Monday, December 4

LOVE km/h

Have you loved someone so much that that love has no boundaries? Would you do anything for someone you love? Or what would be your limit? Have you felt that very love fill in all the empty spaces between you 2, no matter how far apart you may be from each other? You may be away from each other just during work hours, may be you 2 are in different cities, different countries or may be that person you love so much is not in this world anymore. But have you felt that love bridging the distance, the gap? That love is so strong that no hours, kilometers or even death can separate you from the other person? That all you have to do is close your eyes and think of them and they are right there with you. I have felt that love and I feel blessed for feeling it. My dad is worlds away from me but he's right next to me when I need him. The love he left with me builds me an instant stairway to heaven and he's already with me. And you bloggers are physically so far away from me but I can just feel your love and you're all right next to me...it's just amazing! I don't need to fly over to your places to see you, cos you're already with me, keeping me warm night and day. Isn't that the best thing you could ever feel. And guys I don't even have to speed ;-) Now who do you share that kind of amazing bond with? That kind of love that don't require a car/aeroplane to get you close to that person?


Current Music: When I Need You by Leo Sayer

128 Cranium Signets:

SaffronSaris said...

Yeah, can you feel me telepathing christmas greetings to you now?
;)

Arz000n said...

This is such a nice post..
LOVe...yeah, have exxperienced it...been thru it....and then trynna get outta it now :)

My dad is worlds away from me but he's right next to me when I need him.
I remember reading posts / comments on the attachment you have with your dad...you just miss them when they are not around...dont you??

I called up mom afta a week, couple of hours back and when she started crying (which she always does lately), I dont know what to say...I just miss her at times...but I prefer not to tell her about this coz it was ma decision to come here so far from the family...

Awww...cut the crap...

You have a nice day ahead K000kie piezz....and keep smiling...

time for me to sleep its like 130 in the morning here :)

Hugzzzz

Anthony Arojojoye said...

I used to think that distance wld be a serious barrier between my love & I, but I found out that I was dead wrong.
You're right, when I' missing her I just close my eyes and she's there with my (that shld be Westlife's lyrics).

Nothing really can be a barrier to love.

Anonymous said...

Hi Keshi

Hope you had a better weekend than us. WOW!!

That song is in my top ten list of love songs.

The true bonds between people on the net is something that can't be explained.

You read short posts from someone, and you feel as if you have known the person all your life.

I call it "The Penpal Theory." You can let someone into your life without obligation. How many times has a complete stranger unloaded their life history on you. We tell strangers details of our life that we would never share with someone we know.

I write it down to being human.

Hugs

Bev

southpaw said...

I share that sort of bond with my wife...:)

alex said...

Love does not request the physical presence of a person. :)

Parag said...

The human heart is so vast that it has no shortage of love..
All my life, whenever I found someone whom I loved ..I felt that I could never love anyone else more.. But there is always someone you could love more..
I have experience various relationships.. as a son, lover, husband, father, friend etc.. and the deepest and the most selfless love that I have felt is towards my children..
I guess that is why you feel the same about your dad

The Grunt said...

Oh, there's lots of people like that for me, Keshi. Some of them are non-romantic kinds of love and some are just plain crushes. The ones I find most interesting are the girls that I have had a connection with but are now separated from--separated amicably. I still have a fondness and a feeling of being connected with them. It is a pity that real world circumstances sometimes get in the way of a connection's potential, because with some of these you often wonder how far things could have gone, given a few changes.

The connection with bloggers is neat. I never thought that by starting a blog that I would connect with so many wonderful people.

kannan udayarajan said...

yup...its just amazing ...:)

Anonymous said...

Hi Keshi!
Am I first today?
Beatiful post and music!

Anonymous said...

My last post is about love too.
Your post is wonderful! You touch very important aspect of love.I think that if we love we can do anything for someone we love.
This is
Love from Bible:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
(1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

awaiting said...

I have loved. In fact I am 'loving'.

I will do anything for love...but one thing.

I will NOT lose myself in the face of love. Oftentimes we give in completely, allowing ourselves to be taken over by the notion that is love. To give so much that you lose who YOU are, is not what love is about. Love is about acceptance, giving, cherishing, and nourishing. To completely lose your dreams and desires, defeat the purpose that is love.

Or at least to me! :)

samuru999 said...

Hi Sunshine
I share that kind of amazing bond
with my hubby...
we have always been there for each other...through thick and thin!

And, my daughter and son...we have always been so close...I am so blessed!

And, a sister...she has breast cancer...and we have become each other's best friend!
There is nothing I would not do for her!

Hope your day is going great Keshi!
Almost time for me to go to bed!
I was out shoveling snow today..
and it tired me out!
Take care dear!

Margie

Anonymous said...

unconditional love is excellent. The fact that you dont need to think twice on things that you would sacrifice for your loved on is the icing on the cake.

Shionge said...

Aiyo Keshi...you make me wanna cry coz I have so much love for so many people :D

The affection just grow and grow and it's spilling over to all my lovely buddies out there.

Yep, ain't no distance far enough likewise for us too Keshi.

Luv ya and have a good week ahead.

Anonymous said...

love is not on the other side, its always on your side...
does not matter if it is present on the other side, it will be of no use if you don't feel it. that is what i tell myself.

cheers mayt.

SaffronSaris said...

I was 1st!! Woo-hoo! When was the last time I was 1st in commenting here ;)
BTW, I have started updating my blog already.

samuru999 said...

Now you got me crying too!
Thanks for the support Keshi!
I think I'll cry on my pillow tonight
That's ok...tears can help!

Nitey-nite!
hugggggz!

Margie

Kumar Chetan said...

Love.
The word gives me following expressions:
Love!
Love?
Dunno what to say. I am more attached to my PCs than to humans. My experience with human beings, largely not completely, are discouraging. Hence after doing mathematical, physical and chemical analysis, I have decided to wait for that particular human being. And Thanks dear for u r wishes. Keep smiling. I hope you found the name of that lady in one of my comments.

Anonymous said...

Yes I do:)

Loved your post Keshi, you somehow manage to touch hearts and make your readers stop and think when they read your posts.

LOve!

Jewel Rays said...

Thats the joy of the internet i guess.. making two individuals feel the beauty of both emotions and hearts. and bringing two together despite the distance that speaks impossibility sometimes

nice..

sophie said...

I just love your posts and
beautiful mind!
You remind me of Cinderella -
warmhearted and intelligent
and creative.

I have a very close bond with
a special little boy - and
my Dad (who is very ill and I love
so very much) and my brother -
my very best friend as well.

I have been a bit lonely for
someone special but I think God
has sent a lovely friend for me
who is enchanting and I just
need to find some courage
and faith in myself again for love:)

I really love your writing style -
very personable:)

Sujit said...

i share with air.. the fresh breath brings tons of new things with it!.. every breth a difference in itself to see things in different ways :)

Anonymous said...

I.. once had a relationship that was really so strong that I told the girl I'd be with her no matter what.

Who'd have thought that I'd be here, alone, sitting in the dak and spacing out?

If not for her ex..
If not for her ex.

Sigh.
People do need to learn how to cherish, and not grumble when it's gone.

Love is really one interesting thing. It's kinda like a hot bath.
You sink in it and you really don't wanna get out anymore.

It's beautiful.

Cecilia said...

Very uplifting...inpirational post..glad i read it...good way to start my day..yes..the kind of love you mentioned is rare..yet beautiful when experienced:)

dreaming-neko said...

yes :)

azuka said...

I think the 'love test' involves the ability to conjure images of loved ones perfectly.

Haven't seen my family in a year, but their features are clearer than ever everytime I think of them. I haven't seen my crush in two months either, but she's still on my mind. Heh heh!

Harry said...

true love is always unconditional,full of emotions...

I share the same with my Bhuaji( means my dad's sister)who is no more in this world..I still share the same bonding...

well,the posting is really touching...:)

Harry

Anonymous said...

Life without love is like a tree
Without blossom and fruit.
Khalil Gibran

This is such an adorable Post keshi..You are full of surprises girl :) All we need is love.

My Dad is also worlds away from me & there are times when I miss him alot but as u said it feels like he is right next to me.

I have someone very special in my life & I grope for right words to tell him how much I love him but I can't find any...We are so much in love...Distances never mattered & there is not a single day past he didn't call me or he didn't tell me he loves me & missed me...I feel so blessed to have him in my life...He illuminates my life with his love...Yes you are right this is the best thing you could ever feel :)

Stay Beautiful..!!

J. Andrew Lockhart said...

Yes there is that kind of love and it never gets weaker -- it gets stronger. So many kinds of love, though, and they're all good. :)

Anonymous said...

not me! i guess no one is worthy of my love yet

Anonymous said...

awwwwwwwww Kesh lemme hug u first, miss ya babe.... shhhh!! dun say anything, am huggin' u na............ well, hope u wont catch cold from me for doin' this. lol! ^_^ yeah, was down of bad cold and fever again 2 days ago ;(;( its gettin cold here day by day and its my toughest times... hope next spring comes fast hehe ^_^

.... see good topic callin me here :) ... i mean right topic for me lol! awwww yeah.... soo true u just need to close ur eyes to feel someone, sighh!!

... can miles truly separate us from someone we love.... if we want to be with them , aren't we already there?! **wink**

hope u had a nice weekend sweetie...miss ya tons! muaahhhh!
u take care always....luv ya!

hugss**

Anonymous said...

Awesome....
Heart warming post

Anonymous said...

nice post keshi!
ah Love! its hard to describe it perfectly. it can be only felt.

love has no boundaries!

"My dad is worlds away from me but he's right next to me when I need him. The love he left with me builds me an instant stairway to heaven and he's already with me."

and that proves the point so well!

;-))

Jewel Rays said...

did it keshi..posted them on ma space..:P

Ghost Particle said...

really really good message here. Well...love unrestricted means talking with our heart. From near or far, seing them will make you melt. Thats pure love. With trust and warmth. Knowing that you have a place to return.

P/s: The deadline now is Dec the 20th. Have fun luv.

Anonymous said...

"Love is all around"...

Heyy Keshi dear!!
yes,I have loved,and still in love with my hubby,its a forever bonding I think and I hope :)

but i believe that we could love someone w/o even seeing him/her..(is that a fling?LOL)..

but thats the spirit of true love,loving w/o a return,eternal,forever,deep inside our hearts. :)

happy lovey day,gorgeous Keshi!!!

hugggssss backkk to you!!

twistedtruth said...

There u go again.

Awaiting said..
"To give so much that you lose who YOU are, is not what love is about."

Losing oneself is love. U can't do that with a full vessal.

Prashant said...

This is all true....
Love is the only thing that makes you either too much strong or too much helpless.....

but its good to be in love

Prashant said...

so howz life these dayszzzzzz????

aqua said...

Love has no boundaries!!!

desperado said...

family....always
n i feel a bond wid some people i havnet met yet....part of d blogger world

Eclipsed Thoughts said...

KAP
Yes, i believe love is more than physical presence... but i would say that sometimes love fades away with time.
"Absence is to love what wind is to fire, it extinguishes the small and enflames the large"

hmmm... i think this holds very true in our lives to.

Now to the question: yes, i too have felt love, deep love weven in the absence, when someone has been in the different place, town, city, country...

haha... and guess what?? i dont even have to close my eyes, i can just hallucinate the ppl i love and feel them sitting beside me and talking.

silly isnt it??? after all what are emotions and feelings for?? to feel, love, relax, enjoy the company and then miss then when they are away!

PrAcHi said...

I always stayed with my family keshi, so i have never been stayed away from them for long, so don’t have such a kind of experience for them. But I only know that, when tomorrow if I have to leave them and stay away from them, how much bad I will feel n how much I will miss them! This is just difficult to explain...
My Mr. Special was away from me for 6 months.. n not a single day has gone without missing him. I wanted him to come back so much n be with me..
I know that our love increase with distance. For us, it did. But still I don’t think so that I ever felt that the person is with me if I close my eyes.. I can’t feel the unknown presence.. nop. This never happened with me. If I miss someone n the person is not around me, then I miss that person even more.. :( May be I have never stayed away from anyone for a long period of time. Or may be I am not used to this and I take the presence of the people around me for granted!!!

Anonymous said...

Hmm.. why you feeling all lovey dovey??

Gangadhar said...

It's just LOVEly..

--Gangadhar
http://ganga.wordpress.com

Anonymous said...

distance makes the heart grow fonder..enough said. I think, things are best determined from a distance and time of absence...

Anonymous said...

Beautiful Keshi...I know exactly that feeling - for my family, my beloved who is hundreds of kilometers away from me, and the friends and family that are so far away nothing can reach them. I hope you have been ok - looks like things heated up :D

You always have our love Keshi girl :)

gautami tripathy said...

This kind of feeling has to be experienced and we all experience it at some point or the other. It has no boundaries. Just pure feelings when you can feel that person is right next to you no matter what, no matter where.

One cannot pinpoint it.

Anonymous said...

I have *A* that's who makes me complete. Might sound corny but for me she is the one.

let'sfuck said...

Since I was a little kid I sensed my soulmate. I always dreamed of finding him. Even without realising it, I knew at 15 he would see me from a distance somehow and I thought then he was already doing that. I would sometimes think he was in my mom's mirror looking at me (lol).

I guess I've loved him through other men before him. It makes sense that my body was expressing this love my soul was already experiencing, because I think our souls are already together in a different dimention.

Anyhow, I just sensed him so much my life became an almost nonsense following of this feeling. It was my heart who knew all along what my brain took ages to find out. I was crazy and I guess loved enough in life to have had the courage of seeing life as an edless playground in which I and only I set the rules. Of course I had some really good friends who helped me find my way, the alchemist for example. He encouraged me on my madness. Immagine if he had hesitated on writting his story, how many of us would have been deprived of his guiding hand? I so love him.

Just lastnight I dreamed with my soulmate, I wish I was still in my dream! We were laying in bed, slowly turning towards eachother kissing and huging, almost fearsome at first, but then the energy took place and we gave in. I still feel it this morning, so soothing. Sometimes I think my whole body is on and all my cells are craving him, perhaps because we are closer now.
I think the day that happens might become the happiest of my life.

Neers said...

Bless You, Kesh!

Anonymous said...

Yes I have... :). Will tell you someday who it is!

Anonymous said...

Far away can be very hard when it comes to relationship. Still the love continues when we miss them for many things when we want them here. Love lives forever how far you are and that brings or keeps us close to each other.

LERA said...

Hmmm... deep musings here!

Love is an emotional expression related to feelings, perceptions and our beliefs from our everyday experiences.
A True love is the combination of all the ultimate good human qualities and can be nurtured no matter the distance, one doesn't need to fly an aeroplane to feel it within those who are in harmony with Life .Keshi, You are absolutely right ,I would say, True Love has no boundaries :)

Anonymous said...

OH Keshi!! Wait until my next post on Wednesday to see what love is and how it survives everything:))

What an appropriate timely post from you to me darlin'!!

Yes, it does and go beyond love of a young heart.Like old wine,gets better and better if you have the right person.

Hope and wish one day that you will find the 'one' and see for yourself:)

Anonymous said...

it's cute,and it reminds me of things.painful things.

Nitika said...

glad to see you back with smile hun....muahhzzz

That love is so strong that no hours, kilometers or even death can separate you from the other person
god i just luv this line...feeling does exist forever

i believe no one can ever love you more than your parents so this kind of bonding it surely has to be with them....

Anonymous said...

Very true Keshi. Love bridges any distance. I had one such love with a very special person.

Anonymous said...

lol...I dont know keshi! all my life I have always loved the person that is in my head than the real person...maybe someday I'll stumble on such a love...hope so:) it's sounds nice:)

Anonymous said...

wonderful post, keshi..
yeah i have felt it, and it's magical..and love is just love..could be between friends, siblings, teachers, parents and children or even bloggers :)

Anonymous said...

such a beautiful thought.. and somehow it could only come from u..
but u're right u know.. love knows no boundaries...never did

saby said...

My dad is worlds away from me but he's right next to me when I need him.


u gotta let go Keshi

saby said...

love can be a cage for your loved one

when u love the other soo much

saby said...

Now you got me crying too!
I think I'll cry on my pillow tonight
That's ok...tears can help!



SHIT
look wat u done
those pretty blues will be crying tonight


i hate u Keshi

Anonymous said...

I share the same kinda love with my parents. :).

Anonymous said...

No Dear I dont have anyone .

Anonymous said...

Leo Sayers...lovely music
Keshi, you post hit a deep string in my heart and nearly brought me to tears..this is the truth in life.Love is universal.
I have nothing more to say I just can't express the beauty of what you have just written.It's the absolute truth.
Love you and HUGGGGGGGZZZZ :)

Anonymous said...

yes keshi i have been in love
So many times
I learnt to love myself
If you cannot love yourself u cannot love nyone
I love my family, my thoughts, my perceptions, my theories, my deeds, i love to hate sometimes, my gf, my friends, my blog, ur blog!
Love is everywhere
it's essence is scattered everywhere
You just have to smell and find it!

Arm Pitt said...

A touching post..especially about your dad! I am sure, from wherever he is, he would appreciate your love.

Anonymous said...

I'm here again cuz I love to bug you :D

I just read whats written in the pic you posted & YES I loved him b4 I met him :)

Stay Beautiful...!!

Keshi said...

Saffy ur FIRST yeyyyyyyy! :):)

**can you feel me telepathing christmas greetings to you now?


not only that, I also feel ur love always Saffy I mean it HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

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z000nie hugggggggggz Im so glad to have u back in my space :) Its such a great feeling.


**when she started crying (which she always does lately), I dont know what to say

awww thats so sad...my mum missed me so mcuh when I first left her to come and study in Aus...I rem those days..she used to cry too. I guess ur mum is going thru that phase cos ur away from home for the first time. She'll get used to it soon and Im pretty sure she'll be ok.

U have made a very selfless decision z000nie... ur family must be so proud of u.

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heyya Anthony thats such a beautiful thing to say. Ur GF is lucky to have ya :)

**that shld be Westlife's lyrics).

LOL @West Life!


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Bev I knew it that u'd luv this song..I just knew :)


**You read short posts from someone, and you feel as if you have known the person all your life.

So true. It's so much easier to speak to a stranger abt ur life than u cud to someone u know. Penpal/being human yeah...and it's such an amazing feeling.

HUGGGGGGGGGZ Bev I love u!

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Southy thats awesome!

:)

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Alex thats so true. And even when ppl die, they leave their love for us. Isnt that just amazing!


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Parag heyyy thats so true. Love has no limits. It's an amazing feeling and the most powerful.


**But there is always someone you could love more..

its more like Love takes different forms when u meet different ppl...it's all different kinds of love but its LOVE after all. Isnt that so beautiful!

And I'm sure u must make a wonderful dad to ur kids!

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Grunt heyy!

**It is a pity that real world circumstances sometimes get in the way of a connection's potential, because with some of these you often wonder how far things could have gone, given a few changes.

So true...u often wonder dun u...I do that :) Its like that connection is still there, even tho they r gone.

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ty Kannan! :)




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Krystyna I love that Bible version of LOVE. So beautiful and so true.


**I think that if we love we can do anything for someone we love.

yep..I think so too. I'd even die for my mum. I love her that much.

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Awaiting hey tnxx babez!

**To give so much that you lose who YOU are, is not what love is about.

I agree...when it comes to Love between a man and a woman (romantic love), I think what u said is true. U shoul not lose yourself in the name of Love.


**Love is about acceptance, giving, cherishing, and nourishing. To completely lose your dreams and desires, defeat the purpose that is love.

So true. But I'd just even lose my dreams and desires for my parents. U know what I mean. If I had to lookafter them and if that meant giving up my dreams, I would. My love for my mum is unconditional. If u know wut I mean sweetie :)

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Margie HUGGGGGGGGGGZ! I hope u slept well and that u didnt cry...Saby is scolding me for making u sad :(


**There is nothing I would not do for her!

awwwwwwww thats such a beautiful thing to come from a sister. Ur sis is luck to have u as her sister OMG she's SOOO LUCKY! I hope she gets better soon and I know she will. Sending angel blessings to ur sis all the way from here....MWAHHHHH!

Ur son, daughter and hubby r some very lucky ppl too. Ur LOVE is pure and so true Margie.

TC babez!

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Niv I like what u said.

**The fact that you dont need to think twice on things that you would sacrifice for your loved on is the icing on the cake.

And thats the kind of Love Im talking abt. The kind that u dun even have to think abt urself b4 them...thats the kind of love I have for my dad and my mum. If b4 my dad suddenly died, God asked for another's life, I'd have gladly given my life for his.

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Shionge awww :) HUGGGGGGGGZ!

Yes the affection can be so over-whelming. U tc sweetie!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Soj ur a legend mate! WOW I really like what u said.

**love is not on the other side, its always on your side...


Spot on! So beautifully stated. thats so true. No point if u dun feel it. TY for that!

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Kumar heyyyy ty for that msg :)


**I am more attached to my PCs than to humans.

I know wut u mean...when ppl ard u become too much to handle, we turn to other things that keep us sane and happy. PC is not a bad thing...cos even through that look how many humans ur talking to hehe. And u might hit the jackpot someday...u might find her thru the PC :)

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ty BurgundyButterfly HUGGGGGGGGZ!

:)

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Amy I luuuuuuuuuuurved ur pics girly WOW! U look awesome!! Ur blog was the 1st blog I visited in a hurry this morning after seeing ur comment lol! I just love knowing what u look like. Im sooo happy today :) ty n hugggggggggz!


**and bringing two together despite the distance that speaks impossibility sometimes

That so true! If there's love there won't be any distance at all.


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G'day Sophie!

**I have a very close bond with
a special little boy - and
my Dad (who is very ill and I love
so very much) and my brother -
my very best friend as well.

thats so sweet...u sound like me...one with alot of love for her family and friends. I hope ur father gets better soon.


That special someone...well Sophie I waited a long time for him too...but it looks like God has given me a whole bunch of special ppl...my dearest blog mates. I mean where else can u find this much love and friendship? Isnt this magical!

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Sujit heyy!

**every breth a difference in itself to see things in different ways

wow thats a very interesting point of view. TY! :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Ian heyy!

**People do need to learn how to cherish, and not grumble when it's gone.

so true. I mean LOVE does not always end up with the 2 being together forever. Some ppl part...some die...some leave...but if that Love was true, it will always remain with us. That Love wont ever die.

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WC Cecilia and ty so much! :)


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Neko thats great :)

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Azuka heyy!

**I think the 'love test' involves the ability to conjure images of loved ones perfectly.

thats so true...u never forget how they look ha...so sweet of u!

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Harry heyy hows u?

**I share the same with my Bhuaji( means my dad's sister)who is no more in this world..I still share the same bonding...

that had me crying...really. I felt ur close bond with her. Im so sorry u lost her but like u said, her Love is with u. Isnt that amazing. HUGGGGGGGGGZ Harry!

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Sugar heyyy!


**Life without love is like a tree
Without blossom and fruit.
Khalil Gibran

So true! W.O. Love would we even know who we r.


Im so sorry abt ur dad HUGGGGGGGGGGZ! So ur like me...when u need him, u just close ur eyes and he's right there with u. Thats just great. Im glad u think of ur dad with so much Love. It means ur dad left alot of Love in u.

And Im glad u have a man in ur life who illuminates ur life with his Love. It's a blessing one could have. I wish u both all the very best Suga! :)

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Yep Andrew thats the kind of Love that gets stronger...well-said!

**So many kinds of love, though, and they're all good

Indeed :) ty!

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Dalicia heyy!

** i guess no one is worthy of my love yet

awww dun say that girl...what abt ur parents?

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Kath HUGGGGGGGZ n MWAHHHHHHHHH! ooops I caught ur gerns lol but its OK :) awwww ur sick...:( Japanese winters must be harsh. Take good care sweetie.


** can miles truly separate us from someone we love.... if we want to be with them , aren't we already there?!

we can be anywhere we want...our mind is magical and if u have the Love, u have the ticket to any destination :)

I hope u get to blog often soon...I so miss ya!


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ty Kautilya! :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Deepz heyy ty!

**its hard to describe it perfectly. it can be only felt.

yes thats so true. There r some feelings in this world that can NEVER be put into words. And Love is one of em.

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Ghosty heyyy so it's the 20th ha :) ty!

**love unrestricted means talking with our heart. From near or far, seing them will make you melt. Thats pure love. With trust and warmth. Knowing that you have a place to return.

thats so beautifull y said! A place to return indeed. TY.


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Ghee heyy HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

Ur hubby is a very lucky man to have a woman like u in his life.'


**but i believe that we could love someone w/o even seeing him/her..(is that a fling?LOL)..

LOL Ghee that word FLING makes me crack up these days!
yep yep some ppl fall in LOVE w.o. even seeing the other person atleast once :):)

Love is all that and much more that we can never finish defining. ty my dear!

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hey TT :)

**Losing oneself is love. U can't do that with a full vessal.

yeah losing oneseld is love but what she meant is that u shouldnt be losing your dreams and desires for Love. D u agree?

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Prashant heyy Im good ty and urself? :)


**Love is the only thing that makes you either too much strong or too much helpless.....

So true!

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Aqua thats true, ty!


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Desperado I know ur a family guy...just like Im a family girl :)

** i feel a bond wid some people i havnet met yet....

does that include me? ;-) Cos I feet that way with u.



Keshi.

KaraMia said...

I havn't loved a man in that way in a long time, but my son, I know no matter where he is, will always be right next to me.

Keshi said...

KAP heyy hugggggggz!

**"Absence is to love what wind is to fire, it extinguishes the small and enflames the large"

wow what a quote! I believe that theose small flames r not true love. They r just crushes and they will die in absence. true love doesnt and they r the larger flames :) Am I wrong?


** i dont even have to close my eyes, i can just hallucinate the ppl i love and feel them sitting beside me and talking.

so nice KAP.


I miss u...where r ur posts? Hugggggggggggggz!

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Prachi heyy!

I know wut u mean...when I first left my mum to come to Aus for studies, I was crying everyday...I was so sad and to hear my mum's voice on the phone was worse...it broke my heart. But time cured me...and when mum came over to join me here, it was BLISS :) So yeah, we somehow adjust ourselves to changes. That's a human survival instinct. It somehow happens and Im sure u will find it in u too.


**But still I don’t think so that I ever felt that the person is with me if I close my eyes.. I can’t feel the unknown presence..

maybe cos ur not used to the absence yet...in time u will get used to it. When my dad died, the first few years were VERY difficult. And I still miss him often. But cos I just know that he's not coming back, I have made up mind to live in the love he's left with me. And that helps alot. But trust me ur gonna be fine...it takes time to realise alot of things abt Love. HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

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Johnno heyy!

**why you feeling all lovey dovey??

LOL yeah feeling mushy today :):) Doesnt suit me na? ROFL!

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ty Gangz :)


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Drama_Diva heyy!

** I think, things are best determined from a distance and time of absence...

thats true...time and distance sure brings out what u truly feel. Absence does make the heart grow fonder when it's real Love...but if it's out of sight and out of mind, then it's not Love at all :)

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ty Silvara HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

aww I missed u..u ok?

yep Im alright...just alot has been happening lately :)

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heyy Gautami!

**One cannot pinpoint it.

Spot on! It's so hard to define this kind of Love.

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Sanjay heyyy!

**I have *A* that's who makes me complete. Might sound corny but for me she is the one.

Not corny at all mate! I think it's sooooo sweet of u to say that awwwwwww. Im glad u have found ur other half :)

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LetsF#ck heyy!

ty for that story of ur's.. very intense :)

So have u met him?

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Neers sweetie bless u too! Hugggggggggz!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Mr.Maverick awww some day then :*(

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Priya heyy!

**Love lives forever how far you are and that brings or keeps us close to each other.


yup...even after ppl r gone, the Love remains.

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heyy Lera ty!

**A True love is the combination of all the ultimate good human qualities and can be nurtured no matter the distance, one doesn't need to fly an aeroplane to feel it within those who are in harmony with Life

so true :)

Hugggggggz Lera!

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Asha heyy huggggggz I cant wait for that anniv post of ur's :)


**Yes, it does and go beyond love of a young heart.Like old wine,gets better and better if you have the right person.

so true! Love gets better with age. cos we become wiser na :)


But in my case, by the time I find my true love, I'd be really old I guess LOL!

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Ash HUGGGGGGGGGZ!

**it's cute,and it reminds me of things.painful things.

awww sorry if it stirred painful memories...u wanna share? Im here for ya mate.

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hello Niti HUGGGGGGGGZ!


**i believe no one can ever love you more than your parents

true...I think a parent's love is the only true unconditonal Love ever.

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KK hey ty!

**I had one such love with a very special person.

ooo lala and that's? :) ok Im being too nosy LOL sorry!

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heyy Yash sweetie hows u?

**all my life I have always loved the person that is in my head than the real person.

lol I know what u mean. But thats romantic love na :) Wut abt ur parents?

And oh yeah, by the time I meet my man, I'd be 100yrs old..lol u already know that na!

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Rose heyyy!


**and love is just love..could be between friends, siblings, teachers, parents and children or even bloggers

yep..there r so many kinds of Love in this world...isnt it amazing!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Aditi ty :) HUGGGGGGGGGZ!

And love sees no color or creed...have u seen how kittens play with puppies...and have u seen how 2 hearts that come from different parts of the world fall in love...have u seen how snow kisses the mountain tops...its all pure Love!

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Saby I kno wwut u mean...it's hard to let go...

**love can be a cage for your loved one
when u love the other soo much


no thats not Love. Thats suffocating ur loved-one. Love doesnt suffocate ppl. It sets u free.

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Akshay Im so glad to know that. Wonderful!

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Hazel how abt ur parents?


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Maya HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ! WB my dear I missed ya!

**you post hit a deep string in my heart and nearly brought me to tears..this is the truth in life.Love is universal.

awww dun cry now...yes Love is universal and it's the most powerful emotion.

TC sweetie and now plz dun cry ok??

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Vipul absolutely! ty so much for that. U just have to find it...hell yeah. And there r so many ppl who r blind to Love just cos they dun wanna see it.

**I love my family, my thoughts, my perceptions, my theories, my deeds, i love to hate sometimes, my gf, my friends, my blog, ur blog!

thats a beautiful thing to say. TY!

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Arm_Pitt heyy!

**I am sure, from wherever he is, he would appreciate your love.

awww ty..that brought a tear to my eyes.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Sugar heyy tnxx for coming here again to bug me cos I love being bugged LOL!

** just read whats written in the pic you posted & YES I loved him b4 I met him

awwww thats a rare and beautiful kind of love...Im so happy for u 2!


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Karamia ur a beautiful mum...ur son will definitely know what pure Love is cos of u.

Hugggggggggggggz!


Keshi.

SaffronSaris said...

You can't see my update? I posted a new entry yesterday.
Must be nice and balmy to have Christmas in summer huh? You wont have to worry about the cold and fiddle with thick coats.

passerby55 said...

Keshi, this post writes on an emotion which can never perish.

The vast ocean lets fish leap freely; the endless sky lets birds fly freely. SUCh is this wonderful emotion called "LOVE" It can be felt across oceans or galaxies away.

"My dad is worlds away from me but he's right next to me when I need him........it's just amazing"

True,that is the magic of love.
A Meaningful relationship and a well connected one ...

Such connections never die. They live within us. ANd in the various forms around us they come and peep in and whisper The three magical words....."I love you" AND I mean it!

Its an honest comment here.

saby said...

FUCK
nearing 100 already


its just not fair
just coz i dont have its and ass


i cant remember scoring a 100 ever

Keshi said...

Saffy I cant see any new posts in ur blog..just that Tulip one. Blogger sometimes acts funny.

yep Summer Christmas is great! All in sexy summer clothes ;-) and Barbies by the Ocean...so beautiful!

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Passerby55 hey tnxx!

**The vast ocean lets fish leap freely; the endless sky lets birds fly freely. SUCh is this wonderful emotion called "LOVE" It can be felt across oceans or galaxies away.

Thats such a beautiful way to put it across. TY!


yes ppl may leave/die but the connection we have with our loved-ones never dies.

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Saby u J?



Keshi.

saby said...

dis Love shove is silly
i feel silly for falling in love

especially bcoz it happened at 56

Keshi said...

And who is the girl Saby? Or is it a boy? LOL!

Keshi.

saby said...

heyyyyy guys
Relax


its not keshi
she is a blonde

Keshi said...

awwwwwwww Im heart-broken now...

na I got an idea..Im gonna dye my hair blonde this evening LOL!

Keshi.

Anonymous said...

And that's my ex... Back to square one now :)

southpaw said...

Dont believe him, he is madly in love with u...lolz

southpaw said...

and karen

Outdoorsy Girl said...

Keshi...

This was a beautiful post. And I certainly agree with you that special bonds of love are this way.

What you said about your dad is heartwarming. It made me smile (and shed a tear!)

Keshi said...

KK awww...all ex's r special in some unique way...the connection is still there. Except when it's an ex from hell LOL!

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Southy is he now? LOL how d u know?

Karen? ok who's that?




Keshi.

lee said...

Yay-leo sayer :). Keshi, I carry this feeling for someone I haven't seen for 14 years and will never see again -and that's love, isn't it?

keshi -have you ever read Jane Eyre? I think that you are a bit of a romantic and would love it if you haven't read it already.

Keshi said...

OMg I just realised Karen = Starbender! :):)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

awww HUGGGGGGGGGGZ Outdoorsy!

I know u feel alot, just like me...


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Lee why wont u ever see that person again? awwwwwwwww....

U like Leo Sayer ha...me too.

I have read Jane Eyre...by Charlotte Bronte..I loved it! Im a big fat romantic Lee LOL!



Keshi.

fergal said...

being far away from my kids is especially hard nowadays! the mental concept of the distance between us can become almost unbearable, especially if u r in different countries. so i try not to do that too often - e.g. i had an opportuntiy to go on a free trip to england earlier this year, to do some work (but wouldn't have been too much work involved), and i actually decline in the end! i would_not_have seen myself doing that a few years ago! ;-D

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Jewel Rays said...

Thanks Keshi..:)

Anonymous said...

My ex was from heaven :)

Keshi said...

Fergal heyy u have kids? Thats nice. Why dun u ring em often?

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Amy thank YOU sweetie! :)




Keshi.

Keshi said...

KK am I not glad abt that! :)

Keshi.

Anonymous said...

Hi Kesh :),
Its one thing to know these things and its another to follow. No use knowing if we don't follow:). And I am a legend in failing to be incomplete in that respect :) LOL

Cheers Mayt!

Anonymous said...

Hi Keshi

Thought you might like to know the dates when this song was on the charts. This list would match very close to Billboard.
Top 30
Sayer, Leo
When I Need You
Chart Date Position
Saturday, April 02, 1977 25
Saturday, April 09, 1977 18
Saturday, April 16, 1977 14
Saturday, April 23, 1977 11
Saturday, April 30, 1977 6
Saturday, May 07, 1977 3
Saturday, May 14, 1977 2
Saturday, May 21, 1977 1
Saturday, May 28, 1977 1
Saturday, June 04, 1977 1
Saturday, June 11, 1977 1
Saturday, June 18, 1977 5
Saturday, June 25, 1977 11
Saturday, July 02, 1977 20
Saturday, July 09, 1977 22
Saturday, July 16, 1977 29

hugs

Bev

Dawn....सेहर said...

Keshi dear...I love todays topic and the spirit that you come with :D....I do share such feelings with my friends and my parents! Its there love that gives the strengths...you wont believe at time I think of you....when am at work...and so many such things...
It all brings a genuine happiness and closeness
So true....
a big hugggggggggggg to you my dear sis
Keep smilin
Cheers

SamY said...

he he I knew it was ur dad :)

** Isn't that the best thing you could ever feel.

if that is so ... life wud be out'a spice nah? therez always something better than the best so far ;) ... lets c

u falling for a guy ... flirting along with him haplessly ... ur wedding at the beach ;)) ... ur honeymoon which u promised u'll give an account of (don't worry u'll get hooked b4 I do :D) ... then little keshi's ... therez so much nutty

what u said is like those cliched phrases - future proof product, like never b4 in history blah blah blah ;)

** That kind of love that don't require a car/aeroplane to get you close to that person?

well u didn't mention the obvious :D, no commitments, no having to keep up with appointments ;), no nagging phone calls from ur fans he he ... say what u want, when u want n go

what say?

Anonymous said...

Hi Keshi..

Nice Post..!

Love is just so wonderful.. Not even distance will keep it apart... U dun have to be right there by his/her side to show tat u really love him or her.. :)

Sometimes, ppl tend to sacrifice ALOT for love.. Cos LOVE IS BLIND..

I like the song "When i need you" too... Like i said, oldies songs have very meaningful words & pharses in them..

Cheers!!

lee said...

keshi, it's due to circumstances that cannot be changed ,no matter what :(.

Keshi said...

Soj heyy!

**And I am a legend in failing to be incomplete in that respect

o cmon ur just saying that now :)

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tnxx Bev :)

WOW thats a whoppin 4 months or so!


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Dawn HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

**...you wont believe at time I think of you....when am at work...and so many such things...

aww me too..I think of u and I often wonder o what must Dawn be doing now lol! Isnt that such a wonderful feeling.

MWAHHHH sweetie!

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Samy hey Huggggggggz!

lol little Keshis sound scary! :):)


**well u didn't mention the obvious :D, no commitments, no having to keep up with appointments ;), no nagging phone calls from ur fans he he ... say what u want, when u want n go


awww no fans...only FRIENDS :)

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Thumbelina thats so true.

aww u like Leo Sayer too...me too...Im into golden oldies too...more meaningful na.

ty n huggggggggggz!

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Lee thats sad :(




Keshi.

Anonymous said...

Great post yaar! "LOVE" is something that only be felt between Two human beings. Distance is of no concern. Do I need any better example?? :)

Vikas said...

hey keshi!!!! 100% agree with you..Love is divine.It needs no airoplane or no physical presences.

Love is feeling which is to be felt.
I feel the same right now while wriiting this to you..Though you are far from me...

"I JUST CALL TO SAY I LOVE YOU"


Nice post...

Love You buddy

Take Care
Vikas{V}

Kalpana said...

Wow..a wonderful post. I too feel I got good blogger friends.

fergal said...

keshi - talking on the phone is good (better than nothing!), but it just doesn't reduce the sheer physical distance ...

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Top cat said...

you are so right keshi, true love knows no boundaries or time/space limitations.
I too feel the love from fellow bloggers and I have made some great friendships through blogging.

I am blessed to be married to my best friend and lover for 30 years.
It came at a price however of years of pain and lonliness before we met.

Anonymous said...

cant say much...
still not got into that feeling :)

but a lovely post. Makes me feel I'm missing something!!!

Keshi said...

Contented tnxxx!

**Do I need any better example??

awwwwww...HUGGGGGGGGZ!

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Vikas ur sooo sweet!


**I feel the same right now while wriiting this to you..Though you are far from me...
"I JUST CALL TO SAY I LOVE YOU"


I was stoked to bits mate..ty HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ n I LOVE U TOO!
btw I luuuurve that song by Stevie :)

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TY Kalpana!


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Fergal thats right..:(


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Top_Cat heyy!

**It came at a price however of years of pain and lonliness before we met.

omg that means I can have some hope too :) ty!


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Preetha awww u will feel it some day...HUGGGGGGGGZ!



Keshi.

Anonymous said...

Keshi this blog of urs made me cry..Cause in my case my parents dont bother about me...I love them so much still they dont want me...U r lucky keshi to have such wonderful parents..Anyway take care

Keshi said...

JaanKi sweetie HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ! awww dun cry now...plzz dun cry.

**...I love them so much still they dont want me...

I cant u'stand that mainly cos my parents never made me feel that way. Just tell me..why d u think ur parents dun want u?


Keshi.

Blessed said...

you know when I first read this post I automatically thought of my first love and how I had never been so open and honest with another human being. I told him everything. I shared pretty much every nook and cranny of myself with him. I told him things (at that time) that no one knew. We lost our virginity to each other. It was indeed a very special bond. And then we grew apart. We were young, finding our ways, learning about life, careers, school, stepping out of the small world we came from and into a bigger one. I don't believe he ever told anyone my deepest secrets, but I regret now telling him becuz they were huge!! I wish I had kept somethings to myself. But it was a love like no other becuz of having really no boundaries, no limits.
Then there was the 2nd love, I once drove 15 hours in a car by myself, to an area I had never been, just to see him. This guy was definitely not for me, but I saw a glimmer of hope in him, I saw from time to time a heart, which he covered up alot with his alcoholism.
Now my 3rd love and hopefully last (and when I mention these particular loves I mean my mate, lover, that kind of bond) We married. 8 years. There is a different kind of bond. I think with each love their are different boundaries and there are limits. I think you learn this from heart breaks and mistakes. I think that I was scarred from past relationships (and when I say relationships I mean ALL my relationships-friends, family, mates, coworkers, acquaintances, etc) and I feel now that I have set boundaries. I have set some limits but that is about trust. I love him infinitely.
But enuff of my rambling.......
BLESSINGS!

Anonymous said...

Keshi, thanks for sharing this. I agree with you. love really has no boundaries. I know u miss your dad and I am sure he know that and he will be with you all time. Hugss....

I miss my partner as well....

Keshi said...

Blessed hey grest comment...enjoyed reading it.

** I think with each love their are different boundaries and there are limits.

thats so true! There r so many kinds of LOVE and each one has different limits and capacities. Isnt that amazing.

Im glad u found the ONE. Hugggggggggggz!

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Vince ty awww...

btw can I ask what happened to ur partner?




Keshi.

Jeevan said...

I feel like my uncle was with my all activity, because of him only our whole family was well. i too live an imaginary life with him.

Love doestn have time, or situation it mush be shared whenever we feel.

Autumn Storm said...

Very nice, Kesh!
Bridging distance and time, cutting through obstacles, it's pretty powerful stuff is love.
Love and hugs to you, x

Keshi said...

So true Jeevan ty!

:*( @ur uncle

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It sure is ha Autumn HUGGGGGGGGZ!


Keshi.

Anonymous said...

very touching and heartfelt. My eyes swelled up as each word soaked in. Good one. Love knows no limits, no boundaries.

Keshi said...

aww Ari Huggggggggggz!

Keshi.

Priyanka Mahanta said...

Yes, many a times I'v felt love...very strong love for people who means or meant so much for me. Sometimes U feel so strongly for someone that it makes your head spin and your heart heavy and beating faster and u just concentrate on anything. And then I think if the person I'm thinking about or feeling for so strongly is also thinking about me? If its a one-sided feeling or something like a tele-pathy? I guess I'd never know...

Keshi said...

Priyanka Im sure it's telepathy too...cos a one-sided love cant be that strong. Love is a powerful energy shared between 2 ppl. I believe it can travel miles. :)

Keshi.