Lustetrics

That was a steamy post, that last one! Some pretty interesting feedback and alot of hot new tips too. While reading all your comments I was drooling, sweating, begging...ok I better stop before I cause an international orgasm *pictures it*. Some may have wondered why I asked such questions in a public blog...well, to me 'expressing' don't choose. Meaning, if we can talk about Love, why not talk about Lust? Besides, Lust is not something we should be ashamed of...as humans we all feel it and we all want it (unless you're a swami ji in the forests attaining Nirvana). Lust is very much human, as much as Love, Fear, Jealousy, Courage etc etc are. Anyways THANKS all for taking part! While everyone answered VERY well, unfortunately there can only be few winners. Keep in mind that most of you had similar answers but I have chosen the well-worded ones (along with honesty, sense of humor and uniqueness as other judging factors). So all of you are winners by default :). So here they are as follows, starting with my comments on all your answers, then my answer in green, and finally the winning comments for each question. So here we go!





1.Woman on top?

Penetrating all the answers to this one, it was pretty evident that most Men loved having the Woman on top, and that most Women loved having the Man on top. hmmm, so this would pretty much lead to rolling on the bed trying to get each other on top?:) But some folks loved the control they get being on top...to ride in style that is. I think both Men and Women equally like 'controlling' and being 'controlled' in the bedroom. Yeehawww! As for me, I prefer Man on top, cos I love the feel of the male body's weight on me (as long as it's not a Sumo wrestler that I'm married to) - yeah I like being dominated (and dominating at other times), it's kinky to the core! And now the winning answers are:





If u want it your way, burn calories and taste the ecstasy of pleasure at the same time. Than i say woman on top is da way. Do it your way, your speed and your cheeky tease to make him grin. Straddling seems nice! And thats on top for sure. Hah! -- by Amy THE Sex Goddess

totally...in control. -- by Veenz THE Red 'Riding' Hood

Later, she beamed an appreciative smile after dominating the proceedings during our first full on love encounter and riding me home like a demented jockey on her first derby winner. -- by Vesty THE Orgasmic Makybe Diva

2. Who do you long to be stuck in a lift with?

Anal-ysing all the answers for this one, I realised that alot of us want to be stuck in a lift with our dream celebrity, meaning we pretty much wanna have a steamy claustrophobic few moments with a star? *hmm...a pretty weird bunch we are ha*. I think both Men and Women are secretly wishing for elevator-sex, which makes me wanna break all the elevators in the world right now. I'm sure that would increase productivity, what say guys. And Katrina Kaif was the most popular Lift-Temptress amond guys, and among us girls there were too many men we wanted to be stuck with *rolling eyes*, so there's no winning Lift-Hunk - basically any hot hunk will do. As for me, I'd love to be stuck in an elevator with my boss...cos that way I don't have to go back to work and my boss wouldn't be able to try and get me out soon either. On a steamy note, if I'm stuck with my dream guy John Abraham, I'd make sure the elevator stays broken for the rest of our lives. And now the winning answers are:





Eric Bana...wild and crazy...oh yeah !! -- by Cinderella THE Lift 'Shaker'

Anyone but my dad or close family. --by Preeti THE Runaway Bride



Gwynneth Paltrow; if not then a lift repairman. -- by Fingers THE Boob Operator

3. If you could beg for just anything right now, what would it be?

Exploring the deepest corners of all your answers to this one, it dawned on me that many of us have unfulfilled wishes buried deep inside of us that spoke volumes about what we really wanted in life. Each of you spoke of what you value the most in life at this point in time and that was interesting to ponder upon. Some wanted financial security, some wanted a career, cars, and some others wanted blow jobs and hot bathtub sex *slips slops & slurps*. As for me, I'd love a wicked, loooong, life-giving kiss that involves alot of 'tongue'...it's been such a long time since my last kiss now it seems like my lips are prehistoric dinosaurs. Talk about Famine and hunger, my lips is the Ethiopia in Sex-World. And now the winning answers are:

A confirmation...more important than Gere but concerns a man. -- by d Sinner THE Sinful Beauty

An orgasm every time I blink. -- by Steph THE Pleasure Machine

Right now.. a fuck, a blowjob, a hand job ..anything will be enuff for me..Im feeling too excited. -- by Sourish THE 'Job' Seeker

4. Man on top of woman on top of man?

Tasting the answers to this qn, I realised that alot of us are able to separate Threesomes from a traditional sexual relationship between 2 people, and we are able to see it as nothing but a purely Lust-induced act. And that was good to know. Some people puked at it with an 'eww', some adored it, some didn't like sharing, some dreamt of it, some wondered how to manage more than one partner in bed, some kept it in mind for later use...yeah, to each his own. As for me, I think threesomes (or even tensomes) are purely a Lust act...it should not be confused with love and committment. If anyone engages in a threesome, it's to get carnal pleasure only and I don't see anything wrong with that. And hell yeah it's erotic to the core and I have often wondered about it hehe. But if/when I'm in a serious relationship, threesomes won't be welcome in it - maybe cos I'm the possessive kind. But it's upto the couple if they want to do it and if they think it'd improve their sex life, without ruining their relationship. And the winning answers are:





Sometimes, people attach emotions to sex (and their sexual partner), and a threesome should not include such people or those who are involved with them. Otherwise, no problem with threesome as a purely pleasurable activity. --by Alok THE King Of Lusty Wisdom

A good and interesting experiment...will save that one for later in life when we need to re-ignite our spark. -- by Carolinagal THE Kinky Babesterness

Threesomes look great in porn, so if its like a one night shagging threesome, fine. But if you got my gal in there, man ..did I told you i will crack the other guyz balls. possessive partners. -- by Anuj THE Killer Monogamist

Maybe I would like to experiment at some point of time in my life .. with another girl and a guy though. As of now .. its a no-no! but the point is .. the idea doesn't really disgust me. -- by Cheesy THE Sensual Siren

5. What do you value more in a partner, good sex or good conversation, and why?

Sucking the sap of all your answers to this one, I realised that most of us hide our pleasures behind a 'moral' wall. Sometimes we are afraid to stray, thinking it's a bad thing to want what we want. At the same time, sometimes we forget to see that a pleasurable physical want can only last few minutes whereas a psychological fulfilment can be rewarding for longer than that. As for me, sex is a conversation by itself. If my partner and I can have great sex and feel like it's the best convo we've ever had without a single word being uttered, then we are at a very good place. I believe that if 2 people make magical love, they are already in tune with each others' body and mind, therefore good convo should be a cake-walk. Also, I can have a good convo with almost anyone but I cant have sex with just anyone , can I? I don't wanna be stuck in life with someone who's terrible in bed, cos remember he's the only one I can have sex with, and sex is an integral part in a relationship. I had some very clever answers for this one, so it was hard to choose just one answer and many of you had very similar answers too. So I'll choose 3 winners from each category (that is, 3 supporting good sex and 3 supporting good conversation). So the 6 winning answers to this qn are:





Good sex for sure. I can always go have great conversation with my many friends. But if I go looking for sex instead I'll be labeled promiscuous won't I? -- by Macadamia THE Luscious Passion Fruit

Listen folks carefully. talking shalking is good. its OK.but i am not going to ruin myself over "talking". i understand its important but Good Sex is integral. be honest guys. imagine your partner talking sense all the time. speaks your mind. very thoughtful. you strike a chord each time you talk. -- by Drozzy THE Silent Spine Tingler

For some it also seeds a spiritual bonding. This is one thing where action can truly speak louder than words. -- by Samy THE Bonding Guru

Good sex may lead to good conversation but good conversation has a higher chance of leading to good sex. So good conversation. -- by Solitaire THE Aamir Seductress

You can always talk somebody from being bad at sex to being good. -- by George THE Smooth Talker

I guess I wud pick conversation as research had proved that good sex last for 7 mins while good coversation can last for ur whole life. -- by Nirmal THE Saint Carnal

So this means, we all have different wants and value different things when it comes to lust. So, these winning comments don't mean that that's the right thing for you - you do what you like. Everyone has their own preferences and lifestyles, that suit themselves. Anyways, Congrattz all winners and THANKS each and everyone of ya! You are all winners cos all of you seem to know exactly what you want, long and moan for. ahhh touch me, touch me I wanna feel your body! *gives you a cheeky smile* ;-).

Current Music: Principles Of Lust (Sadeness) by Enigma