That sizzling last post is halted for a bit...cos I really have to get this out of my system. A female reader here stated the following about my blog today:
"of late keshi, the tone of your blog has started veering towards slutty. yeah, it was smart and sexy before... now i feel its beginning to get sleazy. i know you are a sensitive and intelligent girl (that comes out in your posts and views) and there is more to you than the cleavage shots that have become regular on your blog. My opinion is that there is a thin line between sexy and slutty & somewhere down the way, that line was crossed here... its all done in fun, but i don't enjoy it.... so, i don't comment... having said that, let me also tell you that you've surprised me. With the amount of visitors and comments you get, do you really care if a few ppl don't visit / don't comment? or what opinions they form about about your blog? I'd not care... honestly, and i thought neither would you..."
And my answer to that would be, which century do you live in girl? Boobs/Cleavage 
isn't 'slutty'...women who sell their bodies to men are called sluts...not articles about Boobs. And NO I don't think my blog is Slutty or Sleazy. If a cleavage shot or a post about Boobs is rated Slutty, then I wonder why God made us women with such body-parts! Are you ashamed of yourself? Besides, there are no totally naked/porn pics in my blog so I think I know how NOT to cross that thin line between Sexy and Slutty. If anyone has a problem with this blog, please stay out of it..you should not be even reading it! I'm quite transparent and if that's such an issue with your beliefs or in the country you live, then the problem is not really in me...it's in you. Open your eyes and wake up to the truth about being a woman...yes we have boobs and we should be proud of it! No one should be called 'slutty' for stating that. I can't believe that comment came from a woman herself. It's really appalling that some women think writing or talking about boobs is such a bad thing. Sluts live in brothels..not in this blog hunny! Get that right. Then again, let's just say my blog is Slutty...so what? If this isnt your cuppa, WHY ARE YOU HERE? People who don't like my so-called 'slutty' blog can get the hell outta here for good!
isn't 'slutty'...women who sell their bodies to men are called sluts...not articles about Boobs. And NO I don't think my blog is Slutty or Sleazy. If a cleavage shot or a post about Boobs is rated Slutty, then I wonder why God made us women with such body-parts! Are you ashamed of yourself? Besides, there are no totally naked/porn pics in my blog so I think I know how NOT to cross that thin line between Sexy and Slutty. If anyone has a problem with this blog, please stay out of it..you should not be even reading it! I'm quite transparent and if that's such an issue with your beliefs or in the country you live, then the problem is not really in me...it's in you. Open your eyes and wake up to the truth about being a woman...yes we have boobs and we should be proud of it! No one should be called 'slutty' for stating that. I can't believe that comment came from a woman herself. It's really appalling that some women think writing or talking about boobs is such a bad thing. Sluts live in brothels..not in this blog hunny! Get that right. Then again, let's just say my blog is Slutty...so what? If this isnt your cuppa, WHY ARE YOU HERE? People who don't like my so-called 'slutty' blog can get the hell outta here for good!And about me getting 100s of comments and do I care about my FRIENDS not visiting me anymore? YES I DO. If that's 
weird to you, then again, it's not my problem..it's your's. Alot of people like to pretend that they don't care if their friends don't visit their blogs..but in real they do care. Otherwise, why do we blog? They just like to act like they are totally cool and unaffected..that's all. I'm not talking about strangers..I'm talking about close friends here. And you're in no position to judge that freindship when you don't know what I'm talking about. So please stay away from making hollow remarks. The person who wrote that comment is not a close friend and that 'Bitch In Training' post wasn't for her either. Besides, no friend will rate my blog Slutty to begin with! Only an insensitive woman would say such a thing to another woman. Do people just come here for a good time at the expense of others? Sadly it seems to be that.
Go ahead rate my blog people...cos I'd like to hear what you have to say. Is it Horror, R, M, PG, Slutty, Sleazy, Whorish etc etc? I would love to know how you 'classify' my online home. I shared my heart with all of you here, and SLUTTY is the last thing I want VivaForever to be seen as. Don't drag me into your personality and how you grade others. And just cos you say I'm this and that, I don't become that either. So you're free to think anything about my blog, but please learn to talk with Respect next time (especially when I haven't judged your blog in any manner at all). The more I meet people like the commentor above, the more I lose total faith in Blogville.
I'm 100% woman, I have nice boobs and a nice ass, I love talking about them and I'm proud of them...ya got any problem with that? Then you should reverse real quick and go back to wherever you came from, hoping never to return!
(note: take part in my last post as usual...the game is still on).
Current Music: Say It Right by Nelly Furtado
weird to you, then again, it's not my problem..it's your's. Alot of people like to pretend that they don't care if their friends don't visit their blogs..but in real they do care. Otherwise, why do we blog? They just like to act like they are totally cool and unaffected..that's all. I'm not talking about strangers..I'm talking about close friends here. And you're in no position to judge that freindship when you don't know what I'm talking about. So please stay away from making hollow remarks. The person who wrote that comment is not a close friend and that 'Bitch In Training' post wasn't for her either. Besides, no friend will rate my blog Slutty to begin with! Only an insensitive woman would say such a thing to another woman. Do people just come here for a good time at the expense of others? Sadly it seems to be that.Go ahead rate my blog people...cos I'd like to hear what you have to say. Is it Horror, R, M, PG, Slutty, Sleazy, Whorish etc etc? I would love to know how you 'classify' my online home. I shared my heart with all of you here, and SLUTTY is the last thing I want VivaForever to be seen as. Don't drag me into your personality and how you grade others. And just cos you say I'm this and that, I don't become that either. So you're free to think anything about my blog, but please learn to talk with Respect next time (especially when I haven't judged your blog in any manner at all). The more I meet people like the commentor above, the more I lose total faith in Blogville.
I'm 100% woman, I have nice boobs and a nice ass, I love talking about them and I'm proud of them...ya got any problem with that? Then you should reverse real quick and go back to wherever you came from, hoping never to return!(note: take part in my last post as usual...the game is still on).
Current Music: Say It Right by Nelly Furtado
184 Cranium Signets:
Hmmm.. trouble in blogville.. never mind.. it shud pass off.. like any other thunderstorm that does nothing much than raise noise pollution and does nothin much of note.. so sexy babe.. just chill!
And yes, I rate this blog as Sexy.. beacuse someone has the guts to post snaps of her boobs(ok, cleavage) with her face attached to it. Not do it clandestinely like a slut. And also, she talks about it openly under her name, and not disguised as sweetgirl101 or sugarplum_64 or watever..
Plus I always believe that if one does not like someone's blog, then do not visit, u need not spread dung over it, especially when that blogger does not do the same to you and ur blog.
My rating would be R for realistic
I for informative
E for entertaining
F for from the heart
U for unrestricted
H for healthy
And B for, if you've got 'em, why not flaunt 'em
hmm... i know how it is fro frnds not commenting...a lot of people who were my original readers aren't there...and my real life friends..well they have never commented...the only reason i blog is because i can let my poetry flow without any worries about storing it...but of late i have started writting about other stuff too...hmm....as for rating for blog...i am not going to do that...you write what you feel you have to write...i don't comment on certain posts because i feel it will be out of place for me to comment when all you older people are talking...it is not that i cannot but it will be odd...and hell your blog isn't slutty...its your viva...
supporting u babez!!!!and whoever sed that blogs need to be branded as smthng!!as a human being we can go on to explore watevr we want!!gosh!!ppl shud get hold of a pallu and stay at home!!
Well ...
Dont know if it would be possible to rate your blog ...
Its like a Pandora's box for me,always suprising with something really out of the box.
At times with touch of over tones in regards to Sex/Sexuality (not always a welcome, u may have noted from the feedback) ... I m sure that there is a thought to writing about that.
This looks like you have been peeved a lot.The vibe of this post atleast suggest so.
Jus` move on Keshi..! Your blog is all about your personality, and I think this blog is chirpy, spunky and fun..!So don`t worry about such comments.. Remain Viva Forever..! :)
Have Fun, Take Care and God Bless!
With Best Regards,
Srijith.
sissy
if liking abt ur blog is the issue..u kno I hang around here always...
but if u still want to hear from my mouth..
Honest and sensual...
I don't feel there is anything wrong in talking sensual...
and the cleavage shot...ask those who don't have this god gift..how much they put up artificiality to flaunt that...I fink she is jealous of ur DD :P
khikhikhi
love ya sis..u kno..i care for u too much..so even if all readers go away..u will find me here always...
ps: dont use the term sex or sexy in the blog title...my proxy blocks it..even i cant search sextant :P
I agree totally wid Vrij's 2nd para..means i literally want to stole his words to say what i want
"Your true value depends entirely on what you are compared with."- bob wells
i wont rate your blog. there is no scale. there is no need to rate.
i like it i read it. period
Keshi, did you get my previous comment? I think there's something wrong with my browser. Pls let me know.
Nora
i think the problem is cleavage...the anticipation of seeing more is killed by the regret of getting only half. LOL!!
there's a freedom of speech in blogville! if someone doesnt like something they can move on! how hard is it to close the browser!
and beside Boobs & Bums are part of life!
cheers!
sigh...
i knew this was gonna hurt you.... and i thought a lot (my last comment was a few days before today) before saying it... but i felt it was getting too much... thats all.... was i wrong to tell you what i felt? did i do anything spiteful.... i left that comment knowing it would not be displayed openly, else would not probably have done it...
i haven't read your post.... but will read it in a while...
I really just come here to have a good time.. i mean..your respod to my comment...not with a acknowledgment only..but like you are talking... that feels good..more so from my new place whe i have no company...
i really do read the first para of every article... then the middle part of many articles not all...and the last part of all of them....and then.. i read a very few articles again and again... thats it..
more than your articles..i come here to talk to you to exchage a good word... look not stare at your pics... and have a nice time thats all...
if it was just for ur dd that ppl come to these blogs than judging bythe no of females that visit here..maybe all women on blogger are lesbos or the woman that made that comment is a ignorant person...ur call...
PS: i knoe from real life exp that cider aint lesbo..so that will make your choice easy
Heylo Keshi..
Been busy. Decided to pop in to catch on ya latest.
When i read this post. i guess what i can say is. To each his own. people have their own opinions. And they shouldn't really force their thoughts, opinions & expectations on other people. And if they really do find it a problem. Than hmm...the way out seems like a better option. :)
RATing YOUR BLOG as Keshi being Keshi nothing more, nothing less. Just Pure You. Keshi.
I guess thats what draw people to your blog. You being who you are and bold enough to be transparent to everyone.:)
Thats really something admirable Keshi.
*HUGZ*
T.C GURL!
Babes its your blog, take it an direction you like...and I for one am all for the cleavage posts especially when they are of your...ermm...assets ~wink~
You'll only get complaints from me Keshi if you stop posting pics. ;)
well i dont think its right to rate any1s blog...
some has got gud humour, while some has got poems.some right it as a personal diary , while some random thoughts.......
i spend most of my time in others blog..and i think my blog is best in my own ways....so all others blog according to me is above best...lol..
i njoy visiting many blogs...and urs is one of that....
and if anyone say i cum here to c cleavegs..thn its crap...coz if i get down my building i can c many numbers of cleaveges ther....lol...
one friendly advise: even i dont want u to put ur snaps in ur blog in this manner (not coz u r not beautiful)...lol...but i feel it can be misused in this medium....anyone can cut paste ur snaps....
***take this as a friendly advice...no offence*****..
hey hey hey ... u need an unwind ... everyones entitled to their views ... just relax and dont think too much over it and waste your energies .... just becoz someone says something it doesnt make you that ...
For me your space is Candid, Warm, Piquant, Vivacious, Unfeigned and the best thing abt Viva Forever is that each and every visitor is welcomed with open arms ...
You n VivaForever both rock !!! Remain the same way :)
Cheer up ...
u mite be sexy..n all of that:-p...but I like you for only one reason..your kick ass attitude:-)...way to go...and yes I rate this blog as sexy......intellectually sexy....m sure that l jolt half the pple(**WTF does that mean**)...:-)..let them keep thinking!
hi Keshi,
I love your blog.. everything in life has some de-motivating factor or the other.. think of this as urs...
Some ppl get a sadistic pleasure of telling u something that they know will deliberately hurt you.. don let them get to u..
As for the cleavage pics, bring them on.. u look good and so like i say, "have it flaunt it..."
Love,
Dee
I am not going to put a number to ur blog or for that matter define it ... I have never judged ur blog and I am not going to do it now .... one thing I know for sure is tht ur blog is not slutty .. I don't have an iota of doubt abt it ... and neither should u be bothered too much abt it ... tc
Alok
Hi Keshi!
Your blog was never sleazy.
I love to read your always profesional posts in many kind of issue.
You are great writer and fantastic, great friend.
Be always yourself.
Your blog was and is the Best!
One of the most difficult challenges in life is learning not to take things to heart and hold on to it. Especially when we’re younger, or if we’re very sensitive, we take so much of what comes our way to heart. This can be overwhelming and unproductive if it throws us off balance on a regular basis. When we are feeling criticized or attacked from all directions, it becomes very difficult for us to recover ourselves so that we can continue to speak and act our truth. This is when we would do well to remember the old saying about letting certain things roll off us, like water off a duck’s back.
Most of the time, the attacks and criticisms of others have much more to do with them and how they are feeling than with us.
If we get caught up in trying to adjust ourselves to other people’s negative energy, we lose touch with our core. In fact, in a positive light, these slings and arrows offer us the opportunity to strengthen our core sense of self, and to learn to dodge and deflect other people’s misdirected negativity. The more we do this, the more we are able to discern what belongs to us and what belongs to other people. With practice, we become masters of our energetic integrity, refusing to serve as targets for the disowned anger and frustration of the people around us.
Eventually, we will be able to hear the feedback that others have to offer, taking in anything that might actually be constructive, and releasing that which has nothing to do with us. First, though, we tend ourselves compassionately by recognizing when we can’t take something in from the outside without hurting ourselves. This is when we make like a duck, shaking it off and letting it roll off our back as we continue our way in the world.
This is a copy from my lovely book "...Inspirational Thoughts..."/Madison Taylor/.
wow...which retard had that to say?
i don't find anything wrong with your blog or the way you write. why else would i visit it every single day?
wow...which retard had that to say?
i don't think there's anything remotely wrong and/or insensitive about your blog. why else would i visit it every single day?
(i don't think my last one got sent. my connection is kinda screwed up. so if it did get sent, sorry!)
Hi,Keshi..whew-that's one angry post..but,deservedly so.I think the writer,whoever she is,is just another of those people who love to pass judgement on others without really thinking or being bothered about what they're saying.Perhaps it's their anger at someone or something else coming out in their comments?
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On the contrary,I think I need to say hats off to the effort you put in,to locate all these pictures on the net,most of them matching the thoughts which accompany the pics.(Err,I mean,the pics accompanying the thoughts..*grin*)
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My title for your blog?Joie De Vivre!
Keshi,
I no blogs shud be rated coz its your blog and you write what u want to. Why bother? Everyone has a personality and bring it down in words. If mushy mushy is over rated to someone who is sensitive, who cares. Thatz life and in real too.
U r fine:)
Hey sweetie calm down...these things shudnt matter to u and plz dont bother to care for such ppl! I m amazed as to hw cud such a comment come in for ur blog! Talkin abt rating ur blog i wudnt like to rate it honey. :) The reason being its beyond tht for sure....i dunno wht wud i do if there was day where i wudnt get to read ur blog! For starters this is wht i wud like to say for ur blog:
K - Karmic
E - Effervescent
S - Sublime
H - Heartfelt
I - Interesting
Now tht shud cheer u up!! :) And the no. of comments itself prove as to hw interesting ur blog posts are. So dont u worry and as u said let such ppl go wherever they want to and not come here.
Hmmmph
Opinions vs. Opinions.
This post I don't like. (Now that was an opinion, not meant to hurt you)
We don't blog because we want others to read and comment. We blog because it is a mode of self-expression, it assists us in being ourselves.
hi keshi.
not many wud like their blog to be rated, especially if sum ppl drop comments like tht. ur very bold yaar...
hmm...having been influenced to a gr8 extent by my kanjoos english teacher, i'd rate ur blog 9/10.
(my mum was once sitting here when i ws reading ur blog, and she thot i ws surfing one of those 'super adult' sites, nd i got one of her im-ur-mummy-i-kno-wat-happens-at-this-age lectures. lol...for tht scolding i cut 1 mk!)
i didnt comment too, thinking i mite jus sound kiddish talkin abt all tht 'mature' stuff.
but i LUVvvv ur blog!
*LOTSA HUGZ*
There is so many sultry in net, if u only need visit nor just do ur business. I felt those truly unknown u written that comment keshi, I am really been proud to be ur friend and sometimes I feel keshi post are hot but not to hate. Its ur place, u have all right to post anything and we are visitors if don’t like this destination we go ahead somewhere. Keshi’s blog is beautiful because she is...
Glitter! Some of us are born with it in our veins!! Your blog is REAL, 100%. I started coming her by reading your comments and I also seen you made your rounds to everyones blog!
I started coming here & you made me feel like I have always been here!!
I am a woman, I love being a woman, I LOVE MY BUM!!!! I may be a wee bit shy than you are, but that does not mean that I think you have a slut of a blog! I think You are HOT! Your Blog is HOT! AND as my quote said above, YOU were born with Glitter In Your Veins!!!
I Give Your BLOG A Reality Rating, you deal with real life stuff! ITS YOUR WORLD! I am glad to be part of it, who ever don't like it can KEEP IT MOVING------->
for me, vivaforever is the place i come to chill in the blogville. it has been in the same tone since my first visit 3 years ago. whenever i have the time and whenever i blog hop, this space has been and will be my first stop. i don't think anything gonna change it (although i admit i'm forced to skip some posts due to the little time i have right now)
and its absolutely nothing wrong in keshi being sexy in HER OWN BLOG!
**hugs dearie!
ammu.
Frankly i wont give a rating to ur blog coz we really dont blog to be rated...
but in my opinion, i find ur blog very real... very u... where u write what u feel and i dont think i find a problem with tat :)
Also ppl have their opinions and let them have theirs, we are happy with wat we r and wat we r doing... so let it be...
Now d reason i understood y u were so angry at me when i pulled ur leg in Solitiares blog :-/
Go ahead keshi... write wat u want to and i will still come and visit u till the time u will allow me :)
Cheers!!!
Also the fact i feel that rating would be disgracing u which i cant do dear friend...
*Hugz*
Cheers!!
What is it with all the whiny, bitchy people lately. I've seen so many people bitching and whining on their blogs and taking cheap shots at other bloggers and shit like that lately. Maybe everyone is just getting all pissy at once.
Anyway, I would classify this blog as Sexy, sweet and smart.
Hey Keshi,
First of all let me say I love your blog and the important word here is it's UR BLOG, so you can take it to any direction that so suits you. No one has the right to tell you how to write or what to post. Anyone who does not like what they see should stay away. As they say in my country "it's not by force". Keep blogging sexy and realistic...those who love it love it. anyone who doesn't should stay away.
Muuaaaah...kisses!
You Said
"I'm 100% woman, I have nice boobs and a nice ass, I love talking about them and I'm proud of them...ya got any problem with that?"
YES I do......I have yet to become aquainted with them and the rest of you!
Whatever you write bout, tis entirely your wish, your discretion! Noone else has the right to rate it or judge it. If they dont like it, you're right..they should'nt even be here in the first place!
I love reading you btw. :)
Why so much of buzz ! ?
Just chill out everybody. Its 'her' views, I don't mean to say that she is right or your reply was correct ?
Just move as things come across :)
Keshi - I have always found your blog to be fun, interesting, happy and beautiful. Unfortunately, some people feel free to leave negative judgement comments as well, which I consider to be unkind and hurtful. Let them fall away and brush them off. xo
I Love your blog :) Dont ever give up blogging :)
btw keshi are you ok??????? Your comments on your last post left e wondering?
rubs my eyes....can't deal with the hotness!!!!!
Girl, this blog is just what you said - TRANSPARENT.
We are what we wanna be, not what the world thinks we should be. If anyone has a problem with that, might as well stay outta our way.
You neednt had asked us to rate this babe just coz someone doesnt like your blog.
Anyway, you know I love ya, dontcha ?
*muaah*
To the person who made that comment :
Mate, we are all different persons, with different ideologies and approaches towards life. If you dont agree with this blog, just lay off, you dont hafta come here, do you ?
Or is it that you cant stop coming, are the so called 'sleazy-slutty' pix you cant take your eyes off (I'm saying this coz I cant, no one can, we're human!), but dont wanna get them by yourself for you consider that unethical ?!!
Ultra juvenille !
Blogs are for self-expressions, not for fake-impressions !
She doesnt make you read her you know. Just dont come. Simpler than reading her and getting pissed, dontcha think ?
The game’s afloat Watson.
Keshi, you are a brilliant writer. You obviously moved this reader in such a way that she had to comment. Even though she had a negative opinion concerning your post, you motivated this reader, and that’s the goal writers yearn to achieve.
As for the last post being in Slutsville, you haven’t come close to being given the key to the city.
Being slutty is not merely lifting your skirt and dancing through Slutsville, it’s spreading your legs and getting banged by every bloke in town. (Did you notice how fuckin' clean I wrote that last sentence?)LOL
As for this reader, she has the right to express her opinion; she DOES NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO CENSOR SOMEONE! No one is forcing her to read this blog. I can’t see her problem.
Keshi, you picked the right singer and song. Nelly is one of the best female singers in the business. She knows how to appeal to her audience. Yes, she uses sex to sell; yes, she looks provocative; yes she looks sexy, but she is not slutty.
Have a great weekend! I'm off for a few days again--been working long hours lately.
Bev
heyy! jus popped in and scrolled down to see how many posts i missed (Will read 2moz coz sleepy now) but WOW had to comment on the number of breast pics LOL!!!!
will come read (and stare) 2moz x
'...I'm 100% woman, I have nice boobs and a nice ass, I love talking about them ...'
I'm through talking; talk is cheap.
I want pictures...
Seriously people - lsy off - a lbog is one's own space and they have the right to create whatever tone they like in it. Keshi - your blog is not slutty (I don't actually even believe in the word slut - it's just a misogynist term given to curb women's behaviour to a level of 'normality' that can be controled by judging and shaming them. Tell me the last guy who did the same things as a 'slut' and got called that?? sorry off topic :P)
don't worry about them - as she has said she doens't comment and perhaps she won't come back or read those posts if they make her uncomfortable. that's her right. But you also have your own right to have freedom of expression.
Love your blog Keshi...from waaaaaaaaaay back :)
Your commenter sounds like a jealous, petty, prude
She should visit the blogs from views to the back row
that will open her eyes to smut
Heres a nice post for her
Hey lady
do you ever have a Happy Period?
TK Kerouac's HNT
Yo Sweet Sexy Keshi.....I agreed with what Krys wrote, it is them not you.
Rate your blog? 'Knock-Out & Orignal & SEXY' hehehe....I love it and I love the way you put your thoughts in your lovely VIVA FOREVER!!!
You ROCK!!!! :D
TY Vrij!
**u need not spread dung over it, especially when that blogger does not do the same to you and ur blog
yes..I dunno why ppl do this kinda thing. There's another lunatic called Jim/Saby who spreads rumors abt me all over the blog...and for what? I dun get ppl like that. If they dun like me, why come ard here? There r alot of other places they can hang out on the net!
Keshi.
aww Clyde that was really sweet n smart. TY!
**U for unrestricted
love that one.
yes..I love being free, open and honest. For whats there's to be ashamed of being human.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
ty Vish!
Abt ppl not commenting..I really dun care abt ppl who come n go. Im talking abt my good friends who r everywhere else but not here anymore. Why cant ppl u'stand that.
Keshi.
ty Darkling!
**ppl shud get hold of a pallu and stay at home!!
LOL yes.
I mean Im not in Blogville for some 'om shanti shanti shanti' chantings. *rolling eyes*
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
ty Tarun!
**At times with touch of over tones in regards to Sex/Sexuality (not always a welcome, u may have noted from the feedback) ...
I really dun care if some ppl FEAR sex/sexuality. Its their misfortune Tarun, not mine.
yes I was pretty disgusted at how some ppl grade the TRUTH.
Keshi.
ty Srijith that means alot to me HUGZ!
Keshi.
ty Bro I know u really do care. Ur not here just to make judgements liek some ppl r.
**my proxy blocks it..even i cant search sextant
hahahaha! poor ya.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
ty Stygian!
**"Your true value depends entirely on what you are compared with."- bob wells
I dun like COMPARING anyways :)
we r all individuals and I'd like me to be me.
Keshi.
Nora HUGZ!
Nah I didnt get it. Its ok hun.
Keshi.
haha Deepz true!
**how hard is it to close the browser!
Exactly my point! Worse, they hv the nerve to come n say nasty things abt the very place they dun wanna comment on. Strange.
Keshi.
Anks..
I had/have nothing against u or ur blog. Neither did I come ard and tell u what to write and what not to write. I didnt make a judgement of ur blog either. I wasnr a regular reader of ur blog and neither were u of mine.
So to receive a 'slutty' judgement abt my precious THOUGHTS, from someone who hardly comments in my blog, was a shock to my system. My blog is quite sacred to me. I dunno how u see ur blog and other blogs, but to me, MY BLOG IS MY HOME. This is where I write my deepest and most precious thoughts. I treat it like a TEMPLE. Cos my heart is my temple.
And then u out of nowhere comes here and tells me Im 'sleazy', 'slutty', I've crossed the line, this and that. How d u think I should receive that? U say u didnt say anything spiteful? Well ur not at the receiving end r ya...so u hv no clue how I'd feel.
****was i wrong to tell you what i felt? did i do anything spiteful
Now I know u hv every right to give ur opinion and I respect that. I hv no problems with that either. But the TONE and the WORDS u used to describe my blog told me a different story. Yes u were being SPITEFUL, whether u like to admit that or not. Or else u wud not hv used such terms on a person who hasnt done any harm to u.
**i left that comment knowing it would not be displayed openly, else would not probably have done it...
U didnt tell me not to publish that comment? So what r u talking abt here?
My conclusion wud be that my blog is not for IMMATURE minds. So mebbe this place is not for u. And just cos it isnt the place for u, that doesnt mean this place is SLUTTY.
TY!
Keshi.
hey Keshi, i know how u feel on seeing somethin what this girl wrote for ur blog...nobody more than me can understand better how disgusting it is to find being written about ur blog n u in a way which is not true........
ah crap!!!!1 just chuck her, throw her like a fly out of beer :))
and this kinda pissants in bloggerville are shitcrains!!!!!!
aww Samby ty n HUGZ!
**if it was just for ur dd that ppl come to these blogs than judging bythe no of females that visit here..maybe all women on blogger are lesbos or the woman that made that comment is a ignorant person...ur call...
LOL ur funny. Cinderz isnt les, awww how sad. haha! ;-)
U truly KNOW what Im talking abt...and thats a relief to me.
Now why did ya get rid of ur Enduring Spirit? Im angry with ya now :(
I emailed ya...plz check.
Keshi.
Hi Keshi,
Don't get mad. I know its easier said than done. You and I both know that when there are many people involved, each person will have their own unique thoughts and contributions and sometimes too many cooks spoil the broth! Sometimes, one rotten apple spoils the entire basket!
We both have been victims of people's wraths, jealousy, immaturity, grudges, and what-not. Mostly all without logic or reason.
Blogging is all about freedom of speech, isn't it? Some people will like your speech and some won't. We cannot stop people from reading our blogs whether or not they like them. Likewise, the readers also will have a freedom in judging what they think of our blogs and we have no control over that either.
We all have different values and come from different societies. For some even wearing a skirt may be slutty while for others blogging about sex and one's bedroom stories might be completely fine! If you think, putting up a picture of your cleavage is fine, then it's fine! You know what I mean? Its your blog and you do what you want with it. They are the readers and they think whatever they want to!
If they don't want to stay away, so be it! You need not ask people to rate your blog. Those who love reading you will come back over and over, no matter what!
Cheer up!!
Amy MWAH I missed ya!
And TY so much for that. It means alot to me.
Over my 3.5yrs in Blogville, I hv written so many posts, on so many topics. Touched on alot of issues. But some ppl seem to focus only one some topics and judge me based only on that. HOW SAD HA.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
Indiana ty :)
yes its MY blog..those who dun like it can go get stuffed.
Keshi.
haha Boy duncha worry abt that now.
;-)
The surf's up dude..wanna catch it?
Keshi.
those who dont like ur blog shud stay outta it, but wen they drop in thru some stupid anony proxies to hide them from being caught, u feel like giving a spank on their asss :)
ty Nirmal!
yes...everyone is different. Its so narrow-minded to judge one another based on their thoughts.
**...but i feel it can be misused in this medium....anyone can cut paste ur snaps....
I know wut u mean. But I know how to sue em and cop alot of money on that one. LOL!
tnxx n HUGZ!
Keshi.
aww ty Hiren!
I know everyone is entitled to their opinion, but they better control their tongues and use the right words.
**Candid, Warm, Piquant, Vivacious, Unfeigned and the best thing abt Viva Forever is that each and every visitor is welcomed with open arms ...
too cute! :)
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
Sid hey tnxx mate! :)
**your kick ass attitude
aww that reminded me of Janice. She used to say that to me all the time. *tearz*
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
Dee tnxx alot!
**Some ppl get a sadistic pleasure of telling u something that they know will deliberately hurt you.. don let them get to u..
I know. I never do that kinda thing to others..so why do they do this to me??
Keshi.
ty so much Alok!
Keshi.
Krys that means ALOT to me. ty n HUGZ!
Keshi.
Loved it Krys, TY!
**Most of the time, the attacks and criticisms of others have much more to do with them and how they are feeling than with us.
so true!
Keshi.
aww tnxx G-man!
Just that some readers here suddenly surprise me!
:)
Keshi.
ty AmitL!
yeah some ppl know only how to JUDGE.
**Joie De Vivre!
hehe wut does that mean? aww ty anyways n HUGZ!
Keshi.
ty Priya!
yes we r all different. If we dun like a certain blog, we should just leave..not secretly read it and squirm with judgement n jealousy.
Keshi.
ty Ria that means alot to me. I got all teary reading all ur comments here.
**K - Karmic
E - Effervescent
S - Sublime
H - Heartfelt
I - Interesting
So beautiful! *HUGZ* I love ya too!
Keshi.
ty Alok!
**We don't blog because we want others to read and comment. We blog because it is a mode of self-expression, it assists us in being ourselves.
Mebbe thats what blogging is for u Alok. But I do blog for myself AND for ppl to read and comment. Or else, I'd hv Comments disabled. Isnt it? :)
Keshi.
ty Jan!
LOL @ur mum!
**i didnt comment too, thinking i mite jus sound kiddish talkin abt all tht 'mature' stuff.
atleast u admit that ur still too young to comment on some posts here. And the fact that u didnt term my blog SLUTTY just cos ur too young to read em, means alot to me. ty n HUGZ!
Keshi.
ty Jeevan and so is ur's.
I treat ppl's blogs with respect. Cos to me my blog is my temple. Its totally ME...my heart n soul.
*HUGZ* n ty!
Keshi.
ty Cinderz that means alot to me. MWAH!
** YOU were born with Glitter In Your Veins!!!
haha I love that line!
yes, ppl who dun like it can just leave w.o. moaning in judgement.
Keshi.
Ammu I LOVE YA HUN and I know u know that. ;-) MWAHHHHHHHHZ!
Keshi.
aww Ankur may I say Im really SORRY abt my bahvior yday? HUGZ! I was a total BITCH yday cos I was in a very bad mood.
**Now d reason i understood y u were so angry at me when i pulled ur leg in Solitiares blog
plz dun hurt me anymore by reminding me that. I love ya, and u know that.
Now go read my PULLING ans in Sol's blog. LOL!
*MWAH* I care abt ya man...ur real.
Keshi.
ty Jay!
**Maybe everyone is just getting all pissy at once.
yeah this week seem to be the WHINEY week in Blogville. LOL!
*HUGZ* I luv ya too!
Keshi.
hey sexy Tairebabs ty n MWAHHHHHHZ!
Keshi.
heyy Steve!
**YES I do......I have yet to become aquainted with them and the rest of you!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! u bad boi. ;-)
Keshi.
ty BW MWAH!
Keshi.
ty JM!
** Its 'her' views, I don't mean to say that she is right or your reply was correct ?
I dun care if she or anyone else here thinks she's right/wrong or that my reply was right/wrong.
This is how I FEEL. And thats all that matters to me.
Keshi.
ty Terry I know u really CARE. And that ur not just here for FUN only.
** Unfortunately, some people feel free to leave negative judgement comments as well, which I consider to be unkind and hurtful. Let them fall away and brush them off.
true..very true!
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
ty Kaylz!
Im ok now. :) And u luv?
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
hey Dal!
**rubs my eyes....can't deal with the hotness!!!!!
haha good one! Some ppl here cant handle the HEAT ha ;-) Only HOT babez like u can.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
This is why I LOVE CINDY!
U nailed it hun. U said everything I wanted to say in few lines..whereas I wrote a whole blog post LOL!
**Or is it that you cant stop coming, are the so called 'sleazy-slutty' pix you cant take your eyes off (I'm saying this coz I cant, no one can, we're human!), but dont wanna get them by yourself for you consider that unethical ?!!
I think thats what it is!
**Ultra juvenille !
Im gonna copy this term from ya cos I LOVE IT. :):)
**Blogs are for self-expressions, not for fake-impressions !
SPOT ON!
Luv ya comment hun! 100% pure gold!
*MWAH*
Keshi.
Bev I luv ya...dun gooooooo :( u holiday biyatch. LOL!
**Even though she had a negative opinion concerning your post, you motivated this reader, and that’s the goal writers yearn to achieve.
Sounds like I hit it then. LOL tnxx hun!
**As for the last post being in Slutsville, you haven’t come close to being given the key to the city.
aww hvnt I :( I better slutten-up my blog then ha. ;-)
**Being slutty is not merely lifting your skirt and dancing through Slutsville, it’s spreading your legs and getting banged by every bloke in town. (Did you notice how fuckin' clean I wrote that last sentence?)LOL
HAHAHAHAHAHA I LOVED IT! U said it in real style hun! This is why I LOVE YA.
**As for this reader, she has the right to express her opinion; she DOES NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO CENSOR SOMEONE!
Spot on! I dun mind her opinion but to label me like that? There's better vocabulary for that I guess.
**Nelly is one of the best female singers in the business. She knows how to appeal to her audience. Yes, she uses sex to sell; yes, she looks provocative; yes she looks sexy, but she is not slutty.
Soooo true! I simply dig Nelly's style. She's classy, hot and HAPPENING.
*MWAH* hv a good one hun! AND TY!
Keshi.
heyya Niyara!
**WOW had to comment on the number of breast pics
lol cos the post is abt breast revolutions!
Sleep tight hun!
Keshi.
Fingers hey!
**I'm through talking; talk is cheap. I want pictures...
so u want to walk the talk? come to my place then. U live in Syd duncha? LOL!
Keshi.
ty Silvara MWAH!
**I don't actually even believe in the word slut - it's just a misogynist term given to curb women's behaviour to a level of 'normality' that can be controled by judging and shaming them. Tell me the last guy who did the same things as a 'slut' and got called that?? sorry off topic
I so agree! why only women r called SLUTS? Worse, that judgemental comment came from a female commentor. How sad ha. Women r women's greatest enemy.
*HUGZ* n tnxx hun!
Keshi.
TK tnxx hun!
yeah talk abt being prude!
This blog is not for ppl like her. Mebbe she shud realise that than make hollow judgements.
**Hey lady
do you ever have a Happy Period?
LOL good qn hun. Happy? well mebbe not happy..but a sensual one, yes! I get super horny during that time. :) Ur the bravest n hottest babe in Blogville HUGZ!
Keshi.
ty Shionge that means alot to me ya know. HUGZ!
**'Knock-Out & Orignal & SEXY'
WOW I love how u weave words..ur so good at that. :)
*MWAH* luv ya too!
Keshi.
ty Ashu!
**nobody more than me can understand better how disgusting it is to find being written about ur blog n u in a way which is not true........
u seem to know exactly wut Im talking abt. Alot of ppl fail to ustand my feelings in this post cos they hvnt been at the receiving end of such remarks. But Im glad u u'stand me. That means alot to me. ty n HUGZ!
Keshi.
Sol ty!
And I know everything u said Sol. Its all true. Not that I wasnt aware of any of that.
but if u were at the receiving end of being called 'slutty' and 'sleazy', I wonder how u'd react to this.
Its so much more easier to reason when ur not the subject of such harsh judgement.
Keshi.
Sol rem when u were in a similar siuation recently, how upset u were. Well Im in that situation right now.
Keshi.
Yeah I completely agree with that. Its harder to be at the receiving end and so easy for onlookers to ask you to give it up or move on. Sorry if you got that impression. All that I am saying is that people love to talk! Can't stop them. As you can see from the overwhelming number of comments and compliments that people disagree with that babe. Majority wins!!!
:)
Now don't "pull" that chin down..push it up!
Sol tnxx!
yeah I agree. Majority r favorable comments so yeah Im happy. :)
I wanna push and pull..can ya find someone for me Sol? LOL!
Keshi.
Yeah it hurts real bad!
I have had "hate" comments posted on so many blogs, have mean things said about me and my family, my sanity was question, and so were my professional abilities.
But one thing I realized out of all that is, based on my friends' support and other neutral people's statements that it was not about ME but that those people were the one with issues. And that brought me a lot of peace.
OMG Sol tell me abt it, I'm the subject of hatred every single day in Blogville. d ya know that Saby/Jim guy cloned me too and left spiteful comments under my Id? He even created an entire blog to defame me...leaves annoy comments everywhere abt KESHI, K..always referring to me with so much hate.
Like u said, its really an issue that THEY need to tackle..cos it's really an illness that need to be treated.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
Hey.. I enjoy your reading your posts, else I would not have kept reading your blog for such a long time (how long has it been, year or may be year and a half???). To be honest, I cannot give a rating to your blog. All I can say is just keep writing the way you write and dont worry about what others have to say. I believe not everyone in Blogville is a friend.. so take it easy and enjoy the weekend. :)
Ah! It looks like you didn't get my comment.
Keshi, I want you to know that I'll support you every step of the way. Your blog is NOT slutty - it's honest and real and inspiring and a place where you showcase your beautiful soul.
I think women [both in blogland and in general] should concentrate on supporting and encouraging one another. Unfortunately, not everyone sees it that way. x
Nora
ty Akshay for being so honest.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
tnxx Nora ur a swt-hrt...and a genuine friend.
yes..women should support each other than abusing each other. Sometimes I feel Women r the greatest enemy of Women.
Worse, just now I realised that she has deleted my comments in her blog where I asked her why she called my blog Slutty. bet she doesnt like her own Vocabulary in her blog! Class act. :)
*HUGZ* n ty!
Keshi.
ha ha u know to make money fromit???lol...
then i have got no doubt u will be a million dollar baby...lol
haha... i was scared when keshi was on fire... i went under my cubicle and tuk a small peek at my screen and read this post with fear.. anger raging.. i feel sorry for the commenter..
mmm as far as rating goes, i would rate this blog as a CG (child guidance required)... parents are not allowed to access this blog without their children's permission..
keep rocking kesh.. no more anger.. venting doesnt luk on keshi.. coooolio.. cheers
Hey u..:P
Peek a boo!
heh heh heh..
Ya know i am totally with Solitaire's comment..she said it well..:D
;)
Hi Keshiroo
I haven't been out trolling the blogosphere much lately because it is Spring and there still arent any Mosquitos so I am outside enjoying every second.
I've never thought that you were trashy..if you were you would be on YouPorn like me.
immature? ya well, someone who gets on a popularity vote gathering mission like this is not exactly mature...
i'd respected you for being your own person... and IN MY OPINION you crossed the line. I gave it to you not to rake up a controversy... I haven't been on a propaganda against you or anybody here in blogsville, if i wanted to do that, there are other ways...
as for comment moderation, the point of it is you choose not to display it... if you were really a mature person, you wouldn't have brought it out in the open... well, you did that and much more... this post of yours, if it was meant to hurt me, didn't.... i feel sorry for you lady, if some random person over the net can do this to you...
i deleted your comments because they were irrelevant there... you wanna red deeper into it, go right ahead... i don't put a cap on other's opinions...
i throw them ou of the window and move on...
(i put this comment as a medium of communicating to you, to put it out in the open is you choice)
Anks u started this, so dun rub ur immaturity on my face now.
**... if you were really a mature person, you wouldn't have brought it out in the open..
U believed what u said abt my blog, didnt u? So wuts the problem it being in the open?
Maturity comes with being able to face upto ur words. If u said it, why regret it now? I can talk abt anything in the OPEN..can u? Seems like u cant. So dun call me immature. Look at ur own self.
U deleted my comments in ur blog cos u cudnt stand to see ur own VOCABULARY there. Class act! Dun use words on other ppl that u dun want to be used on u.
The least u cud do was say sorry...rather than come here to defend ur SORRY Act.
I hv nothing else to say to ya.
Keshi.
And after ur RATING of my blog, I did wanna know the honest opinion of other ppl here too. And yes, I had to use ur JUDGEMENTAL comment for this post. And I dun regret that.
And Im really glad to know that the MAJORITY did say they like my blog. Is that a problem to ya?
Plz Anks, dun make it any more damaging to urself than this!
I wish not to talk to ya or visit ur blog ever again. tnxx!
Keshi.
And tnxx Donn, Amy, Chriz and Nirmal MWAH!
Keshi.
I cant find my comment here...or may be its still pending with you..doesnt matter!!!...what I do want to say is..this blog is important for me...for us-readers.....its important for you(just by default since its important for us and we are important to you!)....I know its kind of crazy when pple leave comments-comments which can hurt-comments which mis interpret the whole damn thing...but i mean WTH!!!...let them be...you be what you are...n let this blog be sexy..sleazy..(whatever they feel about it...)..I dont feel its so..you dont feel its so...n let them just take a hike up the mountain!
**i throw them ou of the window and move on...
well Im not u Anks! So stop JUDGING others by YOUR beliefs and lifestyle.
And what RESPECT did u say u HAD for me? Didnt ya call my blog SLEAZY/SLUTTY? I dun believe Sleazy is respecatble?
Seriously, u should swallow ur own words for ur own good.
Keshi.
My Rating...
this blog rox! :)
Sid ur original comment is up there. Hv a look :)
AND TY HUGZ!
Some ppl find it hard to take back their ill-informed opinions..so they keep on hurting ppl. Sad world ha.
Keshi.
ty Iceman n u rock too! HUGZ!
Keshi.
hey keshigirl...
no need to say Sorry!!! i perfectly understand what u must be going through... :)
just keep in mind tat let nobody capture ur mind, when u react to their actions, u just make them sit there and let u angry on things... dont give dem u coz they dont deserve that :)
thnxxx for sayin i m real :)
Cheers!!!
you know i understand your feelings, i mean it really does not feel nice to receive this kind of comments. but then thats the personal perception of the other person and i believe he/she didnt mean to hurt you in any way, though i guess if they have problem with your blog, it is a free world, you dont make anyone read it, right? :)
Those who like it they stay, rest just take it easy, girl! Everyone is different and sees things in a different way.
c'mon babes...isnt this space yur space....dont u have the rights to express yurself infact if ppl have issues with it they rather stay out of it......so u have all my support oke gal
n with regards to rating yur blog...babes again i'd say its yur space man n we r nobody to rate it....i just enjoy reading every single piece u write just taht sometimes i havent been able to make comments but am sure everybody enjoys reading yur blog so keep it cuming.
btw i just absolutely love the pics u select in every single post of yurs eh.....i quite like yur style...rock on babes!!!
When I read this post, keshigirl, I got a little jolt. How is it possible that our separate universes overlap SO much.
I don't know if you know that identify of this girl who commented, but lately I've been getting a lot of crude anonymous comments. Normally I shrug them off. But yesterday morning's was SICK. And I actually felt hurt! Which is RIDICULOUS! I wanted to kick myself for that.
I was so bugged and wrote a blog post at once. Was intending to publish that today before I leave for my road trip.
Sick people Keshi!
Everything depends on how YOU choose to perceive an image or a word, innit? I can choose to look at the statue of a naked David and go "Wow, how beautiful! What craftsmanship" OR I can be a prev and say "Ooh! Look mamma! He's naked!". Sheesh!
Don't like it? Don't visit.
Simple as that. No one is making you visit here.
Suggest you visit google and type in 'nanna blogs' and see how you go with that.
Keshi is allowed to smear herself in vegemite and take pictures of herself if she wishes. She isn't hurting anyone. She's a grown woman and that's her choice.
Seriously. Not being mean to you, but leave.
oh man too much been happenin here!
Well I LOVE your blog i love it how transparent you are INSPITE of being a girl..sadly ya i have to insert the inspite bit coz u know had this blog been a guy's i dont think it wuda in any way hurt anyone's feelings..
As for the comment that hurt you..in a way u r right wen u say ppl shud keep out if they get bothered by ur stuff but if we look it from a broader perspective u know this is a medium used for expression. You will always have critics..for some writing explicitly about sex is outrageous coz their sensibilities arent tuned to such stuff being discussed in public; for some it wont be as big a deal. As for me I find your posts really funny and I am ALWAYS lookin fwd to read ur posts. So no big deal ya to each his own dont get so bothered by one single comment. Oh and u know am sure u got more female readers wich says it all :)
Hey i somehow agree wit wot nirmal said abt the medium being unsafe n stuff so ya be careful :) but do not stop publishin ur oh-so-sexy pictures like other wusses (me included :D)
oh keshi:( bad mood agn! Now I'm gonna say some facts , pls don't get me wrong here. okay ?promise!
Firstly I'm sorry someone wrote that to u.It did sound mean. No doubt. The person could have been more tactful n dilomatic.
But just to give u another viewpoint - That was a response to ur post on Why some friends don't drop into ur space to say hi.. Rite?U were upset abt friends not caring to say hello and so sum1 who was a friend before told u , why they are visiting u less often these days.
She answered 'coz u asked. so why get so upset?No doubt it hurts. It most definetly does. n the HUGE crowd who like reading u, shall def help u get past this comment n other readers who hurt u.
No one wants their writing to be judged like that. But thats the thing about blogsphere.Its a free world. No one is accountable to any1. U write wat u feel like writing, n ppl will read what they feel like reading n will express as they want. No one can control anything.
U just take care n get past this keshi gurl Don't let it upset u.
Wish u a great weekend!
Hey Keshi,
What I meant to say is, would you stop being the way you are on Blogville (the way you write or comment) if you didn't receive responses?
Remember the "fight" we had on Solitaire's blog? I didn't mean to hurt you, but as is the case here, you took it personally. Don't look for validation of your self in others.
Why be hurt so much if someone doesn't like you the way you are and makes some judgment? It's their judgment, don't take offense.
I know that it hurts a lot, and advising is easy if you're not on the receiving end. But I like the carefree, unique, enchanting, Original Keshi who writes in that sweet tone as well as in that involving manner and signs off comments with a "Keshi."
Hahahahahahaha what a boring, snarky thing to think, let alone say, let alone WRITE!!! You are, no, we are, who we are, & if someone doesn't like the sexay tone you've taken, then they should just say "Hmmm, my granny panties get a little bunchy when I read you, sister, I'm going to lay low, but I loves you still!!" hahahaha, sorry Keshi, nothing is sacred around me, I guess. Keep on showing your spirit, there's enough around that want to hear you growl, sister! : )
Oh...we're supposed to rate you, ummm, I'd rate you with the 25-35 year old women who have learned enough about life to talk about men and their vibrators with a wry smile, but deep down still want a manly man to sweep them off their feet and show them a good time. Is that how this game goes?
i love it wen u talk like that :D
the young and angry keshi.. :D
and rate ur blog...lol..would ve to invent a new rating system :D
Viva Forever.
well dear... u got a long way to go... we r in this togetehr..and we will be... leave it... she might have really wanted to be honest kinda...but well..what came out was ... a little rash.. people do that!!
and girl u knw what... i really like yur blog..and mostly the yu that i read here... so well there u go ... i giv yu my verdict...10 on 10 :))
happy girl?
smile now!!
dun take things to heart..
VIVA FOREVER
I found today (my friend Bindi)this quote:
You are not responsible for what people think about you.
But you are responsible for what you give them to think about you.
STANLEY FERRARD.
haha how funny is that comment from that person - 'there is more to you than the cleavage shots that have become regular on your blog'
i disagree -
i think there is nothing more to keshi the person or blogger than her amazing breasts. u should be ashamed. u shud strap them down and cover them up and deprive the world. you shouldnt use the word sex and stop being a slut in YOUR blog.
*bursts out laughing*
AS IF!!!!!!!!!!!!
we all love you for your wicked insightful, fun, random posts and if we are extra lucky amazing pics of ya amazing self!
woooo long live the clevage posts. Snap at them while they photogenic!
ty ankur. I always knew that u truly cared...and ur not here just for fun..like some ppl r. HUGZ!
**i perfectly understand what u must be going through
and ty for that too! Some ppl here told me not to get hurt by that comment. I wonder how they'd react if someone said that to them. It's always easier to advise, isnt it. :) But Im glad u knew how I was feeling. She HURT me with those crude words abt my blog - I value my blog cos this is my heart n soul. Thats what she forgot to realise.
ty so much Ankur..I hv more respect for ya now. Cos u didnt tell me to forget abt it as if it didnt matter. Cos it mattered, even tho it was just one person's opinion abt my blog. I had tell her how I felt too.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
ty Lena!
**but then thats the personal perception of the other person and i believe he/she didnt mean to hurt you in any way,
she didnt mean to hurt me? then she cud hv used some decent terms instead of SLUTTY n SLEAZY. Surely Lena!
I'd really think twice before I say something abt someone else's blog. And for someone to openly use such words to describe another person's blog while being friends is not acceptable to me.
U know, I dun like stereoptyping, judging ppl by someone's beliefs and name-calling.
If someone ruffles my feathers, they're gonna hear it from me. Too bad.
The strange thing is, some ppl dun seem to realise the HURT that she caused me to begin with. and they r feeling sorry for her? go figure :)
tnxx n HUGZ!
Keshi.
ty Anvita MWAH!
aww I know ppl cant comment in every post..neither can I in others' blogs. And thats not what I meant by wanting comments :). I was talking abt some good old mates who r elsewhere but not here. And that upset me.
Alot of ppl seem to fail to u'stand that. It doesnt matter anyways.
I know u care hun...I do. And I luv ya too HUGZ! :)
Keshi.
ty Maca!
**Everything depends on how YOU choose to perceive an image or a word, innit
Well-said girl!
And that doesnt give us the right to defame the other person's beliefs. And thats what I was HURT abt. She called my blog Slutty/Sleazy. Mebbe she should hv just stated that this blog is way over her CAPACITY. That wud hv made sense.
Anony commentors...oyeah I get alot of em. Especially from a jobless psychopath called Jim/Saby etc etc. I dun read any of his pathetic comments...as soon as I see his name, I hit REJECT. Fucker needs to get a job than hang out in blogs that dun care a rat's arse abt wut he has to say. LOL!
u do the same hun. hit REJECT.
when r ya comin bak from ur o-so-sounds-exciting road trip? :)
*HUGZ* TC now!
Keshi.
ty Ms.Smack!
**Suggest you visit google and type in 'nanna blogs' and see how you go with that.
hahaha I like that Nanna blogs! wut do they write abt....granny undies and lavendar suits? LOL!
**Keshi is allowed to smear herself in vegemite and take pictures of herself if she wishes.
whoaa u gave me a raunchy idea hun. Ur a hot Aussie, no wonder!
;-) I'll do one just for ya..one of these days. :):)
**She isn't hurting anyone. She's a grown woman and that's her choice.
Amen!
ppl need to stop being so serious and LIVE LIFE. These boobs, ass or anything else is not FOREVER. So enjoy em, laugh at em, talk abt em, WHILE U CAN. Cos soon, ur number mebbe be called out.
tnxx alot hun HUGZ!
keshi.
ty Elusive that means alot to me.
She even labelled me as 'someone who gathers a popularity vote misson'...I know what she's on abt now. Just jealous I guess. :)
**So no big deal ya to each his own dont get so bothered by one single comment
it maybe just one comment, but I take all comments abt me and my blog seriously. This is my online home. Anyone who makes an opinion abt me or my blog, will get a REPLY from me. Whether they like it or not :) and be replying to them, Im not getting affected by them. Im just REPLYING to what they had to say.
*HUGZ* I luv ur smashing blog too hun! Keep em coming.
Keshi.
tnxx Pavi!
**.It did sound mean. No doubt. The person could have been more tactful n dilomatic.
Amen! Someone realised that it must hv HURT me. ty Pavi.
**- That was a response to ur post on Why some friends don't drop into ur space to say hi.. Rite?U were upset abt friends not caring to say hello and so sum1 who was a friend before told u , why they are visiting u less often these days.
nooooooooooooo! She's not a close friend. As she says, she comes here very rarely and wasnt a regular commentor either. I hardly go to her blog. And that post wasnt for readers like her. Cmon Pavi, u know Im not that shallow? That post was for some VERY GOOD friends..they hvnt even commented in that post! These friends r elsehwere in blogville except mine. I didnt do anything to them...so I wonder why they dun stop to say HI. thats all I was talking abt and everyone jumped out branding my blog this and that! So I say, if the hat fits, wear it.
**She answered 'coz u asked. so why get so upset?No doubt it hurts.
Pavi ur asking me why I got UPSET? Is that something u can ask someone and get a clear ans for, unless ur in their shoes? How wud u feel to be at the receiving end of being called Slutty/Sleazy? My blog is my home. This is where my heart n soul lives. I dun like anybody coming here n calling it Slutty. And yes that UPSETS me.
**It most definetly does. n the HUGE crowd who like reading u, shall def help u get past this comment n other readers who hurt u.
Its not abt the HUGE crowd. ITS ABT ME...MY FEELINGS. And even if one person HURT my feelings, I wud let them know how I FELT. And I write whatever I feel here in my blog. I dun cater for 100s of ppl. This blog is an avenue to voice my feelings. So if Im upset, I will write abt it. Im not gonna hide it just to cater HAPPY posts for an audience Pavi. This place is ME...this is ME.
**But thats the thing about blogsphere.Its a free world. No one is accountable to any1.
I know its a FREE world. She should hv known that too before calling me a slut. And I AM accountable to myself..so I will vent out how I feel.
**U write wat u feel like writing, n ppl will read what they feel like reading n will express as they want. No one can control anything.
Pavi u seem to hv gotten me wrong. Im not here to beg for comments..is thats what u tjink I am. I hv told again n again that post wasnt abt collecting comments...it was abt few CLOSE FRIENDS. And I dun u'stand why everyone else is screaming at me as if I wrote it for them. STOP n try to understand who Im talking abt. If anyone cant realise wut Im talking abt, it's best not to judge me.
tnxx Pavi! Im so sick of explaining who that post was for!
keshi.
I normally delete indiscriminately.. but you know how it is. Had a dog of a week and this was the last straw. So vented big time :D
I'm leaving only tomorrow. Will be back by Tuesday I suppose. How's your tiem with your pals? have a blast babe and eff those twits Keshigirl.
hey Alok!
**What I meant to say is, would you stop being the way you are on Blogville (the way you write or comment) if you didn't receive responses?
o gawd not again! Not another one who got me wrong?? :) I just explained it to Pavi, just above this comment. Plz read that comment.
Alok yes ur right...Im not here to RECEIVE comments in the sense of a GREED or ATTENTION. These r my conversations with the walls. I started this blog for that purpose. As I was talking with the walls, I slowly started hearing human voices too...behind the walls. I liked it. So I accommodated them here. I liked them giving me their opinions (good/bad) abt my feelings (posts). Cos I value ppl and their thoughts, just like I value mine.
Now coming to that BITCH IN TRAINING post...it wasnt abt WANTING comments badly. It was abt few CLOSE FRIENDS...not u, not anyone else who's here right now. Those friends are everywhere else but not in my blog. So I was UPSET. Im human...I do hv feelings...I do get sad..happy...angry...upset. And thats why I wrote that post.
Now some ppl took it as if it was for them and jumped up and down. Is that my fault?
Now wud I stop writing if NO ONE commeneted here? NO..I wudnt stop writing. Cos my blog is my heart and soul...it aint gonna stop til I die or til I become sick of this place (like how it is at the moment).
Worse, it wasnt even abt that! And alot of ppl now seem to judge me as some Greedy Witch for comments. Do I care abt that..NO. Cos ppl who know me, KNOW ME. The rest can go to hell.
**Remember the "fight" we had on Solitaire's blog? I didn't mean to hurt you, but as is the case here, you took it personally. Don't look for validation of your self in others.
haha! Im not someone who validates myself in others anyways. If I was such a person, I wudnt be putting up cleavage shots in the first place.
Alok,Im surprised u hvnt gotten to know me all that well yet.
**Why be hurt so much if someone doesn't like you the way you are and makes some judgment? It's their judgment, don't take offense.
WOW its so easy for u to say it not being at the Receivign end, isnt it Alok? :) U cant qn why Im upset. Cos this is me..not u. And right now Im the one who knows how it feels to be at the receiving end, not u Alok.
**I know that it hurts a lot, and advising is easy if you're not on the receiving end. But I like the carefree, unique, enchanting, Original Keshi who writes in that sweet tone as well as in that involving manner and signs off comments with a "Keshi."
well I like her too..but this is her too. Angry, sad, upset is also Keshi. Im HUMAN Alok. and my blog is NOT a SHOW...it portrays exactly how my heart is feeling. I dun cater for an Audience. I write how I feel on the spot - I dun plan posts either. So it may come out very RAW. That may not be liked by some ppl out there. And I cant help that.
Anyways...TC n tnxx!
Keshi.
ty Helen HUGZ!
** "Hmmm, my granny panties get a little bunchy when I read you, sister, I'm going to lay low, but I loves you still!!"
hahahahaha loved it! how d u come up with such things? LOL!
Some ppl r so strange...they call me SLUTTY and then when I reply to them in a DECENT way, they turn ard and say 'U HURT ME'...just tell me how does that work?? Wut abt the HURT I received at the end of her tongue to begin with? And then they tell that they feel SORRY for me. WOW ppl r deranged I tell ya!
I dun go ard telling ppl what their blogs r like...I respect individuality. And I dun want the whole world to sound like me..thats wub be utterly boring. So when someone comes n makes notorious remarks abt my blog, I get totally pissed off. Its like coming into my house and telling me that my furniture looks shitty. ah ah I dun WC that.
*HUGZ* lovin ya hun!
Keshi.
**I'd rate you with the 25-35 year old women who have learned enough about life to talk about men and their vibrators with a wry smile, but deep down still want a manly man to sweep them off their feet and show them a good time.
Thats a million dollar RATING hun. LOL LOVED IT! U nailed it n tnxx!
*MWAHZ*
Keshi.
haha mav and wut wud that new Rating system be? LOL!
yes Mav..when Im angry, Im angry. I dun pretend Im not. :)
Keshi.
rated AL always lovely
ty Veenz!
**she might have really wanted to be honest kinda...but well..what came out was ... a little rash..
o yeah I like her honesty...but her honesty came out pretty crudely. Im quite honest too...but there is a way to talk Veenz...way to use ur vocabulary on friends. My parents taught me to be polite to ppl. Something that my parents didnt teach me and something that I hv taught myself is NOT TO BE NICE TO PPL WHO ARENT NICE TO ME. I will speak out..if someone hurt me. She wasnt nice to me...so I explained how I felt. But I didnt use any of her own words on her. Im pretty decent I guess.
She wasnt even an enemy..but her harsh and shallow judgement abt my blog suggested that she was always being an enemy. It came out thru her own words. And Im happy to realise that.
tnxx n HUGZ!
Keshi.
ty Krys!
**You are not responsible for what people think about you.
But you are responsible for what you give them to think about you.
STANLEY FERRARD.
that means we ARE responsible for what ppl think abt us. The logic derives it anyways :)
But I really dun care what ppl THINK abt me. Cos if I did, I wudn be blogging so openly. But when someone trashes me, I always hv some replies to them. And thats what this post is abt.
tnxx Krys MWAH!
Keshi.
ty Niyara HUGZ!
**i disagree -
i think there is nothing more to keshi the person or blogger than her amazing breasts
hahahaha love it..good one hun!
Jokes apart, I seriously think some ppl need to get a life. I mean whats wrong in talking abtg boobs, sex, men, making love...these are FACTS OF LIFE. Why shun em!
U rock babez n TY!
Keshi.
ty Maca!
I know I hv days like that too...when some anony shitheads need to hear me. LOL!
**How's your tiem with your pals?
they r arriving tmrw morning. So Im chilling now :)
u hv a blast hun. plz TC. Im off to ur blog now to read that SIZZLING post full of venom from Maca. LOL love reading em. HUGZ n MWAHHHHHHHHHHZ! Gonna miss ya.
Keshi.
aww I love that AL tag LaVida. MWAH!
I'd rate ya as RG...REAL GIRL. :) Cos ur always true to ur heart. U blog how u exactly feel. And thats rare in Blogville.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
ppl who told me not to take that comment 'personally'...plz ans this:
If/when someone calls u a Slut/Sleazebag (or bastard/fucker), what else is it than being PERSONAL?
Its a personal slur abt me...and yes I take it VERY personally. Its so easy for u to sit and tell me not to be upset over this, but when it happens to u, i wonder if u wud be so cool. *rolling eyes*
And some ppl here seem to think that I shouldnt be Hurt by this at all? and they seem to feel sorry for the commentor! I dun u'stand why these ppl cant see the HURT she caused me to begin with. WOW I must be some wonderwoman not to FEEL angry/upset when someone calls me a slut. Instead I should feel sorry for her? I didnt know this kinda world existed.
When it's ur turn to to feel Upset, Im never there asking u NOT TO FEEL UPSET. I can lend u a shoulder to cry. But I will never ask u NOT to cry.
Cos as humans we do feel sad and upset by wut others say.
tnxx everyone else for being so supportive. HUGZ!
Keshi.
Jeez Keshi! I am SO reluctant to log off!
:D
Talk about addiction. Lol! Maybe I will take my laptop with me after all...
Nah! The other's will kill me and use my skin for a victory flag on the bleddy car :(
;)
hey keshi..
i drop in once in a while..have never commented..
I like ur writing style..and thats what attracted to me in the first place..but then slowly the pics ovrcrowded em and sometimes i feel the content is lost within the visual effect..
Otherwise, I like ur blog and am sure ur other readers too will vouch for it..
And well, its ur space..and its upto u what to do with it..so I dont think u really have to b bothered..
Keshi,
Hey I'm sorry.
It was wrong of me to lay judgments. I know you don't write for replies, that's why I wrote that comment.
I've been on the receiving end for a lot of time in my life. Society doesn't like people who don't follow its norms and stay themselves. And as a kid I used to take all the offense and cry myself away because they didn't let me play with them. Just because I wasn't their kind.
But do you know why I was at the receiving end? Because I let them.
Sexayy!! anytime!! ;-)
you've got them .. so flaunt them ;-)
those who mind are probably jealous ;p
mmmmuah!
Interesting read it was for me...as I feel what are we trying to hide and with whom???
Big time to ask this question to ourselves...!
BTW the 2nd pic is hotttt ;)
CHeers n Hugz dear
@keshi :I'm sorry.U got a lot of wat i said wrong.Its probably the words i used or mabbe the way ur feeling.
n i know how it is to be called slutty!ther was an anonymous char who posted comments on friends blogs calling me a slut n of loose moran n askin em to stop reading me.
This person atleast is talking abt ur blog and not u as a person and is not posting as anonymous. I'm not trying to decide which is worse...but letting u know that i've been there.
I NEVER said tht u write for comments. so pls dont feel that i said it. I said u have a huge num of friends who'll pull u thru' such stuff...n u can think abt those frends n feel happy.
n i never asked why u posted this. Its ur space n u'll post wat u want is wat i too said! i just said...don't let urself get too upset abt it.
Peace Keshi! Do TC
Maca plz dun take ur lappie. U need a break girl!
*HUGZ* enjoy it to the fullest!
Keshi.
WC Jina n ty for that!
Nice smile u've got girl. :)
Keshi.
No wurries Alok. U told me how u honestly felt abt this and thats what i expect from readers here anyways - HONESTY. so tnxx!
**But do you know why I was at the receiving end? Because I let them.
yeah I u'stand that. But being at the receiving end so many times does not mean u dont get hurt the next time ard. We r made of emotions and they do go up and down based on new experiences. or else we'd hv to made of steel.
also, expressing how I felt abt this comment does not mean I'm letting it get to me. Im just tellin HOW I FELT being told something like that. Thats all. That doesnt mean Im affected by it.
Keshi.
ty Cheesy I know u always know wut Im talking abt.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
Dawny tnxx hun!
**...as I feel what are we trying to hide and with whom?
exactly my point. wut r we so afraid of? ppl trying to judge us? I dun give a damn wut ppl think abt me. I live for ME. Thats why this blog is UNCENSORED KESHI.
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
ty Pavi and hey no wurries. :)
** I'm not trying to decide which is worse...but letting u know that i've been there.
I know. anyone who's been blogging has been at the receiving end of abuse or hurtful comments.
but just cos she wasnt Anony, doesnt mean the HURT is any less. I really wish it was an anony comment tho, cos I get alot of that everyday and all I do is just sit n delete em. To be honest I dun give a rat's arse abt anony commentors. They hurt me less cos they r faceless idiots. But when it's a friend and she says such things in the open..thats when it hurts more.
**I said u have a huge num of friends who'll pull u thru' such stuff...n u can think abt those frends n feel happy.
I u'stand that Pavi. But in the end, it's me alone who has to deal with it. 100s of ppl can try to say nice things abt me here and make me happy...which is great. But it all boils down to me in the end. Im the one who has to handle it anyways, isnt it? and thats what I meant in my reply to u.
Im not here on a popluar vote mission as that commentor suggested abt me. Im here to express my true feelings. And just cos 100s of ppl comment on my posts, that doesnt mean Im on a greedy self-obsessed mission. I write, they comment.
Im not saying u said all that. But Im trying to explain to everyone here that getting 100s of comments is not my source of happiness. Cos that wud be a dependent happiness, which I dun believe in. I hv to deal with myself at the end of the day. Having alot of friends make me grow as a person...thats the best thing abt it. But, Im the only one who can truly make me happy or sad, at the end of the day.
It just makes me sad when ppl think getting loads of comments must make me happy. Cos thats not what happiness is to me.
Keshi.
When I a get off mood,thts when I o around checking blogs... and Keshi.. u r doing quite a good job in keeping the spirit of people bubbly :) . I enjoy reading ur blogs.. the one I liked most was the one u wrote abt ur dad... abt current topic, ya it is sexy and hot...and u got guts sweety.. :)
but y do u react so much to such comments keshi.. cool down.. :)
hey keshi,
People have different perspectives. Respect them. Yet, never let that bother u!!!
Well... its not a very civilized thing to post nasty comments on others' blogs. But then, every one has an opinion, right or wrong. So as long as there are comments options, ppl will comment. So dont let that agffect u. Just write what u are comfortable writing. Ur blog is a reflection of ur personality. So u dont have to change it for anyone. Esply if u dont care for them!
Then, I mite agree with Nirmal here. It mite not be a great idea to put up pics. Its a creepy world after all. All u want is self expression, but not all visitors are matured nuff to handle it. And there;s no way u can regulate your visitors. But at the end of the day, its ur call!
Do just chill out! U rock!
Keshurr u know what? Don't take this stuff too seriously ... I know blogging means a lot to you ... and what people think about you does affect you or anyone for that matter. But name me 1 famous/successful person who isn't talked about in a bad taste? There's always someone who hates him/her ... criticizes him/her and most of the times its not because he actually feels so but its because he just wants to be different ... he wants to stand out of the crowd ... and he wants to be written about. Am not saying that this is the case everytime, there is a possibility that he genuinely does not like it ... so he reacts! But ideally what one needs to do in these situations or well what I generally do is that take it in the right spirit ... give it a thought or two and do what you think is right! If your blogger friend thinks you're exposing too much, it’s her point of view ... she has full freedom to express her views and at the same time you have full right to not agree to that. You can never make everyone happy, no matter how much you try. Trust me! I’ve been through the same thing and now I focus on what I feel is right rather than trying to please everyone because in doing so you end up sacrificing your own happiness. You justified it, that’s good, but if you try too hard then you’d be forcing your opinions on the other person. I’m not saying what’s the RIGHT thing to do here … all am saying is what’s RIGHT for YOU. It’s a matter of how well you carry yourself. While there are people (like you) who are comfortable with what they are and are proud of their bodies, on the other hand there might be people who are not. It’s all in the mind! The perverts would not change their perception of you (or anyone) even if you post your pic in a hijab (no offence!) … so it’s useless bothering yourself too much unnecessarily.
So as I said, if you’ve got it ... then flaunt it ;-). Being able to do this is an art in itself, and you know your thing girl ;-).
xxx
keshi, nice re-iteration for the comment. the way you explained the lady abt the virtues was a master-stroke.
but believe me, u can't blame her for that. it might feel like that for any traditional, conservationist girl who's new to the bloggerville. jus forgive her and politely ask her to f@#k off from here(which i assume she's already done).
and plz, don't take this comment seriously. shit happens, mate
Keshi: wow- someone was under the anvil eh. I think you shoudl not be too worried about what the people say. Eventually you end up shouting loud and that person will not listen to it and will say the same thing again :-)
Just ignore and dont react. After all opinions is like ass holes. Everyone has it and can't do much :-)
I would like to know where you get those amazing women pictures though:D
I know am very late sweetie,sorry abt that!
To each their own and we cannot stop mouths from talking.However,the honesty of that person is to be appreciated.As the saying goes,"It takes courage to stand up to an enemy,but it takes greater courage to stand up to a friend".If you say this person is/was your friend,they were frank with you.
In my opinion,being rude and honest is any day better than being polite and pretending.Maybe you could patch up with her.After all,which friendship is without fights?
As for rating your blog,the sheer popularity of it is a testimony to how well-liked it is! :)
Love ya.Hugsss
ty Manu that means alot to me. HUGZ!
Keshi.
ty so much PB. I totally u'stand what u said. U truly care abt me..I know that. tnxx hun!
*HUGZ*
Keshi.
ty so much Cheesy! U always make GREAT sense. Thats why I totally luv ya!
**The perverts would not change their perception of you (or anyone) even if you post your pic in a hijab (no offence!) … so it’s useless bothering yourself too much unnecessarily.
Spot on!
*HUGZ* ty for that!
Keshi.
ty so much Satish HUGZ! I u'stand what u mean.
Keshi.
ty Markiv :)
Keshi.
Sameera wut u said is true..
**In my opinion,being rude and honest is any day better than being polite and pretending.Maybe you could patch up with her.After all,which friendship is without fights?
I agree..but being rude doesnt mean she's right abt me. And thats what I was explaining thru this post.
tnxx hun!
Keshi.
Ain't sure if it was needed..Blogs are meant for personal thoughts and folks might be entitled to present whatever they feel. You probably could have let that pass by rather than breathing fire.. But anyways, this is your world. Have fun!
Apurv sorry but this was NECESSARY for me.
I know that blogs r for personal thoughts...thats why this was eevn more needed.
I dun like ppl coming here n BRANDING me as this n that. I didnt ask for her opinion abt my style of writing.
Keshi.
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