have much happiness in life cos they get hurt easily by others' lies...cos watching others being dishonest hurts them alot...but being honest in the end will bring you happiness, if not now...whereas all those ppl who hurt u with lies, will be so unhappy in the end...
Uttara...
**u r a star which shines like a diamond next to the moon
awww so sweet...but why dun u make it "u r a star which shines like a diamond next to chatter box"...lol hehe...
yess I got ur email...wowwwwwwwwwwwwww what a beauty!
Keshi.
yess I got ut mail
keshi ....
******awww so sweet...but why dun u make it "u r a star which shines like a diamond next to chatter box"...lol hehe...
ROTFL
*******yess I got ur email...wowwwwwwwwwwwwww what a beauty!
awwwwwwww mez BLUSHINGGGGGGG:)))))
hugzzzzzzzzz
mermaid
heyy Chatty...lol...no need to blush cos u'd make those uncles at work faint by the beauty ur gonna add to ur face :) and those aunts mumble in jealousy..hehehe...
Keshi.
keshii....
lolzzzzz
yes yes.. it wud end up in that ... lemme not blush much .. n here no many aunties all gurlies with uncles arnd n they will get J lolzzzzzzzz
mermaid
hi dear
me back
I know that no one can be 100% honest to another
to one yes… but not to all
Then why is Honesty the hardest thing to find?
Wen were are kids we are so honest n innocent… and as we keep growing not alwayz our honesty is reciprocated in the same manner… we start judging people… and behaving indifferently… coz we cant be honest with someone who is not honest with us… can we… atleast I can’t…
It all starts with small lies… n we start finding it convenient than giving explanations for being honest… the shortcuts always invites…
There are very few people I’m honest with…
I don’t betray but just that I cant be 100% true to all…
Cool stuff dear…
Keep rocking
Uttara lolz!
**n here no many aunties all gurlies with uncles arnd n they will get J
aww poor uncles...dun make em get admitted to ICU...and the girls can go to hell...who cares if they r J? lol!
Puneeeeeeeet huggggggggz!
Yeah u r so right...as we grow, we lose our innocence and honesty...the more we know, the more we hide...the more we get exposed to the world, the more we want to shadow the truth...
And ur right again...we can be 100% honest to one person, if not many...
Thanksssssss for that very intuitive comment matey...have an awesome day!
Keshi.
k00kie how very true... whn u r not honest wth urself its not possible to b honest wth nyone else...
b honest wth people who u love...
psst lemme b honest wth u... ooooooo girl ur too good :D... like a diamond... heh n i love diamondssssssss
awwwwwww HUGGGGGGGZ m000nie...one diamond recognises another...:)
Keshi.
i hope they go to the ICU ...atleast some peace in the office ..lolzzzzzzzzz
" Honesty is the best policy "
hugzzzzzzzz
mermaid
lol meanie Uttara hahaha!
ok Im off guys...got some work now....I wont be checking blog till tomorrow :(
buh byeeeee....
k000kie.
yea...ive realised tht lately...u can b 100% honest wid a person who u really care n trust
u think u care n trust the others but u dont...cuz thr r very few ppl i can b completely honest wid...
Jon Abraham interviewed by Cyrus on TV
Cyrus: wat u feel about girls faking orgasm?
Jon: makes me feel good
i dont wanna be told
i am a lousy lover
OK Tigerr
ITCC
come out of hiding
the coast is clear
she wont be checking in till tomorrow
honesty is hard to find. sometimes a little lie or two is better than be brutally honest. the dilemma arises when the lies stop fitting together cohesively and suddenly,the card palace tumbles down. i wonder if there are completely honest people.we've to concede that no one's perfect.
wooo...i loved this --> No matter how others treat me, being true to myself is the only eternal wealth I've ever known...
will b backk...
Hey Mich..
**cuz thr r very few ppl i can b completely honest wid
yes I totally agree with ya...to be honest with, one anticipates another honest heart. Thanks!
Divya heyyy :)
Did I promise u a diamond ring...awwww Im bad girl then cos I cant rem promising u that..lol...hugggggz sweety!
Heyyya Posion!
**the dilemma arises when the lies stop fitting together cohesively and suddenly,the card palace tumbles down.
so true..to cover one lie one needs to come up with another lie...it goes on till everything becomes too much to handle. And yes I agree, it's very hard to be completely honest...thanks!
Cheesy muahhhhhhz!
Julia take it easy...he aint a Tiger...just a lost and frightened, immature cat...:)
Keshi.
Honesty is extremely hard to come by these days...I have to admit, sometimes it's hard for me to hurt someone's feelings if it means having to tell them the truth...but in the end you must. I would rather people be up front with me rather than me be the last to know...
Can you be honest even when you know that the person is lying to you?
Can you be honest when you are ashamed of your past?
Can you be honest if you are a sinner?
Can you be honest if honesty is all you have and nobody seems to be bothered about it?
Just some thoughts Keshi...sorry if I sound really impulsive... :) It was a v thoughtful post. Made me wonder if I should really be sensitive to people and lie for their good!?
**No matter how others treat me, being true to myself is the only eternal wealth I've ever known...**
so wise said keshu, i have been taken for granted too... n that too by my close friends.....
atleast i was honest, but that friend of mine broke my trust,sobssss...
anywayss v all learn like this only ...
nice post keshu as always.. u r 1 wiseass u know ..lolzz
love u re ,hugss babez
st000nie
Another great post, Keshi, I'll never figure out how you do it time and time again.
I believe in honesty at almost all costs. Sometimes though, one has no choice but to keep the truth from seeping out, since it would only cause heartache and loss of peace of mind.
Double standards though, because I insist on knowing, good or bad, the whole truth in any given situation.
"I have been cheated, walked all over...I have not failed the test of honesty." True strength of character, keshi, you have my admiration.
Autumn x
no matter how others treat me, being true to myself is the only eternal wealth I've ever known...
this the basic truth of life in order to live a complete life, one must be completely honest to oneself.
as for being honest to others, one has decide in each case oneself honestly.
Okie...
I agree with you here that honesty is required in a relationship....but I dont think its necessary to be 100%. As long as that 1% of lie is not going to bring a lifetime-scar in the 2 entities involved.
hen why is Honesty the hardest thing to find?
Its not possible to be honest 100% with people invovled with you in your daily life. Are you honest with your parents? Do you tell them each and everything you come across daily? I mean, there has to be a boundary where you say, alright this is it...I can be this much honest with you, rest I dont wannna speak out coz its not going to matter to you or us if we move ahead from here.
I have been cheated, walked all over,....
I've been through all this too, at times I too felt, there is no point in being honest..lets be the way people around me are forcing me to be. But things are just not that easy to accept. Are they??
No matter how others treat me, being true to myself is the only eternal wealth I've ever known...
That was just amazing...
Mwwaaahhhh for that sentence
This reminds me of one scene I saw in one movie. I think in "Liar Liar" there was a scene where, Jim's son asks him, dad why do u hafta lie all the time. He replies back saying, "Son, its necesary, to keep certain things in place. Like when ur mommy was pregnant, she asked me lot many times...how do I look. I'd to lie to her that she's gorgeous..but truth was she was really looking like a cow"
I think if ma wife is gonna ask me this, I'm going to reply, YOU REALLY REALLY look beautiful.
:)
She is not hurt...
I dont know at this time, will she really look that gorgeous or not, but I made her smile.
Good one K000kie-piez
Hugzz and hope you had lotsa fun.
Take care
i feel the same a linny does...its hard sometimes but in the end it is worth better to tell the truth
oh gosh !! i'm in love with your posts !! man, you write so touching posts...
take care,
hugggzzz,
vivek
'Honesty' itself is not 100% honest. It hides 'H' from itself when pronounced by someone. And yes Diamonds are forever only when hidden in lockers and used occasionaly.
The other problem with honesty is - it makes enemy not the friends. For example if someone is honest for himself then he or she will be honest for others too and that's where he or she will start making new enemies or loosing friends... one way or another.
Trust is hard 2 build, especially in my school. I turn away n my stuff, well some, is gone... But hey, some ppl r worth trusting ;-) PEACE
awesome thoughts gorgeous.. all i wanna say is its nt very easy to be honest with everyone n at every step of life but always try to be honest with yr love ones n if u cant thn just keep quiet ..dont lie..
you know what, truth may hurt, but lies scar.
..yesss thats wht i mean..
I have been cheated, lied to, back-stabbed, betrayed..
..yess me too once by smone... donno smtimes ppl just take advantage of ma sweetness n forgiving attitude.. but still i dont hv anything against that person coz its me ... cant change..
No matter how others treat me, being true to myself is the only eternal wealth I've ever known...
wowww awesm words gorgeous..
hugggzzzzzzz :)
:)
hey Keshi :) how are ya? diamonds are forever and a girl's best friend too. And honesty sure is the best policy:)
Yes dear...honesty is something which is very rare just like priceless diamonds :)
If you find them then make sure you dont let them go..:)
Amazing thought provoking post of yours...I loved it...as honesty is such a tiny thread which can bring down the whole tent down :)
with lots of love n huggs
Dawn
Linny helloooo :)
**I have to admit, sometimes it's hard for me to hurt someone's feelings if it means having to tell them the truth
so true...I mean even I dun wanna hurt someone by telling something like 'u r so fat'...:) There r ways to tell such things in subtle ways w.o. hurting someone's feelings...but when it comes to serious stuff u got to be straightforward or else u'll be cheating urself and the other person...yes it's always better to know the truth than exist over lies...thanks girl! :)
Helloooo Pele long time!
**Can you be honest even when you know that the person is lying to you?
yes...I can...even if someone else lies to me, I wouldnt wanna go down his path...I'd still be me :)
**Can you be honest when you are ashamed of your past?
what exactly d u mean by shame? Well u have to realise ppl make mistakes...and u have to learn to forgive urself for that and move on...if it's still making u ashamed and lie, then u haven't forgiven urself...first step would be that :) and then u can always be open with it...
**Can you be honest if you are a sinner?
yes...if I have sinned I wouldnt hesitate a moment to say I did it and I'm sorry...I want to learn from my mistakes and if I dun forgive and move on, I will never be able to learn from it...isnt it?
**Can you be honest if honesty is all you have and nobody seems to be bothered about it?
true...I understand u here...I have been through that...given my heart and soul to ppl but all I got back in return were a fist full of nothing...but I have been myself right along...I will never be like them cos that's not me. So I will still be honest no matter what cos at the end of the day, I have a smile in my heart...and they dont...
Thanks Pele! Hope this answers ur queries :)
Keshi.
Huggggggz st000nie mah pretty gal!
**atleast i was honest, but that friend of mine broke my trust,sobssss...
aww who hurt such a lovely girl like u? I cant even imagine anyone betraying u...well it could be becos ur too sweet...ppl take such ppl for granted...actually it's their loss.
**anywayss v all learn like this only ...
true...o.w. we will never know the vavlue of anything!
**u r 1 wiseass u know...
lolllllllllllz nice one st000nie! hahaha I loved it :) HUGGGGGGGGGZ!
Heyya Autumn babez!
**I'll never figure out how you do it time and time again.
aww I just want anyone who reads these posts to gain something from em...all these posts are woven ard many ppl and experiences in my real life...:)
**I believe in honesty at almost all costs.
good on ya girl!
**Double standards though, because I insist on knowing, good or bad, the whole truth in any given situation.
yes the hurting truth is better than the scarring lie...
**True strength of character, keshi, you have my admiration.
I know u have that too Autumn...ur a string woman and I will always admire u for that...thanks girly!
Keshi.
Heyy sittingnut!
**this the basic truth of life in order to live a complete life, one must be completely honest to oneself.
Spot on!
**as for being honest to others, one has decide in each case oneself honestly.
u think so? well I'm honest everywhere...I dun lie to my loved-ones at least :)
z000nieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
**but I dont think its necessary to be 100%.
It's not a necessity z000nie..it should come naturally..isnt it?
**Its not possible to be honest 100% with people invovled with you in your daily life. Are you honest with your parents? Do you tell them each and everything you come across daily?
yes I tell EVERY thing to my mum :) dun u? given I have more time, I would even tell every detail of my train trip lol!
**I mean, there has to be a boundary where you say, alright this is it...
yes ofcourse there is! That's why I said that I dun mean every minute circumstance...I meant 100% Honesty when loving and caring for someone...
**I can be this much honest with you, rest I dont wannna speak out coz its not going to matter to you or us if we move ahead from here.
d u talk like this with ur loved ones z000nie?
**at times I too felt, there is no point in being honest..lets be the way people around me are forcing me to be.
no never think like that....they can crucify me but I'll be ME...not THEM.
**That was just amazing...
Mwwaaahhhh for that sentence
aww lol cute!
**but truth was she was really looking like a cow"
LOLLLLLLLLLLL!
But that's not what I mean...I mean Honesty is serious stuff...:)
**I think if ma wife is gonna ask me this, I'm going to reply, YOU REALLY REALLY look beautiful.
oh how I pity that gal...lol!
Hey Niki huggggggz!
**awww~ beautiful song!!
yes whenever I listen to it, I cry...hehe dun ask me why...
**i never liked Billy Joel, becoz of his looks.
I dun wanna date the guy but he's a good singer lol!
**abt honesty, i cant say anything....lol
aha! U naughty naughty gal lolll!
Thanks!
Keshi.
Heyyy Katie :)
**i feel the same a linny does...its hard sometimes but in the end it is worth better to tell the truth
yep...better the painful truth than the killer lies...
Thanks girl!
Hello Vivek!
**i'm in love with your posts !! man, you write so touching posts...
Thanks Vivek :) Mostly my real experiences...
huggggggggz!
G'day Tarun!
**'Honesty' itself is not 100% honest. It hides 'H' from itself when pronounced by someone.
Good one! :)
**And yes Diamonds are forever only when hidden in lockers and used occasionaly.
hehe...but Honesty should be used all the time and not hidden :)
**The other problem with honesty is - it makes enemy not the friends.
so what? let it. If u being honest doesnt make ur friend happy, then he's not worth ur friendship anyways...isnt it?
**that's where he or she will start making new enemies or loosing friends...
better have real enemies than false friends...:)
Hallloooo sweety Quz Boss!
**Trust is hard 2 build, especially in my school. I turn away n my stuff, well some, is gone...
very true! Trust is a very very hard thing to build.It's like building a home forever...cos it doesnt stop building...it's a life-time job...
aww ppl steal ur things at school? so cruel nah...
**But hey, some ppl r worth trusting ;-)
Definitely! Worth giving everyone a chance...if they break it then give em another chance..if they do it again then I guess it's hard to trust that person again...
Thanks sweety ur wise beyond ur age!
Keshi.
Huggggggggggz Pari babez!
**always try to be honest with yr love ones n if u cant thn just keep quiet ..dont lie..
aww that's a the best line I heard so far...better to keep quiet than lie...well-said Pari thankssss!
**..yess me too once by smone... donno smtimes ppl just take advantage of ma sweetness n forgiving attitude..
yess as in st000nie's case, ppl have taken ur sweetness for granted...losers do that...so forget em...:)
**but still i dont hv anything against that person coz its me ... cant change..
that is soooo graceful of u...way to go Pari! We should never stop being ourselves just becos of some other ignorant ppl...
Thanks Pari...ur way too wise and I know u have a great future ahead of u...muahhhh and hugggggggggz!
Dewddddyyyyyyyyy HUGGGGGGGZ!
Great to see u here...I missed u tonz! Where were ya? I'm well and u?
**diamonds are forever and a girl's best friend too.
yess a girl's best friend (wink wink) :)
**And honesty sure is the best policy:)
Spot on!
Luv ya Dewdy...now stay...plz dun go...HUGGGGGGZ!
Hiiii Dawn!
**Yes dear...honesty is something which is very rare just like priceless diamonds :)
very true!
**If you find them then make sure you dont let them go..:)
yes once u learn to be true to urself and then to others, never lose that quality...
**as honesty is such a tiny thread which can bring down the whole tent down :)
sooooooo damn true! Thanks for those lovely and great words of wisdom Dawn!!
Keshi.
hehe thanks for the tip h000gie :)
Keshi.
NV if ur reading this...
why is ur blog empty? what's wrong with u? u ok? why r u not talking to me like u used to? After my trip u r so different...
Keshi.
John ur mistaken..the comment left posing as me in ur blog, is from a net lunatic who goes around commenting like me...my blogger ID is 4726142...and if u click on that loser's ID u will see the ID is different.
There are ppl in this world with severe mental problems..the above impersonator is such a person along with gutter-level family upbringing...
His own demented website is at
http://it-committee-n-community.blogspot.com/ where no one visits but himself.
u will see what sort of a crack he is, thrashing people every day...
Cheers and thanks for dropping by at my site John :)
Keshi.
And sorry John I have to delete ur comment cos it's neither relevant to the post nor to me...
u may leave that proposal to that guy at his website suggested above - He's prolly looking for a gay partner cos he's not a man (no offense to u John :)
Keshi.
keshhuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
hugzzzzz
mg hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii with a mg cofiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
lollll
hugzzzzzz
catch u sooon
mermaid
aww Hugggz Chatt000nie :) me want coffee too :(
Keshi.
"Honesty is such a lonely word"
I hope you don't really believe that. The only way to truly be with someone, to get past the natural state of being alone in this quiet universe, is to be honest and to be open. But I would bet you know this!
Did you leave that personal application on my blog, or was it just that old joker pretending to be you?
Rock on!
lol Rex it's that loser leaving personal ads using my id...he's cloned me...just click the link and u will see the difference in blog Ids...mine is #4726142...
Thanks for that comment Rex...I know that being honest is the best way to get past loneliness...but what I meant is that not many ppl r really honest...
Keshi.
Thank you for your thoughts Keshi. I must say it triggered off further thoughts in my mind but this space is too small for them! ;) So I'll hold on in the expectation that someday we'll be able to chat about it.
Btw, I am yet to learn the art of forgiving myself. :)
Take care mate,
Pele
~~hands over a Tiffany's diamond ring to Divya :)
hows that babeh? muahhhhhhhhhh!
Pele hey tell me all ur views...I like comments in detail...it's ok..take ur space mate...I'm waiting :)
Keshi.
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