Tuesday, March 13

A Blue Hello

Guess what guys? Guess who txted me just now after a very long silence (ever since that last day we txted each other and ended it). Just guess guess guess guess? Mr.Darcy, OMG! What do I do now, should I reply and how?


He goes:

'Hey Kesh how r u? Long time no hear. Sorry for da late SMS. Was doing 45hr week days with Uni and it was very hectic. M back to my part-time work. Hows da new place? TC and spk soon. M heading to Uni now.'


Guess what guys...when I received that txt just now my heart felt like it was just being pierced real hard. Don't ask me why! It's really strange, maybe cos I thought that last time we txted each other it was a GOODBYE for life - he hurt me big time.
Now give me some real quick advice. Is this trouble waiting to happen?

Current Music: Bye Bye Bye by NSync

100 Cranium Signets:

Michelle said...

do u still have feelings for him?

Geet said...

yeap!
But then again, all matters of the heart are risky.
Hmmm.
Are you in for another ride sweets?

Shiva said...

Is that Mr.Darcy of Pride and Prejudice? Good for you Keshi.

Congrats:)

Cazzie!!! said...

Wow Keshi, go for it girl, sms him back and ask him out for coffee and chocolate :)

Geet said...

P.s. I love you too!
*hugggs*

Aditi said...

isnt it sad how someone can send an easygoing nonchalant email and it can turn things upside down for us?
well first of all he is making excuses cuz he had to have seen u strut that day... that day.. remember?
he coulda easily hollered then.. if he wanted to stay in touch
the guy is obviously missing u is my thinking.. but it could be belated regret at the way things ended and he might be trying to make amends and genuinely stay in touch.. or it could be just a PC attempt for some ppl wanna say that they never loose friends
which one is it? who knows? yeah i overthink just a little..
u could not reply? or u could send an equally nonchalant reply and be cool.. but if he is going to pierce the heart everytime then is he worth staying in touch with?

The Grunt said...

Well, maybe he has changed his tune, but you need to make sure to keep him on notice until you can verify why he's coming back. You don't want him if he still isn't sure about things.

Neihal said...

:0 :0
he did that!!!!!!!
you dont deserve to be hurt and he does not desrve you Keshi.

But no advice will be good enugh....
you ll have to follow ur heart
Hugs Keshi
:)

Yashita said...

heh...it feels nice, dont it?well, if you still want to associate yourself with him, I'd suggest you text him back...but don't let him know you are excited about him sms'ing you:) keep it short but friednly:)

tell us wat happens:D

Cuckoo said...

Heyyy I would have felt exactly like you !!! But probably wud have replied to him.

He's missing you! Though at that time he could not decide on his own for his own life, he might be feeling about it now.
There is no harm in replying and being in touch.

Aidan said...

Be really careful, he was an emotional time bomb last time... He sounds like he wants more, you dont msg your ex unless very drunk, very lonely, or a combination of the two.

take care out there

Aidan

Mr. J said...

Play it nice and easy. You never know what's in store. Maybe good maybe bad, but worth giving it a try.

Shitrint said...

oh keshi, i dunno wat to say to u abt this. ur a smart, intelligent woman. u know better wat u shud be doing instead of asking for advice. we cud be wrong for all u know, judging and advising u from our past experiences. not that we object helping u out. just wdont anything to be bad for u...

since he has made the first move or made an effort to rebuild the contact, u cud reply with a harmless txt. but u know wat to do if this goes where it is most likely going to hurt u. i know how it feels...ive got my heart pierced a million times this way. u just take care and dont let anyone hurt u, not even a simple text message! ok?

u cud be good enough frends for all u know! u know u cud keep a distance yet be frendly! :)

all the best girl!

Jeevan said...

I don't think like that, why should be think negative. will see what's happening...

alex said...

Keshi,

I believe you know what ought to be done. You know what you want. Go ahead even if it means not sticking what we must have said earlier. Life is all about changing.

musings said...

trouble trouble trouble... but love has its ways... n from my past experiences let me tell u... u cant do a thing about this... u will want to delete his message but u cant... u will want to forget him... but u cant.. u will say u wont talk to him.. but the min he calls u all ur resolutions will go down the drain... sigh!

Pritika Gupta said...

hmm.. so ur old frnd back..now its on u how u treat him..u can give it another chance..but there is risk of getting hurt again or dont respond... n u lose a good frnd again..

Eclipsed Thoughts said...

hmmm, no words on that.... "as u like it"

Alapana said...

Hey Keshi,I have no i dea what happened last time but i think you should listen to your heart,we all can give you our opinions but i would say listen to your heart,you know how much pain you went through when he hurt you,so its upto you to decide if you can handle the best or the worst next time,and if so then go ahead,but do remember,whatever happens,your close friends will always be there with you to share a smile or wipe a tear for you.
Sorry,was unable to comment here for long,been busy relocating:)

der Bergwind said...

bye bye n speak soon?? like wat kinda lingo is that?? well... aint know the matrix of emotional hara kiri, if any, involved between u folks :)) but wassay?? tides gone by n moments laid to rest best left boxed in the Pandora's!! wat the heck.. its a short life n its a long road.. lotza hitch-hikerz ud meet!!

n my id aint changed n it was sumtime bac, 6 months maybe??!! used to jog down to ur space.. then the umbillicus got disconnected :) now?? again return to innocence i wud say...

wen in doubt, toss a coin! cheerz re!

Cuckoo said...

Heyyy Keshi, would you mind doing a tag for me ? I have tagged you.

Check my blog.

Kalpana said...

Just try to be in a casual way. I know it is tough. So, just don't react and see what happens...

Top cat said...

Yes.
tc

Die Muräne said...

As I already wrote: it ain't over till it's over! ;)

Give it a chance, go and see him

Sanjay said...

He returns eh? You can only get as much hurt as you let yourself be.

Sreeharsha said...

Me First... :-)
Well, just be as formal as you can and observe him. If he is truly sorry for what he did, give him a chance.
What say???

~Harsha

krystyna said...

Hi Keshi!
If it is a big and nice surprise to you - just say it to him.
Good luck to you!

KK said...

Send a reply without showing much interest.... and move away from him....

Jay said...

Maybe he has realized what a huge moron he was and what a huge mistake he made.

SamY said...

I guess NUTTY is plain and simply irresistable to Mr.Darcy :D

He doesn't seem to try to score with ya r8 away. As long as its easy on one another, no strings, no expectations I think u can keep things on a friendly note. If you can that is :D. But luks like ur heart ain't in a mood for that ;)

starry nights said...

I really don't know Keshi , but I always believe in giving the person a second chance.Maybe he has a thing for you and regrets what he did.Just go slow and see where it takes you.I would not write Mr Darcy off, hope he has a good reason for the way he behaved.

avanibala said...

keshi,i've read most of ur blogs..like the way u write...never felt like commenting...but this one i did feel i have to say something...i've been thru something similar.so a piece of advice...please ignore that sms....and lets wait and see.few yrs back I broke up with my ex and he called me after a long break.i was stupid and answered ...then the calls became frequent,which led to meetings and before long we were back to where we were when we broke up and when i asked him why he called me and started all this,his answer was "You could have chose not to answer" and that was a blow on my face...so girlie think twice and even thrice before you reply....

RamaG said...

dunno if its appropriate for me to comment bcoz i dont know the issue..but if I were in your position..i'd give him another chance..sometimes people say stuff without giving a thought about what they're saying and then regret later.

-Ram.

Anonymous said...

I would give it a shot. But, if I were you, when I see him I would bring up the topic where it was left. See what caused the change of mind. Leave no stone unturned before going any futher.

Good luck.

Suresh

PRADEEP K. said...

The real quick advice would depend on a real honest answer from you, Keshi. An honest, straightforward answer, if you will:

Do you love this guy?

azuka said...

I was disappointed when the Mr Darcy episode ended. I can see he's been thinking of you too.

So what's Keshi going to do? Text back? Hmmmmmmmmmm

Akshay said...

Hmm.. big trouble waiting to happen.. but isnt he the one who backed out by saying his parents dont approve of you because you are of same age. I think you should just make sure where this is heading before you get into it. If it has no future then why waste your time. If it just friends then depending on how you feel, you could be just friends with him. Oh well good luck with whatever you decide.

Homo Escapeons said...

Drop that call like a bad habit.
You don't have time to waste on a 'fishing' expedition with Mr Casual.
What does he think... that you are waiting at home sitting by the phone hoping that he'll call????

File this under WHATEVER!

Asha said...

DUH!!!!

Sissy boy grew some backbone while mom and sis is away and he will be back to himself once next to them.

Be courteous and don't give him too much attention.Let him do the running around if he wants to.

WRYTER said...

Hi Keshi

Go with your gut feeling on this.

Ask yourself if this guy is worth getting hurt over again.

I know what I would do to this guy.

But, that's me.

TTTTTAAAKKKEE CCAARREE!!!!!!!!

Bev

San Nakji said...

In my opinion anyone who uses 'da' instead of 'the' is trouble. No good can come of this Keshi! Stay away!

DJ said...

nope...does not seem to be trouble...
chill out and be cool...
i know its difficult to speak and hard to fathom...
but take things as they come to u...
:)

Sugarlips said...

There is nothing wrong in listening what is he trying to say may be he wants to apologize but I don't want u to get hurt babes so just be careful :)

Following cricket world cup kiya?

Stay beautiful...!

Suryan said...

hi keshi
if you are faint hearted then dont fall in love.........a friendly advice
Suryan

AnonymousBlogger said...

Up to you Kesh, but I don't see harm in texting him back and seeing what he says.

Stay guarded early on, and see what happens. If he wants to meet up or soemthing, then we can decide the next move then, but let's take things one step at a time for now.

lee said...

keshi - seriously ask youself what you want. First thing -ask him if he's just buggering around or is he texting because he wants to pursue a relationship -if not, say goodbye to him and mean it :).

Keshi said...

Michi no...I dun have a single feeling for him.

Last time he said some really hurtful words like how his family wanted a much 'younger' girl for him and how he seems to agree with em etc. It was painful for me to hear such words from someone who was supposedly head-over-heels in love with me. It was all an act.


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Shiva yeah I refer to him as Mr.Darcy from Pride n Prejudice cos he is quite arrogant.


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Caz na hun...I dun have feelings for him anymore. They r dead.


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Geet MWAHHH!



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Aditi ur sooo right...which one is it? I dunno. And to be honest I really dun care and dun wanna know either. Not that Im bitter abt wut happened...im sooooo glad I didnt end up with someone like him!

And like u said its really not worth it.

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heyya Grunty!


**You don't want him if he still isn't sure about things.

true...to the truth is I dun want him back at all.


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Neihal ur right TY sweetie!



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Hello Yash HUGGGGGGGZ!

**heh...it feels nice, dont it?

nope Yash...Im not excited at all. I felt HURT when I got that txt. He didnt txt me at all straight after that last conversation. He didn't even bother to find out how I am for months. And now he's sending a casual HI? for what?

If u didnt know Yash, he hurt me BIG TIME with his heartless words last time. I didnt put em all here in the blog cos it wont be nice.

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ty Cuckoo!


**He's missing you! Though at that time he could not decide on his own for his own life, he might be feeling about it now.

yeah but its too late for him. I have zilch feelings for him and nothing will change now. And my feelings died not cos he decided to breakup, but cos of the heartless words he used last time. I can never fall in love with someone like him...and last time I told him that too :)

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Aidan heyy hows u?

*Be really careful, he was an emotional time bomb last time

I agree...he was so high up in the air when he first met me and he fell apart in just one week. I dun trust this guy's emotional stability.


**you dont msg your ex unless very drunk, very lonely, or a combination of the two.

:) true. Mebbe he's lonely as hell. Well Im not his cot-rattle.


ty Aidan!

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Johno heyy!


** You never know what's in store.

I know whats in store...the same shit in a different aspect. ppl dun change that easily.




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Shitrint ty sweetie!

I know wut u mean..in the end, it's my decision.

**since he has made the first move or made an effort to rebuild the contact, u cud reply with a harmless txt.

true...thats what I thought too. I dun want anything to do with him anymore but at the same time I dun want him to think Im upset with him...cos Im not upset abt the breakup...but ofcourse Im disgusted with his reasons for it and how he did it.

I'll just txt him a friendly no-nonsense note. And that'll do.

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Jeevan its not being negative...wut d u do if u dun want anything to do with him?


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Alex hey ty!


**Go ahead even if it means not sticking what we must have said earlier. Life is all about changing.

I agree. But it's really not abt sticking to what I must, I just feel I dun wanna do anything with a guy who cant think/decide for himself. It's so not my style.

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m000nie sweetie hows u? Joining Ish's Friends blog anytime soon? I miss u there.


** will want to delete his message but u cant... u will want to forget him... but u cant.. u will say u wont talk to him

yeah but thats if u love the guy...I dun. :)


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Pritika yeah he can be a friend but even that I doubt.


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KAP very wise words there, ty!


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Alapana heyy!

**but i would say listen to your heart,you know how much pain you went through when he hurt you,so its upto you to decide

I agree. I'd do what my heart says.

ty and I'll visit u soon too..I havent been to ur blog in ages.


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Bergwind hey I rem u now. Cool!


** tides gone by n moments laid to rest best left boxed in the Pandora's

true..in my opinion, he's laid to rest for sure :)


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Cuckoo I'll come ard soon tnxx!



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Kalpana ty thats what I thought of doin too.


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Rick I knew u'd say YES. :)


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Murane hey it's sooo over from my side. He can go take a shower LOL!


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elloo Sanjay I missed u!

**You can only get as much hurt as you let yourself be

So true!


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Harsha heyy!

**If he is truly sorry for what he did, give him a chance.
What say???

no ways. I dun give 2nd chances to guys who dunno how to decide for themselves and how to talk to a woman. Cos they dun change easily.

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Krys heyy yeah i'd just say Hi to him.


**If it is a big and nice surprise to you

its a surprise but not a nice one girl.


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KK I did just that TY!


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Jay hey yeah and it's too late now.


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Samy u read my heart pretty well there :)


**As long as its easy on one another, no strings, no expectations I think u can keep things on a friendly note.

nah no friendship either. I'll soon tell u why. Then u can decide how much of a loser he is.

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Starry hey HUGGGGGGGGZ!

I believe in giving 2nd chances too. But not with him. I'll tell u why. In my next post. Cos u wudnt believe what he said to me.


**I would not write Mr Darcy off, hope he has a good reason for the way he behaved.

I have written him off like ages ago LOL!



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WC Avanibala n ty!


**You could have chose not to answer"

OMG that must have hit u real hard ha? How dare he does that to u. I'd have slapped him then n there n walked away. What did u do?


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RamaG ty!

**sometimes people say stuff without giving a thought about what they're saying and then regret later.

Not what he said. U'll know soon.


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Suresh WC n ty!


**But, if I were you, when I see him I would bring up the topic where it was left.

There's no 'seeing' him again Suresh. He screwed it up big time and na Im not so generous with 2nd chances, especially to ppl like him.


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Praddy heyy!

**Do you love this guy?

u want a very honest ans right.
NO x 1000000000000000.

:)

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Hi Azuka!


**So what's Keshi going to do? Text back?

I did...a simple ty and how ur doin. Thats all.

but thats it..no more from me. I have closed that chapter off my life.

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Ur right Akshay. He's not a man...just a lil boy stuck in a man's body hehe. And I dun 'date' such dudes. ;-)


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G'day HE!

**Drop that call like a bad habit.

LOL I like that one.

He must be thinking Im dateless n desperate and devastated :):)


**File this under WHATEVER!

haha COOL HE I will just do that!

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LOL Asha good one. Yeah seems like he's grown his brains a lil...must be Uni.


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Bev if I really cud I'd take him to a Bio lab, dig a hole in his brain and pour some Cranium in. Now dun get mne wrong, I wont date him ever again even if that fixes him up. And if that doesnt fix him then I'd bottle him for future experiments.

now wut wud u do babez?

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hiyya San_Nakji!


**In my opinion anyone who uses 'da' instead of 'the' is trouble.

really? why d u think so?


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DJ tnxxx!

Chillin out here big time ;-)


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Suga nah hun Im not following WC Cricket...I have loads on my plate this time ard...got lots of family issues to solve too. So no time.

Abt Mr.Darcy...to hell with him.

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Suryan hi!

**if you are faint hearted then dont fall in love.........a friendly advice

na I aint faint-hearted for Love...just that some guys make me wanna faint in sheer disgust LOL!


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AB I'll do just that tnxx!


**If he wants to meet up or soemthing, then we can decide the next move then,

ah ah there's NO meeting up again. Not in this life.




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Lee tnxx!

**ask him if he's just buggering around or is he texting because he wants to pursue a relationship

either way Im not gonna have anything to do with him ever again Lee.


Keshi.

Anonymous said...

He loves u IDIOT !
go with the flow

Anonymous said...

either way Im not gonna have anything to do with him ever again

WAT SHIT !
Never say Never Again

Anonymous said...

if i was a bachelor
i wud run 10 miles from a girl who was looking for a husband

Why do u look for marriage in any and all relationships?

I love u Keshi
but i dont want to marry me

Can u not love me in return?
same goes for Darcy

if he wants to marry u
he will

inspite of parents opposition


Marriages are made in heaven Keshi
not by Keshi or Darcy

Anonymous said...

if u put all your love on one man/woman
u will be crushed if he/she dont love u as much

its far better to love more than one
dont put all your eggs into one basket

even after marriage dont stop loving your lovers of yester year

notimg is permanent in life
not marriage too

i speak from experience
even now i love another woman

but i havent broken contact with the other women who i love

TASHA gave me a kick in the butt
it hurt me for a lil while

but I am OK now
i can live widout TASHA's love

coz i gott a lot more women who i love
and who love me

u figure in the list too

Anonymous said...

an engineer from IIT Bombay fell madly in love with a THAI girl and married her in spite of parents opposition

They had 2 kids
One sad day the girl and kids died in a plane crash

the guy was shattered
he withdrew fron life
started living on the pavements


until a reporter from TOI found him
and published his story

IIT education is heavily subsidized by the Govt of India

which means monies dat cud have been utilized for poverty alleviation were set aisde to educate him

He cant do dis
its a crime
he has to pay back to the nation


MORAL: Never fall madly in love with one

southpaw said...

Suspecting it as trouble is a TROUBLE....whats wrong in reading a text and sms back at ur own convenience...

tkkerouac said...

IS HE A BOYFRIEND WHO BROKE YOUR HEART, FIRST TIME SHAME ON HIM, SECOND TIME, SHAME ON YOU, THINK ABOUT THAT.

Keshi said...

Saby heyy!

**He loves u IDIOT !
go with the flow

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Love? thats the biggest joke. the joke of the century.

tnxx anyways.


Keshi.

Thumbelina said...

Hey Keshi,

Nice to see ur post abt Mr Darcy again.. :)

Hmm.. he smsed u like tat...

If i were u, i would ignore him... Treat the sms as i didn't receive at all.. Cos i wouldn't wanna be hurt again..

Once bitten, twice shy..

But thinking on it with another point of view, could it be tat he has "woken up" and realised his mistakes?

Maybe he was feeling kinda bored so he texted u? Maybe he was really sincerely thinking abt u when he texted u? Maybe he just wants a second chance?

Well, there are lots of maybes in the world..

But wat actually is the real answer... Hmm... Nobody knows the answer... (Not even Smarties.. HaHa..) I guess the only person who knows would be himself & God..

There are a few options available for u at the moment...

1. Ignore it..

2. Just treat him as a casual fren & reply him tat u'll of cos take care of urself cos nobody would take care of u like u do..

3. Take the opportunity and try out again.. (U wouldnt wanna regret without giving each other a second chance rite..?) Perhaps, u both might end up as great frenz?

Watever it is, do as per wat ur heart wants u to do..

Take Care!

Thumbelina

Keshi said...

Saby hi again,

**if u put all your love on one man/woman
u will be crushed if he/she dont love u as much

u want me to be a reckless polygamist then? duhh!


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Southy nuttin wrong...I just took my time to txt him bak n it was a very casual one this time :)

tnxx!

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TK yes..


** FIRST TIME SHAME ON HIM, SECOND TIME, SHAME ON YOU

Good one there! ty.




Keshi.

Anonymous said...

for once i am with SOUTHY

Keshi said...

Saby ok but that doesnt mean I have to agree with ya.


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Thumbee ty sweetie!

Maybe he has woken up but Spring is gone now.


** Perhaps, u both might end up as great frenz?

never. I'll tell u why soon. Then u decide why Im so stringent on that.

Huggggggggggz TC!




Keshi.

Mumbai Guy said...

Keshi, Let me tell you again. You like this guy no matter what you tell everyone. Just go get him. Quick.

priya said...

He couldn't take his eyes off ya huh. Good for ya:)

Drama Div@ said...

just play hard to get in order to know what's going to happen next...

i know it is hard to forgive. and it is even harder to forget.... been in that situation before...

Menchie said...

I wouldn't respond to the message. Let him figure out why. He does not deserve you.

Anonymous said...

i dont understand why indian women dont go in for necking ang and petting b4 marriage without any conditions

b4 u marry someone u must find out if there is sexual chemistry btw u two

or u might marry a guy who is impotent/ gay

Anonymous said...

good sex makes for good marriages
dats where my marraige failed


she didnt let me sample the goodies b4 marriage

Anonymous said...

she hasnt even kissed me in 26 years

her mom told her dat french kissing can give u germs

she has a lotta other hang ups in the sexual department

CAVEAT EMPTOR
like a fool i married her before acceptance testing

Jewel Rays said...

Ok this sucks..It can really be a playground for our emotions sometimes.

hmm..my thoughts or advice would be.

You could just reply casually or just decide once and for all to ignore him. I wonder whats on his mind. If he is gonna mess with ya emotions once again and take u for granted. than really ..ask him what is his purpose of smsing you since he made it clear the last time that his family has a certain requirements..*ROLL EYES*

I have been there where a so call ex date of mine messaged me repeatedly even though we know in both minds that there is no way we can be one even if we want. And it was really an emptional playground for me. I did what i had to. I dumped him even though its hard. I did it slowly and not harshly. He read me. And It saved both him and me. And honestly, i am so glad i did it now thinking back. Just giving u a little peek on what i went through. It may not be the same..:)

I think the main thing is knowing what is really on his mind and purpose to suddenly pop up . And its kinda clear that the 48hrs in whateva uni seems like a so call guilty excuse...I may be wrong..

I hope i helped ya sweetheart..

Felt a little pricky in my heart as well..


Love ya and thanks for the compliments Keshi!! *hugs*

Anonymous said...

i havent as yet got a MONICA

The Phosgene Kid said...

Txt him back - "bite me"! You can cut and paste that into your message if you like.

Keshi said...

MG heyy!

**You like this guy no matter what you tell everyone. Just go get him. Quick.

OMG ur so wrong there MG! nah I DONT like him at all. What makes u think so?? And if I do like him why should I hide it from anyone here? cos u guys have always been with me thru it all.


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hehe Priya...mebbe he cudnt take his mind off the dorky decision he made that day.


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Diva ty!


**just play hard to get in order to know what's going to happen next...

na girly...Im not even going to try cos I really have zilch feelings for him. So i must really try hard to run LOL!


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Menchie ty!

**I wouldn't respond to the message.

yeah thats what I wanted to do too. But then later on I thought that if I kept silent he'd think Im so not over him, which is not true.

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Saby why r ya talking abt marriage now?


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hey Amy cutie HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!


**the last time that his family has a certain requirements..*ROLL EYES*

LOL!


**I did it slowly and not harshly.

well ur too kind girl, thats why. Its a very sticky situation isnt it.


that Uni excuse was lame, I know.


**I think the main thing is knowing what is really on his mind and purpose to suddenly pop up

yep but I dun even wanna know Amy. I just dun want that guy...o no not me!



Keshi.

Margie said...

Hey Keshi
looks like you have got lots of advice here...I have not read what anyone else has said....no time for that with jake waiting for me to play with him. LOL!
That puppy is taking up all my time, but I love it!

My advice is to forget him.
You are over him anyway, aren't you!

Well, back to my litle jake...it's just going to be me and Jake for 4 days....my hubby and son are going to New Mexico for a baseball tournament...
Lots of room here....wish you could pop on over and visit me and Jake.

Oh, we are a lot alike about our hearts being caged...I just read your comment to my poem...
but now we are both free and our hearts sing!!!!

Have a great day....
Thinking of you....
and sending hugs and lots of puppy kisses from Jake!

Pecos Blue said...

Now that I am overt the 70th to comment you probably have had enough advice--you know in your heart what you will do and there is no right or wrong--you will expereince what you expereince and that is your path..so hard to learn from others expereinces just dont lie to yourself and go in with open eyes.

Jewel Rays said...

Hi Keshi..*smiles*

Its a very sticky situation isnt it.

yes it was..;)

yep but I dun even wanna know Amy. I just dun want that guy...o no not me!

Keshi think abt it. :) But if u are really sure there is nothing or nothing good is gonna come out of it than leave it. Above, all you matter sweets and ya beautiful heart.

U are a sweetheart and i really don't want this bugger playing playground. If he really needs one, i don't mind giving a kick in his balls to let him get a taste of what hurting someone and his double mindedness feels like..

Tsk.

*hugs*

Shiv said...

hey keshi...saw ur comment in sophie's(carmalin) blog...Whoa!! Am shiv as in she!! not as in he!!
;)

still not able to access my blog?? my blog is missing u..

WRYTER said...

Hi Keshi

I'd feed him to Rin. He doesn't care what kind of bones he chews on. He's had a taste of one jerk so he would love to eat another one.

LOL

Bev

Mr. Evil said...

Guess you're perhaps not over this yet?

Middle Child said...

Tread warily... maybe the timing wasn't right before, or otherwise he's just dallying...

If you do, do not open your heart too ealily...

deepsat said...

now thats a desperado trying to reach out to the nearest female he knows he can.

obviously its been only work for him for quite some time! so he wants a female very soon. the day he feels he doesnt need one he will put u in the dumpster!

tc!

;-))

Keshi said...

Phos heyy!

**You can cut and paste that into your message if you like.


lol awww...


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Margie my clautrophobic hugs to Jake! :) I just love that lil guy! Im glad he's keeping u all cheery n lively.


**My advice is to forget him.
You are over him anyway, aren't you!

I know...I said that to myself last night. tnxx sweetie!

ur all alone for 4 whole days Margie? Well Jake will keep u pretty busy LOL awww...

ty n HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

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Pecos ty!

70th comment or the 1st comment, I read em all and I always learn from what u all say here. so TY sweetie!

**you will expereince what you expereince and that is your path

so very true.

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ty Amy huggggggggz!

**i don't mind giving a kick in his balls to let him get a taste of what hurting someone and his double mindedness feels like

OUCHHHH! lol ur so funny girl.


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Shiv o was that u? Im really sorry girly hehehe.

I cant come to ur blog for some odd reason...I'll try again.


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LOL Bev d ya think rin wud enjoy loser bones?


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hey Mr.Evil how u doin?


**Guess you're perhaps not over this yet?


why d u say that?

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ty Middle_child I will keep that in mind.



Keshi.

Jewel Rays said...

*smiles* lurve ya lady!!

Cheers!

Keshi said...

Deeps I think ur spot on :)


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Amy luv ya too awww!

**Smilez**

Keshi.

Poo said...

JUST IGNORE HIM DEAR !!!...

When he had to stand with you he dint do that ...he dosn't deserve you at all :))

But just for the heck of it ..you can just rply saying I'm fine lots of work you take care will catch up with you later thanks and ""Follow ur instincts""

Look at his guts how dare he cud msg you ? you guys told Good bye to eachother and just bcoz he is free he is msgng you. He think your jobless or you dont have friends or what?? dont take me wrong, but "No dont even msg him just ignore it, delete the msg from ur Inbox"

Take care Dear

Kepp smiling always

AnonymousBlogger said...

Really Kesh? You would never meet up with Mr.D again?

Hmm, that is interesting. I'm a bit surprised, but maybe it is for the best.

But hey, never say never. Right?

Keshi said...

Poo u think like me...I did just that. ty sweetie HUGGGGGGGGZ!

lol @He think your jobless or you dont have friends or what

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AB Im pretty sure of it...if u read my latest post u'll know why :)



Keshi.

PRADEEP K. said...

** NO x 1000000000000000.

Then don't bother to reply. :)

alex said...

Keshi,

"I just feel I dun wanna do anything with a guy who cant think/decide for himself. "

There, your answer lies. :)

alex said...

Keshi,

"I just feel I dun wanna do anything with a guy who cant think/decide for himself."

There, you know the answer.

Drama Div@ said...

so run baby run.....

Die Muräne said...

**He can go take a shower

haha ;)

PrAcHi said...

Awwww... Sorry Keshi.. for the late advise. I m quite busy these days. I will read your latest post later. But without reading that, let me tell you what I think abt this.

I know how you must be feeling. I think you were quite involved in him. You know what.. I think if you don’t want to go thru the pain again, just ignore his text msgs. I mean, I feel it okay to say hi n hello if u happen to bump into him, but then for text-msgs.. I will say big NO.

I think he is just checking you out :|.

He might will keep on sending msgs to you. But after a while he will stop. N I think that’s better for you. Because as I read about how you felt after his msg, I don’t think so that you can be just friend with him. So...

Yeah.. If you still think that things between you and him can be worked out, n you still have the feelings for him.. then go ahead.. Reply him back! Just know what you want.. what your heart wants. And then decide what you shud do. I am sure, that will be perfect.

Take Care.. Hugssssssssss

Shionge said...

This chap is trying to toy around with your feelings and he is just passing his time by sms you. Not a sincere fellow...ignore him Keshi!

Keshi said...

ty Praddy!

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:) Alex tnxx!


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Diva I did that and Im a million miles away from him now...mentally :)


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Murane nah actually he can go take a bath in the bath tub and he can also use a yellow rubber duck LOL!


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Prachi ur right...I was pretty involved at the time cos he indicated that he was pretty serious abt me...well it's all dead now. No more going back to that Kindy kid.

;-) ty hun HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!



Keshi.

tkkerouac said...

Men love the arm candy of younger women Keshi, My rich X left me for a woman in his office 20 years younger

Keshi said...

OMG TK and is she still with him?

Keshi.

La vida Loca said...

this guy sounda like a real cuckoo!
run away and save your life..

Keshi said...

hehe I've already done that LaVida tnxx :)

Keshi.

--Sunrise-- said...

OK... ooops. QUICK advice... can't do that now, can I? :( Dunno what you did - but I guess I am about to find out from the posts after this one! Off-topic - I love the picture you have up for this post... very beautiful...

Keshi said...

hehe ty Sunrise :)

Keshi.