Monday, March 26

Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman Pissed Off

I had a very relaxing weekend. Did nothing much except cleaning, scrubbing, vaccuming, dusting, washing, cooking, eating, watching movies and chilling out with mum and sis. On Sunday afternoon though, I was sitting out in the balcony and thinking how self-obsessed some people are - yeah cos I had time this weekend to think about such things :). In their eyes and minds, everyone else is wrong, everyone else carries the blame, everyone else needs to be punished. They don't take a moment to stop and think that the fault might be actually in them. While others can be wrong too, I always think that if someone said something about me, it maybe because of something that I did - irrespective of the nature of my deed. We can say and do alot of things that the rest of the world may interpret in many different ways. It's really upto them to see it the way they want to. But can we blame them for that? NO. Maybe we can criticise their opinion but BLAMING them is an entirely different thing. I always believe that whatever happens to us is due to our own actions and the various opinions that follow could be just anything. I can fight with people and say no you're wrong about me etc...but I can never blame them, can I? It's like blaming McDonalds for gaining weight. Perhaps if you stop going to Maccas everyday, you'd address the real cause of your problem - that'd be YOU, GOING THERE.

I believe that people who always choose to blame someone else for their own misfortunes are people who can't get over themselves...people with a mighty unhealthy ego...people who are so self-obsessed that they can't see anything beyond themselves. Seriously such people piss me off. And it's hard to ignore them too..rather hard to ignore their arrogance. Certainly that kind of arrogance is no attraction at all...it's a BIG turn-off btw. So I want to say this to such people: 'Get over yourselves. You may be right (/wrong) but if you can't admit that you're the one to be blamed for your own actions, then don't conveniently put it on someone else. Cos it's not going to cure the root cause of your problems. And the root cause of all your problems is YOU. Fix yourself or handle the opinions like a sport or just piss off'.

I am where I am today because of my own actions. I hear what I hear about me because of my own actions. I see myself the way I see myself because of my own actions. I am the cause of I.


Meanwhile I'd just grit my teeth and continue working, cos prison is not a sensible option right now neither is the jumpsuit sexy.



Current Music: Smells Like Teen Spirit by Nirvana

104 Cranium Signets:

azuka said...

Who's pissing off Keshi.

That's a cute tush. A lot of guys wouldn't mind kissing it...

priya said...

Keshi:

Who pissed you off being Monday girl. Ignore them whoever it is or just point your arrow right where you have to and they will know what it means.

WRYTER/WP2007 said...

Hi Keshi

Just got home and had some work to finish. So, I read your post—very nice.
People do blame others for their mistakes.

I’m trying to think of the term used to describe this form of human behavior. There is a psychological term, but I can’t remember it.

Anyway it is when people see their own faults in others and criticize others for the same faults.

I had a busy weekend, and I’m really beat.

Sorry I did not guess the right one in the pic—I should have known it was not you because of the hair.

It’s almost midnight here.

So, I think I will pass out.

LOL

HUGS!

Bev

Steph said...

I agree. People can be so self obsorbed sometimes. Not me though *cough* :P

WRYTER/WP2007 said...

Hi Keshi

Found this in my email. All the pics I've seen from Australia, I have not seen the people this article is talking about.

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Obese Aussies get big ambulances
By Phil Mercer
BBC News, Sydney



Childhood obesity can signal problems in later life
Australia's obesity crisis has forced health officials to revamp their fleet of ambulances to cope with a sharp rise in overweight patients.
Super-sized vehicles have been introduced and new air ambulances will be remodelled to carry heavier people.

Studies estimate that 67% of Australian men and over half of all women aged over 25 are overweight or obese.

So many Australians are now bulging at the waistline that ambulances are being equipped with heavy-duty stretchers.

These are capable of carrying patients weighing up to 220kg (34 st 9 lbs).

In the country's most populous state, New South Wales, officials have said that more super-sized ambulances may well be needed to cope with this health crisis.

Special vehicles with over-sized wheelchairs and a hydraulic tailgate were introduced a few years ago to transport larger people.

Their workload has doubled since 2004.

Obese toddlers

Dealing with the obese or overweight is becoming more common for medical teams and it can be an arduous experience.

In a recent case in Sydney it took 16 people several hours to take an injured man from his home to hospital.

He weighed about 400kg (69 st) and had broken his leg.

Emergency workers had to demolish part of his house to lift him out.

There are strong signs that Australia's obesity epidemic is getting worse.

A lack of exercise and a poor diet, including drinks loaded with sugar and high-fat snacks, are breeding a new generation of fat Australians.

Experts here are warning that by 2030 half of this country's children will be overweight or obese.

They have insisted that breast and colon cancer as well as diabetes and heart disease have strong links to obesity.

It is reported that some Australian hospitals are now treating obese patients who are as young as two years old.

Mr. J said...

Meanwhile I'd just grit my teeth and continue working, cos prison is not a sensible option right now neither is the jumpsuit sexy

You are soo cute.. did you know that :P

Jewel Rays said...

Everyone seems to be having some ass yearning to kiss some ass or have their ass kick big time..

Love the shorts in da second pic.

Cheers Keshi!

San Nakji said...

Nice post. People need to take more responsibility for their actions.

Autumn Storm said...

Happy week ahead, Kesh.

All you can really do is hope that one day they will realize that attitude only does harm, realize for themselves so that they might extend beyond the limitations they have placed. Very nice post.

Margie said...

Hey Sunshine
Love your words...
I am where I am today because of my own actions.
I hear what I hear about me because of my own actions.
I see myself the way I see myself because of my own actions.

I am the cause of I.
If only more people could think that way!

Someone has made you mad, huh?
Sorry to hear that.

Yes, I am having a marvellous time with my wonderful family, and my sweet puppy Jake.
I feel so very blessed!
Thanks for the visit, Sweetie!

Time for bed for me....did so much today, and I am sooooo tired!
Hugggggggz!
Hope your day is a good one!

Thumbelina said...

Keshi,

Tats so true.. In life, alot of ppl are putting the blames on others rather than thinking actually, the person to blame is they themselves...

Just like my boss.. huh.. LOL!

Just finished posting up all my other days entries.. So many pics!

Thumbee

desperado said...

well maybe its some people's way of coping with life...maybe makes it a bit easier for them..but yeah you do have to be responsible for your actions...but den abt d opinions other form abt u...i relly dont think u can go arnd changing each oe of dem n maybe u truly r not to blame

HELL YEAH....THE ANTHEM IS ON TODAY !!!!!!!!! :D

And since its monday grunge..ur pot n the fact tht nirvana's anthem is there reminded of Pearl Jam's Song called I am Mine

"The selfish theyre all standing in line...
Faith in their hope and to buy themselves time.
Me, I figure as each breath goes by,
I only own my mind.

The north is to south what the clock is to time.
Theres east and theres west and there everywhere life.
I know that I was born and I know that Ill die.
The in between is mine. I am mine.

The ocean is full cause everyones crying,
The full moon is looking for friends at high tide.
The sorrow grows bigger when the sorrows denied.
I only know my mind. I am mine."

Have a happy week ahead dear

Neihal said...

"I am where I am today because of my own actions"

exactly...I hate ppl who refuse to take any responsibility... and the point is blaming others does no good.

SamY said...

** I was sitting out in the balcony and thinking how self-obsessed some people are - yeah cos I had time this weekend to think about such things :).

Idle mind is a devil's workshop ... sometimes its easier to keep one self bz and not go on evaluating ppl nutty :)

** In their eyes and minds, everyone else is wrong, everyone else carries the blame, everyone else needs to be punished.

Right / Wrong is a Point of View dear

** I can fight with people and say no you're wrong about me etc...but I can never blame them, can I?

didn't nutty just do that with ur friend with whome to called for PEACE :D

** mighty unhealthy ego

again, these differ from person to person. perceptions ;). it might be considered healthy ego by others :p

** And it's hard to ignore them too..rather hard to ignore their arrogance.

ignoring em is the best way to put em off ... oh yes you can ... but that would really piss em off ;)

** And the root cause of all your problems is YOU.

in most cases it is that way nah nutty? it much easier to change thyself than trying to change the world :)

** I am the cause of I

ooooh now ur sounding like my yoga instructor ... he goes around saying "I am that I ammmm, I am that I am, I am not this mind, I am not this body, I am not the senses ..." ... sometimes I giggle inside when I listen to it all :D ... when did ya become Miss.Gyan ;))

Aditi said...

well i always believe that everyone is entitled to an opinion.. it doesnt necessarily have to be the same as mine just as my opinion doesnt have to match theirs.. if its important.. i try and talk abt it.. make my side of the story clear just so i am understood..but u cant make the world agree with u and u cannot blame others for the consequences of your choices..

Iceman said...

lol...

Loved ur Monday morning mood!
Simply loved it....

DJ said...

nice post...
i agree "I Am The Cause Of I"...
thats why i say "I Think To Be ME"...

Poo said...

hi Keshi hw are you feeling now? I am sorry if my comments hurt ya ...you know what i am talking about !!

People dont undersatnd that before pointing out fingers or blaming someone else , they should first look with in themselves how pure they are? which they dont do !!

Just ignore them dear !! and dont spoil ur mood thinking about this.

Feel proud for what you are and what you have achieved in life !! whether its little or more. You have struggled so much in ur life ans these petty small talks should not shake u. Be strong!! and i know you are :)

Guess what its my that friends
bthday today, i really want to wish her !! But i am little scared dont know why ? ^-^

Jac said...

I wanted to write about this issue in my blog.
You have done me a good favour by writing about it in yours, exactly the same way I wanted to write.

Thanks, keshi!!

ღ lil_kath ღ said...

pissed off?? awww not on monday plss! ;(;(;( that's bad :) ignore them sweetie... yeah some people do blame others for their fate and thats very wrong!!

its true that ** whatever happens to us is due to our own actions and the various opinions that follow could be just anything., and follows karma!

neway, luv ur song here!!! Kurt just too good! aww thanx for sharin!

... enjoy lunch and cheer up babe!muaahh... have a great week ahead!

hugss**

Keshi said...

Azuka alot of ppl.


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tnxx Priya!


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G'day Bev!


**Anyway it is when people see their own faults in others and criticize others for the same faults.

thats so right.

yep Obesity is a prob in Aus. I hope I wont fall into that category soon :)

HUGGGGZ n Nitey nite sweetie!


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hehehe Steph :)


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Johno nah I didnt :) but tnxxx!



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Amy hows u?

well yeah..it's like they wanna hide wut they r doing behind their own ass. Sooner or later they r gonna find it tho.


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yeah n ty Nakji!



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True Autumn, ty!



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Margie? Wut a pleasant surprise HUGGGGGGGGZ!

yeah my own so-called friends make me realise that I dun stand anywhere in their life. Cos the minute something goes wrong in their life, they point fingers at me and I really dun get that.


Enjoy ur time with the family sweetie! Jake is a bundle of JOY :)


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Thumbee Im sorry u have such a crap boss.

Will be in ur blog soon.



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so true Desperado.

Love the lyrics by Pearl Jam!


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Neihal yeah..and when it's so obvious that it's their fault!



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Samy nah if Im to achieve that status I'd be in Nirvana right now. Im only human and so I'll be evaluating stupid ppl - PPL who affect my life negatively. So that I know who to avoid next time.


**Idle mind is a devil's workshop

I dun call my mind idle. Im not the one who's finding reasons to blame others. Others r doing that to me.


**it might be considered healthy ego by others

I really dun care what others think abt this. Cos this is abt how I feel. Others can go do their own blog post abt this.


**didn't nutty just do that with ur friend with whome to called for PEACE

Did I blame her? I dun think so.


**ignoring em is the best way to put em off

nah I cant ignore..atleast not now. When the anger is settled then I'd learn to ignore em. For now this is how I feel and Im not ashamed to express it.


tnxx Samy!

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Aditi yes.


** it doesnt necessarily have to be the same as mine just as my opinion doesnt have to match theirs.

thats what I mean. But some ppl r pretty quick to force their opinion on another and claim themselves pure and right. When infact they r the wrong ones.

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Icedude todai if someone tries to mess with me, they r gonna cry for a very long time :)


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DJ tnxx!


**I Think To Be ME

good one.


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Poo ty n hugggggggz!


**they should first look with in themselves how pure they are?

I mean Im not saying Im 100% pure...no ways! I have my tanties too. but it really pisses me off when ppl r clearly in the wrong yet put the whole blame on someone else...and worse on a friend! Talk abt being taken for granted.

txt ur friend and wish her...bdays come only once a year and life is short too.

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my pleasure Jac!



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ty Kath!

yep Kurt is THE best :)




Keshi.

Mr. Evil said...

See I never got that thing out of my head.. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.. But think about it, wouldn't we all be buggered if the devil was a chick???

Anthony Arojojoye said...

True talk girl.
Nice arse though. Is that yours? :D.

Thabks for stopping by.
And stop letting people get you upset. It's not worth it.

Nora said...

Keshi, everything you wrote here is spot on!! Thanks for telling it like it is. x

Menchie said...

I think the best thing is to stay away from people like that. :D

2lrbl said...

keshi,

agree to a large extent on wha you say here.... just wanted to put a catch though....

sometimes the victim is just a child... still not mature enough to tell the difference between good and bad.... or not grown-up enough to have the will-power to say 'No'....

so the mac's example can fall under this... it is not adult obesity that people are worried about, but child obesity, which has increased alarmingly in the recent years because of mcdonalds etc... and these corporations (like cigarette companies), try their level best to hook a child....

PRADEEP K. said...

Anger is a very powerful tool. Try to use it productively.

Cheers!

Aditi said...

annoying aint it when ppl do that? especially when they matter

Akshay said...

Keshi, The reason people blame others is because it is the easiest thing to do. They dont like being told that they are wrong.. or it is their fault. Only a few people are ready to accept that whatever is happening or happened is the result of their actions.

The Grunt said...

People who don't take responsibility for their own actions piss me off too. Right on, Keshi!

PrAcHi said...

Do you think you did nothing over the weekend??? I don’t even do half of the things which you have mentioned here, n still afterwards I think that where my weekend has gone!!!

I am the cause of I.
That’s great of you keshi.. but I don’t think so that everyone thinks in the similar manner. People don’t like to take any kind of responsibilities.. but they just like to blame others and pass the responsibilities.

N take care.. Monday morning is not a nice time to get pissed off :) *hugssssss*

AmitL said...

Hi,Keshi...this was an extremely interesting topic,for me..something I often ponder about,is,wouldn't the world be a better place,if the 'I' factor could be eliminated.However,it never does.Everyone is concerned about the other's faults,and,'who to blame?'.To some extent,I try to avoid this by not reacting instantly to the biggest provocation,instead,I try to put myself in the other person's shoes and see why they would be saying what they're saying.I concur thoroughly with the thought that 'I am where I am because of my actions'.:)

Ganesh Ranganathan said...

I had no idea doing housework relaxed you....BTW you are welcome to be relaxed as much as you want at my place...:-))

I don't like self obsessed people either...no fun to make conservation with

Die Muräne said...

I can't blame someone for what happens in my life... because unfortunately nothing happens in my life ;)

Silvara said...

Eeek..angry Keshi :P

I agree totally....but what gets me the fact when someone continuously blames someone.

There are definitely a few people I would like to kick their ass tho :P
And hard.

niki yokota said...

yeah u are right keshichan!!
and it is really hard to blame myself..
coz im the only one who can stand by my side at work lol
lets ignore enemies!! take care!!

tejbir said...

thru ur blog, let me tell such people whom u refer to here:

"heard about a creed called cribbers? ur life throws at u what u build out of it and the more u blame others for ur life's destiny the more u give the control of ur life in the hands of others and thus starts the circle!
better take self control or else be labelled as a cribber."

i hope such people do stop by at ur blog.

Shitrint said...

aw...keshi wat or better whos making u angry girl?
dont get urself worked up darling! i kno how it sux wen people push their opinion forward especially its not a correct one! but well, everyones got a mind and so they sit forming judgements and opinions! nuthin one can do abt it. but u said it right, "Fix yourself or handle the opinions like a sport or just piss off."
take care girl!
have a good week!

tulipspeaks said...

chill girl.. hugsss and lots of muuaxxx!!


=ammu=

Jay said...

But .. But .. It's sooo much easier to just blame everyone else. If we blame everyone else we don't really have to make any effort to make things better. ;-)

Asha said...

Arvind has the bad habit of blaming me for EVERYTHING without realizing how hurtful that can be!!I used to get upset but now I just tell him to Shudd up!:D

Just ingnore,some ppl get happy putting others down,don't LET them upset you and give it back as good as you get them if you can.Take care.

Mr. J said...

No seriously.. you are!!

Fleiger said...

Hmmm... you really are pissed off... Don't worry, and don't take things so seriously. You don't live hundred years by thinking so much, it just feels like that...

Jeevan said...

Glad you have a relaxing weekend dear! Sitting in the balcony and thinking is a good feel na.

There are some can't digest their fault and try to insert it on others, is sad, but we know how we are, that enough and no need to care of others.

Sugababee said...

Hey Kesh!

True say... those people are freakin annoying lol
But all the same.. in saying that you are the cause of "I", this is true however you are also you due to your surroundings, if people appease those self obsessed people, then they will continue to remain as so. The things and people around us play a great hand in determining who we are.

Oh and... LOoOoOoVe the Song! :D

Kavi said...

"I am where I am today because of my own actions. I hear what I hear about me because of my own actions. I see myself the way I see myself because of my own actions. I am the cause of I"

Went wow reading it. You have this knack of producing this wonderful yorkers that bowl me over. Lovely !

divya said...

we r wht we r because of our own actions-thats so true and whatever the circumstance may be i am happy to be myself..

iamnasra said...

Hey how are u ..been ahile ..Im here working I suppose... www.livinginpoetry.blogspot.com has a tribute for Paul of spiritualdiablog and now in his new website www.originalfaith.com. Hope u can join us in this tribute and if you can helps us spread the word among his blog friends
Thanks, see u there

chocolteluva said...

hey keshi..
sometimes it is easier to do so. sadly, i can say ive blamed someone else for my f up's once or twice. eventually realizing that its my fault, but initially its easy to blame the other person. but i think everyone does it once or twice - its the fact whether u realize it was your fault later and fix things is whats MOST IMPORTANT. once i calm down and stop over dramatasizing things i realize "oh fuck" haha.. and admit i was wrong.

OH AND SOO TRUE "hell hath no fury like a woman pissed off" --> ppl have been scared of me when im REALLYYYY pissed off. hehe.. may be im just scary in general.

Deepthi said...

hmm neat thoughts there and well no one than thyself can change the actions in life...have fun..

Aidan said...

Good morning.... Yu are right too many people dodge responcibility, simply because it is easier that way... It is hard to believe that one may in fact be *gasp* wrong... and takes a lot of courage and maturity to fess up when you stuff up.

Well put KEshi

AnonymousBlogger said...

I think you are 100% right.

Our generation loves to blame others for everything. I'm not sure why.

I guess we all feel self-empowered now, more than in the past. It's a double-edged sword.

Like many things, I think it's a phase.

Top cat said...

Sending big hugs.
tc

Keshi said...

hey Evil!

**wouldn't we all be buggered if the devil was a chick?

The Devil IS a chick...didnt u know? :)


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Anthony ppl who matter (or atleast I thought who mattered) do upset me when they behave like that.


nah it aint my arse...mine is much more sassy than this one ;-)


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Nora :)



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Menchie sweetie it's so hard to stay away from ppl who matter...but yeah, after my anger is settled, I'd STAY AWAY for sure. I dun want anyone affecting my life negatively.


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2lrbl hey tnxx!

yeah I agree...children r altogether a different topic.


** but child obesity, which has increased alarmingly in the recent years because of mcdonalds

I agree...but there r some children who dun eat Maccas everyday. Who know what thet r doing. I believe it's also parents' responsibility to advise their kids as to what's good/bad to eat.

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Praddy yeah tnxx!


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Aditi exactly! Especially when they matter...


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Akshay tnxx!


**They dont like being told that they are wrong.. or it is their fault.

so true! They dun realise it takes guts and alot of grace to admit that they can be wrong too.


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ty Grunty!


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heyy Prachi :)

I like cleaning etc...it takes the anger out of me LOL!


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Amit ur right...everyone is so obsessed with 'I'!


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Ganesh tnxx!

Cleaning gives me a sense of relief :) but nah I dun LOVE it sooo much LOL!


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Murane heyy!


**because unfortunately nothing happens in my life

thats also a kind of happening :)


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Silvara I can be really ugly when Im angry :)



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Niki :) huggggggggggz!


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LOL Tejbir that was neat. I hope they read it somehow.


**the more u give the control of ur life in the hands of others and thus starts the circle!

thats so true!


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Shitrint :) well I feel a bit better today.

I hate it when some ppl think that they r the only ppl who r RIGHT and their opinion is the BEST ever. They need to go get a life.


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tnxx Ammu HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

:)

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Jay matey hows u?


** If we blame everyone else we don't really have to make any effort to make things better

thats so true! The effort is what's scaring them.


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ty Asha!


**but now I just tell him to Shudd up

haha good one girl!



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Johno really? I mean really? :)


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Fleiger hey tnxx! These r the times I feel I'd be betta off being a ghostess :)


**You don't live hundred years by thinking so much

yeah I know...but I'd rather die a woman who has thought alot abt life than a woman who's totally empty :)

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hey Suga HUGGGGGGGGZ! I missed ya..


**The things and people around us play a great hand in determining who we are.

Very true, I agree. When I said that Im the cause of I, what I meant was eventually u r what u r cos of ur decisions. I mean ppl can affect us yes, but eventually isnt it in us to make the decisions...think abt it.


Everytime I listen to TEEN SPIRIT, I think of u. Cos I rem last time this song was on in my blog, u mentioned that u love it heaps.

:) TC n tnxxx!


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ty Kavi!

That kinda lines come outta me cos of my own experiences in life.



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thats great Divya!



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Nasra heyy!


**if you can helps us spread the word among his blog friends

why wut happened to Paul?


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hehe Chocolte HUGGGGGGZ! I can be quite scary too..when Im angry Im like a fiery Cheetah out to get her pray.


I agree...even I have blamed others for my own mistakes. But ofcourse Im reasonable! :) There r some pretty ridiculous claims that ppl make.


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ty Deepthi!



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G'day Aidan!


**and takes a lot of courage and maturity to fess up when you stuff up.

Spot on! Alot of ppl dun realise that it takes alot more grace to accept they r wrong.


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AB I hope it's just a phase.

tnxxx mate!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

awww HUGGGGGGGGGZ Rick!


Keshi.

Shionge said...

Well said Keshi.....:)

Dawn....सेहर said...

hahaha gal I liked that 'kiss my' thing ;)
Times are changing as so is everything...dont worry be happy ...rest leave in his hands
cheer up dear
hugggggggggggggggggz

The Phosgene Kid said...

It's all my fault - I haven't been blogging much lately...

George said...

Hi Keshi, your post reminds me of an expression I heard a loong time ago ... whenever you point your finger at somebody, there are three fingers pointing back at you.
try it ... point your index finger and look at your habd ...

Be well.

diyadear said...

hey keshi..
i love nirvana..

Tarun said...

Hi Keshi dear, how are you? long time no see I mean from my side ;)

In their eyes and minds, everyone else is wrong, everyone else carries the blame, everyone else needs to be punished.
This moment I am only thinking a way to punish Indian cricket team ;)

Stace said...

Sadly, personal responsibility is a thing of the past. These days, if you dive into a creek without checking the depth first, you can sue the council for your broken neck and paralysis - because they didn't put signs up telling you not to dive.

Having worked in customer service for several years, I see it on a daily basis - somebody complains that they haven't received something, without acknowledging that they gave us the wrong address to send it to. Whatever the problem is, it's always somebody else's fault. People waste so much time and effort in placing blame, instead of just dealing with it and getting over it.

It is a big gripe of mine, that individuals do not take enough responsibility for their own safety and wellbeing. People place too much reliance on "the government" or "the workplace"... I'm not allowed to stand on a table at work, and if I fall it is the company's fault. It's sickening.

Trundling Grunt said...

Have you ever read Marcus Aurelius? Some quotes are here...
http://www.quotationspage.com/quotes/Marcus_Aurelius_Antoninus/

You might like it. Hope you have a better Tuesday!

Keshi said...

ty Shionge!

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ty so much Dawny n huggggggggz!


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hehehehe Phos..yeah its ALL UR FAULT for not being ard :)



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heyy George!


**whenever you point your finger at somebody, there are three fingers pointing back at you.


my mum always says that :) and its so true!


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Diya I love Kurt too. To me he's one form of God.


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Tarun hey dun punish the Indian team...punish yourselves for believing that it'd always be India winning :):)


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Stace I so know wut u mean! OMG times r so ridiculous that everything that happens to u is suable. It's just so annoying. Where is the common sense?


** because they didn't put signs up telling you not to dive.

yeah and I have seen so many such cases in the news. it's like the human brain doesn't function anymore cos we expect some other bodies to take care of us wherever we r, whatever we do!

I too am so sick of it!

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Trundz matey tnxx I will check that out. :)



Keshi.

WRYTER/WP2007 said...

Hi Keshi

This material fits in with this post. Feel free to use it. - Bev

WE ARE WHO WE AREN'T


WE ARE WHO WE ARE

WE ARE WHO WE SEE WE ARE

WE ARE WHO OTHERS SEE WE ARE

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN SPIRIT

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN CONSCIENCE

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN OUR SOULS

WE ARE WHO WE ARE WHEN NAKED

WE ARE WHO WE ARE WHEN CLOTHED

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN TIME

WE ARE WHO WE IN DEATH

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN LIFE

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN THE WORLD

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN OUR SPACE

WE ARE WHO WE ARE TO FRIENDS

WE ARE WHO WE ARE TO OUR FOES

WE ARE WHO WE ARE TO GOD

WE ARE WHO WE ARE TO THE DEVIL

WE ARE WHO WE ARE TO STRANGERS

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN OUR CULTURE

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN WAR

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN PEACE

WE ARE WHO WE ARE TO OUR COUNTRY

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN RICHES

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN POVERTY

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN GOOD HEALTH

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN SICKNESS

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN MANHOOD

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN WOMANHOOD

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN CHILDHOOD

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN ADULTHOOD

WE ARE WHO WE ARE IN PUBLIC

WE ARE WHO WE ARE AT HOME

WE ARE THE PEOPLE

WE ARE WHO WE AREN'T




WRYTER/WP2005, 2007

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Tarun said...

Hey Keshi, I want to punish them because they didn't fight not because they didn't win.

Keshi said...

Bev its great u put it here...ty!


**WE ARE WHO WE AREN'T

love that.

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Tarun Im sure its not that they didn't fight...just that other teams fought better :)




Keshi.

Homo Escapeons said...

Oh yeah!
I blame my grandfathers for deciding to live here instead of Australia!
Our actions do have consequences but we can't control or sometimes even predict how others will react...which makes things interesting...anyway the law of averages states that if we keep sending out good vibes then MOST of the time we will get good vibrations back...
the Karmic Boomerang.

Sugababee said...

Yeh well in the end of anything... we are the ultimate decision makers of our own lives... very true..

You alright Kesh?

Keshi said...

True HE...I like the concept of the karmic boomerang.


**I blame my grandfathers for deciding to live here instead of Australia!

huh why is that? :)


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Suga Im ok...yet not ok. I cant explain it :(




Keshi.

Kumar Chetan said...

Where am I?
I am lost some where in files and folders and in e-mails and project reports....
wait where was I?
I will be back
:)

Keshi said...

then Kumar we gotta do a SEARCH for u in many folders :)

Keshi.

KK said...

Keshi! wassup?? philosophy n all :)
nice post and nice message... I believe in that... but I dont mind what others say about me, I just turn my deaf ear to them... I am what I am :)
Should write more posts like this, so S0ul will change atleast by reading all this... :)

BTW are you the right most one in the pic in the previous post?? sorry was busy at work... :(

Keshi said...

KK its hard to turn a deaf ear when u know u heard it :) But yeah after a few days I will be feeling better.

**are you the right most one in the pic in the previous post

wrong :) Im in the middle.


no worries...u take ur time KK n tnxx!


Keshi.

Dalicia said...

i like this so much!!! :) i've been pissed off a lot!!! :P

Stace said...

Keshi, it never ceases to amaze me that:

a) you get so many comments

b) you read them

c) you reply to them

I don't know how you do it!!! :)

Poo said...

hi Babes...how are you ? was remembering you ...take care n keep smiling always

Geet said...

I couldn't agree more Keshi. Some people just need to learn how to take responsibility for the mistakes they make. (I've had quite abit of those somebodies ard here) Lol.
Huggg.

awaiting said...

That's the way I see it...no one can do to you that of which you do not allow. So I never intentially blame others...I always blame myself.

Cazzie!!! said...

It is not you, it is them, let them just live with their own dumb actions. Keep smiling :)

dharmabum said...

sometimes, i just tend to laugh it off. thinking too much about all this can be harmful u know. and there isn't much we can do about others anyways :)

Mr. Evil said...

Kesh : WHAT !!! r u serious?!?!? Hmmm.. this explains why there's so much traffic on the roads :D

La vida Loca said...

yupppp you said it :)

RamaG said...

maybe the indian cricket team should read this post...hehehehehe...

on a serious note, you are right...i think it takes great courage to own up...your mistakes...and many lack the courage..they're just trying to opt the easy way out.

-Ram.

Pecos Blue said...

So tue. Love your blog.

Nadim said...

i was soo confused!
not about ur post but whether to watch the video (nirvana is my fav!) or to gawk at the cute lil ass!

i went for the ass! :D
lol!

i understand what u mean... seen quite a few myself but never really cared to bother abt what they say...

Little Miss Muffet said...

"I am the cause of I" - wouldn't agree with this totally coz there are factors which affect us and are totally out of our control..but yes, we can decide how we want to react to them...and abt blaming others for things that happen to us- well, that's just the easy way out isn't it? far easier than introspection into oneself..

Jac said...

keshi
It is still fury flowing out here, so I will be back when you are normal

KK said...

Never thot you were so thin :D LOL!!!

Keshi said...

LOL Dalicia then u've come to the right blog.


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Stace sweetie lets just say Im Wonde Woman...

Keshi bats her eye-lashes...


:):)

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ty Poo HUGGGGGGZ!




Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehehe Geet :):)


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heyy Tasha I cant see ur blog :(




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u r right Caz ty!




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True Dharma...



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Evil yeah thats why :)


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ty LaVida!


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RamaG dun blame the Indian Cricket team for how 'u' feel abt the loss :):)



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Pecos aww ty!



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LOL Nadim the ass-gazer :)


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ty Miss.Muffet!


**wouldn't agree with this totally coz there are factors which affect us and are totally out of our control

I agree but eventually wutever we do relies on our own decision doesnt it?



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hehe Jac Im ok now. Im in my Swan mood now...Cheetah mood is gone :)



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heyy KK!


**Never thot you were so thin

LOL Im not thin. Who said Im thin? Im just average...more on the fleshy side.




Keshi.

Fleiger said...

True, but don't think too much...

Keshi said...

K Fleiger tnxx :)


Keshi.

RamaG said...

honestly Keshi...i feel they deserved to lose..:-)

-RamaG.

Keshi said...

LOL ok Rama :)

Keshi.

Jewel Rays said...

am fine keshi..:)

Cheers!

Keshi said...

K Amy :)

Keshi.

Vest said...

ODE TO PERFECTION.
The Goddess of blog, The template of all that is beautiful in mind and body. Keshie is the person that every mothers son would receive approval of from their mother and every son dreams that his mother should be a keshie too.
Could not her maker clone a keshie for you.
"Yes my Son but only if you are good and clean; say your prayers and eat your Brussels sprouts"

KK said...

The gal in the middle doesnt look fleshy at all :P

Keshi said...

o cmon Vest :)

**Yes my Son but only if you are good and clean; say your prayers and eat your Brussels sprouts"


LOL!


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KK thats cos Im standing in an angle that dun showcase my assets lol!




Keshi.

Vest said...

Keshie, I read your comments twice if I can find the time, I enjoy the truth and your self criticism as well as your expectations of life.

--Sunrise-- said...

" I am the cause of I." - hah! I say (roughly) the same thing - "I am my own strength." I totally agree with ya... whatever anyone does, they only have themselves to answer to...

Keshi said...

Really Vest? I mean d ya really read my comments twice? :)

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hey Sunrise!

:)



Keshi.