The aim of today's post is to check your eroticism factor...LOL! Ok I can see so many jaws dropping down...:P Well I'm on a mission this time around babehs. I was sort of inspired by something I read recently too, cos it had a quiz about some erotic genre..and according to that quiz I turned out to be a mega erotic babez (was there even a single doubt about that now?). But this post is not to make silly jokes about eroticism but to realise how important eroticism is to sexuality. 'Eroticism' is derived from Greek (Eros the god of love, eros sensual love). According to the Greeks, sensual love means not making love in a boring way like gulping water for thirst, but also involving all your senses into your sexuality - including vision (sight), audition (hearing), gustation (taste), olfaction (smell) and tactition (touch) - yes I did a bit of homework before this post. So yeah wake your senses up and use them well to treat you nice ooo lala! According to the culture I come from (and perhaps many of yours'), talking about eroticism is considered bad and uncultured..actually my mum would think I'm nuts and tell me that no one would marry me now 'cos I just got labelled a 'bad girl' by posting this (keshi is rolling eyes...). Actually the cultures of India, China and Japan features erotic images as part of their art so what's the problem with our people? Even the ancient Indian/Sri Lankan/Chinese kings and queens indulged in eroticism (Kama Sutra etc - my my the number of 'positions' they've tried makes me wonder if they remembered how to walk again!) and the stone sculptures as in the first pic are a great example of it. Not that those ancient kings sang 'thong tha thong thong thong' as they indulged in these acts or that the ancient queens wore g/v/x-strings under their heavy gowns to seduce their royal men hehe, but I think they still knew THE art better than any of us! Being erotic or talking about it is not a sin or a shameful thing. Apparently it's a must-have factor for all of you, that is if you are normal, and remember it's NATURAL. The feelings, the desire and the acts that follow are not a bad thing at all, as long as they don't violate the law or harm you or anyone else. The article I read also stated that "Erotica is from the Greek language Eros ("love"), are works of art, including literature, photography, film, sculpture and painting, that deal substantively with erotically stimulating or arousing descriptions. Erotica is rather a modern word used to describe the portrayal of human sensuality and sexuality with high-art aspirations and involving more of emotions, differentiating such work from commercial pornography. In the arts of pictorial representation eroticism has a long association with human beings and takes precedence over the ancient genres of the Sacred and the Political. Whereas pornography has become a social issue with many in society regarding obscene imagery as the source of moral and criminal decay." So Erotica isn't pornography hence don't confuse one with the other. Chris Frey of Missouri, an expert on sexuality says that the 5 behaviors of a healthy sexuality are Romance, Affection, Intimacy, Sensuality, and Eroticism. uh oh I just realised that, LOL!
Anyways do you agree/disagree with Eroticsm being an important factor of a healthy sexuality or is it something to be ashamed of or a sin, as some people believe it to be? I say it's an important factor of a healthy and exciting sexuality, and there are so many ways/places/games/items/clothing/food etc to imrpove your sex life (like I have one duhh! remember the Nil Sex club - ok alright this is for my future requirements, stop laughing now). To mention few of my desires ahemmm, let me hear your's first then...I know, Im a bad bad girl. Go on guys ;-) spill em out!
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