Wednesday, March 26

Medi-dating Techniques

Keshi is a woman who just can't meditate. I mean I have tried during prayers and pujas, but every time the Meditation begins and we start focusing on the flame of a candle, breathing in and out, it starts raining shirtless-John-Abraham thoughts in my mind that beckons me to chant 'om john john john' instead of 'om shanti shanti shanti'? Or some yummy chocolate pudding stares at me straight from my mind saying 'Crave for me losa!'. Or some super sexy halter-neck top that I've seen at the mall suddenly creeps out of my mind echoing 'buy me bitch!'. So yeah how can I meditate ha? *rolling eyes*. I suddenly become aware of how shallow I am...this super-bad chick stuck in a puja, with pure beings chanting 'om om om' around her while she dreams of Californication, Mick Jagger's tongue and Bon Jovi's jeans! And I feel I'm the worse being on Earth shiiiiaiittte! Maybe I shouldn't go to these Meditation sessions ha? Atleast I'm trying, o c'mon stop being so boring. *yawwwns*

Anyways, since Meditating isn't really gonna work in my life (atleast for now), I was thinking of Medi-dating as a good option that I'd be quite comfy with (not forgetting the chipmunks I come across though). Since all my dates (a very small count btw) so far have been something like a scene from the movie '13 Ghosts' (pathetic, cheap and aimless that is), I was wondering maybe the men and women here can give me some cool tips for Medi-dating? I was chatting with Hiren in his blog recently, and we both agreed that having hot tea(/coffee) or a home-cooked meal (depends on if you can cook a decent meal without burning down the house) on a cold gloomy day at home is a very romantic idea for a date. That is sooo me, cos I'm such a homey girl...compared to going out on a date at a fancy restaurant, I'd love to stay at home and chat over coffee or a nice lil cosy meal. So, what would be your ideal place for a date, how would you spend it and what are the DOs and the DONTs? When I say DOs and DONTs, I meant dating etiquette such as brushing and flossing before you go on a date so that you don't kill your partner by Halitosis trauma if there's ever gonna be a kiss, taking a shower before you head out to avoid smelling like a skunk, being polite and opening the doors for the lady etc, if it's a restaurant date offering to go 50/50 without holding on to your wallet so tightly that'll probably lead to zilch dates in future, avoid picking your nose cos that would prolly make me wanna kill the guy on the spot using a Saucepan, DO NOT try to 'molest' your partner on the first date - instead be a gentleman/lady please and kiss or touch when the right time comes around, be a good listener as well a good chat buddy instead of practising pure silence - that'll be like a Meditation session btw!, etc etc.

So be creative and bring out the Medi-dating Guru in ya and share the eternal Bliss with me, won't ya now ;-). Looking forward to reading all your delicious, soul-cleansing and uplifting Medi-dating tips. Om Beckham Beckham Beckham! I finally attained Nirvana!



And the Flying Kissee of the day is...

a guy I so wanna go on a date with hehe. And he's none other than our darling Anuj! I don't know where he's disappeared to at the moment cos he's nowhere to be seen :*( but I know he's such a wonderful humanbeing, a true gentleman and a very loving friend (and you're right he's so far away from me duh!). We nearly had a chance of meeting in Sydney (when he was in Canberra last year for studies) but every time something came up, and in the end we never met *sob sounds follow*. He's really not happy with me about that but hey Anuj we'll meet somehow before we are too old to see each other and too deaf to hear each other ok? I promise! Anuj is such a calm and collected soul, he never shows discomfort and temper in public...all I ever see is a beautiful person just going with the flow and enjoying every bit of it. That's what I love about Anuj. He's never too quick to judge and never too afraid to speak the truth either, and he does it in style, never in bad taste. Also, he's very patient, understanding and extremely loving. I think he's one of those rare men who knows that women are supposed to be loved, not understood :). Now that is a REAL MAN! I know that Anuj will always be content wherever he is, whatever he does and whoever he's with. He'll never be in despair cos he's calm with himself to begin with...alot of people don't have that quality, including myself. I learnt that from Anuj though sometimes I still struggle with my venomous tongue hehe. Anyways, come back from your cave Anuj I miss ya man! MWACKKZ! Dija feel it? ;-) And this song is especially for ya...it's one of my fav Tamil love ballads (imagine it being played when we have our supa romantic date on the beach ok lol!) and I hope you enjoy it (find out the meaning of the lyrics cos it's really beautiful!)...it's your day. And can someone find where this guy is and bring him here please thanks!

And my mates here, I just want you all to know that my Flying Kissees are not 'chosen' in any particular order - I just pick them out randomly depending on the post topic too. So please don't think that it's in any favourites-order ok. And now please don't forget to take part in the first part of the post. Thanks and catch ya all soon! Keshi is medi-dating now shhhhhh please don't disturb...om kiss hug caress....om om Oh My God Anuj is hot!


Current Music: Bhoomikku Velicham from the Tamil movie Dishoom

175 Cranium Signets:

travistee said...

Gosh, you are so gorgeous girl!

Jay said...

I knew what I was going to say in my comment and then I saw that last pic of you and got all distracted. Now I can't remember.

*thinking*

Oh yeah, first date? I don't know. Depends on what she likes to do. Don't want to bore her with a basketball game if she hates sports, ya know. Probably something simple. Lunch is good cause if it goes well you can do something else for the afternoon, but if doesn't you can claim that you have something to do and go.

Gonecase said...

Dating, hmmm...theoretically speaking, I am a bond baby, I can tell you all the tips and tricks as well as the essentials such as smell good, taste good....no opening of gates but paying the bill etc etc but practically, ahem ahem...no comments !!

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Whitesnake said...

Music ...... Shared tastes.

Food ... shared prep and or choices.

Conversations ...from farting in bed to spiritual things.

Dance ..... Close and don't be scared.

Romance ???? If it happens let it don't expect it.

Laugh ... Jokes. and lifes experiences.

Flexibility .....Be spontaneous and be able to do something else if either is uncomfortable.

Judge ..... DO Not judge a book by it's cover until you have read the book.

Accepting ...Understand everyone is different. Some people will be nervous some won't.

Important ...... Be yourself!

Talk ..... Ask questions. Show interest. Even if it ends up being a bad date at least YOU made an effort.

You will find if one can ease the tension of a date then the other will relax and be more open.

Keep in mind that people hide behind things ....... behaviour can be a sign that they are uncomfortable or are not sure what is expected.........


Expectations.......None other than having a great time and who knows where it will lead...


Now Keshi....Oh never mind!

Menchie said...

OMG. It's been sooooo long since I've been on a date BH (before hubby).

Let's see.....do's and don'ts

Do's .....
- Try to have a quick coffee date if it's the first time you'll meet someone (esp. a blind date) so that you can escape if you don't feel any connection
- Have a way to go home -- I personally don't like to depend on a guy if I don't know him very well
- try to be a good date -- be interested (or act interested) by asking questions, etc. Nobody likes a dull date.
- Dress correctly for the date place. Never overdress. that's just tacky.


lastly, DON'T be afraid of walking out (you can do it politely, of course) if you really don't like the person. You always have a choice where to spend your time. :D

Ankur said...

gosh... stop showing that pic of urs, make me nervous, lemme concentrate on readin... *ROFL

well, the next date i am looking forward to(pray that she comes back to me :P) :-

a nice evening, on a beach where we are holding hands, talking, walking, listening to each other, our breath, our shivering, eyes, soul, where i touch her hair gently, where we exchange the thoughts, where we talk abt all the things we want to, where we confide in each other...
and in the night, dining on the beach only with a candle on, home cooked food, with nirvana or john denver playin in the car or may be jagjits ghazals...

and to seal it all in the end, with a kiss, not a smooch, but just a gentle kiss, on her forehead!!!

i guess i have dreamt enough!! :P

and u know, sometimes doing silly things too, on the date, make it memorable :D

Ghost Particle said...

omg another hot pic of kesh...dope...focus focus siva...focus.

ok back. So hey ROTFL....why the heck would u wanna think of anything else while meditating da! hahahahaha....that said....i never meditated properly anyway...if i ever did meditate. :p

so the rooomantic date...
As much as i like staying at home, the date would be on a nice mountain top, hill top overlooking hills with mist...mist all over us. and the food wont be too oily and all those fancy schmancy stuff...jst nice for us to be munching each other...i mean the food. of course all the pre-date self cleaning rituals is a must...but not to overdo with the parfum and makeup, deodorant...clothing. something loose and easy to come-off...jst in case i spill something on you or u spill something on me...Just in case.

Its not the cost that matters, but i seriously think fancy restaurants are over rated...its like poeple know u go there for date u know, and also not to let the whole world know that we have something for each other...so a date should be personal, romantic...and full of love. Carebears Care!

Anuj! where are you...keshi is looking for you. :P

Tys on Ice said...

first date, eh?...

dont remember...but the best ever was i had with mads...we rode on her bike in bangalore, to some cultural place in the outskirts...we had bottled beer and sandwiches ala picnic style on the road side...Mads tried her hand at making a pot in a pottery shop ...on the way back it rained and we rode in the rain...stopped at a road side restaurant and had filtered coffee....

it was the best time on my life...we hardly spoke...we just enjoyed things together...it was perfect...

btw, i know tht my latest post may seem thoughtless to u, becoz of wht u gone thru personally...sorry if it did

Tys on Ice said...

first date, eh?...

dont remember...but the best ever was i had with mads...we rode on her bike in bangalore, to some cultural place in the outskirts...we had bottled beer and sandwiches ala picnic style on the road side...Mads tried her hand at making a pot in a pottery shop ...on the way back it rained and we rode in the rain...stopped at a road side restaurant and had filtered coffee....

it was the best time on my life...we hardly spoke...we just enjoyed things together...it was perfect...

btw, i know tht my latest post may seem thoughtless to u, becoz of wht u gone thru personally...sorry if it did

anits said...

hi keshi darl...dating dating dating hmmm.... just b urself...b simple n nice...n hv coffee together in starbucks... stay sweet...

tcare gal

Judge Arse said...

I like to meditate, but hell, I'm very old and stressed out, so I'm entitled. My son also has trouble with doing a guided meditation or meditating when he's supposed to. Those wandering thoughts are part and parcel, though.
I think my thing at this point is that anything resembling SLEEP is good by me! I'm like an old fat cat, wanting to curl up on a hearth somewhere.

Hiren said...

medi-dating :) lol ... I guess my lingo is gradually going to have a lot of Keshi terms :)

hmmm, for me, a date should be instinctive and not planned meticulously ... and also it needn't be fully prudent, courteous and the likes ... it should be simply memorable (of course good memories that is) ... a bit of fun and nonsensical stuff can also be amusing at times too ...

and yea feels good to have my name on your post :) thnks!

maverick said...

lol..nice post..im sure the last line wud ve had anuj run for cover somewhere in the blogville... :D

dos n donts..well i ll let u knw once we go out :D
the things we ll do..will be the do's and the ones we dont..they ll b the donts..wat say ??? :D

SambY said...

all the best....

La vida Loca said...

I am tempted to give you meditating infinite wisdom......

Amit said...

Nice post Keshi..!!

Let me write do's & don'ts;

The minute I'l see my date, whether this is mine first or hundredth time going out, i'l tell her how nice she looks, and then compliment something in particular, like her hair or the color she is wearing.
Women will definitely take notice that you are taking notice. Or else I even just tell her that she smells amazing (always a sweet spot ;) ).

I won't just buy her a bouquet but to find out the meaning behind the particular flower i've chosen (yeah -- every flower has a certain meaning, and women know this) When I hand her a bouquet of white lilies and whisper in her ear that I've chosen those flowers because it's heavenly to be with her I know ;)*winks* half the job is done....!

A nice romantic candle lit dinner... Followed by a long walk ........on a chilly (not cold!!) night......with a nice fire *may be*.........and soft music will i think the best date for me.


how is it? woj ya like to try..??
humm.?/

La vida Loca said...

Dating Do's ...the guy has to ask me out, fancy not mandatory, originality is appreciated provided I am given a heads up for dressing, share talk time

don'ts ...not all about u, u u, no presonal hurts/issues, no dirty jokes just yet, a little swearing ok

fingers said...

Above all, manners are most important to me.
On a first date, I always offer the girl's parents two pigs and a roll of copper wire as a deposit against their daughter's reputation, in case she decides to sleep with me.
So far, I haven't lost a single pig...

PREETI said...

hmmm...first datez...i really think itz better to call it an 'encounter' or a 'meeting' rather than a date cuz somehow guyz gt all weird when u mention the word 'date' :) hehe...

i dunno abt an ideal date n all, but i think my idea of a 1st date with a guy would probably be over coffee, loadza talkin n lotsa laughin...n if thingz gt gud, then mayb further datez...n inspite of all the chivalry talk, id still prefer to dutch with the guy on the 1st date :)

Sweetstickychewy said...

Enjoyed this post!

I could identify with you when it comes to meditation. As for me it would be praying along. Gosh my mind sure do run while too.haha.

And LOL @ 13 Ghost! i saw that silly movie!lol.

***So, what would be your ideal place for a date, how would you spend it and what are the DOs and the DONTs?

Ideal place? the park? Lol..Juz kidding.;P

I have always had this fantasy to have a date at a theme park doing thrill rides on a roller coaster or whatever 'feel-like-i-am-gonna-die rides.':D haha.. Thought its fun to have something out of the ordinary. =)

Do's

Shave armpits or whatever.
fresh face.
Smell good that includes DEO etc.
look Presentable and attractive
Bring enough cash
Wear right underwear without VPLs'
Tell a friend or two.
Keep your handphone at hand.
Feel comfortable
Eat something light beforehand (depends)
Believe that its gonna go well
Carry a portable mirror.
Just enjoy come what may and dare yourself!:P

DOn't

Eat the wrong/messy food
Don't try too hard
Don't Try not to think about how you are doing too much.
Don't try to crack his braincode.

I think most of all for me. when it comes to don'ts' Its basically not trying to be anything else but you. And also trying to challenge yourself a step up than the usual you. Don't be afraid to spice things up. I meant conversation wise and questions wise.

All in all if its a first date. Its best to be balance in things and enjoy come what may. learn to laugh at urself if u screw up. kinda thing.

Pretty long.haha.

*HUGZ*

anuj said...

arite ..

surprise surprise !!

now what could be a fine day to come back then this, when you have a confessed date waiting for you :D

I feel the only issue is that your dreams would be shattered, cause of your 'beckham & john', oh so HIGH standards .. lol

anuj for that matter is a normal guy, whose aim would be to make keshi laugh (with some hidden agendas ofcourse *mark as unread*).. and to have a good time. And keshi did you just meditate on the bed? LOL .. ROFL

*didja feel it?* honey No, you are like freaking thousands of miles away .. so keshi .. make me feel it (*read seductively*) .. ;)

cheers

anuj said...

my date:

and so they walked along the roads subsiding the shallow waters, under the bridge and through the corridors of Opera. In the distant a green of botanics could be seen. The golden twinkling stars fell on the seas, and reflected all they could. And there in the shades of a cafe they sat, listening to the waters shattering across the stone walls. It was crowded, and it was easy for them to be lost and not noticed. What was more important was the fact that they didn't care. They talked while they sipped their coffee, and satisfied their bellies. He was shy then normal, but he loved answering questions. Hours passed by and they didn't know, while they waited for the ferry which would take them to manly. He took her hand, walked her through the millionaire road, and through the woods took her to the top of the hill, where the ships far in the ocean could be seen. And they sat close as it was windy. It was easy to talk there, alone, silent, calm and ensnaring. And they waited for the sun to set, hand in hand.

-hopeless romantic

Ziah said...

Hey Keshikins!:) My dating sense is kinda rusty... :)I've been with Vivek for donkey's years.. gosh! And I'm lucky to have found him!:)

My last "blind" date was in 2003!! Brrr... It was a lunch in some fancy place coz the guy thought I was some intellectual classy type! Brrr... (How lame n judgemental)
I was so bored with him, I finally (and desperately) tried to cheese him off by asking him his five year plan... only he was so happy that finally someone was interested and he went on and on and on.. Lol!:)

Perfect date?

1. I'd say play it by the ear. Start with coffee and conversation. And if its going well, make plans impromptu... you can go bowling, grab a movie, walk along the beach or just drive.
2. If you really like the guy, n u two seem to be hitting it off, then make sure you drop subtle hints and HE actually does all the suggesting business (like he asks you if you'd like to spend more time etc and you say ya sure). If you're a guy, then see how the girl responds...:)
3. Its important that the guy thinks he cant get you outta his head..:) [guys, figure this one out]
4. Dress well, wear enough makeup to flatter your features without looking that you're decked up to party and let your outfit be something versatile (like stylish for a coffee shop n will also manage to sneak you into the movies or a club) and remember to SMELL awesome.
5. Talk smart (not too much, n dont give yourself away too much even if you're bonding.. remember its your first time out together, not a pity party n there will be more such times to open up)
6. Always carry enough money. Dont walk in expecting the guy to pay or the guy to drop you home.

But never forget to be you - wear your best smile and your original trademark attitude...:) There you go, you're set!:)

anuj said...

when did I say that I was mad at you for not meeting :o .. actually its a shared guilt, because my plans were made the nite before, and they were at awkward dates, so obviously it wouldn't be so that keshi would be sitting in her lawn waiting if anuj would pass by :o .. hello no .. ROFL!!

but now I feel that she might :P
haha .. cunning me :)

Cinderella. said...

OMG girl...you trynna steal my ideas girl ??!!!!
LOL...we're so alike...
GUess I've said somehwre...oh yeah, in my orkut profile..
I'll just put it here...

**Tropical Icebergs and loads of chatting away.....
Lemon Iced Teas will also do but talking is a must..
Not the cheesy kinds males usually fake up to impress a female, rather the free-flowing sophisticated kinds......
where you laugh, you share, you reminiss, you have no clue of how time passed by so quickly without a warning....where you can just go on an on without those odd silent moments interrupting in between....
And yes, no touchy-feely for me on a first date. I'm a very orthodox person and will prefer the old-fashioned way even if its 2050...!!!!
Guess I've said enough....huh ?**

And oh yeah, a home cooked meal is just gorgeous.
And babe, so are ya...I can hear the guys go yum yum..!!

muaah sexy lady !

Nirmal's Blog said...

hey liked ur blog.....
about date this time let it be different....
u ask ur boy out......let him blush....shy.....if possible also pay 4 it...
some1 has vry truly said...
y shud baoys have all the fun..

Andrew said...

Lol at drifting off during meditation. I can just imagine.

http://news.linq.in/ said...

***
ating etiquette such as brushing and flossing before you go on a date so that you don't kill your partner by Halitosis trauma if there's ever gonna be a kiss, taking a shower before you head out to avoid smelling like a skunk, being polite and opening the doors for the lady etc, if it's a restaurant date offering to go 50/50 without holding on to your wallet so tightly that'll probably lead to zilch dates in future, avoid picking your nose cos that would prolly make me wanna kill the guy on the spot using a Saucepan, DO NOT try to 'molest' your partner on the first date - instead be a gentleman/lady please and kiss or touch when the right time comes around, be a good listener as well a good chat buddy instead of practising pure silence
***

Thanks 4 da tips babee!

I would love to spend the heavenly time in my house wid my gal playing guitar and cooking food for her. I would love gardening wid her(oh! forgot it's juz a date n nt life ! LOL) (I'm quite dumb 2day, no ideas flowing out now :( ) Wil comment later..........

http://news.linq.in/ said...

OMG.....this post is flooding with dating tipz...gr8...I was looking for d same :D LOL

Nirmal's Blog said...

good going gal..

Shiva said...

Medi-dating, an interesting concept. The focus you were mentioning is not meditation. It's concentration and meditation is when the mind disappears. May be you can try Tantra..as a step towards meditation...

Dos and Don'ts - Just be myself..

thoughts said...

Hi Keshi

Medi- dating

So, what would be your ideal place for a date, how would you spend it and what are the DOs and the DONTs?

BEACH
MUSIC
DANCE
GOOD FOOD
CANDLES
AND LOADS OF LOVE,

" If you see stars and sleep you dreams come true" - Old saying

:)

Jeevan said...

Beach side places will be my choice to date, where the evening breezing and sounds of waves just create pleasant for romance. I am not going to see whether what she wears, but how fondling she were and sweetness in manner and to be frank where it be kindly anger or smiles that saves in my heart. I haven’t wished for anything towards romance or dating... I wonder how do I was not thinking about these in recent times;)

Anuj come over keshi blog, she is so much looking for you :) I wish you meet him sooner.

KP! said...

Well...I go with my Instinct. I would rather be friends with her b4i go on date with her...:). I prefer Friendly dates and not so called official "Date". but thats me...standing outside from crowd.

Alok said...

full moon ... mild wind ... beach .. couple of drinks and lots of chit chat :)

And yes as for the dont's never think u r smarter than the girl ... u r then in a soup ...

You look stunning Keshi :)


Alok

vishesh said...

hmmm....keep meditating on whatever you can...that will help you keshi...no props if it is on guys...they will clear out...

Sanjeeva said...

MWACKKZ! Dija feel it? ;-) whaddyyaa meaannn?????,...me heart went dab dab dab dab...not doing too good for me heart after that kiss and the AAANNNUUUUJJJJJ can wwaittttt!!!!!!!!!!lovely photo kesh...pity our paths didnt cross....

Nachi said...

...and i thought that i was the only guy who knew and loved to cook!! sheesh, we men sure are pulling up our socks to go all out for the women these days...

:)

anyways, the first date generally is the 'how to be technically correct but at the same time do something uniquely different' dilemma! a nice cuppa coffee is always a good starter. see how comfortable you are with the person and then according to the lady's 'fun quotient' take it to wherever it leads to. i once ended up at a bookshop and once on a hill top.

guess i just like to take things impulsively on the first date. the meticulous planning and the perfect evening can wait until the second, third, fourth and so on dates.

;)

ps: that picture of you is seriously distracting!

wp 2007 said...

Hi Keshi

Hmmm, meditation, that’s got something to do with thinking, right? That’s what I thought.

Perfect place for a date is anywhere there’s a bed with a built-in injection seat. That way, you can escape quickly.

Where oh where is my little Anuj.
Where oh where can he be.

I'm in rare form today. LOL

I'm glad it's rare.

LOL

Bev

Kittu said...

haha exactly..i loved this post because of the genuine thoughts that runs through everyone who meditates :-) mediatation is meant to be silent but the thoughts become rugged though..we are not saints right...

the goal is to focus on one thing but our inner goal is to think about everyone who is hot :-)...what can we do...gods cruelism lies there...

dating...hmm seems like a word that has been forgotten LOL

let me medidate right now...OMG, at present keshi black and white photo is bombarding me...ooops no to meditation again..

bye now...happy meditating and medi-dating guys :-)

ToOothlEss WOndeR! said...

have you tried pot?
i checked with my doctor just this weekned, and he says pot's non-addictive, and does far less tissue damae than tobacco.
it's good for your brain too.
good music, rainy day, and some good crack: you listen to the rythm of each drop falling outside, the tiny droplets of sweat on your skin, and you meditate to the music.
i havent done that too much, but it is a shortcut worth taking!
and those have been the only times i've been able to meditate! :)

aneri_masi said...

I actually did have my perfect first date! I LOVE to dance! So here's what we did...

He picked me up (can't remember what time), and we went for ball room dancing lessons!
Then we did dinner at this supposedly fancy Indian place, don't remember what dinner was like.
Then we went clubbing. I didn't quite like the music they had at the club (although I did dance to it). He noticed that, so when we walked back to his car, he lifted me, set me down on the trunk of his car, turned on this awesome dance cd in the car stereo, and put up an awesome performance for me right there in the parking lot. It was SO much fun, I tell ya :)

aneri_masi said...

And here are a few general Do's and Dont's (from personal experience, I had tried out shaadi.com before I met my husband, and met some really strange ones!)

Do...clean your car before you expect me to get in there
Don't...wear the same t-shirt you probably wore to bed last night. It stinks, bleth...
Don't...try to hug me like you've known me forever when this is the first time I am seeing your face!
Do...talk about yourself, so that I can know what you're really like...but..
Don't...keep talking about and dissing your ex!

Ashu said...

hey how r u

Ashu said...

i m back for goood

Tarun said...

Take chocolates may be a a cd of some songs randomly distributed ... dont want to give a Rammstein CD atleast on first date.

Never to over do things ...
just make sure clothes are in order and shoes are polished.
Plus have something before one leaves for a date.
I prefer being on time.

Solitaire said...

Hahah..you are so funny!

Dating? You know what? I never have gone out on a date! Serious...when I was in college, all that was a strict no no..And these days kids talk about it like as if they were born to date.

I do feel like a fossil when I read such things..

Dating etiquette? GAWD! I dunno what all that is about. If I did go out on a date, something I do might be misinterpreted just because I do not know the goddamn rules! That is scary!

Keshi said...

Travistee tnxx hun! ;-)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

lol Jay @thinking!


**Lunch is good cause if it goes well you can do something else for the afternoon, but if doesn't you can claim that you have something to do and go.

true...that way u can escape rite? LOL!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey GC :)

**no opening of gates but paying the bill etc etc but practically, ahem ahem...no comments

why no comments if ur such a Dating master? LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Steve tnxx mate!


**Music/food ...... Shared tastes.

isnt that gonna be a lil difficult to do...cos we r not sure yet if both like the same kind of music/food...



**Laugh ... Jokes. and lifes experiences.

Very important! but then again it depends on each person. I love to laugh but if the guy is a moody losa I'll ask him to get lost LOL!



**Flexibility .....Be spontaneous and be able to do something else if either is uncomfortable.

I love that one!



**Judge ..... DO Not judge a book by it's cover until you have read the book.

OMG plz tell this to my sis! :) good one.



**Accepting ...Understand everyone is different. Some people will be nervous some won't.

Totally agree. Some ppl expect their Date to be exactlt like them. Its not gonna happen. We r all different and we should learn to appreciate that even if it doesnt work out in the end.


**Important ...... Be yourself!

The MOTHER of good advice ha :)



**Talk ..... Ask questions. Show interest. Even if it ends up being a bad date at least YOU made an effort.

yes...Talking is imp.



**Expectations.......None other than having a great time and who knows where it will lead...

Spot on!


**keshi...nevermind

Wut? LOL!


tnxx u gave us some great tips!


Keshi.










**Conversations ...from farting in bed to spiritual things

LOL I'd be really embarassed if the guy starts talking abt Farting on our first date.


**Dance ..... Close and don't be scared.

a dance is something I'd always enjoy...



**Romance ???? If it happens let it don't expect it.

I totally agree.

wp 2007 said...

Hi Keshi

In my last comment, 'injection' should have read 'ejection'.

Kinda wrecked that joke.

LOL

Bev

Keshi said...

heyyy Menchie :)

Atleast u hv a valid reason for not having been on a date for a long time. I dont LOL!



**Do's .....
- Try to have a quick coffee date if it's the first time you'll meet someone (esp. a blind date) so that you can escape if you don't feel any connection

lol u think so like me. good one.



**- Have a way to go home -- I personally don't like to depend on a guy if I don't know him very well

Agree. I dun get in guys' cars when I dunno em well.



**- try to be a good date -- be interested (or act interested) by asking questions, etc. Nobody likes a dull date.

so true! Dun be so obvious with how u feel inside..I mean dun show that u dun like the person..it's rude.


**- Dress correctly for the date place. Never overdress. that's just tacky.

yes I agree. Be simple. Its not the Wedding yet LOL!



**lastly, DON'T be afraid of walking out (you can do it politely, of course) if you really don't like the person. You always have a choice where to spend your time

true..dun be demanding on the other person either.


ty sweetz that was eye-opening!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

lol Ankur snap out of it now! :)


**a nice evening, on a beach where we are holding hands,

ok now d u think u can really hold hands on a date when u dunno that person all that much yet? I dunno abt u but I cant do that until I...o well marry the guy! LOL jokes apart, it takes a while for me to be physical with someone..a long time actually :):)



**and in the night, dining on the beach only with a candle on, home cooked food, with nirvana or john denver playin in the car or may be jagjits ghazals...

now thats a really neat idea.



**and to seal it all in the end, with a kiss, not a smooch, but just a gentle kiss, on her forehead!!!

thank God u said 'forehead' LOL!



**and u know, sometimes doing silly things too, on the date, make it memorable

definitely..Im actually a kid stuck in an adult body so u'll find me doing silly things all the time!


tnxx Ankur!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Ghosty!

**focus focus siva...focus

LOL! u r medi-Dating rite now.


mountains...hmmm quite soul-purifying!



**nice for us to be munching each other...i mean the food

lol!



**but not to overdo with the parfum and makeup, deodorant...

I agree. dun go bathed in deo that smell like a duty-free deo shop on legs. LOL!


**clothing. something loose and easy to come-off...jst in case i spill something on you or u spill something on me...

lol really? or did u mean something else? U cheeky Ghosty!! :):)



**but i seriously think fancy restaurants are over rated...its like poeple know u go there for date u know, and also not to let the whole world know that we have something for each other...

I totally agree there Ghosty! Some ppl do it to show off and I detest that kinda dumbness :)


**so a date should be personal, romantic...and full of love. Carebears Care!

very true! awww @Carebears. Lil Dylann love em!


tnxx Ghosty u'll make a fantastic date ;-) HUGZ!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Tys ty!


**we rode on her bike in bangalore, to some cultural place in the outskirts...we had bottled beer and sandwiches ala picnic style on the road side...Mads tried her hand at making a pot in a pottery shop ...on the way back it rained and we rode in the rain...stopped at a road side restaurant and had filtered coffee

aww thats just perfect!!! So simple yet soooooo romantic.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Anits tnxx hun!

** just b urself...b simple n nice...n hv coffee together in starbucks...

thats sooo sweet and so true.

*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Judge :)

** I'm like an old fat cat, wanting to curl up on a hearth somewhere.

LOL!


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyyy Hiren!


** I guess my lingo is gradually going to have a lot of Keshi terms

o nos! dun wreck ur Vocabulary just yet :)



** date should be instinctive and not planned meticulously ... and also it needn't be fully prudent, courteous and the likes ... it should be simply memorable

agree totally! I dun like 'planning' too much either. Just taking it easy and being myself is very imp to me.


tnxx for the idea behind this post Hiren :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehe Mav..

**dos n donts..well i ll let u knw once we go out :D

:) really? WOW!


**the things we ll do..will be the do's and the ones we dont..they ll b the donts..wat say ???

great tips Mav! lol!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Samby heyy!

All the best for? :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

u r tempted LaVida? Go ahead sweetz :)


Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

love that post how are you? i am not good at all today :(

Keshi said...

hey Amit tnxx!


**Women will definitely take notice that you are taking notice.

how clever. Seems like u know alot abt Women ha? ;-)



**yeah -- every flower has a certain meaning, and women know this

thats so true. I did a post (yes this Keshi has done a post on every topic there ever was LOL!) on that topic long time ago...asking everyone which flower they think they r and giving the meanings behind each flower :)



**A nice romantic candle lit dinner... Followed by a long walk ........on a chilly (not cold!!) night......with a nice fire *may be*.........and soft music

thats really sweet. Love it :)


I'd like to try it yes LOL ur funny Amit!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty LaVida :)

**the guy has to ask me out,

yes Im so like ya..ppl may call me old-fashion but I'd like the guy to ask me out first..



**fancy not mandatory,

cute :)



**originality is appreciated provided I am given a heads up for dressing, share talk time

hehe spot on girl!



**don'ts ...not all about u, u u, no presonal hurts/issues, no dirty jokes just yet, a little swearing ok

haha so true! And I'd hate it if a guy talked abt his EXs in the first few dates itself. It happened to me with Mr.Darcy last year. He yakked n yakked abt his ex-GF it made me wanna throw up!


ur alot like me hun. MWAH!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Fingers!

**manners are most important to me.

for me too. ppl with no manners put me off big time.


**, I always offer the girl's parents two pigs and a roll of copper wire as a deposit against their daughter's reputation, in case she decides to sleep with me.
So far, I haven't lost a single pig

lol u serious?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Preeti!

** really think itz better to call it an 'encounter' or a 'meeting' rather than a date cuz somehow guyz gt all weird when u mention the word 'date'

hehe true :)



nice idea for a date there hun. Im so like too..coffee and laughs is my perfect date.



**...n inspite of all the chivalry talk, id still prefer to dutch with the guy on the 1st date

u mean pay for urself? definitely :)


tnxx!


Keshi.

Shionge said...

Yo Keshi I'll doze off if I attempt to medi-dating hahahahh...

I'll 'grab' Anuj and 'reserve' for you if I find him ok?

KAYLEE said...

OMG kESHI I FEEL LIKE I AM GOING TO dIE RIGHT NOW :(



ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm blood sugar is not supposed to be at 42 is it?

Keshi said...

hey darling hows ya? @Amy :)



**And LOL @ 13 Ghost! i saw that silly movie!lol.

When I saw '13 Ghosts' I wasnt getting scared at all. I was feeling quite sorry for the ghosts in that movie.



**Ideal place? the park? Lol..Juz kidding.;P

lol Amy! btw a park aint a bad place either.



**I have always had this fantasy to have a date at a theme park doing thrill rides on a roller coaster or whatever 'feel-like-i-am-gonna-die rides.

that sounds really nice! however I wudnt go on a first-date there, cos if I hate the guy Im afraid I mite push him off the roller-coaster.



**Shave armpits or whatever.
fresh face.

definitely :)


**Smell good that includes DEO etc.
look Presentable and attractive

yep yep :)



**Bring enough cash

definitely. I dun wanna look like a beggar after free food on my first date.



**Wear right underwear without VPLs'

hehe good one hun. Some women dress to get the VPLs! *sigh*


**Tell a friend or two.

to be safe yeah. In case the guy is Ted Bundy material.



**Keep your handphone at hand.

yep yep :)



**Feel comfortable

its not that easy to do if ur date aint making u comfy tho. So it works both ways.


**Eat something light beforehand (depends)

aha..incase u faint LOL! now I know that'll happen to me if John Abraham is my date.



**Believe that its gonna go well

yes BELIEVE is the word!


**Carry a portable mirror.

awwww ur so like me :):)



**Just enjoy come what may and dare yourself!:P

spot on!




**DOn't
Eat the wrong/messy food

lol! I can picture myself eating like a pig in front of a good date and losing him immediately. tnxx for that tip hun!



**Don't try too hard

good one..just relax n be urself. After all, it's ur true self that needs to be shown.



**Don't Try not to think about how you are doing too much.

true...dun fret till u really should :)



**Don't try to crack his braincode.

aha lol I can see u had KESHI on ur mind when u wrote down that tip!



**I think most of all for me. when it comes to don'ts' Its basically not trying to be anything else but you.

exactly what I believe in too!


**And also trying to challenge
yourself a step up than the usual you. Don't be afraid to spice things up. I meant conversation wise and questions wise.

wow thats a real nice n new one for me!



**All in all if its a first date. Its best to be balance in things and enjoy come what may. learn to laugh at urself if u screw up. kinda thing.

good one girl!



Having listed all those FANTASTIC tips Amy, Im sure ur gonna make a wonderful date for some VERY lucky guys out there!


*HUGZ* n tnxx hun!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Anujjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj!!

Keshi said...

:):) k Im bak for commenting Anuj LOL!


WHERE THE BLOODY HELL WERE YA? I thought I lost ya for a while :(

So nice to hv u bak :)



**I feel the only issue is that your dreams would be shattered, cause of your 'beckham & john', oh so HIGH standards

lol nah cmon they r only my POSTER boys..not real. Im quite aware of the fact that my life wont be great if I marry a poster boy..its all so fake. I'd like a REAL and NORMAL guy like ya :)



** And keshi did you just meditate on the bed

lol mebbe I did ha!



**honey No, you are like freaking thousands of miles away .. so keshi .. make me feel it (*read seductively*

aww..ok if I were to do that we'd be grossing out alot of ppl here in public..so meet me after work Anuj LOL!


*HUGZ* so nice to hv ya bak!


Keshi.

Sweetstickychewy said...

Hey Gurl!:D I am doing greats this morning!:D How are ya Sexay?!;)

***When I saw '13 Ghosts' I wasnt getting scared at all. I was feeling quite sorry for the ghosts in that movie.

lol.. yeah i feel u on tht Keshi. haha..A silly movie eh. some silly ghost game.

***lol Amy! btw a park aint a bad place either.

Yeah you are right. Most people think of hanky panky under skirts moments when it comes to a night date @ a park. lol.:P i was being cheeky when i wrote that.;)

The best dates i ever had are with good guy friends of mine. Its just so easy. And guys who are not holding themselves too tight. and allowing them to be themselves.Those involve some successful, fun and nice dates.:)

Have a great day ahead Sweets! MWAHS!

Keshi said...

omg Anuj u made me drift into total Dreamland with that DATE of ur's WOW!

U know I like the Manly Beach alot dun ya ;-) perfect choice mate.


**And there in the shades of a cafe they sat, listening to the waters shattering across the stone walls.

lovely!


How romantic can ya get ha! LOL ur making me fall for ya now....


btw did ya find out the meaning of the lyrics of this song...plz find out n write it here :)


u r such a DATER..lol I mean a great guy to date..so bloody romantic!


Keshi.

fingers said...

I'm very serious, Keshi.
And for someone as lovely as you, I would even go as high as three pigs...

Keshi said...

hey Ziah MWAH!

**only he was so happy that finally someone was interested and he went on and on and on..

lol hahaha! I know that kind urrrrrrrrrg!



**you can go bowling

thats a neat idea. I love Bowling and Im good at it too :) I can show off haha!



**then make sure you drop subtle hints

good one. but some guys dun get the HINTS even if u drill a hole in his head n pour the hint in there *sigh*.



** Its important that the guy thinks he cant get you outta his head

great tip hun but the only problem is if I dun like the guy and if he's Jack-the-ripper kind, that wud be scary LOL!


**like stylish for a coffee shop n will also manage to sneak you into the movies or a club) and remember to SMELL awesome.

perfect!


**remember its your first time out together, not a pity party n there will be more such times to open up

so true! The last time I went ona date was lat year with a certain Mr.Darcy..and he made me feel like Im on a puking-roller-coaster by talking non-stop abt his rather pushy ex-GF!


**Always carry enough money

agree!


**But never forget to be you - wear your best smile and your original trademark attitude

THE best tip ever!



tnxx hun u rock!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Anujjjj :)


**when did I say that I was mad at you for not meeting :o ..

aww mebbe I thought u were..cos u said we were DOOMED. lol!


**actually its a shared guilt, because my plans were made the nite before, and they were at awkward dates, so obviously it wouldn't be so that keshi would be sitting in her lawn waiting if anuj would pass by

LOL! I mite actually be doing that now :(



*HUGZ*


why do I miss ya so much when ur gone now? :(


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Cinderella LOL ur my long lost sista then! HUGGGGGGGGGZ!


**Tropical Icebergs and loads of chatting away.....

awww really sweeeeet...


**Lemon Iced Teas will also do but talking is a must..

yep yep for me too :)



**Not the cheesy kinds males usually fake up to impress a female, rather the free-flowing sophisticated kinds......

I want sum too!



**where you laugh, you share, you reminiss, you have no clue of how time passed by so quickly without a warning....

aha..



**where you can just go on an on without those odd silent moments interrupting in between....

awww..


**And yes, no touchy-feely for me on a first date. I'm a very orthodox person and will prefer the old-fashioned way even if its 2050...!!!!

LOL girl ur so like me! I told Anuj that we can be roommates in 3006. LOL!


tnxx and its great to know u n i think so alike. *HUGZ* :):)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Nirmal WC n tnxx!

**u ask ur boy out

yes and thats why I asked Anuj out...and in PUBLIC too :):)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

lol Andrew!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

lol Mayur tnxx!


**I would love to spend the heavenly time in my house wid my gal playing guitar and cooking food for her.

sweet. btw I love a guy who can plauy the guitar. Can ya play it or did u just say that to impress girls? LOL!



**I would love gardening wid her(oh! forgot it's juz a date n nt life ! LOL)

hahahaha! nah even Gardening is nice as a first date. But depends on wut ur planting...I hope its not wut Im thinking? LOL!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha Mayur good for ya!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Nirmal :) tnxx!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Shiva!

**It's concentration and meditation is when the mind disappears

I can never concentrate..Im so slack. My mind is the fastest ticking meter on Earth...I think ALOT :)

yes being one's self is the best tip ever!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Thoughts that was nice!


**AND LOADS OF LOVE,

Im not sure abt that one tho..I cant offer love on a first date...I'd just be friends first :)


tnxx and I love that old saying!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Jeevan that was so nice!

**Beach side places will be my choice to date, where the evening breezing and sounds of waves just create pleasant for romance

beautiful! I'd love to spend an evening with ya on the beach. wud be nice ha? :) u'd be GREAT company too, I just know.


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey KP I agree.

**I would rather be friends with her b4i go on date with her

I'd be the same. I dun wanna get all too cosy on the first date itself. *rolling eyes*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Alok!

**full moon ... mild wind ... beach .. couple of drinks and lots of chit chat

thats just PERFECT!

no one is smarter than the other..yes ur right :)


;-) tnxx for the sweet compliment!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey tnxx Vish! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Sanjeeva!


**me heart went dab dab dab dab...not doing too good for me heart after that kiss and the AAANNNUUUUJJJJJ can wwaittttt!!!!!

LOL! awww..

and wut d ya mean our paths didnt cross? We already know each other right? Atleast we met in Blogville. HUGGGGGGGGGZ! :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Nachi seems like ur my perfect date now...shhh dun tell Anuj. LOL!


**and i thought that i was the only guy who knew and loved to cook!!

I love a guy who can cook. Not only cos of the great food but also cos there's nothing more sexier than a guy in an apron ;-) dija know that? hehehe.


I agree..I dun want it to be so RIGHT..just going with the flow is 'perfect' enough :)


**i once ended up at a bookshop and once on a hill top.

how nice...




**that picture of you is seriously distracting!

lol why may I ask? Do I look like Miss.Dracula?



*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Bev!

**that’s got something to do with thinking, right? That’s what I thought.

LOL good one hun! yes ir right and I THINK abt hunks..why not ha.



**Perfect place for a date is anywhere there’s a bed with a built-in EJECTION seat. That way, you can escape quickly.


lol I agree. For a while I was thinking abt a built-in 'erection'. ok I know I hv a dirty mind. SORRY luv haha!


r ya stalking Anuj too? Hands off him hun he's all mine ;-)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Kittu lol!


**what can we do...gods cruelism lies there...

haha yes God is cruel..and sometimes he's awesome..cos he brings John to my mind. It's all hid fault dammmit!


my pic is disturbing ya? awww...just calm down and medi-Date Kittu..that'll solve it. LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Toothy :)


**good music, rainy day, and some good crack: you listen to the rythm of each drop falling outside, the tiny droplets of sweat on your skin, and you meditate to the music.

sounds perfect.

pot as in drugs? LOL na...not yet. Isnt it damaging?


Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

wait i thought anuj was mine?

Keshi said...

heyy Aneri!

**he lifted me, set me down on the trunk of his car, turned on this awesome dance cd in the car stereo, and put up an awesome performance for me right there in the parking lot.

he really did that? WOW he must be SOMETHING!



**(from personal experience, I had tried out shaadi.com before I met my husband, and met some really strange ones

lol my cousins go to Shaadi too hehe. CUTE!




**Do...clean your car before you expect me to get in there

hehe yes. If u get in my car, u'll notice how neat n clean it is :)


**Don't...wear the same t-shirt you probably wore to bed last night. It stinks, bleth...

LOL!



**Don't...try to hug me like you've known me forever when this is the first time I am seeing your face!

I so agree! ewww!


**Do...talk about yourself, so that I can know what you're really like...but..
Don't...keep talking about and dissing your ex!

OMG this is exactly wut my last date did to me. We went out for dina on our 2nd and abt-to-be-LAST date, and all he ever talked abt was his super demanding ex-GF. I was so put off but didnt show it at all. He didnt stop until dina was over. And he was OVER too, in my heart!


tnxx hun great tips there!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Ashu hey WB :)

btw ur bak so many times haha cute!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

where d u go all the time Ashu? :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Tarun they r great tips :)


**Take chocolates may be a a cd of some songs randomly distributed ...

wow ur giving a pressie too? thats really kind of ya.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Solitaire!


**I never have gone out on a date! Serious...when I was in college, all that was a strict no no..

in College I never dated..cos my parents were so strict. But I secretly met my then BFs. LOL I was a lil bit naughty as well as a nerd. Really, i dun u'stand myself!



**And these days kids talk about it like as if they were born to date.

haha I agree! Im no kid but I hv been on few Dates myself..the last was last year in Jan when a certain Mr.Darcy fell in love with me..it was all over in 7 days hehe. I blogged abt it big time LOL!


no hun there r no big rules for Dating..the only real rule is BE YOURSELF. And Im sure ur not gonna fail that.


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

I got that Bev, tnxx! :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Kaylz heyy...


Keshi.

Pallavi said...

I know it has been so so long . hope all is well at your end. Om John..i dont think anything gets better than that! :)

Keshi said...

Nitey nite Shionge!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Kaylz if ur not well wut r u doing on the net? plz get some help real quick now.

TC!

Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

//Kaylz if ur not well wut r u doing on the net? plz get some help real quick now.//

i missed you thats why i came on!!!!!

Keshi said...

hey Amy!

**Yeah you are right. Most people think of hanky panky under skirts moments when it comes to a night date @ a park. lol.:P i was being cheeky when i wrote that.;)

lol I love 'cheeky'. ;-)



**The best dates i ever had are with good guy friends of mine. Its just so easy. And guys who are not holding themselves too tight. and allowing them to be themselves.

well-said!


*MWAH*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyya Fingers!


**I'm very serious, Keshi.
And for someone as lovely as you, I would even go as high as three pigs...

lolz cmon dun tease me now!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Kaylz :)

**wait i thought anuj was mine?


LOL but when u were in hospital, I stole him. awww..

u can hv him bak if u want? :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

yes Pallavi dun we all LOVE John! ;-)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Kaylz but I want ya to go get help..real soon now. OK?

dun worry Anuj will be safe in my hands..lol!

*MWAH*


Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

LOL but when u were in hospital, I stole him. awww..

u can hv him bak if u want?//


ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm so i get sick and i get him stolen?

KAYLEE said...

ok keshi i will :)

Keshi said...

aww only for a lil while Kaylz..he's all ur's now :)

Lets ask Anuj ok lol! Lets confuse him.

Keshi.

KAYLEE said...

okay sounds good :P

KAYLEE said...

but not now i am getting help!

Ankur said...

//lol Ankur snap out of it now! :)

no i cant as of now... Gosh!!!
:D


//d u think u can really hold hands on a date when u dunno that person all that much yet

Doesnt all tis depends on the comfort level of urs, when you start talkin to someone, sharing ur views, when u really feel that yes, lightening can strike!!! ;)

//now thats a really neat idea.

well, i dont like hip-hops too much, and when u r with someone as lovely as u, then u need the soothing music, dont want the music to be so loud to dwell or kill the emotions

//thank God u said 'forehead' LOL!

thats the best way to seal it, isnt ;)
waise wat were u thinking, huh??? bolo...
:P

//definitely..Im actually a kid stuck in an adult body so u'll find me doing silly things all the time!

hehe, i guess then thats wat common in us, i cant stop being a kid, not coz i m, but tat i want to, who wanna grow up... its all fun when u think so less, do so much!!!

//tnxx Ankur!
well next time put a power to 100, so that u dont write tnxx for next so many posts(i cant caculate what 100 power will be, i m poor at maths, do me the favor :( )

Cheers~!

Gonecase said...

There is a difference between a professor and a lab attendant ;)

SambY said...

I have had some dates.. yes.. but the best one was which happened yesterday..lolz totally unexpected.. out of the blue.. with the gal on whom i have been crushed for long...

See dnt take tension.. just go ahead... Unprediuctability me hi maza hai.. best of luck..

In casse u want to read bout my date.. then check my latest post..

cheerz

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Medi-dating, that's a new word you just coined. He, he, he, *lol*. Paging Mr. Webster! Well for those who are not good at meditating, you can always resort to the funnier, more exciting world of medi-dating.

maverick said...

hey...ms workaholic...howdy??

Nachi said...

distracting cause i was studying for my exams before i checked out your blog...after that, i was merely ogling!!

;)

ps: i won't tell Anuj.

La vida Loca said...

ok infinie wisdom on meditating....
1. guided mediating thru Cds...just follow directions

2. lie down and just breathe after vigarous exercise..works like a charm

3. repeating a word/ phrase is also easy.

u will get thoughts, and feel like running away...so some pleople just go thru w/ it..some others do 5 mins for a week and go on increasing to 20 mins a day.

Mayur said...

Well,

I have attended few lessonz in guitar but couldn't give much time for it. I wish to start it again soon.....(btw I play harmonium and keyboard fairly).

**hahahaha! nah even Gardening is nice as a first date. But depends on wut ur planting...I hope its not wut Im thinking? LOL!

Hope you are not being erotic,,,LOL
(btw I never did gardening and wud probably never do it in my lifetime. Juz wrote it 2 impress chics:D)

I was totally clueless about commenting to this post so keyed in something my fingers pressed on da keyboard(ON THAE KEYBOARD in bold, italic, underline)LOL

AmitL said...

Hi,Keshi..hehe-I can well imagine you and meditation not going well together..but,u know, you can meditate on the shirtless thoughts or any other,err,pleasant thoughts which come to mind during meditation...what's important is concentration.(Forget the rest of the people who're chanting Oms.

Ideal place for a date?Mmmm...somewhere in the mountains,communing with only nature around,a packed breakfast/lunch/dinner....err,why do you ask such questions,which send me off on a dream vacation?hahaha!!

AmitL said...

Err,the first pic-you look pretty catty good in disguise,meditating!!!hehehehe!!*ducks for cover*

Anjuli said...

U are a funny girl!

and yes u look super gorgeous!

Cinderella. said...

Roomates in 3006 ?!!!!

Ha ha ha....rotfl !!

OH btw, Gp's gonna have a heart attack...do think of him too..when you decide that finally...he's tryn so hard to focus..lol !!

Miladysa said...

Just be Keshi! :-D

c e e d y said...

haha cool

but you know what - meditating the way you descibed is never going to work for people like us....we have multiple levels of thoughts going on.....

so what you did medidating is awesome......and the right way to go....finally it is doing smg you like and that keeps your mind occupied and you dont dwell into the other world....is meditating and what better than a cool date at home

and good to see the face of anuj....cheers bro where the heck are you

wisdomstuff said...

You are just beautiful!

Compassion Unlimitted said...

Very simple... join the Dieting and Dating course conducted by CU..lol
TC
CU

Beach Bum said...

Wouldn't know how to handle a first date if my life depended on it. Have to hope that its like riding a bike. Heading out the door for the camping trip at the beach. Hope you have a great weekend.

di.di said...

keshi...

my rules for dating 101 - the man must have decent smells... doesn't look like a trashy... act like a gentleman and DO NOT BRAGGING about himself...

from the city of love...
muahhhh

vitruvian said...

hhmmmm...
rules...
be straight and honest
DONT be boring and sloppy
please read reactions correctly!!

my idea of a good date...
well i like u am quite a homely girl so chilling at home where u can talk comfortably and uninterrupted is perfect..
also it is convenient for OTHER activities!! ;)

cheers!

Pavi!!!! said...

lol @ the way u associated meditating with dating..hahaha..

Post was a nice read. now abt the dating tips...

Hmm..for me the most imp thing on a date is to be able to be oneself. I hating having to act prim n proper and flash a smile for the sake of it. i like to be my goofy, crazy self and thats wat i would want of the guy as well.For him to be himself!
I like mush n romance but not too much of it..A guy who proposes on his knees with a flower n ring is no-no for me.I feel the idea is not original and so psuedo!
The kind of person i am.. A date at home , sounds so perfect!We'd probably cook sumthing simple together, the place wld be lit up with candles n we'd be wearing casual shorts n t-shirt!

Tarun said...

Yeh and hope she likes it ...
But if the lady is someone I know ... I dont mind buying earrings... easiest(safest) thing to buy ...

No matter how weird the earrings may be a gal would fins something in the wardrobe to match it, what the hell may be buy something new to match the earrings ...

Big chandelier like earrings for you (i doont know what they are called!!)...

Just got her a bracelet for her though ;)

Keshi said...

Kaylz I hope u got the help u needed yday?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha Ankur tnxx x 1000000!


**, dont want the music to be so loud to dwell or kill the emotions

imagine dating a loud rapper?


**wut were u thinking?

lol top secret mate.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey GC..

**There is a difference between a professor and a lab attendant

so which one r ya? :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Samby Im surprised u SCORED :) on the same day that I wrote abt Dating hehe...so nice to hear that.


I read it and it sounded like a real FUN date! Good for ya.

btw Im still hitting on ya ok...how d u feel when an older woman is hitting on ya LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehe Mel tnxx :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Mav Im a workaholic as well as a blogaholic..and sometimes a lil bit sexaholic. LOL!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Nachi now dun go to ur exam n write

"that b/w pic, that b/w pic, that b/w pic..."

as all ur answers ok. :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty LaVida that was intrigueing!


**lie down and just breathe after vigarous exercise..works like a charm

thats gonna be hard cos as soon as I lie down Im gonna think of John Abraham on top of me :(


Keshi.

brute said...

gosh! u sooo hottt tht am sweating in the cold!!.. :P

Keshi said...

hey Mayur when did u become a Sultan with a suitcase full of dinars? LOL!


**btw I play harmonium and keyboard fairly).

thats great.



**Hope you are not being erotic

wut me not erotic? never never never! I was born to be erotic mate. LOL!


I knew u were just trying to impress chics with ur Gradening skills *smirks at Mayur* :)


LOL @bold italic..!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey AmitL :)

**...what's important is concentration.

ty for saying that, ur AWESOME u know!


sorry I sent u to a dreamworld, but isnt it better than being stuck at work LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

AmitL lol dun hide..cos i thought so too :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Anjuli tnxx hun!

btw look who's talking..my my u look so pretty!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Cinderella lol!


**Gp's gonna have a heart attack...do think of him too..when you decide that finally...he's tryn so hard to focus

yeah he's practising a 'position'...in Yoga I mean. LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Milady WB!

**Just be Keshi

all this time I hv been Keshi and no one wanted me :(

*sobs uncontrollably*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Ceedy hows it going? :)


**so what you did medidating is awesome......

aww ty for saying that! Atleast ur being very honest.


Anuj came bak and now he disappeared again...mebbe he doesnt like my post :*(


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Wisdom tnxx hun n u too!

*MWAH*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

CU hey!

**join the Dieting and Dating course conducted by CU

LOL why dieting?


Keshi.

Keshi said...

BB hey hv a good one mate!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehe Didi that was cute :)

**act like a gentleman and DO NOT BRAGGING about himself

definitely a MUST-HAVE!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Vitruvian tnxx hun!


**be straight and honest

yeah and that way we can actually find out if he's a criminal or not. :)


**OTHER activities

o u naughty girl! bedroom or bathtub ha. LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Nice tips Pavi..so original.


**..A guy who proposes on his knees with a flower n ring is no-no for me.I feel the idea is not original and so psuedo!

I agree. As much as I can be a romantic, I hate over-romancing. I mite hv to hit him with the roses then. LOL!

me a homey girl too..just like ya!

*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Tarun :) nice!


**Big chandelier like earrings for you (i doont know what they are called!!)...

for me? awwwwwwwwwww....ty!



**bracelet for her

how sweet.


now how many GFs d u hv Tarun? LOL!


Keshi.

Niyara - Asian Rocxs said...

Such a lovely pic of you! My first date with bf was sooo NOT romantic, but the no fuss of it all was brill. I don't think I could handle the seriousness of a meal-first-date.

Agree with the inability to meditate! How do people just block it all out?

Steph said...

I go into a meditative trance when I go shoe shopping.
You should try it. :P

KAYLEE said...

//Kaylz I hope u got the help u needed yday?//

not really still horrible again today :(

EmmaK said...

re best date...I don't think there's a more romantic 'date' than in Before Sunrise, in which a young man and woman meet on a train in Europe, and wind up spending one romantic evening together in Vienna. Unfortunately, both know that this will probably be their only night together....knowing they have only one night makes it super intense.

Compassion Unlimitted said...

Simple Keshi..appropriate diet for appropriate people..some like it thin, some like it...it goes on...lol
TC
CU

vEENs said...

ok for the first part :)

please dnttt go on looking at the wrong places :)

look in to the eyes when talking!

i wud lov yur take on datin..home is heaven..and heaven is a place i wud lov to date ;)

and Anuj..... i dnt knw him :)
way to go guy...u r lucky..Keshi wants to DATE yu :)

take care!

Gonecase said...

Have been a professor whole of my life but have started applying my skills practically lately ....multi-faceted eh :P

Keshi said...

tnxx Niyara!

yes I really dunno how some ppl meditate...atleast Im not in that 'holy' stage yet..actually Im so far away from that stage!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

lol Stepher me too..shoes r pure bliss!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Kaylz cmon tell me good news now.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Emma did u really experience such a terribly romantic date? OMG Im jealous!

Sometimes I wish I cud do that..u know, not worry abt tmrw, and just spend a day with a guy I really love...but in reality its so hard for me to do that.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

lol CU and some like it BIG? ok Im getting dirty now, shutup Keshi.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Veenz!

**..home is heaven..and heaven is a place i wud lov to date

well-said girl :)


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

haha GC good on ya!

Keshi.