Friday, October 24

Unveiling The Veiled

Ok now that I have scared off alot of my usual readers from that last post, I'm gonna scare more people now :). What am I gonna say now...nothing new that you didn't already know. I blog-hopped today and realised that some people are so negative...so moody...so frozen...so unapproachable. They are behaving as if the whole world is on their shoulders. I'm not God so I don't understand why some people behave like that. Not that I have a perfect life either, but hey I'm smiling. I look around me, I have a friend going through a bitter divorce and is on the verge of losing everything yet facing it all bravely, I have a work-mate who's in chemo for Cancer yet smiling and doing all his work quite happily, I know of a friend who's mum died recently yet she smiles amidst her tears, and I have a lot on my plate right now that you all need not know about...cos I always feel I'm still better off than my 2 friends and my work-mate, and thousands of others out there. While you are cribbing about a past love or your dull mood for longer than you should, THINK about the many people out there who have it worse than you. C'mon it's not the end of the world is it? You can walk, talk, blog, eat, sleep and yes you CAN smile, if you choose to. You're just not making that choice. That's all. When you drag your bad mood for days and weeks and complain about things you don't have, you're losing out on life. Cos all the moments you spent crying won't come back again would they? We all miss something in our lives. When you learn to live without that something, you are living with something else...and that's called courage. There's a depth in emptyness too...and there's a height at rock-bottom too. They are hidden...if you look closely, you'll find them. Unveil the veiled and set yourselves free.


(Selena - singer of this song is no more...someone stabbed her during an argument and she was only 20+ when she died. But looks like she lived a very content life, full of joyful moments)


Current Music: I Could Fall In Love by Selena

178 Cranium Signets:

mayz said...

i'll tk some tips from that :)

the stygian sailor said...

hey
so whats scary abt this or the previous post.
only difference i guess is i haven't been around to make some foot in the mouth comments :)

Suresh Kumar said...

Rightly said. If u smile, you will attract all positive things toward you. All negatives would get burned to ashes.

nish said...

i'm juz happy to hav chckd my reader nw-- yu got me off of dis depressin mood.....

...found yur blog thro' sameera's..

nish said...

juz happy to hav chck my reader now-- yu got me off dis depressin mood...

...found yur blog thro' sameera's..

Prakhar said...

** THINK about the many people out there who have it worse than you**

Thats very true...nd we often forget that..nd we only see ppl who are in relatively better position/situation than us (nd they are only handful)

..so smile nd njoi life as it comes to you!

**you CAN smile, if you choose to**
..i choose to :) :D :)

hey gudlookin.. njoi the weeekend!! :) (nice earrings) :D

ishita said...

I thought as much that kesh wld've had atleast a couple of posts up while I was missing in action :P

insanely busy...rather suffering from lack of time management but excitedddd abt Diwali week (it's in my post tdy)

ask me about smiling through trouble. I take the trouble of actually showing my sadness or insecurities only with those close enuff to understand what its all about...u rem the saying "laugh and the whole world laughs with u..cry and u cry alone"....well I believe in my case I'm lucky enough to say "cry and a few cry with me" :))

But yes, there are people with bigger sorrows who put up a brave face... there's lots to learn from their perseverance...

and from u who puts it all across so beautifully...reminding us to smile :)

Happy Diwali Kesh *incase I don get around again for sometime*

((((huggggzz)))

Chriz said...

good words... solemn and sweet.. the previous post was right bang on target..

MultiMenon said...

kno sumthin sis??i am loving this place...and i get this feeling tht all tht u post is well and truly doin me a lotta good..

am lurrrving it..

cheers!!:)

nice pic btw.. :)

rayshma said...

completely agree with you.
u're only as down as u let yourself be.
i find it difficult to relate to people who behave like it's the end of the world because they chipped a nail. for heavens' sake! get on with it! and if u can't, at least don't expect everyone around you to make encouraging noises and empathize with you.

smile... and the day seems less gloomier. :)
HUGS!

rahul said...

very beautiful thought..I guess everyone at sum point of their lives goes through this phase...........but some kind of make it a habit..and know many ppl like that ..who will be cribbing even after getting Warren Buffet's wealth :)

Hey but you cheer up..btw it's diwali time here in India so I'm in a celebration mood.

Veni said...

Well said Keshi, its no use crying over split milk. Everything happens for a reason, just learn the lesson and move on : )

Kiran Sawhney said...

Life is not perfect. But it is worth living. In this response, see my following video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsEsiTwWeZU

Shoe Girl said...

**We all miss something in our lives. When you learn to live without that something, you are living with something else...and that's called courage. There's a depth in emptyness too...and there's a height at rock-bottom too.**

so true.. small things like heartbreaks, bad boyfriends make us crib day in and out. And one fine day when something with a magnitude of a sky falls on you...you change. You smile more often because you know there isnt another way...
Once when i broke up in college.. my friend told me... you'll never be 20 again. and that line has stayed with me... i'll never get this time again.

So i better walk( run) in my high heels and inhale life as much as i can... because i'll never be here again

Talking To My Soul said...

First things first, Keshi. That's a beautiful picture of yours. Yeah, I am looking at the beautiful side of it first. Not saying there is a bad or scary side to it. Ah! didn't see any, lady.

As I see it, the biggest problem is we are always calculating life in terms of what we got, and yes, what we didn't.

Stop getting into this mathematics of life and you will have unveiled it.

*smilez*

Rakesh Vanamali said...

Courage! Knowing that you will be afraid but not letting fear get the better of you!

Appreciate this post!

Cheers!

Rakesh

PS: Haven't seen you at my space lately!!!

Hemanth Potluri said...

good posh kesh :)....and yeh the tips can be all taken by me :P..:)..

urs..hemu..

SMM said...

I love this philosophy. Shitty things happen to everyone. Now if I started grumbling about all the shitty things which have happened in my life, I would be a very shitty person living a very shitty life indeed.I can't stand people who keep whining. Whine, forget and move on. Its not the end pf the world.

Tairebabs said...

so true Keshi. I think we all do it sometimes. We complain about the things that are not working out right in our lives but we forget that some people have it a whole lot worse. Even I am guilty of this but I try to smile as much as I can and look on the bright side of life.

Saw the movie Selina years ago. Lovely movie but sad ending.

Ani said...

it is a lovely post..

and really u shouldnt care about the ppl who get scared reading the post.. that means they are lacking the very thing that u mentioned.. courage.. end of the day thats what it comes down to..

courage to move on.. get on with ur life.. smile through ur sorrows and pain.. end of it all.. life still goes on.. no point in being miserable when just the change of attitude can do wonders for one's life..

yaaaayy its almost weekend.. yaaaaayyy :) hugzzz

Priya Joyce said...

This is such a very beautiful post keshi..I loved to go thru it..

its very true tat wen we r not happy not content its better to see and look at people who are in worse situations that us...it makes us feel happy...
but many don't see tat they try to be self pit tiers seeing the ones better off ..
wat a world..!!!!

Tarun said...

a curve thats put everythins in s astraight line ...

:)

mganesh said...

Yeah true Keshi.Soem things in life is better to be forgotten.But Past Pricks sometimes.But Yeah Evry person is deprived of one thing or other.Your post was eyeopening.
Its a Fact.Happy Diwali:)

uttara said...

hey keshi..

i can see you talking my language.. heheh

:)

See i'm smiling... i agree with every bit whatever u said here :)

Enigma said...

hey the previous post was gr8...not scary at all :D

ya true that many rr so depressed and stuff....at one point i also used to be that way or somewhat that way....angry at the whole world for many things gone wrong and stuff...but am definitely better now....learning not to be bothered by wat the idiots out there tell me and stuff....
well ya true reading ur post was a relief to me yesterday, specially coz i have this colleague at work who is preggy and she keeps increasing the ac cooling and i sit and freeze to death....wen it becomes unberable i reduce a little and she comes running and keeps it to full blast cold....and wat she tells is "Kelvy u please bring sweaters and use a jacket and stuff,i am pregnant" hey i am adjusting but wen its so hot out she expects me to come in layers of sweater...phewww welll looks like one of these days they will have to set me outside to thaw...hahah

hey i hav watched that movie about selena, its so sad na....

AmitL said...

Hi,Keshi-whew- I don't blog-surf for a day or two(A-mit-e under the weather, as I said in my post.LOL), and I see 2 posts from you..How nice. On to this one- you've hit the nail on the head-sometimes, we just don't appreciate how much we have in our lives,to thank God for. Instead, we go around moaning about why life's not perfect,why our health's not aok,why we've put on weight,et al...as if they were the do all and end all of life..Reading about your two friends showed how miniscule our other problems are,by comparison.
Great to have you around, Keshi-and,having you saying the right things at the right moments.(Including the angry posts...*grins*)...Imagine a big smile on my post after reading this post(Forced?You guess and tell me.haha).I'm inspired enough to put up my next post in a few minutes.Do bloghop there, later in the day.Cheerio!

vishesh said...

" There's a depth in emptyness too...and there's a height at rock-bottom too."

lovely :D

I agree with you,people are just plain ....hmm..lets say whatever.. :P

I'll try 2 be truthful said...

hmmm few days back i was behaving like the what u have written about , but now i'm tired of criticizing myself & being down . * it takes lesser effort to smile than to frown*
Even though I may not be the best person to say it but i wish your friends all the luck in the world.

have u seen the movie called " selena" based on her name?

Asha said...

Hi Keshi girl, howdy?
Kitchen work is in full swing niw, can't step in there now.House is messy and dusty,don't know how I am surviving but I am somehow!
Just came here to wish you "Happy Deepavali" in advance. Unfortunately, I will have to skip all the fun this year. But looking forward to new everything. I will be back blogging in Jan, lot of other rooms are being painted and tiled etc.

Take care, hugs to you!:))

~Hemanth~ said...

"There's a depth in emptyness too...and there's a height at rock-bottom too."

Wonderfully put. What you said is true, we should not be dragging past burdens along with us. They just bog us down. But, some of us are not equipped with the capacity to let go and move on.

Elithraniel Arawion said...

You absolutely right!!!!

La vida Loca said...

I guess it is true- we can do many, many things that are generally taken for granted :)

WP 2007 - 08 said...

Hi Keshi

OH MY GOD, YOU'RE NOT GOD!! THANK GOD FOR THAT!! LOL

Everyone has downtimes. Its how you bounce back that counts.

Sometimes I write posts that have a potential to drive one to suicide, but I also write posts that could kill a reader by laughing so hard.

That’s why my hits are dropping, I’m killing my readers. LOL

Bev

ash89 said...

nice post...! :)

Aneesh said...

Mmmmmm!!!
Friday right? LOL

Anyways, what you said is right. People, when showing arrogance, always look around people who are inferior(or they think) to them. When they are saying about their little problems, they look around people who are superior to them. Isn't it a big irony?
One is crying for months 'coz of not having a car 'coz all his friends have one, but he won't think about what he has, when a million don't even have food.!

Diana said...

Unveil the veiled and set yourselves free.


Babe....Am trying to do this.....I always find people so content with themselves even when they have nothing. I try to emulate but fall flat many times......but I have nt stopped trying...

BTW, theres nothing wrong or scary with the last post.....infact, only u can come up with something so bold....u've gt d guts man!!!

Lovely Pic.....Lovely U.......

HUGS.

shooting star said...

hey gal...thats what i needed after a hard day's work..
your peppy post...
i was feeling bit down with all the things coming on together at home at work!!!...
thankfully its holidays here for me!!!

Jira said...

hear hear Keshi!!
All of us get depressed at some point of time or the other, and it is so hard to get out of that. Somehow only when life throws a few extreme adversities, we find the courage to endure them. When we have everything in life, we mope around wanting more...

But it is so true that we need to focus on what we have in life rather than what we don't! Optimism is indeed a rare gift! And I am sure that ur post will give that gift to all the readers :)

Sweetstickychewy said...

Great survival tips and reminders in this post..:)

Ria said...

Well said babes!and thats wht makes me smile each day. There is so much to do n so little time. So rise and shine. :)

•♥•♥[V]♥•♥• said...

i second mayz ;)

Memphis Steve said...

I blogged about farts today. It is a happy subject. We should all try to fart more. The world would smile and laugh more often if we did. Of course, it would smell terrible, but still I think it's a good idea.

KP said...

hi keshi...

keep smiling:). remember one thing...there is light at the end of tunnel:).

cyclopseven said...

Nothing much to say. Reality remains. Very positive post.

deepsat said...

people na!! oof!! they are just too much!! bitches bark, pigs go oink oink!! and so the rest of it!!

have a good weekend!!

;-))

Pecos Blue said...

So true. Breathe I say! And smile : )

Whitesnake said...

Now that was a depressing post!

Shit I come here for an up lift and get a fright!

Right ya better make me better!

Nirmal said...

r people around really sad......sad...

and i just missed some kinky post of urs....i m sad..

hehehe....

u keep smiling gal...forever..

anits said...

hi keshi..how r u? i am damn damn busy these few days...as usual your post is always interesting..i wil b on leave for diwali..i will be back on next thursday..

Southpaw unplugged said...

Oh no...i was just abt to crib on something....:P

preeti said...

We all miss something in our lives. When you learn to live without that something, you are living with something else...and that's called courage. There's a depth in emptyness too...and there's a height at rock-bottom too. They are hidden...if you look closely, you'll find them. Unveil the veiled and set yourselves free.
lovely thougts Keshi. and I am gonna steal those above lines of course without your permission, and e-mail to a few of my friends who have been not themselves oflate. HUGS. And yeah, I am really happy abt my AVEGRAGE in the last one :) you revealed that I was some good already :):)

Arv said...

this is a nice post :)

Dream on with a smile :)

Have a nice weekend da...

take care... cheers...

Solitaire said...

I guess experience is the best teacher. When we are almost close to the tip of Mt. Everest, everything underneath seems like a breeze but for beginners, it may seem like a mammoth task.

vanilla sky said...

nicely put up:)
its actually high time these pseudo-sad people look around to admire how people in real pain are smiling to life

CяŷştąŁ said...

Its nt tht the blogger/person who writes something depressing is a sad soul..come on,Kesh..doesn't everyone need a platform o take out their frustration on? :-)
And I agree..everyone has problems,but it ain't right to cll them such stuff..just a view..nt contradicting you

Vinz aka Vinu said...

Keshi,

am going through a bad phase in my life...which i cant write over here since i dont want it to make public..!!

u really struck the chord in me...(your posts always do)..i always to prefer to face the challenges and difficulties with a smiling face rather than with a frowning one and negativism..afterall life is all about facing such things with a smile..!!

cheers..!!

:)

"The Oyster Box" said...

Hi there.. iv never said hello properly, So here goes.. Hello!! :-) iv seen you around Memphis steve and Maverick a while back..

Spent some time cruising through your site.. and enjoyed it.. My site is different to yours.. But thats cool. celebrate diversity!

I must compliment you on your images and angles.. particularly enjoyed the sexy quiz.. :)

And i admire your guys and gals commenting.. really good to see.

Most of all i enjoy meeting an Aus gal online that seems pleasantly different to the mold.. process that statement as you please.. :-) love Tiff

Karthik B.S. said...

yup.. i sometimes watch Roots to see hot bad it is for people. :)

Mystique Wanderer said...

:)

Ankur said...

hey girlie... how r u doing??

sometimes we all go into a shell, i dont know when i will come out, i am having a good time at home, yet i m feeling drained, i dont know whats causing this emotional imbalance!!

and i do visit u, i read ur post earlier too, just didnt comment!!!! :)

have fun
take care

Ankur

Ramya said...

I'd started blogging to vent my negativity and when I now read most of my previous posts, I see how much I've matured as a person!
But in the process, now, when I read posts of ppl cribbing in their spaces - its like a slap in your face !

crasiezt said...

"You can walk, talk, blog, eat, sleep.."

Loved the reference to blogging:D You are one obsessed girl:P

sawan said...

wo wo wo, swthrt of blogosphere chose to be a teacher! impressive..

and yeah lot of ppl out there need to see ur post.. nice one..

happy diwali.

sawan said...

Keshi, Check my new post. U got something there.

Dalicia said...

ohhh so scary :)

happy diwali to you!! be brave!

d gypsy! said...

so KEshi...


Keep smiling and making us smile, like u do :D

comfortably numb said...

just abt finding dose precious small moments wich give u happiness:)

comfortably numb said...

btw u r tagged:)

phoenix said...

i hate negative people and the kind of negativity they exude... because in turn they spread negativity to others who are they in touch with.. happened to me before... stopped visiting such people

Krithika said...

wat u write, the way u write it n so on can in no way be used as a measure to determine ur attitude towards life or even a situation for tat matter..albeit it does say quite a bit abt the way u perceive things.but tats okay bcos ppl take to writing to out their negative feelings n so, it's only natural tat it seems like they have low acceptance levels

Jeevan said...

Happy Deepavali Keshi :)

Sins Very Kool said...

Hey das a wonderful post!
So true...each word...
Keep dem comin!

Satish Bolla said...

good one. lifted my spirits a li'l bit

"The Oyster Box" said...

Real glad we have things in common.. and right in your department. :-) this comment is purely to wish you and your readers a happy Diwali. Im in South Africa and have stacks of Indian friends.. Iv a request.. detonate a firework for me.. :-) and tell me about it. :-) love Tiff

my life.... said...

happy diwali keshi :)

Macadamia The Nut said...

True!
Life HAS to go on... and we NEED to smile on!
But in between, everyone need a few minutes to vent, no?
It's when they carry on and on and on that it becomes intolerable

Raghav said...

a look around and you get a million reasons to smile at your worries.
there are a million inspirations around us, all we need to do is look.
well written

sawan said...

Keshi, Check my new post, u got something there.

How do we know said...

this is such an amazing post! i loved it.

Coco said...

come on over and dance...SALSA!!

hope you had a WONDERFUL and RESTFUL weekend ; )

hugs & blessings

*yes, we now have a home computer

Rachna said...

Loved reading your posts. Amazing...you are getting really good at this. Congrats!

Some are humorous, others like this one...thought provoking. I have pitied at the state of affairs in my life for very long....thanks to you..I am thinking of paddling to the shore and enjoy what I have.

Keshi said...

Mayz Im learning too...sometimes Im the crying one...so u gotta remind me then ok. :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Stygian :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Well-said Suresh!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hey Nish WC n ty! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Prakhar!


**nd we only see ppl who are in relatively better position/situation than us (nd they are only handful)


Spot on! We always COMPARE ourselves with someone who's doing better than us, hence the MISERY. How can we forget abt the ones who r worse off than us?



**earrings

ty! I love earrings...I hv a weakness for em...and I cant live w.o. em :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Ish MWAH!


**well I believe in my case I'm lucky enough to say "cry and a few cry with me

Thats great to know...that u hv ppl who u'stand u and who can cry with ya...its rare u know.


hv a great Diwali Ish!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Chriz :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Multimenon ty so much for the encouragment!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Raysh!

U nailed it!


**i find it difficult to relate to people who behave like it's the end of the world because they chipped a nail


Thats exactly wut Im talking abt. I u'stand we all hv our down time, but some ppl crib over very silly things! And that makes me wanna slap em lol!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Rahul ty!


**some kind of make it a habit

thats exactly wut Im talking abt...making SORROW a habit..and that makes me wanna slap em to reality. :)

Happy Diwali to u too Rahul!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Veni!


**Everything happens for a reason, just learn the lesson and move on :

somehow I agree with that, tho sometimes its hard to go with it. Every good/bad experience comes with LESSONS.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

WOW Kiran did u make that video? That was brilliant...very well-said!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Shoe_Girl!


**Once when i broke up in college.. my friend told me... you'll never be 20 again. and that line has stayed with me... i'll never get this time again.


Thats so true! Some things that some ppl tell us hit us in the right place and stay with us forever.



**So i better walk( run) in my high heels and inhale life as much as i can... because i'll never be here again


Very well-said! U'll never hv this MOMENT again...so make the most of it ppl!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Soul :)


**As I see it, the biggest problem is we are always calculating life in terms of what we got, and yes, what we didn't.

So true...if ppl stop and look at WHAT THEY ALREADY HAVE, this world wud be a more content place.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Rakesh!


**Courage! Knowing that you will be afraid but not letting fear get the better of you!


that was brilliant!

Courage is not the the absence of fear...its the fear making u FACE ur fears.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hemz tnxx!

:)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty SMM!

yes we can choose to either wallow in self-pity or dance in the basking glory of life.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Tairebabs!


**Even I am guilty of this but I try to smile as much as I can and look on the bright side of life.

oyeah me too! Sometimes I can be VERY NEGATIVE. But to drag that negativity for days and months, when there's really no big issue, is what puts me off.



**Selena

JLo's movie..yeah it was a sad one.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Ani ty sweetz!


**no point in being miserable when just the change of attitude can do wonders for one's life..


exactly! Its all in ur ATTITUDE. well-said girl!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Joyce!

I detest ppl who wallow in self-pity.


**its very true tat wen we r not happy not content its better to see and look at people who are in worse situations that us

yes..but one day when I said that to someone, she told me this:

"Keshi who cares what happens to someone else...this is abt MY life"


I was so put off by her selfishness! Some ppl live as if they r the only ppl living on Earth!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Tarun yes...but sometimes its so very HARD to smile...when things seriously go wrong.


Wut Im trying to say is that some ppl wallow in self-pity for no big reason...for dumb reasons.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Ganesh and WC!


**But Past Pricks sometimes.

Definitely! We all carry our PASTS in our heads somehow...there's no escape from it. But to make the PAST ur PRESENT and FUTURE and dwell on it is no good for anyone. And thats what Im saying :)


Happy Diwali to u too!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Uttsy HUGGGGGGGGZ!

I know ur quite a sensible girl :)

Happy Diwali hun!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Enigma!

yes we cant blame the world for our probs...life must go on. U got a great attitude to life!


**welll looks like one of these days they will have to set me outside to thaw...

HAHAHAHA! Tell her to stay home. And who asked her to get pregz ha? LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Amit tnxx!

u got inspired by this? WOW Im happy :)


TC n be well!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Vish!

And I knew u'd u'stand those concluding lines the best :)


**people are just plain ..

I agree...they just WANT everything, thats why!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Truthful!


**it takes lesser effort to smile than to frown

thats right...when we frown, we become so tired and depressed...but when we smile, we feel good instantly :)



**Selena

yes...sad movie...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

awwwwww Asha HUGGGGGGGZ!

ty for dropping by to say Hi to me...I came ard many times to ur blog but cudnt find a place to comment...I guess u disabled comments during the break?

Well hv a great sabbatical my dear friend! :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Hemanth!


**But, some of us are not equipped with the capacity to let go and move on.

I agree...all of us dun hv the same ABILITIES to handle the same situation.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Elithraniel! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Lavida!


**we can do many, many things that are generally taken for granted

well-said there!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

LOL Bev OMG Im not God!


I agree..bouncing back is wuts IMP.


**That’s why my hits are dropping, I’m killing my readers

HAHAHAHAHA!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Ash!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Aneesh!


**People, when showing arrogance, always look around people who are inferior(or they think) to them. When they are saying about their little problems, they look around people who are superior to them.


so true! HUMANS r so selfish.


I hv a cuz who's only 21 and wants a Merc for his first car!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Diana!

**.....I always find people so content with themselves even when they have nothing. I try to emulate but fall flat many times...


yes me too..its a constant battle...its not gonna stop unless we all attain Nirvana :)


*HUGZ* sweetie!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Sushmita!

good to know that :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Jira!

yes we all do that at time...complain I mean :) And its ok. But to drag it for ages and to make it ur whole life is so broing.


**Optimism is indeed a rare gift!

Spot on! ppl hv to work on it...and then they'll see the joys it brings.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Amy!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Ria!


** There is so much to do n so little time. So rise and shine

spot on! So much to do and so little time! Thats what I always say :)

U know, even when I blog, I always hv that on my mind...I hv so much to do thru this blog, but I feel I hv so lil time...



*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Vicky :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

HAHAHAHA Steve ewwwwwwww!


**The world would smile and laugh more often if we did

I agree LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty KP!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Cyclo!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehehe Deepz so true...

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Pecos!

BREATHE indeedz!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hi Whitesnake ;-)


**Now that was a depressing post

why? I thought this was an UPLIFTING post?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Nirmal!

u can still take part in my kinky post. :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Anits hv a good Diwali! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Southy go ahead plz! :)

Keshi.

jitendra said...

what really fascinates me about your posts is the diametrical variation in its mood and content. Your last post was on sex iq and this one a bit heavier.

Nice. :)

Keshi said...

hey Preeti HUGS n ty!


yes u did really well in that last post!


:)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Arv :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Sol!


**I guess experience is the best teacher

I agree...words, tips, advice, blog posts etc dun really help...cos EXPERIENCE is the best teacher...I always believed in that too.


Keshi.

jitendra said...

and onto the post now.. yes, the best way to stay unperturbed is to understand that 'my stress is nothing compared to what the majority of the people go through'. Some girls might then realise that 'a bad hair day' isnt really a world-changing event in their lives.

Keshi said...

ty Vanilla and WC here!


**its actually high time these pseudo-sad people look around to admire how people in real pain are smiling to life

so true...its annoying when ppl crib over SILLY things!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Crystal!


**Its nt tht the blogger/person who writes something depressing is a sad soul..come on,Kesh..doesn't everyone need a platform o take out their frustration on? :-)
And I agree..everyone has problems,but it ain't right to cll them such stuff



wut did I call who? I wasnt calling anyone names Crystal...and I do know that EVERYONE has a right to vent...I do too. But Im not talking abt that...Im talking abt ppl who crib over stupid stuff...ppl who dun hv anything to whinge abt but does it anyways just cos they CAN.

Im sorry but they r so annoying!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Vinu and Im really glad that u cud draw some positivity from this post. Way to go!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Tiff WC to my world!

Im glad u like this space and Im glad u stopped by to say HI. I can rem ur nic from Steve's and some other blogs too.


The more the merrier, so Im really glad u came by to say Hello. I dropped by ur blog too and it just ROCKS babe!


**Most of all i enjoy meeting an Aus gal online that seems pleasantly different to the mold.. process that statement as you please


woohoo I take that as a smooocherocking compliment? ;-) HUGS n ty!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Karthik!


**i sometimes watch Roots to see hot bad it is for people

u mean the movie ROOTS?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hey Mystique keep smiling mate :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Ankur!


**sometimes we all go into a shell, i dont know when i will come out, i am having a good time at home, yet i m feeling drained, i dont know whats causing this emotional imbalance!!


I u'stand that...we all go thru such phases.


All the best and here's hoping u'll come out of it soon. TC!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Ramya!


** when I now read most of my previous posts, I see how much I've matured as a person!


I agree..Blogging definitely has made me more MATURE.


Slap it is hehehe...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Crasiezt! :)

Nah I didnt put BLOGGING there cos Im obsessed abt it...all I meant by that was if u CAN blog, then u can SMILE too. Cos there r so many ppl out there who dun even know what a PC is!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Sawan!

sometimes Im a teacher...at other times, Im a student...and most of the time, Im a mere humanbeing with lotsa flaws and 'possibilities' too :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Sawan ty! I'll be there soon.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha Dal ty hun!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Gypsy and u too! :) HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey CN ty and yes ur spot on!

Im tagged? woohoo! ;-)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Phoenix!

Both positivity and negativity are natural to humans...we cant avoid either of em. But to make negativity ur whole life is so bloody boring! :)


ur right...such ppl drive others away from em!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Krithika!


**wat u write, the way u write it n so on can in no way be used as a measure to determine ur attitude towards life or even a situation for tat matter


Again I dun agree :) Cos if someone is ALWAYS writing negative posts, it does say something abt their PERSONALITY.

And I believe that wut u write does say ALOT abt u. I dunno abt others, but wut I write here is ME...I dun hv pseudo personalities - one for blog and one for offline. Im ME here and outside too. I cant pretend.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Jeevan and same to ya mate!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Sins WC n ty! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Satish! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Tiff lovely to see ya here again :)

Happy Diwali to ya too! I know alot of South African Indians who live here in Aus too. Really good to know that ur so knowledgable abt other cultures too.



** Iv a request.. detonate a firework for me.. :-) and tell me about it


hahaha!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Happy Diwali to u too My_Life! :) And tnxx!

Keshu.

Keshi said...

ty Maca!

**But in between, everyone need a few minutes to vent, no?

definitely! I do that too.



**It's when they carry on and on and on that it becomes intolerable

And thats exactly what I meant by this post! dun make misery ur life...its annoying!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Raghav!

Thats what I mean...so many ppl r worse off than us and yes we hv to LOOK AROUND...like u said!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Sawan I'll be there soon ok.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty How_do_we_know!

btw d u hv a shorter name I can address u with? :) tnxx!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

yeyyyyyyy Coco! I'll be there soon :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

WC Rachna n ty!

Im so glad that u drew some positivity from this post. Cos it doesnt always happen. We can talk talk talk abt it and some ppl will NEVER get it. But Im glad atleast few ppl here said that their outlook to life is gonna change cos of this post. Way to go! And I wish u well always.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Jitterbug :)


**what really fascinates me about your posts is the diametrical variation in its mood and content. Your last post was on sex iq and this one a bit heavier

mebbe its cos Im bipolar? :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Jitterz!


**yes, the best way to stay unperturbed is to understand that 'my stress is nothing compared to what the majority of the people go through'.


very true! Thats an attitude that many ppl should try and get.



**Some girls might then realise that 'a bad hair day' isnt really a world-changing event in their lives.

hehe :) I agree. But wud the Jitterbug ever look at a girl with bad hair? :(


Keshi.

Prakhar said...

**I love earrings...**

I think u don't know ...the last poem in hindi was titled Earring (Jhumka)

I luv them too...but on gals :D

Krithika said...

hey I dint mean it tat way :)
some ppl tell it like it is n yet are mistaken for bein pessimistic
like for instance when ppl say- yikes..I'm dead meat.got a deadline to meet..hate my job- it doesn mean they're inherently pessimistic right?

and wat about "gosh..i look awful..i've gotta lose some weight"?

im sure there are times when we say or let alone say, feel this way.so, is tat not called cribbin? or is it cribbin only when we put it all down in writing?

Keshi said...

hey Prakhar!

**Jhumka

wow I learnt a new Hindi word :)

btw earrings look good on some guys too.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

I agree Krithika..but thats not wut I meant thru this post. We all crib that way :)

ppl who whinge for silly reasons and make whinging their whole life...its thats kind of ppl that Im talking abt.

Keshi.

Priya Joyce said...

yes y some ..there r many many selfish ppl all around us....

ah!...

WarmSunshine said...

Hey Keshi, thanks for this post that really has brought a smile to me :)

Keshi said...

Yes Joyce...some dun pose as selfish but r truly very selfish! I feel those vibes from them.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Sunshine Im glad :)

Keshi.

Prashanti said...

Hey keshi...love ur writing ....am new to the blogging world..came here thru diana's blog and now am addicted... u deserve the new award that u got ...

Keshi said...

WC Prashanti and ty! :)

Keshi.

Adisha said...

hey ,

True. I truly believe that there's always someone out there whose got it worse than I do ...

Hell ! No matter what the situation, things could always have been worse and I'm just thankful for That mess that didn't happen...

My best wishes to your friends who need them now. Hope they find the strength to keep smiling and being brave.

Cheers,
adisha

Heart'n'Soul said...

Oh me gawd

hope u not talkin bout me - cuz really, i have been away more cuz of work.... u r not talkin bout me na?

but on a serious note, sulkin is like a quick sand - the more u sulk the more it sucks u in... sooner u come out the better.

Keshi said...

hey ty Adisha!


** I truly believe that there's always someone out there whose got it worse than I do ...


exactly wut Im trying to say. u and I r always better off than someone out there!

Sadly many ppl dun wanna see it that way...cos ppl r selfish.



*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Div how can this post relate to u? no ways dahlin HUGS!


**sulkin is like a quick sand - the more u sulk the more it sucks u in...

so true!


Keshi.