Thursday, March 6

The Diverse Individuality

My last post about MY Favourite Indians caused some uproar and disappointment in few Indians (very few not to care). But I want to get a point across to those who think they can control what others think and do. So here it is. When I published that post, I didn't expect a negative reaction...well not this ridiculous anyways. Cos that was a happy and totally FUN post. However few people saw it as a 'shallow' and 'disrespectful' post. Seriously, who do some people think they are? This is MY blog, and I write whatever I want. Now I know that whatever I write about is open to discussion and I respect that...but when people cross the limits and demand me to write what THEY want instead of what I want, that's when I draw the line and say PISS OFF! I'm not gonna be polite to those who are rude to me. You get what you give. You try to force your opinions on me, you will be told off by me. BEWARE of the venomous thorns of Keshi! I go to a blog to read someone's post and comment on the post, not to mock their person and question their credibility. Some people have the nerve to do that and it's really appalling! It's a shame on the very thing that they're trying to protect...their origins. This blog world is no different than the real world...people are always pointing fingers at others when a thousand fingers are pointing at themselves.


Indians have played a big part in my life. Though I'm originally Sri Lankan, I have Indian blood from my mother's side (she's a Tamil herself). Sri Lankan Tamils originally came from South India. My father is a Sinhalese, and the Sinhalese are of Indo-Aryan origin. So yeah, roots-wise I have Indian blood in me. But I was born in Sri Lanka and lived in Australia long enough to call it my home . So I'm kind of a cultural fruit-salad and I'm proud of it. Cos that has made me stronger and taught me how to appreciate EVERY nationality, not just MY nationality (unlike some people in my comment section behave!). I'm quite friendly with people from around the world and I respect a person for his/her individuality, not skin color. So when I choose to write about my fav Indians, it's entirely upto me to write MY favs...meaning Indians who I know about, who I like, who I have been influenced by etc. Now if I were to write about EVERY great Indian there ever was, I'd have to create 100 blogs to do that! Besides I havent lived in India and I don't read The Indian Express to know about every single Indian who's influencing YOUR life...I read the Sydney Morning Herald btw! This was just one simple post about the immediate Indians that came to my mind and bang, there was a huge war declared by some very opinionated people! WHY? Cos some people are always waiting to mess around with others...take their frustrations on others...frikkin force their opinions on others. And why again? Cos they have no respect for INDIVIDUALITY. This is the one big reason behind ALL wars in this world today. People don't wanna look beyond themselves, try and understand that people are individuals and have various likes and dislikes, that different people come from different backgrounds, that each person's opinions have been shaped by what they have experienced in their own lives, that beliefs and perceptions are never going to be the exact same between 2 people. I.O.W. some people are incapable of 'seeing' and 'respecting' others for their Individuality, they are plain SELFISH that all they ever think of is THEMSELVES and THEIR opinion. It's a total weakness and I think it's the worst quality one can have. Indian or English, Gay or straight, Tongue-pierced or unpierced, Actress or IT Consultant, Gandhi or SriDevi, Young or old, Tall or short, Round or square, Shallow or deep, God or human....whatever it is, the most beautiful thing about each and everyone of us is our Individuality. Imagine all of us dressed the same, walked the same, worked in the same field, thought the same, valued the same things etc etc...just imagine how dull this world would be then! So be proud of your individuality...don't let few arrogant people change who you are.


No one has the right to question WHY I chose a person to be in my list and not that other person! Just how the F**K does that work? This is my blog and my thoughts. So back off! Entertainment plays a big part in my life. And Entertainment is a big industry and it sure does feed alot of people's emotions. Movies and music is a must in MY life (and I'm sure in many others' too). Many actors and actresses are following their passion and doing a great service to people. Atleast those artists have brought real recognition to India...what have you done to your country than just being a strong nationalist in words only? Most movies that I watch portray real-life stories and emotions that we all go through and I have great respect for people who make good movies and music. I believe that if you can't enjoy a movie and you mock all actors just cos of few bad ones, then you can't be human. You're just living in a fogged up world...fogged up by what SHOULD be right, not what IS right for you. I don't live under anybody's shadow. I prefer to be myself and live MY life than follow what my life SHOULD be. If you think I'm shallow, so be it...I really don't give a damn about what you think about me, cos I'm quite comfy being me. And guess what, I'm not here to please anyone either.


So yeah, what if those are MY fav Indians? Yes John is HOT (and I would love to do him too!) and that's why he's in MY list. Yes SriDevi is a gorgeous actress and that's why she's in MY list. Yes Gandhi is a great person and that's why he's in MY list. MY doesn't mean this is the whole world's fav list! If that was so difficult for you to understand, then I can't help that. Let people be the individuals that they are. If you have something to say about YOUR favs, then do your own post and let the world know about it. Just don't tread on my territory and force your lifestyle on me. That is the lowest one can get. I respect YOUR individuality and I'd like you to respect MY individuality too. This is me, there's only One of me, take me as I am or just get off my back. ***looks you in the eye***



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Menchie said...

You tell 'em girl!

wp 2007 said...

Hi Keshi

Give it to them girl! I liked that post!

It's called freedom of speech for the morons who seem to think they have the right to sensor what others write or say!

I don't get angry too often, but self-expression is very important to me, and when I see idiots who think they can stifle someone because their simple puny brains don’t like what they hear or read, it makes me very angry!

Bev

fingers said...

This comment is brought to you by the number 'ZERO', which was invented by the Hindu mathematicians Aryabhata and Varamihara in India around or shortly after the year 520 A.D...

Sweetstickychewy said...

Such a breath taking post. You spoke loud, clear and fantastically in this post. I think the whole world needs to read this post.

And I honestly can’t stand people who try to force their damn thoughts, perceptions and whatsoever way they think is right in their eyes. So yeah they should free themselves and get a kit kat . YUM! Life would just be so much happier. :D

And I can’t believe there was a war cause of ur yesterday post. :O


U know what makes you hot KESHI? This post and the person you are expressing to be in this post. YOURSELF! Rock it girl!:D

I can’t help but taste the beauty of not letting others rule your world than you, yourself and what you’ve done, walked etc. Something to be inspired abt.;)

Love it so much gurl! I could not stop reading! Hawts!

Coco said...

keshi,
i am thrilled that you are speaking your mind! if someone doesn't like what you say, then they shouldn't stop by...

i just read your Indian Favs...
and i found NOTHING OFFENSIVE! this post (and blog site) is for your OWN opinion...peole need to respect you.

i liked your post (FAV Indians) 'cause i learned from it!
i already knew a few personalities, but "met" others : )

keep posting girl!!

hugs & blessings

carolinagal said...

You go girl!!!

Jay said...

Yeah, I get crap like this all the time. People bitching and whining about what I post and telling me I should post this or that. Who freaking cares what they think? Losers.

anits said...

cool baby cool!...hugzzzz

willheim said...

wowww! keshi gets mad!!!!! i have never heard you mad like this!

it's exciting for me. isthatok?

me? i thought nothing of your last post. why would people get weird?

my take away was something like: wow look at all these handsome beautiful people. and i thought, huh, there is this whole indian entertainment industry and culture that i know nothing of.

well, i know one little thing. tiny. i designed a pendant for myself made out of platinum and diamonds and a big 6 carat sapphire. i wanted a really neat sapphire and i found that that best ones in the world came from sri lanka. and that the deepest blue ones were the best. and that they heat treated most sapphires to make them a deeper blue.

but that an untreated stone had more, mojo or something. so i got a beautiful untreated 5 or 6 carat sapphire from sri lanka.

it is surrounded by diamonds and platinum.

i spent 18 grand on it.

but that's me. eccentric weird friggin beverly hills composer.

i love you. wish you were here.

Gonecase said...

Keshi-Angry young woman, the lady Amitabh :P
And thanks for dropping by, its been a long time :)

PREETI said...

awesun! way to go!

i wish i hd the guts to tell off a lotta ppl! i thnk im quote u in the future...hehe...somethin on the lines of 'Declaration of Freedom' :)

bt i sooo agree..i cn never understand how some ppl think its their natural rite to be mean and imposing...someone once told me,'hey ur blog isnt allll tat bad'...it hurt!cuz i dint even intend for it to b read by anyone else...ni write wat i wanna write!i dont write to entertain the masses...bt i guess they'd never ever understand...

mean,mean ppl!

Solitaire said...

Keshhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

OMG! You are pissed as hell!!!!!!!!

Is it because I said I am abandoning your blog for one day and that SRK is a dimaag ko shot?

:(

Keshi said...

ty Menchie hun!

When Im pissed beyond recognition, I say what I HAVE TO SAY and pretty strongly too.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Bev!


**freedom of speech

its just that some morons dun u'stand that. Cos they still live in caves.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Fingers lovin it! ;-)

Keshi.

J. Andrew Lockhart said...

that first picture - WOW!

Steph said...

If your blog attracts a large readership you are always going to get people who disagree with you. My thoughts are that if we hit publish on our blog then we invite comment, be it good or bad. HOWEVER, when someone is being deliberately inflammatory, or arguing for the sake of being a pain in the arse, then that's out of line.

I look at visiting a blog as visiting someones online home. I try to treat it with the same respect I would if I were actually visiting them.
If I don't like the blog, I usually just don't visit anymore, hit the X and move on.
Unless it's Fingers blog, then I have to stay and insult him for a bit cos thats how we roll :P

Keshi said...

aww tnxx Amy HUGS!

u know I tell it like it is. if someone tries to f**k with me just cos their ego is irrepairably massive, Im not gonna sit n watch. I take my sword out...the intangible sword that is hehe. No one treads on 'Keshi'.


And I HEART ya hun!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty so much Coco MWAH!

**i just read your Indian Favs...
and i found NOTHING OFFENSIVE

me neither :) Just that some weirdos need something to pounce on all the time.


*rolling eyes*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Carolinagal! ;-)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Jay!

**Who freaking cares what they think?

LOL exactly!

Giving one's opinion abt a topic is fine...I welcome constructive criticism but when it goes beyond the post and treads on my personality and my life, Im just not gonna take it.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Im cool Anits :) just that few ppl lost their cool from such a simple post..LOL!

Keshi.

Nora said...

Gosh, what on earth would anyone find offensive about your last post? Maybe they're jealous of John?? :) Like I said before, ignore them Keshi. They totally miss the point of blogging.

Nora

Keshi said...

hey Willz lol I can get VERY MAD. U hvnt seen me like that..I hv done some very ugly posts b4..with just the F word and nothing else :)


**it's exciting for me. isthatok?

hell yeah its ok cos it kinda raunchy isnt it haha!



**really neat sapphire and i found that that best ones in the world came from sri lanka. and that the deepest blue ones were the best

yes SL is very fanous for it's gems. The blue sapphires are beautiful!

wow ur a rich man arent ya! I better get a BF from Beverly Hills LOL!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww and I wish u were here too Willz...and I LUV YA too MWAH!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey GC tnxx!

**the lady Amitabh

huh? :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Preeti tnxx hun!

2 things u should never be afraid of:

1. Being YOURSELF
2. Showing ppl the door when they intrude your person




**i cn never understand how some ppl think its their natural rite to be mean and imposing...

me neither. Its like they hv this huge duty to force themselves upon others. They need to get a life.



**someone once told me,'hey ur blog isnt allll tat bad'.

u should've replied 'much better than ur's, yes'


:)

HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyyy Solitaire HUGS!

**Is it because I said I am abandoning your blog for one day and that SRK is a dimaag ko shot?


OMG so not! lol why wud I get angry for that? I love that kinda honest reaction from my blog mates.


No it's not u at all! Just read the comment section in my last post..u'll find out who I meant.


luv ya gal!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Andrew its a very attractive pic isnt it! Speaks volumes.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Nora MWAH!

**they're jealous of John??

LOL yes! They even said that. :)


Keshi.

Gonecase said...

I knew you might require the explanation:
Amitabh Bachhan, who happens to be a bollywood hero, was famous as Angry Young Man

Solitaire said...

*Heaving a sigh of relief*


WTF at those comments! Truly obnoxious and ridiculous!

BTW, I still think SRK is #$$#$$^@$@$@!

:p

Pri said...

OMG keshi!! u r really angry and its very evident from ur post...

u know what keshi...like i always say "those who mind shouldent matter"...i understand its very difficult to control the rage when it comes to some ppl but then u would be causing more harm to urself than them...
its a good thing u let them know exactly what u felt and voiced ur opinion soo frankly..but now thats it done, dont let it affect u anymore...
just forget them and move on!
ppl will disagree...ppl will ridicule...ppl will argue...but thats them...we should learn to manage them and if they are too irritating to be managed then give a damn...or rather dont even give a damn!!

take care girl...
and dont be upset over such things...they arnt worth it :)

Keshi said...

hey Stepher ty for that!


** HOWEVER, when someone is being deliberately inflammatory, or arguing for the sake of being a pain in the arse, then that's out of line.

Spot on! Thats exactly wut I meant by this post.



**I look at visiting a blog as visiting someones online home. I try to treat it with the same respect I would if I were actually visiting them

I agree..its the same way I see someone's blog. U dun visit someone's house and insult them. Well-said girl!



**Fingers

lol cute!


HUGS luv and tnxx again!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha GC ok tnxx! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Solitaire tnxx hun! **breathes a sigh of relief over here too** :)


**BTW, I still think SRK is #$$#$$^@$@$@!


LOL hahaha ok no worries! Is he manic or something? LOL!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Pri!

yes I was really angry at how some ppl were trying to iron me flat with their egoes and opinions..going on and on abt something they prolly didnt even think abt until I posted that post. :)


**its a good thing u let them know exactly what u felt and voiced ur opinion soo frankly..but now thats it done, dont let it affect u anymore...

yes I agree.


tnxx n HUGS!


Keshi.

@purV said...

whooosh..looks like quite a lot's goin' on this blog! I didn't go through what happ, but this post kinda says it all.. Happy whipping..

Lord Tennisanyone said...

All you need to do is start writing crappy posts about things that nobody is interested in.
Works for me.

If I had your problems I'd burn mine.

maverick said...

lol...cartoon ho tum....cudnt reply earlier ..slept on till 10..n then there was no electricity for a while
newaz...y do u give any importance to a rude comment..let it b..does it really make tht much a difference??ignore it :D

desperado said...

fuck the world...metallica rules \m/

vEENs said...

Good Keshi, I think I saw one such stupid comment...

If they have problems with our choices and views WhyTH dnt they press that small cross on the top extreme corner of the browser and fuck off? --> smethig like this [X]


ok you are dne with the hate post now smile and giggle.. and go see those saries again! :)

I have been gawking at them since last yr.. sme one donate sme money to poor me.. I need that red one!!!!!!!!1

gunj said...

hey girl...jus b wha u are...coz ure great n lovely! let d world take care of itself...jus do watever makes u happy! :)

Prats said...

You know what i've always liked about your blog? You've been honest in whatever you say...and I have always admire that in you. NOt all of us can be so good at expressing what we want to say, there have been times, when I come here and think, Gosh!! this is exactly what I have been thinking...but could never voice it out well......but whatever we do is ours to be...
There is a freedom of thought, expression and speech.
You havent set out to ridicule anyone nor have you asked for any opinions...
I so agree with you....
ITS YOUR OPINION BABES...AND YOURS ALONE....

WAY TO GO GAL!!!

Prats said...

Long back , I had vented out like this too....and its here...if you do get the time read it....I dont want to use up space here and make another post out of my comment :P

its here

Jeevan said...

I took the last post as what some special persons attracts you and was to forget thinking are they too my favorites, but I have my own thoughts on those in your list I like for what they are. This is simple one to know the person liked by each other and for not what cost we dislike and you alike. I like you much for who are you and what we share commonly, that does not mean what nationality you are and looking at your skin.

Well expressive your thoughts keshi.

Dalicia said...

what's wrong with this people? i mean, you didn't do anything wrong.

i like your blog. because you keep it real.
i got to say...when i'm myself with other people. either they like me or not. i hate fakers

anuj said...

'Once a Jerk, Always a Jerk'
'Once a Bastard, Always a Bastard'
'Once a prick, Always a Prick'
'Once a Dog, Always an Animal'

Keshi honey there are some people who just know to fuck around and do nothing good. They talk about how much they respect Gandhi, and the other day they laugh at one of those Mr. Gandhi jokes. It is only when written by someone else that suddenly all their respect comes out and they get all emotional. Else ask them do they keep a pic of Gandhi in their wallet, if they love him so much. FUCK. FUCK them all. Bloody hypocrites.

And it is they who bring bad names to 'India' too. We are not considered a bunch of friendly people for such egoistic bastards.

Had I been you I would have fucked them straight away, and blocked them, fuckers will always be fuckers, but let them fuck somewhere else.

See I can swear a lot .. :D LOL

take care keshi ;)
and next them shove up theirs ..

ALI said...
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Nadine said...

Keshi, I'm sorry someone said bad things about your last post.

I thought it was a fun post and enjoyed all the pictures. I didn't find it disrespectful at all.

Arti Honrao said...

Hi Keshi!

I read your previous post and normally I read the comment section too but 104 comments were too much for me especially when I am not feeling well.
I was shocked to read that you had negative reaction for that post. It was such a simple post "YOUR FAVORITE INDIANS"

I agree to all that you have said in this post. After all, it is YOUR blog!
Be what you are, never change for anyone. Those who are worth would accept you as you are.
I always say - I am what I am and I will never pretend to be what I am not!

Smile please!


*hugs*
GBU
Arti

Keshi said...

tnx Apurv!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Homey tnxx mate!

**All you need to do is start writing crappy posts about things that nobody is interested in.

hehe. I think the problem is in some individuals..not the topics. :)


yeah sometimes I do feel like deleting this blog n disappearing forever. Cos some ppl here r shocking.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Mav! :)

**y do u give any importance to a rude comment

hehe not that I give a damn abt a rude comment. Its abt how some ppl force their crap on others. HOW DARE THEY DO THAT. They may be born like that but its not gonna work with me.


:)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Exactly Dhruv! Well-said :)

Keshi.

PREETI said...

I really liked what steph had to say abt one's blog page bein an online home..tatz sooo well said...man, i seriously wish everyone read tat n understood!

i guess in this crazy world, bein urself is the biggest challenge...n im tryin to stay abve the pressure of mergin in :)

*sigh* wat we young women have to put up with! ;)

hugz!

Keshi said...

hey Veenz tnxx hun!


**WhyTH dnt they press that small cross on the top extreme corner of the browser and fuck off? --> smethig like this [X]

LOL yes why cant they do that? Mebbe some of my posts hit them at the right spot that they cant avoid flaunting their ignorance. Thats why :)


aww that Red saree was a whopper!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Gunj MWAH!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty so much Prats!


**There is a freedom of thought, expression and speech.

exactly!

And some ppl dunno the difference between constructive criticism and abuse.


MWAH n tnxx hun!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx again Prats I'll check it out soon! Wud love to read it :)

Keshi.

Silvara said...

*claps*

A very good rant. You go girl! :P

Keshi said...

ty so much Jeevan I know ur a true gentleman and u respect individuality.

HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Dalicia tnxx hun!

**what's wrong with this people? i mean, you didn't do anything wrong.


If I abused some Indians in my blog, atleast I can expect this. These ppl r going against me for writing a post abt My Fav Indians?? LOL thats funny shit.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Anuj t so much!


**'Once a Jerk, Always a Jerk'
'Once a Bastard, Always a Bastard'
'Once a prick, Always a Prick'
'Once a Dog, Always an Animal'


SO TRUE! Certain ppl here hv proved it to me o so beautifully. THEY NEVER CHANGE. U r so right there!


** is only when written by someone else that suddenly all their respect comes out and they get all emotional.

Exactly! I mean if they valued these ppl so much they should hv written a post on them WAY BEFORE ME. And they wait for an Aussie SL girl to write something abt them to show off their love for Gandhi? HYPOCRITES indeedz!



**And it is they who bring bad names to 'India' too. We are not considered a bunch of friendly people for such egoistic bastards.

So true! Few die-hard nationalists give a BAD NAME to ALL Indians. And that really is very sad!



**and blocked them, fuckers will always be fuckers, but let them fuck somewhere else

yes I wanna block them too. Cos they dun deserve to read my blog. Just that I hvnt quite worked out a way to block em...Im gonna work on that soon.


ty Anuj HUGS!


Keshi.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Yes, I agree with you. You have all the right in the world to pick your favorite Indians. If others disagree with your choices then that's their problem not yours. You don't even have to defend your choices. It's a subjective thing you know. I put my hats off to Mahatma Gandhi- the father of the Indian subcontinent. If he had his way, there would have been one country for India, Pakistan and Bangladesh. His principle of ahimsa was of great moral force that shattered the invincibility of the whole British empire. Too bad he was assassinated in his own beloved country. Thanks for the emotional post. God bless you and your loved ones always.

Keshi said...

Ali Im not accepting anything u say anymore..take ur comments back home with ya.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Nadine!

Its just that some ppl r so full of themselves.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Arti tnxx hun! Long time, hows ya?


yes it was such a simple post hehehehe. Shows how some ppl make a mountain out of a molehill.


**Those who are worth would accept you as you are. I always say - I am what I am and I will never pretend to be what I am not!


Spot on, and tnxx alot HUGS!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Silvara the sexy working gal!

:)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Mel!

yes they hv issues and I cant help that.


**His principle of ahimsa was of great moral force that shattered the invincibility of the whole British empire.

yes. And look at these ppl who r glorifying Gandhi - the total opposites. They dun say one word abt him in their blogs and they scream patriotism here in my blog just for the heck of it.


tnxx n God bless ya mate!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Hi Preeti!

Funny thing is they dun even realise wut they hv done. They think it's their right to judge ppl and tell them they r this and that, and still defend themselves to be right. How f'n insensitive and rude.

This is my msg to such ppl:

"Dun come to my blog and insult me. Cos I dun think I hv done that to u. Like Steph said, when u go to someone's blog, it's like going to a friend's house. U dun go to someone's house and insult them by telling them how they should live in that house. If ppl do that to me, I'd show them the door."



**i guess in this crazy world, bein urself is the biggest challenge

yes Preeti ur right...its the biggtest challenge cos so many others r living in the shadows of others. And when a real person comes across these ppl, they feel offended and they try to manipulate such ppl.



Keshi.

Cinderella. said...

Girl, all they can do is piss off into the blue..
Abd you dont really have to waste your energy on telling them..coz they never will gtit into their fckin' systems. !!
Have ahd a bunch loads of them around me...tried tellin, then yellin..and then finally concluded that ignoring is the best way.
No point loosing your cool for a buncha nutties girl..

As for me, I felt that was a cool post..just you babe..!!

So, knock it off !!!

Miladysa said...

Bravo!!!

Well said and I agree with every single word you wrote here.

I am standing with you Keshi.

M x

AmitL said...

Hi,Keshi-calm down,dear pal-you know what I always tell you-people have a tongue,so they always talk-good or bad,they have a keyboard,so they have to type-good or bad.You have your own individuality-so you have to sift the comments- good or bad.:)Plus,you have comments moderation on,so,just ignore the idiotic comments,and continue writing the way you always do,just like a,err,good ole fruit salad.:)

I'll leave you with this inspirational quote I read today:
Life is a mixture of good times and bad times,
happy moments and unhappy moments.

The next time you are experiencing
one of those bad times or unhappy moments,
Try your best not to let the situation get the best of you.

If the going gets tough and you are at your breaking point; show resilience.

Bend; But don’t break!

Cheers and TC!

crasiezt said...

Some people are lousy bastards...you do your thing babe,and let them fuck themselves!

priya said...

If ppl' are sensitive why do leave comments first of all. Its a blog and u have all rights to pour in what u like and dislike. WHy bother? Some morons who are jelaous of others success will only like to see others fall down.

Vest said...

Keshi: You are one of a kind; beautiful in every aspect and encompassing the fragrance of every known flower.
The most beatiful things in our world cannot always be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.X

di.di said...

i just miss one day, and there you go again.. another commotion in your blog? ayayyaya...

cheers for freedom of speech!!

maverick said...

hmm....wasup?

Vest said...

wotno Jim? Has Jim gone AWOL?

Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

shit! Just sent you a mail ! And read this now! Coincidence or what!! We're talking about origins and cultures here and thats what the mail was about :-|

But I really hope you can help me with this Keshur :-|

And as for this post ... fuck em losers! is the attitude ;) and I'm so glad you have it!!

KP! said...

Wow....you are so right we are all different individuals. I am just like you same So "cultural fruit-salad" being an Indian/american. I know hhow u feel....I can never forget my roots or where I am from. We are individuals and influenced by different people. I was called couple of times by some blogger and reacted in a harsh way and i dont regret that....when people think they can do anything they want...it aint happening....I will give u back...u have let them know they are wrong...its upto them to understand their mistakes. I hate to be politicaly correct....I go straight at them...I like ur style...honest opinion....:). enjoi the weekend...get drunk and chill....lolz

Tarun said...

o well, individuality is fine till the point it is not enforced upon.
I mean there should be more to u then just the letter/word/sentence/paragraph then I.

It will be better if people uphold ur individuality rather than one boasting about themselves.

Anyways since you are such a Fashion Conscious babe Sun tan n all that ...
Your Fashion pick of the season for (retrosexual) men ...
Find time to do that ... take it as a tag. :D

Me over the moon for India winning.

Vik said...

Yea seriously, give it all back to them. Who the heck really thinks or wants to know what these guys think? Some gormless twits is all fun to read in others blog but I was thinking it went beyond acceptance level in your last blog note.

Don't get too worked for them. And I still did not find anytihng about me in your last note :-] :-]

Asha said...

Really! Negative reaction to bunch of photos of people you like? STRANGE readers you have!! Hmm..!!!
Don't let it bother you sweetie, let them bark!!
One came today to tell me that my blog takes too long to open! I said "oh well.., that's the beauty of blogging. It takes a full min for me to open some blogs too but I never complain, but wait. It's our choice to make and be patient!" That's how it is, everybody wants everything to be perfect!! TOUGH, deal with it I say!!:D

Varun said...

I see

Friend, I read both the posts and all the comments...and I think that your stand is right. Nobody has the right to curb your freedom of speech...or tell you that you are wrong.

But can I question you 2 thing?
"with all respect"

If you find something offensive why do you publish that?(You can enable comment moderation and manage the comments.) Isn't that not publishing a comment is itself a signal that "Hello, I am not interested in your opinion and who the hell are you to question me?"

Secondly, isn't it that if they offended your views you are not doing the same?

Things were between you and your blog readers and you have all rights to feel offended but is it justified that you public ally ridicule them?

Wasn't it that they were provoked by your comments and you could have stopped the things in the first place by not publishing their comments ?

Now its your blog and you have all the rights to do what you think is right for you and I am no one to question you. Now I don't want to get dragged into this issue. I don't even know you so I don't know whether this is offensive to you.

But I just expressed what I felt about the entire game.

Kalpana said...

I appreciate you being what you are. That's important.........

BUMBLE!!! said...

Here's to better days with comments from readers who don't suck.

KICK ASS!!
You know that business is going to be served when you break out the Metallica.

the stygian sailor said...

damn, where is the rum gone???
and i missed a chance to fight with you.
i rue my missed chance.

J said...

Oppss.. I don't comment on one post and all hell breaks loose :P

Easy girl.. you can't really change people who have 'stupid' stamped on their heads.

krystyna said...

Bravo Keshi!
If somebody don't respect others, nobody respects him/her.

"If we lose love and self respect for each other, this is how we finally die."
Maya Angelou
"Respect yourself if you would have others respect you."
Baltasar Gracian

"When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom."
John Gray

Be yourself!
Best wishes to you!

wisdomstuff said...

Amen! I've been known to be a tad bit opinionated (probably a serious understatement) and I understand exactly what you are saying.

vishesh said...

well i dont know what was said by others...but all i can see is what i was talking about in my post...and i don't believe in coincidence ;) whats the connection? i know what you mean..its someones choice...you have got a right to like and dislike people...i don't like a few people and i tell them straight on their face sorry i hate you...its better to be on the face then back stabbing...but sometimes you need to back stab...

if ppl are short sighted they cant see a fun post..then!...thats why i never bother writing about my favs and stuff...i write poems because people who cannot understand them will not bug me...only people who understand and have interest will read it..

and being an Indian i know...we all hold our chins high...but at times it is also important we also see what the other person is saying or feeling...

Arti Honrao said...

Hi Keshi!

I did visit your blog on n off but left a comment after a long time :)
I am fine, how r u?


Shows how some ppl make a mountain out of a molehill.

Yes, they do...
Anyways, stay the way you are and put this behind your back as soon as u can.

Smile!



GBU
Arti

AVIANA said...

hey chicki....



Damn...didn't realize it would be an issue....



but it will always be an issue as long as you are alive...there'll always be an issue with some low life out there...



be like me and just delete the comment and don't acknowledge it....don't get mad or whatever....they gonna stay ignorant..don't follow them....



you're mad cuz you wanna change them...guess what...you're not...



delete comment and move on...



let them keep crawling and sucking on the crevices of the ground as you lift up and soar



hey...i love me some John Abraham..kajole is gorgeous and amazing...aish and bips are beautiful, srk has improved with me but he's still no john...hey what happened with the 6 finger hand man hrithik?



oh well chica...



be cool...no more wasted energyon these idiotas!



Muah...

vitruvian said...

I actually really liked this post...lol..
but really u shouldn't bother with nonconstructive criticism..
Just show them the way to your blog profile introduction..
relax...
cheers babe!

Solitaire said...

SRK is a narcissist.
Not my client yet but needs to be!

Lena said...

what the hell is wrong with people if they take your own preferences as a crime against their country. How could anyone find something offensive in that post?? Nobody can tell you whom to love or not. And especially not in your own blog.
You take care, girl.
Just remember that there are always few who would say crap. Thats life but you are better than this. Dont let anyone tell you what to say and what to do. Your life, isnt it? ;)

Pavi!!!! said...

ooh la la..sum1 is angry! The words n pictures says it all.

PS: I loved how u chose the perfect pics!

BTW..i think ur anger is justified.The last post was the
1st of urs that i read, n i thot it was just for laughs n fun. Was honestly alarmed @ why ppl wld convert sumthing so simple and trivial into an issue and argue n fight about it like it mattered life n death.instead of simply njoying it! I wish ppl invested all tht energy in the more serious matters that actually need such passion n attention!

Keshi said...

Ali why d u delete ur comments? Thats funny. Dun u believe in what u say? :)


I know I said I dun accept anything from u anymore...thats cos u make JUDGEMENTS abt my personality as if ur Judge and the Jury. Last nite u told me:


***other posts show ur humor..this post shows ur attitude --clap clap--


Thanks for the claps!

But wut exactly d u think I am? A professional clown that exist in blogs to make ppl laugh 24/7? Im human too. Sometimes Im happy, sometimes Im sad, sometimes Im funny and when ppl force their ego on me, Im one hell of a bitch. Sorry to disappoint u. Im not hear to make u laugh every single day...u poke fun at my person, u'll hear it from me.


U may not like my 'attitude'...well guess wut, ur's isnt that great either to begin with! Next time u poitn fingers at ppl, take a good look at urself first.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Cinderella HUGS!


**...tried tellin, then yellin..and then finally concluded that ignoring is the best way.


yeah I guess I hv to be a monk to ignore these ppl lol!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Milady!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty AmitL u r so caring!


**Bend; But don’t break!


I really luv that line. TY!


HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Craziest!

**and let them fuck themselves!


LOL I cracked up at that one. tnxx hun MWAH!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Priya tnxx!

yes I agree. Commenting on the content of the post is one thing, but forcing ur opinions on others? Its just ridiculous.


I welcome constructive criticism. No one has to always AGREE with one another. And we can agree to disagree. But being arrogant with their opinions is something I just just cant stand.



** Some morons who are jelaous of others success will only like to see others fall down.

LOL yes!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Vesty tnxx!

btw Im not beautiful all the time...sometimes I can be wicket witch who uses the F word LOL!


**The most beatiful things in our world cannot always be seen or even touched

thats so true, HUGS!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Diva HUGS!


**.. another commotion in your blog?

LOL am I not the queen of Controversy! :):)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Mav hey nothing much..hows ya? :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Vesty!

**wotno Jim? Has Jim gone AWOL?

He's been axed. No place for him in this blog anymore.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Cheesy MWAH!

ok I'll reply soon :)


Keshi.

EmmaK said...

Wow! you have a man whose whole blog is all about you:
http://vivaforevermore.blogspot.com/
should you be worried?

Keshi said...

ty KP! :)



**and reacted in a harsh way and i dont regret that....when people think they can do anything they want...it aint happening....I will give u back


true and good on ya! If they can be HARSH with their opinions abt us, we cant just sit and play 'Mother Theresa' can we? LOL!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Tarun tnxx mate! And yes WELL DONE INDIA! :) They proved it.


**It will be better if people uphold ur individuality rather than one boasting about themselves.

Spot on! Boasting their ego ard me wont work.


Nice tag there ;-) will think abt it soon. tnxx!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Vixxxx :)

**I was thinking it went beyond acceptance level in your last blog note.

yes..it went too far..beyond wut I intended thru that post. ppl hv issues and they try to take it on others. Slack!



btw u r always in my mind na...no need to be in a blog post ;-)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Yes Asha, can u believe that. Besides now they hv deleted their comments from the last post, so u cant see how RIDICULOUS thy were. But I've got a copy of those comments. Will re-post em at the end of my comment-replies.

:)

tnxx n HUGS!

Keshi said...

hey Varun tnxx!


**If you find something offensive why do you publish that?(

I publish em cos I WC all sorts of comments..not just the ones that agree with my views. :) if they r ABUSIVE comments, ofcourse I delete.


**but is it justified that you public ally ridicule them?

who am I publicly ridiculing? did I mention names in that post? besides, if they can publicly ridicule me, why cant I? Im not a saint Varun!



**Wasn't it that they were provoked by your comments and you could have stopped the things in the first place by not publishing their comments ?


They were provoked by my COMMENTS? Nah they were provoked by my harmless post! WHY may I ask?


Anyways tnxx!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Kalpz!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehehe Bumble tnxx mate!


;-)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Stygian lets fight LOL!

dishoom dishoom!


:):)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Jono :):)


** you can't really change people who have 'stupid' stamped on their heads.

LOL yes!

And some ppl r asking me why Im PUBLICLY ridiculing them? God Im so giving up.

:)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty so much Krys I love all those quotes!


**"Respect yourself if you would have others respect you."
Baltasar Gracian

That really sums it up.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Wisdom :)

Keshi.

carolinagal said...

hey girl
check out the audacity of this asshole!!!

http://vivaforevermore.blogspot.com/

He wrote a comment about you on my blog which I obviously rejected. But I think everyone needs to see this!!

Keshi said...

hey Vish!

**well i dont know what was said by others

yes u wont see them anymore cos they deleted their original intruding comments. But I've got a copy of it and I'll be re-posting them at the end of this post, so ppl can u'stand why I lost it so much yday. I dun wanna sound like Im overreacting..so yeah I'll post that comment here soon for all of u to see. Its a cowardly act to delete comments and pretend as if nothing happened.


**thats why i never bother writing about my favs and stuff

I know but Im not gonna CATER my blog for EVERYONE. Im just ME in this blog. If someone dun like ME, just get out. Thats my policy :) Im not hear to please ANYONE or be understood by EVERYONE.



ty Vish!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Arti :) tnxx!

and HUGS!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Lisa tnxx hun MWAH!

**let them keep crawling and sucking on the crevices of the ground as you lift up and soar

LOL I love that one!


John is so hot that some guys just got burnt in that last post LOL!


u like Hrithik? awww...


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Vitruvian!

**but really u shouldn't bother with nonconstructive criticism..

I agree...but this is good too..cos this makes us realise how ridiculous some ppl in this world can be.

:)

HUGS!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Solitair babez..u should be my shrink. Can I hire ya? :)


**SRK is a narcissist.
Not my client yet but needs to be!

LOL really? I dunno much abt his mental status but I like him cos he's a great star and also cos he's very faithful to his wife. :)

k mebbe SRK n I both need to visit ya? LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Lena HUGS!


**what the hell is wrong with people if they take your own preferences as a crime against their country.

This is exactly wut they did! Asking me qns like d u think India is only famous for it's film indusrt blah blah blah! CRAP.




**Nobody can tell you whom to love or not. And especially not in your own blog.

Spot on! Its like how some Indians force their kids to marry the ppl they want. LOL!



ty so much Lena U ROCK!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Pavi :)

**@ why ppl wld convert sumthing so simple and trivial into an issue and argue n fight about it like it mattered life n death.

Exactly my point!

And that post wasnt even abt India and Pakistan LOL!



**instead of simply njoying it! I wish ppl invested all tht energy in the more serious matters that actually need such passion n attention!

SO TRUE! I always say this too. Its so easy to sit and show affection to one's country just by words. But where is the action in the areas that really need help?


HUGS!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Carolina and Emma! I checked that blog out.

Alot of ppl hv clones me MANY TIMES b4 :) All I can say is they r sick in their heads..they r lonely lil brats who r totally powerless in real life. So they show their dickhead attitude in blogs.


LOL!

tnxx MWAH!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Carolina and Emma! I checked that blog out.

Alot of ppl hv cloned me MANY TIMES b4 :) and hv even left nasty commenst in my freinds' blogs using my ID.


All I can say is they r sick in their heads..they r lonely lil brats who r totally powerless in real life. So they show their dickhead attitude in blogs.


LOL!

tnxx MWAH!

Keshi.

Crazy Me said...

Hear! Hear!

Whitesnake said...

Well Well Well!

Finally I am not alone with the balls to stand up fo being yourself!

Did I say balls?
Yours are probaly detachable!

Let that comment stir up a hornets nest..

"Vemonous thorns of Keshi?"

Whitesnakes do it better...."with a slip of the Tongue."

George said...

Keshi ... don't ever stop being you because if you were not you, you would have far fewer people visiting and loving you.

I did a post about pretty, young teenage girls who are on American television ... if anybody thought I was perverted for posting that or disagreed with me posting ... my reaction is (and always has been) oh well. Anybody who would attack me or try to convert me to what they believe is the better way lose me faster than hookers lose their virginity.

Stay well, babe

Keshi said...

People there is a sad lunatic INDIAN under this blog id spreading shit abt me:


http://vivaforevermore.blogspot.com


beware of his rapidly dying cranium! Its more lethal than dumb shit.


tnxx all!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Crazy_Me!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

LOL yes Steve I've got balls that some MEN like Jim dun hv!

HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey George ty n HUGS!


** Anybody who would attack me or try to convert me to what they believe is the better way lose me faster than hookers lose their virginity.

hahahaha! GOOD ONE.

There will always be jerks who try to force their shit on us. Just dun give a rats arse.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Steph MWAHHHHHHHHH!

I know the guy who's spreading shit abt me...he wont be able to do it for a long time. :)


besides, he can go fuck himself.


tnxx Stepher!

Keshi.

CM-Chap said...

Hmm... Keshi dear I dnt think such an explanation needed... After all blogs are all about our own view of life isn't it.... Take it cool. Dnt waste ur time by explaing things to ppl which are quite expected & understood.. Chillout girl.

Solitaire said...

oh no no no...srk not welcome...u r!

Judge Arse said...

Well, I still can't figure out what you did that would make someone get so bent. People are idiots. I've had similar reactions when it comes to something so simple as musical taste. I like all kinds of music from classical to classic rock to Celtic harp to hip hop to Scandinavian death metal. The metalhead lot gets bent because I like "wimp" music and hip hop, not just metal. The lite lot get bent because I like metal and hip hop and not just softer, melodic music. The hip hop lot get bent because I'm an old white arse. You just can't win when you are dealing with closed minded fools. They have their head so far up their bum that their world just stinks and it makes them angry so they flail about taking it out on others. I'm sorry you had to endure such fools.

Keshi said...

ty Chap thats some very wise advice.

HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

lolz Solitaire pleeeeeeeeeeeeze...I wanna be 'psyched' with SRK!

ROFL!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Judge tnxx hun!

Im mix of many cultures and many tastes (like u)...some ppl cant comprehend that...FOOLS indeed!


**You just can't win when you are dealing with closed minded fools

haha so true!


Jim has created a site for me..with Playboy links...go hv a look at how DUMBER this guy can get, only when I thought he cudnt get any DUMBER.



Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

hey keshi I am back how are you?????? Will update my blogg soon!

Alok said...

There is a very thin line between being offensive and suggesting. I suddenly remembered that I had written as comment on Jeevan’s post regarding his view on the budget that he was not necessarily right on the tax bit and he could have covered the good points in the budget which he did not. I somehow still hold the view that if I don’t agree to something then it is wrong to read and walk over without letting the other guy know that I did not necessarily agree with his / her point of view. I am not sure necessarily whether you agree with me. I am not sure Keshi now whether I did the right thing.

However I agree with you on the issues like individual tastes and likes and dislikes. I have not right to comment what you likes can be whether I like that like or not. If you know what I mean. In this context I agree with you that it seems we all have our own views and would like people to accommodate OUR view and never give a patient hearing to any of the others views.

BTW: I had to go thru the comments of your previous post to understand what you exactly meant even though I agreed with you whole heartedly on this post of yours even if it had stood on it own.

CM-Chap said...

Forgot to tell u... Me in Aus now. Checkout my blog.

Keshi said...

Ali plz find another blog to write life-long comments on ur ego.

NO THANKS!

Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

hey can i email you?????

Keshi said...

tnxx Alok I u'stand. :)

wut d u think of this comment which was deleted later by the author of it:


***Okay, I see but isn't that they are just the puppets...dancing on the tunes of their directors?
Few more questions...
1. In what sense Mr. Gandhi is an entertainer?(already asked by someone)
2. What makes you think that John is an entertainer, he can't even act properly, He's sexy, He's handsome, He's Mr. Perfect....that may be the reason for dragging him in the list.....but he's noway a gud entertainer.
3. And what makes you believe that India has only one source of Entertainment, the film industry?
4. Heard of Baba RAMDEV ?..now-a-days he's also helping people get away from this rut...incase you are not aware of.
5. I guess the more appropriate title for your post should be..
"My Favorite entertainers from Indian film Industry". If thats what you intended to list down..I'll say "it's good list"
else I feel terrible in saying that your list is too narrow to incorporate the vigor and zeal of Indians...
Just a analogy....if I list down my fav colors and i list down all dark colors...black, gray, dark green...dark blue....doesn't that signify that I am soo much attached to dark that I don't know the importance of bright colors ?



isnt that the MOST RIDICULOUS thing u can ever get for a simple post like my last post! TOO PUSHY wont work wit me. LOL pathetic ppl! Lookin at that comment makes me laugh.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

really Chap? WOW!

coming there soon! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Kaylee hey WB n thanks hun! WHERE WERE YA? I was worried abt U!

yes email me..

HUGS missed ya loadz!


Keshi.

Chriz said...

keshi girl goes wild.. i am seeing you wild like this for the first time...

Keshi said...

yes Chriz, Im no angel 24/7 like some ppl EXPECT me to be :)

tnxx!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ok Im so over this post now. Its so draining and a waste of time to be talking abt shitty ppl.

THANKS all! Im moving on :)


Keshi.

Iceman said...

hmmm... interesting.... :)

u have an opinion... and well its ur... f**k anyone who has a problem with that...

Keshi said...

ty Iceman HUGS! where hv ya been?

Keshi.

Judge Arse said...

Jim would be fortunate if anyone gave him the time of day other than to tell him to piss off. Dead cert, no-one would ever create a Playgirl spread for him! He's just frustrated because no female is interested so he must make life a misery for all women. Inside he is a frustrated adolescent wanking over pictures of girls he can never have. Still, it is disturbing to be the subject of lechery. I'm glad you have the grace to handle it so well.

Sanjeeva said...

Keshi,
U rock lady!!!!! U dont need anybodys advice on your likes and dislikes!!!and oh..that photo in your prev post....looking at it....I could nearly feel your breath on my face....srilankan girls are quite delecious after all?? what say gents???

Sanjeeva said...

As for the SOB Jim, I knew he was a wanker.any wannabwe cyberheroes want to put jim on one of the nerd sites????crazy bum....

Keshi said...

ty Judge!

**Inside he is a frustrated adolescent wanking over pictures of girls he can never have

yes thats wut it is. If he's married and is a father of 2 kids, and prolly a GRANPA too, why cant he just behave like one! he's a total disgrace to himself. I wonder if his family knows abt his shocking acts on the net.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Sanjeeva tnxx mate!

**srilankan girls are quite delecious after all?? what say gents???

*bats her eyelashes* :)

I think Indian chicks and guys r super hot too!


Abt Jim, yes he's a number one WANKER! Can u believe he has a family too? Kids and a wife? WUT A SHAMELESS TWAT.


Keshi.

Ziah said...

Dear Keshikins,

Somehow my response to the last two posts didnt showup/got deleted. But I write here again with a fairly more serious agenda. I am extremely worried about the content and worse, the prospect of this blog:
http://vivaforevermore.blogspot.com/

I know you know about this blog and the blogger. I always thought it distasteful that someone spams your comment box with irrelevant and often provocative remarks. However, until I came upon this blog, I thought you had it all under control. An outburst to being snubbed in a blog dedicated to you seems like compulsive, manic behaviour. Its as creepy as obsessive stalking!! Brrr...

Someone writing about you against your consent with libelous/slanderous content is causing you wrong. And your rights would include reporting his blog to blogger, among other things. I know I sound lawyer-ish et al. But frankly my dear girl, I am only looking out for a friend. I trust you'd do the right thing. You need not publish this comment should you want this to stay between us.

Like always, I trust you to take a good decision.

Love
Ziah

Keshi said...

hi Ziah tnxx hun!

yes I know abt that stupid blog...it's one of 100s of blogs that Jim-the-loser creates evry single day. I know u and few other friends here really care abt me and let me know abt that blog, thanks! but he and many other nutjobs hv done that sort of thing to me way before this...MANY TIMES too. All it ever proves is his class...the class he belongs to among all humans. He's the lowest of all humans there ever was.


Im not botheres at all. ppl can say anything abt me but as long as I know who I am, why should I care a rat's arse abt a lowlife like him. He just badly needs attention that he never gets in real life or in net life. LOL I can only laugh.


tnxx hun n HUGS!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

And Ziah sweetie I dunno how ur previous commenst disappeared..I received none from u abt this b4. Mebbe some blogger glitch.

tnxx again n MWAH!


Keshi.

Varun said...

replied to your deleted comment....

Don't know y u deleted it...not sure about your words or wat??