Saturday, January 20

A Cinderella Story

Cinderella was bored and tired of her routine life. She worked so hard, slept so little, cried a river of tears but beautiful things hardly happened - oh no, not to her! She dreamed of a Prince who would love her forever, one who would wipe all her tears away. Days and years went by, no Prince came along. Then one beautiful day she gets to go to a ball...a grand big ball. Her fairy-Godmother dresses her up in a beautiful gown and pretty glass slippers, and asks her to return by midnight. Off she goes with stars in her eyes...

A waltz of romance, a waltz of magical rendevous, a waltz of promises and beautiful dreams coming true...a dance cheek to cheek...an 'I Love You' so sure...a fairy-tale coming true. She meets a handsome Prince who wouldn't leave her side during the entire evening. He falls in love with her and she too. Cos she never realised that someone could give her this much attention and love...that someone like him truly cares for her and wants her in his life for sure. They talk, laugh, smile and dance through the whole evening. He assures her that she is the one. She couldn't believe that her dreams are taking real form. And then the clock strikes 12! She runs home, back to her rags, hoping he would come take her away some
day. And that day never comes...

Guys don't ask what happened. It's all over. Turned out that he had some conditions that I can't seem to fulfil. The dinner went well and I had even written a post on it, but didn't have time to publish it. And then we had this heart-breaking conversation last night and that's when I decided that it's not appropriate to publish that sappy dinner post at all...hence this new post now. I'm not all that upset cos I sort of knew this would happen. Nothing beautiful lasts too long in my life. But I'm glad I had a week of sweet romance...a week of dreams coming true...a week long fairy-tale in my life-long misery. Too short? It's ok...cos the longest bonds I have had haven't made me this happy either. The clock strikes 12...folks I'm back to real life now. Thanks all for being with me throughout this week's experience in clouds.

Guys watch this video...sad but truly beautiful.

Current Music: How Could An Angel Break My Heart by Toni Braxton (The Phantom version)

190 Cranium Signets:

Within Without said...

Hugs for you, dear Keshi.

I guess sometimes, shit just happens.

I won't ask what happened, but all I DO ask is you look back over the past week and remember what it feels like.

As much as this one didn't work out, you seemed excited, spellbound, all a-flitter, like a bird happily going round gathering twigs for a nest.

I might be exaggerating, I don't know. But your heart was pumping fast, you were heated up at the prospects...

Just know that this CAN happen to you if you open up to the possibilities. There's obviously some sadness right now. But don't crawl under a rock for 100 years.

It could happen to you again tomorrow.

:-)

Anonymous said...

Heya Keshi....Awww...my heart breaks for you.... It's funny how I kinda feel silly now with my last comment - he's a keeper lol.

Things in life like this happen girl, it doesn't mean that we stop caring or looking or being open-minded to other chances. Just wait...your prince WILL come.

Anonymous said...

Well hey Keshi - nice attitude you have. I'm glad you enjoyed it whilst it occurred, but as the the "conditions", better to find out early on than later when your heart is truly vulnerable to breaking... I love your post about Cinderella. Hope you are having a nice weekend my dear.

Anonymous said...

Hello keshi!

=D

I'm back!!

haha~

alright. Hmmmms. I'll tell you what. It goes like this. Fate, destiny, providence. Alongside all the blah blah that works with love. When time comes, it comes.
I've not much affinity with the almighty power of love, and I told myself that when it's my time, I'll make it big, I'll make it amazing, so whopping no one would ever believe it.
But until now, not a thing has happened, so I pride myself on the name "Frog Prince".
The story goes like this, a witch turned a prince into a frog, and only until a lady kisses this frog, the prince will never return to his original form.
It's not exactly graceful, being a frog, but well. At least I can confort myself.

Just know, that someday, some time, someone will be there for you, right there waiting at the end of he road with comforting arms. Someday.

Anonymous said...

Hi Keshi

(Tears!!-really-no joking!) Sad ending to a wonderful story.

HANG IN THERE GIRL!! IT WILL HAPPEN!!

Remember, true love never comes with conditions.

We all go through these sad events in our lives, and if we really want to find someone, there's nothing we can do to prevent it.

Your writing is perfect! You are a master with the pen!

WOW!! This has been a very serious and sad day!

For me, this is strike number two today.

Denny died today-Friday (15:45) in Canada.

I am talking about:

Doherty of Mamas and Papas and of the Children's TV Series Theodore Tugboat Dies

Tune into 1050chum.com-listen live-for songs and info.

Denny Doherty, from the 60s folk-pop group the Mamas and the Papas, has died aged 66 in Mississauga, Ontario, Canada.

The Mamas and the Papas shot to fame in the late 1960s with hits California Dreamin' and Monday, Monday...

Mr Doherty went on to pursue a solo career in music as well as playing the Harbourmaster and voicing all the characters for the children's television series Theodore Tugboat.

"Mama Cass" Elliot died in 1974 aged 32 while John Phillips died in 2001 aged 65.

Michelle Phillips is the only surviving member of the Mamas and the Papas...

The group also featured chief songwriter John Phillips, his wife Michelle and female vocalist "Mama Cass" Elliot.

Denny Doherty was born in Halifax, Nova Scotia, on 29 November 1940.

He was already well established on the folk music scene when he joined the Mamas and the Papas on their formation in 1965.

The group recorded four albums before breaking-up in 1969.


I met Denny during his Tugboat days. He was vault of memories and a very professional performer.

In fact, he lived not far from my home.

BIG HUGS

BEV

sharda said...

It good to end bad things quick,so that the pain won't linger longer.

Anonymous said...

I not going to ask or say anythings to u, all I know I am here for u.

HUGSS!!!!

Anonymous said...

Hugggzzz.....
hey.. not all we dream come true...
that doesnt mean we should stop dreaming....

btw... katilya died a few days ago....
i personally put him to rest :P...
what a loser he was....

so... all the best ....

Anonymous said...

told ya... that "kautilya is dead"....
lolz... hey... call it my rebirth or something......

but here I am....all brand new...

Dawn....सेहर said...

Hey gal whats this all about...always tragedy queen!
Just forget it...don't spoil your today based on yesterday :)
Hugggggggggggggggggggggggz

samuru999 said...

Keshi sweetheart
I just got finished reading your email, and came right here!
I don't know what to say.
I know how you are hurting...
my heart breaks for you!
I'm always here for you Angel!

Good luck on the move.
Oh, my foot...I fell running down the stairs...clumbsy me...and got a bad sprain!

Just remember..I'm always on your side!

Huggggggz Angel!

Margie

Michelle said...

awww keshi pls don't be so sad...everything happens for a reason trust me!
It always happened to me too...I mean just when i thought i was happy, something or the other would take all that happiness away...the end result is always fruitful keshi never forget that...trust me...the sky always clears up after a storm and so does the sun come out after it rains...ur just going through a rough phase...happiness is on its way soon :-)
cheer up *hugs*

Anonymous said...

Cum on...at least you had a good time.
Be happy.!

Anonymous said...

Well sorry to hear it didn't work out. But, at least this happened early and you didn't get too deeply involved.

samuru999 said...

Always remember this Keshi.. you are every bit as wonderful
as the most intricate snowflake...
the most radiant sunset...
you are a conscious expression of life....
a miraculous arrangement of stardust
with spirit and intellect and love...
Never forget the glory of the gift
of your essence...
Whatever happens, the spark remains
and it will ignite your grace and beauty again and again.


Never forget this!
And never forget how much you mean to me....

Margie

my life.... said...

*Huggzzzz* hey keshi, be cheerful ya... there is always a better guy out there... i hope u are better now... love you gal:) take care ya

Anil (Virus.) said...

hiii... good to c you active :)

Anil (Virus.) said...

hi...

Good to see that ur active :)
Hope ur doing fine

Anil (Virus)

Anonymous said...

Hugzzz Keshi..just think whatever happens, happens for the best. Please dont feel too sad. Dont feel that nothing beautiful will last too long in your life. I think you are meant for better things and may be this wasnt the best for you. And.. your life isnt a misery.. Please Take care.. HUggzzz

Anonymous said...

life is with ups and downs so its ok
its really nice and u do feel contended once u come out of all the mis happenings and life is back to square one
Really sad ending keshi!! and u knw sometimes we are eager to end up bad things but they wont go! TIme is the best healer:)
hugssssssssss

ghee said...

awww,that was really a brief romance,but at least you were happy for a week...

experiences and meeting up new people make our lives even more interesting.its not the end of the world coz your world revolve not only for him.

you dont have to cry over a spilled milk,too...yet,you should be ready for a new beginning.you are a strong woman,but its not that bad to feel dismayed a little about it...life has its twists,but we dont know when ,how,or where...

a big hug for you,Keshi,my dear...
cheer up,hang in there and have fun!!

muahhhhh!

Anonymous said...

If it was indeed beauty, it would last forever...but so often we are blindsided by ideals of beauty rather than TRUE beauty.

So, my dear Keshi, you have missed out on nothing, rather than something that is not meant for you.

What is for you shall be...with out question, without wonder, and without knowing.

Here's to the future!

You'll make one man seem a KING one day! With your brains, beauty and love...you shall make him king...

Anonymous said...

hey keshi!!!!

thats ok honey...this is the world we live in...here we get nothing in free....every thing is of give and take.....

dont worry honey ur real prince is waiting for u somewhere..and he will come n take u along to his palace with no conditions....

i think u remember the song which wrote on ur past post...gudiya rani one....

Cheers up n have fun

Take Care
Vikas{V}

Anonymous said...

I love that you are such a romantic, Keshi.

If the shoe doesn't fit, buy new shoes!

You'll meet the right guy at the right time. Don't you worry about it!

Take care...

Anonymous said...

keshi i am sorry. i have been cruel.

you speak of love lost and I am lost.

i only wish i could find love.

such a pain when you look and never find.

Sujit said...

choo chad :((((... but to look at things in a +ve way.. good that bad things happnned earlier!.. and you can be back to reality earlier :).. just imagine if it was more time.. the bitter the moments :(... take care.. of your self ..:).. smile and ride on the clouds once again :)

Anonymous said...

sorry keshi...i didnt comment on ur previous two posts! i think ur blog does not load properly on my server, even tho i chek ur blog everyday and then suddenly i see ur post and the date and i realise i hav missed it somehow!

sorry to know abt such an ending...
but id like to tell u, someone told me once..."dont go looking for love. love will find u wen u least expect it!"
take care girl!
*hugs*
:)

desperado said...

hmmm...well now i gues i can be your prince charming.....cinderella ;)

just keep the good memories and be strong

keep smiling dear....cause somebody migh be falling in love with that smile :)

taek care n keep grunging

Anonymous said...

I don't know what to say...

did you both atleast try to compromise...No person in a relationship...can fulfill all the conditions of the other member.

Life is like a travelling salesman problem where you have to find the shortest route which covers all the given cities.

There is no best solution, you have to find the optimum solution according to the situation.

--Sunrise-- said...

Hey Keshi,

Chin up girl...

Love will find a way,
Jaaniye, heeriya...


Ha, just felt the need to quote song lyrics...

The important thing is the memories, na? No one can take those moments away from you, and with that igniting your hope, you will continue living with a smile... :)

Take care, yeah?

*hugs*

Sunrise..........x

The Phosgene Kid said...

Too bad it didn't work out. The guy didn't deserve somone as nice as you anyway...

Anonymous said...

hey der! was just blog hopping and came across urs....like ur previous posts as well... der's a reason why fairytales exist :P waiting for d next post where u go out wid sum1 again :D cheers!

Anonymous said...

See you were the one till he meets the next one.


Anyways get over it, samay se pehle aur bhagya se addhik ...

Anonymous said...

Nothing beautiful lasts too long in my life. But I'm glad I had a week of sweet romance...a week of dreams coming true...a week long fairy-tale in my life-long misery. Too short? It's ok...cos the longest bonds I have had haven't made me this happy either.

Keshigirl the visionary for you! :-)

But yes, very strong words there. Nice to see your effort to see the good side of things.... Best wishes Keshi!

fergal said...

hi keshi - well that is kind of a bummer, but glad u r not too distraught, and gald u had a great week! ;-D

~

Jeevan said...

Really its so sweet till the clock strikes 12!!

Hugssss Dear:)

Cazzie!!! said...

Ok, so just go out and dance with your nice friends and enjoy, be you and you will find new friends too :) Oh, I'm a poet and I didn't know it, LOL

Anonymous said...

Keshi,

(((HUGZ)))

Life is full of uncertainties. Be glad tat u found out the whole real truth before sinking into a horrible relationship. Be happy tat u have ended bad things fast so tat the pain wont be too unbearable for u :)

Dun rush things... Ur chance to meet ur prince will come one day. :)

At least u've cheated abit of his $$$ & time HaHa... Made him pay for the dinner & date. Treat it as though he has already been taught a nice lesson, though not expensive enough to make him heart-broken, but good enough to probably let him wake up & let u have a bit of revenge??

Cheer Up!!

Muackz! Dun be sad. We're always here for you.

Thumbelina

Anonymous said...

I love Phantom of the Opera!

I can sing some of the songs too!!

Angel of Music...

Past the Point of No Return...

Think of me...

All i ask of You...

Music of the Night...

Too bad tat i have haven't got the chance to really see the Opera yet... :(

Thumbelina

Helen said...

Just think of this past week as an extended train-guy fantasy...The guy worried me when he chattered all over the place last weekend, and hinted at a "relationship." The only woman a guy knows is his "one" in a matter of moments is his mama, otherwise it takes quite a while to tell his rational mind something that powerful. Wheew! at least you didn't waste any more time, and you have a great week long fantasy!!! No worries, no melancholia. Was it Heart that sang "...before I put another notch in my lipstick case..." You're way too intense and intelligent for the chattery, capricious types (didn't you like him initially b/c he seemed aloof, strong, and silent?) Hold out baby for the real Mr. Darcy...

Anonymous said...

Atleast u Njoyed some good moments...

Though I did'nt expected it to happen so soon. [ I mean the speed with which things were happening as u described and now....]


anyways take care,
much luv,
Aiz.

Anonymous said...

Keshiiii!!!!
What happened?! WOW!! That was quick.He had conditions!!Isn't that typical!! Oh well!At least you are coping like mature woman.I am glad for that.Move on Keshi and keep smiling!:))Love you, hugs!!

Anonymous said...

Oh... Its ok sweetie... we're all here for u.. =)

Anonymous said...

Always remember everything happens
for good...Hugs for you sweetheart.

Stay Beautiful...!!

Sugababee said...

*sits next to you* :)
Damn that Darcy! Its always em hot ones eh... that come with those strings... ufff
Newhoo... good time tho wasnt it.. *sighs*
tom. is a new day... Maybe another hottie? ;) hehe
*hugs*

Outdoorsy Girl said...

Keshi, I am so proud of your good attitude. You are cherishing the moments you should, but not dwelling on the disappointment that all too often follows a romantic encounter. You deserve the real, happily ever after ending to the Cinderella story. And it will happen.

I am very disappointed in Mr. Darcy. If it helps you feel better, know that you are not alone with these kinds of letdowns. Girl, I could write you a book of the letdowns with men in my life. (And that is just a year's worth.)lol.

Keep smiling. Keep believing. A true Cinderella like you will find her true Price Charming. :)

Outdoorsy Girl said...

Oh and I love Toni Braxton. She's from my neck of the woods. :)

Anonymous said...

hey Keshi, stumbled into your post during my blog-hop .. Nice name, Keshi.

Well, heart breaks are bad - but then, its only a week's memories .. sooner the better .. and tall- brown girls dont stay unattended too long, trust me and good luck. Btw, despite the darcey fiasco, I like the fairy-tale touch of your write-up; will return.

Anthony Arojojoye said...

Why fore heaven's sake would you term your life miserable? If you say it is miserable, then it won't fall short of it!
Now gimme his number so I can talk sense into his head about his outrageous conditions. How dare he chase you off with conditions? Don't worry, Mr. Right is right around the corner.

Anonymous said...

Keep up the good work dear Keshi!!

ann said...

((((Keshi))))

I'm sorry...

s0ul said...

awww baby, that breaks my heart.. i wanted it to work out for u.. but i guess that means that somethng a ton better is on its way.. or even if not , you have ME.. yay to that.. hahaha.. am just kidding.. i pray for loads of love and luck in your life.. as for ur saying that nothing beautiful has ever lasted in your life, is coz something dazzling is around the corner, thts wht i say to myself everytime shit happens and trst me hney it does all the time..
so just hang in there.. coz im sure its deftly going to be worth the wait..
*hugs*

saby said...

heyyyy cinderella
dont be sad


dreams do come true
but not necessarily the first dream

-Saby Paolo Coelho

saby said...

u have to go through a lotta Mr Rongs b4 u find Mr right

Anonymous said...

HUGZZZ :)

tc.

saby said...

but i tink dat perhaps Mr Darcy is not asking too much


u are probably a feminist trying to have your way

u remind me of some one
she is a feminist too
and a marriage counsellor
a social worker

she married
but the marriage didnt last 6 months

u no who TT

saby said...

i love outdoorsy girl
not just her a tit tude

Anonymous said...

i gott brains, and love...
beauty , u gott

lets make some children Awaiting

saby said...

brown turns me on

Aidan said...

*HUGE hug*

Hoping that you are alright, love hurts, but you will find someone, probably some gorgeous beach boy, with a degree in astro physics. Ive seen your photo, and i am suprised there isnt a queue:)

take care out there

Aidan

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

ehh???


We wanna know about 'em conditions!!

Don't temme he asked for sex!!!

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Don't be upset though ... just take it as an experience ... try forgettin the bitter part and cherish the sweet time you had with him k .... people come and go ... you'll soon have someone who stops :)

Cheer up babe! Muuuahh.

Anonymous said...

Keshi: That sweetnejoyed will be cherished forever and take the good things and leave the rest. A bird rests only when it has to feed other birds/ sick/wounded come into a new territory with miles of flying. Thaz what lif to many people. The bird can take all those fresh air from different regions, but it keeps flying as long as it can and chase the wind.

mommyof2 said...

Things happen for a reason. If he is meant to be for you, things will work out for you guys & he will come back otherwise wait for someone better than him:-)

azuka said...

Aww. I really thought he would be the one...

Blessed said...

I am sorry Miss Keshi.
I was hoping that something magical was happening.
And so I wait, as you do too, for that next magical happening that
may lead to
"...and they lived happily ever after..."
not that I believe in fairy tales, becuz I don't but I want to believe in them.
My prince that is in my life, is not always a prince. And me, as cinderella is not always that fair maiden needing to be rescued. Sometimes we both play the villian.
Love ain't easy. Love isn't a fairy tale but it does have it's fleeting fairy tale moments.

I look forward to you being swept off your feet.
I still know you are a catch and
that he wasn't the right
'fisherman' to reel you in.

Hugs my dear. You are beautiful and wonderful.

niki yokota said...

keshichan
i dont know wat to say.. :(
a beautiful friendship will last forever!
watever happened, pls dont think that is the end.

Parag said...

"Nothing beautiful lasts too long in my life" - You can do better than that.. Life is vast and maybe what happened happened for he good..maybe someone better waits in the shadows for you..

Shionge said...

Dear Keshi,

Whatever that don't break you will only make you stronger and I trust that you are a Better & Stronger Woman!

We are all here for you and you know that. Stay positive always!

Luv & Hugssssss!
Shionge

Anonymous said...

Life is a Challenge – Meet it.
Life is a Gift – Accept it.
Life is an Adventure – Dare it.
Life is Sorrow – Overcome it.
Life is a Tragedy – Face it.
Life is a Duty – Perform it.
Life is a Game – Play it.
Life is a Mystery – Unfold it.
Life is a Song – Sing it.
Life is a Opportunity – Take it.
Life is a Journey – Complete it.
Life is a Promise – Fulfill it.
Life is Love – Embrace it.
Life is Beauty – Praise it.
Life is a Spirit – Realize it.
Life is a Struggle – Fight it.
Life is a Puzzle – Solve it.
Life is a Goal – Achieve it.


... hugss u Kesh!! ur such a good person so dun worry GOD has something better for u... thats for sure so just hold on! and i love you muaahhh!! go for a walk and listen to some good music and have a deep breath.... and say I'M OK!! and Life is beautiful, i have to make the most of it... ok?? muaahhh!^_^

oops yeah babe , i got ur email last week, didnt u get my reply e-card for u?? awwwww thats why u didnt tell anything about it na?? sobbss was waiting for reply too... neway, thanx! and i know u sweetie, i understand u and we have that bond that connects us ... and promise ill always be around, no matter what!

enjoy weekend!

luv ya! ^_~

Anonymous said...

my ..my..keshi ;)

Anonymous said...

Hey Keshi!
Oh sad man... I am so sad for you. I was so happy that it was working out very well.. Cant anything be done to fix it??
Its ok, cheer up.. your prince is yet to come...
Huggggzzzzzz... cheer up...

Jewel Rays said...

Hi keshi..

*hugs*

Nothing beautiful lasts too long in my life.

Thats how i feel many times Keshi. And after my last week where cupid shot his arrows wrongly..it kinda left me wondering where are the beautiful starlights taht i see all around. Why not my way this time??

But Keshi better now than never. the thing i admire about you is the risk that you took.the step that you took to see how things will work out. and even if he doesn't we at least have the faith that there is always a better one.

I hope that helps..

jsut one more thing before i shut my mouth.

u know that statement tat beautiful thing don't last for a long time. I feel that way many times but choose not to believe that it would come true in my life. And that helps many times..

HUGS..

Jewel Rays said...

I posted a comment i hope it went through..

Cheers!!

Anonymous said...

Oh.. Keshi.. I`m so happy for you.. that you didn`t really get stuck up with Mr.Condition..! Though he seems nice to me.. Well.. there`s always the perfect man to wait for... Wish you all the best.

Anonymous said...

aww..what happened?
All of a sudden? Damn! Finally I thot keshi met her prince!:-(

musings (m000nie) said...

one word for this whole episode...

CHERISH

hugsss.. love u

Anonymous said...

you had a great time! thats wonderful! dont waste another second thinking of it keshi.
im sooo happy to see your attitude..im coming over, lets break the day and paint the town red :))

Die Muräne said...

"Guys don't ask what happened"

What happened?

musings (m000nie) said...

u know what?.. i have been reading peoples comments n most of them say 'the right man will come along'.. i dont think theres anyone like 'the right man'.. there r different people.. some people attract u.. some dont.. n out of those who u r attracted to u have to make the most to find the 'appropriate' one.. coz everyone has things in them u mite not want.. no ones perfect.. n hes not going to fall down from heaven for any of us...

so make the most of what u have now.. n b happy.. hugsss

Anonymous said...

"Psychology, it seems, always has its reverse side. And the irony of it all is realising that no matter what you do or say... or even write... you're probably never going to be 100 per cent unarguably correct."

Well, now that that's out of the way, let's get on with the ruthless assault of round 2. The reason why I say this is in my last article, I went on a war path on how certain men dominate the women in their lives simply because they are men, and they think that doing so is their right. But there is always that flip side. So here's what it is all about.

A relationship is a bond that strengthens the trust you have in someone. And there are people who swear by this bond, not because they believe in it completely but because they believe it'll save them whenever they fall into an abyss. Finally, when that edge comes, it's the loved one whom they've trusted all along who pushes them in.

Now this situation has happened to a lot of women, and there are those who have lost faith in men altogether. But this isn't about women who've been hurt. It's for those who have hurt some men so badly that they become indifferent, devoid of any emotion. Why is it that women think they're always justified and that whatever a man says is wrong? I'm sure even as they're reading this, some women will be justifying themselves and throwing the paper aside, dismissing all that I've written as rubbish. But it's true. Some women always have to be right when it comes to the battle of wits with men.

Flimsy reason


And second, why is it that some women crib about never finding the right man who treats them as equal, and, finally when they do, treat them like dirt? There are women out there who have found such men and have even married them only to leave them, taking everything, including the kids, with them, citing some reason of unhappiness. And because they are women, society will almost always take their side. And to all those who have had a perfect boyfriend but walked out on him saying there will be other options in life, without even thinking once about the devastation they cause, I say, you will find a man in the end who thinks just the way you do.

And finally, to all the men who are genuine, all I have to say is "There are no wrong women, only wrong choices."

Send in your queries to craigscall@yahoo.co.in



source : Metro plus.


-forwARDED BY KNOWN STRANGER

saby said...

is Margie les?

Anonymous said...

"Nothing beautiful lasts too long in my life."

i guess thats how life is!!

i feel sad for you..and wish you really find your love...with unconditional love! :)

take care!

Anonymous said...

thats why cinderella's story is called a Fairy Tale ;) ... life can get more cruel than that

** a week long fairy-tale in my life-long misery

fairy-tales would be a drab if it lasted too long ... without miseries gud times wudn't be sweet u know ;)

strange isn't it ... when someone is in love the person finds life to be sooo beautiful with ocassional miseries and vice versa :)) ... human mind is so fickle

** cos the longest bonds I have had haven't made me this happy either

in the short term maybe ... but such long bonds are the ones that you look back and smile and wish it didn't end so ... at least a thought ... u'd proly forget these short incidents someday, for they hardly had an influence on ya :)

spurts of happiness is gud nutty ... but we don't live for spurts do we? ... one doesn't need to be happy all through life ... but one should be able to put a smile looking back at the past, at out last breath ... that smirk of happiness is all that you have to carry :)

therz plenty of time for ya to find yar hunk ... ur still young nah ;) ... go party as always n they'll come to pluck you :D

Anonymous said...

Aww Kesh.. I'm sad things didn't work out your way :(

But on the brighter side, there's a lot more to look forward to... unless you are 30 something, which I'm sure you ain't.

It's all a learning experience. Keep going your way girlie, it may be hard, but it ain't sure impossible.

Brood Mode said...

It was good while it lasted. Now just move on with a smile...

This will also pass

Anonymous said...

hey i know i dont have to say that u should forget all that happened..and take things in good stride..

u are understanding and cheerful enough!!

So start a new day and a new life..cheeiro..

samuru999 said...

A lot of people here for you Keshi!
We are on your side!

I had my hubby come here to read Saby's comment...
is Margie les?
He kinda cracked up!!!!
Me too...had my laugh for the day!

Well, we are going out to dinner...
Take good care!
Here a BIG HUG all the way from Colorado.
Hope your day will be a good one!

Margie

Anonymous said...

Hi Keshi!
True Love will come to you!
Don't regret.
You will meet the right guy at the right time.
Peace, Love and Wisdom!

SaffronSaris said...

Oh dear. There'll be a better one ahead.
Hugzzzz!!!!

saby said...

Keshi




remember wat i told u a long while back?
better to be an old man's darling then a young man's slave

Anonymous said...

u can date Darcy
but marry Ori

the Nigerian is crazy for u
and u r not so crazy for him

Ori is the ideal marriage mate

Anonymous said...

Margie
u didnt answer the question

Anonymous said...

Shut the fuck up Awaiting
u quack


no man will marry a woman with more brains than him

more a tit ude is wat he wants

- SEX COUNSELLOR

Arz000n said...

Awww man :(
I was waiting for...

Anyway...dont worry k000kie masta, you have a golden heart...you gonna meet someone really beautiful, who is going to keep you smiling forever :))

Hugzz and you take care gal.

saby said...

les or not, Margie i have known keshi longer than u



I knew Keshi before she was a virgin

Keshi said...

ty WW huggggggz!

me ok mate :)

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Silvara he isnt a keeper I know :)but he's an honest and straight-to-da-point kinda guy...that I liked abt him.

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ty Terry MWAHHHHH!


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WB Ian!

aww nice analysis on the Frog Prince...d u know that that was my fav fairy-tale when I was in Kindy? :)


**Just know, that someday, some time, someone will be there for you, right there waiting at the end of he road with comforting arms

I try to think that way all the time...but sometimes it becomes all too much to believe...to have hope for. I mean how can I continue to be hopeful when the men I meet r so disappointing. I dun wanna kid myself this way for too long. It's just pathetic u know hehe.

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tnxxx Bev HUGGGGGGGGZ! awww duncha cry for me...ur so sweet hehe. Im ok dear...just getting out of da Love dose I got last week LOL!

I went out yday...he kept txting me tho...and we had ahuge argument cos he's bakking off cos of his conservative family and thats slack...dun u think so? Then I felt sorry for him. I said ok lets just be friends and I wished him good luck.


**Theodore Tugboat Dies

I heard abt it. Im truly sad too. HUGGGGGGZ! Wut a weekend ha? :)


Keshi.

saby said...

wat the fuck is rong with AWAITING!





she changes her template more often than my gf changes her undies

Keshi said...

Sharda yes...but he wasnt a bad guy...he was truly a genuine and honset dude. His dad and sis wanted him to stop seeing me cos they thought this isnt gonna work. We r the same age and they want a much younger partner for him...it's the slackest thing I have ever heard but unfortunately that's the way Desi mentality works.

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ty Vince HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!


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hey Iceman/Kautilya HUGGGGGGGZ n WB! I came to ur prev blog a couple of times and missed ya...cos it didnt exist :( But Im glad u created a new blog. ty for everything, I appreciate ur support.


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Tragedy Queen, that I am Dawn :):) ty babez HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!


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Margie with u and all these lovely blog-mates ard me, I have no reason to be sad. Im blessed with true love over here :) HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

Im OK...ty for being by my side Angel!

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Michi I like to believe that week as my lil treat...a break from my o.w. hectic life. Mebbe the man upstairs thought his high-time Keshi gets a lil treat and sent Mr.Darcy for me :) SO yeah, Im ok dear, ty n hugggggggggz!




Keshi.


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Keshi said...

Sunil ty!


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yep Jay tnxxx!


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My_Life ty sweetie!

** there is always a better guy out there...

not sure abt that but Im happy wit my life as it is rite now..hehe ty!

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Anil WC n ty!


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Akshay tnxxx so much1

**I think you are meant for better things and may be this wasnt the best for you

I dunno abt that..but lets wait n c :)


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Vipul tnxx mate HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!


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Big hugs right bakk at ya Ghee!

Well Im taking this as a stepping stone towards more strength.

ty babez!

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Awaiting hey MWAHHHH!

**you shall make him king...

hehe lets see if he doesnt fail to see that next time :)

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Vikas ty so much!

Im not sure if my Prince will come n sweep me off my feet...rite now I dun wanna believe in that. It may be cos of the rotten things that happened in the wknd. I shud be ok in few weeks time tho :)

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G'day Ashley!


**I love that you are such a romantic,

strange how Mr.Darcy said the exact same thing to me last week :)


ty babez, I'll keep that in mind.

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Saby I wasnt being a feminist...he and I r the same age...he didn't mind that at all. But his very 'Indian' family saw it as an issue. His dad and sis wanted him to find a much younger partner. And he cudnt say NO to them.


So u see...dun always judge me Saby! It's the Desi mentality...some dont change evn if they live in Aus.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Sujit, ur right.


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its ok Shitrint :) ty n huggggggggggggz!


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awww ty Desperado HUGGGGGGGGZ! U have always been my Prince Grunging n Charming ;-)


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Ganesh heyy ty!


**There is no best solution, you have to find the optimum solution according to the situation.


Spot on! But unfortunately not all men think like that.


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ty Sunrise!

**Love will find a way,
Jaaniye, heeriya...


awww such a lovely quote. tnxxx!

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Hello Phos!


**The guy didn't deserve somone as nice as you anyway...


aww so sweet of ya to say that...but mebbe Im not the one for him. He and I r the same age...and his 'Indian' family didnt like that. They wanted a much younger partner for him.

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heyy WC Freemorpheme!

And ty :)

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Tarun heyy!

**See you were the one till he meets the next one.

yeah u were right. but he didn't wanna let me go...his family wanted him to. Cos we r the same age! Typical desi thinking.


**Anyways get over it, samay se pehle aur bhagya se addhik ...


wuts that? :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Sreejth!

:)

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ty Fergal!

Fair Dinkum mate Im ok ;-)

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ty Jeevan!


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LOL Caz!

ty n hugggggggggggz!


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Thumbelina hey ty!

**At least u've cheated abit of his $$$ & time

hehe not really. He paid for the movie and we shared the dinner expenses :)

I love the Phantom too!

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Helen Hugggggggggz! Im so happy for u..that was some great news in my rather rotten weekend.


**extended train-guy fantasy.

hehe interesting view there. Isnt is strange that I met a train guy recenlty and then I meet Mr.Darcy. Some kind of msg ha!


** You're way too intense and intelligent for the chattery, capricious types (didn't you like him initially b/c he seemed aloof, strong, and silent?) Hold out baby for the real Mr. Darcy...

true...I liked him then but I liked him after meeting him too. Up until he told me that he wanted to break this off cos his family thought he shud see a much younger girl. Cos he and I r the same age. That was the problem, cud u believe that :):)


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Aish yeah it was a speedy roller-coaster ride :)



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ty Asha Hugggggggz!

**He had conditions!!Isn't that typical!!

I'll be honest...he and I r the same age. He had no probs with it at all and he went out with me. But later on when he spoke to his dad and sis abt me (cos he was serious abt me), they stopped him. U know Asha, the typical desi mentatlity of wanting a much younger partner for their son! Im so sick of that attitude. In a way Im glad that I didnt end up with such a shallow family.

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ty Princess huggggggggz!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Suga ty HUGGGGGGGGZ!

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Sugababee HUGGGGGGZ! Loves to sit next to u too sweetie :)

yep..alot of Desi hotties come with so many conditions!


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Mwahhhhh Outdoorsy! I have u guys and Im so thankful for that.


**Girl, I could write you a book of the letdowns with men in my life. (And that is just a year's worth.)lol.

LOL! I can imagine. Most men r disappointing when it comes to serious decisions.

Toni is hot and I love her voice and music.

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WC Rushes_Anomaly!


**.. and tall- brown girls dont stay unattended too long, trust me and good luck.

hehe ty for that...u sure give me hope :):)

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Anthony aww ty matey!

**How dare he chase you off with conditions?

hehe...u know wut the issue was...well he n I r the same age. He didnt mind that at all. But later when he spoke to his dad n sis abt us, they stopped him. Cos they wanted him to find a woman younger than him. How bizzare! I thought Love works w.o. conditions.

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ty Pallavi!


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Its OK Ann :) HUGGGGGGGGZ!



Keshi.

Anonymous said...

Are you SERIOUS??!! Grrr....that kinda attitude REALLY pisses me off...how is someone younger going to be better??? more likely more subservient to their precious son's needs rather than being an independent woman. Screw them then....I CANNOT believe that people with a mentality like that still exist!!! In a so-called modern world, you still have put up with this kind of shit. sorry if I'm ranting Keshi, but a guy who likes you and then backs down because of a ridiculous condition set on him from his family is not a man at all. It's called spineless. If he truly liked you then he would fight for you.

Keshi said...

Mwahhhhhh Purnima!

**is coz something dazzling is around the corner,

ur sure babez? Cos Im so tired of believing in that anymore..I really am.


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Hugggggggz Anuj!


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heyya Aidan ty matey :)


**probably some gorgeous beach boy, with a degree in astro physics

hehe cute @astro_physics! Im heading to the beach this wknd ;-)


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Cheesy hey huggggggz!

no way he didnt ask me for that hehehe. He's really decent.


**We wanna know about 'em conditions!!

well this is what happened. He and I r the same age. He didnt mind that at all, from the beginning. Then he went out with me and he also told me his mum really loved me alot etc. Then on Fri he said he has to mention this to his dad cos he's pretty serious abt me. I said thats fine and that he has to know his dad's thoughts too. So off he goes and talks to his dad and sis. They both had a bit of a problem with me being the same age as he is! U know...the typical Indian kind of thinking. They want a much younger person for him. So he had to go by what they said...so there u go. Wut d u think Cheesy?

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ty Priya that was truly beautiful! HUGGGGGGGGZ!

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yep Mommy ty so much!




Keshi.

Anonymous said...

Darcy be damned
another guy will come along soon


i have fallen in love with a lady 2 years older than me

i plan to marry her if i can

Anonymous said...

hey keshi..

hows ya? hope feeling better .. i reverted to ur mail.. n as i said there he dint use u n throw u .. thats more imp.. rather accepting the fact that he cudnt go ahead with the relationship..

think other way round babes!!

take care
huggggggz
missed u :(

Anonymous said...

hey keshi..

hows ya? hope feeling better .. i reverted to ur mail.. n as i said there he dint use u n throw u .. thats more imp.. rather accepting the fact that he cudnt go ahead with the relationship..

think other way round babes!!

take care
huggggggz
missed u :(

Anonymous said...

we Indians are like dis only
Keshi u have done wat no bharatiya nari will do

your blog is too hott
if Darcy's mom were to get hold of your blog id

u wud be blacklisted even if u were 10 years younger than him

Janice was blogging in secret
for the same reason


Go West Keshi girl
u r not Indian (or Sri Lankan) no more

my niece is marrying a guy from the hindu community
he gott balls

his father (rich man)has disowned him

they plan to live in a one room hall kitchen appartment

no wedding reception
simple court marriage

very few indian guys have the guts to walk out from the nest

Anonymous said...

we Indians are like dis only
Keshi u have done wat no bharatiya nari will do

your blog is too hott
if Darcy's mom were to get hold of your blog id

u wud be blacklisted even if u were 10 years younger than him

Janice was blogging in secret
for the same reason


Go West Keshi girl
u r not Indian (or Sri Lankan) no more

my niece is marrying a guy from the hindu community
he gott balls

his father (rich man)has disowned him

they plan to live in a one room hall kitchen appartment

no wedding reception
simple court marriage

very few indian guys have the guts to walk out from the nest

Keshi said...

Azuka hey ty!

:)

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ty Blessed MWAHHHHH!


**Love ain't easy. Love isn't a fairy tale but it does have it's fleeting fairy tale moments.


so true! Love seems so easy yet it's so hard when it comes to serious decisions. Its so very hard.

I dunno Blessed if I'll find THE one..but Im ok :) ty so much for being there for me dudette HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!


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Niki hey Im ok...ty baby!


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Parage ty!


**..maybe someone better waits in the shadows for you..

Im not sure anymore Parag...cos Im sick of thinking like that and then getting disappointed. Some ppl neva find their soul-mate...mebbe Im one one em. Lets face facts u know...I cud be one of those ppl.

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ty Shionge HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!


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ty for the beautiful poem Kath HUGGGGGGGGZ!

yep Im ok duncha worry :)

aww I didnt receive any e-card...or mebbe it got lost in the crowd and I deleted it accidentally? Im so sorry!

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Kuan? :)



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KK tnxx matey HUGGGGGGGZ!

**Cant anything be done to fix it??


dun want to fix it at all. Mr.Darcy proved to be a man who cant make decisions for himself. So yeah Im ok and Im glad this happened so quickly :)

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Hugggggggggggggz Amy ty!

**Why not my way this time??

yep..I always think that. Why not ha? And to tell u the truth Amy, Im sick of thinking that...cos it never comes my way. Now Im not gonna think that way at all. Cos everyone out there seems to be having it their way except me. As negative as I may sound, I have every reason to!

But tnxx for being by my side babez...u make me feel better and I dunno wut I'd do w.o. u. HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

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Srijith heyy ty!

**`m so happy for you.. that you didn`t really get stuck up with Mr.Condition..!

Im glad too :)


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Anand yeah it all started and ended too fast :)


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m000nie Hugggggggggz n ty!

** out of those who u r attracted to u have to make the most to find the 'appropriate' one

Spot on! I so agree.


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Rose ty MWAHHHHHHH!


**im coming over, lets break the day and paint the town red

aww ur sooo very sweet. Im ready babe..bring it on ;-)


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Murane heyy!

**What happened?

hehe. Ok here's what happened. He and I r the same age. He had no probs with that. But his dad n sis have a prob with that. Cos most Indian families want a much younger bride for their sons. hehe...he's a victim of that mentality too!

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ty Forest HUGGGGGGGGGZ!


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Samy heyy HUGGGGGGGZ n ty!


** u'd proly forget these short incidents someday, for they hardly had an influence on ya

yeah...time will heal my heart for sure :)


I went out yday...and partied with my cousins. Not a pity-party...a real Vodka party ;-)

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ty Johno!


**unless you are 30 something, which I'm sure you ain't.


ok wut if Im 30 something Johno? :) How does that prevent me from finding the right one? D u think like most Indians/Sri Lankans do? Plzzz say u dun!

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Broody ty HUGGGGGGGGGZ!


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ty Matty Im ok :)


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aww HUGGGGGGGGGGZ Margie! I hope ur feeling betta todai.


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Krys ty n hugggggggggggz!


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Saffy ty!

:)
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Saby I dun crave for marriage...if/when it happened, it will.


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z000nie ty HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

How was ur wknd?



Keshi.

Anonymous said...

Keshi.. am really sorry to hear that but u have a cool head and will get over this.. Sometimes its better for this to happen faster than say after some time.. so take +ves out of it and move on.. U had a great week rite.. tht shd bring a smile on ur face..u will find the rite guy soon.. Hugs dear and U havent visited my blog for so long.. I hope u will soon be back to normal self.. cheer up

Sujit said...

hey what happened?? :( you look so dull :(... all we can feel and talk is thorough words :(.. wish we were there :)

Keshi said...

Silvara yeah...he's a spineless in that sense. But at the same time I can u'stand his dilemma. Indian families r so conservative. But wut I cant u'stand is that they have been living in Aus for so long but their attitudes failed to change?? objective and selfish minds hardly change I suppose.

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ty Uttsy HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

I know wut u mean...but I dun admire his very Desi mentality.


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Saby love dun see color/creed/age...




Keshi.

jac said...

You are braver than I thought.

Take care keshi.

Anonymous said...

so u have a choice to move on right!!
its very simple.. dont get bonded with anybody so sooon.. u will suffer... not anyone of us here or people ard ya!!

please take care of urself.. n be carefull :)

Ash said...

Awww....

Big hugs to you Keshi!

Keshi said...

Viv hey Im sorry I have been sooo busy I havent visited many blogs :(

I will b there soon :)

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Sujit me ok..ty for being here for me. Even tho we r far apart, I feel ur love and friendship across the miles HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Jac ty!

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Uttsy hey ty! :) I know Uttsy..Iget attached to ppl too fast...


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Ash HUGGGGGGGGGZ!

Anonymous said...

whatever happens, its always for a reason! and besides, there r no conditions in any kind of relationships!! thats crazy!! no wonder Mr. Darcy is all by himself. He might be having a better relationship with all his conditions than with anyone else!!!

better things r there for you!! hang in there keshi!!

;-))

lee said...

keshi-if that so-called mr darcy is too thick to see what a great girl you are than you are much better off without him. Sending you big squeezy cuddle xx.

Anonymous said...

yeah, shits do happen to nice people like you and me...

Anonymous said...

** I went out yday...and partied with my cousins. Not a pity-party...a real Vodka party ;-)

and got tipsy? he he ;))

Keshi said...

heyyya Deepz ty!

**He might be having a better relationship with all his conditions than with anyone else!!!

LOL thats a good one. Ur spot on!


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G'day Lee!


**if that so-called mr darcy is too thick to see what a great girl you are than you are much better off without him

thought so too :) ty!


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Diva heyy!

**shits do happen to nice people like you and me...

I totally agree!


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hellooo Samy :)


**and got tipsy?

hehe na...I had only one Cruiser LOL!


Keshi.

Anonymous said...

such is life

Anonymous said...

hey keshi

In times like this I go wordless and all I want to do is give you a warm hug..hope it cheers you up a little.

hugz

Keshi said...

I know Raghav tnxx!


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ty Kavya HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!



Keshi.

Anonymous said...

I am with you keshi! No worries. Time alone knows answer for ur search for ur guy!

Awaiting said...

Saby, you old mentally challenged bastard...I still love you.

And yes, we would make beautiful babies together.

As long as they didn't take after you.

Love ya Sabs!

Anonymous said...

awaiting is beautiful.

she does not want me though.

i am an old old man with a penis the size of a chicken.

Stace said...

It happens, unfortunately. Sometimes it's just the wrong time, or the wrong place, or just some piddling little thing... I'm sorry it didn't work :( Hugs!!!

Keshi said...

ty Nirek!

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LOL Awaiting!


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Saby u r disgusting!



Keshi.

Pri said...

guess thts life keshi...
it dosent giv u everythin u want ...n to make matters worse, makes u feel at the exact same time tht its never given u anythin u want :)

guess heartbreaks are a part of life n though they r one of the bitterest feelings tht can be ever experienced , they still help u grow...
hang in thr girl...guess its not time yet ! :) n dont worry, it wont be long before u smile again...
tk care

hugzzz

s0ul said...

//ur sure babez? Cos Im so tired of believing in that anymore..I really am.//

u bet ur sexy ass i am!!! :)

Anonymous said...

Aww..Remember that saying "When one door closes on you, many more open". It could simply mean many more Prince Charmings are waiting in the wings for you! :-)
And who knows, they may turn out to be greater & better than the previous one.

Hugs.

niki yokota said...

duh! thats very funny :D
thank u for calling me baby, keshichan lol

Anonymous said...

awww..keshi. thats just too bad.

he's an idiot if he doesnt realise how special that connection is.

Anonymous said...

huh! wat the!

Ill b back keshi dear!

By the way, have u ever eaten a kangaroo?

J. Andrew Lockhart said...

Real life isn't that bad. :)

Anonymous said...

Man, that sucks. I feel for you because it happened to me so many times. That is but one reason I no longer play that fool game. You're too young to resign yourself to such a fate, though, plus you have far more sunshine in your personality than I do. I know it sounds trite, but don't give up. Hard though it is, maybe try not to get too excited too soon, though.
And if that is dumb advice, reach through the computer and throttle me!

Keshi said...

Pri I agree...life doesnt always give u what u want. ty n huggggggggz!


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heyy Purnima, ok the babeh! ;-)


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hey Julia!

**When one door closes on you, many more open".

I'd like to imagine that..tnxxx sweetie!


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Niki baby bubbzy bubba :)


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heyya Elven!

**he's an idiot if he doesnt realise how special that connection is.

yep...mebbe cos Im not the one for him.



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hi Ghosty! :)

**By the way, have u ever eaten a kangaroo?

Not intentionally. Once I went to friend's place for a BBQ...he's Aussie. And he made some steak and I ate. And the later he tells me that was roo meat :(


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Andrew heyy!

**Real life isn't that bad.

This is my real life Andrew :)




Keshi.

Keshi said...

LOL Meister u make me laugh :):) ty for that and that aint dumb at all! HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!


Keshi.

Anonymous said...

hi Keshi...

Just be strong Keshi and cherish those moments ....i know its very easy to say but this is all part of life.

I totally agree with wryter
"true love never comes with conditions."

If there are conditions in love that relation will never last for long, it's like you will keep pointing each other every time ... Beleive me i have gone thru this and it hurts very badly

Keshi babes is be strong .... :))

You are such an amazing person
HUGGGGGGGGSSSSSS

Nora said...

I love how you posted this Keshi. I'm so sorry it didn't work out. x

Anonymous said...

*HUGS*

I know its not ok, but it's going to be ok. :) Just know that somewhere, there's someone meant for you. It's going to be hard finding him, but when you do, you'll treasure him so much more. :)

Keep smiling!

saby said...

heyyyyyy
i been cloned




i dont want to make babies with u Awaiting,
just wanna try to

curlzspeaks said...

Hugs. Keshi hang in there...

Anonymous said...

Chin up girl! Everything is an experiecne to learn. Your love will be on your way sooner than later.

Hugggggzzzzz!

visithra said...

My darling keshi - a man who needs to subject someone to rules n regulations isnt really worth it - *hugz* take it as passing clouds dear

KJ said...

awww

hugssss


KJ

Aditi said...

Ahh.... Hugs for u.. i seem to be running late this time around...
I am so sorry for what happened.. look at it this way.. its all his loss for loosing out on someone fabulous like u because of a set of conditions.. stupid conditions.. y dont ppl realize that u cannot choose the people u fall for and sometimes its better to let it take its course.. instead of trying to fit things into boxes they dont fit into..
urgh..
but a big hug for u regardless

Anonymous said...

That thing roughlr translates too, u dont get more then u deserve and u get it at the right time.

I am not saying u dont have to look forward too, U must, but place no condition over it and dont hold it too hard that u stifle your own life.

Anonymous said...

Howdy???

Good to know that you are not too upset But then I don't agree with you on "Nothing beautiful lasts too long in my life"....& Don't want you to believe in this...Cuz someday you'll find true love & that will last till eternity !!!

Till then, take care...have fun..enjoy work, hope you had a nice relaxing weekend. We all are here with YOU gurl :)

PrAcHi said...

Awwwwwwwww.. keshi, sweetheart.. Just want to meet you and give a waaaaarm hug.

True love is never with any conditions sweetie. And if he can’t be by your side for such simplest issue (like age you said in the other comments) then what will he do for you in future. I being a hindu convinced my parents for a letting me get married to a Christian boy. (Being an Indian, you can understand how difficult it would have been!) It took me more than a year to do this. I am surprised Mr Darcy is giving up now only. And if he knew that he can’t convince his parents why did he approach to you at first? Well, I will not blame his family. Being Indian parents, they are always going to think that they know better than their children, it’s a bitter truth. They are going to say NO at first. It’s all up to you that how you convince them. If you believe in yourself, such issues are not issues at all!

Anyways I think that you are quite lucky.. the guy might be honest but not strong enough who can stand by you for the lifetime.

Don’t worry.. Just remember every cloud has a silver lining! Destiny has planned for someone much much more better for you dear. You are a star and God wants to give you the bestest person he has. That’s why it’s taking some time.

N yeah.. Nothing beautiful lasts too long in my life Why??? I m beautiful.. n will be there forever in your life :D ;)
Wanna come to my place for some change?? You know you are ALWAYS welcome :)

Anonymous said...

Hi Keshi!
"How Could An Angel Break My Heart"- by Toni Braxton is wonderful. Thanks for sharing!

Neers said...

girl!!!!!!!!! it was good till it lasted, right?? and thats what matters!

Anonymous said...

hmm... still too adult for me :P
but i hear that to have loved(liked) at all is something wonderful..

cheers mayt :)

Anonymous said...

Maybe its better this way, that the "conditions" came out before more time had passed. I guess the conditions are not meant to be public knowledge?

Anonymous said...

BTW don't let this get you down ok? :)

Helen said...

Hey Keshi,

You know...Saby is right. My husband is a generation older than me, and he is so sweet and doting. When I was dating 8 years ago before him, men my age were shallow and immature. Come to the states, I have a pal (a doctor) who is very fun (and indian) and is the only man I would approve for Keshi : ) and he is sans "conditions." Hope this week is better!!

Anonymous said...

Hi Keshi,

Am so sorry it didn't work out. If it's any consolation, every time I think about the guys I cried over it's always with relief that I DID NOT end up with any of them!

With hindsight comes a bit of wisdom but I know how sad it can feel and that's ok.

P.S. I also love Phantom of the Opera. And I first saw it in Sydney! I love where you live.

The Phoenix said...

Sorry Keshi.

Sometimes reality sucks.

Lera said...

Keshi ,all will be fine as long as you make way to let off the steam..wishing you Happy Times ahead with the real prince :)

Sugababee said...

lol I love how u fully specify "Desi" hotties:)
Spot On!!

Not all.. but most;)

Sujit said...

no update?.. still in the illusion?.. wake up!.. sydney sun is shining!.. and keshi is smiling.. hehe

starry nights said...

A big hugggggz to you Keshi.Sometimes life deals us these blows and for no reason, thats what we think but I truly believe that everything happens for a reason. I know you are sad but You are strong and you will come out of it even stronger. You are young and ther eis a whole world of possibilities waiting for you. He did not deserve a nice gal like you.

Keshi said...

WC Poo n ty so much!

Ur thoughts made me feel so very special and loved. HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

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Nora ty! :)


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Geet yep thats true..n tnxx!



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Saby get a life ;-)



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CurlzSpeak ty babez!



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Contented ty HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!



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Visithra hugggggggz!

**man who needs to subject someone to rules n regulations isnt really worth it

well-said.


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Huggggggggz KJ!

how have u been girly?


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Aditi hey I cant get to ur blog :( Its been like that for weeks.


** instead of trying to fit things into boxes they dont fit into..
urgh..

so true!


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ty Tarun!

:)

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heyy Ektaran sweetie Im ok, ty...HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!


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Prachi heyyyyy HUGGGGGGGGZ! I waited till u read this post cos I know u were so interested in knowing the progress :) So u see, in the end, he wasnt worth it at all.


**If you believe in yourself, such issues are not issues at all!

So true. I totally agree. I believe that if u truly LOVE someone, u can do anything. LOVE sees no barriers. It is such a poweful emotion...actually the most powerful emotion.

I admire that u stood by ur man. Way to go girl. Ur a very strong woman. But not everyone is like u or me. Alot of ppl these days r selfish and r objective when it comes to settling down. Especially our own Desi ppl.


U r indeed beautiful! HUGGGGGGGGZ! I guess the most beautiful thing in my life is all of u here. I'll be honest. Cos u guys r always here for me, no matter what. It's an amazing r'ship that I have with all of u. It's something that will last forever. I know. ty for being here for me. Wud love to come over to ur place for coffee...how nice it wud be ha? :)

u have a lovely day girly...MWAHHHHHHHHHHHHH n THANK YOU!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Im glad u like the song Krys :)


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Neers ur right..ty n huggggggggz!



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Soj u a baby ha? :):)



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Sanjay as long as I have wonderful friends like u with me, I know Im gonna be OK :) ty n hugggggggggz!


**I guess the conditions are not meant to be public knowledge?


na I already told ppl what happened (in my comment-replies). U know Im too open I cant hide things for too long hehe. What happened was this.

He and I r the same age. He had no probs with that and he still asked me out. And then on Fr he said his mum is ok with us and really likes me etc but that he wanted to talk to his dad...cos he was serious abt me and he wanted to know dad's thoughts too. So I said yeah he should ask him b4 we go any further. And then he tells me his dad and his elder sis didnt like the fact that we r the same age! In typical desi style, they wanted a much younger partner for him. :) I wasnt surpirsed abt their family's decision at all but I was surprised that he too eventually agreed with them. Yeah so thats what happened. Wut say mate? :)


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Helen hugggggggggz sweetie!

so u n ur man have a big age gap? WOW nice. Somehow I always told my mum that I like to end up with an older man hehehe. Yeah I know...younger men r so immature. Men take longer to grow..lol!


**doctor

ooo lala sounds like a cool dude :)

ur so sweet Helen, trying to match me up with ur friends n all..lol so damn cute! ty for being such a wonderful friend to me MWAHHHHH!


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Menchie ty for that..it made me feel much better :) Yeah, most men can be weak when it comes to serious decision-making.


U saw the Phantom in Sydney? WOW!

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Phoenix ur spot on ty!


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Lera hey ty sweetie!



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LOL Suga yeah not all..but many desi men run holding their mummy's pallu.


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aww Sujit ur such a sweet friend...HUGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

Im ok...I'll come bakk with a new post soon :) ty for being u!

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Starry babez hows u? Getting better?

yep everything happens for a reason..I believe in that too. ty n hugggggggggggz! I'll be ok..duncha worry ;-)




Keshi.

Anonymous said...

Keshiiiiii

u must read dis
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LOVE Marriage vs ARRANGED Marriage, a programmers perspective
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go here http://www.funtoosh.com?dj.php?details=CMP~184

Anonymous said...

Keshi

i salute u for making this public
the indian male needs to become Marad

dis behaviour makes me ashamed to be an indian

Gandhiji tried to reform the caste system
but it still prevails

it is belived (and probably true) dat the indian christians were harijans who were converted to christiannity

Dads say to their children
have fun with these babes
but when u marry ...


marry a bharatiya nari

Anonymous said...

u are a christian too Keshi
hehehehe

Anonymous said...

Vest said...
My thoughts on Keshie are; Keshie has a beautiful mind and I'll presume she is physically beautiful too. How about your pic please keshie.

5:02 AM

Anonymous said...

Subject: Why indian men only want to marry indian women

why only indian women?
Whats so great about having an indian wife?

why do u prefere them over a different race?

http://www.my-india.net/forum1/messages/547.shtml




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Keshi said...

Saby when did Vest say that and where? :)

Keshi.

Anonymous said...

on my blog

Anonymous said...

And then he tells me his dad and his elder sis didnt like the fact that we r the same age! In typical desi style, they wanted a much younger partner for him. :)

Can I say fck? Oh well fck 'em! Worst is that he would not stand up to them?
Ack!
I don't get some desis at all!

Keshi said...

saw that Saby ty!

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Sanjay hey :)

**Can I say fck? Oh well fck 'em! Worst is that he would not stand up to them?

hehe yeah...I felt shocked abt that too. I mean I can u'stand his conservative family but the fact that he cudnt stand up for himself put me off totally. And I told him so too. He was really upset and he said he felt like a losa. He is :).


**I don't get some desis at all!

me neither LOL!


its ok mate...I still have all of u lovely friends HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!


Keshi.

tulipspeaks said...

duh! ithelam ore reason nah?? gggrrr

my dad n mom r of same age.. and they r doing perfectly alrite. see..they got a beautiful daughter over here!

much younger means.. r they looking for a schoolgirl?


=ammu=

Keshi said...

yep Ammu...but some ppl r narrow-minded..who cares, he's not worth it at all. Even if he comes bakk someday (I hope not), I wudnt take him bakk. I dun want a spineless guy like him. NO WAYS!

HUGGGGGGGGGZ!
Keshi.

Keshi said...

btw Ammu u r indeed a beautiful gal...so true!

LOL @schoolgirl! Must be na hehehe.


Keshi.

PrAcHi said...

Yes keshi.. I was interested in knowing the progress. But more than that I was actually very happy to see that you were thinking about someone more than your friend. (I always read, lot of guys like you, but you see them as your friend n nothing else). So I was very happy for you to see you falling in the love! Don’t worry dear.. things will be fine.

Me getting engaged soon :D.. N yeah, Waiting for you to come here and have a coffee. My treat ;) :)

Anonymous said...

Hugs to you, Kesh, and like the few comments that I have read stated, I too have great admiration for your attitude. That top comment esp hits the nail on the head. This was a great week, and at some point, someone will come along again that will evoke those same feelings in you, but this time it will be right.
Take good care of you, xo

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Aaaargh ... this is sheer foolishness .... AGE? and u're not even older .. u're same age ... what fuckin crap ... anyway ....

Keshi said...

yes Prachi...ur right...alot of guys ask me out but I never felt the way I did for Mr.Darcy..thats what I chose to go out with him. He seemed like the ideal guy of my dreams...the way he talked, his attitude, his ideas, his interests etc etc. Somethign definitely clicked between us. He said the same. But then it was prolly not meant to be.

Im ok sweetie ty! We want ur engagement pics ok? :) I really wanna see u in that attire Prachi.
HUGGGGGGGGGGZ Im so happy for ya!


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aww tnxxx Autumn! :) He turned out to be a momma's boy...hehe. Well it's ok. Im richer for having the experience.

HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

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Cheesy I have no idea sweetie...I think it's another Desi trait LOL! I mean looking for a bride 8-10yrs younger than him! What r they looking for in a r'ship...age or real compatibility?



Keshi.

yrautca said...

It didnt let me post a comment to your most recent entry but it was very interesting. One of my best friends that I met in Washington DC is from Sri Lanka. He and his entire family were such fun to hang out with - classy, humorous...it was amazing.

Keshi said...

hey Yrautca ty! :) nice to hear that u have Sri Lankan friends.


Keshi.

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

a girl they can mould the way they want ... is what typical Indians look for ... this is the bitter truth ... that is why Indian parents want younger brides for their sons .

Keshi said...

u r spot on Cheesy! That's exactly wut they want. Well as long as they r happy, let em just be. I dun give a damn LOL!

Keshi.

Anonymous said...

Ooops!!
Commented on the first Mr Darcy post without reading this..Sorry!

Keshi said...

hehe Sid thats ok :)

Keshi.