Tuesday, April 8

From The Depths Of My Soul...

DISCLAIMER: Please note that I'm not demanding anyone to answer these questions here. It's entirely upto you. Thanks!



Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?



Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?



Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?

Like how the taste of food lasts only while it's in your mouth, are certain feelings just momentary or do they all have deep roots and lasting effects?

Like a deer among the wolves, does your heart sometimes beat in total fear?



Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?


If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?




Like a dewdrop at the edge of a leaf, does life hang in sheer uncertainity?


Does a piano melody remind you of a distant unfinished story?


Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?


Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?



Just
like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted an
d dizzy?

Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?

When you see a Waterfall, does it make you wonder what your destination might be?

Like the leaves start to fall in Autumn, do you sometimes fall too?

And Just like Spring quietly gives life to nature, do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered?

Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?

Does wrinkly skin and an ailing body of a 95yr old remind you the impermanence of everything?

How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?

Like when a flower gets plucked from it's tree, do we become 'individuals' as soon as we leave our mothers' wombs?

Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?

Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?





Those are some questions that popped in my mind. Select any number of questions you like from the above list (be it just 1 or 5 or 9 or if you're really energetic, even all questions), and give me your answers/views on them, through your own understanding and life experiences. Keep it simple and short if possible. I'll pick some outstanding replies and update here later on. But don't think of this as a competition only...just be true to yourself...be natural...be real. That's when the best answers come out anyways. Ok, so good luck and here's another chance for those who said they never win in my blog etc hehe. Thanks in advance and have a blissful week ahead guys!



Today's song is one of my fav Sinhalese songs from the Sinahala movie Saptha Kanya...the actress in this video is one of my mates from school...can you believe that? :) And the actor in this movie is the actual singer of this song too. Besides these 2 were dating each other during this movie...hence we can see their intense connection in this video too :). If you can't view the video in my blog, go here. It's a beautiful song with amazing and haunting music. It's a love ballad with a very deep meaning too. Enjoy!



Current Music: Unmaadha Wu by Kamal Addaraarachchi and Damayanthi Jayasuriya

159 Cranium Signets:

KAYLEE said...

how are you keshi?

MISS U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

La vida Loca said...

yaaa love children's laughter.
I donno why ppl help... and expect glory mzybe coz it makes them feel better about themselves?

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

I got to rush for the lab..will answer from there


* warming hands *
**Now no one can stop me from winning..after all its my home competition now :P**

Prats said...

These questions run through my mind on so many occassions that I feel as if I was writing them down.
*Like a deer among the wolves, does your heart sometimes beat in total fear?

Oh does it??? Its like a hammer pounding away...and the reason could be as minor as my son bowling in his match.

*why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?

I've seen this happen and from people so close to me, and I know how it hurts like hell.

*why can't we help without craving for glory?

Expecting something in return negates the giver of his gift.

*Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, ........
Why? why oh why?? Many time I've felt like its deja vu and many times I've had a tear drop, only to realise i'm just spinning it in my head.

*Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?

Will they? I really want them to. When I look up at the stars, I stare so hard at them, that I worry, if not the person, the star might itself just drop into my palms for me to just say that one word to me and go back.

*.....do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered
Oh yes!!! zillions of times, sometimes I just have to hear them say a hello, and i'm at peace.

Realised that these sinhalese songs you've been putting up, have given me a new tune to look forward to. They are so lovely.

Thanks gal!!! Your posts brings smiles just like how sometimes i'm choking with tears...

Thinking aloud said...

these were questions that have been in my mind sometime orthe other...

***Like a deer among the wolves, does your heart sometimes beat in total fear?

ohh yeah...i think it becomes most apparent once you become a parent...it generally happens when something threatens your world...sometimes as simple as watching your child's first stage performance...

**Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?

perhaps because you are closest to them...and are able to show what you really feel...contradictory but true...

carolinagal said...

**Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?**

I think everyone goes through this feeling atleast once in their life time. They maybe a depressed teenager and 'loner' teenager, who feels out of place amidst the popular kids talking about 'spring dances and proms', or a'single mom' in her mid-twenties, watching all her girlfriends enjoying life to their fullest, when she stays at home taking care of her youngling. It could be a child prodigy- a the best chess player in the world, or the best ices-skater, or the best pianist. He watches all other kids his age enjoying being kids, when he is isolated in his own little life of child-star. It could be a widowed father who spent his entire life taking care of his children, and never re-marrying. It could be this stock-market, who spends most of his time thinking about how to make more money, so that one day he could have a better life, except that life just keeps slipping from his hands.


Ok,, I've been enough philosophical for one night. I'll attempt to give you my thoughts on the other questions later.

Cheers girl. Keep these 'thought-provoking' posts coming.

Jay said...

"Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?"

Because society and most religions teach us that this is what we MUST do. So, as we get older we start to panic and start thinking that we are living outside of societal norms and that we are insulting God and living a selfish life. So, we end up marrying because we think we should and not because it's what we really want.

carolinagal said...

Ok, maybe I'll do one more

**Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?**

Yes, there absolutely can be. I think the best example of this kind of love is the one a mother has for her child. No matter what happens, NOTHING can change this love. One cannot understand this love completely until they themselves experience it. I have not experienced it completely, but I have a baby dog, and he has sprouted such motherly feelings inside of me...I can't even describe. I am so amazed by my own capacity to love him so much!! I can only imagine how will be when I become a mother for real some day.

Menchie said...

ON the first question.

Yes I do feel that way sometimes. Like I'm on suspended animation. I sometimes feel as if I am still waiting for something to happen. And then I feel a little guilty because how can I possibly feel something like this when my life is already so full?

CM-Chap said...

Beautiful one...

The same questions run through my mind very often whenever ppl start pesturing me... Hope ur OK

Kavi said...

how are you keshi ?

The questions that you pose are some deep thoughts down inside. Sometimes, grappling with them, is difficult in the first place, let alone finding answers to them !

anits said...

**If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?

this is the question that always go across in my mind...y cant human being like that... this remind me of mother teresa who services the society without any expectation. The less expectation we have within us ..more lighter ur heart will be...
i believe rather than thinking abt others...let us start first!
very good post keshi...tcare yah...muuahhh

Ankur said...

Here goes my responses...n it wud have been easy if the questions were numbered...


**Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?

No... everyone plays their part, and life isnt a game :)

**Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?

Truly, i loved the feelin when i was in love... and now i cant get an answer to this!!!

**Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?

Even a circle has some imperfection, remember Pi...

**Like how the taste of food lasts only while it's in your mouth, are certain feelings just momentary or do they all have deep roots and lasting effects?

I repeat, you dont forget but u just tend not to remember...

**Like a deer among the wolves, does your heart sometimes beat in total fear?

Nowdays many a times, when i start missing her.... tats happens every second :(

**Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?

i cant find an answer to this... i hope they remember "Live n Let Live..."

**If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?

we r selfish...

**Like a dewdrop at the edge of a leaf, does life hang in sheer uncertainity?

i wont call it uncertainty, but yes, things can suddenly change at a rapid pace.

**Does a piano melody remind you of a distant unfinished story?

i do listen a lot of love, romantic sad songs these days ;)

**Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?

i dont know... tried to find the same answer when i first visited u. :)

**Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?

i believe in reincarnation...

**Just like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted and dizzy?

haha... how can i say NO :D

**Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?

i think some try...

**When you see a Waterfall, does it make you wonder what your destination might be?

yes...

**Like the leaves start to fall in Autumn, do you sometimes fall too?

many a times, i m so imperfect...

**And Just like Spring quietly gives life to nature, do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered?

a lot... :)

**Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?

If i love anything more than myself, they are kids... i can see a pure heart there, no worries, no selfishness... they cry and they laugh... no hiding of emotions... i just love them :D

**Does wrinkly skin and an ailing body of a 95yr old remind you the impermanence of everything?

I never deny that everyone has to die... :)

**How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?

I Listen to my heart without worryin a lot abt future!!!

**Like when a flower gets plucked from it's tree, do we become 'individuals' as soon as we leave our mothers' wombs?

No, we can never be... we are all so human, but ya we behave like one sometimes...

**Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?

coz i think only they deserve my extreme emotions... they know me so even when m harsh they know wat i want... no offence taken :)

**Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?

I will!!!

I guess this is gonna a long one for u... but cant help...

i guess u had a hard time reading this... lol

Cheers!!!

P.S. But i dont understand when u say...

**outstanding replies and update here later on. But don't think of this as a competition only...just be true to yourself

Ankur said...

and ya... the questions have a deep rooted meaning to them, and i dont thnk i was able to do justice with all of them...

but yes, u made me think so much...
:)

SambY said...

Sometimes, I’m so busy reminding myself to participate in life that I forget to just watch.....

why am i harsh to the ppl i love cause i guess they love me to. ..i treat them as my "own" .. but then there are times...hwen u are harsh to your "own"...for sumpones elese sake..and that sumone else cheats u and the "own" people also are angry.... then there are nights and tearsokaed pillows... the less said the better

fingers said...

Sometimes I feel like a lemon tree...

Nirmal's Blog said...

hey nice post keshi....

why,can,will,if are the words which make our life miserable..

they give us a feeling that this world is not a better place to live......
life is great with and witout some stuffs...

be happy is only i can say now..

Keshi said...

Kaylz Im ok n u?

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey LaVida tnxx hun!

**and expect glory mzybe coz it makes them feel better about themselves?

yes thats it.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww my lil bro is here :)

*** warming hands *

haha cute...go n come bak...we'll wait for ya.


*HUGZ* Sourish!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Prats tnxx hun for taking part!


**and the reason could be as minor as my son bowling in his match

aww this gave a new side to that qn...parental fears.


**the star might itself just drop into my palms for me to just say that one word to me and go back.

beautifully put.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey TA tnxx hun!

**sometimes as simple as watching your child's first stage performance...

WOW Prats said the same kinda thing...


**and are able to show what you really feel...contradictory but true...

I love what u said there.


tnxx hun!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Carolinagal ty sweetz!


**It could be a child prodigy- a the best chess player in the world, or the best ices-skater, or the best pianist. He watches all other kids his age enjoying being kids, when he is isolated in his own little life of child-star. It could be a widowed father who spent his entire life taking care of his children, and never re-marrying. It could be this stock-market, who spends most of his time thinking about how to make more money, so that one day he could have a better life, except that life just keeps slipping from his hands.


I really LOVE ur answer and the examples u gave..WOW!


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Jay!


**So, we end up marrying because we think we should and not because it's what we really want.

Spot on! Its not that we really have to...just that we follow SOCIETY. Slaves we r!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha Carolinagal go fot it! :)

I agree...the bond between a mum and a child is AMAZING. No other love can be even compared with that.


At the same time, sometimes I wonder why some mothers and children hate each other with a vengeance. I can never hate my mum...and I know my mum can never hate me either. We hv our ups n downs, but we always bounce back to that LOVE.



**but I have a baby dog, and he has sprouted such motherly feelings inside of me


awwwwww so darn sweeeeet Carolinagal! *HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Menchie hey hows u hun?


**I sometimes feel as if I am still waiting for something to happen.

me too...but now I dun even know what Im waiting for.


**And then I feel a little guilty because how can I possibly feel something like this when my life is already so full?

it happens sweetz...we r human and it's there's a natural tendency to look forward to new things even if our lives r already full.


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww tnxx Chap!

The exact same qns? :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Kavi :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Anits!


**this remind me of mother teresa who services the society without any expectation. The less expectation we have within us ..more lighter ur heart will be


true..but I also know that we all cant be as generous as Mother Theresa...I believe she's exceptional. But we can try being kind n helpful, starting at home. Some ppl cant even treat their families well.


*HUGZ* n ty!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Ankur! U answered all of em...GREAT!



**No... everyone plays their part, and life isnt a game

I didnt say life IS a game..I only compared it to a game being watched hehe.



**Truly, i loved the feelin when i was in love

its a nice feeling yes...but being obsessed abt LOVE n Marriage is altogether another thing.



**... tried to find the same answer when i first visited u.

really? awww...



**I never deny that everyone has to die

that qn wasnt necessarily abt Death.



**No, we can never be... we are all so human, but ya we behave like one sometimes...

Then why is ur ans to another qn reads 'We r selfish'? :)



tnxx Ankur!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Sorry I forgot to ans to this Ankur:


**outstanding replies and update here later on. But don't think of this as a competition only...just be true to yourself

The truth is always outstanding, isnt it Ankur? :)



Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Samby HUGZ!


**Sometimes, I’m so busy reminding myself to participate in life that I forget to just watch.....

Love that line! Sometimes its good to just sit n watch..cos trying to 'participate' in life all the time can be tiring.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Fingers and why is that? :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Nirmal tnxx!


**why,can,will,if are the words which make our life miserable..

does this post resemble Misery to u? :)



**they give us a feeling that this world is not a better place to live......

to me, if not for those words, Life wud be so empty.


**life is great with and witout some stuffs...

I agree. Im not saying life should have everything.



**be happy is only i can say now..

Do I sound sad? :) Even if I was sad, being happy is not something I can just start to be. Isnt it Nirmal?



Keshi.

Nirmal's Blog said...

***Do I sound sad?

Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?

yes dear u do...or some1 made u sad***

***I agree. Im not saying life should have everything.

look at ur questions ...u want everything in life****

****Even if I was sad, being happy is not something I can just start to be. Isnt it Nirmal?


yup thats very true..one cant pretend..*****

Keshi said...

Hey Nirmal..


**look at ur questions ...u want everything in life

none of these qns say I WANT THIS N THAT. They r just qns. I wonder what made u conclude that I want everything in life. :) Do these qns sound like 'EVERYTHING' in life to u?

These qns suggest alot abt nature and our basic qualities. It dun beckon WANTs.

I dun think u u'stood my post properly. And that Snake qn has nothing to do with my Happiness/Sadness??


Keshi.

Nirmal's Blog said...

yea in many cases....
yes i dont want my love to leave me..
yes i want my loved ones who left me to come back..
yes i want people witout hatred in heart...
yes thats everything for me..

bout understanding i think u r right......as i said earlier too i m bad with serious stuffs...

so no offence...u wrote it with some other dimension and i took it differenty i guess...

Nirmal's Blog said...

but i must admit ....
i admire you for the way u bring out stufs from heart....
same with samby...

i hope some day even i could...

i say i will be thankfull to u when i cud do that......

Keshi said...

**yea in many cases....
yes i dont want my love to leave me..
yes i want my loved ones who left me to come back..
yes i want people witout hatred in heart...
yes thats everything for me..


Well I dun WANT any of them...just that I sometimes WISH for them. There's a slight difference between WANTING and WISHING.


tnxx Nirmal!


Keshi.

Vest said...

Keshi - Love the music.x.

The Artist said...

mirrors many of my thoughts...nice blog

Vest said...

Respect is something we earn. We can't beg, borrow or steal it. It's a process of right doings.

Sweetstickychewy said...

Hi Keshi..

Here are my thoughts and answers to the question. I chose those that appeal to me much.:)

Hope u are going good! *HUGZ*


***Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?

There was a point of time. My nieces’ laughters were my greatest destresser.I look forward to see them everytime.

***When you see a Waterfall, does it make you wonder what your destination might be?

Hmm..When I see a waterfall, I just think its something beautiful. I would wanna wear some white translucent outfit and run myself wet in it acting like I am starring in some movie with the water falling down. A sensual scene somewhat. Haha! A fantasy .:P

***Does a piano melody remind you of a distant unfinished story?

Recently, many times. = ) And I love this question very much.

***How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?

When they make time for me and listen to my heart.

***Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?

Cause as these times I was blind, hurt and dissapointed. I chose to focus on the bad parts of their more than the good part. Hence, leaving me to hurt them in the most petty things that caused them to be wash away much. A lesson learnt.:)

***Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?

Yes I can. And I have once. Who is not really the total opposite but opposite enough. One of the best things tat happened in my life. Acceptance and not ya perceptions is the way to conquer at times.

***Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?

Yes very much. They are my family and friends. People whom I love very much. =)

***Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?

That’s cause all of us are made to be love and to love. We have a vaccum where we search for a feeling many times. We all want to be loved I guess. But some just takes it too far to make it their life’s reason for living.

Keshi said...

ty Vesty!


**Respect is something we earn. We can't beg, borrow or steal it. It's a process of right doings

I know. But self-respect can be protected w.o. having to beg for it. eg: if I walk into someone's house and all they offer me is ABUSE, I'd never visit them again. Self-respect can be preserved by doing that.

:)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Artist WC n ty!

Keshi.

ruSh.Me said...

.can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?
Without Love, the fruits with be a burden... with no soul attached, no part of ur heart inside it..thats would b.....Awe-----ful!!!

why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?
WHen lOve goes away, Poison takes it place!!

Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?
Deja vu!!! :D happens a lot with me...Now i just enjoy it.... stopped questioning.... feels much much better

Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?
Sigh!!! Wonders of Being in Love!!

Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?
Its strange that we do this, coz somewhere we know, deep inside our heart, that these People will stay forever...may be we take them for granted.. we assume, they will never leave us.. we assume that we are them and they are us!!

Umm.... More..may be later...Right now, feel to answers this much only....Love ya...!! keep questioning!!

Keshi said...

ty Amr darlin!

**A sensual scene somewhat.

haha very cute! btw u'd make a beautiful and very sensual actress Amy. Cos u truly FEEL.


**And I love this question very much.

tnxx hun...the other day I was listening to a piano solo, and it took me places, I tell ya!


**When they make time for me and listen to my heart.

thats just a great ans!



**I chose to focus on the bad parts of their more than the good part

so true!


** Acceptance and not ya perceptions is the way to conquer at times.

I love wut u said there.



** But some just takes it too far to make it their life’s reason for living

Spot on and thats when it becomes a misery.


ty sweetie, as usual u excel!

*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Rush.me hows u hun? :)


**with no soul attached, no part of ur heart inside it..thats would b.....Awe-----ful

I agree..


**Now i just enjoy it.... stopped questioning.... feels much much better

good one! just enjoy the moment...yes.



**we assume, they will never leave us.. we assume that we are them and they are us

true..basically they r the only ones we can totally be ourselves with.


Great stuff girl n ty!


Keshi.

fingers said...

I don't have to show the workings for my answers. This isn't 4-unit HSC Maths...

Tarun said...

Phewwwww!!

I run out of breath posting comments on ur past.
Gal u r born to Blog. :D

Anyways I will attain nirvana if I cold answer all of these.

We often (read always) stuggle coz we are not able to face our own conscious and let other things control our thought process rather than being in control of our own thought proces..

It complex,difficult to explain and inderstand.

Ciao,

Keep blogging

Keshi said...

hey Fingers!

**I don't have to show the workings for my answers. This isn't 4-unit HSC Maths

no worries.

btw did I say ur gonna be marked? :)

Its just a discussion but if u dun wanna ans thats fine. yes its entirely upto u.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Tarun!

** let other things control our thought process rather than being in control of our own thought proces

true..very true...


Keshi.

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?
Ohh! that happens wen i see everyone so happy in love and yet m so miserable everytime i i try it

Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?
I just don't kno..may be wen u r being loved and pampered ..you forget the pain that u r in..u find a partner who will always see ur end before judging you..may be we are so afraid of getting judged that we actually need sumone who jus be wid us wen we are actually scared to be judged...


Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?
:| ask cindy..she is on record run :D

Like how the taste of food lasts only while it's in your mouth, are certain feelings just momentary or do they all have deep roots and lasting effects?
every feeling and every moment creates an impact on u..and when it leaves ur side..u actually find a scar in ur heart..and everytime u look on it..u just want to feel its presence back in ur life...


Like a deer among the wolves, does your heart sometimes beat in total fear?
Ahh! Wen my supervisor reaches before me in my department adn he actually rings me up and ask where r u :D?lol


Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?
May be they are too afraid of others that they spit out the poison before anyone can do the same to them..may be sumwhere sumtime they actually felt the venomous situations or may be they grew in such a situation..

If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?
u want me to subside down...that prize was mine cindy and ghosty won by partiality :| I need the glory :|
jus because wen u r glorified..u r loved by all..who even wont had noticed ur presence before :)

Like a dewdrop at the edge of a leaf, does life hang in sheer uncertainity?
nothing is uncertain in life..it's all our action in past and present ..decides the future...the future paths are all predecided... may be clouded yet if u analyse it u will find the paths more clearer..and u may find urself the right path to decide if u can anlayse it perfectly and then u wont find the future an uncertainity...

Does a piano melody remind you of a distant unfinished story?
Yeah! if anyone don't feel that..he must hear Rchard Clayderman once :)
Ballade pour adrenaline..

Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?
May be wen we see other happy we want to feel to live his life..may be that's true for the other person too..because may be we are not satisfied wid our lives :)

Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?
BooooooooOoooooOOO* M scally ghosht :P BooooooOOOOooooOOoo**
I will eat u up sweety candy :P
khikhikhikhi

Just like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted and dizzy?
I m passing through that phase only

Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?
yeah! there are few in bloggerville who were always there with me in bad phases and soothed me up :)

When you see a Waterfall, does it make you wonder what your destination might be?
I wonder... but I wonder also wen i see the bird flying in the sky and Richard gere hooking up wid wid a hooker who is nonetheless JuLia Roberts :P

Like the leaves start to fall in Autumn, do you sometimes fall too?
Seasonal fall! No!!
U can call it the ocassional fall :P

And Just like Spring quietly gives life to nature, do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered?

that's rare..wen u r in highest most education u wont have anyone that in ur life..everyone is either busy or too nerd to be a comforter

Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?
I had this crazy baby laughter in my system and I always used to burst in laughter hearing it :P.it got deleted accidently :( wen I last formatted

Does wrinkly skin and an ailing body of a 95yr old remind you the impermanence of everything?
Yeah!how bad I want to feel that I wont be ever in that phase..but..it never happened and wont ever happen sooner

How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?
U will find that person with you even if you broke his/her heart.. :|

Like when a flower gets plucked from it's tree, do we become 'individuals' as soon as we leave our mothers' wombs?
Nopes ..I am still a mumma's boy :P!!!!

Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?
Wen sumone is sweet to u ..u want him to be sweet always and wen u dont feel that..u start carving for it and eventually u get angry ...and subconciously test that other person whether he is sweeter wen u piss him/her off :)


Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?
It happened several times..but it never lasted long..she always felt that I am smothering and getting overpossesive towards her cause she actually cant feel why i care for her so much..cause she never understood me :)




*hugs*
I feel like crying ..u carved out some lost memory..
:(

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

Howz my new pic :P

Lena said...

**Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?

- sometimes, but then i think about how rest of people see their life passing by and then they are spectators and i am playing some role..

**Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?

- if you believe such love exists then it does..

**Like how the taste of food lasts only while it's in your mouth, are certain feelings just momentary or do they all have deep roots and lasting effects?

-feelings tend to fade away, some sooner, some later, some happen to stay with you forever but only if you /or someone else give them a boost every now and then.

**Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?

- i wish i knew.. but even if i knew i wouldnt be able to change it. it is all in their minds and hearts, we dont have access in there.

**If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?

- We can

**Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?
- Maybe because there has been another life? I might be mad but i believe in reincarnation :)

**Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?
- first of all they are always in our hearts, second, i believe in their presence when we need them... then they are there, maybe not doing anything but guarding us and making sure we are okay


**Just like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted and dizzy?

- Every single day!

** Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?
- just few but i do cherish them :)

**Like the leaves start to fall in Autumn, do you sometimes fall too?

- Dont we all?

**And Just like Spring quietly gives life to nature, do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered?

- every single day!! We dont need words to give someone we love peace and comfort.. we just have to be there..

**How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?

- you just feel it, but only few really do care, truly, loving, unconditionally.

**Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?

- we always tend to hurt people we love the most, the simple reason is that they are there. Were they away they wouldnt be close to us and they wouldnt be hurt by us. paradox.. but thats life...

**Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?

- you dont chose whom to love.. it just happens..

Whitesnake said...

My answers are hidden in my heart mind and soul.

Keshi said...

Sourish I love ur new pic awww...a lil bro with a flower for big sis? :) HUGGGGGGGZ!

So did u really go to the lab or just ans my blog post? LOL! o well, tnxx for taking part! I love to read ur comments.

So u picked all the qns? WOW! Good on ya.


**that happens wen i see everyone so happy in love and yet m so miserable everytime i i try it

aww...but it happens to me too. Also, I see my friends getting hitched, some falling in love, some getting divorced, some having babies, some working hard to achieve high career standards, some travelling, some doing this and that etc etc...but Im just watching..watching all of em...Im standing still. And I like it.



**we actually need sumone who jus be wid us wen we are actually scared to be judged...

u may be right...but I get so annoyed when some ppl whinge abt not having a partner or judge me for not having a partner..as if it's a MUST.



**and when it leaves ur side..u actually find a scar in ur heart..and everytime u look on it..u just want to feel its presence back in ur life

thats so true...awww.


**Wen my supervisor reaches before me in my department adn he actually rings me up and ask where r u

haha!



**May be they are too afraid of others that they spit out the poison before anyone can do the same to them..may be sumwhere sumtime they actually felt the venomous situations or may be they grew in such a situation

I really love that ans from ya!



**scally ghosht

LOL haha!



**Richard gere hooking up wid wid a hooker who is nonetheless JuLia Roberts

hehehehe..



**I am still a mumma's boy

ur a darlin I just knew it!




**and getting overpossesive towards her cause she actually cant feel why i care for her so much..cause she never understood me

aww she must be crazy..I mean look what she's missing! :)


aww dun cry now..Im sorry if it digged a painful past. *HUGZ*


ty so much Sourish U ROCK!

Keshi.

fingers said...

I'd prefer not to go into detail at this point in time...

Keshi said...

hey Lena tnxx hun!


**but then i think about how rest of people see their life passing by and then they are spectators and i am playing some role

so true!



** We can

yes we can..but not all of us can.



**- Every single day!

aww really Lena? HUGZ!



**We dont need words to give someone we love peace and comfort.. we just have to be there..

Spot on!


**you dont chose whom to love.. it just happens..

beautiful!



tnxx Lena MWAH!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

k Steve HUGZ!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

k Fingers no worries at all. Plz know that Im not forcing anyone to ans here.

Keshi.

tulipspeaks said...

Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?

I felt that way, not once or twice but for couple of years! Its pathetic. I know. But over the years, watching people playing only made me a better player. Yes, I have started my game now and I know I will be the one snatching the trophy in the end!



Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?

Because we live in a society and some lives for the society. it is societal norm to settle down with 'the one' and it is something expected of you, whether you like it or not.


Can there be a love so inseparable just.... like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?

It does exist, Keshi but like the Sumatran Rhino, it is going towards extinction.


If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?

Simply because we are not trees :). Desires for glory is like programmed into us. Only few manage to refute the cravings, most of us has failed.



Just like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted and dizzy?

Indeed. Especially when I lose focus. I don't like it though. It makes me feel incompetent and handicapped.



Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?

No. I got to soothe my heart myself! :P



How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?

When he/she is there for me regardless the ups & downs. But Keshi, apart from Mom & Sis, I don't think anyone has done that for me till today. If I am the sky, they are my clouds.



Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?

Because we treat them just like how we treat ourselves. We do punish ourself when we did something inappropriate. And when it comes to our loved ones, we just fail to see them as 'others'.


Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?

Yes. I am capable of that. And I am capable of burning myself to ashes lightening people's life as well. All for the name of love.


Been a very long time since I wrote anything this long in your comment box. Missing the old times..


hugssss!!!


ammu.

Keshi said...

heyy Ammu I missed ya! *HUGZ*

Loved ur answers hun. As usual very smart n straight from the heart too.


**Yes, I have started my game now and I know I will be the one snatching the trophy in the end!

admire ur courage and anticipation!


**but like the Sumatran Rhino, it is going towards extinction.

haha love it! mine is more like the Dinosaurs..fossils :)



** Desires for glory is like programmed into us

very true.


**If I am the sky, they are my clouds.

that so honestly said! I feel like crying now...cos my mum n sis r the same to me. they somehow deal with me.


**And when it comes to our loved ones, we just fail to see them as 'others'

so true! Ammu, very well-said hun.


** And I am capable of burning myself to ashes lightening people's life as well. All for the name of love.

aww dun I know that! *HUGZ*



yes I miss the good ol time too :(


Keshi.

The Grunt said...

I have been on the outside looking in and I have had life pass me by. I have also been so immersed in the now that I lost myself in the work. Each one of those situations taught me something--sometimes good and sometimes bad. Which one of those do I prefer. It think the last one. That was when I was in the dedicated service of others without profit for a couple of years. It would be hard to do that your whole life without donations.

Keshi said...

ty Grunty!

As usual, very honest.


**That was when I was in the dedicated service of others without profit for a couple of years

I admire that quality in ya. *HUGZ*


Keshi.

Anjuli said...

lovely thoughts Keshi.....

Sun Follower said...

I love that when I open your blog there is music playing from the video you post... only I wish this one had subtitles - but the visual said a lot.

Keshi said...

ty Anjuli!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww SunFollower Im so happy that u like Sinhalese music.

I can translate it for ya..let me try my best ok :) Hang ten.


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

PREETI said...

hey keshi darlin!here i am REALLY late tho!my 2 cents worth on watever i cn relate to:

1. Well for the first one, i actually most of the times feel like im the only one in the race while the entire fuckin world is standin still n scrutinizing me...im the one in the game while the others r the spectators...

2.its not an obsession, its a compulsion...to remove loneliness n to feel secure...not cravin love is idealistic nt pragmatic...i cn never be saintly enough not to accept in return...a lil somethin i NEED...as food for thought to feel NEEDED!

3.About the moon comin out at nite, i wonder everytime whr dead ppl would go...not only when faced with death but even otherwise...itz a mystery to me...n it scares me kinda but i cnt stop thinkin abt it...

4. n YES, everytime i look at a waterfall, i always always wonder whr im gonna fall...whr n how im gonna end up...just another splash in the ocean or that one lucky drop tat hangs onto a leaf making it look beatiful!

phew! lotz more thinkin to be done on the others...

luv ya gurl...muah!

Keshi said...

Meaning of this song, especially for SunFollower:


Girl:
Unmaada wu...Premaadare
Samanala Vasantha Yavvunaye

This msyetrious Love
In this beautiful butterfly-like youth...


Boy:
Sansaaraye...Subha Prarthana
Indunil dhenayana satahan we...

Those beauiful hopes of many lifetimes
Are engraved in those deep deep eyes...



Boy:
Rala pela kelamabe...
Hasagana vilase

The waves dance about
Just like a gracfeul swan

dhavanata sudu mudu pahasa labedho...

Will my burning heart get some cool water's touch...


Girl:
Oba hadhawatha ma handuna gath se
Ma hadhawatha oba handuna ganeedho..

Like how I recognised your heart
Would u recoginise mine too?


Boy:
Kinduru kodhewwe...kasun kumariakawe
Sayuru therin sanghawee aawadho

Hey beautiful princess
Did u appear from the sea?


Girl:
Chanda maaruthey..Indra kheelyak lese
Nosali innnata varam labedho

Like a beacon that never dies
Would we be able to live forever?



Sansaaraye.. ... ...

Unmaada wu.. ... ...




Keshi.

Enigma said...

Intresting questions that make me think....:)

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

That's not a flowell u duffel :P

it iz an ichhe cleam..that I am showing to u and keeping an eye on it..so that u don't snatch up from me :P

I love ichhe cleam :P

khikhikhi...

I can give u a hug instead :|

*hugz*

Thanks for answering those in ur views....
I always loved ur replies to the comments

u r a sweetheart :)
*2 hugz*

AmitL said...

Hi,Keshi..let me answer some of them.:)
--
Yes, I do feel I'm watching life as it passes by-and,am happy to feel like a spectator,sometimes.
It's great fun!
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hehe..I wonder,too,why some people are so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage.
--
Love-inseparable like mountains and mists?In previous generations,yes...in today's-perhaps not!!
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Like a deer among wolves...hehe...well,not yet-no such 'beating'.
--
I wonder the same-why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?Answer is probably because the way they've come up in life,there've only been obstacles and disappointments.
--
Whew-answers part 2,follows later.:)

AmitL said...

-If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?
Ans: It's our inborn nature,our craving for recognition that makes us do this.
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Like a dewdrop at the edge of a leaf, does life hang in sheer uncertainity?
Ans:Yes,indeed-here today,gone tomorrow!!!!:)
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Does a piano melody remind you of a distant unfinished story?
Ans:No,not really!
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Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?
Ans: Yes,this happens often enough with me- I guess it's coz I've seen the same people/events in a dream some time back..I can almost predict what happens next,in some cases.
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Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?
Ans: Aah-reincarnation...I don't really believe in it.Or,it's like Ripley's 'believe it or not'
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Just like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted an[Photo]d dizzy?
Ans: hehe...yes,I have migraine headaches,you see...and,sinusitis too!
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Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?
Ans: Yes,this category includes all jolly,smiley people,including you!
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When you see a Waterfall, does it make you wonder what your destination might be?
Ans:Nah-I prefer to admire the beauty of the waterfall and wish I could be standing under that cool shower.
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Like the leaves start to fall in Autumn, do you sometimes fall too?
Ans: hehehe...only in my own eyes,if I do something I regret.
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And Just like Spring quietly gives life to nature, do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered?
Ans: Oh,yesssssss!
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Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?
Ans:No,but,it does make me smile due to it's sheer innocence.
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Does wrinkly skin and an ailing body of a 95yr old remind you the impermanence of everything?
Answer:No-it makes me think how lucky they are to have enjoyed life so fully!
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How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?
Ans: Instinct.(The same instinct for knowing when someone doesnt care,too!:))
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Like when a flower gets plucked from it's tree, do we become 'individ[Photo]uals' as soon as we leave our mothers' wombs?
Ans: We should,but,we don't..some remain tied to apron strings for years.
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Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?
Answer:Worry not-it happens to the best of us...it's just the mood at that moment which gets reflected in behaviour.
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Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?
Ans: Yes,indeedy-opposites attract,as they say!!

Whew-that was a toughie,for sure..haven't answered so many questions since I was in Class XII.

black coffee said...

"Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?"

Yes I can. I have too. And i guess i will always.
The first 18 years of my life i have always thought i had spent waiting for him. The next 4 years i have spent waiting for him to realise just how much he means to me. Maybe i will have to wait some more. But i have chosen to do this. Wait. And while i am doin the waiting i thot i'd as well make his life brighter cos heaven knows he has seen the darkest of times!

I have fought with myself and i am no pious soul, i tell you. Sometimes the selfish part of me thinks its unfair to myself that i just give and give.
But a smile on his lips and that look in his eyes makes every bit of pain so worth it. Just so he has some light!

Well, my guy is no fool. He has some issues and the end of the dark tunnel i wil still be waiting with my love as a flickering candle. Its only his love for me that would brighten our lives. For i believe his love is as immeasurable as mine is for him!

Thanks Keshi for making me realise yet again, that giving is much more than receiving!

SamY said...

** Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?

Helpless?? Sometimes

** Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?

whats wrong with that ... mebbe they can't just as yet see beyond that ... when they do they will

** Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted

Yes. But everything that has a beginning has an end. In one form or another. But I guess love can last as long as ones breath.

** Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?

Circumstances / Influences in their life.

** Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?

In our sweet memories ;)

** Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?

Mum :), to begin with

** Like the leaves start to fall in Autumn, do you sometimes fall too?

We all fall only to rise again. Raising wouldn't be fun if we never fell :)

** Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?

Whats more addictive that those?

** How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?

Never. It is only a perception. Just trust your feelings.

** Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?

Some of those are the ones who stick with us no matter was. But I too have this question in my mind :(. Even though it was just once.

** an you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?

Opposites attract. Isn't it so?

vishesh said...

i too have the same questions...

gunj said...

for any of those questions...do u think ppl are left with any ability to think wen they are faced with those situations??
also, dont they simply follow their heart sooner or later??
or do u think jus anybody will hav d perfect answers??

Niyara - Asian Rocxs said...

*Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?*

Yes, you tap into a new and opposite part of yourself, bringing up something bright and fresh and offering this new kind of love and understanding to the opposite. its a love of the brightest light coz its shone on darkness.

SwAtI said...

Hey Keshi,

How r u doing?
Guess m a bit late here. Nevertheless, I would love to attempt answering these questions.
Because these questions that have come from the depths of your soul have touched the depths of mine. :)

**Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?
I have lived with this feeling for the last three years..dunno what else to say.. but your question wonderfully sums up what i feel.. and m looking for an answer as to why it is so..

**Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?
To me, this looked like two different questions. I mite be wrong but i'll answer it the way I look at it.
I think it is our basic need to be loved & to love(most of us prefer it in this order). Of course, one can attain the level of personal fulfillment whereby giving takes precedence over demanding love.
But it surely doesn't come easy.
The second part is why are people obsessed with finding love & marriage. This happens when a want for love turns into an obsession.
Very often the obsession is driven by societal reasons or peer pressure.

**Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?
Yes..infact, this is the meaning of love. I have probably not experienced in this manner but I am sure it does exist..in some or the other form.
It is not just about love between a man & a woman..but could be the love between a mother and her child..
or a devotee's love for God... or love that carries no name..

I had written few words on love.. just putting it down here
"...love remains n it should!!! Isnt that what love is all about??
Loving an individual always...till your last breath.. the expressions can change, the circumstances may differ..proximity might disappear.. other emotions might takeover our senses n mind..
but Love remains..right? Quietly sitting in the corner of the heart.. beautiful..pure n unfazed..
That is love.... i guess!!!"

**Like how the taste of food lasts only while it's in your mouth, are certain feelings just momentary or do they all have deep roots and lasting effects?
This is a tough one to answer. As the taste of food often lingers in my mouth till much later...so does the effect of my feelings & emotions :)

**Like a deer among the wolves, does your heart sometimes beat in total fear?
Yes... I am often haunted by the fear of losing my loved ones..
And at times..the fear of losing myself...

**Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?
Wish I could answer that... Its a matter of one's perspective towards life, circumstances, pain, relationships..
Some people choose to see only the wrong...feel only the wrong...and give only on the wrong..


**If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?
This happens coz the reason in 'giving' is actually not "giving" selflessly... but an ulterior motive of earning something bigger thru the process of giving..

**Like a dewdrop at the edge of a leaf, does life hang in sheer uncertainity?
Absolutely... Life is synonymous for uncertainty...

**Does a piano melody remind you of a distant unfinished story?
A beautiful soft piece of music reminds me of a lot of things.. a distant unfinished story..?? i really dont know what that would mean..
but it reminds of my unfulfilled desires & ambitions..my longings & my fears...


**Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?
I believe in Karma or Karmic connections.. This soul has travelled through lifetimes..
The connections of the soul can only be felt...it is something the mind & heart can never comprehend.

**Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?
As I said I believe in Karma.. It is very likely that we come across the same soul again in this lifetime..
But only if we could realise it...

**Just like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted and dizzy?
Yes... I am going through this phase right now..

**Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?
Yeah...My mum :) Noone else can do that for me..

**When you see a Waterfall, does it make you wonder what your destination might be?
I definitely wonder about my destination... my purpose in life.. but the feeling isnt stirred by a waterfall..
well...actually i haven't seen a waterfall yet..only in pictures :)

**Like the leaves start to fall in Autumn, do you sometimes fall too?
Yes.. I have fallen.. but i view it is as an opportunity to renew myself..rejuvenate..recuperate and move ahead to better & brighter things in life with a more determined attitude...

**And Just like Spring quietly gives life to nature, do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered?
Unfortunately, I never got such friends in life... who could do this for me.. I'll always miss having this feeling..

**Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?
Oh yes!! Nothing can cheer me up better than being with my nephews & nieces..their laughter tops the list :)

**Does wrinkly skin and an ailing body of a 95yr old remind you the impermanence of everything?
Ummm...Yes...
But to me..Death reminds me of the impermanence of life..

**How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?
I really wouldnt know this... BUt I so wish I could..

**Like when a flower gets plucked from it's tree, do we become 'individuals' as soon as we leave our mother's wombs?
Tough one...
When we leave our mother's wombs.. we gain a physical existence..But it takes such a lot to become an individual...
a flower naturally develops its own color & fragrance.. but do we gain our own individuality so easily and naturally..
its probably too philosophical..but that's how i feel...


**Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?
Though it is hardly intentional...but it happens coz somewhere deep down..I know that they are the only ones who would understand me even if m totally unreasonable..and foolish..and wrong..

**Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?
yes I would.. I have tried it for a few people..who are absolutely unlike me..but it dint bear the desired results..
But I would consider my existence fulfilled if I could manage to help someone in this way..

Alok said...

"Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part? - sometimes it is better not to sum up life but see how it shaped up all thru these years ... and then perhaps rejoice a little and lament a little and marvel at it's compexity ...

Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted? - yes the love of the parents in most cases .. it is unconditional


TC

Alok

KP! said...

oh well...only thing i can say keshi..u have point...but i guess everyone is different..u just cant change some people...
As I always say...Everyone is right in their own right...:).

Fliss and Mike Adventures said...

Just stumbled across your site... very interesting questions... makes one thing... take care

Ria said...

Well these are some of the very pertinent questions of life and i wish to answer all of them.So here they are:
1. Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?

A.Yes, there are moments when i jus sit back and introspect abt life and thts when i feel like i m the only spectator!I also wonder at times if i m the only one or do other ppl also feel the same.

2. Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?

A. Very nice question....but even i dont hav an answer to this coz i too wud like to knw y is so much of importance given to marriage, as if thts the only purpose in ppl's life!!

3. Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?

A. Yes its very rare but very much possible. Like a mother's love for a child is unconditional.

4. Like how the taste of food lasts only while it's in your mouth, are certain feelings just momentary or do they all have deep roots and lasting effects?

A. There r some feelings which r like fleeting thoughts and not all are deep rooted!I feel so coz human beings tend to be shallow by nature.

5. Like a deer among the wolves, does your heart sometimes beat in total fear?

A. Oh yeah absolutely it happens to me manytimes!at times i feel i m a total misfit in this world.or may be i belong to the 14th century.

6. Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?

A. I feel there mus b some reason, certain circumstances which make a person bitter about life and towards others. A person simply cannot be bitter jus like tht!

7. If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?

A. There r noble souls do things and don't expect any kind of fame to follow them. Its more of personal satisfaction that one shud help others for.i believe ppl who do it for glory do not mean it!

8. Like a dewdrop at the edge of a leaf, does life hang in sheer uncertainity?

A. Oh definitely i feel life is always so uncertain. We mortal beings hav no control over what turn will life take all of a sudden.

9. Does a piano melody remind you of a distant unfinished story?

A. Yes since i m such a sentimental person there r times when i m reminded of some unfinished stories when i hear a melody.

10. Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?

A. Thats probably a Deja Vu kinda feelin that ppl go thru and i hav no explanation for this coz i hav gone thru this and i m still searching for an answer.

11. Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?

A. I havnt gone thru any such instance but i believe that sometimes certain qualities of a person do remind u of a departed soul and it leaves one with a strange unknown feeling.

12. Just like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted and dizzy?

A. I often get this dream of falling from a spiral staircase and i hav realised its when something is not quite right tht i get such a dream.

13. Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?

A. In my life its my parents, my brother and my guy who give me such a feeling. I am way too dependent on them!!

14. When you see a Waterfall, does it make you wonder what your destination might be?

A. Yes i hav often wondered whts my purpose of existence...but i feel its an ongoing process....

15. Like the leaves start to fall in Autumn, do you sometimes fall too?

A. Yes i have fallen many times and i have been lucky enuff to have ppl in my life who have picked me up everytime i have fallen!

16. Just like Spring quietly gives life to nature, do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered?

A. Believe me thts the best form of friendship when not a word needs to be spoken....only silence speaks.

17. Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?

A. Yes a child's laughter is so innocent and its the most unadulterated thing in the world!!

18. Does wrinkly skin and an ailing body of a 95yr old remind you the impermanence of everything?

A. Yes thats y they say one shud never be too proud of ones looks coz thats something that god has given u.

19. How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?

A. Every relationship is based on trust and faith!So the test of a relationship is when bad times come and if somebody is there by ur side then one can expect that person to be truly caring.

20. Like when a flower gets plucked from it's tree, do we become 'individuals' as soon as we leave our mothers' wombs?

A. Not really infact i feel v remain attached to our parents for a very longtime in life where as if u go to see the animals, they bcome individuals much sooner than us!

21.Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?

A. That is bcoz we take the ppl in our life for granted and hence v do tend to be harsh to them, although v may not mean it!

22. Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?

A. Yes i believe in opposites attract...but i m not too sure of how long wud such a relationship last! :)

This was one of the longest answer i hav given.

Ghost Particle said...

//Like a dewdrop at the edge of a leaf, does life hang in sheer uncertainity?//
Everything else are just images of mirrors, fragile. But can be changed. Life, and death are the same images without the mirror, they face each other. :)

I want to answer them all, but you have answers for them in the question itself. Some of us share the same path, same plan, same destiny. We just follow different times and different styles. :)

'We'll wait for our fate because nobody owns us'...the lyrics from MLTR Someday.

I dunno how to tell, how special you are and how good a writer and human you are. But you are Kesh. :)

Impressionist said...

well, those are some Million dollar questions!

-I

Cinderella. said...

Girl...you speak of things all over again that have been runnin on mind...

i have been thinking about these things since quite sometime now... When I broke up wit my all my best frens, in quick succession, and was suddenly left alone stranded in the midst of nowhere...
At this point of time I have no one I can call my frens..not even one I would want to hang out with, or go shopping or do girlie talk...

I dont even know whether i have gotten over the loss or not, coz sometimes I feel that was for the good, and at times I fail to notice any good at all....

I am just living. Trying to find happiness in the things that I have, rather than brooding over what I dont or how someone who I loved and trusted wronged me or how I dint get the kind of love I would have liked better....

And all these questions just give me a sense of deja vu...

Just take care.
And remember we've been given a life so we could live it, not waste it away in sighs and tears.


**hugs**

Solitaire said...

"Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?"

No Keshi, I do not. That is because I feel like I am the only one playing this game fair. I climb mountains, I fall, I scrape myself, I stand up, bleed, cry, get frustrated, self-motivate, move ahead, and eventually collapse. And everyone else around me is my audience.


These are some great questions. So beautifully put too. Very thought-provoking. I especially like the impermanence one.

Alok said...

There are multitudes of questions here and they don't seem to be associated with only one topic, so I'll just answer my favourite one:

Does a piano melody remind you of a distant unfinished story?

Yes it does, and not only that, sincere music makes me feel emotions in a way nothing else can. Because good music carries a part of the artist's soul.

Die Muräne said...

Cool Keshi! :)

I very often ask myself questions like that. Or find myself watching people and think I'm watching ants. Ants running around, doing there things. And I wonder what that think, or better if they think. then I often feel a little bit guilty ;)

anyway, after all I think, it's good if these questions are coming up. but in the very end they need no answer

Gonecase said...

Man ! So many philosophical posts these days...this one's deep girl, good one :)

carolinagal said...

**Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?**

The answer is Yes. And the reason is the same for why a snake carries poison in its fangs. Its a defense mechanism!! The psychological term for such behavior is 'Projection'. Some people do so because they are truly unhappy with their own lives. They are so insecure with themselves, that the only way they can somehow rationalize their own shitty lives is by putting others down. Until there is a 'Utopia', there will always be such people around. The only positive side to this is that such people make us realize how lucky we are that we are so different from them. Its like you have to see the bad side of someone to realize your own good self.

carolinagal said...

Also, there was a typo in my answer to the first question. I meant to say 'Stock Marketer', not 'Stock Market'.

Nora said...

Thinking of you. x

Nora

carolinagal said...

**Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?**
I'm not sure hon. I don't believe in re-incarnations. But I do believe they might show up in your dreams. Some day you might meet someone that looks like a long-lost loved one, or maybe talks like that person, and you are instantly reminded of that person. You might be reminded of them when you visit places that you visited when you were once with them. You might be reminded of them when you are listening to a song, or watching a movie. The memories that the sweet loved ones leave behind are sometimes so real that you might feel that they are with you once again.

**Just like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted and dizzy?**
Absolutely!! And when that happens, one can only hope that there are loved ones around to support us and help us get through the twisty stage, just like a spiral stair-case with its hand-rails.

fingers said...

I'm just playing with ya, baby.
I don't know why I'm a lemon tree.
I just am...

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Shionge said...

Piano melody makes me wanna cry yes alot of unfinished 'business'.... ;')

Beach Bum said...

Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?

Yes, listening to kids play and laugh is the best thing in the world.

Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?

I'm a little worried about my aunt who was married to my uncle that passed away in February. I've heard she is not sleeping well and they had that kind of love.

Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?

Okay, that gets sticky. My wife and I are opposites and to be perfectly honest the glue that hold us together is our kids. For some other couple it might work but we are just getting by.

Dawn....सेहर said...

Keshi dear...indeed a nice post and all of your questions are awesome!
*why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?

True, I always ask this question as some people they show as if they dont have any grudges but inside the venom is so deep rooted that they keep planning how to harm others.
its very sad....!
I am in rush but would hv loved to answer all :)
So true n factual to life
Cheers

Keshi said...

heyy Preeti how goes it? :)


** i actually most of the times feel like im the only one in the race while the entire fuckin world is standin still n scrutinizing me

nice turnaround of that qn...loved it. I can see what u mean....this qn can be viewed in 2 ways..depending on what u see LIFE as.


**...as food for thought to feel NEEDED!


yes every human has that need. Cos we r all beings of love...looking for love, giving love, longing to be loved. But I wanna break away from that boring cycle.. :)




**just another splash in the ocean or that one lucky drop tat hangs onto a leaf making it look beatiful!

beautiful thought Preeti.


*HUGZ* n ty!


Keshi.

George said...

I think that all of your questions have the answers right inside them, part of the question. We wouldn't be human id we didn't have many of those things within us.

Keshi said...

ty Enigma :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Sourish!

**ichhe cleam

LOL awww...ok then. Me ur blind big sis na hehehehehe.

Cute isssshe cleammm :):)


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

vEENs said...

I wrote a long one here :(

unfortunately... my comp got stuck and i lost everything :(

i will cme back and reply later :(

Sorry

Keshi said...

hey AmitL tnxx!

**-inseparable like mountains and mists?In previous generations,yes...in today's-perhaps not!!

I agree. My mum n dad fell in love and got married against a higly turbulent situation from both sides...but they somehow got married (being Tamil and Sinhalese too) :). U rarely find that kind of love these days.



**well,not yet-no such 'beating'.

so u've never had any fears? Im glad! :)



**it makes me think how lucky they are to have enjoyed life so fully!

yes true...but then again when its our turn to get wrinkly skin, I wonder of we'd feel the same way :) And how wud u know if they 'enjoyed' life or they just lived longer? A long life doesnt necessairly mean they enjoyed life..does it?



**haven't answered so many questions since I was in Class XII.


hehe AmitL as I said in the post, u cud choose any number of qns u liked to ans - even just 1...u didnt HAVE to ans ALL of em :)


tnxx anyways!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Black_Coffee hey WC n tnxx for sharing ur story with me. I was really touched by ur love for him. Amazing!


**He has some issues and the end of the dark tunnel i wil still be waiting with my love as a flickering candle

beautiful! When Love takes over, nothing else matters. u proved it.


*HUGZ* n all the best!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Samy tnxx!


**whats wrong with that ... mebbe they can't just as yet see beyond that ... when they do they will

o cmon did I say it's WRONG? Altho an obesession is unhealthy.


**But everything that has a beginning has an end. In one form or another. But I guess love can last as long as ones breath

beautiful!



**Opposites attract. Isn't it so?

not always Samy..I mean I still HATE all terrorists :) wut d u say abt that?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehe Vish got bored with my post didnt ya? LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Gunj!


**...do u think ppl are left with any ability to think wen they are faced with those situations??

nope. I didnt say that did I? :) besides I myself hv been in these very sistuations..hence the qns and no answers.


**also, dont they simply follow their heart sooner or later??
or do u think jus anybody will hav d perfect answers??

huh :):) I didnt say I was looking for the PERFECT ans, did I? All I said was ans if u want to.


I dunno why...somehow this post got some ppl really irritated. And some ppl judged me and concluded that I must be thinking Im so perfect hence the qns etc. But wut they failed to see was that these were qns that rose from my own self, my own experiences...i.o.w. I myself am the doer of some of these statements. These r not what I WANT in others as some ppl claimed.


tnxx!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Niyara!

**bringing up something bright and fresh and offering this new kind of love and understanding to the opposite

how beautiful! ty sweetz.


Keshi.

Ankur said...

@Keshi

No need to put that disclaimer keshigirl, we know, its not demanding, so whosoever has said, interpreted it wrongly... we know u :)

**I didnt say life IS a game..I only compared it to a game being watched hehe.

wow... nice way round :P lolzzz
btw, watching it as a game, doesnt it makes looking at it as a game???

**its a nice feeling yes...but being obsessed abt LOVE n Marriage is altogether another thing

i know, and but i never felt that obsession ever... :|

still i believe marriage as an institution is a great bonding

**really? awww...

really yaa, isnt it like sometimes when u meet few ppl, u think u know them, somehow, or may be theres some connection... i dont know an answer to this!!!

**that qn wasnt necessarily abt Death.
i know, but this is wat i think of it :) :D

**Then why is ur ans to another qn reads 'We r selfish'? :)

Keshigirl, isnt there a lot of difference in being selfish and individuals...
i do find a lot of difference. I think in selfishness still u do think abt others, even when u r thinking abt ur family, ur kid, ur parents, friends, partner... one can be so selfish, but one cant be an individual then... but when u r an individual, u only think abt urself, its more than selfishnesss, its more of obesession...
I am glad u asked me this :)

I wanted to answer lot of those with more detail, but i knew it would be really tough for u... :D

**The truth is always outstanding, isnt it Ankur? :)

Thats wat i m sayin Keshigirl, when its outstanding, how r u gonna choose among those, and dont take this offensive... i just mean to ask, everyones life experiences are important and outstanding to them, and it depends on circumstances and situations... so how can one take precedence over other?

And i dont write here to win any competition, otherwise i would have written better answers making up... this is again related to ur disclaimer... keshigirl, the biggest thing is that u provoke so many thoughts in me... and u make me think more than i do... :)

otherwise i would have won it long back... :D lolzzz

Keep Smiling Keshigirl!!!

Cheers!!!

Keshi said...

aww ty Swati! And u look so beautiful in that pic. *HUGZ*


**). Of course, one can attain the level of personal fulfillment whereby giving takes precedence over demanding love.

very true...



**This happens when a want for love turns into an obsession.
Very often the obsession is driven by societal reasons or peer pressure.

thats exactly wut I meant.



**"...love remains n it should!!! Isnt that what love is all about??

So true! beautifully stated Swati.



**As the taste of food often lingers in my mouth till much later...so does the effect of my feelings & emotions

very well-said! Its not easy for emotions to get erased.



**I am often haunted by the fear of losing my loved ones..

me too Swati...thats my BIGGEST fear. I know its a very human fear...but I dunno how to fight it. Sometimes I imagine my mum dying and cover my head n tremble!



**but it reminds of my unfulfilled desires & ambitions..my longings & my fears...

true..I just get lost in music...



**actually i haven't seen a waterfall yet..only in pictures

really? aww..then u should go to Sri Lanka..it's full of beautiful Waterfalls.



**we gain a physical existence..But it takes such a lot to become an individual...

WOW Swati that was a unique view of this qn! Loved it.



** have tried it for a few people..who are absolutely unlike me..but it dint bear the desired results..

me too..I hv tried n tried n tried...but it didnt end up in that person loving me and appreciating me the same way. It hurts. But I cant be someone else...so I continue to be me.



*HUGZ* n ty for answering all the qns!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Alok!

**sometimes it is better not to sum up life but see how it shaped up all thru these years

yes but does that qn pose as a miserable view of life? I hope not :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty KP!


**but i guess everyone is different..u just cant change some people...
As I always say...Everyone is right in their own right.


Did I say I was perfect and all the others are imperfect? These were some qns abt me as well.

Im surprised that alot of ppl thought that these were my WANTs and that Impointing fingers at others. Strange!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

WC Fliss n ty!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Ria!

Im glad that u see these qns as common qns to ALL of us and that u didnt choose to judge ME like some ppl did here. *rolling eyes*



**...when i feel like i m the only spectator!I also wonder at times if i m the only one or do other ppl also feel the same.

there r alot of you Ria :) like me hehe.


**...y is so much of importance given to marriage, as if thts the only purpose in ppl's life!!

yes..and I find ppl ard me going crazy cos they hvnt found THE ONE. Listening to em gives me a headache.



**Yes its very rare but very much possible. Like a mother's love for a child is unconditional.

true...




**There r some feelings which r like fleeting thoughts and not all are deep rooted!I feel so coz human beings tend to be shallow by nature.

true...




**Oh yeah absolutely it happens to me manytimes!at times i feel i m a total misfit in this world.or may be i belong to the 14th century.

haha me too hun! Its like 'who am I, who r these ppl, why r they so weird?' :)



**I feel there mus b some reason, certain circumstances which make a person bitter about life and towards others. A person simply cannot be bitter jus like tht!

true...there's a reason behind everything.

**Yes since i m such a sentimental person there r times when i m reminded of some unfinished stories when i hear a melody.

ty, Im no more alone :)



**I often get this dream of falling from a spiral staircase and i hav realised its when something is not quite right tht i get such a dream.

really? WOW thats interesting. Its like how I sometimes get a vision that lasts for abt 5seconds...it's a vision of me having a car-crash and dying. I even blogged abt it long time ago. I get this vision since I was abt 7yrs old...



**In my life its my parents, my brother and my guy who give me such a feeling. I am way too dependent on them!!

wonderful to hear that Ria.




**Yes i hav often wondered whts my purpose of existence...but i feel its an ongoing process....

true...life is a journey w.o. a destination.



**Believe me thts the best form of friendship when not a word needs to be spoken....only silence speaks.

true!




**Yes thats y they say one shud never be too proud of ones looks coz thats something that god has given u.

true..and with time, looks fade away...



**Not really infact i feel v remain attached to our parents for a very longtime in life where as if u go to see the animals, they bcome individuals much sooner than us!

Wonderful ans!



**Yes i believe in opposites attract...but i m not too sure of how long wud such a relationship last!

hehe true..depends on the depth of the Love isnt it.


ty for ur time and efforts...good one hun HUGZ!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyyyya Ghosty how goes it? :)


**Life, and death are the same images without the mirror, they face each other.

WOW so beautifully stated! U r something Ghosty!



**Some of us share the same path, same plan, same destiny. We just follow different times and different styles

so true...


**'We'll wait for our fate because nobody owns us'

wow thats some really profound lyrics there.


ty n HUGZ matey!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

not really Impressionist..some ppl got irritated with me and started asking me if I think Im perfect. :):) I really didnt intend to give that impression tho.




Keshi.

Keshi said...

Cindy luv HUGZ!


**When I broke up wit my all my best frens, in quick succession, and was suddenly left alone stranded in the midst of nowhere...

omg ur life is so like mine! I dun hv MANY friends too..only 2 best friends...and they r now far away from me..one lives in Turkey and another lives in Brisbane.

The others r all angry with me LOL!


**At this point of time I have no one I can call my frens..not even one I would want to hang out with, or go shopping or do girlie talk

me too! I dun go out much at all...suddenly it seems my friends-circle has died. I swear! It's been like this for few years now and Im quite immune to it now. I hv learnt to live this way and now it has become my life.


Wutever it is, Im glad I found this Blogville..or else I'd feel awfully lonely. And another reason why I dun wanna call/meet some blog friends is cos Im scared that I'll lose em too..like I lost some of my real life friends. Some r'ships r better off left at it's original state.


*HUGZ* n ty!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Solitaire MWAH!


**No Keshi, I do not. That is because I feel like I am the only one playing this game fair. I climb mountains, I fall, I scrape myself, I stand up, bleed, cry, get frustrated, self-motivate, move ahead, and eventually collapse. And everyone else around me is my audience.


OMG thats really a very unique and great ans hun! Never thought abt it that way before. U ROCK n ty!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Murane tnxx mate!

**Ants running around, doing there things. And I wonder what that think, or better if they think. then I often feel a little bit guilty

OMG I feel like that too! I look at ppl (including myself) and wonder if we like lil ants..running, hurrying, racing, surviving....


**need no answers

yes ur right! some qns hv no answers anyways.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Alok :)

**Yes it does, and not only that, sincere music makes me feel emotions in a way nothing else can. Because good music carries a part of the artist's soul.

ty! And thats exactly how I feel too.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty GC :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyyy Carolinagal!


**Its a defense mechanism!! The psychological term for such behavior is 'Projection'. Some people do so because they are truly unhappy with their own lives. They are so insecure with themselves, that the only way they can somehow rationalize their own shitty lives is by putting others down. Until there is a 'Utopia', there will always be such people around.


WOW thats a very good analysis of it. Yes its a Defense Mechanism. Just like animals.



**The only positive side to this is that such people make us realize how lucky we are that we are so different from them. Its like you have to see the bad side of someone to realize your own good self.

So true!

Lovely ans there hun.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Carolinagal abt the typo :)



**Some day you might meet someone that looks like a long-lost loved one, or maybe talks like that person, and you are instantly reminded of that person.

so true...even some songs/smells/colors remind me of some loved-ones...



**just like a spiral stair-case with its hand-rails.


So true! Lovely comparison again.


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Nora luv!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehe Fingers I know :)

now can u give me some lemons plz?


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Mel will do :)


** This will ensure a tremendous surge in the number of traffic and viewers in our respective blogs. Do this and see how traffic and viewership figures in your blog increase exponentially.


hehe Mel Im not interested in increasing blog Traffic at all. I blog for different reasons.


Anyways tnxx!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww HUGZ Shionge!

Keshi.

Blessed said...

Guess who is alive????
yep that be me!
Hi Miss Kesh!
Sorry I have been a bad bloggy friend. Hope you will forgive me.


Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?
OH MY GOSH YESSSSSS!!!!!!!!!

Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?
I DON'T KNOW. I AM MARRIED. I FOUND A MATE. IT DEFINITELY ISN'T THE ONLY THING ABOUT LIFE....THERE IS SO MUCH MORE. I AM GLAD THAT HE IS IN MY LIFE AND THAT ALOT I CAN SHARE WITH HIM.

Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?
YES I BELIEVE THERE IS. I FEEL THAT I TIMES I FELT THIS LOVE BUT LIKE THE MIST IT VANISHES ONLY TO RETURN AND VANISH AGAIN.

Like how the taste of food lasts only while it's in your mouth, are certain feelings just momentary or do they all have deep roots and lasting effects?
DEPENDING ON THE EMOTION, DEPENDING ON WHAT CAUSED THAT EMOTION. OH SO MANY HAVE DEEP ROOTS AND EVER LASTING EFFECTS.

Like a deer among the wolves, does your heart sometimes beat in total fear?
YES.

Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?
I THINK THERE ARE MANY REASONS. SO MUCH IS HIDDEN WITHIN US. THIS WORLD CAN BE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL PLACE AND THEN SO UGLY AND BITTER. WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT IN WHAT MAKES US WHAT WE ARE. SOME ARE SHAPED BY THEIR GENES, THEIR UP BRINGING, THEIR ENVIRONMENT, SOME ARE SHAPED BY THEIR TRIALS, SOME JUST CAN'T SEE OR BETTER YET, FEEL. THEY CAN'T STEP OUTSIDE THEMSELVES AND TRY TO SEE HOW THEY APPEAR. SOME JUST DON'T CARE.
EXAMPLE, I HAVE KNOWN A PERSON TO COME FROM A TERRIBLE BACKGROUND, ABUSED AS A CHILD, NO LOVE, AND THEN THEY GROW UP AND TRY TO LOVE AND GIVE AND CHANGE.
AND THEN I HAVE SEEN ANOTHER PERSON COME FROM A TERRIBLE BACKGROUND, ABUSED AS A CHILD NO LOVE, AND THEY GREW UP TO BE UGLY AND BITTER, HATEFUL AND FULL OF EXCUSE. WHAT MAKES ONE PERSON DIFFERENT FROM THE OTHER? WHEN THEY HAVE ENCOUNTERED THE SAME THING? WHAT DRIVES THEM TO BE BETTER OR BE WORSE? IT'S REALLY PUZZLING.

If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?
EGO??PRIDE?VANITY?
I WILL ADMIT I HAVE WANTED PRAISE.
I WANTED RECOGNITION.

Like a dewdrop at the edge of a leaf, does life hang in sheer uncertainity?
I BELIEVE WE HAVE SOME CONTROL.

Does a piano melody remind you of a distant unfinished story?
SOMETIMES. SOMETIMES IT REMINDS OF MY PAST.

Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?
MAYBE WE DO HAVE PAST LIVES???

Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?
YES. I BELIEVE WE WILL SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN. AND WHEN WE SEE THEM IT WILL BE AS IF IT WAS YESTERDAY WHEN WE SAW THEM LAST.

Just like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted and dizzy?
OH GOODNESS YES!
THAT'S WHEN I MUST STOP, BREATHE, RE-COOP, ADJUST, TRY TO UNDERSTAND, UNTWIST, GET BACK UP.

Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?
YES.

When you see a Waterfall, does it make you wonder what your destination might be?
NO. I TAKE LIFE ONE DAY AT A TIME. I DON'T WANT TO KNOW MY DESTINY.
I WILL TAKE IT AS IT COMES.

Like the leaves start to fall in Autumn, do you sometimes fall too?
YES. WE ARE HUMAN. WE WE WILL FALL. WE MUST GET BACK UP. WE MUST TAKE A MOMENT AND START ANEW JUST LIKE SPRINGTIME. A NEW BUD TO BLOOM.

And Just like Spring quietly gives life to nature, do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered?
YES. THANK GOD FOR HUGS AND PERFECT SILENCE WHERE THE HEART CAN READ ANOTHER HEART.

Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?
YES. HEAVEN SENT. A REMINDER OF GOD.

Does wrinkly skin and an ailing body of a 95yr old remind you the impermanence of everything?
EVERY CONDITIONED EXISTENCE, WITHOUT EXCEPTION, IS INCONSTANT IN FLUX
A QUOTE THAT I FOUND TO BE POWERFUL
"The Buddha implored us not just to talk about impermanence, but to use it as an instrument to help us penetrate deeply into reality and obtain liberating insight. We may be tempted to say that because things are impermanent, there is suffering. But the Buddha encouraged us to look again. Without impermanence, life is not possible. How can we transform our suffering if things are not impermanent? How can our daughter grow up into a beautiful young lady? How can the situation in the world improve? We need impermanence for social justice and for hope.

If you suffer, it is not because things are impermanent. It is because you believe things are permanent. When a flower dies, you don't suffer much, because you understand that flowers are impermanent. But you cannot accept the impermanence of your beloved one, and you suffer deeply when she passes away.

If you look deeply into impermanence, you will do your best to make her happy right now. Aware of impermanence, you become positive, loving and wise. Impermanence is good news. Without impermanence, nothing would be possible. With impermanence, every door is open for change. Impermanence is an instrument for our liberation."


How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?
THE HEART JUST KNOWS, THE MIND AND GUT CORRESPOND.

Like when a flower gets plucked from it's tree, do we become 'individuals' as soon as we leave our mothers' wombs?
WE ARE INDIVIDUALS EVEN IN OUR MOTHERS' WOMB.

Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?
I THINK IT IS BECUZ IT IS WITH THESE PEOPLE THAT WE ARE TRULY OURSELVES THE THE GOOD, THE BAD, THE UGLY. WITH THEM WE CAN LET OUR GUARD DOWN AND UNFORTUNATELY THEY SUFFER SOMETIMES.

Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?
YES I BELIEVE YOU CAN. SOMETIMES THE LIGHT WILL LIGHTEN THEIR DARKNESS. SOMETIMES YOUR LIGHT WILL BE THE FIRST LIGHT THEY HAVE SEEN.

Keshi said...

BB hey tnxx mate!

**I've heard she is not sleeping well and they had that kind of love.

aww Im sending lots of love, angel blessings and positive vibes to ur Aunt! *MWAH*



** My wife and I are opposites and to be perfectly honest the glue that hold us together is our kids.

BB that was a bit sad to read..I mean u saying that ur in this r'ship for ur Kids' sake. Ur such a great dad u know. Sacrificing ur dreams for ur kids. Thats commendable!


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Dawny HUGZ n ty!

Yes..no matter how much good u do and how kind u treat em, some ppl cant seem to get rid of the venom in their hearts..just like the snakes r BORN with venom in their fangs.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

true Geroge...we cant be human if we dun feel/experience these qns in some point in our lives.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Veenz no worried hun HUGZ!

btw why dun u change ur Internet provider sweetz? If it keeps gettin disconnected all the time etc.


TC hun n hv a good day!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Ankur!


**wow... nice way round :P lolzzz
btw, watching it as a game, doesnt it makes looking at it as a game???

yes its only LOOKING AT IT as a game. It doesnt make life a game. Just cos u compare someone with a bird, it doesnt make that person a bird, does it Ankur?


**Keshigirl, isnt there a lot of difference in being selfish and individuals...

then wut d u mean by this:


**but when u r an individual, u only think abt urself, its more than selfishnesss, its more of obesession...


LOL!



**Thats wat i m sayin Keshigirl, when its outstanding, how r u gonna choose among those, and dont take this offensive... i just mean to ask, everyones life experiences are important and outstanding to them, and it depends on circumstances and situations... so how can one take precedence over other?

cos there's only one Keshi who's gonna choose the winners. :) Yes its gonna be what I see as 'outstanding' hence it'll be biased...cant help it in this situation.



**keshigirl, the biggest thing is that u provoke so many thoughts in me... and u make me think more than i do... :)


well Im glad abt that :)


**otherwise i would have won it long back... :D lolzzz

haha!


tnxx Ankur!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Blessed HUGGGGGGGZ Im glad ur alive! :)


Its not that I hv forgotten ya. This is how my blog-hopping works: Since I dun hv a blog-roll, I go to blogs of those who r pretty recent in my blog. I know, it's not such a great way to keep in touch..but I cant keep a blog-roll of over 200+ ppl. So unfortunately thats how my blog-hopping works. Forgive me too hun.



**YES I BELIEVE THERE IS. I FEEL THAT I TIMES I FELT THIS LOVE BUT LIKE THE MIST IT VANISHES ONLY TO RETURN AND VANISH AGAIN.

wow nice one babe!



** SOME ARE SHAPED BY THEIR GENES, THEIR UP BRINGING, THEIR ENVIRONMENT, SOME ARE SHAPED BY THEIR TRIALS, SOME JUST CAN'T SEE OR BETTER YET, FEEL. THEY CAN'T STEP OUTSIDE THEMSELVES AND TRY TO SEE HOW THEY APPEAR. SOME JUST DON'T CARE.

lovely!



**EGO??PRIDE?VANITY?
I WILL ADMIT I HAVE WANTED PRAISE.
I WANTED RECOGNITION.

true...me too.



**SOMETIMES. SOMETIMES IT REMINDS OF MY PAST.

yes! Isnt it mysterious tho...




**YES. I BELIEVE WE WILL SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN. AND WHEN WE SEE THEM IT WILL BE AS IF IT WAS YESTERDAY WHEN WE SAW THEM LAST.

awww...*HUGZ*



**NO. I TAKE LIFE ONE DAY AT A TIME. I DON'T WANT TO KNOW MY DESTINY.I WILL TAKE IT AS IT COMES.

Good on ya girl!



**If you suffer, it is not because things are impermanent. It is because you believe things are permanent.

Lovely Buddha quote there!



**WE ARE INDIVIDUALS EVEN IN OUR MOTHERS' WOMB.

Amen!



**YES I BELIEVE YOU CAN. SOMETIMES THE LIGHT WILL LIGHTEN THEIR DARKNESS. SOMETIMES YOUR LIGHT WILL BE THE FIRST LIGHT THEY HAVE SEEN.

WOW so beautifully stated!



U r so full of wisdom my dear! ty n MWAH!


Keshi.

carolinagal said...

Thanks for your replies Keshikins!!

**Lovely comparison again.**

YOU are the one that came up with best comparisons in your questions hon!!

Ankur said...

**btw, watching it as a game, doesnt it makes looking at it as a game???

well by looking i wanted to say thinking and interpreting... can u look at a cat like a mouse???

**it doesnt make that person a bird, does it Ankur?

lemme clearify this... well, when u think of someone as a dog, that doesnt means u see him as a dog, which means this gentleman (:P) will come in front of u and u will see a dobberman in front of u, it means u see the traits of a dog in that person... wat all traits is upto u...

similarly, when u see someone as a bird u may see some traits of a bird in that person... tats wat i meant by interpretation :)

****but when u r an individual, u only think abt urself, its more than selfishnesss, its more of obesession...

yes this is wat i meant specifically... there is a degree of seperation, a thin line of difference... so when that thin line is crossed definition changes...

thinking of killin someone and actually making a plot for the same is the change of degree or crossin that thin line...

i hope i m making sense :)

**Yes its gonna be what I see as 'outstanding' hence it'll be biased...cant help it in this situation.

haha... i knew the answer... u bias girl.. tats y u never choose me as a winner :D
:D :P

;) just kiddin girlie!!!

**otherwise i would have won it long back... :D lolzzz
haha!

frankly keshigirl, i dont want to be pretending or faking, so when i answer at ur place and few others... i just be wat i am... coz i guess u deserve this... rather better than this :) When u being so honest with us, y cant we be with u...

havent u heard the famous sayin... "Respect is something we earn. We can't beg, borrow or steal it." :D

and awards doesnt matter to me, winning people does!!! :)

And i m glad that u keep writing!!! :)

Cheers KeshiGirl!!!
Keep Smiling!!!

Keshi said...

hey Carolinagal MWAH! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hye Ankur!

** well, when u think of someone as a dog, that doesnt means u see him as a dog,

thats exactly wut Im saying! Just cos u compare Life with a game, it doesnt mean its a game.


I think its best we agree to disagree here...cos quite clearly ur going ard in circles trying to say that ur statement was correct. No point wasting time on this. Lets just agree to disagree :)


tnxx!

Keshi.

AmitL said...

HAHA...Keshi,I was planning to answer some of them,then,I found each one so interesting,I answered all!!The remark about 12th std,was to convey the same!!:)

maverick said...

hey keshi...afternoon..how r u??rather evening i gues...jus woke up :D..hadnt slept for 2 days..

some answers frm my view..


Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?


well not really...more often than not ve been a player in the game of life..but sometimes every player has to sit out n watch the game to learn it a better from a different perspective..n its good too..


Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?


mist always drifts away as the sun rises even from the mountains...so the analogy may or may not fit..but yes some love is inseparable..


Like a deer among the wolves, does your heart sometimes beat in total fear?

my answer to this is its not the size of the deer in the fight..its the size of the fight in the deer that matters :)


Like a dewdrop at the edge of a leaf, does life hang in sheer uncertainity?


hmm...well inherently human beings learn to avoid uncertain situations..u always keep a backup plan ready to reduce the uncertainity...its a part of our reflex system..its just that sometimes the backup plan takes time to come into full flow


Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?

everything in life cant be explained..somethings are just meant to b experienced...


When you see a Waterfall, does it make you wonder what your destination might be?


all waterfalls end in lakes/rivers...so u knw its a big big world out there n u ve to exist there as one :)


And Just like Spring quietly gives life to nature, do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered?

yep..true...sometimes its just the thot of someone being there for u which is more than enuf :)


Like when a flower gets plucked from it's tree, do we become 'individuals' as soon as we leave our mothers' wombs?


the flower still maintains its heritage towards the tree...well we are individuals in our own right..but the extent of collectivism varies from culture to culture :)


Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?


the sweetest ppl in ur life take it as a part of ur expression of love for them :)


Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?

tht is the most amazing challenge of life..and its fun to do so..it does take time n requires a lot of patience :)

wooofffffff!! im tired :D
have a good day :)

anuj said...

1. somtimes? I feel that a lot of times. Its like the sand slips off your hands, and you cannot help but watch it fall. It seems like you standing cold in a subway, and the trains come, people get in and get out, and you are still standing there, unmoved.

2. We can be the tree, but its hard. Every human craves to be loved and cherised, and thus they are a little obsessed with finding a partner, and prolly once they get them that obsession vanishes .. or may be not?

3. I suppose there can be. We don't see it in our lives, but if you'll look around you might find people who have found that kind of love or that kind of longing in someone, that they are more like a single being. They can't makedo without the other.

4. Not everything lasts forever. And a lot of things and feelings are short lived. At times we blame the feelings for subsiding us, and vanishing when we wanted them to stay longer, but if we would look the other way, a lot of times we also shun down a lot of feelings which would have wanted to stay longer. And sometimes the taste of the food not only lasts in the mouth, but it also gives you a feeling of 'fullness' and 'satisfaction' for a longer time. Similarly, feelings can last longer too.

5. yes. At times the heart feels so lonely that he forgets if theres any air around. And it chokes, and aches in its lonliness. But eventually it mends itself.

6. well, its people specific. Some have this intrinsic habit of hating people and being against them. And sometimes its the cicumstances, and the repetitive incidents.

7. Its hard to selfless. Its not that you crave only when you give. You crave because you have the needs in you. It is when you give that your cravings can be stregthened, because you might feel that when I am so supportive to others, why is the world not supportive to me or my needs?

8. A lot of times. I would go the extent of saying, 'Life is an uncertainity in itself'. We say and at times we believe too that whatever happens is pre-decided (by someone), but still we have no clue about it. But the one that decided whatever is going to happen also ensured that we have the strength and the conviction to hang in there, and try to make the most of the moment. And there is a beauty in the hanging dew, isnt it? Life is beautiful in the same sense I guess.

9. A lot of times, I have found songs based on piano to be more touching then the usual guitar stuff. They touch some distant chords inside. And its not only the piano melodies that reminds me of something, there a lot of it, like a violin melody, a vigil thought, a sad moment ... all help me realise that there is something unfinished somewhere.

10. Its all in the mind. Embedded and learned.

11. They might, or you might find there reflections in others. I believe that you cannot lessen the pain of lost love, but sure it can be found again :)

12. My world is twisted and turvy all the time. Its an automatic straicase which I am obsessed about .. I keep climbing it to reach the top (donno what eludes me there), but as I reach someplace, the stairs turn in to flat ground, and I keep slipping down. And I have to start over again.

13. Infact there are a lot of people who are very warming. I think its more about the moments. Sometimes the people you would least expect of could also get you happy and going. But yes, there are some people who are full of love, prolly that the one we have been searching for ..

14. I havent. When I see a waterfall, I just see the beauty above.

15. There is no season to falling in humanlife. You fall, you rise and you fall again. And at times you fall in ditches, traps, slippery grounds and what not .. but yet we have to walk that route ..

16. Words are not required sometimes .. sitting by the someones sides helps you realise the support that is there .. I guess its hard to explain.

17. Oh so it does. Very much. It makes my day.

18. Never thought of it in that way. But at tiems I feel like sitting with them, and talking about their lives.

19. With time. With life.

20. No. I guess it depends, the earlier one gets experiences worth understanding life and its games (mean ones), prolly he is a grown up then.

21. Because you are a human, and you have your life and your troubles too. Sometimes we are angry with our own selves and take out all that is inside on others, specially the loved ones, its a little selfish though, cause we know that those are the ones who are gonna listen to it, and yet would be fine with it after a few days. Its a different relation altogether.

22. It depends. There are a lot of parameters which are not known to you in the subjective manner. A lot of times you would find a person who is completely opposite to you, but then you don't measure him/her only in the subjective term, cause at some level something from the inside would tell you, 'I like him/her' .. so you can never say ..

take care keshi ..
cheer up

Vest said...

Keshi: I have visitors who seem to be slightly off balance, one in particular more so than others. This persons diverse comment can be and probably will continue to be an irritant to both myself and to my FEW visitors, however, it does generate more chatter occasionly and even more when I Correct or Delete this person. in fact he is the person responsible for me making this comment.
'What comes around goes around' so I hear. Have an exciting weekend.X.

Macadamia The Nut said...

Do you sometimes feel like you're watching life as it passes you by, as if you're the only spectator in a game where everyone else is taking part?
Yeah I do… like a shadowy observer watching a street play from a darkened gully with cynicism in her eyes.
*Am I crazy?*


Why are some people so obsessed with finding a partner and marriage as if it's the only thing about life...can't we be like the tree that bears fruits but does not crave for love?
Isn’t our “society” to blame for that? Brainwashing its minions in a sense? Some lucky ones break free of the mould and find fulfillment in ways they choose to and not the ones that are chosen for them). I’m lucky ;)


Can there be a love so inseparable just like how the mist and the mountains can never be parted?
I still have a few illusions left :D and so I would say “yes”. Lol!


Like how the taste of food lasts only while it's in your mouth, are certain feelings just momentary or do they all have deep roots and lasting effects?
I think that some feelings have lasting effects. A memory that can immediately summon up a favorite smell, an unforgotten feeling and unexplained emotions.


Like a deer among the wolves, does your heart sometimes beat in total fear?
Of course! And usually it’s when I do something wrong.


Like how a snake would carry poison in it's fangs, why do some people carry so much venom in their hearts?
They say snakes bite only when provoked.
I think it’s the same of the people. They sting in self defense… unfortunately some sting at ‘perceived’ threats and because of insecurities.


If trees can give us shade without expecting anything in return, why can't we help without craving for glory?
That’s a profound question. Can anyone claim to be selfless I wonder. For everything we do, isn’t there an expectation of sorts in our mind?


Like a dewdrop at the edge of a leaf, does life hang in sheer uncertainty?
No… This dewdrop has been absorbed by the sun… lol!
I know where I’m going… no uncertainties here, except of course what the Divine providence may throw my way.


Does a piano melody remind you of a distant unfinished story?
No.. :( It only reminds me of my piano Master. And he was a ridiculously funny person.


Why do certain people, voices, smells, pictures, songs, places remind you of someone/something you can never explain or relate to in this life?
Ahh! If I knew the answer to that I’d have patented it already and sold in it little sachets. I though I was the only one who felt this way. Yay! I’m not nuts!


Just like the moon comes out only at night, after people die would they show up again at some other time?
I hope so. That’s the only though which keeps me going from day to day. They better show up, because I’ve been waiting forever…


Just like a spiral staircase, does your world sometimes get twisted and dizzy?
Sometimes it does, yes. But after I “climb the stairs” everything becomes steady again.


Do some people soothe your heart like the cool grass underneath your feet?
Yes… and if somebody says they don’t know such people they have my sympathy.


When you see a Waterfall, does it make you wonder what your destination might be?
Nope. Just makes me want to jump right in and enjoy the delicious sensation.


Like the leaves start to fall in Autumn, do you sometimes fall too?
I fall, but not like the leaves in autumn… more like the petals falling off a peach tree to reveal the budding fruits.


And Just like Spring quietly gives life to nature, do some friends give you comfort without a single word being whispered?
Yes… sometimes a look it worth a 1000 hugs.


Does a carefree child's laughter remind you of the sweetest music ever?
100%


Does wrinkly skin and an ailing body of a 95yr old remind you the impermanence of everything?
It reminds me of beauty and life! Like an ancient parchment recovered and waiting to spill its secrets.


How do you know if someone truly cares, like the clouds would never leave the skies?
I don’t know about others.. but I can never be sure because that’s the person I am… I don’t trust easily and then. Not completely. Sigh


Like when a flower gets plucked from it's tree, do we become 'individuals' as soon as we leave our mothers' wombs?
I think we’d have formed our individuality right in the womb. Why do some babies kick more? Turn more often?...


Why am I harsh to the sweetest people in my life, just like how the rivers flood and wash away it's own banks sometimes?
Oh God! I can SO understand this one. I think it’s the comfort factor. We know that the people who love us will truly understand our moods and the reasons behind them… and forgive us our idiosyncrasies.


Can you end up loving and giving light to someone who's the total opposite of who you are, just like how the stars light up the darkest skies?
I think I can… I the person in question can do the same.


Keshigirl! In case you’re wondering why I’ve done all the questions… I couldn’t stop. I was like putting into words what I’ve felt for a while now… I enjoyed this immensely!
Thank Youuuuuu! *hugs*

Pavi!!!! said...

Keshi :((( i can't recollect anything offensive in my comment. Why are u not publishing my comments? Anything the matter?Lets talk n sort it out pls?

i answered soooooo many of ur Qs after much thinking n u wont xplain why?Now pls tell me why????

Keshi said...

hehe AmitL ty :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Mav!

**but sometimes every player has to sit out n watch the game to learn it a better from a different perspective

I agree..that was a good one.




**everything in life cant be explained..somethings are just meant to b experienced...

I like how u said that.




**tht is the most amazing challenge of life..and its fun to do so

Agree its a big challenge but FUN?



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Anuj tnxx!

**. Its like the sand slips off your hands, and you cannot help but watch it fall. It seems like you standing cold in a subway, and the trains come, people get in and get out, and you are still standing there, unmoved.

beautifully put! I loved it.


**I have found songs based on piano to be more touching then the usual guitar stuff. They touch some distant chords inside

for me too Anuj! Tho I love the guitar to death :), piano sounds take me away to a different world...totally incomparable.



**I keep climbing it to reach the top (donno what eludes me there), but as I reach someplace, the stairs turn in to flat ground, and I keep slipping down. And I have to start over again.

wow!


Anuj ALL ur answers to each qn had me in awe of ur Wisdom. U r a great philosopher and a teacher of life! TY n HUGZ!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehe Vesty I know ;-)

Karma does pat or bite ur back.

*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Macadamia HUGZ!


** like a shadowy observer watching a street play from a darkened gully with cynicism in her eyes.

nicely put. no ur not crazy at all..thats how I feel MOST of the time :)



**society

thats true..it annoys me when ppl look at me as if something's wrong with me just cos Im single.



** And usually it’s when I do something wrong.

OMG thats struck a cord in me!



** They sting in self defense… unfortunately some sting at ‘perceived’ threats and because of insecurities.

so true! I too can be full of venom if someone abuses my territory. Im no angel.



** For everything we do, isn’t there an expectation of sorts in our mind?

I agree. Humans r designed to be that way...to always EXPECT something.


**It only reminds me of my piano Master. And he was a ridiculously funny person.

hehe cute. So I assume u can play the Piano well? WOW!



**They better show up, because I’ve been waiting forever…

aww HUGZ!



**more like the petals falling off a peach tree to reveal the budding fruits.

I just love that!



*Yes… sometimes a look is worth a 1000 hugs.

Spot on! Beautifully put hun.




**It reminds me of beauty and life! Like an ancient parchment recovered and waiting to spill its secrets.

OMG girl how d u think of such beautiful things to say!



**I think we’d have formed our individuality right in the womb. Why do some babies kick more? Turn more often?...

o gawd ur brilliant!



U know something...ur answers were TOPS! My jaw was dropped till I finished reading em :) U were that good!


Im so glad u enjoyed answering the questions..I guess thats why ur answers were so heartfelt!


*HUGZ* n tnxx!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Pavi!


**i can't recollect anything offensive in my comment. Why are u not publishing my comments? Anything the matter?Lets talk n sort it out pls?
i answered soooooo many of ur Qs after much thinking n u wont xplain why?Now pls tell me why????



LOL wut exactly r ya talkign abt Pavi sweetie? I never received any comments from u on this topic?? Mebbe ur comments got lost? It happens often with Blogger.


Its not that Im not publishing ur comments...please dun think that!


*HUGZ*

Send em in again. :)


Keshi.

Pavi!!!! said...

ohhh..damn!donno wat was wrong...my comments for the last 3 posts were not published..so i was like "There must be sumthing wrong!"
Stooooopid blogger!
Tired to type back all of that..but mabbe i will sumtime later!

Keshi said...

hey Pavi Im glad u didnt misunderstand me. ty n HUGZ! :)

Keshi.

Ankur said...

I agree to disagree :)

Cheers!!!
Keep Smiling!!!

Keshi said...

lol Ankur!

Keshi.

Gledwood said...

thanks for the music, I hope you don't mind my "purloining" it for my "music videos" blog of course I gave your name and linkback there too!

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