Friday, May 9

Cardiology

No I'm not gonna go back to Uni and become a Heart Specialist. Relax. I'm just gonna talk about some matters of the heart :). It's Mothers' Day on Sunday in this part of the world. And though I'm not a mother (not yet, wonder if I'd ever get a chance to be one), I have alot of mothers in my life...not just my mum. To me, Mother means Giver. Someone who has an unconditional love towards another...someone who is always there for you...someone who'd give you more than they would take from you...someone's who's heart knows no bounds when it comes to love...someone who may fight with you but hugs you at the end of the day. A 'mother' doesn't always have to be your biological mother. Some people can love you as much as your mother can, even more. A Mother is a Giver. And I have many mothers in my life. Here's proof:

There's a friend in my life who once opened her door for me, when I left my Aunt's place after some stupid argument (in my Uni days when I used to board at my Aunts' place). I was so upset, so sad, so alone, I just had to leave and I didn't know who'd take me into their home...I just packed my bags, got into a taxi and went to her house in the night...she opened the door, didn't say a word, took me and my bags in and shut the door behind us. Few days later I went back to my aunt's place but the fact that my friend took me in not knowing why I was there and without even asking me anything at all, made my heart feel a strong unconditional love that's rare even in some families. Yeah I see her as a Mother that I came across in my life. (btw above is a pic of a real baby girl being left in the gutter by her mother)

Then there was this little girl I once saw at the mall. She didn't even know who I was, but as soon as she saw me she came running to me and gave me one big hug with her tiny arms wrapped around my skirt (she was only upto my knees...that tiny!) much to her mum's surprise. That very beautiful and innocent gesture made my heart feel a love that was non-judgemental and as pure as morning dew. Quite like a mother's love. Yeah I see her as a Mother I came across in my life...that little girl! Then I see a very old homeless woman in the street...and I see her smile at me...a genuine smile...she reminds me of my granma. I shed a tear as I walked past her. She was a mother to me...for a few seconds she was.

These are only 3 incidents out of many. My point is, people don't have to love you forever and every single minute to make your heart jump in joy and to feel loved. It only takes one small gesture free of judgement to realise how much a person truly sees you for who you are. It doesn't matter that they don't do that all the time or that you breakup later on...but the fact remains that atleast for one minute, they loved you uncoditionally. And that's a huge thing to do by any human. Cos to love unconditonally is not that easy. So embrace it when it happens. Even Mothers and kids fight, but they somehow make up...some may never (I know some families where mothers and children don't talk to each other and it's very very sad). But what's important is that you did have some love shared between the hearts, when you could...love prints that have been left in your heart.


Last night I attended an event held on behalf of Mothers' Day...and there were kids as young as 3 who came on stage saying why they loved their mothers. They were so damn cute and I had tears in my eyes as I heard their cute lil voices on the microphone. A VERY CUTE 3yr old boy told the crowd 'I love my mother cos she lets me watch ABC Kids on TV'...now how special is that! To him, his mum is special cos she allows him to watch something that he enjoys...as simple as that. Another lil bubz, about 4yrs old told 'I love my mother cos she cooks pasta for me'...so darn sweet! And a bigger kid said 'I love my mum cos she helps me with my homework'. And one baby girl with a big ponytail said 'I love my mum cos she's my mum'. So you see, they have very simple reasons for loving their mums...kids don't ask for too much, neither do you have to do too much to love them. Love is a feeling that has to be enjoyed, not conditioned to your expectations. So it doesnt matter how big/small the deed is, it's how your heart felt at that moment.


So tell me one good thing that you have learnt from your mum. Lets be kids this weekend and get to know each others' mums. One thing that I have learnt from my mother is to forgive people's mistakes. My mother forgives and forgets easily...I can't believe how she has forgiven some of her own family/friends when all they have done is talk behind her back. But my mum will confront them being the gutsy woman that she is :), but she forgives them easily and you'll see her serving them food, laughing and yakking the next minute LOL! Though I can't forget so easily, I have learnt to forgive people, watching my mum. Now tell me your's. People love your mums, mothers-in-law, aunts, sisters, grandmums, teachers, friends, colleagues etc etc. You've gotta love to be loved back. The connection between mother and child is endless and knows no limits. For those who are missing their mums today, HUGZ! My sis and I are taking my mum out on Sunday for lunch...and I'm also planning to get her a necklace or earrings as the pressie this time (OMG I have given her every present on Earth *rolling eyes*). As much as mums need to be loved, kids need to be treasured too...so dear mums, love, guide and protect your kids. Happy Mothers' Day to all mums in Blogville and right around the world, MWAH! Mamma I love u...all u mums *lotsa tears*. This song is dedicated to all mums on Earth. And don't forget to answer the question in this post. Thanks!


Current Music: Mama by Spice Girls

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PrAcHi said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwww.. keshi.. such a cute post!
Love is a feeling that has to be enjoyed, not conditioned to your expectations.
So true!
Mums are the best.. Yeah.. I am gonna write abt her soon.. on my blog.
Umm.. Actually there are lots of things which I have learnt form my mother.. Helping people.. Yes! My mum ALWAYS helps all people she know. No matter how they treat her afterwards! She will aleways help people she know.. Nad that’s what she always told me.
So sometimes even I got OUT of my way to help people.. but then sometimes do get disappointedwhen people forget abt everything very easily!!
But yeah.. as u said… Love is a feeling that has to be enjoyed, not conditioned to your expectations.
I will remember this.. :)
Love ya...

Casperbaba said...

I miss my ma!!!
has been quiet some time since i have been away from home.... but her warmth always stays by my side. I loved your thought and understanding of the concept of motherhood. its refreshing to kno u have such insight... :)
thanks for visiting mah blog... :)
god bless nd keep writing!

Whitesnake said...

Everyone loves their mother.

Mine has been gone for nearly 23 years, nothing changes my feelings for her aye?

AmitL said...

Hi,Keshi..well,you know this is quite a sensitive topic for me..but,the best thing I learnt from my Mom when she was alive was,my love for English as a language as well as reading.And,to have compassion towards fellow human beings(though,in today's life,that becomes pretty difficult with everyone out to downplay everyone else). I still wonder,would I have been a much better person if she'd have been around today?The answer is,yes.
Sigh!
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How nice to read about the lil kid who gave you a hug..such incidents make one really smile,na?Good going.

Anonymous said...

True Confessions
my Mom

The Maverick Blog said...

I am 'Learning' the true meaning of the words "un-conditional love" and "Sacrifice" from my mother...

SambY said...

Yeah ... i love sum ppl more like myt mother...who werte there when mom was not araound...my maid at the boarding school...... whom i have blogged about...is really a person ...for whom i can give and eye and an arm for...

PrAcHi said...

yayyyy yayyyy.. I was the first one to comment on ur post! :)

PrAcHi said...

yayyyy yayyyy.. I was the first one to comment on ur post! :)

Jeevan said...

"Love is a feeling that has to be enjoyed, not conditioned to your expectations." How truly said dear.

Mum

Life is difficult without her
me needs her more to live
peacefully, comfortably and soothingly... Happy Mothers Day wishes

Ankur said...

well.. u ask me to tell u one thing i have learnt from my mamma, but there are numerous i believe... she is generous, and she gave everything she cud possibly have, to me... :)

I Love you mamma :)

mothers are the best thing this mother earth has blessed us with... They simply rock!!!

Read this keshi... i wrote it a long time back, a dedication to mother and all womenkind :)

10 Things I love about Woman

I hope u will feel special :)

and say my hi to ur mamma... Greet her with good health... :)
Heres wishing her a great and wonderful year ahead and i hope u will make her more proud in the coming years (both u n ur sis )

God Bless Her...
Amen!!!

Cheers!!!

black coffee said...

That was a lovely post as usual! :)
This time my sis is gonna miss mum.
My sis is in Aussie and I am here. And my sis is a mom too now! isn that cute?? I am so proud of both my mum and sis.

I hav always felt i had three mothers. I mean one is lucky then think how lucky is three?? :O

my sister who is this really sweet caring mommy who spoils me rotten.
cant believe she is a real mommy now!!

my grandma(dads mum) oh well she loves me cos i remind her of her son(dad passed away when i was 10)((don be sorry u din know!))

and ofcourse my mum with the worlds most gorgeous dimples! she is a mix of everything! i mean she is sweet harsh and genereous and strict all at once i wonder how she does it!

one thing my mum din give me? those dimples! *sob sob*

one thing my mum gave me? confidence to keep living, fighting to be determined and chase my dreams.
mum din want me to become a doctor cos she thot it wud be too hard on me. but then when she saw i was determined she helped me out in every way possible! do you kow even now she stays awake in the nights with me so i will study! but of course she cant stay up all night and she says, "akki, i am sorry i am really sleepy now". awwww!

i was gonna do a mothers day post too! it will be up on mother's day!

And yes i totally agree when ou say that mothers are givers they don hav to be biological! :)

Cinderella. said...

Girl, have you heard the song 'goodbye's the saddest word' by Celine Dion...??

Its aout a mother and a doughter. Everytime I listen to it, or sing it, I cry.

Miss maa big time.

Take care.

SambY said...

Hey check out my chef samby and his dishes at the enduring spirit..and well lol there is a little heart wating for u there as well !!

Greg said...

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PREETI said...

OOOHhh! i love my momz cooking, i love the squabbles me and my mum have, i love irritating her, we love bugging her, damn its soooo much fun...!

we rnt the expressive kinds really...im like that only with daddykins...with mum its more like hmmmphh!! but i love her to itsy witsy teeny weeny bits...she's such a BABY thats all i kow...my dad has made her like that...one total ball of cutenes...il alwayz tell her u know, that even after 30 yrs of being with daddy she is no better, the same village belle :)

trust me kesh, if she sees this, she's gonna be super shocked iv said ths! :D

Asha said...

Beautiful post sweetheart! Of course you will be a great mom one day!! No doubt about that. Call your mum, have a great time this Sunday. UK don't celebrate Mom's day on Sunday, they do it sometime in March or something!:)

Saw the saree post, HeHe! you look great in saree, I have seen you before with saree I think!:)

Enjoy your weekend, see you on Monday!:)

*~*Sameera*~* said...

That was a lovely tribute to mothers.They are no doubt the best.

I have learnt to be strong and independent from my Mom.Her guidelines help me everyday,even long after she is gone.

Have a great Mother's Day! :)

Ria said...

A novel way to term the word Mother!! *wonder if I'd ever get a chance to be one*
Hey why do u say so??u'll definitely make a gr8 mum coz u hav a heart of gold dear!! :) love u for the person u r.....and now abt wht i hav learnt from my mum.....i guess it has to be strength of character!!I m sayin this coz i hav seen wht she has gone thru in life and yet she hasnt lost her individuality and thts sumthing i admire abt her. Wish and hope tht i m able to keep the Ria in me alive even after 30 yrs of marriage! Hats of to her and all mothers coz they r so special. Hey give ur mum a big hug from my side and wish her a very happy mothers day!! :D

Donn said...

Although these Hallmark Days genrally drive me around the bend Mother's Day stands out because I always realise how lucky I was and how lucky all of my children are...and I have been told on many occasions that Everyday IS Father's Day. HA!

There are so many women & girls in this world who should never, ever, be allowed to bring people into this world. If you were one of the lucky ones cheers...
if you weren't, I know that you will try to break the chain.

Now to quench my Inner Geekster ...
all mammals start out as females so somewhere in the deep recesses of the genome lay the code for nurturing..
the rest is simply altered by hormonal adjustments.

I appreciate your insight that the act of Mothering is not the exclusive domain of Mothers...sometimes they get overwhelmed..we don't come with owner's manuals you know..Parents have to figure it out as they go..they're only human.

g-man said...

i'm supposed to think of just one thing i learned from my mum? wow, this is difficult. i dunno, i think the most important thing is that she always says its my life and i'm supposed to decide what to do with it. i've always made my own decisions, i think that's the most important thing by far. really touching post

ceedy said...

that was a wonderful post....

*Love is a feeling that has to be enjoyed, not conditioned to your expectations*

absolutly true....and I hope you do find your true love :)

about one good thing I learnt from my mom is - no matter what the circumstances in life are, no matter how worst it gets...just keep the faith....it will all come together some day....she has lived her life that way and I dedicate my existence to her perseverence....

La vida Loca said...

u r right!
although unfortunately I have some evidence to the contrary..moms can be selfish bitches :(

Jay said...

My mother is pretty cool. She has to be cause she's put up with me all these years and has never disowned me. ;-)

Macadamia The Nut said...

Mother's Day..
It's one of my bleak days Keshigirl..

*hugs*

Tha BossMack TopSoil said...

Good Post very Nice pics ;-)

@purV said...

Just for the headline. Thanks for reminding me! Let me call my maa up.. :D

aneri_masi said...

unfortunately...I feel like I have learnt nothing great from her! Its all from Dad.

Beach Bum said...

This is hard to describe but I learned the importance of family from my grandmother. Years ago when the entire family was alive and living close together at least one Sunday a month we would all come together and Sunday dinner at my grandparent's house. I remember the look on my grandmother's face at we sat down and said a prayer over the meal. Those times were the happiest in her life and to this day I miss them so much myself.

elusive said...

man this is sucha sweet post! my mum holds a very very special place in my life in my heart..am wat i am coz of her I owe every ounce of wot i am to her,,shes faced a lot in her life and come outta it without losing the smile on her face for even a moment..i mean i PRAY i imbibe in myself at least 1% of what she is and i will be the richest person ever. One thing that shes taught me is to be independent. She's given me all the freedom I ever wanted and made me realise the responsibilities tat come wit it too. The freakishly ambitious person tat i am tod is coz of her. Shes not only taught me to fly but given wings too n am raring to go :)
Man i rambled so much!

elusive said...

man this is sucha sweet post! my mum holds a very very special place in my life in my heart..am wat i am coz of her I owe every ounce of wot i am to her,,shes faced a lot in her life and come outta it without losing the smile on her face for even a moment..i mean i PRAY i imbibe in myself at least 1% of what she is and i will be the richest person ever. One thing that shes taught me is to be independent. She's given me all the freedom I ever wanted and made me realise the responsibilities tat come wit it too. The freakishly ambitious person tat i am tod is coz of her. Shes not only taught me to fly but given wings too n am raring to go :)
Man i rambled so much!

AnonymousBlogger said...

Great post, as usual Kesh. I especially like your thought that a simple, single gesture can mean so much to someone. Very true. Often forgotten.

krystyna said...

Happy Mother's Day to your lovely Mother, Keshi!
Happy Mather's Day to All Mothers !

I learned (still want and try) from my mom - humility.

Thank you for this amazing post!

Big hug!

krystyna said...

Happy Mother's Day to your lovely Mother, Keshi!
Happy Mather's Day to All Mothers !

I learned (still want and try) from my mom - humility.

Thank you for this amazing post!

Big hug!

Gusthav said...

Hi Keshi, I'm Gusthav, I'm Arthur's best friend.

When I was a big kid, almost a teen, my mom left us, but thanks to Arthur, she came back.

So,, I learned from my Mom to fix a mistake I do.

Nice to meet you.

Greetings and hugs

Nice Day, with my whole soul:
Gusthav

Gusthav said...

Hi Keshi, if you're wondering why Arthur is not here, it's 'cause we had a misfortune, and Arthur almost died, EEEEKKKK!!!

And all that began just with an argument Arthur had with his Mom, and Arthur's Mom will never forgive him, and will never talk to him.

I explain it better in my 2 last post of my corner (El rincón de Gusthav): http://rincongusthav.blogspot.com

Arthur needs us all, all of his friends in blogville.

Could you go to my corner and leave a supportive comment for him, please?

Thanks Keshi

Greetings, hugs and kisses

Nice Day, with my whole soul:
Gusthav

Kaylee said...

I hate mother's day cause i hate my mom, and I am not afraid to admit that out in the public. I do celebrate mothers day for my step mom(though, I wont this year for obvious reasons) but, she knows that I still love her. And she loves me.

AS FOR MY REA MOM SHE WAS SENT TO JAILL WHERE SHE BELONGS :)

priya said...

You touched the cord for everyone at the right time Keshi:)

Anvita said...

OMG, i am soooooooooo touched, infact even i was going to make a post on mothers day, :)

yur post was truely touching, to ans yur question the one thing i have learnt from my mom is that she has always been the on the giving end, and not expected anything in return and it just makes her happy, i still dont understand how she does it, though I try sometimes but hats off to her....

Cinder-Single said...

HEY Keshi!!! This post made me cry!! I love my Mommy, because like it was mentioned early in your post.. When it seems like the chips are down, I am sad crying, happy anything she is there!!

I am never old to go and crawl up in her lap and lay there and let it all out!! many nights when I am down, I get in my car and drive for an hour plus... just for her to hold me, no questions asked she just meets me where I stand and holds me as tight as she can.. and tell me Ne baby let it all out!!!!

Oh my goodness I am crying!!
Great post thank you!!!!!

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Ghost Particle said...

you're a brave soul to be walking out and making ur own decisions, sometimes u jst have to let the world know that u matter too in the equation. loved the story you wrote, or more like memorable days in your memorable life.

we take so much things for granted. in the world today, love is but a pointless word in fake realities across the world. there is too much burden in the mind even to find space to the people we love. never before has there been less respect for females, for children and mothers. thats just how low the community has sunk to, how depressingly pointless our existence has been.

love for me is knowing someone is there to give a guiding hand, someone who has done that for every single second since even before our birth. life is so precious, life is so beautiful, life is not ours but our mothers. :)

hugs.

Dawn....सेहर said...

Keshi dear...you know I love you ! You know for what? For all your such innocent and true thoughts.
I dont want to write anything right now as am filled with emotions in my heart as I was going through your post!!!!

Love to you and Happy MOther's Day to your mom....she is a proud one to get you gal....keep the head high as always
Hugzz

Alok said...

very very heartfelt post Keshi ..... indeed mother means giver.....


just a couple of lines for u


"Mother my acquaintance
Have been long for world
He who knows will abide; and
The laconic small fellow
Will remember what you read
To him all this while."

hv a nice weekend


Alok

CIELO said...

Beautiful post.... and very touching.... I'm glad your friend added to my link of tributes to mothers....

cielo

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

awwwwww
it was such a heart felt post...
i m missing my mommy now :|

it was too cute u c..
i love my mom coz she allows me to watch tv...
oh my...guchu guchu..

and ur take on the mother as giver..its really wonderful...
and m missing mommy after reading u and samby..he cooked some real delicacies and m craving for mom n homecooked food...

anits said...

Great post keshi..so touching..wish all the mothers "HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY"

have a great weekends keshi..hugz

Nadine said...

My mom showed me how to love - freely, unselfishly and completely - without asking for anything in return.

Pavi!!!! said...

Timely posts Keshi :)

To talk abt how much i love my ma will take a lifetime for...She is the biggest inspiration as a career woman, mother, daughter, and as a human! She reallllly is.

My ma has taught me to be brave & strong!Taught me to be frank n honest n stand up for things that matter. Without saying "I love u" a single time in her life has made me feel so loved..thereby teaching me that actions speak more than words.She has taught me to never give up and be a giver without saying that I'm one...

I really love, admire n respect my parents.If u get the time pls do read this post of mine http://shortyspeaks.blogspot.com/2008/01/for-you-thousand-times-over-sums.html

Cazzie!!! said...

I love this post Keshi, you are so lovely :)

Kuan Gung said...

Great post keshi!

Phoenix said...

:) nice post. Mum's the best.

tulipspeaks said...

Send my Mother's Day wishes to your mommy, dear! :)


ammu.

Vinesh said...

Loved your post!
No one can talk about a mother's love, and not cry!

The Grunt said...

My mom taught me to never quit. My dad did. My mom hasn't till this day quit. She is my role model. If you really want to know why I am different, it is because of this.

Alok said...

Thank you so much Keshi, for this.

My Mummy is a Godess. And she will ever remain to be.

A couple of things my Mom taught me:

Being yourself is what matters, have fun in your own unique way, no matter what the hell the world might say.

There is nothing as satisfying and glorifying as hard work.

I love My Mummy. :)

Keshi said...

ty Prachi HUGZ!

Im so glad ur bak :) I hope its for good?


**She will aleways help people she know..

omg this is soooooo my mum too! She helps just abt anyone, even if she doesnt know em.

I think ur mum and my mum will hit it straight away LOL!


*HUGZ* to ur Ma! She's a great humanbeing.


Keshi.

sid said...

Mind-blowing!!!..I loved the incident about the cute little girl coming and hugging you and **'I love my mum cos she's my mum'.** took the cake...simplicity personified!!!....Your post makes me wish I was back home on this day...n yet every year I am unable to make it:-((....again not that going makes a difference to her...may be it wud make a difference to me!! gr8 post!

Keshi said...

aww Casper :*(


I can imagine how u must miss her cos when I was away from home during my 5yrs at Uni, I spent many teary nites.


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Steve thats so true...everyone loves their mums!


**Mine has been gone for nearly 23 years,

God bless Ma!


*HUGZ* dun cry...Im here for ya. :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Amit I did think abt u alot as I wrote this post...cos I know ur mum is not here today. *tearz*


**the best thing I learnt from my Mom when she was alive was,my love for English as a language as well as reading

no wonder ur English is EXCELLENT! I hv alot of respect for ur mum.


**,to have compassion towards fellow human beings

Thats what my dad taught me! Even tho he's not today, I still rem his words...


*HUGZ* Amit! And God bless ur beautiful Ma!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Anon, I'll check it out soon.

Love to ur Ma!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyya Maverick WC to my world :)


**I am 'Learning' the true meaning of the words "un-conditional love" and "Sacrifice" from my mother...


yes, only mums can teach us that.


Angel Blessings to ur Ma!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Samby!

**...my maid at the boarding school...... whom i have blogged about...is really a person ...for whom i can give and eye and an arm for...

awwwwwwwww....I used to hv someone like that lookafter me when I was abt 2yrs old...apparently when she went on holz, I used to cry all nite long calling her name. :(


Samby sometimes even mums hurt our feelings...my mum does that too. And sometimes I hurt her feelings too. But thats not cos we dun love each other...thats cos we r only human.

Forgive ur mum, if she's done anything to make u feel unloved. She's human too. U show her LOVE.


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

yeyyyyyyyyyyyy Prachi!

Lets drink to it ha. ;-)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Jeevan tnxx!

*Life is difficult without her
me needs her more to live
peacefully, comfortably and soothingly

awwwwwwwww...thats so true! W.O. mum life is so dull.


*MWAHZ* to ur wonderful Ma from me!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Ankur!

I will read that post soon. Im sure it's very special, knowing how u write.


**she is generous, and she gave everything she cud possibly have, to me.

Thats a beautiful heart! Being generous is something I learnt from my mum too. She taught me how to spend on things that are worth sepnding on...to give to others...never to think twice abt that, for Giving is true Joy.


ty for sending well wishes to my mum. :) I'll pass it on.

*HUGZ* to ur beautiful Ma from Keshi!



Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww wtnxx Black_Coffeee MWAH!

I didnt know ur sis in Aussie..wow where? Syd or Mel?

She's a mum now...awww...how nice! I wanna be a mum too. hehehe. I like lil babies.


Im really sorry to hear abt ur dad! *HUGZ*. U were only 10? WOW! I was 16 when my dad died. He was only 44. Life is such.


Ur granma must be a beautiful soul...and to look at u and think of her son. ok I cried at that line!


**one thing my mum gave me? confidence to keep living, fighting to be determined and chase my dreams.

WOW she must be a very brave and courageous woman! I salute her. My mum taught me the same...not with words, but by her actions. When dad died all of a sudden, we were all alone..nowhere to go, no other income etc. My mum somehow made it thru all that and sent me to Uni here in Aus etc. It was cery tough for a while..but we made it! SHE made it.


Ur mum has dimples? WOW I love dimples :)

hahaha @Akki Im gonna sleep.

She's sounds so sweet! In Sinhalese 'Akki' means big sis...:)


Ur studying to be a doc? WOW good on ya girl!


ty so much for sharing ur 3 mums with me here. Plz give my LOVE n HUGZ to all of em!


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Cindy tnxx hun!

I know that song...it makes me VERY SAD too :(


U miss ur Ma..awww..HUGZ luv!

And MWAH to ur Ma from this bad girl! LOL!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Samby THE STUD, that was so damn CUTE!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Greg WC and ty!

I will drop in soon.

Thats such an interesting Research topic and tnxx for inviting me in!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Preeti ur mum and u sound so like me and my mum LOL! We r like best friends...and yes sometimes we yell at each other too. And then we go out for coffee together the next day. LOL!


**we rnt the expressive kinds really...im like that only with daddykins.

OMG thats so like my mum and dad too! Cos tho mum and I r VERY close, she's not the kind who hugs and kisses...my dad was the big bear hugger awww. Not mum. Sometimes I find it difficult to express w.o. a Hug, cos u know how much I love hugging hehe.


*Village belle

aww thats the best MUMS in the world!


Can ya give ur mum a kiss and a hug from Keshi? :) I'd really appreciate that. I know she'll be thinking who the hell is Keshi LOL...but here's sending lots of Love to ur AMMA!


*MWAH*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Asha!

U hv a GREAT MUMS DAY tmrw ok! U meant US or UK? :)


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Sameera dahlin I cried reading ur comment. HUGZ!

**I have learnt to be strong and independent from my Mom.Her guidelines help me everyday,even long after she is gone.

Just like how I rem all my dad's teachings even now.


God bless both ur mum and my dad!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Ria! I hope I'll be a good mum, w.o. dropping my baby n all. LOL! Im so clumsy.


**.....i guess it has to be strength of character!!I m sayin this coz i hav seen wht she has gone thru in life and yet she hasnt lost her individuality and thts sumthing i admire abt her

that sounds like a charcater of true courage and strength. I salute ur Ma!

Sma with my Ma...when dad died quite unexpectedly, she had to survive somehow...and she did it. She gets all the credit for us being where we r today.


ofcourse I'll pass ur well wishes n hugs to my Ma. She's love it :) ty so much!

And plz give ur Ma a Kiss for me, wont ya? :)

*MWAH*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Donn for ur great wisdom here!

**There are so many women & girls in this world who should never, ever, be allowed to bring people into this world.

I so agree! Some mothers only damage their kids' lives.



**all mammals start out as females so somewhere in the deep recesses of the genome lay the code for nurturing..

true.


Donn give my love to ur Mum ok!

*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty G-man!

I know there r more than just one thing that a mum teaches us :) a zillion I guess!


**i think the most important thing is that she always says its my life and i'm supposed to decide what to do with it

Very good one! Thats what all mums should do.

Altho my mum did teach me to be independent, there r times when I feel she expects certain ways from me...which is when I get angry and fight with her :)


Sending ur mum a truck load of KESHI HUGS!


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Ceedy hey tnxx! Ur looking good there ;-)


** no matter what the circumstances in life are, no matter how worst it gets...just keep the faith....it will all come together some day

WOW she must be an amazing lady!

Often I believe in that too...and cos of my Ma.


*HUGZ* to ur superb Ma!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty LaVida!

**moms can be selfish bitches

awww...I agree...sometimes even mums can be like contestants. Its very hard. Im not sayin the Mother-Child r'ship is pure in every case...thats why I put that lost baby pic. Sometimes mums can hurt their kids.


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

hahahaha Jay ur's was the wittiest ans! :)

My Love to ur wonderful Mum!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

dahlin Maca hows ya?

**Mother's Day..
It's one of my bleak days Keshigirl..


Im sorry...I dunno abt ur Mum...I hope its not what Im thinking? *tearz*



*HUGZ* :(


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Boss!

Say HI to ur Mum for me! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Apurv Im so glad :) and say Hello from me too.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Aneri ty!

**I feel like I have learnt nothing great from her! Its all from Dad.

awww :( Nothing at all?

How abt what u look like? D u look like ur Ma?


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty BB!

I know u lost ur mum recently...it must be so very hard! *HUGZ*


**I remember the look on my grandmother's face at we sat down and said a prayer over the meal. Those times were the happiest in her life and to this day I miss them so much myself.


wow I had a tear in my eye as I read that!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Elusive I love ur comment!

**One thing that shes taught me is to be independent. She's given me all the freedom I ever wanted and made me realise the responsibilities tat come wit it too


She sounds AMAZING!



Altho my mum gave me freedom, its not as much as I wanted...when I was younger, she used to worry too much so I didnt get all that much of independence.


*MWAHZZ* to ur Ma from me!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey AB how hv ya been mate? :)

yes often forgotten indeedz! cos ppl keep searching for a bigger n longer love...

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Krys MWAH!

**I learned (still want and try) from my mom - humility.

aww that I can see all over ya! Ur mum did well. :)


hv a good one dahlin!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

WC here Gusthav!

**So,, I learned from my Mom to fix a mistake I do.

awww...thats neat.


Im sorry to hear abt Arthur. I did leave a msg for him. Hope he's ok now?


My love to ur MUM! :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

hey Kaylz HUGS! Hows u today?


**AS FOR MY REA MOM SHE WAS SENT TO JAILL WHERE SHE BELONGS

I know u dun like ur mum. from what u said abt her she sounds mean. Im sorry to say that tho.

she's in jail now? why?


My love to ur StepMum! She seems to TC of ya better than ur mum.



Keshi.

Keshi said...

hehe Priya tnxx hun!

Sending Love to ur Ma...

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Anvita!

**the one thing i have learnt from my mom is that she has always been the on the giving end, and not expected anything in return and it just makes her happy,

she's a very rare humanbeing then.


My HUGZ to ur beautiful Ma!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

*Keshi hugs Cinder tightly*

:) dun cry hun.


**just for her to hold me, no questions asked she just meets me where I stand and holds me as tight as she can.. and tell me Ne baby let it all out!!!!


aww wut a beautiful loving n caring mum u've got! they r always there for us.


Can ya give her a Keshi HUG plz? :)


*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Anon, will check it out soon.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Ghosty, so well-said!

**there is too much burden in the mind even to find space to the people we love.

so true! Even among families. And thats so sad.



**love for me is knowing someone is there to give a guiding hand, someone who has done that for every single second since even before our birth. life is so precious, life is so beautiful, life is not ours but our mothers

WOW thats was too beautiful!!!



HUGZ to ur Amma from me!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Dawny ty sweetie MWAH! :)

aww I love ya too! And hey can u do me a favor..give ur Mum a Kiss n a HUG from this crazy girl. ;-)


Hv a good one babez!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Alok, my LOVE to ur Ma!


**"Mother my acquaintance
Have been long for world
He who knows will abide; and
The laconic small fellow
Will remember what you read
To him all this while."


wow so beautiful! U r sooo good at this arent ya. Simply loved it Alok!


Ur mum must be a beautiful woman, full of wisdom, love and light. Cos she named ya ALOK.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Cielo WC n ty!

o someone added me to ur list? Will check it out soon.

MWAHZ to ur mum from me! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Bro u miss ur mum...aww...ring her up.

**and m craving for mom n homecooked food...

hehehehe...see, only mums can cook the BEST food in the world! U said it boy!


*HUGZ* to ur Ma from Keshiiii! :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Happy Mums Day to ur Mum too Anits, MWAH!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Nadine!

**My mom showed me how to love - freely, unselfishly and completely - without asking for anything in return

How true cos u show all those qualities in ya so well.


*HUGZ* Nadine!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Pavi and I'll read that post soon.


**My ma has taught me to be brave & strong!Taught me to be frank n honest n stand up for things that matter. Without saying "I love u" a single time in her life has made me feel so loved..thereby teaching me that actions speak more than words.She has taught me to never give up and be a giver without saying that I'm one...


WOW ur mum is larger than life! She has taught u wut every mum should teach their kids.


Give my love n hugs to ur beautiful Ma!


*MWAHZZZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Happy Mums Day Caz luv!
:)

*MWAH*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Kuan tnxx!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Phoenix tnxx! :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww ty Ammu!

And give ur Amma a big HUG from Keshi ok!

:)

*HUGZ*


Keshi.

Keshi said...

So true Vinesh!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Grunty!

**My mom taught me to never quit. My dad did.

I can imagine wut sort of strong, courageous, amazing woman ur mum is. And how can I say that..just by looking at u Grunty!

Wut d u mean ur dad quit?


My Love n kisses to ur Mum!

*MWAH*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Alok tnxx!

**Being yourself is what matters, have fun in your own unique way, no matter what the hell the world might say.

thats a golden lesson ur mum's taught u. ALWAYS BE YOURSELF.


**There is nothing as satisfying and glorifying as hard work.

Wonderful and its so true! I worked very hard too...cos my mum is that kind of person. She never got anything FREE in life..she had to work hard for everything. Just like me now.


*MWAHZ* to ur Ma from me! :)


Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Sid!

**simplicity personified

yes hehe...wasnt that so cute! I loved that one the best too. :)


Where does ur mum live? Just ring her up tmrw.


And say Hello from me too. God bless ur Mum!


*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

was overwhelmed reading abt so many GREAT MOTHERS thru this post. Touched me deeply and I was in tears while writing comment-replies.

Whether ur mum loves u or not, rem she's ur mum..she gave u birth...she made u see this world.


God bless all ur Mums!


Keshi.

pithaly said...

GODDAMNIT!! Who closed off the anonymous comments!!

Now so many will die!!!

(of grief for not being able to post).

heh.

cs said...

Thought it's time to put the fun back into blogging. I miss the days of 2005. Such fun. Till everyone became moms.

TonNet said...

Great post! I just came from WUB to tell you that you have such a sensitive taste to pick the pictures attached to your posts. I really enjoyed that one posted lately on the Today's Outfit at World United Bloggers.

gunj said...

im so excited bou motherz day!!:D
cant wait to surprise my mom!!:D

Ankur said...

will wait for u to read :)
thnx :)

**She taught me how to spend on things that are

worth sepnding on...to give to others...never to

think twice abt that, for Giving is true Joy.


u know wat... we were plannin to buy a new cell for

mom today... and then eeventually i bought one for

dad... and still she was very very happy though she

got dads old one... :)

its more than generosity, isnt?

moms are really special, and u know wat i hate, when

i take her for granted too often... was watchin a tv

series and realised tat how much i do :(

Love my mamma and all moms on this earth... they r d

best :)

thnx keshigirl... :)


Cheers!!!

Ankur said...

and sorry keshigirl.. i am@home so cudnt be as active as i m :)

will catch up with all ur pending posts from monday onwards... :)

Cheers!!!

Sweetstickychewy said...

A beautiful post Keshi. Tells me alot of beautiful things as i was reading through it.

***Love is a feeling that has to be enjoyed, not conditioned to your expectations. So it doesnt matter how big/small the deed is, it's how your heart felt at that moment.

Thats thought provoking and surely a wonderful thing to have come across. Its like winning so many battles when you just enjoy and not expect too much i guess.

As for me, one of things i learnt from my mum is not giving up on things juz because they are hard. Push your limit futher, try even if it feels like there is no answer. I believe i learnt that from my mum to perservere. And its Mother's day now. Looking forward to the celebration tomorrow.

Happy mummy's day to your mum too Keshi!:D

Lovezz..

deepsat said...

nice post keshi!

Mums will be always special. God's best creation for mankind!

Take care!!

;-))

Niyara - Asian Rocxs said...

there's jus everything and nothing i can say about ya lovely post on mums. they are forgiving - its one think that bugs me when she forgives and gives in2 my younger sis. but mums r mums. i love seeing how my mum is with hers. she's still scared of her and values her opinion.

when we go shopping and buy clothes and show grannny - mum halfs the price to avoid a lecture on money. so cute!

Macadamia The Nut said...

:) Life goes on Ladybird

MARIA said...

Happy Mother's Day to your Mom!

Thank you!

Keshi said...

hehe Pithz ;-)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

CS hey WC here!

Did I know u from before? Sorry I dun recall this nic.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

WC Tonnet and tnxx!

** I really enjoyed that one posted lately on the Today's Outfit at World United Bloggers.

Im not in WUB. can u give me the link where someone posted abt me? tnxx!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Gunj I hope u gv a great one!

MWAH!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

ty Ankur!

so wut did u get for ur mum today? :)

yes I take my mum for granted too..sometimes. And then I feel very sad and I cry.


Keshi.

Keshi said...

tnxx Amy HUGZ!

** Its like winning so many battles when you just enjoy and not expect too much i guess.

Spot on!


**As for me, one of things i learnt from my mum is not giving up on things juz because they are hard. Push your limit futher, try even if it feels like there is no answer.

Thats wonderful girl! Thats exactly wut my mum is like too! OMG she never gives up so easily :) and watching her, I've become a gutsy woman living on edge too hehe.


*MWAHZZ* to ur lovely Ma!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

so true Deepz!

How r ya? :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww tnxx Niyara!

**mum halfs the price to avoid a lecture on money.

lol hahaha cute indeedz!!


HUGZ to ur Ma!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

Maca HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGZ! I wanna know...wut happened.


:*(



Keshi.

Keshi said...

Maria my beautiful lady..MWAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHZ Happy Mums Day luv!

Keshi.

Ghost Particle said...

thx Luv. And Hugs to ur Amma to. our amma actually :)

SambY said...

Happpy mums day to u..u only said that mums not only the one that gives birth... u listen and u care for me..so happy mums day to ya!! i luv you..

deepsat said...

doing fine! back to academics now. so busy with studies and all

Anvita said...

yes indeed she is.....

:)

Anvita said...

hey babes guess wat, i had my mom sitting next to me in the noon so i connect on yur page and made her read yur post and the comments n she was so touched that she had tears in her eyes n she just hugged me, awwwwww i love my mom.....

BTW my mom really liked yur post too.

SwAtI said...

Awwwww!! An awesome post..... :)
Hope you had a great mother's day! M sure you made your mom realyyyyyy happy... :D

Mom is my greatest inspiration in life..I look upto her in all aspects of life..
The most important quality that I admire in her (n wish to imbibe) is - Strength & Endurance!!
For last 25 years, she has been through various physical ailments.. and had to be operated around 7-8 times..infact, she underwent a surgery last week itself!
She has experienced immensed physical n mental trauma.. But the manner in which she has handled herself is amazing n very touching.. I really respect her for everything she has done for me n my bro.. Despite the odd circumstances, she din't let the two of us feel a thing. She has always taught me to face any situation in life with a lot of courage n patience..I can probably jst go on n on..hehe!!I love her soooo much!! :)

Wishing your mom a Happy mother's day!!! (though m kinda late..sorry abt that)
Hugs!!

*~*Sameera*~* said...

Awww sweetie,your reply made me cry now!

Hope they both met up there :)

Love ya!Hugsss

Keshi said...

aww that was very sweet of ya Ghosty!

*HUGZ*

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Sambyyyyyy!

**u only said that mums not only the one that gives birth... u listen and u care for me..so happy mums day to ya


awwwwwwwwwwwww thats such a LOVING n WARM thing to say! Im chuffed mate. ty so much! For the first time in my life I really do feel like a MUM :)

*HUGZ*



dear Son dun take off ur short now. LOL! ;-)


U r so sweet Samby, d u know that!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

good on ya Deepz :)

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Anvita r ya serious??

**she was so touched that she had tears in her eyes n she just hugged me

Really? WOW Im stoked to bits :) THANKS girl and more HUGZ to ur lovely mum!

Im all smiles now hehe.

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Swatiiiii tnxx sweetie!

Yes I had a great time with mum yday..I gave her a stunning pair of blue-sapphire droplets, and many many things. LOL she scolded me for spending so much money. And then we took her out for lunch at her fav Cantonese restaurant. She has a good time :)



** Strength & Endurance

HUGZ to ur Ma from me! I believe she has taught u that cos I can see those qualities in u, ur work, ur personality and ur ways Swati. U portray all of that and Im so proud of both ur mum and u!


But Im also sorry to hear she had to go thru so much in life. Only good ppl go thru alot in life. I so know that. God bless ur Ma! Plz give her my love..sending her lotsa angel blessings!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

aww Sameera, I wish I was near ya..then we can hug each other and rem our parents.

*HUGZ* dun cry..Im here for ya ok. Anytime u need a friend, Keshi is here!


Keshi.

Mayur said...

Hi Keshi......................

Nirmal's Blog said...

oops bit late here......but saying anything bout mom..one is never late..

i learnt life from my mom.....

nice post keshi..

Anvita said...

yeah babes am serious yaar.

anyways hope u had a good day yesterday n are feeling better.

babes hus back to u too :)

Keshi said...

Hi Mayur :) hows u?

Keshi.

Keshi said...

thats a good one Nirmal!

Keshi.

Keshi said...

Im so happy to know that Anvita!

Greetings n HUGS to ur Ma! :)


And ty...Im much better today. U r so very caring! *MWAH*

Keshi.

Die Muräne said...

aww, I couldn't give a big motherday kiss to my mom because I was up in Germany again to play some handball. Well so I must try to be a good guy this week to make it back good :)

Keshi said...

u better Murane! :)

Keshi.

Satish Bolla said...

if there's a person who doesn't call his/her mom after reading this post(that too on the mothers day) is really an asshole. chho chwwetttttttt. luvd the kids part

Keshi said...

aww tnxx Satish!

so did u call ur Ma? :)

Keshi.