Friday, July 25

Big Mouths, Empty Minds

The other day, a dear friend of mine here shared with me a story of how one of her so-called friends backstabbed her big time. That made me want to write about similar pesonalities that I've come across in my life. There have been countless Wolves in Sheep's clothing in my life and it's such a joke, cos these are the same people who go around pretending that they are the best thing that ever happened to this world. This only goes to show that most people can only talk talk and talk about how supreme they are, but when it comes to action, they themselves FAIL. Cos it's all just empty speech coming from an empty mind. Big mouths, but empty minds. Most people just float around like zombies, careless and heartless, trying to always avoid Living, than reallly Living. So when something happens that questions their credibility, they go around giving Einstein theories about it rather than admitting they failed. So remember that only very few people can leave footprints in your heart...only the ones that have a heart too. And if you're in the middle of a fireball, you are LIVING, not just EXISTING. And that's great btw. So here is a list of empty minds that I have come across in my life:


- Backstabbers
People who feed me sweets on the face, but hack me to death when I turn around...
I felt your stab but it only proved I'm 'bigger' than you. So get over it.


- Liars
People who keep saying they're so great and others are terrible, but never demonstrate those qualities...
Your lies were sweet but actions were bitter. So keep them to yourself.


- Pretenders
People who tell me that I should give a fuck about the world when shit happens to me, but falls apart when shit happens to them...
It's so much more easier said than done, isnt it. Stop acting like it's a piece of cake.


- Score Keepers
People who take out the Accounts Journals to check if I'm worth their time and help, depending on how I've handled their brittle egos in the past...
Settling scores is a shrewd way to live but certainly not a beautiful way. You need a soul makeover.


- Mask Wearers
People who wear one mask when they meet me, but wears a totally different one when they meet someone else...
Spying is a huge thrill but not when the mask falls down. You become the joke.


- Time Servers
People who just hang out with me to kill their time, for their own gain but not because they recognise what friendship really is...
When it came to the real test you failed. Next time, TRY.


- Jealous Whingers
People who cant stand it when I seem to be having a good time, so they label me as FAKE...
Jealousy can be cured too, by letting go of what you can't be. You are who you are and they are who they are.


- Lost Kids
People who claim that they are the only ones who have problems and that I don't deserve as much love as they do...
I may look as if I'm constantly on a bed of roses but the truth may well be that it's a bed of thorns...my attitude to life is what makes the difference. You carry your cross, I carry mine.


- Two Timers
People who basically tell you one thing but tell an entirely different thing to someone else...
Behind-the-scenes Playing won't get you too far in life. Drop the lowly habit.


- Emotion Evaluators
People who put my emotions on scales and weigh them to see if my emotions are heavier or lighter than what they SHOULD be...
Feelings and my person can never be measured or compared. Put your scales in the bin.


- Tax Agents
People who tax me for their presence in my life...
Some emotional costs are involved when you blindly place trust in people. I'd rather freeze that Trust in future.


-Sympathy Seekers
People who give excuses for their repetitive and very obvious mistakes...
A mistake is a mistake...nothing more, nothing less. Accept it.


- In-denial Dwellers
People who never want to accept when they have made a huge blunder, but they give me an Einstein explanation to defend themselves...
Making a mistake is human but accepting it and apologising for it is divine, and less of a mockery. Say Sorry and move on.


- Fence Sitters
People who sit on the fence not wanting to get 'involved', just so that they can be safe...
Yes go on be neutral, as long as that fence supports you for God knows how long! You're your own fence that blocks you from Living.


-Shit Spreaders
People who can't keep their minds controlled cos it's full of poison, so they go around making attempts to hurt others by their crashing conscience...
Futile is you. Give up on hurting your own self.



My momma taught me to live...not just get by. I don't believe in stagnating...I believe in flowing. I give out the best and I want the best. Nothing less, nothing more. And I'm not here to write write and write, but I'm here cos I have tasted all of that and know what I'm talking about. I'm not here to gain fans or attention...I'm here to share my life experiences with people who deserve it. I'm not here to blabber about how much I know and how much of a philosopher I am, but I'm here to give out the vibes of my real emotions. So if you are not upto my standards, leave. Finding a genuine person is like looking for water in the middle of a desert. Don't you think? So, tell me about your life experiences too, with that species called humans.


I dedicate this post and song to a rare, genuine humanbeing that I have come across in life and that is Silvara...over the years she has been a genuine mate, a natural teacher of life, an honest sport, a fearless traveller, a quiet mouth with a rich mind and a real heart. I luv ya hun and thanks for always showing me what it is to LIVE, cos your blog is the most REAL blog I've ever read, HUGS! (this is gorgeous Silvara with her husband)


And now about my weekend plans, I have my lil niece's bday party to go to tomorrow evening - I'll try to take some pics and put them up here next week. Hoping to have loads of fun :). You all have a great weekend too, see yaz!


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Nadine said...

I'm so you have had such bad experiences. It's hard to deal with people who hurt you. I'm sorry that has been the norm. How wonderful to have a true friend who stands by you and means what she says.

Southpaw unplugged said...

Offlate i hv completely stopped displaying my feelings...that way the nasty lots dont get the opportunity to screw me anymore and the genuines ones dont hv to get sad and worried...

Hiren said...

** how much of a philosopher I am,
- did you say you are a philosopher ?? :-p

** So if you are not upto my standards, leave.
- Do you remember "If you like me, raise your hand ... if not then raise your standards ..." ;)

have been keeping busy lately; so not able to catch up with your posts ... you have a good weekend ... give our bday wishes to your niece :)

Keshi said...

yes Nadine..its so the NORM.


*HUGS* n ty!

Keshi.

fingers said...

A few years ago I learned my lesson on the subject of trust when I asked my dog to guard my hamburger while I went for a wee...

Keshi said...

I agree Southy. U put ur real feelings up in ur blog, and wut do some losers do..go ard spreading shit..hvn a stab at mocking pp..but they themselves become the mockery and they dun realise that. :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

**mocking PPL

Keshi said...

hey Hiren ty!


**did you say you are a philosopher ?? :-p


nah. I said that Im not here to show that Im a great philosopher. cos alot of blogs r abt selling themselves.



** So if you are not upto my standards, leave.
- Do you remember "If you like me, raise your hand ... if not then raise your standards ..."


haha yes I rem that! OMG u hv a great memory :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha Fingers its a pretty similar thing. As if my TRUST has been placed in dogs. :):)

Keshi.

fingers said...

In canem speramus...

the stygian sailor said...

i am alive :)
how would you classify people who say they are friends and also say they don't like the em ?

Southpaw unplugged said...

On blogs and in person also...

Keshi said...

haha Fingers so u mean 'In DOG we believe' and not in GOD? lol good one!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ur alive Stygian yeyyyyyyy! I really thought u were dead. lol!


**how would you classify people who say they are friends and also say they don't like the em ?


its ok to dislike ur mates when there r spats. if u always LIKE ur mates, then there's something seriously wrong. :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Yes Southy...in person mostly. I know in blogs ppl can be total jerks cos they r more free to spread shit.

But in person, I've come across so many ppl like this.


Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

I hope I am not any of those :)

Keshi said...

U hv never been anywhere CLOSE to this Kaylz!

*HUGS*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

U hv never been anywhere CLOSE to this Kaylz!

*HUGS*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

But I hv made it an policy now..whoever who tries to play the fool with me will hv their MASKS removed.

Im not gonna keep their secrets anymore.


Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

Awww good :) I wont ever be like this :)

Keshi said...

Kaylz u can never be like this (atleast to me) cos u dun come here just to comment..ur a FRIEND.


Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

and you are my friend too :)

Its late here I better get some sleep.

the stygian sailor said...

better still don't have friends who don't like you

the stygian sailor said...

or rather dont call em friends :)

Keshi said...

nitey nite Kaylz MWAH!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Stygian..


**better still don't have friends who don't like you

yes u've got a point there..they dun LIKE me, cos thats when they do stuff like wut I mentioned in this post.


so yeah..stuff em! Cos I aint here to be LIKED by everyone :)


Keshi.

mayz said...

i read a previous post of urs abt d men u meet...n now abt d ppl...

but then every1 is sm part of this or dat...no one is truly devoid of any of these aspects...

the_thinker said...

For a long time, i have counted on people, tried to judge them but then i gave up because I realised I was vulnerable myself. To have faith and to depend are different things. Once upon a time there lived me a different me than today's me who depended upon ppl, who hurt himself emotionally because of unreasonable expectations. i wanted ppl to be around me because i thought i needed them the most. (I think I fit in one of your 'Big mouths, empty minds' categories, who knows may be in more than one). I realised it was my own mistake, that was unnecessary expectation. I had tested ppl in my standards. i know u r a lone warrior and i have become one, only faith no dependence, no accusations no nothing.

the stygian sailor said...

and what about romans? lol

Keshi said...

ty Mayz!


**i read a previous post of urs abt d men u meet...n now abt d ppl...


so should I not write wut I want to write abt? :)



**but then every1 is sm part of this or dat...no one is truly devoid of any of these aspects

I can quite confidently say Im not any of this. Can u Mayz?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Thinker!

I agree. Expectations lead to all this. But as a human, u cannot not expect anything at all from a friend. If ur like that, then u'd hv to be a MONK :)


**i know u r a lone warrior and i have become one, only faith no dependence, no accusations no nothing.


true n HUGS! Thats the only true solace there ever is.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

lol Stygian get over em!

Take a stab at Italians now :)

Keshi.

the stygian sailor said...

why upset the mafia ? would rather be a consigliori to a godfather :)

mayz said...

**so should I not write wut I want to write abt? :)

i was jus quotin...didnt mean dat

**I can quite confidently say Im not any of this. Can u Mayz?

i cant...i've my own flaws too

Keshi said...

haha Stygian then try the KGB?

Keshi.

Keshi said...

o Mayz I've got my many many many flaws too..but when it comes to FRIENDSHIP I stand by my mates. Hv never lied, pretended, let em down etc..

and thats what I meant. Not my entire personality.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

And thats what I meant by I give out my best and I want the best, when it comes to Mateship.


Keshi.

the stygian sailor said...

or i can just annoy you so much that you ll scream ENOUGH

Keshi said...

nah I wont scream Enough, I'd just slap ya @Stygian. :)

Keshi.

the stygian sailor said...

OK BYE. I AM OUT OF HERE :)

the_thinker said...

Well, i made myself a little obscure there. I wrote i have no expectation, sorry, i wanted to mean i have limited my expectation or probably there has been little need to expect. To be a monk, one needs to be selfless and i m a selfish and i have no shame for it. personal events(involving no one except myself) has made me rather eccentric and i myself have little time for others.

Keshi said...

buh byeee Stygian!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Thinker tnxx!

I so wanna reach where u r...emotionally I mean. Cos I seem to trust ppl alot and then hurt myself badly.


Keshi.

Tarun said...

"See the world as a fruit cake,it cannot be complete without few nuts in it."

I loathe (hate is a strong word) people who speak diffrently when U ask their opinion at different time,I wonder if facts and opinions do change in a split second.

Backstabbers:They will be back :P

I see score keepers ticking. lol

Well for other, just shift delete them.
They dont deserve any attention.

Keshi said...

ty Tarun for u'standing and not making me feel like Im complaining abt ppl.

Ur so right..few nuts but those nuts dun seem to realise they r nuts. Thats wut annoys me the most :)



**I loathe (hate is a strong word) people who speak diffrently when U ask their opinion at different time,I wonder if facts and opinions do change in a split second.


lol so very true! I so know ppl like that. Mebbe we should call em Chameleons? :) Changing colors?



**Backstabbers:They will be back

yes, cos they like being BACK. haha!



ur right..and this post was therapy for me to..to kick em outta my system.


tnxx n HUGS!

Keshi.

Tarun said...

Oh and I forgot answer the most important question of the post.

What the weekend plan?

Man 6 working days,Saturday evening deserves chicken and beer, so thats ON big time.

Keshi said...

Good to hear ur rocking wknd plans Tarun :)


**chicken and beer

KFC? lol!

Keshi.

mayz said...

ah k...

**but when it comes to FRIENDSHIP I stand by my mates. Hv never lied, pretended, let em down etc..

me neither...but have faced it

Keshi said...

ty Mayz!

I hv had friends who I called, emailed, left so many msgs but they never reply. I wonder wut makes me so rigid.


Keshi.

Die Muräne said...

"Most, people just float around like zombies, careless and heartless"

I don't think that's true, keshi. Sure there's is always one are the other who hurt others or some people might just not fit together. But to tell 'most people' are like that is not true (at least not in my eyes).

Keshi said...

k Murane.

but I was talking abt MOST ppl I've known. Not the whole world.

Keshi.

d SINNER!!! said...

hmm...Keshi I guess everyone of us has for once come across such people and for once been one of these...most of us never realize that, sometimes thats not intended, sometimes its misunderstood but it is so...

I don't remember the name of the movie (would leave it here asap I do) where this teacher asks students of a class to stand in a line and then makes them step forward for a 'yes' for questions like have you ever lost a friend-more then one and so on...In the end they discover that everyone has been through the same pain, broken relationships and hurt...

you have brilliantly described the characteristics of the tabbed people---but I feel things go into making of such people. No one is born so. For suppose my mother is ill and I have only few bucks with what m supposed to buy her meds. Some fellow robs me on the street there are only two ways it would leave an impression on me, one-I would swear coz my mom didnt get the med on time I wont let other people too. Second that coz my mom didnt get the meds on time, I would make sure everyone else gets...

pheww...finally, u have a tab called pretenders--"People who tell me that I should give a fuck about the world when shit happens to me, but falls apart when shit happens to them..."
ur next line itself explains why they are so- it is so much easier said then done. It is human nature when we try consoling people telling them that everything can be done away with. I beg to differ but there some may be trying to only be by your side instead of pretending. Moreover, everything is hard at times, only those who go through it may feel the real pain. So, it is obvious that the strongest of people may crash on the weakest of moments...

:) Cheers...

SwAtI said...

Ahh!!
Whaat a list.. I have met quite a few "Big Mouths & Empty Minds" bt this is a neat categorization..
Honest & Genuine human beings is a rare species now...so its no surprise that most often we tend to run into the other lot of ppl..

i hv gradually gotten immune to the strange n indifferent ways of my so called friends..bt dere r times whn i cant escape d hurt..

Keshi..I so loved the way you wrote abt yourself in the end..n m always in awe of that spirit of urs.. it always inspires me to work on my attitude n move ahead in life..
Thanks!!
Love n Hugzzzzzzz!!!!!!!!! :)

Silvara said...

Darling!!! OMG you are so sweet!!! Hehehe...

I was readin your post going yep, yep, I know these kinds of people and wondering what *I* had to do with them (becasue I am very nice person you see :P) and I see this GORGEOUS tribute!!!!


Thank you so so much. Darl, even though we have never met I feel like I have known you forever. I fantasise about taking a trip to Sydney and just meeting you (heheh shhh...don't tell Evs - he thinks I'm weird enough as it is :P).

You are WAY too kind to me and everything you said about me is YOU 100000000 times back!


I don't give a shit what people think about me or my blog (which funnily enough is contrary to my attitude in real life lol) and you know that trolls will come and go. The TRUE ones will always be there, whether they show themselves or not to be by your side.


thank you, my dear friend - it was an AMAZING surprise and it totally made my day :D

*covers Keshi in lots of hugs and kisses*

Keshi said...

ty Sinner!

I know wut ur saying. Some circusmtances make ppl who they r.

But if that was teh case, I should be robbing, beating, killing alot of ppl out there. Cos I hv been thru fire n rain, as much as they hv.

So I cant really excuse them for wut they've been thru. Everything in the end attributes to who u r, how u look at life and what u wanna be.



**only those who go through it may feel the real pain.


I agree. But I fall in that category too sweetie. But I wont make than an excuse to be bad, neither do I blame my luck in life. :) I can only be what I TRY to be.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty so much Swati HUGS!


**i hv gradually gotten immune to the strange n indifferent ways of my so called friends..bt dere r times whn i cant escape d hurt..


I agree...Im slowing becoming like that too. I dun trust anyone anymore.

And the power of hurt...only ppl who can FEEL know wut that is.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

omg and she's finally here! :) HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ luv!

I know...it must hv been a sweet surprise for u and u really DESERVE it.

In the past I hv given some Flying Kissee awards to some ppl, but now I wanna do it this way.


U r so genuine and this was long overdue. Im sorry it took this long.


I like the way u carry urself, how honest u r in ur blog, how unafraid u r of ppl judging u..that kinda bloggers r rare.


hope u like the song too.


*MWAH* hv a beautiful wknd hun! u know u rock. :)


Keshi.

Die Muräne said...

Ok, I sounds a little bit better :D
but only a little bit.
Why is it like that? Why do you think you attract them so much? or better... why do you think you 'suck' exactly these people into your life?
hmmm, must think about it...

Urv said...

The world we live is not a perfect place Keshi..

'Walk not as if you rule the world. Walk as if you don't care who rules the world.'
Its a lil difficult with all "types" of people around but thats what I try to follow..

Happppyyy buddddaayy to the lil girl :) Have a rocking partay :D And a rocking weekend..

Keshi said...

Murane mebbe I attract em cos I trust ppl too much? Or mebbe Im like them too?? which one d u think it is?


Is that wut ur trying to say?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Urv!


**'Walk not as if you rule the world. Walk as if you don't care who rules the world.'


wish it was easy to do. When friends hurt our feelings, we cant easily think abt such things. Cos logic doesnt come to ur mind when ur hurt.

Anyways I'll rem that.


Keshi.

Lena said...

Amazing how you managed to categorize all the losers that we have to deal with on our path. It is inevitably, yes, that we come across unfair, unreal, fake personalities, but they make us stronger and show us where we really are and who we are :)

Keshi said...

ty Lena HUGS!

Atleast u admitted we come across such ppl and it hurts, cos some others here just pretended that such ppl should not bother us.

Mebbe u and I hv HEARTS that FEEL much more than the rest.

:)

Keshi.

Ashu said...

classic classification babeh....life s full of such shitbags

Coco said...

friends?!
you can count true friends on one hand!! and if you have them, treasure them!

have a wonderful weekend!!

take care...hugs & blessings

Bubbly said...

hiya babes.....
also always appreciation flows before I comment......
A beautiful mind with a beautiful soul.....
Have you ever thought of compiling a book out of your thoughts....
where do you get these apt pictures for your posts....

Backstabbers......well i really pay no heed to them....so it does not affect me.....anyways they are time wasters.....i prefer to move on.....and leave it to the person if he she is willing to be in touch......

Die Muräne said...

"mebbe I attract em cos I trust ppl too much? Or mebbe Im like them too?? which one d u think it is?"

None of them of course! Hard to say, but often it's just a question of focus. I know your people only from what you tell in your blog, so it's hard to tell...

Sometimes its important to make an effort and try to see the good part in every one. Have in mind that they all have their story that we maybe don't know. With trying to see the good in people one can lighten up the situation.

I know, it's easy to say. You are very sensitive and feel it heavy when people are not honest or mean and this feeling then maybe overwhelms you (don't know if thats the right word). But you must try and try. Believe me, most people are good. But they are not perfect. And they all have their story.

(sorry cant write the much. am at work :)

(sorry can't

Keshi said...

ty Ashu for being so honest!

Some ppl r walkinf ard like nothing affects em. And when it happens to em, they cry loads n loads in their blogs :):)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Agreed Coco ty n HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Bubbly :)

a book...mebbe my blog is my blog hehehe.


I just found a mighty big backstabber and hence the post hehe.


tnxx for u'standing!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Murane!


**Believe me, most people are good. But they are not perfect. And they all have their story.

nah I wasnt talking abt PERFECT ppl. Im not perfect either.


Backstabbing/lying/pretending etc is way below my STANDARDS. And thats all I was talkin abt..NOT PERFECT PPL.



Keshi.

Parul Gupta said...

hi keshi...visited ur blog for the first time...liked it a lot...u seem to be a very observant, sensitive and mature girl...would wait for ur posts..adding u up...do drop by and visit my blog sometime too...cheers..parul

anits said...

hi keshi..i hv met many backstabbers in my life...n i agree with u..

**I felt your stab but it only proved I'm 'bigger' than you. So get over it.

hv a great weekends keshi

Deepak Gopi said...

Hi Keshi
I really feel that the world is full of back stabbers.about 80 % in my office is like that.
Thank you for participating.

Die Muräne said...

well if you think so...

i don't experience the world like that. But I can't judge for you of course, sorry. You can see it through your own eyes of course

Tarun said...

No it isnt exactly a rocking plan, but once a week doing something which shuts me off from the chaos of the world and makes me think how I should be rather than how am I.
A couple of friends i quiet corner at a bar cum restaurant few pints of beer and spicy chicken.
I look fwd to Saturday evening they are the most peaceful times in the world for me.

deepsat said...

the world is full of them. avoid them, thats the best solution! mess with them and u will dirty ur hands!!

have a great weekend! as for the scum, well they will remain scum!!

;-))

Arv said...

K,

We meet so many people in our lives and each one brings something unique about them to us in a relationship. The bad ones are what you remember the most cos we dont want to go through that pain of betrayal again.

You have put them out here very well. I feel ya so on this and I'm relating to all those personalities from my life.

here is what I think of them when I picture them in each groups

backstabbers - oh yeah... I have had many in childhood when I used to trust every x, y & z. not anymore so bugger off villains...

liars - especially the ones who lie deliberately to hurt us... morons...

pretenders - they are nothing more than preachers

score keepers - they should get a life

mask wearers - why do these people think we cant see them through jus cos we are nice to them?

time servers - I tell them that am better off with my music or a movie or something worth while

jealous ones - This is a big crowd, isnt it? LOL...

Lost kids - get out and see the world.

Emotion Evaluators - Maybe you should find work at a weighing station.

Tax Agents - stay away

Sympathy seekers - once, ok, twice, alright, thrice, oh please, grow up.

in-denial dwellers - same as above.

Fence sitters - knock knock, still alive???

shit spreaders - hit the sewers please...


Keshi, I know you only through your words but I tell you, you are just real sweet.

I should visit Silvara's blog sometime... will do that during the weekend. Good post da... Have a nice evening... Cheers...

Ps said...

It is indeed hard to find genuine friends--thats why i make every effort to hold on to the people worth holding on to.They bare so precious.
Cheers
Preeti (Just a mother of two)

Tejas Lakhani said...

Very good observation.
Nice analysis.
I love the way you have narrated the things which are quite true.
As usual your this post is also an inspirational one.

I have also visited the blog which you have referred in the post which is also nice one indeed.

keep posting n have a blast in the weekend....

Luv to your niece

Iceman said...

**Settling scores is a shrewd way to live but certainly not a beautiful way. You need a soul makeover.

Well... I believe in getting even...

Call me revengeful!

I mean.. revenge is not worth it n all... May b ppl who r scared to stand up 4 them selves & get even say...

But if there a score to settle, I'll do it!

Priya Joyce said...

all of the things you mentioned comes of dire selfishness. Some have it more some have it less but all have it.
Jealousy, backstabbing being neutral all of these just to make us look higher, to prove us good, to save us frm any problems. All is ultimately pure selfishness.
this is purely my opinion, "i think so"

humbl devil said...

how do you manage to come up with such deep posts???
gr8 categorization...

Chakoli said...

******but when it comes to FRIENDSHIP I stand by my mates. Hv never lied, pretended, let em down etc..


:))))


Such a good thing :))

Divkiran said...

Blessed is the word cuz u have such a frind and touchwood....hope ur thr for eachother 4evr

Every time i am in deep shit n cnt thnk clear, its my best frnd who pulls me out n helps me put together my life...

And as always, the best part of the post is those mauve/purple lines...I just love the sarcasm...hiahahaha...

Ok hrs a question...whr will u fit in the ppl who r very very genuine but have stopped expressin themselves as they have become over cautious bout gettin involved with othr ppl cuz of thr pst experience????...lts hear it from Miss Philosopher...the one whos really good at it too ;P

Lash said...

take a spoon full of lost kids, drop it in a half filled glass of Two timers, stir constantly and add two drops of Pretenders - Thats me :D

How are you keshi?

Shionge said...

Oh Keshi, I have my 'fair share' of encounters with all these people through the course of my work and it is so tiring to be involving in office politics all the time.

Anyway, no one dares to 'mess' with me coz my nick is the IRON LADY in the office kekkekekek....

Happy weekend my dear friend, catch you next week...hugs & kisses always :D

Trinaa said...

siiiiiiighhh...so true :(

vishesh said...

do i come up to your standards keshi? I agree with u ...sometimes i too am guilty of such things,and the problem with me is i just can't forgive myself...but thing i hate most abt ppl,is those who don't trust u...

SMM said...

Yup Keshi I so totally agree. The people who stab you in the back or spread shitty rumours or those who are double faced - they are the worst of the kind. Thankfully the good ones usually manage to overrule the bad ones, and that's when we know exactly who are our friends are.

PS: This time I didn't hog space. Btw I wrote a similar post, though on a more humorous vein, sometime back if you recall.

*~*{Sameera}*~* said...

First things first,breathe sweetie!Muaaaaaaaaaah :)

I agree there are people like this everywhere.But sometimes due to lack of communication or thanks to the influence of others,the real thing might be masked.And what you get to see is only the fragmented truth.

Also,when we are angry with someone,all that comes to mind is the bad things they have done to hurt us.After the acute stage is over,when we remember that person,they don't seem so bad because at one point of time,they added light to our life in their own way.And those moments more than make up for the times they hurt us.

Do not take it to heart.Just be calm and keep going and do your own thing,as always.Time always brings back those who are meant to be and truly care for us.

Take care dear.Enjoy the party!Loads of hugs to the cutie.

Love ya.Hugsssssssssss

AmitL said...

Arghhh...Keshi,you write posts faster than I can read them,sometimes.:)I already have two posts to read,today..(Of course,it's great,reading them,especially on a day off)..
*smiles*

About this post.You did a nice job,categorizing the backstabbers and the pseudos,as I call them.And,heaven knows,there's always enough of them around,if you can recognize them.I had a big grin at 'Score Keepers'-LOL..that's one breed I've come across aplenty.So,how do you face them? Me,I'm too blunt in real life-can't even pseudo-smile if I dislike someone.Being cordial with such people is all I can manage!

Lastly,great dedication to Silvara..here's wishing her also lots of luck and happiness!:)

Sweetstickychewy said...

I am speechless as i read this post. It kinda made me a little angry thinking about what has been happening for me.

but oh well..i am packing up.

***I may look as if I'm constantly on a bed of roses but the truth may well be that it's a bed of thorns...my attitude to life is what makes the difference. You carry your cross, I carry mine.



I agree with this. and some people juz don't get it do they? They demand when we don't share or show emotions and think we are being unreal. But when we open up and share. They juz can't handle it.

Thanks Keshi.

Take care.

Cheers!

rayshma said...

nice post, gurl!
at some stage in life, i have been guilty of spending time with people to kill time... not coz i cared for them. i realized later, that it wasn't right..
now off i go to catch up on all the posts i've missed! :)
have a great weekend! :)

enchanted illusionz said...

aftr reading evry post of urs , m more glad to have come across ur blog & such genuine a person. we do come across gud personalities once a while , but one with an individuality ...rarely! & you have named all the black sheeps here. hav had bitter experiences 4m ppl , but mstly 4m dos wit whom i don share a real bond, so m fine wit it. feel nothin more tan pity. but wit ppl wh EXIST n my life....it hurts..

gunj said...

im eally glad that ive neva had ppl backstabbing on me! touchwood!

La vida Loca said...

There are one -up-maners--you know their stories are funnier, sadder, bluer, more troubled than yours. THEY KNOW BETTER.

Sil is sooo hot!

Jay said...

I think the most difficult thing not to be the fence sitter. It's really hard for some people to open up. Especially online to "strangers" even strangers that they've known for a really long time.

It's totally a self-defense mechanism.

Urv said...

Hey girl! You have been tagged :D

Meghna said...

Di......all I can say is....VERY TRUE>>>>makes me realize I ain't the only one :(

Aayushi..^ said...

I am too small,have a heart to ruthless,have a brain to logical,have a body to numb to categorize people,and put them under labels!

I'm sorry..but I have no problems with the people who have commented or written this post..but as a person,I prefer looking at myself first,and then moving to others,and judging them!
people never chng..period!

Aneesh said...

WOW!!
I think if you submit a thesis on negative human character, you'll certainly get a PHD soon LOL
What a work, keshi, I appreciate it. I don't know, whether you have missed a single character that I met in my life too, I've to think a few times to find it. Good work :)

Deepti said...

At each point I was nodding my head and going "yeah thats so true!!"
The toughest part is when you give your 100% to a friendship and people just walk over it all ...

I'd like to add one more category to this " The use and throw types" .. those who take you along for all their problems , heartaches and whenever a shoulder is needed to cry on ... but when everything is hunky dory for them .. you are pushed to a corner :(
Hugzzz.... dunno how you come up with such posts just when i needed to rant out !!
Have a great weekend gal ...

HOBO said...

Big mouths, but empty hearts not mind because they(backstabbers) use it badly...

aneri_masi said...

***This only goes to show that most people can only _talk talk and talk_ ***

oh boy, i hope this isn't me you're referring to! :O

Mishra said...

Its fun to have backstabbers.Its like they make us chalk out the bestest of strategies,perfectionate the presentation and eliminate any possible weak links.We are always alert with them around us- I wonder how bad things could have been with everyone being sweet to me (=no fun ).

Ok. that is too much of an optimism.But,seriously- there is a role for everyone around.Am I not right? Even for those who seem not quite on our side or the ones who are always driven by personalized goals ?

As for the rest of the post,am amazed by your skills to put things precisely.You always have so many points on any given topic.You should try your hands on Journalism - at a time when the most presentable of news is presented unpresentably !

comfortably numb said...

And if you're in the middle of a fireball, you are LIVING, not just EXISTING....what a line, girl!!! *deafening applause*
seriously, what a supern write-up...so straight from d heart stuff!!!
back biters will always remain at the back only...coz they don't hv d courage to meet d eye!!!

Pecos Blue said...

Thank you for a great post and for stopping by. If you have any suggestions on how else I could get the word out please let me know.

Take care and remember of the best things of getting older is that you learn to spot and avoid or not care about people like that.

Am In Trance said...

Remember That 'Forrest Gump' Dialogue...
"Shit Happens..!!!"

Smile Now...
:)

**Btw, U R Tagged..!!!

Anindita said...

Hmmm.. I have met and continue to meet too many of them!ButI have never categorized them and your categorization is awesomely accurate! It is just their insecurities and fears which make them who they are!

Whitesnake said...

If I ever get backstabbed I'll get you to pull it out!

Sachi said...

First of all my apology for being quiet fkd up with college so din' visit for long.
Back to post..Right now I can completely relate to it. I think people have become inhuman.
I hate people who::
-judge me b'coz of what I blog or what I say or even what I do
-are diplomats!
-say they are not liars
*and the list goes on*

Just three words for such people:
GGLGo get lost!

Keshi said...

WC Parul :) n ty!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Anits!

They r all there..even in Blogville...looking so innocent. lol!

*HUGS*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Deepak :)

yep yep...they r there even in blogs. Sad lot.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Murane, no need to be sorry :)

**i don't experience the world like that

But did u read my last part of the post? :) I dun see the WHOLE world like that too. Cos I identified one great MATE and thats Silvara. But u didnt say anything abt that.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Thats great to know Tarun :) enjoy it!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty so much Deepz for u'standing wut Im feeling, and not giving me lectures like some ppl did :)


** avoid them, thats the best solution! mess with them and u will dirty ur hands!!

Spot on! Thats the best I cud do here. Cos no point explaining things to empty minds. They will NEVER get it and they NEVER wanna admit it.


So I'll take ur advice...Im gonna stay away from em, from now on.


*HUGS* u hv a good one too mate!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Arv for u'standing this post so well and not pretending like ur not affected by such ppl.

Cos some ppl here acted as if such ppl dun affect them lol! I wonder how. mebbe they just didnt hv such experiences, cos of the different circumstances they've been in.


**pretenders - they are nothing more than preachers

so true. They preach preach preach as if they r God of the Universe, and then when a friend needs their time n u'standing, all they can do is backbite, pretend and lie. Just so that they'll look and sound GOOD in everyone's eyes.


**jealous ones - This is a big crowd, isnt it? LOL

oyeah! I hv such ppl in blogville. They r so jeaolous that I hv a big crowd in my blog and that I hv some great friendships here with few ppl...so they go ard jabbering rubbish abt me. They r soo hurt LOL! I feel sorry for em.



**Emotion Evaluators - Maybe you should find work at a weighing station.

hahahaha good one!



**shit spreaders - hit the sewers please...

lol and they stink like hell.



ty for noticing the last part of the post too. Abt Silvara. Alot of ppl didnt.


*HUGS* will speak to u soon ok :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey PS HUGS!


**thats why i make every effort to hold on to the people worth holding on to.They bare so precious.


I so agree. But now I dun try to HOLD ON to em either. Cos I know, even those friends r human, and sometimes may not be able to live upto my expectations. Im speaking with alot of experience here. So, I just dont HOLD ON to anyone anymore.

From today, Im not gonna depend on ppl, especially in blogville...cos most ppl here (not ALL), r time servers and just here to show off. Only very few r genuine and I know whop they r. Even then, Im not gonna expect anyhthing from em. Im gonna be my own friend :)


*HUGS*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Tejas :)

I still cant get to ur blog...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Iceman for bein so honest.


**revenge is not worth it n all... May b ppl who r scared to stand up 4 them selves & get even say...

It depends on the person ur referring to. If it's a v close friend or a loved-one, I'll always be there for em, no matter what. I wont take revenge for wut they've done to me...I just cant.

But if it's someone who's not worth my love, I'll make sure I get EVEN with em, when it's their turn to HURT. But I dun call it revenge, its more like JUSTICE.


*HUGS*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Priya!

And yes, this is purely MY opinion too :) others can hv their own.


**Jealousy, backstabbing being neutral all of these just to make us look higher, to prove us good, to save us frm any problems

I agree. Some ppl cant stop mud-slinging..cos they cant get over the fact that the other person is much more stable minded.

:)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Devil :)

how do I manage to come up with such deep posts? cos of my own experiences with humans and cos of my heart that can FEEL.

I hvnt taken any of this material from books...it's all my FEELINGS in words :)


Hope u hv a good one Devil HUGS!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Chakoli!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Div n HUGS!

I can see a great mate in u too...we've just met, but I can already hear ur HEARTbeat, if u know wut I mean :) Ur made of flesh n blood, not wood n plastic hehe.



**whr will u fit in the ppl who r very very genuine but have stopped expressin themselves as they have become over cautious bout gettin involved with othr ppl cuz of thr pst experience????...


I'd say they r TREES.

cos they r so genuine, so natural, so fresh, we can still feel their presence and get their shade, but they r SILENT. Which allows em to grow n live in peace.


:) hows that? is that u btw?


*HUGS*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Lash I love ur genuine concoction of personalities :) u still rock! Cos ur honest.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Iron lady Shionge HUGS!

I wish to be like u too...not to let ppl affect me this much. I'll get there, with a lil inspiration from good friends like u :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

WC Trinaa :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Vish!

**do i come up to your standards keshi?

ur way above my standards! :) Im being serious. I dun think I'll fit in ur standards cos Im such a LUSTY human sometimes lol!


*trust

I agree...some ppl dun wanna trust us anymore. well its fair tho..cos I dun trust many ppl anymore either.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

SMM hey its ok if u hog my space dahlin cos u know its not that I know how to write short comments either, is it. LOL!


** The people who stab you in the back or spread shitty rumours or those who are double faced - they are the worst of the kind

yes they r the SHITTIEST. And its happening right now in blogville. One person cant seem to get over the fact I kicked his arse out of my life and now he's going ard leaving nasty comments to get my attention. Poor bugger :)


k will come ard to ur blog soon.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Sameera!

**But sometimes due to lack of communication or thanks to the influence of others,the real thing might be masked.

I agree. but wut du say when these ppl go ard spreading nasty shit abt me? R they mistaken by me or r they real gunk?


*HUGS* n ty for being there for me!

Will email ya soon :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Amit :)


**So,how do you face them? Me,I'm too blunt in real life-can't even pseudo-smile if I dislike someone.

me neither. I just tried tried n tried to be cordial and even that fails now. I just cant fake my emotions. And why should we. Lets make em see how we really feel. :)


and tnxx alot for noticing my dedication to Silvara and realising that I still SEE the good too. :) Cos not many ppl commented on that part of the post.


*HUGS* n ty!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Amy HUGS!


**and some people juz don't get it do they? They demand when we don't share or show emotions and think we are being unreal. But when we open up and share. They juz can't handle it.

exactly!!


TC sweetz!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Rayshma!

atleast ur being honest :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Enchanted for u'standing this post so very precisely.


**we do come across gud personalities once a while , but one with an individuality ...rarely!

spot on! Its so hard to find someone who's just themselves.


I agree. If there's no real bond, its no point getting affected by such shitbags.


*HUGS*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Im glad for u too Gunj, cos its not a very nice feeling to know u've been stabbed!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha LaVida so true! they r the real losers.


*sil

isnt she lovely! Her genuine heart radiates thru her face.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

I agree Jay.

** It's really hard for some people to open up.

yeah but Im not talking abt opening up in posts. Im talking abt FRIENDS.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Urv, will check it out soon :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

yes Meghna we all come across such snakes :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Aayushi!

**,have a body to numb to categorize people,and put them under labels!

Aayushi they r not only people, they r way below my standards as humans. So yeah I hv every right to label em. This is MY experience speaking, not ur's :)


**but as a person,I prefer looking at myself first,and then moving to others,and judging them!
people never chng..period!


yeah I hv LOOKED at my own self before I wrote this post. And I can quite confidently say I hvnt been any of these labels to anyone else. The fact that u cant JUDGE em isnt my problem Aayushi.


I choose to JUDGE here, cos they HURT me and broke my TRUST. If that makes me less of a GODLY human, so be it. Im not a saint, Im human, and I hurt and so I judge.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty so much Aneesh!

and rem u called me WILD n hv a problem...lol that opened my eyes. And I like being that. hahahaha!

*HUGS*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Deepti HUGS!

**The use and throw types" .. those who take you along for all their problems , heartaches and whenever a shoulder is needed to cry on ... but when everything is hunky dory for them .. you are pushed to a corner


omg I so know that type! Later on I remembered that I cudnt add it to the list LOL!

I was once there for a mate when she was hurt, but when I was recently hurt, she laughed at my feelings and told me that Im being a Drama Queen. Such r ppl.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

I agree Hobo, emoty hearts indeeds!

But their minds r empty too..in the sense, a lack of SUBSTANCE.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

**EMPTY hearts

Keshi said...

lol Aneri no ways! its so not u sweetz. HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha Mishra @news presented unpresentably! good one :)


**Its like they make us chalk out the bestest of strategies,perfectionate the presentation and eliminate any possible weak links.


I agree. But it all comes later on. After all the hurt is washed away...and after some time. Like u said, it's good for the soul..it teaches us lessons that'll last a lifetime.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aw ty CN :)

**deafening silence

lol Im deaf now, stopppppp CN! *HUGS*

Im yet to do ur tag :( mebbe next post. I really need to do that tag, cos I love it.




**back biters will always remain at the back only...coz they don't hv d courage to meet d eye

So true! So let em stay at the back, unnoticed and in DARKNESS. Good one CN!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

I agree Pecos, it all comes with maturity.

d u want me to put it up in ur next post? ur blog link? let me know :)

*HUGS*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Trance!

yes shit happens and some shit gets spread :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Anindita!

**It is just their insecurities and fears which make them who they are!

so true! the fear of looking like an idiot next to someone :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

awww Steve Im here to stand by ya, always!

I'll not only pull it out, I'll attend to the injury and make sure it heals well.

HUGS!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Sach and hey plz dun apologise for not being here :) It makes me feel like Im demandin u to be here. LOL! *HUGS*


**-judge me b'coz of what I blog or what I say or even what I do

tell me abt it! Even in this post some ppl said, first u rite abt the MEN u meet and now abt PPL. It makes me feel like my feelings r being mocked at. Wut ppl dun u'stand is that Im not here to blog FOR THEM. Im here to write abt my experiences and thoughts. Just dun mind em, get on with who u r Sach.



**-are diplomats!

omg I so know those types! I'd say they r fence-sitters too. Cos they just wanna look good in everyone's eyes and just try to talk SENSE all the time and it bores me to death. *yawwwwn*



**-say they are not liars

haha I know them too. Deep inside they r kidding themselves.



ur list is great n ty!



Keshi.

Mystique Wanderer said...

but u do realize that these ppl serve a very important purpose...actually two

they help us value our true friends more

and they give us something to bitch about

Mystique Wanderer said...

btw coming on yahoo? here's a nice song frm me

Thrown like a star in my vast sleep
I opened my eyes to take a peek
To find that I was by the sea
Gazing with tranquility

'Twas then when the hurdy gurdy man
Came singing songs of love
Then when the hurdy gurdy man
Came singing songs of love

Hurdy gurdy, hurdy gurdy, hurdy gurdy gurdy he sang
Hurdy gurdy, hurdy gurdy, hurdy gurdy gurdy he sang
Hurdy gurdy, hurdy gurdy, hurdy gurdy gurdy he sang

Histories of ages past
hung in light and shadows cast
Down through all eternity
The crying of humanity

'Tis then when the hurdy gurdy man
Comes singing songs of love
Then when the hurdy gurdy man
Comes singing songs of love

Hemanth Potluri said...

people hurt a lot keshi...nothin can be done to avoid them ..the feeling's r hurt such bad that some times its takes weeks to come out of it...I wish i had no heart so i stop caring abt everything and go the way i am ...and never believe in this back stabbers..


i had all the people u listed out...but i overcame them and now i am wat i am....

urs..hemu..

P.S : U touched me a lot with this post...

Metrosexual Monk said...

*bookmarked as real-world people encyclopedia


backstabbers should be made glow-in-the-dark

nothing worse than abusing an innocent trust and afflicting raw pain just to 'get a step ahead'

but its when you've not let the puny actions of these lowlives affect yourself that you really live life.

negatives can get fucked.
might as well enjoy the positives!

Arv said...

Have a nice weekend da and enjoy the b'day partaaaaayy :)

Cheers

Solitaire said...

Hmmm...nice Pappu categories (since I just found out that loser=Pappu). Sorry that you are having such bad experiences.

And very nice dedication to Silvara. I was wondering where your Friday flying kisses had disappeared to. Is this the start of it again?

Enjoy the party!

Donnnnn said...

If you weren't so stunning and clever and kindhearted you wouldn't have these nudniks hangin around.

What are ya gonna do?

When you got it you got it and people who don't resent it and they're jealous..whatEVER!

You can't control how others think and so many people are so f*cking insecure that they need to lash out..some are subtle and cunning while others are painfully obvious.

Here is some good news..the older you get the less you care and worry about what other people think. "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who do, don't mind." Dr. Seuss

The Phosgene Kid said...

Guess I'd be a mask wearer, but I come by it honestly....

dharmabum said...

i think people are mostly compelled by their conditioning and the circumstances. i try hard not to brand peopl and not to hold things against them!

Anu said...

Keshi..

Pretty much captured the mean , dispirited who exist among us. I also hate the happiness fakers.The ones who are so glad that you are doing well, who are actually boiling in spite or envy. I understand not feeling happiness, but hoping for a bad result for the other is my book a crime.
Hope you have a fun weekend, with your niece

Aayushi..^ said...

Hehe Keshi.
I have no issues with people :)
I just live..and you should as well.

And I didn't mean that i can't judge people..i meant..that every person is not as what they seem to be!

And live up,babeh!
we all prefer a happy go lucky gurll..to a grumpy one!:P
love ya..
and follow this..please-
"don't walk as if rule the world..walk as if you don't care who does!"

and every one has experiences with such losers...forget it!

smile! :)

muuah!

Aayushi..^ said...

and i can completely relate to why you chose to categorizing ppl hre..

all i meant was i dont do tht..but instead i keep myself in their place.and if still they end up as "losers"..i kick it off,and THEN categorize them as nothing but..'losers'


tc..
<3

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

great list...nuffin much to say abt it..
but
enjoy ur weekend and give my wishes and love to ur niece... and say happy bday from me tooo :)

Tys on Ice said...

man, now iam left wondering which of that describes me ....bad girl keshi! .. :)

Aaarti said...

Wow, that was quite a post.. completely agree with you on how some friends are shallow n some just downright bitchy and mean....

but offlate i've realised not to have expectations, atleast with some of my friends, for i know they aint worth it.. but there are some friends who i know i can depend on no matter what.. they are the ones who add meaning to my life.....

:)
With every person who walks thru our life, we learn something... that is a lesson i've learnt!! :D

hugsss!!!

Mystique Wanderer said...

btw u've been blog slapped (much better than saying blog rolled)

and my blog on erotica is up...but its a by invitation only thingy...so send me ure mail id on which i can extend u the invite...that is if u want to ;)

Priya said...

When we are born, we remain so innocent and be too good isn't it. When we grow up people do talk things that can trigger their inner mind where competition, possessiveness and anger towards the family where some are unable to be like others. Sometimes its in the blood where the family always feed the children by saying, u shud be beter than that person. So jealousy and hatredness starts right from the youngage and when they are not able to get along or be popular or have all wants, such people backstab,lie to beat others to comeup in life, and like seasons they pretend to be good friends and spread gossip or used that technique to move up even before you or me realize it.

We cannot change such attitude people coz society make people to differ in many ways and it leads to anger, hatredness and frustration.

Ne said...

I tell you Keshi! It seems sometimes, that the more I give whether it being a shoulder to cry on or anything for that matter.. the more I get stepped on sometimes...

when a "friend" is in need and I am there for them, and most of the time in return i get STAB! I feel it coming sometimes before the Stab actually takes place! Sigh!!!

WHEN will I learn that sometimes, people cannot be helped.. And the ones with the big mouths and cannot seem to keep them shut! I say we give them something to talk about that is legit and not made up by them!!!

Sorry you have had to go through this, but with me going through it, it has let me know who is real and who is fake! what is the saying Keshi..
Eff me once shame on me, Eff me once Shame on you!!! I have had to learn to walk away from what I thought was B/F/F's before.. hurt but I got over it.. Hope to never have a stab again!

again I took up so much of your comments.. sorry!!!

Outdoorsy Girl said...

Unfortunately, these kind of experiences have been the norm for me, too. But I also have a few very wonderful people in my life that I know are true. And fortunately, THEY are the ones I remember, the ones who inspire and I easily forget about the fakers (despite their outnumbering my real friends).

Sachi said...

c'mon its me who demands to read your post. Mercy lord!!!

*about the judging thing. I said I blog something I feel about. Some dedication, some lesson learnt or even some experience good or bad. That by no mean means that people should form an image of me.
By saying, "Im not here to blog FOR THEM. Im here to write abt my experiences and thoughts"
That's same way with me too :D

:)

Tk Care! N have a fun filled weekend. Btw wishes to your niece :)

Tejas Lakhani said...

Hey Keshi.

My Blog URL is www.tejaslakhani.com/blog

Aneesh said...

Hey, you never let it go? LOL

Did I hurt you?

stony said...

Almost all colleagues in my office, me included, feel that most of their colleagues are backstabbers, liars, pretenders...

This intrigues me. People, considered as backstabbers by others, branding others as backstabbers!

I think perceptions are illusive.

Ne said...

I am going to stop using blogger, if it is going to delete all of my freaking comments.LOL!!

I feel what you are trying to talk about here.. i have been on the side where I have been stabbed numerous times in the back. Not a good feeling I might add! And they wore the mask of "friendship"

Even tho i felt something was wrong i still hung in there and tried to be the best friend I could possibly be.. I even had one sleep with my bf, I guess then I was not a good bf reader either! haha

I tell them all now just to kiss my ass and keep it moving! I cannot stand fake azz people!

Keep your head up I can tell you are a genuine friend! The ones that are fake on the other hand need to watch their back! I am sooooo all over them waiting to kick some azz!!

Love ya Keshi Girl! I hope this one goes through, it is not like my other comment but it is similar..

Ne

Keshi said...

ty Mystique!

**they help us value our true friends more

I agree. It makesu realise how truly valuable the very few loved-ones r.


**and they give us something to bitch about

hehe true. I dun think any REAL person can live w.o. bitching a bit. All these saints who claim they dun BRAND ppl r FAKES themselves.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hye Mystique thats a beautiful song...so meaningful.

**Histories of ages past
hung in light and shadows cast
Down through all eternity
The crying of humanity


aha! dun I belong in that too ;-)


Sorry I wasnt online most of yday...I was at my cousins' :)


Hope u had a good one too?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Hemanth!

**I wish i had no heart so i stop caring abt everything and go the way i am

I wish for that too. But my heart aint something i can just DROP.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Monk for being so REAL!


**backstabbers should be made glow-in-the-dark

I rem this line in Sol's blog. Was it u who wrote that? CLEVER thinking :)



**nothing worse than abusing an innocent trust and afflicting raw pain just to 'get a step ahead'

Exactly wut I mean and thats wut hurts the most.

But like u said, I'll get over it...I know I will. This is just that HURT phase.


*HUGZ* n ty!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Arv I had a great time yday :) Hope u had a good one too.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Sol!

hehe @pappu categories. There r a lot of em in Blogville. And I just found out one of em too.


**I was wondering where your Friday flying kisses had disappeared to. Is this the start of it again?


yes! Im gonna do it this way now :)


tnxx!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Donn HUGGGGGGGGGGZ! n ty so much. U always make great sense and make me REALISE. Im so glad to hv a mater like u in my life.


**..some are subtle and cunning while others are painfully obvious.

I agree. U wudnt believe how nasty some GUYS can get once they realise I FOUND OUT who they really r and ask em to LEAVE.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Phoso dun I know that mate. :) HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Dharma!


**i think people are mostly compelled by their conditioning and the circumstances. i try hard not to brand peopl and not to hold things against them!


In that case I'd hv to be a MONK in the Himalayas chanting OM OM OM, not blogging!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Anu!

**The ones who are so glad that you are doing well, who are actually boiling in spite or envy.

I so know that kind! Worse, I found out that they r the ones who I trusted alot in Blogville!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Aayushi!


**I have no issues with people :)
I just live..and you should as well.


I do LIVE, thats why I do HAVE issues with ppl. I believe that ppl who dun hv any issues with others whatsoever r just EXISTING.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

And Aayushi..


**"don't walk as if rule the world..walk as if you don't care who does!"


easier said than done, when it comes to close mates!


rem u said, u r so different than I am, in my other posts? rem u said u dun like shopping like I do, u dun liek girly things as much as I do, u dun like fashion like I do, u dun enjoy shopping/dancing like I do, u'd rather go to the library etc etc.


Well that may be why Aayushi. U r very young, hvnt LIVED life many years as much as Keshi has, and u are so much more WISER than Keshi...mebbe thats why? Think abt it.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Bro!

Kshi.

Keshi said...

Tys ur not any of this but here's what u r to me:

Rainbow Maker


:) HUGGGGGGGGGGZ!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

true Aaarti these r all lessons to me.


**but there are some friends who i know i can depend on no matter what.. they are the ones who add meaning to my life.....

I agree.


ty n HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha Mystique will send it to u soon. ty! ;-)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Priya, thats so true!


**and like seasons they pretend to be good friends and spread gossip or used that technique to move up even before you or me realize it.

OMG this is exactly wuts happening in Blogville rite now! And one of my so-called mates is going ard do that to hide his own shit.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty so much NE HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ! ur so adorable hehe.


** And the ones with the big mouths and cannot seem to keep them shut! I say we give them something to talk about that is legit and not made up by them!!!

I so agree! LOL we must hurt their conscience alot.


I'll shake em off soon MWAH n ty!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Outdoorsy!

**THEY are the ones I remember

I'll keep that in mind. HUGGGGGGGGGGGZ!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aw ty Sach :) HUGS!


**Some dedication, some lesson learnt or even some experience good or bad. That by no mean means that people should form an image of me.


Exactly my point!

Did u read some of the comments here? they said that they dun BRAND ppl like I do. LOL for all I know they must live in meditating monasteries!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Tejas I'll try again.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Aneesh yes u hurt me LOL! just kidding ;-)

*HUGS* they r all momentary irritations..they die away when u see the bigger picture of the person. And ur great!


Keshi.