Friday, January 9

Comfortably Numb




When was the last time you cried?
When was the last time you made someone's day brighter?
When was the last time you spent some time with your mother/father?
When was the last time you gave someone a gift from your heart?
When was the last time you smiled genuinely?
When was the last time you gave a compliment to someone who really deserved it?
When was the last time you enjoyed something without thinking about tomorrow?
When was the last time you really took a good look at yourself before pointing fingers at others?
When was the last time you stopped to smell the flowers?
When was the last time you carelessly rejected someone's genuine gestures?
When was the last time you put aside your ego and extended your warm wishes to someone you didn't like all that much?
When was the last time you respected another's opinion without any conflict?
When was the last time you never thought it would be the last time?


I hate being rejected...and I hate being abandoned. I'm someone who gives alot of attention to each and everyone I come across in my life. Something I can't stand is that effort and genuinity not being reciprocated...no it's not an expectation...it's called 'principles of life'. I have certain values in life and I would like to see them in others too...especially in the people I meet and have to deal with often. And if I don't see the same standards in them, I'm afraid that would be the LAST TIME they get to see me. To me, values that have been embedded in me by nature are my most precious assets ever...and if someone don't respect them, I can never gel well with such people...I'm sorry.


Current Music:
Comfortably Numb by Pink Floyd

165 Cranium Signets:

La vida Loca said...

love, love love ur eye make up
hugs sweetie.

d gypsy! said...

Keshi, i think the paragraph goes for everyone

none would like so..

MultiMenon said...

Hey kesh..seemingly upset today..??sup sweetie?Ur right tho in a way I wud say.Everyone's bound by certain priciples in life.But then,Have u ever wondered abt conflicting principles in u and ur partner?Thats a real possibility too.and that wud spoil much of the cake if it eventually does crop up..

I do agree that at most times I dun give a damn to what anyone else says if I feel that he/she is not right in what they say.but then,there needs to be a small adjustability factor too..dun ya think so??

wishing u a great weekend.. :)
take care..

Nikhil

mayz said...

wat happened???

Hiren said...

when was the last time you thought about me ??? :D

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

principle of life

i have heard one song principle of lust..it got a good tune :P

heheheheheheh..and u wont let me copy the questions :P ?? wat is that thing i m having with my right click on ya blog :P
lol


When was the last time you cried?
yesterday..was watching seven pounds....

When was the last time you made someone's day brighter?
i don kno....i try everyday..jus those whose life gets better never told me so...so...

When was the last time you spent some time with your mother/father?
I was home few days back..and as usual i had awesome a time :P

When was the last time you gave someone a gift from your heart?
I gave 2 pints of blood...and it came from my heart... at least it passed through :P..if it counts

When was the last time you smiled genuinely?
I m doing now..had a awonderful talk with cecile...and now replying in ur blog..both are excellent things :)..worthy enough of genuine smiles :)


When was the last time you gave a compliment to someone who really deserved it?
I said Cecile a french beauty jus moments ago...she is indeed one adn right from outer to her inner self..she is a sweetheart.....oh i appreciated paris hilton too..she got a nice figure u kno :P

When was the last time you enjoyed something without thinking about tomorrow?
Never I guess....may be in kidhood wen I din't knew wat is tomorrow

When was the last time you really took a good look at yourself before pointing fingers at others?
Everyday....even sumone dumps me I can find a way to self loathe...it helps in forgiving them..other wise I m a revengeful guy...they might see the real bad of me...

When was the last time you stopped to smell the flowers?
months.... u kno ...nowadays im concentrating on other flowers :P u kno the god made for we men :P

When was the last time you carelessly rejected someone's genuine gestures?
it happens most of the time..that is the relation between parents and kid..i reject them most of the time..but still i value them and love them beyond anything...

When was the last time you put aside your ego and extended your warm wishes to someone you didn't like all that much?
U kno that.....and in reality i don keep bad relation with anyone...that's me..Sourish

When was the last time you respected another's opinion without any conflict?
It never happened...and won't...not in this life time :P..so beware all :P

When was the last time you never thought it would be the last time?
never ever ....I m trying to quit smoking ..quit oily foods..quit alcohol..and ... :P ...but I always mange to find one more after the last one... :P

heheheheh

so honest answers.......... :P

muaaah welcome back

Chakoli said...

:)))

Very true....

Values are somthing which makes a person adorable and respectable :D

Arunima said...

hmm good to learn your principles of life.
U know what even I have this habit in me. I devote my everything to relationships & unknowingly I start expecting the same 4m the other side.
And when it's not that way I do get hurt bt then I gather strength 2 quit.

Therefore I completely understand what u meant here & moreover sweety u don't need 2 b sorry 4 it.

:)
**********Hugz**********

Arunima said...

ahh one more thing....this post as it comes 4m u....also shows that sumthing went wrong.
Cheer up girl & let it pass away!!!

Shrav said...

I totally agree with your principle! I expect the same of every person I meet too!

btw, what happened??

Suresh Kumar said...

**Something I can't stand is that effort and genuinity not being reciprocated**

This is the sort of conflict sometimes I have with myself. Am I giving too much of myself to the relationship ?
Is it being going unnoticed ?
Am I wrong in asking for my principles and values to be recognized and respected ?

If I say I have the answers, I wud be bluffing. I am clueless and Looking myself for answers.

Cess said...

Hi Kesh,

what s up sweetie, seems a bit a upset,
'I have certain values in life and I would like to see them in others too...especially in the people I meet and have to deal with often. ' I guess it can possible if u re talking about ur friends because u can choose them according to ur principle and ditch them if they don t meet urs but if u re talking about co workers or people u HAVE to deal with not because u choose them but because u have too it s different i m afraid and in that case we might have to make some compromises and damn it can be hard sometimes!
I hope u ll sort it out sweetie, and that the strong, independent, powerful and gorgeous Keshi will be back soon here.
MWAHHHH
take care
C.

Jack said...

Keshi,

Very probing questions. I really wonder how many of us will be able to judge ourselves honestly by answering these. Young Lady, I agree that one should live by values but at times one has to make allowances also keeping in mind other's values. This holds key to a happy marriage too. Not that you change yourself drastically but at times you need to ignore small issues for the bigger picture. I will really be very glad if you make a visit to my space and read as many posts as you can. I will definitely appreciate your comments after that. I have id here also but most of my posts are on o3.indiatimes.com site. You can navigate once you visit me on this site.

Take care

PRADEEP K. said...

Keshi, is something bothering you, girl?

Huggggggzz. Muaaaah to you dear.

Prady

Hemanth Potluri said...

wats wrong sweets .....have to give my ans's sometime after ...pls smile now :)...i am always there ...

urs..hemu..

!TEQ-uila Del Zapata said...

you changed the name and image so soon. i thought its a new post.

1. when i parted with some of my dear friends.
2. I donno, but i guess i may have done it indirectly.
3. 7th dec: it turned out to be a fiasco.
4. i always give gifts from my heart, otherwise i don't
5. i do it often, if i am not doing that sinister gangsta smile.lol
6. Deserve? how do u know if they deserve a compliment, u can compliment whenever u feel like complimenting someone.
7. last rock concert or may be when i bought "back in black"
8. Now that's a tough one: I try hard not to point at others, but its in our blood to poke others, so still undoing that bad part.
9. Haa haa, i dont even remember when i acted like shah jahan and smelled a rose.
10. Never, i dont do that, may be i can act as if I am doing it, but i dont do it knowingly.
11. I did it few days back, someone made some personal remark, i vent out and shouted, then i forgave him.
12. That's easy thing, i do it often, but not on every topic. its matter of how much the guy/gal command the respect.
13. Its little too easy to pretend but may be sub-consciously difficult to realize, but i guess tried it, but have no track of last time.

Anyway, wat happened now girl?
why all this sadness?
you must kick ass**** if u find them, or get a puch bag and punch it and kick it after sticking the name of the jerk who hurt you.

-anuz

Chriz said...

HUGGSSSSSSSSSS

AND THE LINES WERE cooooool indeed.. but kesh.. dont ya go back to your shell again..

vishesh said...

I know what you mean...same thing just can't get along with people,who don't understand my values....less than 2 seconds,boom...

utopia said...

I don't know why but i feel like answering all those questions. bear with me.

When was the last time you cried?
this morning in office, in front of my boss as he told me exactly where i'd gone wrong with my research and it felt really bad.

When was the last time you made someone's day brighter?
i don't know. wish i could answer this one.

When was the last time you spent some time with your mother/father?
some 3 months back. i don't live at home and meet them twice a year. sigh! i beginning to resent this more and more as i grow older.

When was the last time you gave someone a gift from your heart?
hmmmm in august. my best friend. got her this funky wallet.

When was the last time you smiled genuinely?
oh well hmmm a couple of days back. someone called up in the middle of the night and we had the most insane and naughty conversation. ;-)

When was the last time you gave a compliment to someone who really deserved it?
oh i am very genuine with my compliments.

When was the last time you enjoyed something without thinking about tomorrow?
ahaan i indulged in something ridiculous a couple of weeks back. almost shocking actually. didn't think about the outcome and paid the price but i don't regret it.

When was the last time you really took a good look at yourself before pointing fingers at others?
i am mighty good at that. i always only ever point the finger at myself. m my own biggest critic.

When was the last time you stopped to smell the flowers?
long long time. been sooo long.

When was the last time you carelessly rejected someone's genuine gestures?
naaaaa! i can't remember.

When was the last time you put aside your ego and extended your warm wishes to someone you didn't like all that much?
hmmmm not even a month back. tried to make my little peace. but i was too drunk wen i did so.

When was the last time you respected another's opinion without any conflict?
2 days back.

When was the last time you never thought it would be the last time?
i've lost 2 of my closest friends in the recent past over something so silly and i neva thot that the last time i spoke to them wud be the last time i actually did and it sucks and i miss them all the time.

i know how it feels to be rejected. i went through something very similar not even a month back and god knows i tried and i am still waiting but maybe they'd never come back for their own reasons and their beliefs and i feel so upset. can't imagine they are gone forever over something that in the long run wud be so trivial. i felt abandoned after 8 years of knowing them but naaaa i ain't begging any longer. they'll come if they have to orelse too bad. life goes on and we move on....

CяystąL said...

You were write when you said tht both of us speak for each other.



You spoke wht I felt...

enchanted illusionz said...

hugsssss!!!

Princess Mia said...

hello darling....what happened to u eh.....by the way a big warm hug to u sweetheart i am making my way back (slowly) to blogville....

wishing u a happy new year....take care honey see ya around

muuuuuuuuwah!!!

Pri said...

can relate TOTALLY with the post..i think we all can :)

and remember that we dont need to put up with anything/anyone that we dont feel like putting up with...

hope u feel better after venting out..we all need to do that once in a while :)

take care and cheer up!

Asha said...

Look who is back? :))

Well...how are you? Happy belated new year to you, my best wishes for 2009.

Be yourself, whether others like you or not, dunn matter!!
I had a little "stalker" problem last year but dealt with it even though I had to fight with my hubby who thinks I don't have the right to say "NO"!!(she is his colleague).
I value my personal privacy, hate when people intrude when I don't want them to and specially when they are stranger to me.I won't stand for it!!

Whatever it is, this will pass too. Put your head up, stand your ground and take care of yourself. Hugs.

sawan said...

seems like every one is emotionally swinging these days. you take care girle. luv u for wut u are.

*hugs*

Trinaa said...

oyeeeee...whts wrong? something bothering u?

curryegg said...

Hello Keshi.. How are you?
*hugs*

FIrst of all, let me wish you a happy new year. Hope that I'm not too late.. :P

Yes. I will value those who have value, principles and know how to respect others as well.

Hope that you are good there.. Miss ya.. ;D

I'll try 2 be truthful said...

I do almost all of them on a regular basis :D.

yeah i hate being rejected too , but sometimes rejections teach us so much more about life :) .

hey keshi did u read solitaire's getting her story published :D , I genuinly felt happy for her :D
3 cheers to her & u :D

Phoenix said...

i second you.. one must never even dram of lossing their individuality.. leave alone doing it... you have your values straigh thats why ure keshi... strong and confident with your head held hugh!

*hugs*

*~*{Sameera}*~* said...

You go girl!No matter what,one should stick to their principles.

Have a good weekend Kelle!Take care.

Hugsssssssssss

Margie said...

Keshi dear,
You know we are so much alike!

I'm always crying...when I'm happy as well as sad!
Marley & Me was too much for me!

I try each and every day to add some kind of joy to another person's day....I know you do, too.

How I wish my mom & dad were still here....I miss then so much!

Genuine smiles...awww!
They warm my heart....I just gave one of them to my Dog Jake.
He smiled back!

Gitfs of the heart...no better kind....I love giving them & getting them.
You give them to me...thank you!

You know, I have this friend that lives right next door and she is a wonderful role model for me as she is always saying such nice things to me & I do the same with her & other people.

People need praise...it helps them through each day.

To enjoy today (or anything) without thinking abt tomorrow is the key to a happy life...for me anyway!

Hun, I don't have time to answer all of these questions as I'm running soooo late & I have so much to do.
I have to leave for Denver soon as I'm meeting my daughter to go to the symphony tonight...The Wizard of Oz is playing.
I have to go take Jake on a walk & then leave as the weather is supposed to get bad.

Never, never give up your Principles of Life!
I won't either!
Thank you for this post....you are another one of my role models!

Love ya, much!

Margie

gautami tripathy said...

Whats up, girl?

Wishing you a very happy new year 2009..

Hobo ........ ........ said...

When was the last time you cried?
Few days back.
When was the last time you made someone's day brighter?
Few days back.
When was the last time you spent some time with your mother/father?
Each day.
When was the last time you gave someone a gift from your heart?
Few days back.
When was the last time you smiled genuinely?
Few days back.
When was the last time you gave a compliment to someone who really deserved it?
Few days back.
When was the last time you enjoyed something without thinking about tomorrow?
Each day.
When was the last time you really took a good look at yourself before pointing fingers at others?
Few days back.
When was the last time you stopped to smell the flowers?
Few months back.
When was the last time you carelessly rejected someone's genuine gestures?
I do not remember.
When was the last time you put aside your ego and extended your warm wishes to someone you didn't like all that much?
I do not remember.
When was the last time you respected another's opinion without any conflict?
I do not remember.
When was the last time you never thought it would be the last time?
Few years back.
:)

Jay said...

When was the last time you cried?
It's actually been quite a while.

When was the last time you made someone's day brighter?
Today!! I promise I did!

When was the last time you spent some time with your mother/father?
I see my mother almost everyday.

When was the last time you gave someone a gift from your heart?
Just this last Christmas.

When was the last time you smiled genuinely?
After Arkansas beat Texas in basketball earlier this week.

When was the last time you gave a compliment to someone who really deserved it?
I pass out compliments all the time. I like doing that.

My you look exceptionally yummy today Keshi! ;-)

When was the last time you enjoyed something without thinking about tomorrow?
It's been a while.

When was the last time you really took a good look at yourself before pointing fingers at others?
I wish I did this more often, but it's not much fun.

When was the last time you stopped to smell the flowers?
I rarely do this too.

When was the last time you carelessly rejected someone's genuine gestures?
I hope I don't do that. I try not to at least.

When was the last time you put aside your ego and extended your warm wishes to someone you didn't like all that much?
Another tough thing to do. I admit it's been a while.

When was the last time you respected another's opinion without any conflict?
I'm pretty good at doing this, until they just keep pushing and finally say something really silly that sets me off.

When was the last time you never thought it would be the last time?
I honestly don't know.

Did you want us to answer those questions babe? haha

Have a good weekend Keshi!

Nirmal said...

hey keshi...long time here...i hope u had a good week.....i njoyed a bit too...

tc and have a great year ahead

deepsat said...

it is something which most sane ppl can empathize with! if someone can't respect your values, you don't have to consider that someone!!

cheer up!!

ps: don't bond with everyone and anyone. you have the choice!

starry nights said...

I think all of us are guilty of some of the things listed.It was a nice post, it made me look withn myself and ask when was the last time I did something for others.thank ou keshi.Love the picture of yours.

Prashanti :) said...

hey U upset???????????
I thinka lot of people who care a lot about others have this problem when the love is not reciprocated. I also get too attached to everyone in life and find it very hard to deal when things go bad ...but I guess thats just the way you are ..

Prashanti

Southpaw unplugged said...

Welcome to the club keshhaayy!

Arv said...

those thoughts have been haunting me for the last 2 days... hence those posts...

I know this feeling da.. but trust me, they only make you come out better...

am just one mail away... take care... cheers...

Talking To My Soul said...

Heyyy Kesh,

Let us hear the name of the person(s) responsible for putting you off. May be we can use some "solid replies" (remember the last post).

Jokes apart, you don't be sorry for some people who won't make the efforts to respect your values. Say them goodbye. They don't deserve your attention.

Your picture is lovely (I have no clues about eye make-up) but that has you in some angry mood. Look at those eyes, eh! Yep, smile, Kesh.


*smilez*

AmitL said...

Hi,Keshi-let me honestly say,my answers to these ranged from 'yesterday'to'last week'to 'I can't remember'.And, the 'I can't remember' was more related to my own self,like the first question about crying,or,smelling the flowers.:)
---
I do totally understand where u're coming from,in this post...and, it's great to know a sensitive person like you.Quite like the way you term them 'principles of life'. I'd only add that people ignore others mainly because priorities these days have changed in the rat race..and,sadly,the human side of things gets a backseat in preference to earning the most in the minimum of time and looking at others only from the angle of how one can benefit from knowing them.This,of course, if my experience here..in India,things are much better,and,friends,neighbours and relatives do have more time for each other.

TC.
Amit

Urv said...

//I'm someone who gives alot of attention to each and everyone I come across in my life.

Thats true. Thats true. Keshi does that. Keshi does that :)

You know I was trying to recall when was the last time I cried and I as went on reading the other questions, tears rolled down..

//I'm afraid that would be the LAST TIME they get to see me.
KESHI! Mail your list of standards asap. I am scared I might miss out any :(

Btw whats your mail id babe. You can mail it if u dun wanna write here.. Mine's there in my profile..

Pri said...

hi dear..there is a dedication for u on my blog--nostalgic moments...please come and check it out :)

take care!

Raghu Ram Prasad said...

Good questioner..but the questions are simple...and lovely writings

Whitesnake said...

So WHO rattled the cage?

Jeevan said...

One can pass comment on someone; there are some values, which can be worthless to someone but none can demand!

hugs

WarmSunshine said...

The questions really made me think Keshi...

You seem upset with somebody... But yes, values do mean a lot. One should never compromise on them.

Devika said...

as d-gypsy says these principles of live are applicable..

"And if I don't see the same standards in them, I'm afraid that would be the LAST TIME they get to see me." --

bUT, Do you really think, seeing you is important to others??...

Not to upset you, my dear girl....

BUT, I really think the world will not wait for you....Their pace of life keeps the flow no matter what...that's LIFE :)

just a thought shared; don't see it as negativism..it a reality of life, Keshi

wishes,
devika

Kunjal said...

Hi Keshi!!!I really like your"principles of life"!!!you always rock!!!!!

Rakesh said...

Don't worry Keshi, you'll always be given all the attention you deserve at least here on your blog :) Cheer up.

Pri said...

another dedication at my blog for you, dear :)

seeya around

Pecos Blue said...

I agree. Do unto. Happy New Year!

How do we know said...

way to go girl! Am proud of u. At the end of a breakup, I once told the guy "I love you, but its more important that i go on respecting myself."

Resurgence said...

Gal....... wat was the post all about... was it about asking one all the questions in the first half... If yes then I assume I fared pretty well...... :)

Or the post was to vent out ur anger at some episode..... believe me Gal... each one this world is guided by principles.......... it depends on how you take it.... and personally it would be very much your decision to gel with a person or not but professionally you do not always have choice... do you? So though its none of my business.... an advice... try to accommodate other not so respectable and meeting your 'standards' types in ur life too... because the book called 'life' is not always authored by us.... :)

Keshi said...

hey ty Lavida HUGS! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Gypsy I agree but wut d u think abt someone who dun respect others and acts like Judge n Jury but does all the hurtful things? d u think they deserve to say this too?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hey Nikhil!

Ofcourse I give ppl enough chances..but there comes a time when ur done with them for good.


**but then,there needs to be a small adjustability factor too

No..I never ADJUST in life!


Hv a good one!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Mayz!


**wat happened???

LIFE

:)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Hiren!

**when was the last time you thought about me ?

there wont be a LAST TIME for that :)

*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Bro u already saw that movie? Not fair!

ty for answering all the qns! Very honest answers there.


**other wise I m a revengeful guy

I dun think so..ur not vengeful, just very opinionated ;-) And thats ok as long as u know wut ur saying is true.



**opinion without any conflict?
It never happened...and won't...not in this life time

o cmon Im sure u hv done that with me? :)


U better quit smoking from 2009...ok?

TC n all the best!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Chakoli!


**Values are somthing which makes a person adorable and respectable

not necessarily ADORABLE! some ppl hv values that r not good for anyone.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Arunima HUGS!


** I devote my everything to relationships & unknowingly I start expecting the same 4m the other side

its not so much of an expectation...its more like a matching of thought processes. If that doesnt happen, its very hard to get along.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Shrav!

**I expect the same of every person I meet too!

Its hard to EXPECT em from each and everyone we meet but I'd like to see SIMILAR traits. Some ppl hv very degrading and disresepctful auras abt them...thats the kind of ppl Im talking abt.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Suresh for being so honest!


** Am I giving too much of myself to the relationship ?
Is it being going unnoticed ?
Am I wrong in asking for my principles and values to be recognized and respected ?


exactly how I feel. I know that Im giving too much attention and care for some ppl who dun deserve it at all..but this is who I am.

Its not possible to erase a leopard's spots is it :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Cess MWAH!

No, my work-mates r GOLD! I hv the best :)

Its friends and acquaintances...they want everything from me but they dun RESPECT me. So, I guess I dun hv to stick around anymore do I?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Jack!


** I agree that one should live by values but at times one has to make allowances also keeping in mind other's values.

I dun make ALLOWANCES for ppl who hv no RESPECT for others.


btw its not a SMALL issue. These ppl hv been given ALOT of time and space to change...but I realised we can never teach an old dog new tricks. Hence Im done with em.

:)

And I cant get to ur site...it always crashes. I think I told u that b4?

tnxx Jack!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Praddy!


**Keshi, is something bothering you, girl?

some ppl's attitudes bother me...its scary how they go on as if the world is their lab.

:) tnxx for always being there for me Praddy!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hemz dun worry..Im smiling :) And Im just comfortably numb hehe...

Feels good not to FEEL. ;-)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Anuz hey tnxx!

Now I badly wanna see that sinister gangster smile! :):)


**Deserve? how do u know if they deserve a compliment, u can compliment whenever u feel like complimenting someone

dun u hv something called INSTINCTS? :)



**back in black"

AC/DC?



**9. Haa haa, i dont even remember when i acted like shah jahan and smelled a rose

The qn only meant d u take time off to enjoy life and simple joys of it. :)



**Now that's a tough one: I try hard not to point at others, but its in our blood to poke others, so still undoing that bad part.

very true! its hard to do.



hehe Im ok..dun worry. ty so much for answering ALL the qns!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Chriz hey tnxx!

:)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha Vish ur like me then!


**just can't get along with people,who don't understand my values....

yes...I just dun wanna waste my time and energy on such air-heads anymore.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Utopia u cried at work? Dun ever do that. Cos its not v professional to get emotional at work. Just dun take it to hear, work on it and show better results next time.


**got her this funky wallet.

sweet!


** someone called up in the middle of the night and we had the most insane and naughty conversation

ooh lala! ;-)



** i am very genuine with my compliments.

me too. Some ppl DUN wanna give any compliments but love getting em lol! So stingy.



**When was the last time you stopped to smell the flowers?
long long time. been sooo long.

aww now u've got to do something abt this one. take some time out to enjoy life's simpler pleasures girl.



**i felt abandoned after 8 years of knowing them

I know how u feel. The problem with me is Im pretty honest and I tell it like it is. Thats why I dun hv many FRIENDS. ppl often REJECT me even b4 getting to know me. But its ok...those who really know who I am, r still with me :)

And ur friends will come to ya if they r ur real friends.


*HUGZ* n ty for answering all the qns!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Crystal! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

HUGS girl @Enchanted!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Mia HUGS n WB!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Pri for understanding!

**and remember that we dont need to put up with anything/anyone that we dont feel like putting up with...

very true. ppl think that I hv to ADJUST/PUT UP with wackjobs just cos it sounds moral. :) no such luck with me.


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

awwwwww Asha the ANGEL is bak! HUGGGGGGGZ n WB dahlin! I so missed ur presence here. Im so happy to see u bak!


**I value my personal privacy, hate when people intrude when I don't want them to and specially when they are stranger to me.I won't stand for it

I agree! I hate it when ppl treat me like Im nothing and when my space isnt RESPECTED.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Sawan!

**seems like every one is emotionally swinging these days

hehe Im not emotionally 'swinging'...Im quite stable and firm with my emotions :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Trinaa tnxx hun!

Things and some ppl do bother me..this is a post that clearly says that I wont let such ppl bother me again :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Curry HAPPY NEW YEAR to u too HUGS!


**Yes. I will value those who have value, principles and know how to respect others as well

I agree..this is exactly wut I meant from this post! They dun hv to hv the SAME values but I'll only RESPECT those who RESPECT mine.


tnxx hun!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Truthful!


**yeah i hate being rejected too , but sometimes rejections teach us so much more about life

I agree. They all teach us to grow. And from this experience, I really did grow alot.


Also, I dun go where Im not respected and appreciated...where Im treated like I dun need to be treated nicely, and where my genuinity is not recognised.

I hv stopped going to such places. My mum always says 'dun ever step into a house that dun respect u'...and Im sticking by that policy. I can only give so many chances to one person...Im human too.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Phoenix n HUGZ!

**one must never even dram of lossing their individuality..

Spot on! Thats why I can never ADJUST.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Sameera!

**No matter what,one should stick to their principles

exactly wut I meant! I dun TRADE my VALUES for anything or anyone.


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

awww ty sweet Margie HUGS!

I know u CARE...and I know u hv certain VALUES that in sync with mine...actually ALL of em! :)


**People need praise...it helps them through each day

I so agree. Some ppl think WORDS r not good enough...but alot of ppl DEPEND on em to smile. Sometimes it does work!


I love Jake! give him a hug from me ok! *HUGZ COOCHEE COO HUGZ JAKE* :)



**To enjoy today (or anything) without thinking abt tomorrow is the key to a happy life

I know u do that perfectly! Some day I can think abt a beautiful blond girl I met on the net who lives ONE DAY AT A TIME. u r beautiful!


*MWAH* Enjoy ur day Margz!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx n Happy New Year Gautami! :)

Nothing much girl..just the same old grunge ;-)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehehe Hobo..days and months and years it is :)

tnxx!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Jay hey ty for answering ALL the qns!

u hvnt cried in a long time? awww...


**When was the last time you spent some time with your mother/father?
I see my mother almost everyday.


that ans really touched my heart! Good on ya Jay! ppl like u r rarer than we think we know!



**When was the last time you smiled genuinely?
After Arkansas beat Texas in basketball earlier this week.

haha good one! now that wud hv been a very GENUINE smile :)




**When was the last time you really took a good look at yourself before pointing fingers at others?
I wish I did this more often, but it's not much fun.


very true! ppl dun WANNA do it cos like u said, its not much fun. u nailed it!



**When was the last time you put aside your ego and extended your warm wishes to someone you didn't like all that much?
Another tough thing to do. I admit it's been a while.


u know it was tough for me too...but now I hv slowly learnt to do it. there's a big EXCEPTION to it though...I can never do that to someone who DISRESPECTED me before. :)



**When was the last time you respected another's opinion without any conflict?
I'm pretty good at doing this, until they just keep pushing and finally say something really silly that sets me off

haha same here! And then I say 'please fuck off'

:)

ur answers were really honest...ty Jay!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Nirmal tnxx! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Deepz!


**if someone can't respect your values, you don't have to consider that someone!!

exactly wut Im trying to say from this post.



**ps: don't bond with everyone and anyone. you have the choice!

ur so right here! Im trying to FIT IN everyone into my life. I dun think its possible to do so! I hv to learn to let go of some ppl that dun hv the same VALUES in life.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Starry!

u dun hv to feel guilty...just go with the flow...remember its all written in the stars :)

*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Prashanti!


**I also get too attached to everyone in life and find it very hard to deal when things go bad ...but I guess thats just the way you are ..


yes! And some ppl think we hv to be licking their wounds and decorating their lives all the time. In return, they GIVE a damn!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Southy!

And yes Im COMFORTABLY NUMB...and it FEELS great :)

I hv FELT too much for others and now I dun FEEL anything for some of em!


*HUGZ* did u FEEL that now? ;-)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Arv!

And the BEST shall prevail....and ur one of them :)


**but trust me, they only make you come out better...

I agree.


*HUGZ* n ty!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Soul ty so very much for u'standing how I feel!


** May be we can use some "solid replies" (remember the last post).

haha yes! awww...


I agree...I dun hv to keep being a doormat for such ppl. Im done.


ty...but Im not wearing any eye make up.

My SOUL is my usual eye make-up :)

when Im angry, happy, sad etc etc it all shows very clearly thru my eyes hehe...I wish it didnt lol!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Amit tnxx!

**'I can't remember'

Sometimes its better to forget than to remember...so ur alright :)

And ur comment is spot on!


**and,sadly,the human side of things gets a backseat in preference to earning the most in the minimum of time and looking at others only from the angle of how one can benefit from knowing them.

exactly wut alot of ppl r today! They've become PLASTIC. Its all abt them and their glory. When they want us, they come to us. And when they dont want us, they just go. Im done with being treated like some toy.


U nailed it Amit!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Urv :)

**You know I was trying to recall when was the last time I cried and I as went on reading the other questions, tears rolled down..

r ya serious? ur joking right? LOL!


hey dun worry...I dun force ppl to live by MY standards :) I know everyone has their own values and standards. Just that I dun wanna do anything with ppl who dun RESPECT mine...cos I always RESPECT others'.


I'll email ya soon. TC n tnxx!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Pri thats a neat post! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Raghu!

qns r simple cos life is simple..so why complicate it ha? :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Steve hows u?

r ya all 'kiwi' now? :) Dun lose that 'dinky di' charm now!


**So WHO rattled the cage?

hehe nice qn...o well its all standing still now...cos Im comfortably numb now...I cant FEEL any pain anymore!


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Jeevan!

**there are some values, which can be worthless to someone but none can demand

I agree. And Im not DEMANDING..Im just leaving such ppl.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Sunshine girl!


**But yes, values do mean a lot. One should never compromise on them.


yes...I dun wanna hv to do any ADJUSTMENTS with my values!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Devika!

I agree..this applies to everyone. but d u RESPECT others for who they they r? Im sure u do Devika...and I do that to. But if/when someone dont respect u, wut wud u do?



**bUT, Do you really think, seeing you is important to others??...

haha I hope not!

I didnt mean to say that seeing me must be very important to them...but I sure know these ppl crave for me to be in their lives. Well, guess what..they wont hv me anymore in their lives. And even if they dun care abt it, it doesnt matter to me. All I can do is, PROTECT myself.


**BUT, I really think the world will not wait for you....Their pace of life keeps the flow no matter what...that's LIFE

I know that too. But I WAITED for them all this time. So all Im saying thru this post is that Im not going to WAIT for them anymore. Its not something I wrote to say that Im a very important person. :) Sorry u saw it that way.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Kunjal n u too! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Rakesh!

**Don't worry Keshi, you'll always be given all the attention you deserve at least here on your blog

:) I know that...Im BLESSED!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Pri another one? WOW I'll be there soon ;-)

tnxx!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Pecos!

**Do unto

Spot on girl!

ppl r so good at advising HOW TO LIVE LIFE but when it comes to bite their back they are never close to what they preach.


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty How_do_we_know!

**I love you, but its more important that i go on respecting myself."

WOW now ur my girl! Im very proud of u too :) Cos how many women can really say that to a guy on the face!


Way to go girl!

Keshi.

The Phosgene Kid said...

Haven't abandoned you, just been lazy and haven't been on the computer for a while. As I have said before if I was young and unmarried I'd be on my way to Sydney to sweep you off your feet.

Keshi said...

ty Resurgence!

The qns at the beginning were related to some of my VALUES :)


**try to accommodate other not so respectable and meeting your 'standards' types in ur life too... because the book called 'life' is not always authored by us


sure I know that! Im not a LIFE GURU :) Im far from perfect and II dun know anything abt this life...all I know for sure is that Im breathing and one day I wont be. :)

but, I never ADJUST my values to FIT IN someone else in my life. I dun hv to do that. That'll be PUTTING UP with something that Im not 100% happy abt. If someone dun RESPECT me, I just LEAVE em. And this post is abt that.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

o no Phoso I didnt mean that anyways! :) HUGS!

Keshi.

Beach Bum said...

When was the last time you cried?
About a month ago when I started thinking about my uncle that passed away last February.

When was the last time you made someone's day brighter?
I bought my daughter some bubblegum after she realized she had lost one of her stuffed toys. It made her feel better.

When was the last time you spent some time with your mother/father?
That one is tough, my mom has passed and I saw my dad way back in August when he came from Texas to visit.

When was the last time you gave someone a gift from your heart?
My daughter, see above.

When was the last time you smiled genuinely?
Last week at work while walking behind a mom carrying her baby who looked at me and smiled. It made my day.

When was the last time you gave a compliment to someone who really deserved it?
My son who surprised the Hell out of me by cleaning up his room, for no reason I can find.

When was the last time you enjoyed something without thinking about tomorrow?
Good question.

When was the last time you really took a good look at yourself before pointing fingers at others?
Honestly, another good question.

When was the last time you stopped to smell the flowers?
Last November when my daughter and I went down to the coast.

When was the last time you carelessly rejected someone's genuine gestures?
The night my wife wanted to go out with just us with no kids, which is such a rare occurrence I thought she was joking and blew her off.

When was the last time you put aside your ego and extended your warm wishes to someone you didn't like all that much?
Almost everyday to a coworker who finds it amusing to back stab me as much as possible.

When was the last time you respected another's opinion without any conflict?
I don't remember but I have to say I pretty cool about doing that.

When was the last time you never thought it would be the last time?
Anything that has to do with my wife.

Hope you feel better.

Compassion Unlimitted said...

The waves do rock the boat once in a while..Keeps us alert & navigate away isnt it..Keep celebrating Life, Keshi & you know it well
TC
CU

Mystique Wanderer said...

When was the last time you cried?

i had very wet eyes two days ago...a bad conversation happened with someone close

When was the last time you made someone's day brighter?

err...i guess about a week

When was the last time you spent some time with your mother/father?

daily...they are top priority...i dont believe in 'quality time'....i like to give ppl i love...a lot of time

When was the last time you gave someone a gift from your heart?

err...i gave a frnd a barbie doll on her 22/23rd b'day :P

When was the last time
you smiled genuinely?

right now... :)

When was the last time you gave a compliment to someone who really deserved it?

i only give compliments to ppl who deserve it...yesterday only to the co-author of my kinky perverse blog...oh and btw if you wanna get an invite tell me what id to send it to

When was the last time you enjoyed something without thinking about tomorrow?

day before with bro...in the market...good fun we had..

When was the last time you really took a good look at yourself before pointing fingers at others?

err right after that sad fight :P

When was the last time you stopped to smell the flowers?

its cold here...my nose is blocked

When was the last time you carelessly rejected someone's genuine gestures?

not carelessly...genuinely rejected...ppl imagine u to be what u r not...so well gotta correct their misbeliefs

When was the last time you put aside your ego and extended your warm wishes to someone you didn't like all that much?
wednesday met some school ppl not all of whom i like...but i am ok with them now...as long as they maintain their distance


When was the last time you respected another's opinion without any conflict?

same right after the fight...a frnd gave advice on it...and i agreed

When was the last time you never thought it would be the last time?

aah...now u pushing needles into the heart...sorry no can answer :P

Hiren said...

an haan ... thats a nice reply ... :)

Tarun said...

When was the last time you cried?
After giving my Finance exam.lol

When was the last time you made someone's day brighter?
Couple of days early in the morning,had to wake up mom, so witched on the lights.


When was the last time you spent some time with your mother/father?
Fathers keeps buys, so most of the times it with ma.
But v try to dine together.

When was the last time you gave someone a gift from your heart?
Someone b'day I guess.

When was the last time you smiled genuinely?
When I woke up this morning.

When was the last time you gave a compliment to someone who really deserved it?
Again, before the Finance exam.

When was the last time you enjoyed something without thinking about tomorrow?
Recently when I attended a warning.

When was the last time you really took a good look at yourself before pointing fingers at others?
People who do those things are extint. (or in rare species list)

When was the last time you stopped to smell the flowers?
Flowers in a concrete Jungle like Mumbai?

When was the last time you carelessly rejected someone's genuine gestures?
Someone was genuinely trying to piss me off,I rejected it all. ;)
(I know the answer is insane)

When was the last time you put aside your ego and extended your warm wishes to someone you didn't like all that much?
I think I have to do it many a times a day.(in real life)

When was the last time you respected another's opinion without any conflict?
Breakfast, today morning.

When was the last time you never thought it would be the last time?
Never say never BJ.
Life find way ofr u to accept things, which u thought u would never have to.
Moving on is the key.

Happy Sunday.
No beer or chicken this weekend.

Ria said...

yes we all r like that. I dont keep in touch with ppl who i knw will never b able to reciprocate to my feelings and emotions. But i guess some ppl r jus so shallow and superficial tht u cant expect it from them!!

deepsat said...

sometimes it is perfectly ok to be a bitch. some ppl deserves that treatment. thats how the world is girl, so cheer up!! ;-))

tsduff said...

FYI – I’m not “stealing” – I am merely trying to answer your questions with my limited memory… ha ha ha

When was the last time you cried? Today – I’m experiencing a high volume of menopausal symptoms… 

When was the last time you made someone's day brighter? – A few days ago I complimented a beautiful woman on her hairstyle… she beamed. So did I ;)

When was the last time you spent some time with your mother/father? – I haven’t been blessed with my Mother’s presence since she died December 22, 2002. I saw my Dad just before Christmas at my house where he came to visit.

When was the last time you gave someone a gift from your heart? It isn’t much, but tonight I gave my Love a sweet wine called a Reisling which I just found out he loves. (I don’t care much for it). I think what you give with someone else in mind is from your heart.

When was the last time you smiled genuinely? Today, when I kissed my Son a surprise hello/goodbye as I drove him to the airport to go to his wife’s Oma’s funeral. It is always GOOD to see him.

When was the last time you gave a compliment to someone who really deserved it? Today I told my Love his hair looked great. It did  When I give a compliment, I think they deserve it. EVERYONE deserves compliments, and more people should make it a regular practice to do so. Every person on this earth has something special worth complimenting.

When was the last time you enjoyed something without thinking about tomorrow? Unfortunately I’ve been experiencing several of these days all in a row. I fluxuate between worrying about tomorrow, and then NOT worrying about tomorrow. We went to the movies yesterday and I didn’t worry about manana. With no job, I think either I’ll be a bag lady living under a bridge, or I go over the edge the other way, into dreamland where reality recedes into a far horizon.

When was the last time you really took a good look at yourself before pointing fingers at others? Gosh, I sound like some martyr but I feel I have nothing to judge other than at the folks that laid me off from my last job. I’m still honestly trying to fix that resentment.

When was the last time you stopped to smell the flowers? HA! I smelled my winter roses just today, before I pruned the rest of them (my hands are so shredded from not wearing gloves… 

When was the last time you carelessly rejected someone's genuine gestures?This one was tonight, when my Sweetie wanted to go to bed and I just wanted to play on the computer because I wasn’t tired.  He is snoring next to me as I write this.


When was the last time you put aside your ego and extended your warm wishes to someone you didn't like all that much? Today I also had to include my Son’s Mother in Law in the trip to the airport – all was well, but sometimes it feels so fake…

When was the last time you respected another's opinion without any conflict? I do often bite my tongue, but honestly I can’t tell you the last time.

When was the last time you never thought it would be the last time? When I brought my book to the hospital, thinking my Husband’s illness was just one more of the same… and that I would just be reading all night and take him back home with me the next day… he died at 7:30 am the next morning… I had no idea.

Keshi – I don’t usually take the time to answer these things but this one seemed worthwhile. I wish you every happiness this year, and please don’t let us blogger friends down. You are the most consistent, uplifting, optimistic and wonderfully fresh blogger on my list – truly a blessing to so many readers. Thanks for all you give of yourself – it is all very much appreciated. Happy new year my dear.
Love Terry

Talking To My Soul said...

Kesh,

It sure did show in your eyes. See again. The SOUL says everything, I say. And it's always beautiful.

*smilez*

Sapna Anu B.George said...

good to read you meet you here in this blog keshi

Satish Bolla said...

hi buddy, is this a continuation to the previous post? something bad happened?

Richa said...

hmmm.. Keshi isnt in spirits??

i know, i agree, my worst fear is being left alone..

take care buddy!!

:)

love yah..

Cess said...

no u don t have to stick around to please people that don t give a shit.
First cz u ll have to fake it now that u are aware of it and two it s time consuming for u sweetie, u should spend that time for something or someone else.
Now it s up to u dear!!!!
u take care
C.
PS: u still have my mail if u wanna dig deeper MWAHHHH

Kartz said...

Hmmm... I can quite relate to that. But as I said, whenever I have differences with someone when it comes to "principles", I am reminded of a stark truth.

The 5 fingers of your hand are not of equal length. Yet, they work in harmony.

We may have our differences. If we can accept and appreciate them, we are well on our way.

But we are humans, after all... And Salvador Dali comes to mind - Have no fear of perfection; you'll never reach it.

Ah well, in today's world we have to lead life on our terms. Reality, reality...

A very thought provoking post.

Yes, am back from a 'forced' hiatus. Off to read what I've missed.

Trust all is well.

Peace.

CяystąL said...

Its so tough to feel tht people can't be trustworthy..selfish selfish world..but can we do anything? NO!..
we can only make an improvement in ourselves..'cos however we might like our attitude...we have to change it fr others to sit on here..

Btw--why's your email id not given in your profile? I wanted to mail you..huuumph!!

SAURABH AGGARWAL said...

i loved this one.. i liked d way u expressed loud n clear.. values really r most important part of life as they r the one that define a human being..

AnonymousBlogger said...

True true, Kesh. The problem is, there are many people in the world who only care about themselves. I guess what you're doing is picking the best the world has to offer with your standards. It's not a bad thing. I think it's a good thing.

I think the only problem is you might end up disappointed more times than not.

prabirsaha said...

Hi Happiness, How are you? :))

One thing I learnt from my mentors that the most rejected person are also the most accepted person too.

So be strong Keshi, handle rejection and you will shine and let others shine in your light as well.

Cheers
Prabir

Keshi said...

BB u love ur kids alot...ur a great father u know.

And tnxx alot for answering ALL the qns!

I rem ur uncle's passing...DEATH of a loved-one is something that leaves alot of ppl in grief forever. *HUGZ*



**Almost everyday to a coworker who finds it amusing to back stab me as much as possible.


WOW ur a rare humanbeing then. I admire ur resilience!




**When was the last time you never thought it would be the last time?
Anything that has to do with my wife.

that sounds really sad...I sometimes wonder if ur living a nightmare...but ur doing it for ur kids sake, at the cost of ur own happiness. *HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty CU!

I agree...sometimes the tide is high...but I know I will bring my soul to safety in no time.

:)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hey Mystique tnxx alot!

I know u value SPIRITUALITY and thats great. ur love and respect for ur parents, ur devotion to God and ur gentle spirit are some things that admire abt ya.


u gave a Barbie doll to a friend? awww how nice is that now :)


**day before with bro...in the market...good fun we had..

wonderful! every outing should be like that...enjoy it to the max w.o. a care abt tmrw!


ur Kinky blog is rocking! :) I went in there and read it too...just didnt hv time to comment. Will do so today ok. tnxx!



**not carelessly...genuinely rejected...ppl imagine u to be what u r not...so well gotta correct their misbeliefs

I agree totally!



**same right after the fight...a frnd gave advice on it...and i agreed

good on ya! Sometimes we've just got to stop and think if we are wrong too.


I hope ur blocked nose gets better soon :)


hv a good one mate!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

;-) Hiren...cos ur always on my mind.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Tarun tnxx!

lol @exam! cmon it cant be that bad??



**Couple of days early in the morning,had to wake up mom, so witched on the lights

THAT WAS LAME TARUN LAME! lol!



**Recently when I attended a warning

HUH? Tarun u drunk tonite?



**Flowers in a concrete Jungle like Mumbai?

hehe Im basically asking if ur enjoying the simple things in life...if u hv the time to LIVE, not just EXIST :)


I agree..Moving on is the key. But before Moving on, there's alot of tears that will be shed Tarun.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

I agree Ria...we r all made with different 'ingredients' and some of us just wont get along..and thats ok :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Deepz!

yes, I hv a BITCHY side too :) And when that side is stroked, I can be a person u wud never wanna know hehehe...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Terry u know I love ya alot babe! Ur a GENUINE mate...thats the only thing Im sure of :)


ur a lovely person by nature...u always give out positive vibes, love and smiles to all ard ya...I hv noticed that over all these years.


**Today, when I kissed my Son a surprise hello/goodbye as I drove him to the airport to go to his wife’s Oma’s funeral. It is always GOOD to see him.

His wife died? omg Im v sorry to hear that. *HUGZ*



** EVERYONE deserves compliments, and more people should make it a regular practice to do so

I agree totally! I see how some ppl r so short of compliments to others but crave for themselves. Its a v selfish world u see.



**With no job, I think either I’ll be a bag lady living under a bridge

I know..its hard not to think abt tmrw...but I really hv mastered it...cos Im so sure that tmrw never comes..when its abt to come, its become TODAY and thats all I hv :)



**other than at the folks that laid me off from my last job. I’m still honestly trying to fix that resentment.


girl Im sure u hv something more exciting in store for ya, trust me! we've got to shed the OLD to step into NEW skin. ur on ur way Terry!



**Today I also had to include my Son’s Mother in Law in the trip to the airport – all was well, but sometimes it feels so fake…

haha! I can u'stand. o well, fake smiles r sometimes way better than true fights :) wut say?



Terry ty so much for being so HONEST with ur answers to ALL the qns! I enjoyed reading em and getting to know u more. All the best for 2009 hun! U will be ok. TC n HUGS!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty SOUL! ;-)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Sapna WC to my world! :)

and tnxx alot!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hey Satish no its not a continuation :)

But Im ok, duncha worry.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Richa!

Its in our SPIRIT yes! Now can we go against our SPIRIT..I guess not. :)

*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey ty Cess!

ur spot on! Im not here to please the whole world.


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Kartz WB n tnxx! :)


**The 5 fingers of your hand are not of equal length. Yet, they work in harmony.

I agree but wut wud u do if someone tries to put u down in every possible way? Fingers dun hv emotions and a heart...humans do. :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Crystal!


**we can only make an improvement in ourselves..'cos however we might like our attitude...we have to change it fr others to sit on


nope..I never CHANGE for OTHERS...:) I cant change...Im who I am. And as long as Im not a hinderance to others, I dun think I need to change anyways. ppl who look down upon others r the ones who need to change!


Will email u soon :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Saurabh!

Im glad u got the aim of this post very clearly :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty AB!


** I guess what you're doing is picking the best the world has to offer with your standards.

yes! hereafter Im not gonna try and ACCOMMODATE every bloody idiot in my life lol!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

awww ty Prabirsaha!


**the most rejected person are also the most accepted person too

thats a very interesting quote! I like it. There's a deep truth to it.


Keshi.

prabirsaha said...

Keshi, you are very inspiring and am looking for someone like u who can grace our blog too, would u be interested to write for us? The name of the blog is www.transformationplus.blogspot.com

If you are interested then kindly write to me in Prabir.Saha@transformationplus.com

SaffronSaris said...

Just saw this today, are you okay poppy doll-pearl?
I'd like to think its the busy life that's taking the toll on relationships, and the seemingly omnipresent blackberry. Imagine having to sms your dining partner seated across the table from you to get his/her attention because although he/she is physically present, he/she is busy thumbing away at the phone/blackberry.
Well, I would decline meeting up with such people in the future too.

Southpaw unplugged said...

Yes i did felt that warm hug...:)

Shionge said...

Keshi, hope you are well Sweetie and hey, no apology needed for such person in your life.

I have my fair share of such person and we moved on and you did well pal.

Satish Bolla said...

@keshi
oh, good to hear that.

!TEQ-uila Del Zapata said...

>>>>>>>>dun u hv something called INSTINCTS? :)

I am about to write an article on Instincts, will share with you.

>>>>>>>>**back in black" AC/DC?
offcourse, who else?

>>>>>>>>>The qn only meant d u take time off to enjoy life and simple joys of it.

I knew it offcourse. I was taking it literally to add some fun, "lack of ability to comprehend things the way they should be", is there some scientific name to it?(Kurt Cobanism, lol)

Keshi said...

hey Prabirsaha tnxx!

I left a comment there :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ur so right Saffy! So many ppl r fast becoming PLASTIC. :(


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Southy :)

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Keshi said...

I so agree Shionge, tnxx alot HUGS!

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Keshi said...

:) Satish

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Keshi said...

hey Anuz! :)

** is there some scientific name to it?(Kurt Cobanism...

hahaha good one!


Keshi.

Tarun said...

OMG.

Excuse me for the typos...

It wasnt warning, it was suppose to be a marriage.

I dont know how did I get that wrong.

Keshi said...

lol Tarun its ok :)

Keshi.

Deepti said...

Bad day? Sorry late here .. have no net at home these days .... so need to sneak in some time during work hours :((
Take care n hugzzzzzzz

Kartz said...

You do have a point, friend. But your fingers are *connected* to your heart. And are automatically emoted.

Ever know how beautiful it is to hold someones hand? An arm across the shoulder..? Of course you would, I think! The eyes, the lips, the hands... Can convey a lot.

Anyway, moving on...

**wut wud u do if someone tries to put u down in every possible way?

Well, somewhere inside me dwells a pompous, fiery, bourgeois snob. (I dedicated a nonnet to him. :D )And that's when 'attitude' kicks in. Sure you have lots of it. :)

Thanks for the welcome. Yeah, sure does feel good to be back from a dour fortnight.

Peace. Be well.

Keshi said...

hey its ok Deepti. ty n HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Kartz u sure do hv a great ATTITUDE! :)


**Ever know how beautiful it is to hold someones hand? An arm across the shoulder..? Of course you would, I think! The eyes, the lips, the hands... Can convey a lot.


I hv known all that too :) but I've also known the pain of realising it all ended, like being woken up from a dream.


Keshi.