Friday, November 18

Of Givers and Takers

I always thought that there are 3 kinds of people...those who give and take, those who only give and those who only take.

If you are someone who gives and takes
(I don't mean giving a punch to your friend and taking his iPod :), then you're a winner. 'Cos you got to give in order to receive, simple as that. By that I don't mean that you threaten or force people to be there for you in return for your favors (like this cute kitten is doing lol!). It simply means maintaning a healthy balance in offering and receiving true friendship. I don't mean to portary myself as a saint but I do give alot and I take too...but not alot. Simply because I don't expect too much from friends...except for one thing...a good heart. And I have received that from few precious people in this life. So yeah, in that sense I'm a smiling winner cos...I give...and I take...I mean receive :)

If you are in the second category, beware people will walk all over you till your heart is super flat and abused like the rug I threw away yesterday. It's a very
beautiful feeling to give...especially to those in need, be it emotionally or not...but hey not in a way that it ridicules yourself...your sense of worth and pride. Think about it this way...if you are always there for your friend in both good and bad times, and if suddenly a rough times hits you, and you find that your friend is nowhere close to your suburb, what would you feel? So very let down, hurt and stupid. And you realise that all the while, you have been a giver and not really received anything in return. Actually the worst part isn't not receiving anything, but not having that friend around to atleast listen to your troubles. So don't let that happen to you. Have some pride left in you so that people don't treat you like a door-mat. Best way to know your limit is by giving everyone a first or even a second chance if they are worth it...then you can decide.

What if you are in the third category...oh my God, you are just a taker! Remember that friend who left town when you were in trouble? Well you are no different than him/her now :) I have never played strictly-taker, but I have come across pure takers. And now I'm so sure that I don't have anything to give them unless they have something to give me (no Im not expecting, just being fair to myself). So if someone stood by you in both good and bad times, you better not be calling the removalists when that friend is in trouble. Stick around for your friend...if you cant do that, well then cancel your membership from the strictly-hogs club.

Guys you got to give a little...take a little...happy weekend all!

110 Cranium Signets:

4u2nvau/Rohit said...

Me first technically woooooo hoooooooo

I read the title and I was like ahh yehhh Im glad someone finally posted a topic like this.

Lemme read now

Tanvi said...

lol i give n i take:p

Tanvi said...

loll the picz r cute...

yep yep u gotta give n take n stop bein loserz...
lol n givin all the time is like totally messed..whoever does that dun make me kick u..take somethin in return
n only takin..well wut can i say..some ppl are juz born selfish:p

Tanvi said...

keshi imma give u somethin--> my IM BORED line and lol can i take entertainment from u?:p

uttara said...

whooooppppppssssss mez 3rd ...:p wooo hooo lol

howz ya babes ...

missing ya soooo much babes ...
have a gr8 day...
hugzzzzzzzzzz
uttara

4u2nvau/Rohit said...

I used to be a giver, but then finally I realized that what Im doing to myself is so wrong. I gave all I could and in return I was always the one alone with my stupid thoughts while I was low.

Its how the world works, you give a little and you get it back and I wasn't wrong in thinking what I did for those people I should have got the same treatment back.

Im not saying that Im only a taker now, but I know who my real friends are on net or in real life and whatever treatment they get now is what they deserve.

You know how they say, if your going through a good phase everyones gonna be there for you, but a true friend is there for you when your going through a rough or bad phase.

Good post Keshi :)

Keshi said...

yeyyyyyyyy NV is THE First!

~~gives a hug to NV and expects to take his cuteness :)





Muahhhhhhhhhh Tanvi!
uh oh...mah 2 favs here together wow!

**well wut can i say..some ppl are juz born selfish

couldnt have said it any better.

btw Tanvi, Im supa-tired of taking that IM BORED line and giving u back ENTERTAINMENT lol..so I would like to give u this line back...

'How about Tanvi do a pole dance for a change for Keshi...' lollll na Im not a lesbian...just muckin ard with ya :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

OMG Uttara my favvvv is here toooooooo!

wowwwwwwwwwww! Missing u tonzz babez!


Keshi.

saby said...

FUCK !

dis Keshi is preaching a new religion


if John Lennon were here today
He wud surely kill her

Tanvi said...

heheee kesh 2 favouritez here together..ur luckieee dayyy:p

aww rohit lol well atleast now u noe whoz gonna stick by u through all the phases..n trust me i noe too

Tanvi said...

ewww poleee dancee keshii? lol ur tired of hearin my linee?:( haw lol come on i havent said that to u in ages

uttara said...

yepieeeeeeeee

howz ya babes.. iwill read the postyyy laterzzz okie :)

awww me ur favvvvv .. yepieeee
am doing a hip hop dance .. lol

lalalalallalala

loll


uttara

saby said...

me too
but its for UTTARA








No, i dont have a hangover

Keshi said...

NV muahhhhh mah main source of reception lol!


**I used to be a giver, but then finally I realized that what Im doing to myself is so wrong.

This sounded like a alcohol-rehab story..lol...aww..
I know wut u mean NV...me always a Giver and very much less of a taker...but recently I dun give a damn ;-) abt anything anymore...cos I dun wanna do myself wrong...thats very imp.



** I wasn't wrong in thinking what I did for those people I should have got the same treatment back.


not at all...u r not wrong in thinking that way. U deserve love and respect as much as the ppl u care for do...


**whatever treatment they get now is what they deserve.

spot on!



**but a true friend is there for you when your going through a rough or bad phase.

aww Im always here for u NV...ok? know that alright? :)
yes a fair weather friend is worth a sweet goodbye..lol!


Thansk mate!
Keshi.

4u2nvau/Rohit said...

No saby you get that all wrong mate, don't you watch hollywood/bollywood movies?? The villain always dies, and you being the villain I think you should be dead.

saby said...

i hope i dont get slapped by the blog owner

saby said...

NEVER SAY DIE
- my dad told me

DILWALE DULHANIYA LE JAYENGE

saby said...

dat was SRK, the king of bollywood
he is in the race for the oscars too


Hello Sharukh
Good bye Tom Cruise

Keshi said...

~~brings apole andhands over to Tanvi...

LOL! aww huggggz sweety!








Hey Uttara where u running...come back mermiad...ooops I mean swim back :)
This Uttara is a big fat GIVER...not a TAKER...poor thing..I hope she learns from this post atleast :(







Saby can u burn the jealousy plzz thanks!






LOL NV!



Keshi.

saby said...

i new i was gonna be hauled up soon

saby said...

am i giver or a taker?

i give of my love to all
but i take no shit from ROHIT

Me said...

To me it depends on the situation, when someone is in distress, I try to help him out without expecting any kind of favor in return.
But normally I believe in 'give & take' policy.
have a great weekend...

Keshi said...

Saby can u stop childish wars...it doesnt suit u.




Avik yeah I dun expect from ppl when I help em in distressful situations...but dun u kinda wanna have someone for u when u r in distress??
Have a good weekend matey :)


Keshi.

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

If you are someone who gives and takes (I don't mean giving a punch to your friend and taking his iPod :
LOVED THIS SENTENCE !!!!!

I USED TO GIVE , GIVE N MORE GIVE IN SCHOOL .... THEN , REALISED I AM ALL ALONE ON THIS PLANET ... AND THAT GAVE ME A LOTTA COMFORT ...
NOW I AM AT PEACE ... I GIVE TO PEOPLE WHO NEED IT , N IF THEY DONT GIVE , TURN AWAY FROM THEM ... GIVE N TAKE FROM ALL THOSE PEOPLE I LOVE.

AND EXPECTING IS NOT BAD .... IF U R HUMAN, U EXPECT.

uttara said...

awwwww .. mez here :D

hugzzzzz
am a giver ...yes re .. i dont take from any .. always try n givr givr n givr .. may be w.o even they expecting n surprises too :D

hugzzzzzzzzz
mermaid

~~swam bk to keshii...~~

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

AM DELIRIOUSLY HAPPY , YET AGAIN ...

AM TAKING A HALF DAY TODAY .. AND WILL BE OUT TRAVELLING FOR NEXT 14 DAYS :)))

uttara said...

yes i have learnt from my mistakes .. n this is an add on for me .. coz at the end of the day i have been treated like a door mat .. how true .. now u better start giving me .. na re . i dont expect ne1 to o that .. u know me na ...:((((

i donno y am like this ....gosh !!!

sobzz:((
mermaid

Autumn Storm said...

Morning Keshi, wishing you a fabulous weekend.

Nice topic choice!
Met a few takers in my time - they miss out on the better parts of life, got to feel sad for them.

Keshi said...

Hey Deepa hugggz girl!

**AND EXPECTING IS NOT BAD .... IF U R HUMAN, U EXPECT.

not at all...it's human to expect..but never over-expect :)

awww where u off to? 14 days?? How can I live w.o. Deepa for 14 bloody days?????? :*(









Uttara could u stop Giving for a change...ok give if u like...but give a damn :) u know wut I mean...hehehe...

Keshi.

talldarkman said...

Expectation is the root of all sorrow / misery / grief :)

So I give (albeit, with my feet on ground, and ample thought for self preservation), and don't expect anything in return.

talldarkman

PS : Keshi I have put up a new post, at last, thanks to your prodding :) keep pushing me, I m a lazy fellow when it comes to writing (or doing anything else at all)

uttara said...

keshi .. yes .. i willl give a damn now ...

:d .. thanx soo much .. n i exactly know wat u mean babes .. :D

hugzzzzzzzz
mermaid

PuNeEt said...

Sweet post by a sweet girl ;-)
first pic is too too cute...

I proudly keep myself in first category...

again my Finance background helps me... there has to be a give n take for any trade to happen na ;-)
hehehehe
kiddng babezzz

2nd n 3rd are completely ruled out for me...
only give is not possible even for my GF... forget the rest...
and only take... i guess only God...i just keep asking him for more...

Simply because I don't expect too much from friends...except for one thing...a good heart.
thats so sweet....
n thats wat is required...

and I follow a simple logic in all my relationships...

If some1 betrays u once... its his/her fault...but if he/she betrays u twice... its ur fault
I try my best not to give anyone that second chance...
Even if it cost the entire relationship I give a damn... coz I'm too sensitive...

Nice post yet again :-)>

Have a lovely weekend...
enjoy n take care

Cheers

Keshi said...

Hey Autumn goood morning to u too!

**Met a few takers in my time - they miss out on the better parts of life, got to feel sad for them.

Yep u said it - their loss indeed! Thanks girl and u have an awesome weekend too :)









Thumbs up @Uttara :)














Puneeeeeeeeeeeet heyyy :)

Thanks so much for all those kind words..

**I proudly keep myself in first category...

well done! Cos I try hard to keep myself in the first category too cos it aint easy..I mean I sometimes over-do the Give part and under-do (lol is there such a word) the Take part...so yeah I'm constantly working on it :)



**I try my best not to give anyone that second chance...Even if it cost the entire relationship I give a damn... coz I'm too sensitive...

OMG Puneet u scared me there...cos I do believe that sometimes we get so disappointed from how ppl behave...but u cant not give a 2nd chance if the frien is worth it...u know what I mean...if it's a not-so-close person thats ok...but what if that friend really did something w.o. thinking...they need a 2nd chance...u know wut I mean? Also it depends on weight of the betryal...if it's a simple mistkae then a 2nd chance is a must...dun u think?

Thanks :)
Keshi.

Keshi said...

Puneet forgive me for all the above typos..lol!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hey Tally u r right...expectations lead to disappointment...but we cant not have expectations either...at least the basic ones of supporting each other. I will read ur post now :) Thanks for stopping by...

btw how would u have any time for anything when ur Occupation is Flirting? lol!



Keshi.

PuNeEt said...

Hey obviously I dun say that I'm perfect in giving n taking... some up n down keep happening ...
but I dun think too much abt that...

but u cant not give a 2nd chance if the frien is worth it.
as I've always told that I dont trust people... so the betrayl can happn only with the close ones...
if friend was worth that... he/she wouldn have betrayd u... bt if he/she does... he is no more worth it...

Also it depends on weight of the betryal...if it's a simple mistkae then a 2nd chance is a must...dun u think?
Exactly... I agree
Most of the time I dun take things to heart... but wen I do... I'm bad...
hehehee...

chal will get back
Cheers

De.vile said...

Maybe you really cant catagorize. You should let people shift around a bit.

Keshi said...

Puneeeeeeeeeeeet :)


** so the betrayl can happn only with the close ones...

so true...


**if friend was worth that... he/she wouldn have betrayd u... bt if he/she does... he is no more worth it...

how can u say that? ppl make mistakes Puneet - a 2nd chance is sometimes a wise thing to do.

anyways I know wut u mean..cos one of my best friends hurt me and I couldnt find it in my heart to give her a 2nd chance...but the betrayal was BIG...not just a silly matter. I have forgiven but cant forget...that memory comes in between us all the time. Once the milk is spoilt, it can never get back it's pureness...


But I dont dwell on silly matters...if a friend did some silly mistake, I get pissed off and then all's cool :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Devile muah!

u really r right there...u cant isolate each and everyone into one specific category....sometimes we r givers, and at other times takers and at some other times both :) Good point girl!

Keshi.

Rita said...

Lol! "giving a punch to your friend and taking his iPod" and that pic is too cute !!
Nice thought and yes, I give and take :D

Keshi said...

Thanks Rita! Glad u liked the pics and the post...and glad u r in the first category :)

Keshi.

southpaw said...

Nice thoughts...:)Good day keshi!!!

Keshi said...

G'day South! Thanks :)

gtg now...I will cath up with u mostly on Mon...u tc and have a good weekend ok South - byeeeee!

Keshi.

Casablanca said...

You do have a chatroom in your comments, dont you :)

But I really liked the post. Straight from the heart!

puremood said...

I give 'n receive :)

Well written post, Keshi.

Thanks for surfin' by today, too.

Divya said...

tht was such a beautiful postt keshuuuu

loved it...!!


"u got to give lil to get lil"

mez giving u a huggggggggggggggggggg now wot do i get??? :P

PuNeEt said...

hey babezzz...

Once the milk is spoilt, it can never get back it's pureness...
exactly... u got the bullzeye ;-)

its just like if a thread after being broken is tied again will alwayz have that knot ;-)

But I dont dwell on silly matters...if a friend did some silly mistake, I get pissed off and then all's cool :)
ye me too...
i mean sill matter I dun even consider... I wont be able to play such pranks otherwise...
;-)

Have a lovely weekend

Cheers

Vanathi said...

Cat pic is cute...

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Me a giver and taker ... it's wise being so ... i think those who only take are losers in life ... and the ones who only keep giving are losers literally! :P

Nice post Keshurrr!

icyblue said...

hmmm... coming to think of it... I do things without expecting anythings.... shucks! that makes me fall under the second category... but it ain't that bad...

Actually the worst part isn't not receiving anything, but not having that friend around to atleast listen to your troubles


U know Keshi, I've had many situations like that.. but it made me a stronger person... and yes at times, I have been very fortunate to have a special angel walk into my life (and *sob* out too) but if I look back today, I'm stronger than before.

So which category do you fall under.... ? I have a gut feeling...
the second one... :)

I liked this post... good one :)

Cheers!
Icy

Neel Arurkar said...

For me it varies from person to person. Usually it is give and take. But if someone is close enough, then I can have a only give relationship

starbender said...

That was so well put!
Love the kitty!
:)

Sudeep said...

He he he.. i couldn't control the urge to comment before reading the post after seeing the 1st pic. It is superbly edited (i mean whoevr did it)

Tarun said...

India. More later after coming back.

niki yokota said...

i like this post too(^-^)
so many ppl get angry with such give-n-take thingy.
very sad...

johnny boy said...

Yaaaaaaay! I am 56th !!! :) lol..
Was just readin thru the first few comments, thts why ;)
Hey, cool post! True giving and taking go hand in hand... Frankly speaking, I do give a lot.. Cos i feel that if i can bring a smile on someone's face by giving something, i'll give it... :) More of a giver than a taker.. but then no regrets.. I don need much, so why shud i take?? :))))
Mez a great believer that life is LEVELLER... You win some, you lose some. You give some, you take some. In the end, if u use your calculator and check, the accounts on both sides will tally!! trust me on that!
It might not be obvious, as in - u might take from someone and someone else might give something else, back to you :)))
What goes around, comes around... :) nice post.. take care!

johnny boy said...

woooowww, I am 57th tooooo !!! :)))) (sorry for the PJ's)
Forgot to mention - the pic with the kitten is god damn cute!

Justin Thyme said...

Well said, Keshi!

alice said...

i'll give u a hug....and take away a smile after reading ur blog and this post....have a grt weekend too..

Dewdrop said...

I give and I take but Im usually at the receiving end when it comes to certain bad things in life

Dewdrop said...

Hey btw Keshi ever since you posted abt Richard Cranium its become my habit to click on your link at my comments just to make sure its you :) LOL what an exercise :) You have a great weekend

Nitika said...

keshu...... ma sweeti....see that "cat".....damn....showing pestol to such a cute chwweeetttttt chewwweett...(actually i don't know the name of that sweet creature).......

enough.....me not gonna give lecture on "cat".....lol...lol..

let me read the post

Nitika said...

me giver and taker both in general......but talking abt ma close fren i feel i did take a lot from them and gave a lil quantity to them may be.......
but sometimes i find myself in category 1 sometime 2 and so on while treating with different plp
its all abt how u take your relationship
post is just superb!!!!!!!!

bye dear
take care

Lindsey said...

I think it's fair to say taht I'm both..sometimes I have been guilty of just being the giver...but I'm working on that.

Jackal said...

hmmm u got me thinking......may be i shud be a lil more selfish ....

tsduff said...

Keshi, very thoughtful post.

I've been guilty of being too much a giver, and then more recently a taker. It is good to try to find that place of balance where things even out.

Drywall Mom said...

Cute picture with the ducks and the kitten.

uttara said...

bordy bordy gurl .......am here :p

hugzzzzzzz
have a gr8 day!!!

mermaid

Ashes said...

The cat in the pic reminded me of my Mishika.

oh and I've been a taker all my life.good or bad I take it all.and take it all in my stride.I don't give.When I give,it's not accepted.So thats that.

susubala said...

Miav..Miav... Good that You've received the love from great hearts, instead of taking...Those lines were so nice...

Sudeep said...

Nice post.. :)

saby said...

Well said, Kesh
- Justine

wat he means to say
'i cud have said it better'


not I as in Saby
he means Justine

saby said...

i dont believe we have tall dark men in India




he must be from Africa

saby said...

Mishika, a sexy name for a cat




i hate cat lovers
and Jay

where the fuck is he these days?

Pallavi said...

maintaning a healthy balance in offering and receiving true friendship!

wat a wonderful line!

I love giving gifts to people....my favorite part is give the gift and see the reaction of that person or the smiles they have on their faces.... i love it.

musings (m000nie) said...

i dont know wat i m... i think i'll allow my frnds to tell me wat sort of a person i m... bcoz it so happens that sometimes we feel we r the givers... we'r the ones who r giving all the time.. but if u think n look rationally u mite find out that mayb its not always that way... the only reason being we think only wat we feel is right... we think only with our emotions...

i'll ask someone n tell u wat he thinks i m...

musings (m000nie) said...

aww alrite lol he says i m a 'giver'... i dont take much...

Johnny B. Good said...

HE IS A NUT !




.

Vivek Panda said...

nice post keshi !! wish me luck...my exams are almost there !! woohoo i feel soooo nervous !!

Johnny B. Good said...

NEITHER WOLK NOR DOG

http://print.google.com/print?id=4lHKuY7jw8wC&pg=PA210&lpg=PA210&dq=you+know+you+have+been+had&prev=http://books.google.com/books%3Fq%3Dyou%2Bknow%2Byou%2Bhave%2Bbeen%2Bhad%26lr%3D&sig=NJNfNVxL0FAE2sUq4VvD2Lhau6Q&pli=1&auth=DQAAAG4AAACbnjwsmQMLbMvZe5uCBSwyu9XC_6PYzYERgw1sFn97HqUhMpvz_2YdZKIMGNLE1dpYRqleQ-yifqFopmvJjfCghmdldbQqJd-wYA11jIOOyEbUbt8nmBGatvTqr0IwU_yBAdTjxJUV6RhgZapBzTzY

Johnny B. Good said...

Panda is sooo cute

saby said...

Justine

am trying to understand yr psyche

http://imnutsincaps.blogspot.com/2005/11/neither-wolf-nor-dog.html







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Michelle said...

i give :)
i take :)

but i like takin more than givin :p

tulipspeaks said...

i have given and given and given..

till i have forgotten what is the meaning of taking it back


muuaxx and hugsss


=am000nie=

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Keshi's missing!!

Wherez ya babezzzzzz??? u arrite naaa????? reply reply reply asap!!!

saby said...

dont worry
Fira hasnt abducted her








she only bloggs during office hours

saby said...

i will vouch for dat


@amutha

saby said...

who the fuck is Alice ??

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

x-( @ saby

Rohit Talwar said...

dont be funny! 'i give a lot and take too...but not a lot.'

why is that!

'cos i dont expect from people'

oh come on!

Rahul said...

what about the kind who neither gives nor takes. It is a lonely world out there for them, right? I started out being that kind of a person; fiercely guarding my independence and cutting myself off from the rest of the world. But, i soon realised that there is nothing flamboyant about it. I love to give and take now, although i have to admit that the pleasure peaks during taking ;-)
You do mak eme think about a lot of things i otherwise wont. Thank you. And although age is not much of a problem with me, i dont understand how my previous comment was a proposal ;-)

strawy said...

mez all 3 .. lolzzz
i give n take
i sometimes only give
n sometimes i only take
aawwwwww... that makes me bad kya ???

st000nie

Dawn....सेहर said...

WOW dear...amazing post and hillarious pics I must say...I really enjoyed..:)

its true...its always give n take but then one should what??? :)

cheers!
dawn

saby said...

http://imnutsincaps.blogspot.com/2005/09/who-fuck-is-alice.html



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saby said...

95

saby said...

and a 96
jut hang on kesh

saby said...

i am almost there

saby said...

98

saby said...

99

saby said...

how many miles must a white dove sail

how many trees must be cut

how many deeks must i cut

how many times must i say i love u
b4 u begin to believe it

the answer my friend is not blowing in the wind

u gotta tell me

saby said...

God's Love
is so wonderful.
God's love is so wonderful.
God's love is so WONDERFUL.

God's wonderful love!

It's so wide you can't get around it,
Its so deep you can't get under it.
Its so high you can't get over it,

God's wonderful love!-Caraf

saby said...

am i God ?

Keshi said...

**Casa

lol yep I do have a chat session going on here too :) Thanks!






**Puremood

Hello and WC to my blog! Thanks and great to know ur in the first category :)







**Divya

aww HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ! Or d u want mah iPod Divya? lol!






**Puneet

**its just like if a thread after being broken is tied again will alwayz have that knot ;-)

so true - wow u r competing with me on the examples right? lol! Very good I must say :):)







**Vanathi

Thanks :)







**Cheesy

Hey girl! Good to know u give and take...now give it all babez! ;-) btw Im right here sweety...just that in the weekends I dun get ti blog that much...too much family/friends affairs lol!







**Icyblue

Hellooo sweety!

**that makes me fall under the second category... but it ain't that bad...

yes it aint bad cos u feel good Giving...but when the recepient is a selfish hog, it starts getting boring...dun u think?


**I look back today, I'm stronger than before.

I guess thats the gift one gets when Giving more than u receive...spot on! And good on ya for being stronger cos I know exactly what u mean ;-)


**I have a gut feeling...
the second one... :)

ur right...I was once blind, deaf and mute...now I have opened my eyes, ears and the mouth..lol!
Thanks sweety!









**Neel

Hellooo WB!

**But if someone is close enough, then I can have a only give relationship

not worth it Neel...even if u r very close to a person, maintain that fairness of both Give and Take...cos one day if all gets lost, u wont feel that stupid for just only Giving and Giving...trust me, it's a very painful feeling. Thanks for dropping by mate :)









**Starbender

Thanks mate :)









**Sudeep

WC to my blog Sudeep!

**it is superbly edited (i mean whoevr did it)

lol yess...so cute na? Thanks for dropping by...









**Tarun

heyyy hugggz!

**India. More later after coming back.

ohhhhh ok...now I got ya :) be back soon ok...









**Niki

Hello girl, Thanks!

**so many ppl get angry with such give-n-take thingy.
very sad...

u raised a very good point here...yes, so many ppl quarrel over who gives and who takes...best is to do what u can and expect the least...and then when u receive w.o. having expected, it's such a wonderful feeling :)









**johnny boy

WC to my blog matey! And glad u liked the cat pic :)

**More of a giver than a taker.. but then no regrets.. I don need much, so why shud i take?? :))))

very well stated...Im so proud of someone like u...cos the less we have and crave for, the more happy we r...


**In the end, if u use your calculator and check, the accounts on both sides will tally!!

so true! cos everyone thinks that they r the ones who Give, but the other party has some accounts to show as well :)

Thanks for ur very wise words Johnny...I hope all the ppl here read it. Drop in again cos I need ur wisdom :)









**Justin

Thank U mate :)








**Alice

Helloooo, hows u dear?

**i'll give u a hug....and take away a smile after reading ur blog and this post....

awww HUGGGGGGGGGGZ and SMILEZZZ :) Muah too :) Hope ur feeling much better this week.









**Dewdy

Hows u darl?

**Im usually at the receiving end when it comes to certain bad things in life

well join THE club Dewdy...me not lucky at receiving good tidings too...always the doomed :( but I get pleasure in giving those who deserve...cos to imagine the recepient's happiness is good enough sometimes...
lol u seem to be having a tough time with Richard's canium levels...aww Dewdy :)









**Nitika

heloooo Niti hows ya? Gla du liked the cat and the ducklings..aww lol!

**its all abt how u take your relationship..

yesss! Spot on! Depends on the r'ship isnt it. Cos when it comes to my Ma, I dont take...I just Give, give and give. When it comes to my Sis, I give and take ;-) When it comes to my guy friends, I just sometimes only take...lol! Yeah so it does depend on the r'ship...thanks for bringing that up...a very valid point...










**Linny

Heyyya girl!

yes I think we all belong to all 3 categories, depending on the r'ship and the situation...working on each of it to achieve a healthy balance is always wise :) Thanks!










**Jackal

yes Jackal...sometimes it's ok to be a little selfish...cos we dun often realise that till we r hurt and feel really dumb...:)









**Teryy

Hows u sweety?

**It is good to try to find that place of balance where things even out.

yess...finding the balance is the hardest...takes alot of experience and time I guess...










**Drywall Mom

hey thanks and glad u likes the cat pic...many others did too :)









**Uttara

oiii babezter...wheres u? :(

**bordy bordy gurl .......am here :p

lol ok what's bordy bordy?









**Ashes

HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ Ash! I've been missing u...

**The cat in the pic reminded me of my Mishika.

awww sniff sniff...:( Long-live Mishika's memory...

**good or bad I take it all...When I give,it's not accepted.So thats that.

I want it all...I want it all...I want it all...and I want it now ;-)
Well I kinda get u....there comes a time when u r tired of just giving and not being accepted for it....and thats the time to start Taking...just taking ruthlessly...it happens...










**Susubala

Meowwwwwwwwwwwww Sumi ;-) And thanks for dropping by!









**Sudeep

WC to my blog Sudeep and Thanks! :)











**Pallavi

Thanks girl :)

*...see the reaction of that person or the smiles they have on their faces.... i love it.

u r a beautiful soul..thats why...hugggggggz!











**m000nie

hellooo babez muahhhh!

**bcoz it so happens that sometimes we feel we r the givers...

how wisely stated...wow! That's so true...we always think that we r the Givers...cos we belive we r right...and that is the ego working in some ways..m000nie u enlightened me there, thanks! Like Johnny said, tho we all have our Giving confessions, there is also a list of that from the other party. So we got to thinkk carefully if we r really Giving more than we receive, or vice versa...


**aww alrite lol he says i m a 'giver'... i dont take much...

lol u r! No doubt abt it girl :) Hugggggggz to a Giving lady...a pretty one too ;-)










**Vivek

Hey good luck Vivek! No doubt u'll do well :)










**Mich

aww Hugggggggz!

**but i like takin more than givin :p

lol it's irresistable isnt it :)










**Amu

hey after a long time Amu...I missed ya!

**till i have forgotten what is the meaning of taking it back

I know...u got to stop it b4 u even lose the meaning if Giving...u know wut I mean :) muahhhhhhhhhh!










**Rahul

Hey hows ya Rahul?

yep sometimes Taking only is a hugggge turn on ;-)

**And although age is not much of a problem with me, i dont understand how my previous comment was a proposal ;-)

huh? lol wut r u talking abt Rahul? Plzz explain...










**st000nie

hugggggggggggggz doll!

**mez all 3 .. lolzzz

very bravely admitting doll here :) so sweeeeeeeet! Nah it doesnt make u a bad person...I do that too...we r all in all 3 catgeories...just that all of us belong to one category MORE than the other 2...thats all :)










**Dawn

heyyy Dawny aww HUGGGGGGGGZ! WB!

**its true...its always give n take but then one should what??? :)

how d u mean? I didnt get this line...plz explain :)








**Saby

ok I think I told u many times b4 to stop making fun of ppl who come here...would u get it if I said PLEASE Saby?


Thanks all! :)
Keshi.

saby said...

WHO'S MAKING FUN??
i am making enemies




i love enemies
Jesus said 'love your enemies'

so i gotta make enemies first
b4 i can love dem

saby said...

i love fira
now he loves me too

saby said...

lemme do God's will Kesh
pleeeeezzzzzz

Rex Venom said...

Cute! The little kitten has a gun and the little duckies are scared and might get shot and the couch will get little duck brains on it and the little kittne will grow up and seek therapy and be sad when he is no longer a little kitten.
Rock on!

saby said...

is Rex a shrink ?

icyblue said...

Hi dear :)

yes it aint bad cos u feel good Giving...but when the recepient is a selfish hog, it starts getting boring...dun u think?
Oh tell me abt it...selfish hogs... plenty of them around.. a real pity!!

I guess thats the gift one gets when Giving more than u receive...spot on! And good on ya for being stronger cos I know exactly what u mean ;-)
*smiles* *smiles*

ur right...I was once blind, deaf and mute...now I have opened my eyes, ears and the mouth..lol!
Thanks sweety!

I think a gurl has to open her head more than her heart... :) I better start too asap...

Cheers and have a great week ahead :)
Icy

Keshi said...

lol Rex thanks :)









Icy muahhhhhh!

**I think a gurl has to open her head more than her heart

plz teach me how to do this..cos this is my greatest weakness...my heart is still doing the decision-making...altho it's good to let the heart guide u, sometimes..no I mean all the time, it gets me into deep shit..lol...help me ICY!


Keshi.